Tests in Life !

Hello To All My Dear Readers 🙂

I hope all of you are keeping well and happy. I was going to continue on the subject of depression, but something else turned up that detoured me from writing. It was to give a helping hand to someone who needed some encouragement to build up her confidence as she had many health issues. As we all know that disease is both body and mind and very often, its the mind that makes the body sick. But its not all who see it this way!


I was trying to enlighten her with books and quotes and pictures, but she simple refused to listen to what I was saying and sticking to her age old habits and beliefs, which were exactly what was filling her body and mind with negativity and resulting her having so many illnesses. We can all learn from every one. Even here on the I net, the blogs what we are doing is sharing our knowledge and experiences for others to learn and, we are all learning new things at the same time. When people think they know everything then you cannot make them to learn. Usually its the, “Ego” that stands in between!!!


In life there are those who do new things, or take a different paths than others, and sometimes these people are looked upon as different or even odd. So in this incident, even I was looked upon as odd. Those who do not read or upgrade their knowledge in this fast moving world, fall behind. Its also very necessary to keep your body and mind both moving,  for good health. It has proven scientifically that those who are active physically and keep their minds going are healthier, live longer and alert even in their old ages 🙂


All these are scientific proof to show, how much the mind can help, control how our bodies can work. What powers it has to combat stress and help in healing. From the experience although I got confused to a certain extent, I got back into my reading and confirmed that I am Not odd Lol 😛 And I have taken it as a positive experience to feel it was a test of faith in my knowledge and even of myself. And by finding information to write this article too it has helped to confirm that I am correct in what I write and say and also to restore my confidence in myself again. Also to show those of you who are reading, that in life we face many challenges/tests to overcome and become stronger to go to that next level up to move on further in life 🙂


So always remember when you come across difficulties that they come as tests, and Not think why this is happening ? Why me ? As always there is a reason for everything that happens in life. If you look in a positive way and have faith then its easier to deal with what life throws at you from time to time in testing you, how strong you are ❤

dim-8I hope you like what I have written and learn something new or confirmed what you already know. Please pass on or share for those who can make use of this too ❤

Thank you for reading. Many Blessings of Love and Light from me ❤

Thanking for the posts taken from the I net ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa 1Deepa Nilamani 🙂

3 thoughts on “Tests in Life !

  1. Because I was sexually abused by my father, I have suffered from depression and fear all my life. I remember the first time I was told to think differently and more positively; I tried, but I don’t think I really believed it would help me because positive thoughts felt like lies.

    After years of therapy and listening to Joyce Meyer, I have learned the power of speaking words from the Bible out loud, changing how I think and how that works. I am a different person today. I used to wake up and wish I was dead; I wake up now praising God and thanking him for my life. This didn’t happen overnight. I just did what I had learned and eventually it became a habit and easy to do.

    So, don’t be discouraged if you tell someone to think more positively and they don’t get it. I didn’t get it either at first. You are definitely not odd. You have found the great secret of being happy and you want to share it!

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  2. Thank you loads for your encouragement. No I don’t think I am odd, but different is the word. For a brief moment I was taken aback, but then, ” We are all different to each other ~ Unique and doing what we can to make the world a better place” She too has survived a serious illness and knowing what it is I was trying to make her feel positive as she had been told if she lives in fear it might lift its head again. To start something that she likes and enjoys as well as to give back to others as she had got her life back !!!
    She misunderstood and was going on there is nothing wrong with her and that she was always happy. I understood that she was in denial and did not want to accept and resulting in having so many illnesses. She has no clue what lots of us are doing on the I net, Face Book and so many other sites. And how valuable our information for so many others !!!
    I won’t blame you for taking time as what you have gone through is, very serious trauma. Its not all who can bounce back like you. Thank you for, “Very Bravely and openly sharing your experience here” There will be so many who will benefit from your words, Dear Girl ❤
    You are giving back to the world and, "You are Very much Blessed" I am honoured to have come across someone as great as you ❤
    Yes prayers of any faith is the key to the, Door of Happiness and Peace and then of course Forgiveness in time will free you from the trauma" I will keep you in my prayers always. Be proud of yourself. God Bless and Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies from me 🙂 ❤

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  3. Thanks for the beautiful words of encouragement! We all will go through life trials and adversity…it is the way we handle these events that determine how our life will be. I appreciate your thoughts and heartfelt healing ❤

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