A New Chance To Start Over!

Hello To All My Dear Readers ❤

Hello to all of My Dear Friends, Soul Brothers and Sisters. This is in Celebration of completing 80 articles on our site and I am starting a New Chapter in my life. From 6th of March, (this month) is my Birthday. So this is My Birthday Wish for All of You ❤

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I hope all of you are feeling much Better, Wiser and Happier after going through all what I have done, and reading. In my case I have gained a lot of knowledge and advanced myself by doing the site, as I have had to do “reference” also to bring to you even more information for your benefit. There is a saying that, “When you go to spread Jam you get some on yourself too”, so this is what has happened to me also! By looking out for information and writing articles according to some of your individual needs, I too have (ventured out) gone through and read vastly to give new ideas and information to you. Now don’t tell me that some of you are still not all that ok 😛 Grrrrrr ….. In that case I (your I net mummy) will take a stick and come after you like this 😛

Mother 1Now if you have finished laughing and giggling, we come down to some serious work, says Mummy 😛 Growing up means, moving on with much better understanding and maturity, to look at the issues and problems in different ways than before. It is not possible to always be Positive and Change overnight, as sometimes the environment and your living standards can take time to change ❤
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As from what I have and going through, “There seems to be that exact Time The Time Has To Come ! that things/life change. So you need to have “Faith and Be Patient and always Believe and not lose Hope at any time”. As I have written before, “Words Words Words and Words ! are very important as they arise from, “Thoughts”, and so Positive Words takes on to doing “Good/Positive things” and of course bad words, because of negative thinking will give out the opposite things!

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Continuing with my Journey, I have been speaking about how hard I worked, “To receive The Gift of Healing Energy” this is keeping to, “The Laws of The Universe” ~ “What goes up does come down, and what goes around comes around” It is also known as, “Good or bad Karma”. You have to understand that, “The word Karma has No female or Male identity it is action/doing”. When your mind is not at ease, too much reading can be stressful. So at “Any time read only what you can” what matters is the, “Healing part” as “This is not a Language lesson” 😛 But keep in mind that, “When I receive Healing Energy to My Hands, they will travel across to All of You too ❤

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For some of you to understand even more, I have taken the meaning of karma from: https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php? term=karma”Getting back what you give~if you do bad things, you get bad karma~bad things happen. If you’re kindly & nice, you’ll get good karma~good things will happen ~ Thanking Urban Dictionary ❤

Karma 1Now we come to, “The Healing Part” I have written so much about Healing Healing ~ Basic Steps! in different ways: 1. Healing Healing ~ Trauma ! 2.Healing Healing ~ Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder! 3.Healing Healing from ~ Depression ! 4.Healing Courage to Heal ~ Depression ! 5.Healing  What Is Healing ? 6.Healing Healing ~ Taking Full Responsibility ! 7.Healing Healing ~ Desire To Heal ! 8.Healing Healing ~ Who Help or Hurt Us !  9.Healing Gratitude ~ In Healing ! 10.Healing Forgiveness in Healing ! 11.Healing Freedom ~ In Healing! 12.Healing Trials and Tribulations in Healing!  13.Healing Third Eye in Healing!

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So this is My Birthday Wish for You ~ You All with All My Heart ~ To Be able to be able to Raise Your standard of Living if that is your issue, become Healthy Mentally and Physically, and if YOU are in Good Health, automatically YOU can be Happy. As Good Health is the most important thing in life as that cannot be bought from money ~ “The Greatest Wealth is Good Health” and of course the rest follows: To Be Prosperous too as we need money to pay our bills 😛 Then to be able to, “Be at Peace of Mind” as that is the ultimate place we all want to come to ❤

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Once you are in Good Health or even otherwise, what ever YOU have learnt from what I have written, “YOU also can be, “A Teacher, A Friend to Give a Helping Hand or to Listen in Time of Stress That Thing called Stress !!!or sadness ~ anytime to Anyone, Family, Friends or an Outsider” who is in trouble, or in need to listen or to talk with. This will be My Happiness and Joy and it has been Justified for All what I have gone through ❤

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So we All come to an end of a chapter. So many of YOU have followed My Journey by reading, commenting, sharing, and also Encouraging and Uplifting me by your comments, because I got the feeling that I have been of some help in getting better. As usual You may share/pass it on for others too, who can benefit from what I have written. A Very Big Thank You for Everything ❤

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Sending Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies to All of You ❤

Thanking The I net, https://www.clipart.com/en/  for the posts shared ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa 1Deepa Nilamani 🙂

End The Stigma ~ Discrimination Stops with You!

Hello To My Dear Readers ❤

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I hope you all enjoyed reading the first two articles on the chakras Chakra Healing!. I am taking a break and writing on a very important topic which is about the, “Stigma in Mental Health” The reason I thought of writing this topic is, now after almost 5 years since it was declared that, “I have come back to normal”, there are some who are still trying to classify me as unwell. The disappointing fact is, this is to do with some people whom I thought knew me very well, these people seems not to have, “Any sort of experiences, knowledge and are clueless about mental health to know that, “I have come so far in attaining knowledge not only on mental health and also on other matters in life. And now that, “I am mentally healthy and also a motivator” I cannot understand how some can see me otherwise!

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I have written before too, that millions world over are going through depression Healing from ~ Depression ! and other mental health problems. And the world Health Organisation has stated that depression Healing ~ Desire To Heal ! will be the biggest cause of health burden by 2030!

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In Australia alone, one in seven experience major depression Courage to Heal ~ Depression ! in their life time. But 70% of them will not seek treatment. One of the main reasons for this is the stigma. This is actually common almost world over. But why does it have to be different from being physically sick?

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When there are so many who support and work towards improving mental health and acknowledge mental illness are also, just like physical illnesses, there are some others even highly educated, who are foolish enough to be ignorant of what mental illnesses are. And this is what is causing the stigma and preventing people seeking medical help to get themselves better!

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There are so many who suffer from various physical illnesses. They do get better and overcome them, even cancer goes into remission and then they go about as normal human beings. Then Why? when the mind becomes ill and becomes well and/or goes into remission they can never get over the label as mentally ill? Mind Power of the Mind ! is also part of the body, it is not outside floating somewhere! Why cannot people as human beings with good brain power cannot think of this?

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As someone who has completely overcome, why I am writing The Power of Hand Writing! is, to do my duty even in a small way, in standing up for those who are going through their own problems. As, if as many as those who can speak out on behalf of the people who are in need of support and enlighten the society, the world what mental issues are, the world will be a better place with more healthy and happy people 🙂

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Are you ready to support? To stand up? Or are you one of those who try to push and see others fall? But the fact is, we are all connected. All of us are energy and one goes down it affects all the others like the ripples in the water. Why is it that some are unable to support others and see them rise up? As, “We Rise by Lifting Others” Are you Ready to support to, “Stop the Stigma”? We are all soul brothers and sisters. One family that belongs to each other!

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Always Remember that, “Mind is also part of the physical body and It also has, “THE RIGHT TO BE UNWELL SOMETIMES” IT’S OK to BE NOT OK ~ sometimes” Read This Article too ❤  https://iammypath.com/2019/02/08/you-are-stronger-than-you-think/

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Thank you for reading. I hope you enjoyed reading and, learnt something new or remembered somethings you already knew. You may share or/and pass it on for others who can make use of it ❤

Those who like poetry may check on my personal website to read up my little poems: https://deepanilamani.com/ ❤

Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies from me ❤

Thanking for the pictures quotes from the I net ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa 1Deepa Nilamani 🙂

We Each have Our Own Path!

Hello To All My Dear Readers ❤

Today I am writing about what each of us are born to do, or why each of us are born for. We all know that we are all born for some specific purpose. As each one of us are different from each other, and have a unique personality of our own, our purpose is completely different to each other too. There maybe similarities, but never exactly the same. For example see how many of us write blogs here, we writers are all sorts. Each of us have our own style of writing and our own topics. Same with other things too. So how do we find or know what our purpose is? Some are born with a gift a talent. But others?

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Everyone has something that they really like to do, that excites them even thinking about it. Those who love to read cannot put down a book until they have finished. Those who love to write keep on writing, and they get lost in what they do and even loose track of time. Scientists, inventors, artists and other various people work into the wee hours into the morning, or even through out the night days on end, tirelessly as they enjoy what they are doing. So all of us have what is called the passion, which leads us on our own path into our destiny 🙂

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So when we follow our passion, how do we know it is the right or the wrong path. As I wrote before, passion is what keeps us moving ahead no matter what. There will be obstacles, there may be others who will not understand or/and even criticize what you are doing. But they wont understand what you like to do as it is what only you like to do. No two people do the same thing the same way!

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When we are going ahead in the journey of our life, we will meet other travelers along the way. As in life we all are moving ahead doing what we like along our own paths. From time to time people will cross our paths, from some we will learn lessons while others will learn from us. Some will walk for a long way with us while others will part sooner. However it is, we end up walking alone in our path, as it is our path and ours alone 🙂

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We all start walking along our path following our passion towards achieving our goals. As we go along there will be many changes along the way, as that is how life is. There will be detours, even additions to what we already want to do, and sometimes it might end up in a way, a place that we never ever dreamt of. This is the beauty of life, as life is a fascinating mystery. But to achieve all that, “We need to be brave and strong” to face all weathers along the way, as all good things require hard work, dedication and sacrifice. Although we never thought of ending up in a castle, it might be that, ultimately we have been directed to a magical place we never had thought of. Believe me it does happen 🙂

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So in life, we need to put in hard work. Experience good things as well as bad things. Pain and suffering too, as it is through pain that we let go of the unwanted, to make room for the new things and people in the next level. The challenges we face make us strong and resilient to do more and better things, for ourselves and others in the world. As in the end it is not just for us, we need to make the world a better place as, “We are all one big family in The Universe” Why? Because we are all energy and part of The Universe!

Thank you for reading. Hope you learnt something and enjoyed reading this. Please share and pass on to others for their benefit too ❤

Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies from me ❤

Thanking the I net for the pictures ❤

May God’s Blessing Be Upon You ❤

Deepa 1Deepa Nilamani 🙂

Lessons from A Lion!

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A year is ending and. “All endings are another Beginning” As we go on in life everyday, each minute we are learning until the last day of our life. I learn from everyone, young or old, even animals and mother nature. We all need to keep on learning, as human beings we can take the wrong turn and need guidance from time to time and this is why, we all have two parents foremost, if not one then the other, teachers and religion. Because it is not like doing little mistakes when we are growing up, when we are older and mature we are aware what is wrong and right and knowingly harming others can lead to disaster. As human beings we have so many ways of educating ourselves on our own too and, as adults if we keep on doing the same mistakes, it leads one’s life into lot of trouble. This is not anyone’s doing but,  “It is according to The Laws of The Universe – what goes around comes around” It is not one but, ” We all come under this same law – no exception”!

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We can learn from many, but for all of us there is that one person, a role model, who really understand you and able look up to when in trouble for guidance. This can be a religious figure, a teacher, a friend or even sometimes we are guided from above, by a higher or a divine power that cannot be seen, but felt. Why? “Because we are all energy, one family, part of this universe. We all come from the same place and go back to the same place. Dust to dust Ashes to ashes”!

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So this is in, “Gratitude to that person who was my role model when he was alive, and now no more but still guiding me from above. The Lion, ” My Grandfather ~ Who will Not let me fall” I am most Grateful for your Guidance, Protection, Blessings and “The Gift” ❤

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Who also named me – “Light”. Ignorance means being in the dark, and depression is also called darkness. And it somehow happens, after years of his passing away, I happen to work towards helping/enlightening others, to come into the Light!

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There is so much suffering in this world right now. Illnesses, war and famine. This is all because of people thinking of being separate. Religion, colour and race are big problems. So many who have, do not want to give, share or donate to the needy. So much is being wasted when millions are suffering without basic food, water and health facilities. Love and Kindness is what is needed. If everyone can think what hurts oneself hurts the other person too will they do it? I wonder. This is why most of those who have gone through suffering emerge strong souls and work towards the welfare of others 🙂

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Money play a very big part in the world today to the extent the human qualities are being forgotten. Yes money is needed to pay bills no one gives us anything free, but there is so much money cannot do. What matters is who you are and your heart!

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His advice, is “To be simple and work in silence. So have I. It is not advertising, or doing all this for money. It is being a good person and working in silence to the good of humanity ❤

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It has been a, “Very Long and Hard Journey” and I believe I have come to some sort of end. No one needs to tell you physically, when you go on the spiritual path, one is able to receive and know the signs and the messages. As again it is to do with Darkness and Light. It is said, “It is darkest before dawn” You know what an end is, But then ” Life begins again” For now I am at Peace 🙂

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So then I hope all of you liked the pictures and the lessons I have learnt from my spirit of the Lion. Ending my article, my mind never sleeps because:

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There are powers that the normal human eye or the mind cannot see. Developing wisdom, sixth sense or the third eye, through prayers or meditation will help to see beyond what the normal human senses are not capable of. Persistence and lot of hard work, but it is possible. There are many who has developed themselves spiritually, that go about in life quietly working towards the welfare of others, as advancement of the mind is not for publicity, but for pure service!

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Thank you for reading. Hopefully some of you make use of what I have written. What you see above is possible!

Thanking for the picture Quotes I have shared from the I net ❤

Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa 1Deepa Nilamani 🙂

Gratitude ~ In Healing !

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Hello To All My Dear Readers ❤

The topic Gratitude is quite a long overdue topic that I meant to write, but somehow the time never came, and going through some of the articles on other blogs, I thought now is the correct time to write about it 🙂
Learning about Gratitude go far back as 2005 from Sri-Lanka. I am a avid reader and as usual when I was looking for books, I came across this book called, “Taking Care of Me” in the self-help section. It was at the time of my depression, and it was a habit to find books to help myself in whatever I could. There was an e mail address by the author in this book and I happen to send her an e mail, that started a process of being coached free through e mails then, as well as a long standing friendship up to now. So below is the book and this article is in, Gratitude to my coach and friend, “The Gratitude Guru M.K.Mueller 🙂

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There is much to the meaning of Gratitude. How I was trained was to, write 5 Gratitudes daily and, gradually I was looking for new things that I am Grateful to write, and without my knowledge my mind was slowly changing to a positive way of thinking. So that was a very big step, in lifting myself from depression. You can start by whatever things you are Grateful for but it has to be new ones everyday. Below is something of an example ❤

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Writing or journaling is the best way to put your mind into order. “Journaling for Mental Health. … Now it’s called journaling. It’s simply writing down your thoughts and feelings to understand them more clearly. And if you struggle with stress, depression, or anxiety, keeping a journal can help you gain control of your emotions and improve your mental health” ~ The I net !!!

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Writing Gratitudes completely changes your attitude towards how you look and see things in life. There is much to explain and I will be covering them in articles following this. For those of you who are keen there is another book also called, “8 To Great” which MK Mueller has made me a trainer of it. In your case, you can either write on your own at home, or do it among family members or even through e mails with friends. That makes you to do it everyday. This is MK and the other book which is also a very good book that has helped me a lot ❤

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This is not advertising but this is in thankfulness and to show that help comes from completely unknown and surprising ways too. The coaching and training I was given has gone a long way in helping me overcome depression. And what I am writing here also is what I have learnt through that. It is after 12 years that I am writing in Gratitude to her ! In 2005 when I was down did I think that today I will be writing on my blog of my recovery ? Life can change the next day. You too can lift yourself up but, you have to work and be persistent. You need to be strong, take courage and have patience. Life can change for the better and you can come out into the Light 🙂

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Hope you have enjoyed reading and learnt something new from what I have written. It is very late almost 3 am in the morning in Brisbane !!! There will be more coming about Gratitude. Until then Good Night and God Bless from me ❤

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Thanking for the Quotes that I have taken from the I net ❤

Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa 1Deepa Nilamani 🙂

Healing ~ Who Help or Hurt Us !

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Welcome to my blog. We have now 101 blogs who have liked us. Thank you all those of you who read, and a Big Thank for My blogging family who have made it possible for my blog to reach up to that mark ❤
Today I am writing how people are reacting, towards others. Helping or hurting, especially to those who have mental issues and/or of sensitive nature. Be it mental issues or any other subjects, by sharing and exchanging we broaden our horizons. That is what human race is, and even in the animal kingdom they learn from each other. Its a wonderful thing that the young Royal family from The UK itself has come out into the open to share what they also have gone through, and got together to wok towards mental issues. As there are many who think its all in the mind or even take it up as a joke or a weapon to harm or hurt another!!!

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I started to write here with the support and encouragement of so many people, who valued my knowledge and experiences on how I overcame depression. Especially the doctor itself who said even if I help just one person to take medication, go to the doctor or to feel happy its a great blessing. But sadly since recently, I have come across some who have made use of what I write to, upset and hurt me !!! I am a human being a mother, who was separated from my children for almost 13 years and, who lost half of my weight at one time not being able to eat. The doctors see me as a miracle having fought depression for almost 15 years and come out of it. I have worked as a tutor of English and now leading a normal life. I am Not earning from here but paying to write in order to be of help, even by few words to give Hope and Faith. Those who value human life, and Not only money know the value and so many are reading and benefiting. But for some its a joke, and to do things behind my back to upset me !!! For what purpose ? I do not harm or hurt anyone !!! What I write here is Not gossip or personal details. It is knowledge to help others !!! This is not only for me but happens to so many innocent people even on Face Book. Wicked and evil minded people who do not want to see another doing well !!!

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We as human beings are one with the Universe. The Universal Declaration of Human Rights – a Declaration adopted by the United Nations General Assembly supports the ideology that,”All Human beings are born free and equal in dignity and rights” They are endowed with reason and conscience and should act towards one another in a spirit of brotherhood” Those play silly pranks to upset others, are just selfish and self centered !!!

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There are millions who are going through depression and other mental issues. So many in the world over, the royalty, professionals, artists, workers of all fields are bent on working towards mental wellness now. So many are dedicated towards human wellness and peace. So am I. I have dedicated myself for service and these things are not jokes. Working against someone’s progress, happiness and peace are all with negative thoughts that makes one sick in return. When you harm another you harm Yourself. What goes around comes around. Its, “The Laws of the Universe” No one escapes. All have to pay for their consequences !!!

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Giving pain to someone who has gone through severe pain and grief is a crime. And these are people who know that. Its not philosophy but its science. That is why religions are there to be guided to know what is right and wrong. Not to just preach to others or talk big. When the boomerang comes back there will be no place to run, as its Not a physical thing, Good or the bad we do they will always come behind us, whether we like it or not. That is the basis of all what everyone teach !!!

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Thank you for reading. Hope you learnt something new or remembered something you were  already aware of.  Share, pass it on for others too who can make use of what I have written ❤

Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies to All from me ❤

Thanking for the posts I have taken from the I net ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa 1Deepa Nilamani 🙂

Healing ~ Desire To Heal !

Hello To All My Dear Readers ❤

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First of all, I welcome the many new readers and bloggers with much happiness. Your likes, comments and appreciations help and encourage me to feel happy and do better not only for me but, for all of us in the long run. Almost closing on 100 bloggers and, A Very Big Thank You to All, old and new family here in my site ❤
When it comes to Healing as I wrote before, just as taking responsibility, “We need to have that Desire, that great need/urge” to somehow overcome being low/sad or unhappy and make ourselves to be well and happy. This again we have to do ourselves. Others can help and encourage but it mainly, up to us to have that need and push ourselves along the path of Healing 🙂

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For this you need to be dedicated to the cause of healing. It does not happen overnight, it is a process of taking things step by step methodically. The world, the society is not an easy place to live in, especially if you are going through mental issues. It can be chaotic and hostile to you. So we need to find a place, an environment to suit our conditions, to grow undisturbed and peacefully in to a healthy person. This can be difficult, as in all ventures in life there is resistance, so we need to let go, of the people, things that hinder or block our path of Healing. In life we cannot change the whole set up at any time. As we cannot put ourselves in a safety bubble and live in isolation. We tend to meet/come across people and situations that hinder and disturb our progress from time to time. So if we have the Strength, Courage and Persistence to change, adjust and put aside what is unnecessary, we can be successful in our venture in Healing 🙂

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Thank You for reading. There are many more steps, and I will write one by one gradually. Share and/or pass it on for others who can make use of what I have written ❤

This is my other site that I write poetry for relaxation: https://deepanilamani.com/

Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies to All ❤

Thanking The I net for the Pictures ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa 1Deepa Nilamani 🙂