A Note of Thanks!

Hello To All My Dear Readers ❤

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I am writing today to, “Thank You All” for supporting my blog, by liking and commenting. It has reached up to 200 follows:

“Congratulations on getting 200 total follows on I am My Path ! Your current tally is 203″ …..and Moving on 🙂

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All of you have shown that, what I write is helpful, and I am encouraged to try and write even better so that many more are able to benefit from my blog. Please do share and pass on what I write to others who can make use of my knowledge and, experiences to be able to know better and lead much more healthier and happier lives ❤

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I Thank you all from my heart again, and sending Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies to All ❤

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May God’s Blessings Be Upon You All ❤

Deepa Nilamani 🙂

Hello To All My Dear Readers ❤

Hope all of you are keeping well and Happy. Last article I wrote about Things We Love to Do! Now here I am writing that, “All Good Things don’t come that easily ~ meaning if we want a good and successful life, we need to work hard towards them. For this we need to accept change and also to be ready to move out of our comfort zone ❤

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Moving out of our comfort zone is like, taking an adventure. If we really want to better our lives, we need to take it as a positive experience. We need to, know our passion, our dreams and follow our instincts to achieve our goals. This results in taking trips to unknown destinations. Taking risks and travelling on paths not gone before. But it all depends on your attitude ❤

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On our journey, to find new and better quality of life, we will observe and learn many new things, from seeing new places and meeting many new people. Life is beautiful but it can be challenging and difficult too. All of that is, for us to face our difficulties overcome them and go to the next level. Very often if we don’t get pushed we don’t move. In moving on, we need to keep our minds open for things of beauty and wonder 🙂

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Keeping our minds open for new and better things, brings us new and a better life. Things can change any time in life, so we need to be Patient as, we are not aware what the next moment will bring us. Although we have to work hard, and do work hard, the opportunities and new doors that open, will only open at the correct time. Until such time, we have to keep going and Not give up. We need to keep our Faith and Trust in the process of Life ❤

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Thank you for reading. I hope you found some useful hints to better your life. Any questions are welcome. You may share and/or pass it on for others who can benefit from what I have written ❤

For those who are interested in poetry can check up wee little poems written on my personal website:https://deepanilamani.com/2018/07/09/two-little-girls/

Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies come your way ❤

Thanking for the posts from the I net ❤

May God Bless you ❤

Deepa Nilamani 🙂

Hello To All My Dear Readers ❤

Today I am writing about what each of us are born to do, or why each of us are born for. We all know that we are all born for some specific purpose. As each one of us are different from each other, and have a unique personality of our own, our purpose is completely different to each other too. There maybe similarities, but never exactly the same. For example see how many of us write blogs here, we writers are all sorts. Each of us have our own style of writing and our own topics. Same with other things too. So how do we find or know what our purpose is? Some are born with a gift a talent. But others?

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Everyone has something that they really like to do, that excites them even thinking about it. Those who love to read cannot put down a book until they have finished. Those who love to write keep on writing, and they get lost in what they do and even loose track of time. Scientists, inventors, artists and other various people work into the wee hours into the morning, or even through out the night days on end, tirelessly as they enjoy what they are doing. So all of us have what is called the passion, which leads us on our own path into our destiny 🙂

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So when we follow our passion, how do we know it is the right or the wrong path. As I wrote before, passion is what keeps us moving ahead no matter what. There will be obstacles, there may be others who will not understand or/and even criticize what you are doing. But they wont understand what you like to do as it is what only you like to do. No two people do the same thing the same way!

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When we are going ahead in the journey of our life, we will meet other travelers along the way. As in life we all are moving ahead doing what we like along our own paths. From time to time people will cross our paths, from some we will learn lessons while others will learn from us. Some will walk for a long way with us while others will part sooner. However it is, we end up walking alone in our path, as it is our path and ours alone 🙂

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We all start walking along our path following our passion towards achieving our goals. As we go along there will be many changes along the way, as that is how life is. There will be detours, even additions to what we already want to do, and sometimes it might end up in a way, a place that we never ever dreamt of. This is the beauty of life, as life is a fascinating mystery. But to achieve all that, “We need to be brave and strong” to face all weathers along the way, as all good things require hard work, dedication and sacrifice. Although we never thought of ending up in a castle, it might be that, ultimately we have been directed to a magical place we never had thought of. Believe me it does happen 🙂

 

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So in life, we need to put in hard work. Experience good things as well as bad things. Pain and suffering too, as it is through pain that we let go of the unwanted, to make room for the new things and people in the next level. The challenges we face make us strong and resilient to do more and better things, for ourselves and others in the world. As in the end it is not just for us, we need to make the world a better place as, “We are all one big family in The Universe” Why? Because we are all energy and part of The Universe!

Thank you for reading. Hope you learnt something and enjoyed reading this. Please share and pass on to others for their benefit too ❤

Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies from me ❤

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May God Bless You ❤

Deepa Nilamani 🙂

Hello To All My Dear Readers 🙂

Hope all of you are well. I have not been here for a while, as I have been busy writing some other articles. So I am sorry I have not been visiting some of your blogs too. I am re-writing this article as so many have missed the old articles. We are all aware in life everyday is not the same. We keep on changing and moving ahead. Even if we do not want to change, we do grow older by the day and changes happen physically and mentally, as well as the whole environment changes around us. That is the norm of life. With that there comes challenges over and over again for us to learn how to face and overcome them, to become stronger and wiser to move on in life to the next level 🙂

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Once you have overcome a challenge or challenges, you need to learn from them and organize yourself, to make sure the same things do not cause problems again. For this you need to, “Let Go” of the things and people that do not work for you anymore. Letting go usually, does not mean taking a bag and going away as so many posts show. As in life you cannot leave those who are dependent on you and walk off just like that. What it means mostly is, “Letting go from the Mind” and changing and adjusting to those people and situations that you have to live in, to fit in better 🙂

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Letting Go is a process. As in life from the moment we are born we are Letting Go isn’t it? First of all we let go of the womb that we grew for 9 months and entered the, seems like harsh world with a bang. From that time on wards, everything that we were born with, our hair, skin keeps on shedding and being renewed without our knowledge. Letting go is a, “Natural Process for us to, “Let Go” of the unwanted/old and move on to new that works for us” Its just like discarding our clothes that become too small for us as we grow on to our next size. Not only us it happens to animals too. Like reptiles, they too shed their whole length of outer skin from time to time. The eagle sheds all its feathers and even the beak after 40 years to renews it self for another 30 years. Then why is this, Letting Go become such a painful process ?

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This is when, “We are Forced to Let Go”, “Before we are ready” Just like pulling our hair or teeth before time. In Nature, there is always, a Time for everything. When we have to, or Forced to give up anything or people before we are ready only, it becomes painful” So there is always a, “Time to Let Go” if not it is difficult and painful. But sometimes so happens in life, whether we like or not we do have to let go as we need to move on and holding on doesn’t help. And once you accept life becomes much easier and pleasant. As you have less people and things to trouble you unnecessarily!!!

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Then how to make life a little easier for us, living in this complicated world? Well the most important word that comes in is, “To be prepared to Let Go” When we know our work is done and we are no more needed. Hard? Yes 🙂 But it is the reality. When people have out grown you means they have changed their vibrations, hence some of their personality and their energies. So they no longer able to fit in with the same people and live under the same roof, doing the same things. All that belongs to another era, which is called by the name, “The Past” Letting Go even if it is for the good for us is very difficult, but sometimes we have to, and once we do the relief is great. By letting go if the past you make room for the new to come in, that will ultimately lead you to new places and people whom you fit in better and belong with, to lead much satisfied and happier and fulfilled life 🙂
Hope you enjoyed reading what I have written, and learnt something to help in your life or even someone else’s life. Knowledge is like ripples that travels over and across lands and seas all over the world bringing everyone closer to share and learn from each other. It is for us to learn how change and letting go helps us to move on to a better level in life. Enjoy 🙂

Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies coming Your way ❤

Thanking for the posts taken from the I net ❤

May God Bless You ❤

Deepa Nilamani 🙂

 

New Beginnings !

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Hello To All My Dear Readers 🙂

To give you an update of my life since I finally came to settle down here is Aussie. I completed eight years yesterday and looking back I have come a very long way. It is Not talking big but, letting you know how much I have achieved, so that those of you who are reading, get inspired and get Hope, that you too can overcome by working towards getting well. My main reason for doing this blog 🙂
My depression has gone into remission, and have been stable for almost 4 years now. Its quite a feat as I was under it for quite a long time, as long as almost 15 years. I have worked in TAFE as an ESL volunteer tutor for almost 5 years during that period, done some short courses and now continuing with the Diploma in Psychology. I have also completed 2 years writing in here, and today I was looking at the past articles and saw how much my writing has improved, along with my mood as well 🙂
Journaling or writing in anyway is very helpful as, it helps to put our minds in order. When we write we are able to understand so many things that are working in our minds that we were not aware !!!
Journaling is: writing down your thoughts and feelings to understand them more clearly. And if you struggle with stress, depression, or anxiety, keeping a journal can help you gain control of your emotions and improve your mental health ~ The I net.
Prayers or and meditation also helps in relaxation and to calm the mind, as well as gaining  wisdom which is the most important thing, to understand the process of life more clearly !!!
“Life works in a pattern we all know that the seasons come one after the other every year the same pattern, everyday the sun comes up in the morning and goes down in the evening and so on. So as we are all part of “The Universe”, and all of us fall under the same laws. And once we have done everything possible ~ we need to have Patience for them to work in its own way ~ In the Natural Order” We can also describe it as, “Going with the flow of life” 🙂

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Actually it is through intense prayers and meditation that has brought me to this  stage of maturity, where I have come to understand many things in life and moved on to a complete different wave length from where I have been ~ which is the main reason for my almost complete recovery. It is something that all can achieve as it is a matter of changing one’s vibrations or energy, but “this has to be done with, great dedication sacrifice and persistence, long term”. As changing one’s energy or vibrations is a slow process and happens in a very delicate way, along with acts of offering merit to those who guide and protect you along the way. This is the value of the human being as we have choices and able to know and learn how to become well or get over difficulties !!!

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Many do not think or understand this although they have studied science. Well even I have studied physics, but that was when I was very young and I didn’t know all this at that age. Everyone knows that in any religion, prayers are being said to heal the sick, so prayers are all good vibrations, which somehow with faith helps that person to feel better or sometimes completely recover. I have these experiences but it’s only very few who knows or believe that. As it is a, “Very Long process which I have done over time as I said before, with great dedication and sacrifice” One has to go over tests and tribulations time and time again until sometimes you are exhausted. At this stage of my life, knowing who I am, and what I have become is enough for me. I do not have that need to prove it to anyone. For those of you who believe in energy, This will be in my blog, spreading Good Energy constantly, for Good Health, Happiness and Prosperity. Just click anytime and take it in with a Good Heart ~ Loving Kindness. Concentrate on it and feel or imagine positive energy flowing into you, cleansing you of the negativity, Healing and bringing you Peace and Happiness ❤

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Was going to write a short update and gone on writing without my knowledge. Hope you liked what I wrote. Please share or pass it on for those who can benefit from what I have written. Thank you for reading ❤

I wish you Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies. Peace and Happiness ❤

Thanking for the posts taken from the I net ❤

May God’s Blessing Be Upon You ❤

Deepa Nilamani 🙂

The Purpose of Our Lives !

Hello To All My Dear Readers 🙂

Thank you all for reading and appreciating what I write. Since recently there is an increase in those who follow and also more coming in from our blogging family to comment and interact, which makes it very interesting and worthwhile putting in all the time and energy in writing here 🙂
At certain times in our lives we find that we are not really happy or satisfied with what we are doing. This is doing jobs, studies or even a hobby. Usually as young children we are guided by our parents or teachers, or even we ourselves think this is what we want to do. But then as we go on, some of us find out what we have chosen to do does not give that satisfaction that we hoped for. We lose interest, and get distracted. and our minds begin to work towards finding out what other things we can do, that we really feel like doing, and we become restless. Our minds are such that the moment it gets this message, it goes into action, it begins to work endlessly looking for that something that we can do with enthusiasm and zest, that will be worthwhile doing it and brings us satisfaction. When you read about people, we see some of them ending their even very successful careers and turning into doing things completely different to what they were doing !!!

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Some are born lucky. They are born with talents and gifts by birth, and do not have to go hunting for what they like to do. They find they can just draw or paint, play a musical instrument, even do maths or speak in other languages at a very young age. They grow up to be famous painters, writers and authors, musicians and scientists and so on. Some others, like even myself 🙂 have to go hunting or even find out during some stage of our lives, that this is what we are born to do. But, one common thing is that, “We are all born for some purpose in life” 🙂

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Each one of us are born unique and no two people are born the same. Even identical twins have differences between them. So to each of us, “The Purpose of our life is different” It has to be isn’t it, as the world needs all kinds of people to do various kinds of jobs and activities. But its not all who recognize this. What is the reason ? It is because one has to be spiritually mature and aware what life is and what the gifts we have been given and how to make use of them 🙂

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Human life is very valuable as it is man who is so advanced than all the other creatures, who can mainly think, plan, speak out and act. So we need to make use of our lives, and not just idle and waste away this valuable birth !!!

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We have been given a body, mind and a soul. This is to be able to make a living, to help ourselves and then sharing or giving others too with what we have been given. Each one has been given some gift so that we can make use of it to lead a good and happy life 🙂
In life as I said before, we know that some people are born with very special talents and gifts. What ever they do it comes naturally. Of course they also have to work hard to improve and excel at them. And they themselves find out more side-lines too to improve and excel. Some take a long time and have to find or look for the gift they have been given. Whatever the time period maybe for those who keep on looking and finding out, “What the meaning of life” ultimately find out or even led to the path that were meant to take. In short to, “The Purpose of Their Life” 🙂

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Hope you enjoyed reading this article. Thank you for reading. Please share and pass it on to others too who can make use of what has been written ❤

Thanking for the quotes and Pictures I have taken from the I net ❤

Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies from me ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa Nilamani 🙂

What is Gratitude ?

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Hello To My Dear Readers 🙂

It seems many are enjoying the first article about Gratitude. As there is much to write on this topic, I thought of using more picture quotes for the following articles to make it more interesting and easier on the eye. The eyes are drawn and makes the mind absorb more so that it helps in remembering long term, when seeing writing in bold black and white, as well as quotes on pretty colourful pictures. I find it is a more relaxing way of taking the information in, as well as giving it out, (on some topics) as sometimes reading very long articles can stress the mind. I like to use more simple words, as there is a wide audience whose first language is not English, and also as an ESL Tutor I have got used to using simple language so that its is easier for all to understand. I believe this being a, “mental wellness and health site” the importance is to give out the information in a simple and relaxed way for all to take in easily. I learnt this when I first wrote the article on, “Writing” itself 🙂

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Gratitude is a topic that could be written and spoken about almost endlessly and its effects are wonderful. Gratitude is a Very Important Virtue, I could say that it is the foundation of so many other virtues ❤

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This is because when we become grateful suddenly we feel free, we see so many things that are working in our favour, against those that are not. It is a fascinating process which we do not really understand, “Until we start becoming Grateful and Life changes for the better for us ~ Both Mind and Body” !!!

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Gratitude brings many blessings, plentiful harvests our way. The more you are Grateful the more you attract good things your way. Here are some quotes from some authors and motivators on how they think of Gratitude ❤

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It is not just talking about it but, we need to practice Gratitude as well. As practice makes it become a habit that you do even without you being aware of it. That is why you need to cultivate good habits in all aspects of life ❤

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The benefits and more details are coming in the next articles, remember to practice Gratitude everyday for Joy, Happiness and Prosperity of your life 🙂

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Thank you for reading. I hope you enjoyed and learnt  a little more about Gratitude. Please share and pass it on to others who can make use of it ❤

Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies from me to you all ❤

Thanking for the quotes taken from the I net ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa Nilamani 🙂