Hello To All My Dear Readers <3|
Hope you all are keeping well. I have taken a while to come here, as I am going through some major changes in my life and needed to settle my mind before writing. We are changing everyday, but from time to time we do go through major changes from one phase to another. These can be work, relationships, children, money or anything at all, but usually they go together with one’s age 🙂
From children we become adults and with that, jobs, marriage and our children come in. I feel that this middle chapter takes almost half of our life span. Although there are many major changes within this period as children mature, its only when they finally leave home, comes the next change!
Many parents feel their absence and a long line of things they did, when the children grow up and leave, and they are left with a lot of free time, that needs to be filled up. It is “called the”empty nest syndrome” BUT it doesn’t have to be as, at the same time usually the parents are also close to their age of retirement from their jobs and are left with more free time. Although it is described in a negative way, actually all grow up as adults and adult children need to be independent, and need to move on. Its the norm of life. It is not usually not going away for good” If this is looked upon in a Positive way, “This leaves the parents also free time to “Begin a New chapter in their lives” ❤
“With less physical work being older, to do some of the things they could not do for themselves, like religious activities, volunteering, new hobbies, even start studying, or if it has been hard physically take some Rest, Relax and do the things they have always wanted to do. Actually what is said is, “Give them Wings to Fly and Roots to come back”. Meaning give them Freedom to go out into the world, but always know a Loving Home and parents are there for anytime they need”!
For me I have now “Trained in TAFE” (Technical And Further Education) and started volunteering as a Tutor in English, which I came across so many students in different countries, their culture and ways of life. After some times I moved on to studying on line to upgrade myself, which led to another huge life change. As I completely overcame and became Well, “My mind turned to Health and Healing” automatically. I found that, “Once I began to, Study my mind was full of ideas on Healing”. As “Being involved in Teaching English” and “Healing became two completely different things” I was Thinking more of “Health and Healing”. I had made a huge effort to come out of Low moods also described as depression, and naturally I was full of ideas about, “Being Well and Positive and to give out all that, “Experiences and Knowledge was Very Important” So my life took on to another path. And that is how, “I am My Path came to Be. If you click this link you can read this post: How Far I am My Path has Come!
Although there was a detour, I still continued working as a part time English tutor, but I did not find enough satisfaction following that line of work. That was taking too much of time and I felt I could do better by giving out my knowledge, “How I became positive and well” was “More Important”. As far back in life, I had wanted to do “Service” to Give and Share what ever I could, this was pulling my mind all the time as I am an “Inborn Giver” and take great satisfaction in Sharing and Giving ❤
I had been wanting this change from work, But I didn’t stop I was just going on. Very often in life, although we know its time we made that change, we don’t usually make major changes all by ourselves. This is the time when, God/The Universe/The Higher Powers decide to step in. We get a push. How ? Sometimes we need some Encouragement, to make the changes or else we try to stay in our comfort zone. This is why it’s said that, sometimes people are given the same lesson over and over again, and Maybe it is not exactly Lessons but “Guidance” for them to make those changes that are necessary in order to move on in life!
So when You are faced with difficulties, if you take them up as challenges Life’s Challenges! you can really benefit from them. As then, you stop what ever you are doing and have a very good look at what’s going on with your life at that moment, and think is this what I want ? What is life telling me ? If stress is acknowledged with wisdom, it helps you to find that exact venture, the path that you are really supposed to follow ❤
When things don’t really work for you and things doesn’t change, you feel, “This has gone on long enough, I do not want to keep on going through the same thing over and over again, I need to live better, “Then that will be the exact time of your turning point, of making that decision to make that change. As that will be heard by your mind and, “Unknown to you, the mind will be working towards it” It will be letting go of the unwanted and streamlining your life to serve you better. For this you need to prioritize. To clean your life from the clutter and to know exactly what you want from life 🙂
In my case I have been doing this myself completely. All phones off and staying quietly, eating, sleeping and relaxing in silence. Its then that your mind becomes clear and you find out/realize, “What you really want from life” 🙂 What will make you happy 🙂
What will make you happy? How you can achieve it ? We cannot always depend on others, as others cannot understand as its our own Path, or they are not there when we need them. That is exactly how it is too. Because it’s not other’s job to think or decide for us. Its our life and its we who know what we want. And if sometimes you find there is no one to ask, “This is because its you alone that has to find your own answers. As its only you that know who you are exactly and what “You want from Your Own life”. So You need to, “Be strong and brave enough to take that step and start all over again” 🙂
Latest Update 6th March 2020:Up to date with the Birthday article I have Published 111 posts on This Website. I am in Good Health and as, “I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy in to My Hands” since “Beginning of 2016” I have become “Very Positive” I have to be isn’t it? It is not something that I can buy. All my Hard work and Praying has been rewarded. “Not only for me but” Healing Energy can go to others where ever it is needed to be received with a Loving Kindness” even You ❤ So “I am having to Edit and Update All The Posts from The Very Beginning” This is My Birthday and, “A New Chapter and A New Beginning”. I am Moving on. I have Learnt lot of New Things and Still Learning. Upgrading Myself to A New Wave Length ~ A New Chapter in My Life and I Wish so for You also. Please click this Link which will take You to The Birthday Post Birthday!❤
On Top Right Hand side you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, You will see will see The word “Home” Which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!
All the posts from “The Beginning to the end is shown ~ Under “Home” and You can follow from The first post to The latest one Methodically or How You want to read ~ According To “Your needs” also There will be “The old Topics on The Left Hand side “Under ~ Recent Posts wit “The new Topics adding up. Also on, request by some of, “The Readers” I have added, My Twitter and Instagram Accounts”. But unless You Like You do not have to follow.
And what I have been doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Moving forward Telling My Own Story in Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy in this Post, and if You click on this Link in Green You can read this Post: Who I am Now & Why I am Writing!
Please know that the coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts of Mine and Other’s websites also ~ which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation also”. I also have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am up to” 🙂 during my spare time you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/ ❤
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Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies to you ❤
May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤
Deepa Nilamani 🙂