Hello To All My Dear Readers 🙂

First of all Thank you all for reading, commenting and following my blog. Please excuse me, as sometimes I don’t interact with all of you as I should, as sometimes I get very busy trying to catch up with my studies. There is much reference to do and also lot to concentrate and take in, that I go well past midnight, and some days, wee hours in the morning when others are going to work 🙂
It is two years since I started this blog and I have gone through massive changes. From beginning of this year, it has been like a roller coaster, changes from one to another which is sort of settling down now, but we never know when the next wave will come. Life is such the only constant is change, and if there is not changes how boring life would be also, isn’t it ?

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I like changes as with changes old things and even people that no longer suit us move away making room for the new that resonates with our new self, with our new energy patterns and vibrations. We are all energy, and all the time our energy levels are changing according to how we live. This process happens to all of us. Those who accept and embrace change grow and move on to higher wave lengths to lead better lives. Those who do not accept change, face lot of pain. As it’s in letting go that will free up space in our lives and bring people and things, that are really meant for us to have and enjoy to lead a happy life. As long as you hold on to people and things that are not meant for you, you will be unhappy. Why things go wrong is, because all those people and things will have energy that go against you (clash), bringing conflict/friction and disharmony to themselves and you !!!
When there are problems in your life, look carefully and study the situation, because you will find that you are in a place or with people that do not resonate or belong with, that is causing all the friction and unhappiness. This can be a work place, a home or anywhere. One may ask about things. Yes even things that are classified as not having life, have energy/vibrations. Those who are aware of energy vibrations know that they cannot just wear any colour or even someone else’s things/clothes. This is because colours absorb different energy from the sun and certain vibrations does not agree with everyone’s physical energy. If you think carefully, you will understand now, if you have not realized before. We all have out own favourite colours, styles and textures, foods everything unique to each other isn’t it ? This is because our energy in the body is all unique to each other 🙂
Sometimes when things are not going well we make changes ourselves but when changes happen against our wishes they upset us. Some time back, some sentimental things were taken away without my knowledge. They were of no value to anyone else but me, and I was upset why it had happened. In life as adults, wise adults you cannot jut come out with the facts, as certain relationships will suffer. I took comfort knowing that, “The truth like oil rises to the top one day, and it will be the person who robbed them who will face the consequences” and I need to move on.
The lesson for me was that, “Although they were precious, they were my past. By keeping them, I was holding on and even dreaming in the nights. I sat down and thought about it and realized it happened for a reason that, I was forced to let go and move on. I realized that when I had so many new things now, I was holding on to some pictures that reminded of the past and I didn’t need them. I had NOW, the present moment, and I can have new memories and happy ones. The moment I realized the truth, there was a change the next day itself. It was almost as if the day was different, new colours new life !!! Slowly life has begun to take a new turn. Still the the new can be uncomfortable as so many changes have come with them. With my praying my energy also has been changing, I believe I just didn’t want to let go of some little bits of the past and somehow, “God, The Universe, The Higher Powers” sent a messenger to take my rubbish away from me. By realizing and letting go of the situation and the person as much as possible I freed myself, to move away from the past and in to a brand new future 🙂
I find I cannot wear many of the past things and have been clearing and donating. I have always giving away but this time is different. I found I couldn’t even wear my old watch as I cannot put in water and soak away the old energy unlike other things that can be washed. It is unsettling but Not in a bad way, as I know now with prayers and all the good things I have done, my life is turning in the right way 🙂

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It’s said both in my psychology book and in the healing process that, “Suffering is needed” Although at that time I never would have believed it after about half a century, now I have realized it is true. I am an inborn giver and compassionate. I didn’t think I needed any extra lessons. I do ask myself did I have to go through so much ? Did anyone went over in teaching me the lessons ? For this, I was given the answer that to make the perfect diamond, the stone has to go through a lot of cutting and polishing !!!
So from what I have gone through my understanding and feelings have deepened and intensified to the extent that I have begun to receive healing energy to my hands during the times I pray and also when I feel very deeply myself and towards others 🙂

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From the day we are born we go through a very long journey. We have to learn so much and so we make mistakes too. We have to take risks as we are not all knowing, and then we make mistakes. Life is trial and error too. But what matters is we learn from the mistakes, from others and by ourselves. The whole world, The vast universe is open to all offering knowledge and guidance, for us to become good human beings ourselves and to others, and be of value as good citizens to the world. So it’s not the beginning so much, but it’s the end that matters mostly. We must not live to die with regret. As, if we learnt our lessons well and lived in loving kindness we will end up like the well cut diamond. A light that will light other’s paths 🙂

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From all what I have gone through so far, Now I take them all as lessons. I ask for strength and courage from The Higher Powers, The Universe, for me to be able to do so, and for guidance along the path of healing. All the experiences, good and bad have taught me immense lessons of patience, tolerance and above all forgiveness. “Being able to forgive is the first step to being free from those who come as unkind messengers” Now at this time of my life, I feel Blessed as what ever I have lost, I have something that money cannot buy nor can anyone take away from me. It is something I have earned. Through hard work, sacrifices, sharing and giving, loving kindness and above all being truthful and honest. Actually anyone can achieve this on their own too. The Powers, The Gifts, The Energies are all open for everyone as all are part of The Universe. But some try to take shortcuts which doesn’t work. You have to take the full journey, cross all rivers, climb all mountains, do what ever call of duty to fall in line with, “The Universal Energy which is also called Healing or Pranic energy” !!!
In a way the saying, “Truth like oil rises to the top” has come true as so many wrong things were said about me in the past and I have been praying and living my life as who I am knowing, some day the truth will be known. And so it has. Receiving energy from above, or connecting to “The energies of the universe”, one has to be pure. Its proof. No one can tarnish anyone’s character. Defamation of character is  a very negative and harmful way of thinking. In the end it life balances. Honesty wins and Truth rises up boldly to justify all wrong doings !!!

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Thank you for reading. Pass on and share with others who may benefit from what I have written ❤

God Bless and Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies ❤

Deepa Nilamani 🙂

Hello To All My Dear Readers 🙂

Thanking all those who commented in support and encouragement regarding my last article. Almost all of us know that life is not a straight road, that we go through challenges to overcome them and become stronger to go to that next level. However its not all who are aware of this or understand and, among us there are many types of people, good and the bad, kind and unkind, that we need to learn how to deal with them in order to be able to lead our lives peacefully. Regarding the issue what was done to confuse me, I have prayed, read and then turned to the wise for guidance. The advice I got from the wise is, “To stay detached and ensure they cannot do something similar. Like water let it flow away and accept it as a gift of learning” And so I have !!!

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From the many books and articles I read and together with my experiences, all this is to do with life’s lessons which are, “The laws of The Universe”. Life is said to be like a game. And yes it is. Just like a game there are rules to it, that is where religion comes in. Religion is all about how to be a good law abiding human being, and for that we have to abide by the rules of humanity. We are all connected by a mysterious magnetic force and what we send out, even in words and thoughts, good or bad comes back to us. This is how Healing Energies and Blessings works, even long distance. If one is purely on the mental level ~ not aware how life works, they keep on doing the wrong things and they keep on piling up, and punishment/karma takes a long time, and comes down with a greater force. But if one is developed spiritually, they return very quickly so that one is aware, doing something wrong to another brings harm to you as well in return and correct yourself the next time. What goes around comes around. In short, “The more you know, the more you are responsible for !!!

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In life from time to time we need advice, guidance, not only if something goes wrong but even to do the right things, to make a change, to start something new, there so many things that we need another person’s opinion. Of course it has to be the correct person with the correct knowledge who will give you the proper advice. But it’s not always we have someone around, and even then we also need to think for ourselves what is best for us. Because it is only we who really know who we are and know what will suit us the best. At these times, I turn to prayer or meditation. I pray daily and have great faith, and I always get relief and guidance through prayers, even when its needed for others. As we know, how ever you believe in, be it God, The Universe or Life, guidance, answers comes through other people, animals and various ways of synchronicity or coincidences. While I prayed suddenly this quote came into my mind. It is among hundreds of quotes I know and have made But, this particular one jumped out. Somehow it is correct. As always pain and suffering is caused by too much attachment or dependence of others or things and it showed what I needed to do, and it was the correct guidance the advice for me 🙂

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I hope you enjoyed reading and found something worth while for yourself too. Not everything is relevant for everyone. It all depend on each individual’s personality and of course the current status of your life. Independence can be taken in many ways. It is Not for all to live alone or break free. Being independent is, not to be too attached be it living alone, with others or your family 🙂

Thank you for reading. Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies to All ❤

Deepa Nilamani 🙂

Hello To My Dear Readers 🙂

I have been thinking of writing this article for quite sometime, but somehow I never got to write until now. Its almost going to be a year since I started this blog and although there are many who follow this from Face Book there has been hardly any other bloggers connecting with me. One thing is I have not been connecting with other blogs myself, as well as when anything is new it takes time to grow !!!
So I have been really wanting to move further and feeling rather stuck not being able to progress to my satisfaction. Sometimes in life however much you try, things don’t happen exactly at the times you want. And its not always that we find people who can understand or advice how and when we want to. At these times, I turn to prayers or meditation 🙂

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Prayers and meditation are part of my life and I have now come to a stage that its like a need, almost like being in need of food. Whatever the time I listen my energy goes up, almost like charging a battery and I know when its enough too. As if over do it, I start to get an uncomfortable feeling, just like what you get when you are eating too much and I stop immediately !!!
I have finished my family duties and having stopped work, I have now dedicated myself fully to work towards the wellness and the welfare of mankind. So service is the Purpose of My Life now. I have always wanted to do service. But never thought this was how, as then there was no Inter net or never knew about mental illness !!!
See how life turns out to be. But I am extremely happy that this is what I am able to do. Giving out knowledge for free is the best thing one can ever do 🙂

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I have been praying for some time for more opportunities to spread out, and suddenly new doors open for you. I am unable to exactly say how, but for me as I keep on praying, suddenly things move, happen, at the most unexpected ways and in times. New chances come in. I have to mention the fact that, it has to be taken as however each person believes. It can be taken as God, The Higher Power or The Laws of the Universe. As we all know, we are all under one set of rules. Only according to each person’s faith, the names and the faces are different 🙂

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I am a firm believer in the Strength and of the Healing Vibrations and Energy that comes through praying. As my healing from depression is greatly influenced by them. All prayers are with chosen good words that give out good vibrations that gives good and healing energy. Its through extreme stress that most illnesses come in. Negative energy causes to deteriorate good health !!!

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So I know now how to listen to peaceful vibrations that helps to calm me down or boost my mood with prayers that has strong vibrations. This can be achieved with good classical music too. As music is one of the best ways of relaxation to get over stress and calm you down, and with strong beat to lift your mood. The difference with prayers is that, they are beyond relaxation. As with Faith they give me guidance when I need and, strength at times of difficult times, its almost like holding on to some unseen source, or the mast of a ship in troubled seas. But we cannot just be praying and sitting around. While praying we need to do our part too. Have Faith and work hard towards what we want in life too 🙂

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We all know that even during times of crisis of others, people all over the world come together and pray for those affected. For sicknesses, for those who died and got wounded, and for peace. Recently I was challenged on health matters as then, I was asked, why should there be doctors if we can heal ourselves by praying. As I said we do not sit at home and wait for cures, we need to go for medical help too when its needed. Prayers are an additional boost as well as they help to keep you going. As we need to have Hope for anything in life. Faith in prayers is something that gives us that Hope. And not only for others, but something happens inside of us too. Also we hear ever so often of many illnesses being healed with the powers of prayers. I too have had this experience for someone in the family and myself and I believe in this situation it was a test of my faith. As I stood strong and held on to my faith and to the beliefs in all what I am doing 🙂

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I believe most people do some kind of praying from what ever religion they belong to. I am not going to tell anyone to do anything, but If any one of you do not, or not done so far you can try at times you feel you need some extra energy or strength, or meditating to calm yourself. Regarding myself, I have been taught from small days and been exposed to many religious activities according to our culture. As human beings none of are perfect and during our journey of growing up and then even up to our last breath, religion and prayers offer us, guidance, strength and above all peace at heart. The ultimate goal in our lives isn’t it 🙂

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I hope you have got some insight of the values and the powers of prayers and meditation for us as human beings. So far if any of you have not known I believe you have got some understanding ? Some belief  ? What ever it is, this is how I think and do, and they have helped me immensely on my journey of healing and guided me and still being guided on the path I am going on 🙂

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If there are others who can benefit please pass this on. Thank you for reading ❤

Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies to All ❤

Deepa Nilamani ❤

 

 

 

Who are We ~ Why are We here ?

Hello To All My Dear Readers 🙂

There is so much of violence and crimes that are happening all over the world in the present times, and I thought of penning my views on this topic according to my knowledge and experiences. When I say violence, its not about just war related happening that are going on as I am not someone who gets involved in political or religious issues. But it is in general how people behave and treat other fellow human beings and go about in life 🙂
As human beings we are all able to learn, observe, think and make use of all our senses together, to put into good use for ourselves and others benefit. Once we are born to this world its, “Our Duty to work towards the welfare of All Mankind” But so many do not do this, why ? Because they see themselves as  one person, as individuals. The society, the world is all inter-related/connected to one another like a web. When we upset from one side, it shakes up another side. Why is all these people who hurt and harm others lives are unaware of this !!!

Web 1aLord Buddha has preached that, as adult human beings we can, “Discriminate between Right and Wrong” And its wrong to ignore when we can advice or point out if someone is doing something wrong for their benefit. We do not need a religion to exactly know how another person feel. If we get hurt, physically or mentally, we know the same way another will get hurt. Am I correct ?

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Man is, “The only creature who is able to read, listen, learn and able to choose between right and wrong, with wisdom” When we are born we all go through a process of education from our childhood beginning from “Nursery Rhymes” Starting with our parents then teachers, religion, friends and so many who crosses our paths we are shown in everyway, how things work in life. We are given endless opportunities to the maximum, this is why there are two parents. If one fails the other is there, just like two hands and even other family around us. With all these “Guidance” why is it that some end up being extremely deteriorated, evil enough to go to an extent of not only doing grievous harm, but to the extent of destroying such valuable human lives !!!

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This is because, with all that “Guidance” these people, “Choose to be Ignorant. Yes as human beings they choose and continue to be so, when they have all that process of being able to Enlighten, Discipline themselves to be Good Citizens of the world” Ignorance of unwanted issues can be Bliss. As we cannot know and learn everything. But being Ignorant of Human Values are Evil !!!

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But it’s not only in these modern days, so many good people like, Mahatma Gandhi, Martin Luther King, Jr and even Socrates himself were killed by, the people, the very society that they were trying to Enlighten/Guide towards better  life !!!

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Why do people harm, kill good people ? It was Socrates who said that when you harm another, “Its the soul of that person who is harmed” These are said by many different ways. What goes around comes around, according to, “The Laws of The Universe” “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you” A command based on words of Lord Jesus in the Sermon on the Mount : The Mosaic law contains a parallel commandment: “Whatever is hurtful to you, do not do to any other person.” All these Religions say the same things in different ways !!!

 

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With all that, man harms his brothers, sisters who are all part of each other. We are all energy. Hence connected to each other. We are all soul sisters and brothers of one big family. Still with all that man harms. Man kills. This is by Mahatma Gandhi himself. Did he know he too was going to be killed ? But these are his words left for centuries ……

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The reasons given by many of these great people is, part of the general society do not want people to do well. They, “Resent others greatness” Greatness does Not come with money. It comes with unselfishness, good values, integrity ~ the quality of being honest and having strong moral principles !!!

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This type of people have no rules, no moral values. They have No clue in what they have to do as human beings. But only of themselves. Their values are completely different from those who abide by the rules of, any religion which all come under ~ “The Laws of The Universe”, which governs us all !!!

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When people do not have any set values, they do not know who they are. When people have no respect for themselves, they are unable to respect others. Actually I do not personally understand how people can be so ignorant, even some of those who are highly qualified in certain fields of education. It’s not only those who are uneducated who do the wrong things. Its among All people, in all colours and in all races in the world. So many have a lot of anger and resentment towards others. It can be religions, culture and even how they look and their status in the society that they want to put them down or even do away with some of them completely. Most of these things come from a section, who are after material things and never gets satisfied at any time !!!

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Greed is never ending and never satisfying. Greed can be for anything, what ever can bring someone power over others. Goodness can never be over taken by evil. And that breeds, “Envy” which is something once set in, will be very difficult to cure. Envy is like a poison that slowly eats up one’s soul !!!

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As you see, the mind plays a very big part in all our lives. That is why the religions are there, for us to be guided from time to time. As human beings we all make mistakes, take the wrong turn. Is there anyone on this earth who has Not made a mistake ? It is said that, ” People are pardoned for things that they do unknowingly. But Not for things they do knowing they are wrong and keep on repeating the same mistakes over and over again !!!

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Although we are one, each one can contribute in some way, to the welfare of our world. Mother earth needs to be protected for our future generations. Even bees are in danger because of pesticides. These are selfish acts with no thought of others. If there no bees there can be no, pollinating for thousands of flowers for our fruits and vegetables. So its not only war, but water, food and clean air as well !!!

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Why the world is a dangerous place is, because so many people who know its wrong look the other way or take no actions at all. Its not jumping in front of a gun, but somehow standing by the weak, helping, giving a hand to the fallen, the sick, the less fortunate how ever a small way we can !!!

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So today 11th of July, I have worked on this from morning. Almost the whole day. Its the first time I have written an article, that is mostly about religion. I don’t know exactly why I thought to write this, but from the time I started I have been reminded of something my mother said before she passed away 19 years ago. She had great faith in bajans as her illness went into remission, and passed away very peacefully, that I still continue daily as I know the value of Healing Energies of any kind of prayers.  I have been always keen on the knowledge of Buddhism and later went on to read about other religions which comes under, “Sarwa Dharma” Sarva Dharma Sama Bhava – Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia. Sarva Dharma Sama Bhava is an Indian concept embodying the equality of all religions. The concept was embraced by Ramakrishna and Vivekenanda,[1] as well as Gandhi.[2]

It was during our talks that she mentioned I have enough knowledge to lecture religion, which took me by surprise and I took it as a great compliment, as she was highly qualified and I have studied only up to my A Levels. I had No idea at that time that, I will be writing on the I net for many people all over the world today. I had always wanted to do service. But I never imagined, this is what I ultimately came to do. The highest form of charity is, giving out what you know to help others,”The Gift of Knowledge” 🙂

The essence of true charity is to give something without expecting anything in return for the gift
To the Buddhist, the highest gift of all is the gift of Dhamma. This gift has great powers to change a life

There are over 100,000 people who follow my Face Book Motivational pages. There are those who read in and out of Face Book too. I have the strength of my doctors, who has said not to expect much feed back or comments, that even if I help one person with my knowledge its enough for my whole life. I do not know who read or how many, and I prefer Not to know. As if I know of a known person, then my freedom of writing is disturbed. As then I think will she or he think I am trying to impress prove a point ?

I have come a very long way. Depression and Bipolar are very serious illnesses. I have fully come out of Depression and Bipolar is under control. Those who are qualified and the doctors who read may know exactly if they are in hiding, that is why I am taking medication without fail as prevention, for life. Why I am writing all this, is to Give Hope for all of those out there, that if I can, so can you to some extent recover if not fully. So that you can have Faith on living a better and happier life 🙂

If my mother was alive, she would have been very happy, to know that today I am, who I am she thought me to be. I don’t know how Blessings work, but from all what I am doing, I offer Merit to both my grand parents from both sides, parents and my family, friends, the doctors and All those helped or not, living and passed away, daily. I am not just me. I am a collection of many down the generations of both my parents. Just like material things, knowledge and wisdom are also to be passed on. That is the real value in life. I carry no one’s name, so that whatever I do, I do not take credit because of some other person. What I do is who I am ~”Deepa Nilamani” I believe my grandfather named me with some meaning ? being a very wise person. Deepa means Light. Light means Enlightenment. Being ignorant is called being in the dark. Depression is also known as darkness. And here what I am doing is trying to help others come out of that darkness/depression in both ways. I do hope I am doing it right !!!

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We are only here for a limited period of time. Not short. Life can be as long as how well we live. We come without anything. Not even clothes and we take nothing. Only our Energy is passed on as Light. For that limited period of time, we need to know the rules of life so that we can live well and join mother earth (as that is where we All go in the end ~ dust to dust ashes to ashes) with a smile on our faces, knowing we have done our duty to ourselves as well as others, lived according to the, “True Values in each of our Life Time” 🙂

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Thank you all for reading. Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies to all ❤

Deepa Nilamani 🙂