Hello To All My Dear Readers 🙂
First of all an update to those who are following my journey. Its been two years since and I am doing extremely well for what I have been over the years before. Low moods are no more, well I don’t know where it has got to 😛
If I do too much I tend to I get stressed and sometimes anxiety had been lifting it’s head up, But I find that since recently I have become resistance to that too, to quite an extent. I am a fighter and a survivor. I have gone through many challenges, and I use to question myself. But then I have found out that challenges or difficulties come for us to overcome them and make us stronger to go to the next level 🙂
This is to my other young blogging friends, with whom I have recently connected. All this time as I have been working, I really couldn’t put my mind into other blogs and see what other writers are doing. Now that I am connecting with some of them, I am fascinated with the diversity, as well as admire their strength on what some of them have gone through and how they are coping. We all have to know that, life is not a straight line and when we understand and accept its very much easier to face what ever comes towards us. Yes this takes practice and also you learn as you go along, with age and maturity. To those who are trying out a lot of things, you do need to learn by trying. It requires “Lots of Hard work, Sacrifices, Persistence and Patience ~ Until ultimately you find the goal on what you want to do or be 🙂
A very important fact that I have notice in life is that “sometimes” by doing too much to others, you lose your value in their lives. Taking as your duty or loving and caring for them very much, makes you to sacrifice so much in your life, which actually is not fully seen by the very people nor does the outside world. It can be compared to the, “Foundation of a house” Once the house is built everyone can admire the beauty of it. But no one sees how much of hard work went to lay the foundation, which is the base and the beginning of all things. There are so many silent workers in life, it can be in a family, in a work place anywhere. Those who really put in the most are not those who get the credit usually as they don’t do for others to see or just for the sake of doing. I saw in a post that, “The caterpillar does all the hard work but, everyone admires the Butterfly, which often happens to be the truth!!!
Still at the end of the day, you know what you have done. The most important thing is to know yourself, that you have done your duty, even more, and be happy that you did your best. Be it others think its the best or not, its up to them, as no one can do or give more than your utmost. This is life. You cannot always do exactly to the dot, when you do things but with, “Loving Kindness From your Heart” ❤
I cannot look on, seeing someone is Not aware of the gravity of a situation or going the wrong way. When I have asked for advice, very often the answer is, “They will ask if they want” but I find it impossible to stay away, when I can help in some way to change the situation. Actually this comes with a deep sense of caring, where one can see through, which is also knowledge and to a certain extent the sixth sense or intuition, which some are not mature enough to understand and can take it the wrong way. The reason why sometimes other’s don’t take heed is, there is what you call the time factor. How ever much we try there is a time to happen ?
This is, “The Laws of The Universe” a karmic pattern and applies for all of us, not for one or some.There are times that some have told me at that time they didn’t see it, but later on it dawned to them of what I said much earlier. This happens to me too, others can see certain things in us which we don’t notice ourselves. I have been told that these are words that stick. They do. Suddenly you realize ! that person said this to me, and if you have taken it positively, that comes as guidance, at the exact time you need. An important rule is that, we need to know our boundaries when we go to help ❤
In life always there has to be a balance. We go wrong only when we do too much or too little. We need to first see that our needs are taken care of, Before we venture out to give our hand to help. We can give only if we have. We can pull someone up only if we are strong enough. Or we also fall in to the same pit. Yes, sometimes we tend to do things even if we are not in a position to do so. But this cannot be always. We need to prioritize our lives in order for us to do well, and in doing so we are able to do more. We need to take care of ourselves ❤
I hope you have liked what I have written. If you have any questions or suggestions you are welcome to comment. If you do not want your comment to be published, you can say so. As although you comment, “Only you can see” until I approve of it. “This site is, “Protected” If its spam they are automatically deleted I don’t see any of them !!!
Thank you for reading. Know that, “I don’t earn from writing here. Its for the benefit of everyone who want to read and learn something new or add more from my knowledge and the experiences also that, I have gained through over half a century” ❤
Latest Update December 2019: The Posts have gone up to 100. I am in Good Health and as, “I have been able to, “Develop Healing Energy in to My Hands” since “Beginning of 2016” I have added that as an update in all my posts. This is Ending of 2019 and going on to Year 2020. “A Beginning of ~ A New Year”. “I am Moving on. I have learnt lot of New Things and Still Learning. Upgrading Myself to A New Wave Length ~ A New Chapter in My Life ❤
On Top Right Hand side you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, You will see will see The word “Home” Which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!
And then “All the 100 posts from “The Beginning to the end is shown”, and You can follow from The first post to The latest one Methodically or How You want to read ~ According To “Your needs” also There will still be some of The older Topics “On The Left Hand side “Under ~ Recent Posts” with “The New Topics adding up” Happy Reading ❤
And what I have been doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Moving forward Telling My Own Story in Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy in this Post, and if You click on this Link in Green You can read this Post: Who I am Now & Why I am Writing!
Please know that the coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts of Mine and Other’s websites also ~ which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation also”. I also have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am up to” 🙂 during my spare time you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/ ❤
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Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies to You ❤
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May God’s Blessing Be Upon You ❤
Deepa Nilamani 🙂