Healing ~ Basic Steps!

Deepa 1Hello To All My Dear Readers ❤

I have written this article at the very beginning in, October 2015 and I see not many have read. Also there are requests to write the basic steps in detail. So I am writing it again with, “New experiences and knowledge I have gained over a a period of over 3 years” as today is: 14th February 2019 🙂

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This is a short article explaining about Trauma. When you experience deep sadness or grief, it is referred as Trauma. (a deeply distressing or disturbing experience) It can be physical too, then its to do with the body. (Psychological trauma is a type of damage to the mind that occurs as a result of a severely distressing event. Trauma is often the result of an overwhelming amount of stress that exceeds one’s ability to cope, or integrate the emotions involved with that experience. A traumatic event involves one’s experience, or repeating events of being overwhelmed that can be precipitated in weeks, years, or even decades as the person struggles to cope with the immediate circumstances, eventually leading to serious, long-term negative consequences ~ Courtesy Wikipedia!

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Why people get hurt or sad is, when they are criticized, put down, controlled or blamed continuously, and when they feel they don’t deserve it and it’s wrong and unfair. If they are guilty of any wrong doings, then deep in their hearts they know they have done it and they do deserve some of it. But when they feel they don’t deserve it, the insults, the harsh Words Words and Words ! affects one’s hearts and makes wounds that will be difficult and take a long time to heal!

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These are what stays on collecting inside you, weighing you down, making you feel miserable and low. So when too many things happen all at once, and then the last thing can be like what is said, ” The last straw that breaks the Camel’s back” that will finally push you over, which will lead to break downs. Break downs doesn’t happen if there is support, love and care around. But the thing is sometimes how ever much you have people around you, they may not know, nor will some really understand as to what you are going through. As usually it is difficult for so many to understand unless, “They have experienced themselves so sometimes sadly  it can be that, “The very ones who should be “Caring and supporting you, will be the ones who will (That Thing called Stress !!!) stress and be unhelpful for you to heal”!

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Its difficult to tell what to do in this situations as for each person the circumstances are different, as well as for each person the strength of the mind also is different. So anytime you do feel overly stressed and unable to handle them alone, and/or, if your low moods do not go away, please do go and see a doctor and get help. In some countries You are able to go to psychiatrist itself. In some countries, “You have to first go to a GP. Usually the method is to go to a GP “(general practitioner) ~ In the medical profession, a general practitioner (GP) is a medical doctor who treats acute and chronic illnesses and provides preventive care and health education to patients” ~ Courtesy of the I net!

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As that will avoid a long and unnecessary suffering to you and, to so many people, who depend on you too sometimes in your family. Above all your life is valuable and your health is a very important part of it. And you alone have to know where to draw the line and safe guard and take care of yourself. Its your life and you are the caretaker of Yourself no one else 🙂

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Whether it is mild or severe, pain is pain in different amounts. And when it comes to Healing from ~ Depression !, we have to let our feelings of stress out, meaning speak out and discuss with the counselors, doctors and therapists or who ever you are dealing with. Also you need to discuss with your closest, and that is your family members, as they are the people whom you come across almost daily, and the most important people that need to know what is going on with you, as otherwise they will not know how to support you ❤ ~ Healing ~ Trauma !

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I know sometimes how hard it is when you cannot get over the low mood. It seems to go on, but know that, “You can control enough and get over with, “Counselling and Psychotherapy ! and Medication”. I am writing like this is because “I have overcome Depression and Mood Disorder” over time with all this, and working on myself, with “Dedication over time with Patience”. It may seem a hard and difficult task when you feel down, but TRUST me if I have become better, so “Can You” But You need to “Be Strong and Kind and Patient with Yourself” You may or may not have help from your family and friends to support you, but understand again, “That those who have not gone through, are unable to fully understand how and what You feel, and You might feel not supported, “But you can try and explain yourself or even much better, “To get your doctor or your counsellor to explain to them. In the mean time have “Faith and Patience in Yourself ❤

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At the times You feel well enough, try and read self help books, or go through the Online Psychological Therapy ! I net to find answers and advice too from good sites. At times try to relax and even take a nap, if you don’t feel like doing anything, it may be you need to rest so give in and try to sleep. You will relax and feel better. I know there will be those who advice You with all good intentions, like doing a (Things We Love to Do!) Hobby. But When we cannot even think straight or eat properly, “How can one do a Hobby? You can if you already have one and/or feel up to it. “The important thing is to find something that you will, “Really Like to Do” ❤

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It can be drawing, painting, even housework or cooking your favourite dish, or anything that will distract you and make you, “Look forward in Doing”. Or it can be simple as, (We Each have Our Own Path!)” Just sitting and looking out of the window at the sky to see how the clouds go by and the birds fly or how the moon comes up and the stars”. Know and follow what works best for You ❤

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I have now realized that with medical help of counselling and medication, and on our part if we work hard on becoming well with, “Dedication, Persistence and Perseverance”, We can make progress in getting over most of the effects of trauma and, “Ultimately learn to put back the past and lead a happy life”. Why don’t you try it too ❤ I wish you so and have Strength and Patience to do so ❤

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Thanking https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wikipedia, The I net, and https://www.clipart.com/en/ for the posts I have taken ❤

Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies to You ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa Nilamani 🙂

You are Stronger than You Think!

Deepa 1Hello To My Dear Readers ❤

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I have thought of some posts to life your mood anytime you need a little boost ❤

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This is a Beautiful video about, “Hope” please do watch it, and the Music is Beautiful and uplifting too ❤

I Hope all these will Be Helpful at times when you feel alone and/or when your feel a little dim. Trust me, if you can listen to some uplifting music, (as doing other things might too much for you, at certain times). it really helps, it does for me. If you can listen a little loud all the better 😛 but of course it might be you have to listen through the headphones, not to disturb the others, I do Love Music and when I am listening I listen through the headphones, if you like to dance or do some movements even better 😛 As dancing relaxes you and get all the Happy Hormones to work This is a Beautiful video I was sent by a friend and now I am passing on for those who will like and to pass it on for your friends and Loved ones for them to feel Good too ❤

Always Remember You Matter and Keep Going The World Needs You 🙂 ❤

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You must know that, You need not be very beautiful, rich or famous, just as you are, “You are a Valuable Human Being” ❤

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Thank You for reading. I hope you will give out your own views? You may share/or pass it on for others benefit too. Those who like poetry may check on my personal website:https://deepanilamani.com/ ❤

Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies to You ❤

Thanking the I net for the posts I have taken ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa Nilamani 🙂

To My Happiness Family!

Hello To All My Dear Readers ❤

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Hope All of you are well and moving along in life well. Today I am writing a different and special article. This is on a request from, “My Happiness Family from Happiness Quotes from Face Book: https://www.facebook.com/DeepaNilamaniMotivation/  ~ to “Re write some of the things I have been writing” as I have not been writing freely as those days. It is true that I have changed as I moved on with time, but that is not only because of time, but mainly because”Certain individuals have disturbed me tremendously, reading what I write and attacking me on the points I wrote, that I have been cautious the way I write” and lost that certain, “Trend” As one needs to feel free to write how one feels. I am Extremely Grateful to them for their “Concern and Caring”, for trying to uplift me and bring my style of writing back. These people are complete strangers, I have never met or even seen most of them on my page. Shows that, “Although there are those who are vicious and wicked, “There are Good Caring souls too”. They are All Very Much Blessed with Healing Energies that I have acquired (since 2016) And I wish them, “To Heal and Be Well and Happy in Their Lives” ❤

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***So this is some of it from an old post 🙂
“Got into my writing mood as I have some Happy News too 😉 I know when I post some quotes, there have been doubts about being really Happy at all times and also when you do Good things it doesn’t come back the same way and so on…..I have been dealing all these questions and doubts when I write with My Knowledge and “True Life Experiences ~ Mine 😀 so what else do you want? As most of the old Happy friends are aware here 🙂
No its not possible to be in High moods all the time, life is such we do go through many ups and downs, in different ways and time which is a Common factor to all of us. And as I have been writing posting how we deal with is with, “Hope and Faith” and above all the most difficult thing, “Patience” until things move/shift in your favour which even I find it difficult to deal with 😛

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Well this is Good News to Bring back that “Hope and Faith” and also Proof that being “Patient” things do come right and at the Correct Time. What??? well I have to keep you all in suspense a little bit more until I really get going 🙂
A New Door has opened for me to go to another Level and Spread My Wings to Share My Knowledge and Experiences with more people for their Benefit which I had wanted to do All through out My Life. That is, I have started my very own website: https://iammypath.com/about/ And Happiness Quotes has been Like a Stepping Stone and “I have to Thank Each and Everyone of You for your Support by Liking my page Commenting and Encouraging me to go on even when I have been fussing sometimes. I too have learnt a lot by answering and dealing with your questions and Yes I will be doing this along with my website too. I do Love My Happy Family don’t you know 😀 ❤

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Life works in a mysterious way. I uplifted myself while doing, Happiness Quotes” and now, “They are trying to uplift me, knowing that, I have been facing a lot of challenges and being stressed and upset. I am extremely “Grateful” Yes its that what is taking me on to the next Level of My Life so will it be for you all too. “Being Grateful makes You Happy and being Happy makes You More Happy” 🙂

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So You All Can follow me on my Journey, along this website in detail, to see how I am moving along. Life is Not a smooth path, although we like it to be. You can see what I have gone through, but I still have Faith and I Believe, “That when you do anything with Loving Kindness and A Good Heart, Life will Begin to ~ Work in Favour of You” ❤

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After all, “Somehow I seems to have ~ Jumped Back in Years, not only my Physical strength But also become Stronger than Ever before, and most importantly ~ “Blessed being connected to ~ Energy of The Universe” ~ which I have been able to Heal and also it can go to others to Be Healed” only “The Healing Energy will go where it is needed and Just like, “Light it will spread out, and cannot be blocked from anyone receiving” For this, you need to know that, one need to have “Loving Kindness in Your Heart to be able to receive” ❤

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What I can say at this time is, That while things are happening, sometimes one cannot see any sense, But looking back one can see a pattern, it is like a, “Jigsaw puzzle ~ each phase put in and making a picture” Difficult to know while it it is happening but if you look at this picture, You will be able to understand I am sure ❤

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Again, “With All what I have gone through, “I have Faith”. I go out alone to buy my food and to attend to, day to day things in my life and, “I Believe by sticking to what is correct, “I am being protected by “God Almighty, The Higher Powers or The Universe” ~ how ever You may believe in” So ending this article, I like you also to Trust the process ~ as if sometimes you cannot change how things are happening at that Time, what else can you do, other than face life as Best as Possible ~ with Faith, Strength and Courage ❤

Thank you for reading. I hope you enjoyed reading what I have written, and also learnt something new, or remembered things You already new. Please do share or/and, pass it on for others also who can make use of this article. Lots of Love and Hugs from Me ❤

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Those who are interest in poetry, can have a little peak on my personal website: https://deepanilamani.com/

Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies coming your way ❤

Thank You Very Much for The Video from The YouTube ❤

Thanking for the posts taken from the I net ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa Nilamani 🙂

My Life Up To Now – January 2018!

Deepa 1Hello To All My Dear Readers ❤

Although my story was going to come out at a later date with other news, how things are happening in my life right now, “I have received guidance to write it now and here”!
I have come a long way from being ill, and why I started this blog with many supporting me, is to help others with what I have learnt along the way. Although we rely on medication and the doctors, a very big part is in our hands, as the doctors do not live with us, they have their own life too! They see us only for a short time, and it is we who know what is going on with us in daily life, and what will work best for us. The whole world knows, how serious mental issues are, the sad part is not only those who are ignorant but there are people who, “Knowingly hurt and disturb those who are gone or going through issues” After going through such an ordeal I have raised my head up, being kind and helpful to so many, now “I have to face destructive, negative beings who are trying to use everything possible to disturb and upset me”!

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I do not know how many of you face this kind of situation? To come across those who have no feelings and, “Take joy in destroying and upsetting others”? There are many reasons for people to become mentally ill. This is through long term stress and trauma, also injustice and all kinds of abuse as well as disasters from mother nature. There are those who give their hand when people fall, unfortunately there are some who try to push you down further, as what I have been facing for some time!

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In the world there are all sorts of people. The kind and soft, the wicked and harsh. The fact is wickedness is a result of an evil mind, which produces evil thoughts and words. Thoughts are energy and evil thoughts produce a very strong negative force that begins to act against the normal way the body works. The body begins to make toxins, instead of good chemicals. “A toxin is a poisonous substance produced within living cells or organisms. It simply means, “It is a biologically produced poison” This poison begins to eat up the body from the inside and until it comes out as diseases that cannot be detected, and then it is too late. It is like the, “Termites, eating away – destroying another will destroy oneself” Even when it is happening sadly some cannot stop their wickedness!

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Healing is, physical, mental, emotional and spiritual all together. How I have healed is giving attention to all of these. And now well on the way on my spiritual path, and I have advanced myself on it. In order to achieve the higher knowledge you need to free up your mind. The material world is full of greed and unrest. You cannot balance your chakra’s and develop the third eye if you hang on to things. What ever I have not been given, held back I have let gone, and actually they are nothing once you gain the higher knowledge, as once you achieve it, you receive things that money cannot buy. It is true that we need money, but money is only needed to pay for the essentials. There are many things that money cannot buy, like “Good Health”, and illnesses money cannot cure. “The biggest Wealth is Health” And I have achieved that health. “I have been pushed right to the bottom through *Wickedness*, and I have Bounced back – Through meditation and prayers. I am able to, “Receive energy from The Universe and no one can take it away as it is a, “Gift from God”. I have gained it through, “Sheer hard work, Dedication and Sacrifice” ~ (Which comes down the Generations, from My Great Grand Father and Grand Father for which I am very Thankful and Grateful, as all this time I have kept silent. As I am not known personally to clear any doubts This is the Link that You may check their details are there:https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/G._P._Wickramarachchi)
I am No more a Survivor but “I Have Survived and ready to Guide others with Blessings from “Almighty God, The Higher Powers, The Universe” ❤

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If ever you come across situations like this, having to face selfish and cruel people, who ill treat you and try to disturb your life, know that, there is always help from above. It is said that, “When all else fail people turn to religion” This is true as when there is nothing else to do, we sit and pray and ask for divine intervention. And know that you will get it. Justice will always come. You must NEVER LOOSE HOPE. As long as you are in the right, you will get help in the way of strength and guidance in knowing how to go about your life. Always have Hope and Faith also Patience until life turns in your favour. It will ❤

Today I was especially guided for some reason, as I did not intend writing this article, and I am Grateful to Almighty God, The Higher Powers and The Universe for the guidance. I am Blessed ❤

Thank you for reading, and take inspiration and also I hope you learnt something new. You may share or pass it on with those who can make use of what I have written ❤

Thanking for the picture quotes taken from the I net and the sites ❤

Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies from me ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa Nilamani 🙂

End of A Very Long Journey !

Deepa 1Hello To All My Dear Readers 🙂

First of all let me wish All My Dear Readers A Very Happy New Year 🙂

Thank you all for coming to my blog and liking and supporting me. When you read and appreciate, I feel what I write help in some way that I am encouraged to do more and better. Since I wrote my last article there has been questions as to how I managed to recover from depression, and what I did. So this includes answers to some of those questions and some may be what I have written before, but then as time goes they are with added knowledge and experiences!!!
I waited a little as the mind takes a very long time to clear out of all Trauma you went through, to be able to start to remember exactly what happened to you, that over stressed you and made you mentally ill. One can compare the mind to a muddy glass of water clearing up, as the mud particles settles down, the mind too start to clear to be settled enough to write your story!!!

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Until you really clear your mind, that is to say until you get over most of the pain, you sort of need to keep away from the places and people who upset you. This is not to say close the door and stay in the room or isolate yourself, but at this time if you have a lot of time for yourself to rest and think clearly without others disturbing your thought pattern you can get back in to your own way of doing things much quicker. Just like covering a physical wound, we need to safe guard our minds too from outside disturbances until it becomes well!!!

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Why you need a good environment is, in the silence you hear yourself. You are really able to understand what works best to you to feel happy and relaxed !

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You also need to let go of people and situations that keeps on digging at your heart and hurting and making you sad. I know we cannot just pack a bag and leave. What I mean is if you cannot move away physically, you need to start letting go/detaching yourself from all that mentally. When you detach yourself from the mind, automatically you are able to have less disturbance from those that hurt you !

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I have been writing that in life, challenges come for us to face them get over them and become stronger and move on to the next level. The reason why we get hurt and upset is, “We take what happens extremely personally, thinking they happen only to us” But each person crosses our path for a reason. They all carry some message, good or bad. I know we being ordinary human beings, its difficult to face extreme harsh and cruel things that happens to our lives. But, a very big but, “somehow if we take them as messengers that crosses our path” we are better able to handle the situations in a much better way. There is no one in the world who has Not gone through any kind of pain or hardship. One thing I have to say is, many think that mental conditions happen through relationships only. But it can be anything. Major events that mother earth throws at us like, volcanoes, floods and earth quakes where people lose family, friends, houses and money, also failing exams, losing jobs all contribute to becoming very ill!!!

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Once you realize this, everything begin to fall into place and you see a pattern that has been happening, and you begin to heal slowly but surely 🙂

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Once you begin to heal you don’t want to be wasting time talking about all the negative things that happened to you in the past. Its how it happened to me. I felt I had lost so much time and I started catching up. I did two short courses. The first one on, Personal Development from which I learnt so much about people’s behaviors and how to face them. The second one on, Natural Health and Healing that I expanded my knowledge about healing the natural way. Now on going, “A Diploma in Psychology which has opened my eyes in a very different light and discovering so much about the human mind. I have to say its the best thing that happened to me” So all of them boosted my inner growth and turned me around and brought back that confidence and strength in me. I can say I have bounced back stronger. We all have to keep on trying. If we try hard enough, “We all can make progress well enough to lead a good life” 🙂

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Once we take our lives in to our hands and do what makes us happy, then our soul comes alive again and then we have healed. Yes you need medical help. That you definitely have to have and medications what has to help you. But there is a very big part in your hands, as its you who is always with you and knows exactly what is happening. Everyone can help, But ultimately, Healing is in the hands of the person who is unwell 🙂

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It has been a very long journey, and finally I have healed myself from my mental pains. You need to educate yourself so as to become wise. The sixth sense, also called the third eye helps you to know how life works. Through all that you, Find the “Truth” The answers to why certain things happened to you and around you. But you don’t need to run after those who have hurt and harmed you. You have wasted enough time. You forgive not for the other person, but yourself, and move on with your life. “Punishment comes to those who do wrong, not once, But over and over again, knowing that they are doing the wrong thing” ***Human beings have no excuse as they have so much of education and guidance from the day they are born to help them lead good lives***Human life is so valuable and it’s a pity that some think its only they need to live well and to hurt and harm others. Still that is life, and we need to learn our lessons and move on. The beauty of it is, “As survivors we become, “Better and stronger people to give a helping hand to others to stand up”. There by our lives becomes Peaceful and Blessed. Things that money cannot buy!!!

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I hope everyone who reads will at least find one answer to their questions, and learnt something new to help you. If you know of others who might benefit from what I have written, Please do share or pass it on. Thank you for reading ❤

Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies from me ❤

Thanking for the pictures taken from the I net ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You All ❤

Deepa Nilamani 🙂

Courage to Heal ~ Depression !

Deepa 1Hello To All My Dear Readers ❤

Hope all of you are keeping well and Happy. And some of you looking forward to holidays and Christmas celebrations. End of 2016 and going to be a new year too. For me it marks, “Three years free of depression and four years free of mood disorder/bipolar” Now that I know I am free from depression, I thought of writing what I know and how, “I did and what I am doing to remain free and positive” 🙂
From my experiences over about 17 years what I have realized is, “That it’s We that need to really want to change for the better. We alone have to say enough is enough I want to somehow come out of this mess and lead a better life. For this we need Courage To Change and then work towards improving our lives to make it work for us” 🙂

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Once you decide to Heal, other factors come in like, Counselling and Medication, according what type of issues you have. You don’t have to feel bad or ashamed to go for counselling or to a doctor regarding mental issues as, “The Mind is in the Body and not a part outside” Its those who think otherwise, who have to be ashamed of as, “They are ignorant” on this matter, as so many are having mental issues just as much as physical illnesses. When we are born we have the right to live free and in peace. And if this doesn’t happen we cannot sit in one place and wait, we have to get up and move towards what we want to do and to lead a good life. That is our right as human beings. If you think of what others might say then your whole life, you have to live in the darkness!!!

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This is very true for most of us, and some of you might know this is what happened or this is what you also did. There comes a point, for anything, a limit for tolerance or for being patient what you are going through, or even what someone or some others are doing to you. The above can be for anything. A situation in life, like a relationship , a job or even regarding your health 🙂

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When it comes to me, I feel it’s a pity that so many suffer long term. I know each person it can be different. But in this modern world in many countries, so much of medical help is available. There are reading materials, relaxation programs and so much centered on human wellness. I firmly believe that so many can, if not fully recover at least go as far as to keep them under control to lead normal and happy life. Try. Try. Try ❤

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I have gone through a lot. Naturally, or else I wont get depressed and stay that long. The fact is with medical help, time and knowledge gained, you understand and realize so many things that didn’t realize the times you were under stress. When my mind began to settle, it slowly dawned to me the things that I went through, and suddenly it hit me. Its compared to the light bulb effect. As its like suddenly someone switched on a light and you see things clearly. Did that happen to me ? Did I go through all that and how ? I got so much of mixed feelings, of sadness even anger why it was not really explained to me, what it was all about. If I was educated I would have understood what was going on with me, and would made it much easier to manage and would have not gone on for such a long time. But then I realized that in life there is a pattern and each incident had followed each other. This is the best way as, “Once you accept what happened to you, only then you can let go and change” 🙂

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In a way, “The mind is a very fascinating and mysterious thing” As how I was seeing or realizing was like step by step. As if everything came together it would have been too much for my mind. Actually this is how break downs happens, when so many stressful things fall on to you at once, that you have no time to get over from one before the other thing or things happen. And for a few days I was like in shock remembering the things that I went through and in wonder how I got through it all. But then I discovered the, “Most important thing about healing”, “The Day You Realize ~ It was Not Your Fault, “Is The Day” ~ “You really Begin To Heal” ❤

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This is what I realized. As almost all of us get mentally sick or ill because of stressful things that happen to us or grief and pain given to us by others. It becomes too much for the mind that, “It gives up” It cannot function the normal way so all sorts of funny things happen to us. This is the time the doctors and counselors play a big part, with medical help. There is much to write about different counselling and how that suits ones personality. That will come in another article. For now today its 4th of December 2016, “I can very safely say that I have become well from depression” and that there is so much of Hope for any of you who read this. Again I need to add that a very big part of it is in your hands too. As its, “Your Life for You to be Happy” 🙂

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Its a very big achievement for me. So many tell this, above all I am Happy for myself. As in life, basically we are only for ourselves. Meaning it’s we that know what is best for us. Sometimes even our closest family fail to understand or able to support us exactly how it helps as they cannot fully understand what’s going on in our minds !!!
Why I started my blog is to, “Encourage and give Hope and Faith”that you can become well or to keep under control, is possible to most illnesses. And You Must Believe and have Faith and work towards making your life Happy 🙂

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Thank you for reading. All what I want is to hear and know is, what I write here help those of you who read, to lead better, happier and healthier life styles. If I am able to  know that it will make me also very happy. Please do let me know how you feel in the comment box below ❤
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Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies from me 🙂

Thanking for the posts taken from the I net ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa Nilamani 🙂

How To Deal With Toxic People !

Deepa 1Hello To All My Dear Readers ❤

Hope all of you are keeping well. You will notice that I am not a person who writes daily or even weekly for that matter. One thing I started this to write My Journey, so I cannot let others write articles here, so it has to be in my own time and when I do collect enough material in my head to put it out. Also I believe in having few good friends, and doing things in a scale that I can manage. Not to impress or to be popular but, to give out work of Value. I am extremely methodical, hence I like to have everything around me working specifically in a pattern that agrees with my personality. This is how I believe that I overcame depression in the first place. No matter what, I forged on ahead “working to my way of life, (opposed to what happened, that brought me on to be over stressed and depressed in the first place)  but Not really hurting another. I just adhered to what worked for me the best way 🙂
I have to explain, that I can only interact with my other blogging family, when I am relaxed. I get over stressed reading too long or things that are Not relevant to me. I like to read through so that I can read and give a proper/helpful comment. I do not like to do or say thing just for the sake of it. Right now I am having I net issues due to the storm season in Aussie, so working with a very limited/slow I net. So please excuse me for being quiet with you all, until it comes back to normal ❤

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This topic is an issue that has been going around me, as well as a common topic to everyone. I waited until I felt I knew enough to put forth an article that will help many of you hopefully 🙂

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All this is Very True. But in life there are many people that we cannot just break off or walk away. As even with the positive people there can be some negativity sometimes. Since I wrote the last article, “Tests In Life” I experimented with the same person and others around me. We all know that there are some who are very positive and some who can be very negative. As in life we cannot find perfection as ourselves we are not perfect. There will be very few that we might have to completely keep away, but how much can we keep away or walk off in life ? Can we go into box and close ourselves. There are so many toxic people among all walks of life, among all the people listed above. After all the experiences I have had, I came to the conclusion, that we can never get away fully from anyone really. We can Never fully erase or shut out anyone in our lives. Yes we can reduce  our times around them and arm ourselves with more protection 🙂

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We all know we cannot change other’s. Not even our very own children. The saying that, “You can lead a horse to the water but, you cannot make it to drink applies to everyone. Even ourselves” How ever much we try to do, sometimes there is a time for us, and also for others to change. But we ? On our own, “We have the great opportunity of learning and Changing for the Better ~ for the Happiness and Joy of our own Lives” That is the Luck/Good Fortune to be born a human being.  We are able to learn and alter our ways to the best of our ability for the goodness of not only our lives, but for the welfare of others too. If You can come to this level then, “You have reached a far more superior level than the normal human beings” You have even changed your Destiny for the better to a certain amount. But be aware, then you can become one of the minority, the odd one out who might be considered almost like an alien by some 😛 But you know what you are doing and where you are going and who You are. We don’t change to please others. We change for the better. For our lives to be better and Live Happier is it not?

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All these Tests and Challenges come for us to grow stronger and wiser which leads to better quality of life. Which all will not understand. Sometimes even we do not at that time. It will be only later when we look back we can see a pattern and how far we have come and why we have gone through all that 🙂

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All these are Very True isn’t it ? The other thing that I have to explain is, There is a saying that, “The closer you are to God the more tests are given. You can take it as anyway as it has been written, “If you are developed spiritually, the more responsible you are, the more challenges you come across. That is for all of us to learn our lessons, and be thorough to move along the road of experience ❤
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I hope you enjoyed reading this article and learnt something new or remembered something you already knew. Or even confirmed certain things you were not sure of. Please pass it on or share for others to benefit too. Thanks a lot for reading 🙂 ❤

Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies from me ❤

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May God’s Blessings be Upon You ❤

Deepa Nilamani 🙂