Hello To All My Dear Readers 🙂
Hope all of you are enjoy reading what I write, and learning something from them too. This is an important topic that I overlooked in writing regarding healing, because when we need to heal we need to let go of all the past hurts and pains as holding on to those negative feelings blocks new and Positive feelings coming into our minds !!!
In life we all get hurt in many situations. This can be from those whom we love and care or even complete strangers. Whoever it may be, as ordinary human beings if we become subject to unkindness, cruelty or injustice we do get angry, hurt or upset. In these times some will get highly angry, offended or annoyed in return, and there can be strong arguments and clashes, and they will completely keep away or cut them out of their lives. Some will get hurt but will not respond, but that doesn’t mean it doesn’t affect them. So basically there two ways people react to other people’s hurtful words or deeds. Just the same there are two ways to respond to these situations too 🙂
Sometimes people intentionally do things to spoil our lives, that we are do not detect at that time. They think that we are not aware of the damage they are doing or have done. These are not relevant only to those with mental issues but for everyone. These are the deep wounds some people cause on others. And they can be the very acts, that if they happens continuously for another person to become mentally ill. Ultimately, “The truth surfaces like oil in the water” and those who do mischief get exposed, and they are unable to face the society the world, but the damage has been done. I know for so many these are things they have faced in life and forgiveness is a major issue. Which do you choose ? Do we want to be sad or happy ? Which gives us more peace of mind ? As our ultimate goal in life is to be at peace with ourselves. The day we close our eyes finally we need to be at peace, for our soul to rest in peace. Or else the soul will be restlessly wondering for a very long time !!!
“We can hold on to our anger, resentment and thoughts of revenge ~ Or we can embrace forgiveness let go and move on with our lives” We all have a Choice 🙂
What I have realised is, “To truly Forgive one has to be really mature and wise” Because it is through the eyes of wisdom you see who people are, “That we are all one” Those who harm and hurt others, “Do not have this wisdom” They are not aware that we are all part of The Universe. That when we hurt one person there is a ripple effect just like when we do something good”. Also, “What goes around comes around” Be it according to Buddhism, Christianity or any other religion it is said that by harming others you harm yourself. If someone really understands this will they do it? I don’t think so. They are in the dark. They are ignorant. This is the time it is said, “Ignorance is evil” So only the “Wise and the mature people understand this” !!!
It is the weak people who holds grudges. As sometimes just like those who do cruel acts purposely, there are times people do things unaware they have given others pain. In life there can be so many complicated situations that sometimes things happen so quickly even before you know and some have got offended or angry without knowing the real reasons. This is why human beings have a brain, a mind to think, to fathom and analyse before jumping into conclusions. People are so hasty and act without thinking that other people also are like them, that they also have feelings. If human beings develop, “Empathy” Forgiveness would not be such a big problem as people will not resort to harm and hurt others. !!!
As so many others, I too have gone through a difficult journey. Maybe for some it would have been less or more, but as human beings we do all go through the, “Journey of Life the same way” No one can deny as, “For Everyone Tests and Tribulations are given ~ to overcome and become Stronger and move on to the next level” or else we all will be stagnating in the same place. Its a wonder as in few minutes it would be 13th October in Australia and I would have completed 8 years since migrating. Through time I believe I have become much more wiser. As when you observe life with wisdom, “All what happened or happens to you are tests, and all those who have crossed or cross your path are teachers or messengers” in that case no one is at fault and we need to forgive All. As without them we would not be where we are now. “Most certainly not me, every time I fell I got up. With each challenge I have become stronger” I have overcome depression and come a very long way. I have completely turned around and now looking forwards in starting again the next chapter. Ending this topic, I was thinking about this one day when I woke up, and these words came into my mind:
Which is very true. I have learnt a lot through my experiences and when we live with Loving Kindness our hearts become pure and we become peaceful. There is a long way to go, as every ending is another beginning, and I look forward to my next chapter 🙂
Thanking for the quotes from the I net ❤
Thank you all for reading. Comments are welcome ❤
Many Blessings of Love, Light and healing Energies from me to You ❤
Deepa Nilamani 🙂