Ways To Happiness!

Hello To, All My Readers, Followers and Blogging Friends ❤

As usual I have to ask if you all are keeping in Good Health and Feeling Positive as much as Possible. And after writing about Happiness now I am going to write about, “Ways To Happiness” so that somehow, I want to make You all at least a little bit Happier as Your Happiness is also My Happiness as well. Agreed 😀

This is: Ways To Happiness:
1. Being Positive as Possible. Leads to Happy.
2. Once you feel Happy, You know how to try and create that feeling again.

So This is, “Project To Happiness”

  1. Eat Healthy: Keeping Hydrated (drinking enough water) other fruit or vegetable juices, Herbal drinks, Soups, Stews, whatever foods that are available. So that you get enough vitamins keep you strong and Healthy. If it is the season, so much going cheap.

2) Strength:
Not only physical strength You have To, build up “Mental Strength” to handle difficult situations and you come across issues.



3) Calmness:
1. You have to know how to relax and make yourself rest and feel Calm.

4) How to stay Calm: Relaxation: Being at ease:



5) Amusement:
1. Seek out humour. There can be outside places like parks where they are free and people doing various things.
2. Find things to keep you amused, like comedy. Can be TV, papers, Books or Magazines and the I net. Need not be new things enough old material or can draw yourself funny faces or pictures.
3. Make sure You are relaced and well rested. If you are tired, You cannot be smiling or laughing 🙂

6) Being Active: Although this says child it is for adults also.

7) Enthusiasm: See the picture below. So many things You can do other than these also.
1. To be enthusiastic about things, You like to do.
2.Find some project or a hobby even a charitable cause You can become uplifted and motivated.
3.Then start planning step by step towards achieving it.

8) Determination:
1. Being Determined to solve problems and achieve Your Goals makes You feel good.
2. You need a very clear idea, what you like to achieve.



9) Joy: The best thing for Joy is to to do things that you like to do, as much as possible. Together with friends or even staying at home.


10) Cheerfulness: When You are Feeling Positive, and feeling Happy Joyous and Cheerful You, “Transmit the Chemicals of Good Mood to Others too. This is why it being said, “To be around people who are Relaxed and Lead lives with Satisfaction and Value

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I am in Good Health and as, “I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy into My Hands” since “Beginning of 2016” All my Hard work and Praying has been rewarded. Healing Energy can go to others too, and wherever it is needed to be received with a Clear Mind and Lot of Loving Kindness ❤

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I am Moving on as usual with “My Own Journey of Wellness, Encouraging and Healing” So that Everyone can have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” To Lead a Better Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy”. If you click on the Link, you can Read This Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

The Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing” during my spare time you can have a look at: https://deepanilamani.com/

As always, it is all free”. You can share and pass it on also for others who can benefit from this post. I hope All those who Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so as,” Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in Life ❤

Thank you for Reading and The I net for the picture quotes I have shared and to https://www.online-image-editor.com/ for the Quotes I have done Myself ❤

Sending Love, Light and Healing Energies to You ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa Nilamani ❤

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Roadmap to Resilience!

Donald Meichenbaum, Ph.D.
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Hello To, All My Readers, Bloggers and Followers ❤

Hope All of You are keeping in Good Health. I have been writing about Various Therapies to stay Healthy. And now “The Topic, Resilience ~ The Biology of Stress and The Science of Hope” This is quite Advanced, so I have written at the end like, so read only if you like. The Doctor is known to be, one of the “Best “10 Psychologists in The World” and out of them also known to be, “The Very Best” and still working. So, this is from: Dr Donald Meichenbaum’s, Ph.D. Book “Road to Resilience”!

Listen and take care of my body. I should get regular medical checkups, see a doctor, when necessary, maintain my hygiene and learn to compensate for any physical limitations. It is worth highlighting at the outset that people are resilient. We have the ability to, “Heal ourselves” ❤

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There is evidence what is compensatory processes the ability to form new connections. People are flexible and develops a variety of work around compensatory procedures. A blind person may develop super-sensitive hearing; the deaf person may become super-sensitive to people’s shift in facial expressions; a pianist who loses the ability to read music may gain new richness in thinking about music. Individuals who are born congenitally blind or deaf exhibit remarkable compensatory processes. As Oliver Sacks, the neurologist observes, “Even in adulthood, it is possible to reshapes itself to fit a new reality.” As it was shown people to become cleverer at solving them.” In the same way, an individual can learn to compensate, “Work Hard and develop new skills, becoming more resilient” ❤
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I am in Good Health and as, “I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy into My Hands” since “Beginning of 2016” All my Hard work and Praying has been rewarded. Healing Energy can go to others too, and wherever it is needed to be received with a Clear Mind and Lot of Loving Kindness ❤

The Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing” during my spare time you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/

As always, it is all free”. You can share and pass it on also for others who can benefit from this post. I hope All those who Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so as,” Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in Life ❤

Thanking Dr Donald Meichenbaum for The Book, “The “Road Map to Resilience”. The Internet for The Picture Quotes I have shared. And https://www.online-image-editor.com/ for The Picture Quotes I have done Myself ❤

Sending Love, Light and Healing Energies to All ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa Nilamani ❤

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Behavioural Fitness!

Hello To, All My Readers, Blogging Friends and Followers ❤

Hope All of You are keeping in Good Health as much as possible. “Keeping yourself Positive and Motivated as Best as possible. Yes, this bit I have been repeating, this is because I have been writing Topics from Dr Donald Meichenbaum’s Book:

Roadmap to Resilience
Donald Meichenbaum, Ph.D.
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According to these widely accepted definitions of fitness, it follows that Behavioral Fitness™ would find one in a state of being mentally and emotionally fit and healthy. Moreover, a healthy mental state would enable, even propel an individual to complete roles and tasks, both small and large. Finally, Behavioral Fitness™ provides a foundation on which an individual, family, or even organization can gird itself for survival and position itself to flourish and grow.

“The key to successful coping is flexibility of matching the coping strategies to the demands of the situation and to one’s goals.”

“Resilience skills are like a muscle in a body that needs exercise, practice and usage in order to develop and to be replenished”

“Resilient individuals are masters of innovation. Instead of following a prescribed automatic habitual behavioral script, resilient individuals are able to alter, regulate, override, break free and choose from a variety of coping options.”

“Individuals who have better self-control and will power (delay of gratification, show GRIT, are strategic) do better interpersonally, suffer less after experiencing stressors, are better adjusted and perform better at school and on the job.”

“Resilient individuals monitor, modify and evaluate their emotional reactions to accomplish a goal. They manage taxing circumstances, reduce or tolerate stress and conflict and accept what is beyond their control or cannot be changed.”

Behavioral fitness is the ability to form and implement Behavioral Action Plans; to be flexible and adaptable in the face of change and to make maximal use of abilities and resources.

Behavioral Fitness is reflected in the willingness to try out new strategies and learn from mistakes and setbacks. Behaviorally fit individuals see themselves as organized, industrious, conscientious, committed and self-controlled, all of which contributes to their resilience.

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I am in Good Health and as, “I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy into My Hands since “Beginning of 2016”” Maximum Healing Energy can go to others too, and wherever it is needed to be received with a Clear Mind and Lot of Loving Kindness ❤

Meanwhile I have been Receiving This from WordPress You’ve posted 3 days in a row on I am My Path!! Keep up the good work. 🙂

Latest Update: 8th October 2022. This is “The 208th Post” and with the “Introductory Page this will be all in Total up to date, 209th posts. On Top Right-Hand side, you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, you will see the word “Home” All the posts from “The Very Beginning comes ~ Under “Home”. Which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

As always, it is all free”. You can share and pass it on also for others who can benefit from this post. I hope All those who Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so as,” Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in Life ❤

Thanking Dr Donald Meichenbaum for Book The Road Map to Resilience and for The Internet for The Picture Quotes and https://www.online-image-editor.com/ for The Picture Quotes I have done Myself 🙂

Sending Love, Light and Healing Energies to All ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa Nilamani 🙂

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Taking Care of Me!

Hello To, All My Readers, Blogging Friends and Followers ❤

Hope All of You are keeping in Good Health as much as possible. “Keeping yourself Positive and Motivated as Best as possible. I have been writing about Various ways to be able to Lead a Good Life”. Today I am writing a post about, “Taking Care of Oneself” which is a very Valuable Lesson to each one of us, in order to be able to Lead a good life”!

Work can make us feel good about ourselves and give us a sense of purpose; it’s an important way to help us to protect and improve our mental health and wellbeing. However, sometimes work and life stress can negatively affect our health. Mental health is not fixed or static. We can move back and forth along this at different times during our lives. To cope with the stresses of work and overcome life’s daily challenges, it is important we stay as mentally well as possible. This can help us better overcome challenges, build healthy relationships and work more productively. 

Stress is part of everyday life, and it is not always a problem. A little bit of stress – like the stress you feel during a job interview – can sometimes help you perform better. It is usually temporary and can help you to focus and do your best under pressure. Workplace stress is something we all experience, whether it’s in the form of heavy workloads, or just workplace culture, it can all contribute to us feeling pressured at work. Like stress in general, when workplace stress starts to become intense, comes from multiple sources, or is drawn out for long periods of time, it can increase risks to physical and mental health or cause an existing condition to making it more!

It’s important to recognize that mental health can be affected in multiple ways. While there is stress relating to our work environments that need to be managed, we must also remember to monitor the stresses in our personal life as well.  Learning to identify when you’re stressed – so that you can avoid or manage stressful situations – is an important way to stay well. Everyone is different, with different roles – at home and at work – and there is no single best approach to staying mentally well, but there are several things you can do every day to improve your wellbeing. The points in each of the four segments of this ‘Taking care of yourself and staying well’ section can all contribute to getting the balance right, so you continue to contribute to your work role and nurture your career and allow time for important people and interests in your personal life.

Now you have to know why I chose this Topic. It is because I have been Donating and Giving so much of My Money, Energy and Time, it came to a Point I felt, I was Not Getting Back hardly anything or even Gratitude and feel rather a bit sad! So, I did look at all what I have been doing in the past and, “Decided that I have to Look after myself first as No one is able to Know what is important to me, and they go about doing things that they want not so much aware of the person, that is Me!

1st October 2022. See how hard I am working for You All. It’s 6.36 in the Morning. And I just finished and how I am at home in my room. Only now I will catch up with some sleep and rest. I took of myself as there is no one to take a photo 😛

I hope You learnt something new or remembered things You already knew. As usual I referred many books magazines and the I net for extra knowledge and picture posts to Make you better informed 🙂

I am in Good Health and as, “I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy into My Hands since “Beginning of 2016”” Maximum Healing Energy can go to others too, and wherever it is needed to be received with a Clear Mind and Lot of Loving Kindness ❤

Latest Update: 1st October 2022. This is “The 203rd Post” and with the “Introductory Page this will be all in Total up to date, 204 posts. On Top Right-Hand side, you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, you will see the word “Home” All the posts from “The Very Beginning comes ~ Under “Home”. Which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

As always, it is all free”. You can share and pass it on also for others who can benefit from this post. I hope All those who Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so as,” Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in Life ❤

Thanking, “The I net for the Websites I have taken the Information” the “Picture quotes I have shared” and to https://www.online-image-editor.com/ for the Quotes I have done Myself ❤

Sending Love, Light and Healing Energies to All ❤

May God’s Blessn’s Be Upon You<3

Deepa Nilamani ❤

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