Why Do some people Try to Spoil other’s Lives for No Reason ?

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Hope all of you are doing well and being Happy. I am quite Happy, as the Blog is growing and, more and more readers are joining, seen and unseen no matter as long as its being read and being helped in some way. In my case I get so much of satisfaction in writing, it helps me to put my thoughts in order as well as give out my views and to relax after I do my studying. Do comment and questions are always welcome. It keeps the Blog alive and interesting when so many bring out their way of looking at life 🙂
Well here I am trying to figure out why some people are always trying to stand across your progress, spoil your friendships/relationships, and maybe even studies and job opportunities, in short come in between and and try to mess other’s lives even if you have done Nothing wrong to them !!! When I wanted to write on this topic I cam across them as, “Toxic People” Going through certain events that has and is happening around me, now I have realized that they are indeed, “The Toxic People” who put in their poison arrows and try to spoil others lives !!!

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What is the real reason that these people become, “Toxic” to others. It need not be that they are poor or struggling in life but, it is because they have, “The wrong Values in Life” Its true that we all need that green stuff called money to pay our bills and buy things to eat and live. But some make Money the Priority and thereby, “Lose their value as human beings” Money can be earned but, ” Can you make or buy a Human Life” !!! Money, material things are to be used to, “Live as Dignified Human Beings” Instead these people, “Lose their humanness and Dignity” by becoming slaves to those pieces of paper. Actually these people do not realise that being, “Toxic to others, they become Toxic to themselves ~ “Wrong thinking brings about, “Negative Vibrations and Acids in the body” that “eat up the cells instead of making them” and many chronic illnesses comes up, that these green pieces called money is unable to Heal” !!!

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From what I have been observing, I have also realized that these toxic people, “Have No clue what so ever in, The Laws of the Universe, anything to do with any kind of religion, prayers or what is really Good or Bad” In short, “They do not have any Ethics, Dignity or Morals” Naturally they are not at peace or have any kind of real Happiness in their lives” So those who know the real values of life and live according to them, “Are they to blame for other’s unhappiness” ?

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In life, in religions generally we are always told about dealing what ever the wrong doings of others with “Loving Kindness”. To forgive and to show understanding. But the fact is, with some people, “They mistake your Kindness for Weakness” This topic is often debated even on Face Book and by many people. I will write a article itself on this later on. The more tolerant and patient you are the more attacks are being landed on one. “My being an exceptionally Tolerant and Patient to others unkindness, I have personal experiences on this issue, and that is why I am able to write. What is the solution ? Are they as ignorant and naïve as they show ? No !
It is not that these people are Not aware. They know exactly where to hit, whatever their reasons are, mind you they always have a reason, an excuse !!!

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In life there is, “Good and Bad” and so people also come under this category. Its the people that makes a society. And in this society we come across all these types of Good and Bad people. How ever much good one is, someone will find something wrong. In History we find so many good people being harmed, even killed trying to spread Goodness and Peace to the people. So who are we ? Most of us are ordinary human beings, going about doing ordinary things in our way without harming anyone else. Still we can be targeted for unkindness and cruelty. I really cannot see reason for this, other than these people’s minds needs correcting to discipline their behaviour. But we cannot change others, the society or the world. We can only change and adjust ourselves 🙂

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Actually I have come to this stage. Although initially I do get thrown back, when suddenly I face a challenge I never expected. But I soon realise, and pray for guidance and answers, I get them, in time and I am able to move on stronger and better. I have faced a challenge soon after my birthday last month and my prayers were answered and now just in a month I am back on my feet and moving on. Saying that, it does not mean there are no more challenges. Every time you pass a test/challenge, the next one is on as long as we live. That is how life is, it is not what/how we choose There is no straight road for anything !!!

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If you look at things this way. “The Toxic people are those who brings us messages that brings us pain and sadness. Causes us to trip and fall. The Kind/Good people are those who Help and pull us up. Its like Angels and Devils 😛 We as people need both these kinds of people to grow in every way. If and when we know how to manage theses two kinds of people, that is the time we have matured enough or become wise enough, to weave our way through most of the obstacles in life with much less stress or difficulty. And then I believe, “We would have earned the right and also able to spend the rest of our lives, in Dignity, Happiness and Peace. What do you think ? This is me at this stage of my life 🙂

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Thank you all for reading. I hope you found something new or remembered something you had forgotten, that helped or inspired you in some way. Questions and comments are welcome 🙂

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Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies from me to All of You ❤

Deepa Nilamani 🙂

3 thoughts on “Why Do some people Try to Spoil other’s Lives for No Reason ?

  1. I can completely relate to having suffered toxic people. I have met a few truly toxic people, at least toxic to me, people who have been so negative in all aspects it made me sad to see them that way. One person I knew was indeed controlled by his need for money. He couldn’t see that it was his very attitude to life, expecting the worst outcome in every situation for example, was making his life harder and he saw not one thing to be grateful for in life although he had so much more than others. He blamed me for his career getting worse and all I had ever done was chat via emails after I had ‘met’ him through a previous blog I ran. Though it was only online I’ve met some other people offline who’s focus in life is either money or their social status. Happiness doesn’t enter their list of what’s important in life :/ .
    It’s so important to keep yourself from falling into the negativity of others lives. We must take care of ourselves. Wonderful post ❤

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    1. Thank you very much for appreciating and, your contribution on your experiences and views as well. Its so good when some one comments as so many others who read, see from another persons view point too.I am past my middle age and aware of other’s negativity and most certainly keep away from online negative connections, unless asked for advice, and if I can offer so 🙂
      Those who blame other’s always play the victim role and they always where they are, in the bottom of the pit. Its very rarely that you can pull them up, if they have not matured and changed their ways, by the time they are mature adults !!!
      What I write is Not always things that have or happening to me, but generally what people face in life. By this time I have overcome depression and worked up myself as a Motivator so I am able to safeguard myself from most of these situations. As in life, its not always some people are only negative and some only positive. Most have a balance with both, where as a minority are not. So when we move around in society its very difficult to choose, as its not seen from outside, so its up to us to know how to associate people according to their personalities don’t you think ?

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      1. It can be difficult to sometimes know if someone has a personality that we will get along with, some people seemingly change when we meet them but yes most of the time I like to think that we get to know and develop friendships with those people who are on a similar level to us and that we have an ability to see how people are and whether they are people who we will get along with and who are on the same ‘wave length’ as us 🙂

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