Hello To All My Dear Readers ❤
Hope all of you are keeping well. You will notice that I am not a person who writes daily or even weekly for that matter. One thing I started this to write My Journey, so I cannot let others write articles here, so it has to be in my own time and when I do collect enough material in my head to put it out. Also I believe in having few good friends, and doing things in a scale that I can manage. Not to impress or to be popular but, to give out work of Value. I am extremely methodical, hence I like to have everything around me working specifically in a pattern that agrees with my personality. This is how I believe that I overcame the low moods in the first place. No matter what, I forged on ahead “working to my way of life, (opposed to what happened, that brought me on to be over stressed and feeling negative in the first place) but Not really hurting another. I just adhered to what worked for me the best way 🙂
I have to explain, that I can only interact with my other blogging family, when I am relaxed. I get unnecessarily distracted reading too long or things that are Not relevant to me. I like to read through so that I can read and give a proper/helpful comment. I do not like to do or say thing just for the sake of it. Right now I am having I net issues due to the storm season in Aussie, so working with a very limited/slow I net. So please excuse me for being quiet with you all, until it comes back to normal ❤
This topic is an issue that has been going around me, as well as a common topic to everyone. I waited until I felt I knew enough to put forth an article that will help many of you hopefully 🙂
All this is Very True. But in life there are many people that we cannot just break off or walk away. As even with the positive people there can be some negativity sometimes. Since I wrote the last article, “Tests In Life” I experimented with the same person and others around me. We all know that there are some who are very positive and some who can be very negative. As in life we cannot find perfection as ourselves we are not perfect. There will be very few that we might have to completely keep away, but how much can we keep away or walk off in life ? Can we go into box and close ourselves. There are so many toxic people among all walks of life, among all the people listed above. After all the experiences I have had, I came to the conclusion, that we can never get away fully from anyone really. We can Never fully erase or shut out anyone in our lives. Yes we can reduce our times around them and arm ourselves with more protection 🙂
We all know we cannot change other’s. Not even our very own children. The saying that, “You can lead a horse to the water but, you cannot make it to drink applies to everyone. Even ourselves” How ever much we try to do, sometimes there is a time for us, and also for others to change. But we ? On our own, “We have the great opportunity of learning and Changing for the Better ~ for the Happiness and Joy of our own Lives” That is the Luck/Good Fortune to be born a human being. We are able to learn and alter our ways to the best of our ability for the goodness of not only our lives, but for the welfare of others too. If You can come to this level then, “You have reached a far more superior level than the normal human beings” You have even changed your Destiny for the better to a certain amount. But be aware, then you can become one of the minority, the odd one out who might be considered almost like an alien by some 😛 But you know what you are doing and where you are going and who You are. We don’t change to please others. We change for the better. For our lives to be better and Live Happier is it not?
All these Tests and Challenges come for us to grow stronger and wiser which leads to better quality of life. Which all will not understand. Sometimes even we do not at that time. It will be only later when we look back we can see a pattern and how far we have come and why we have gone through all that 🙂
All these are Very True isn’t it ? The other thing that I have to explain is, There is a saying that, “The closer you are to God the more tests are given. You can take it as anyway as it has been written, “If you are developed spiritually, the more responsible you are, the more challenges you come across. That is for all of us to learn our lessons, and be thorough to move along the road of experience ❤
I hope you enjoyed reading this article and learnt something new or remembered something you already knew. Or even confirmed certain things you were not sure of. “All these are all free”. To “Down load ~ Take print outs” “share and/or pass it on also” for others who can benefit from this article and the posts. Thanks a lot for reading ❤
14th April 2019 Update: I keeping in Very Good Health and also The Good News is “I have also been able to, “Develop Healing Energy in to My Hands” since “Beginning of 2016” ~ which I have also added as an update in: Who I am & Why I am Writing!
28th August 2019: This is who I am now. Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Moving forward Telling My Own Story in Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy: Who I am Now & Why I am Writing!
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I have started to develop my “Other site ~ A Personal Website”, with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am up to” 😛 during my spare time you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/ ❤
Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies from me ❤
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May God’s Blessings be Upon You ❤
Deepa Nilamani 🙂