Hello To All My Dear Readers ❤
Hope all of you are keeping well and Happy. And some of you looking forward to holidays and Christmas celebrations. End of 2016 and going to be a new year too, as I am free of depression and I thought of writing what I know and how, “I did and what I am doing to remain Free and Positive” 🙂
From my experiences over years, what I have realized is, “That it’s We that need to really want to change for the better. We alone have to say enough is enough I want to somehow come out of any issues to lead a better life. For this we need Courage, “To Change and then work towards improving our lives to make it work for us” 🙂
Once you decide to Heal, other factors come in like, Counselling and Medication, according what type of issues you have.
You don’t have to feel bad or ashamed to go for counselling or to a doctor regarding mental issues as, “The Mind is in the Body and not something outside” Its those who think otherwise, who have to be ashamed of as, “They are ignorant” on this matter, as so many are having mental issues just as much as physical illnesses. When we are born we have the right to live free and in peace. And if this doesn’t happen we cannot sit in one place and wait, we have to get up and move towards what we want to do and to lead a good life. That is our right as human beings. You do not have to think of what others might say You have to know what is Best for Yourself ❤
This is very true for most of us, and some of you might know this is what happened or this is what you also did. There comes a point, for anything, a limit for tolerance or for being patient what you are going through. It can be for anything. A situation in life, like a relationship , a job or even regarding your ordinary health. So it is good to speak and find out and/or clarify exactly.
When it comes to me, I feel it’s a pity that so many suffer long term. I know each person it can be different. But in this modern world in many countries, so much of medical help is available, even from the I Net. There are reading materials, relaxation programs and so much centered on human wellness. I firmly believe that so many can, if not fully recover at least go as far as to keep them under control to be well enough, to be able to lead a normal and happy life. So keep on Trying ❤
When people go through a lot, naturally they are under a lot of pressure. So they get stressed and go down in to low moods. So being stressed is under pressure which goes as depression, as well as being under pressure means stressed, and when people get too stressed also they get worried and they are under pressure. It works two ways. And Sometimes even some of our closest family members can, fail to understand or able to support us exactly how it helps as they cannot fully understand what’s going on with us. At these times it can be a friend or someone else who can understand and be helpful ❤
The fact it is with medical help, time and knowledge gained, you understand and realize so many things that you didn’t realize the times you were under stress. When the mind begin to settle, it slowly dawns the things that one has gone through, Its compared to the light bulb effect. As its like suddenly someone switched on a light and you see things clearly. If things are explained and educated you are able to understand what is going on, and would make it much easier to manage and sometimes recover to an extent earlier. This is the best way is, “Once you know what is going on with you are able to understand better, educate yourself, let go and change for the better” 🙂
In a way, “The mind is a very fascinating and mysterious thing” Its like going step by step. As if everything came together it would be too much to make changes. When so many stressful things fall on to you at once, that you have no time to get over from one before the other thing or things happen. I was thinking hard one day, and this thought came to my mind. Somehow that makes sense. That, “The Day You Realize, It was Not Your Fault, “Is The Day” ~ “You really Begin To Heal” ❤
This is what I realized, as almost all become mentally unwell, is because of stressful things that happen and sadness and stress given by others. It becomes too much for the mind that, “It becomes too stressed” It cannot function the normal way so all sorts of funny things happen. This is the time the doctors and counselors play a big part, in explaining as they are educated and trained and look at things at an different angle and can show another side for what is going on, according to ones personality!
Today being: 13th July 2020: I am completely well. Its a very big achievement for me. So many tell this. And added to that I have also been able to, “Receive Healing Energy Myself” since “Beginning of 2016” All my Hard work and Praying has been rewarded. “Not only for me but” Healing Energy can go to others where ever it is needed ~ Anywhere in “The World”. But one must have to receive with a Good Heart and Loving Kindness ❤
“To be able to know who I am, I have posted My Full name” and to be seen from where, “I have acquired, “The Gift of Healing Hands” Down The Generation,“Who My Maternal Grandfather is, and My Great Grand father is: Please click on this Link it will take you on to “Their Details on The site of Wikipedia on the I net”: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/G._P._Wickramarachchi
Therapists help clients on how they, “Construct reality (story tell) and examine the Implications and Conclusions clients draw from their own stories” Telling the of The Rest of The Story ~What They did to Survive and Cope ~ bolster clients Strengths and Help Them Develop Resilient behaviours. In this way, “Clients can Move from being Clients to ~ “Strong Willed Survivors” and “Successful People ~ Dr. Donald Meichenbaum, Ph.D.
“The Constructivist Approach to Cognitive Behaviour Therapy” Donald Meichenbaum has developed his approach by in-cooperating the “Constructivist Narrative Perspective (CNP)” people tell of significant events in their Lives!
One of the, “Therapeutic tasks” is to help clients appreciate how they construct their realities and how, “They Author their own stories” 🙂
Dr. Donald Meichenbaum, Ph.D. is a founder of Cognitive Behavioral Modification and has been voted one of the 10 most influential psychotherapists of the Century. Dr. Meichenbaum is Distinguished Professor Emeritus at the University of Waterloo, Ontario, Canada, and maintains a private practice as a clinical psychologist. As an expert in the treatment of PTSD, Dr. Meichenbaum has presented throughout North and Central America, Israel, Japan, and the former Soviet Union. This workshop presents the essence of Dr. Donald Meichenbaum’s approach to PTSD. As a clinician and researcher, he has treated all age groups for traumas suffered from violence, abuse, accidents, and illness.Dr. Meichenbaum is the author and co-author of numerous books including: A Clinical Handbook/Practical Therapist Manual for Assessing and Treating Adults with Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, Stress Inoculation Training, Pain and Behavioral Medicine, and Facilitating Treatment Adherence. His book, Cognitive Behavior Modification: An Integrative Approach, is considered a classic in its field. He also serves as the editor of the Plenum Press Series on Stress and Coping ~ https://www.psychalive.org/donald-meichenbaum-ph-d/
Dr. Donald Meichenbaum: Born: 10 June 1940 (age 79 years), New York, New York, United States is an American psychotherapist . He is considered one of the founders of cognitive behavioral therapy . He attended from 1954 to 1958, the Taft High School in New York City and then 1958-1962, the City College of New York . From 1962 to 1966 he studied at the University of Illinois in Urbana . From 1966 to 1969 he was Assistant Professor of Psychology, University of Waterloo , Ontario , 1970-1973 Associate Professor of Psychology and from 1974 to 1998 Meichenbaum was Professor of Psychology in Waterloo. In 1996, he became director of the Melissa Institute for Violence Prevention and Treatment in Miami , Florida. He was voted one of the Ten Most Influential Psychotherapists of the Century by North American Therapists in a 1999 American Psychologist Survey . He is considered one of the most cited psychological researchers at Canadian universities. Meichenbaum is professor emeritus at the University of Waterloo, but continues to work as a clinical psychologist. ~ https://de.wikipedia.org/wiki/Donald_Meichenbaum
Dr. Meichenbaum uses these questions to evaluate the “Outcome of, “The Therapy”:
1. Are clients now able to tell, “A New Story about themselves and the World”?
2. Do clients now use more Positive Metaphors to Describe Themselves?
3. Are clients now able to “Predict high-risk situations and Employ Coping Skills in emerging problems”?
4. Are clients able to “Take Credit for the changes, “They have been able to bring about”?
In Successful Therapy Clients, “Develop Their Own Voices Take Pride in what They have Accomplished, and “Take Ownership of The Changes they are bringing about”. In short, “CLIENTS BECOME THEIR OWN THERAPISTS and TAKE THE THERAPISTS VOICE WITH THEM” 🙂
And This is who I am now. Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Moving forward Telling My Own Story in Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Prosperity, Happiness and Joy and Peace at Heart ❤
This is why I started my blog too to, “Encourage and give Hope and Faith”that you can become well or to keep under control, is possible to most illnesses. And You Must Believe and have Faith and work towards making your life Happy 🙂
So I have had to edit and update all my posts naturally as, This is “A New Chapter and A New Beginning” I am Moving on. I have learnt lot of New Things and Still Learning. Upgrading Myself to A New Wave Length. A New Chapter in My Life and I Wish so for You also. Please click this Link which will take You to The Birthday Post Birthday!❤
On “The Top Right Hand side” you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, You will see will see The word “Home” Which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!
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Now all what I want is to hear and know is, what I write here help those of you who read, to lead better, happier and healthier life styles. If I am able to know that it will make me also very Happy. Please do let me know how you feel in the comment box below, and if You click on this Link in Green You can read this Post in full: Who I am Now & Why I am Writing!
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Deepa Nilamani 🙂