How To Deal With Toxic People !

Hello To My Dear Readers πŸ™‚

Hope all of you are keeping well. You will notice that I am not a person who writes daily or even weekly for that matter. One thing I started this to write My Journey, so I cannot let others write articles here, so it has to be in my own time and when I do collect enough material in my head to put it out. Also I believe in having few good friends, and doing things in a scale that I can manage. Not to impress or to be popular but, to give out work of Value. I am extremely methodical, hence I like to have everything around me working specifically in a pattern that agrees with my personality. This is how I believe that I overcame depression in the first place. No matter what, I forged on ahead “working to my way of life, (opposed to what happened, that brought me on to be over stressed and depressed in the first place) Β but Not really hurting another. I just adhered to what worked for me the best way πŸ™‚
I have to explain, that I can only interact with my other blogging family, when I am relaxed. I get over stressed reading too long or things that are Not relevant to me. I like to read through so that I can read and give a proper/helpful comment. I do not like to do or say thing just for the sake of it. Right now I am having I net issues due to the storm season in Aussie, so working with a very limited/slow I net. So please excuse me for being quiet with you all, until it comes back to normal ❀

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This topic is an issue that has been going around me, as well as a common topic to everyone. I waited until I felt I knew enough to put forth an article that will help many of you hopefully πŸ™‚

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All this is Very True. But in life there are many people that we cannot just break off or walk away. As even with the positive people there can be some negativity sometimes. Since I wrote the last article, “Tests In Life” I experimented with the same person and others around me. We all know that there are some who are very positive and some who can be very negative. As in life we cannot find perfection as ourselves we are not perfect. There will be very few that we might have to completely keep away, but how much can we keep away or walk off in life ? Can we go into box and close ourselves. There are so many toxic people among all walks of life, among all the people listed above. After all the experiences I have had, I came to the conclusion, that we can never get away fully from anyone really. We can Never fully erase or shut out anyone in our lives. Yes we can reduce Β our times around them and arm ourselves with more protection πŸ™‚

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We all know we cannot change other’s. Not even our very own children. The saying that, “You can lead a horse to the water but, you cannot make it to drink applies to everyone. Even ourselves” How ever much we try to do, sometimes there is a time for us, and also for others to change. But we ? On our own, “We have the great opportunity of learning and Changing for the Better ~ for the Happiness and Joy of our own Lives” That is the Luck/Good Fortune to be born a human being. Β We are able to learn and alter our ways to the best of our ability for the goodness of not only our lives, but for the welfare of others too. If You can come to this level then, “You have reached a far more superior level than the normal human beings” You have even changed your Destiny for the better to a certain amount. But be aware, then you can become one of the minority, the odd one out who might be considered almost like an alien by some πŸ˜› But you know what you are doing and where you are going and who You are. We don’t change to please others. We change for the better. For our lives to be better and Live Happier is it not ?

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All these Tests and Challenges come for us to grow stronger and wiser which leads to better quality of life. Which all will not understand. Sometimes even we do not at that time. It will be only later when we look back we can see a pattern and how far we have come and why we have gone through all that πŸ™‚

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All these are Very True isn’t it ? The other thing that I have to explain is, There is a saying that, “The closer you are to God the more tests are given. You can take it as anyway as it has been written, “If you are developed spiritually, the more responsible you are, the more challenges you come across. That is for all of us to learn our lessons, and be thorough to move along the road of experience ❀
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I hope you enjoyed reading this article and learnt something new or remembered something you already knew. Or even confirmed certain things you were not sure of. Please pass it on or share for others to benefit too. Thanks a lot for reading πŸ™‚ ❀

Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies from me ❀

Deepa Nilamani πŸ™‚

6 thoughts on “How To Deal With Toxic People !

  1. This has always been a problem for me, but I spent a large part of last year removing some who were VERY toxic. It feels so good…I still have a little guilt at times (sad, I know) but I feel stronger without them! Many blessings to you in this new year!!

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    1. Thank you very much for reading and commenting. If anyone has, “Loving Kindness in her/his heart they will Never be toxic to anyone” As they will be Loving and Kind to others. Why you find them Toxic is, their way of thinking/personality does Not agree with you. You get stressed being around them. That does Not help them or you. By releasing them from you, (But without any anger), you give them a chance to move on with the same wave length as them, and you give yourself a chance for those with same vibrations/energy to come into Your life. “You do not have to have Any Guilt At all” You don’t push them away physically. “You Detach yourself from those who do not agree with you mentally and automatically new people come in. You do a favor to yourself and them both ways πŸ™‚
      Many Blessings of Healing Light to you. God Bless πŸ™‚ ❀

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      1. Thank you so much! I see what you are saying and I do know this to be true in my heart! This wonderful life is one of learning and leaning into our gifts and lessons. I appreciate that you took the time to give me this…it feels like peace…just as removing them has also felt like peace! Many blessings right back to you beautiful soul! ❀

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