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Hope as usual all of you are keeping well some of you must be having Summer or warm weather. But here in Aussie it is still winter and Brrrrrr it is almost freezing and very cold. Still, I wanted to post new posts have thought of writing on Professional Counselling from what I have studied and my present experiences and more advanced Knowledge up to now. One of the most important instruments you have to work with as a counselor is yourself as a person.

The counselor as a Therapeutic person.
Counselling is an intimate form of learning. it has to be someone who is Authentic person in the Therapeutic relationship. if we hide ourselves in the Professional role our clients also will not open up and keep themselves hidden from us. our own genuineness can have a significant role with our clients, They can be encouraged us being open and Honest with them.

Personal Characteristics of Effective Counselors:
1.Effective Therapists have an identity. They know who they are and their capabilities.
2.Effective Therapists Respect and appreciate themselves. They can Give and Receive out of their own self-worth strength.
3.Effective Therapists are open to change.
4.Effective Therapists Make choices that are life oriented.
5. Effective Therapists are Authentic Sinceres and Honest.
6.Effective Therapists generally live in the present.
7.Effective Therapists appreciate the influence of different Culture
Effective Therapists have sincere interest of welfare of others
8.Effective Therapists have [interpersonal skills
9.Effective Therapists have sense of Humor
10.Effective Therapists become deeply involved in their work
11.Effective Therapists are passionate
12.Effective Therapists are able to maintain Healthy Boundaries.

I have written and posted the pictures as a starting point of Basic knowledge and will be posting next posts following and keeping to the ‘Professions Counselling and Psychotherapy.

A Take-Home Message
We all have the capacity to adapt and to achieve our personal expectations. we raise the bar in relation to our own potential and push ourselves to achieve Higher things. Effectiveness of Adlerian Theory Recent studies have also supported Adler’s belief in the importance of the therapeutic relationship. The therapeutic alliance has been shown to affect treatment outcomes across a range of conditions, therapeutic modalities, and contexts. In other words, a greater sense of social connectedness rooted in caring for others, connecting with the community, and finding a sense of purpose is linked to improved mental health and well-being.

Hope you have a better understanding than before and also questions and comments are always welcome Happy reading 🙂

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Sending Many Blessings of Good Health and Healing Energies your way ❤

May Gods Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa Nilamani ❤