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My Story Matters!

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Hope All My Readers, Followers and Blogging friends “All Over The World are Keeping in Good Health and staying safe”. At the end of “The Collection of All the Posts I have written” I thought of writing a post to finish off this “Series”. Looking back, How much I have “Advanced and Moved forward” in “My Health and also in Upgrading My Knowledge” ❤
What I wanted was “To write in My pen name “Deepa Nilamani” on “My Journey on getting back to Good Health. And to show The world “That it is possible for those who were in “Low Moods also not only to recover fully, or Take medication and counselling and, even to be able to, “Study and get back to Good Health” and Lead a Life of Respect and Dignity!

So “How it became, I am My Path and How “My Story Mattered” 🙂


We all have “A purpose in Life” Unique to each one of us “According to our Personality. So Our Journey or Life Story Matters. All Our Dreams are Important. Our Voice matters “To Encourage and Uplift others Moods and Spirits. We are All Born to Ty our Very Best and “Do what ever we can “Make The Society, The World “A Better Place” ❤



I was not all that certain, “How well or not people would Like to Read or Follow”! Impatient to see at least few Likes, Comments and for a Few Websites to “Make Their Appearances”!
Slowly but surely There came a few Readers, E Mail Followers and Websites began to add up. Up to date of just “Five and a half years, I can say “My Story has and does Matter”
I am so Very Grateful and Thankful, “To All those who have Encouraged, Guided and Advised Me” So that I could and Have given “Faith and Hope” to so many, in becoming Well and Lead A Better Life in Good Health, Happier ❤

Latest Update: 20th of February 2021. This is “The 149th Post” and with the “Introductory Page this will be all in Total up to date, 150 posts. On Top Right Hand side you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, You will see will see The word “Home” All the posts from “The Very Beginning comes ~ Under “Home”. Which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

The old Topics are, “On The Left Hand side “Under the, “Recent Posts” with “The New Topics adding up. “It will be too long to post so many number of posts on the side. You can “Click and see all The older Topics” “Under “ARCHIVES” and “Under CATERGORIES” Try “To Move around the site and find. “That is also “Part of Educating Yourself further”. So far I have Not seen any other site post so much clearly ❤

I am Moving on as usual with “My Own Journey of Wellness, Encouraging and Healing” So that Everyone can have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” To Lead a Better Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy”. If you click on the Link You can Read This Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!


It is all free”. You can share and pass it on also for others who can benefit from this post. I hope All those who Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so as, ”Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in Life ❤

Sending Love, Light and Healing Energies Your Way ❤

May God’s Blessings Be On Your Way ❤

Deepa Nilamani ❤


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Happiness!

Hello To All My Dear Readers ❤

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I thought of writing about Happiness now, “As we need to live in Happiness” I am Posting some simple pictures and quotes as its good to see some simple pictures instead of serious reading all the time 🙂

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These are everyday happenings, it is not “Everyone who will like House work” For those who like to keep a nice house, “House work also is Therapeutic” (Helps the mind to relax) ❤

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5th June 2020. Here is the latest Video of Guitar Music from Cosimo Antitosomo from Italy Mondragone. His playing “The Guitar”. You can see “The sea, like all the elements of nature, has a voice, let’s stop sometimes to listen to it…Mondragone, the sea, the dunes (Sand).  
“These are people from Face Book. I have never met so far, but with similar interests, as I also “Love Music” I get them free, he posts them on his Face Book and also on “My Messenger” when he composes (writes a new piece)” You can “Click on it watch and listen free. They are also on You Tube Free. He likes when people listen to his playing “The Guitar”. Enjoy ❤

There are lots of little things like this below, and similar things depending where you live. Some like to walk on the Beach, watch the sea and the waves, pick flowers and put in vases at home or little ones play with them, some like to have a pet, some like to watch raining. Some are Happy when they get letters or cards by post. It doesn’t have to be very same things which you will enjoy ❤

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See Many thing that you can “Draw, sketch by pencils and Paint also like the ones below 🙂Different 11 (3)

It can be things that You eat, play go for walks, read books about what they like, go on trips, also “Imagination also work fine, even if we cannot go to the moon 😀

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Hope You like the pictures. Just looking at pictures also Relaxing. Keep well and Take Care of yourself” ❤

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May 14th 2020: Up to date with “This article which is The 123rd and The Introductory page. I have Published 124 posts. On Top Right Hand side Top you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, You will see will see The word “Home” All the posts from “The Very Beginning comes, “Under “Home”. Which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

What I am doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Moving forward Writing My Own Journey in Wellness. Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy. It is in this post if you click on the Link: Taking The Therapists Voice Forward!

These days, “I am Editing and Updating almost, “All The Posts” from The Very Beginning”. It can be, “A New Chapter and A New Beginning”. Upgrading Myself to A New Wave Length. A New Chapter in My Life and I Wish so for You also ❤


The old Topics will be “On The Left Hand side “Under the, “Recent Posts” with “The New Topics adding up. “The Balance will be Under “ARCHIVES” ~ As with Many Topics adding up, The line is Too Long”. Also Click and Look Under, “Under CATERGORIES” Happy Reading and Keep Yourself Positive ❤

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The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to other different posts of Mine which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing” 🙂 you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/

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“It is all free”. You can Take print outs, share and pass it on also for others who can benefit from this posts. I hope All those Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so as, ”Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in Life” ❤ 🙂 ❤
Happy 3Thanking The I net for the Picture posts and https://www.online-image-editor.com/ for the “Thank You Picture” I have written and done ❤

Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies from me ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa 100Deepa Nilamani 🙂

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Celebrate Life!

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Celebrate 1Hope all of you are well and Happy 🙂 I am taking a good rest after all the writing of 92 articles on my website here. I hope all those who are following and reading have made use of what I have written and moved on to the next levels in your life. I am hoping to keep this simple as I am really relaxing by getting back to reading, I have not been reading much although I have kept on buying books and magazines. There are lots of sales and books are reduced from to time which I find quite a lot  of good books that go cheap 🙂

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Also eating very Healthy and Sleeping long hours, as its winter time now here in Aussie and very good time to sleep long hours. Eating, drinking and taking in nourishing food, with rest and relaxation helps us to make up for the over worked hours and burning lot of calories in the process 🙂

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Well I am cooking mostly at home healthy food eat and drinking nourishing hot soups, that is keeping me warm and strong. You don’t need expensive things to eat well ❤

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The basic things and fruits and vegetables that are in season you can find out and they are sold cheap. Especially for soups you can put in a lot of cheap vegetables. We need to be Healthy physically as well as mentally as both body and mind need to be fit and strong to lead a strong and healthy life 🙂

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I have also slowly got back to the other websites to connect again and see what all my blogging friends are up to. As they have been reading and commenting, and I have not been that alert to keep up with what they have been up to! I did not think of writing another article so soon, but I saw one of my blogging friends saying he is very stressed and needs relaxing, that this topic came into my mind ❤

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Writing is also Relaxing and Therapeutic, making use of my time writing here for myself and others benefit which I am really enjoying as there is no rush or time limit, if one does it in their own time quietly. If you click this link you can read This post ~ All About Writing  !  ❤

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I am just maintaining my little garden, as it is not possible to stay out in the cold and wet winter weather. So I am rearranging the inside, keeping my natural plants to the minimum and adding some artificial plants, as it is not possible to have delicate natural plants when you need to heat up inside 🙂

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I  am not one for going out too much especially when it is wet and cold and even otherwise unless I want to do my basic shopping and if I have some other issue to attend to. Which leaves a lot of free time to maintain my home and do all my hobbies and lead a relaxing and life. I used to draw and paint, those days but now I have begun to do to colouring to relax. This is one of mindful colouring that I have done sometime back, when I take a break doing something different 🙂

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I am watching some good TV programs on different subjects where my mind moves on to a different track as well as adding different words ( Words Words and Words ! ) to my vocabulary, which also helps, “Not to think of the same subjects ~ which I find again relaxes my mind” Has any of you have had this experience I wonder?

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I am also listening to good classical music and listening to good sounds. Listening to music can decrease anxiety, speed Healing, Increase Optimism and decrease pain. Babies know from Happy from sad songs. As young as 5 months can distinguish (recognize) an upbeat tune such as, “An Ode to Joy” from Beethoven’s 9th symphony. “Sound is a nutrient for the nervous system. Love Your ears …..they are much more important than you ever realized.” ~ Prof. Dr. Alfred Tomati ❤

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The Mozart Effect: It’s been thought that listening to classical music, particularly Mozart, enhances performance on “Cognitive tests. However, recent findings show the listening to any music that is personally enjoyable has positive effects on cognition!

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Listening to good music can make you learn better and has the power to enhance some kind of higher brain function, such as reading and literacy skills, spatial-tempered reasoning, emotional intelligence and mathematical abilities – even children with attention deficit/hyperactivity disorder benefit in mathematics tests from listening to music beforehand ❤

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Exercise your wheels of thinking and you would know what this word means. In simple terms, cognition refers to the process of thinking. It is the identification of knowledge, of understanding it and perceiving it. The most common references of cognition that one would find would be in psychology and philosophy. One would do well to read on cognitive psychology (defined as the psychological study of higher mental processes, including thinking and perception).
The dictionary definitions for cognition are as follows: 1. The mental process of knowing, including aspects such as awareness, perception, reasoning, and judgment. (noun) 2. That which comes to be known, as through perception, reasoning, or intuition; knowledge. (noun)
Masters Tip to remember Cognition: Our simple reference guide for this:
Process of cognition = Process of thinking. This is the simplified and practical meaning for this word with the strange feeling ~ https://wordpandit.com/cognition/

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Healing Powers: Music can help to stimulate/activate the mind, ‘Boost Creative Energies”, and are associated with “Dreaming, Learning and Relaxing”. The key to Boosting Creative Energies is to Listen to the type of music “You Enjoy” the most!

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If You want more “Inspiration, in Language and Mathematics” it would make sense to listen to “Music with Singing”, while “Music without words”, stimulates more “Artistic and Visual Senses” ❤
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After I Relax and Re-Energize I have to plan out for the next chapter. Learning from the past experiences, the mind automatically prepares how to move forward in future. Although we don’t realize, looking back we can see how far we have come and we need to, “Rejoice the fact of doing well and Celebrate our achievements big or small”. In doing so, we, “Encourage ourselves to ~ Do better” Because it is “US” that know how much “Time, Energy, Effort even Money we have put in” So we are the only people to “Appreciate and Acknowledge what we have Achieved” and in doing so, “We Enhance the Gifts the Talents” we already have and move on to, “A Higher platform, A Higher level to do better for Ourselves and for Others” 🙂

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“I do Hope You also Enhance the Gifts and the Talents You already have and able to move on to, “A Higher Level in Your Life, to do better for Yourself and for Others too”. Then I will be “The Happiest”. Then there will be ” A Lot of Happy People Every Where” and in turn “To make A Lot of Happy People in The World Every Where” 🙂

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*Latest Update 6th March 2020:I am Editing and Updating All The Posts from The Very Beginning”. This is My Birthday and, “A New Chapter and A New Beginning”. I am Moving on. I have Learnt lot of New Things and Upgrading Myself to “A New Wave Length ~ A New Chapter” in My Life and I Wish so for You also. Please click this Link which will take You to My Birthday Post Birthday!

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Up to date with the Birthday article 111th and The Introductory page: I have Published 112 posts on This Website. On Top Right Hand side you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, You will see will see The word “Home” Which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

The old Topics will be “On The Left Hand side “Under the, “Recent Posts” with “The New Topics adding up. “The Balance will be Under “ARCHIVES” ~ As with Many Topics adding up, The line is Too Long”. Also Click and Look Under, “Under CATERGORIES” Happy Reading and Keep Yourself Positive ❤

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What I am doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and writing about My Own Journey in Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy. If You click on this Link in Green You can read this Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

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The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts of Mine which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I do” 🙂 you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/ ❤

“It is all free”. You can “Down load. Take print outs, share and pass it on also for others who can benefit from this posts. I hope All those Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so as, ”Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in Life”. Any questions or comments are most welcome 🙂 ❤ 🙂

Thanking the I net, and other sites, for the posts and pictures I have taken and https://www.online-image-editor.com/ for the posts I have written myself ❤

Sending Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies To You ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You <<3

Deepa 1Deepa Nilamani 🙂

 
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Trust Your Journey!

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I am writing about a Very Long Journey. When one is “Honest and Truthful” you happen to produce “Good Thoughts resulting in Good Words and Deeds”. The “Heart being Pure with Loving Kindness” the reason that makes one look younger and also, “Healthy Physically and Mentally”. All this makes it possible to fall in line with, “The Universe” that I am able to, “Receive ~ “Healing Energy to my Hands” and also my feet too, “There are two energy centers in our feet too” One needs to be “Very Pure and Authentic for the Universal Energy to flow through” ❤

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Being authentic is very important. The meaning of Authentic: ~ genuine, real, veritable, and lack of falsehood or misrepresentation. Authentic carries the connotation of authoritative confirmation that things or people are what they are claimed or appear to be” ~ Courtesy of the I net ❤

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I have gone through many challenging situations, where I was wondering, “How these things happened when I was already Receiving Healing Energy” but my belief in that, “Those who live according to, “The Laws of The Universe were in turn would be Protected by them” did come in to be, so somehow I have managed to hold on to “Faith” and Life has begun to work in my favour again ❤

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As I was moving on there were and are signs, messages that came to me, it can be so with others too, only one has to be sharp and aware and alert, to observe how and when one falls in line with, “The Universe” One is the, “Time showing certain numbers that fall in line”. When you happen to look each time getting more and more. Now Suddenly I looked up and my clock showed this time now, it is 1.11 A.M now as I am writing this article. This is falling in line with, “The Universal Time” according to Numerology. This has been happening at other times also and it it can show in different times too like 3.33, 4.44 or in numbers that are relevant to you according to each persons Birthday and month too. Something else: I only have these two Digital clocks as I don’t like the clocks going “Tick Tick” Even the phone is silent and there is no any sounds in my home unless when I want to see the TV or Listen to Devotional Prayers or Music 😀

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11:11(numerology): Some numerologists and New Age philosophies believe that events linked to the time 11:11 appear more often than can be explained by chance or coincidence and is an example of synchronicity. Some authors claim that seeing 11:11 on a clock is an auspicious sign.
Synchronicity (GermanSynchronizität) is a concept, first introduced by analytical psychologist Carl Jung, which holds that events are “meaningful coincidences” During his career, Jung furnished several different definitions of it. Jung defined synchronicity ~ The I net

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One day as I was going round in a shop looking at things, my eyes suddenly came across this picture, “Trust Your Journey”, that I bought, it is just a ordinary picture not an expensive painting. I have hung this in the sitting room and while I am working and writing these articles on my laptop. I am looking at it even now as, it is on the wall in front of me!

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Although I did take it as a sign, I never thought that this became such a strong message at that time. If you are wondering, “The pictures below it are, “My two sons and one with me in the middle taken in 2008. Suddenly they have grown tall and I am shorter than them” How time flies. I like these plants and they are quite special: Peace Lily plants with white flowers: The peace lily is a plant often sent in sympathy when someone in the family passes away. It symbolizes the rebirth of the soul and transcendence from this earthly life. It is also a symbol of peace and hope. This also is one of my plants which flowered at the entrance sometime back in the past 🙂

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Purity: As a white lily, the peace lily shares in signifying chastity and purity. It is associated with the Christian Virgin Mary.
Psychic Balance: As a flower essence, peace lily helps balance people’s energy when they have been exposed to radiation, such as that emitted by electronic devices. The peace lily is associated with calm, healing and expanding consciousness. In the psyche it is believed to create a feeling of things becoming right and whole.
Feng Shui: The ancient Chinese art and science of Feng Shui is system of principles governing spatial arrangement and orientation in relation to the flow of energy (qi). Feng Shui is used in siting, designing and decorating buildings. In this realm, the peace lily calms and harmonizes the energy of the house. It ameliorates the energy of discord and strife that have affected the building in the past. The peace lily is believed to have strong protective and cleansing vibrations.“The Peace Lily has been long thought to promote Harmony, Innocence, Peace, and Purity. In Latin, the term Spathiphyllum translates to “Peace and Prosperity”. It symbolizes innocence and rebirth of the soul from the complex physical world to a greater place ❤

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We all have “A Purpose in our lives. We all have that Unique Gift, Talent according to our personalities. It is our Mission our calling” Some are born being aware of it and some have to find it as they go through life, but each and everyone of us do come, or born with some Talent or Gift. If you still haven’t found it be alert and it will come to you at some stage. “I wish you All The Very Best in finding it” 🙂 ❤

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Now you seeing the time, as I work in the night when it all quiet and peaceful. I hope You found this article interesting and found somethings new or remembered certain facts that you already knew and didn’t take much notice ❤

Latest Update 6th March 2020:Up to date with the Birthday article 111th and The Introductory page. On “The Top Right Hand side” you are able to see: The word  Menu 1a Menu when you” Click on it, You will see will see The word X Menu again. Under that You can see, “Home” You click on that again and it is the: Introductory page on: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

I am in Good Health and as, “I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy in to My Hands also” since “Beginning of 2016” All my Hard work and Praying has been rewarded. Healing Energy can go to others where ever it is needed to be received with Loving Kindness” and A Pure Heart ❤

The old Topics are, “On The Left Hand side “Under the, “Recent Posts” with “The New Topics adding up. “The Balance will be Under “ARCHIVES”. Also “Under CATERGORIES” Because “It will be too long to post so many number of posts on the side. You can “Click and see all The older Topics with “The New Topics adding up” Happy Reading ❤

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I started to write “My journey on mental wellness “Just in My Pen Name Deepa Nilamani” But as I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy ~ which began its Journey since February 2016. I have had to introduce myself in,” My full name and to be seen from where, “I have acquired, “The Gift of Healing Hands” Down The Generation, “Who My Maternal Grandfather is, and My Great Grand father is I had to include their details. Please click on this Link it will take you on to “Their Details on The site of Wikipedia on the I net”: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/G._P._Wickramarachchi!

“So I am having to Edit and Update almost All The Posts from The Very Beginning” This is My Birthday and, “A New Chapter and A New Beginning. A New Chapter in My Life and Still Studying and Reading to further Develop and Enhance My Knowledge and Advance Myself. By doing so I can have a better understanding of the world around me and improve the, “Quality of My Life” and I can Motivate You The Readers too, “To Develop Yourselves and Gain Confidence and Self Esteem to have Better Opportunities and Improve Your Quality of Life too, and I Wish so for You also with All My Heart. Please click this Link which will take You to My Birthday Post Birthday! ❤

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And what I am doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Writing and Showing How I became Healthy and Fit, so that Others also to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy in this Post, if You click on this Link: The Therapists Voice Forward!

The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts which you will be able to find more information and also Pronunciation”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you like to see, “What else I am up to” 🙂 during my spare time you can have a look at: https://deepanilamani.com/ ❤

“It is all free”. You can “Down load ~ Take print outs” “share and pass it on also” for others who can benefit from this article and All the other posts ❤

Thanking for the posts shared from the I net and https://www.online-image-editor.com/ for Posts done by me ❤

Sending Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies to You ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa 100Deepa Nilamani 🙂

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Bullying!

Hello To All My Dear Readers and Blogging Friends ❤

I do Hope All of You are in Good Health, and Trying to manage “To keep yourself Positive and Motivated as Best as possible in these trying times”. As All of you are aware I had started on “My Mission on “Mental Wellness!
1).https://iammypath.com/2021/08/10/my-mission-stigma-1/
2) https://iammypath.com/2018/06/05/end-the-stigma-discrimination-stops-with-you/
3).https://iammypath.com/2018/06/10/end-the-stigma/

I am writing this post, “Very Hurt”. After 6 years of writing, and to have built up such big numbers of Followers and Websites, I never thought I will have to write on this Topic “Concerning Me”!

What Is Bullying: Bullying is unwanted, aggressive behavior among people that involves a real or perceived power imbalance. The behavior is repeated, or has the potential to be repeated, over time. People who bully others may have Serious Mental Problems!

Types of Bullying There are three types of bullying:

Verbal bullying is. Verbal bullying includes:
Teasing
Name-calling.
Can You Believe it, in this present times when INTERNET IS USED BY ALMOST ALL OVER THE WORLD” so many websites are there!
I Have been called: EVEN A DRIVER TO TAFE WHERE, I WORKED AS AN ACCREDITED ENGLISH TUTOR!
Because I am writing on a website I have been called: Spider woman!


This is NOT small children, But “Some of the ADULTS in THE RESIDENTIAL SECURITY COMPLEX” where I live in MY OWN HOUSE without causing any trouble or Disturbances to anyone!
I shifted into A SECURITY COMPLEX so that as My Two sons are adults and I could do less physical work and Develop more on KNOWLEDGE!
It had started unknown to me because I was keeping a VERY NEAT AND TIDY HOUSE and have Rose Flowered curtains and White Blankets in My Bed Room. The ROSES Curtains were Originally Brought” From United Kingdom. And some of the The workers who came to do some repairs had misunderstood?
In such a DEVELOPED COUNTRY? And THE BATHROOMS are kept Too CLEAN!!!



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  • Social bullying, sometimes referred to as relational bullying, involves hurting someone’s reputation or relationships. Social bullying includes:
    Spreading rumors about someone
  • Embarrassing someone in public.


Why Some People Bully:
Children and teenagers who feel secure and supported by their family, school, and peers are less likely to bully. However, Every individual is unique and there are many factors that can contribute to bullying behavior. People who bullies may experience one, several, or none of these contributing factors. Bullying can affect everyone—those who are bullied, those who bully, and those who witness bullying. Bullying is linked to many negative outcomes including impacts on mental health.

Family factors: Some who bully:

  • come from families where there is bullying, aggression, or violence at home.
  • may have parents and caregivers that do not provide emotional support or communication.
  • may have parents or caregivers who respond in an authoritarian or reactive way.
  • may come from families where the adults are overly lenient or where there is low parental involvement in their lives.

Emotional factors: People who bully: may have been bullied in the past or currently.
have feelings of insecurity and low self-esteem, so they bully to make themselves feel more powerful.
do not understand other’s emotions.

  • don’t know how to control their emotions, so they take out their feelings on other people.
  • may not have skills for handling social situations in healthy, positive ways.

Every person involved in bullying – as a target, a bystander, or as one who does the bullying. People who bully may also need support to help them address their behavior. Mental health professionals can work with people who bully to help them learn new social and emotional skills. Bullying is a behavior that can be changed?

Peer factors: Some People bully:

  • to attain or maintain social power or to elevate their status in their peer group.
  • to show their allegiance to and fit in with their peer group.
  • to exclude others from their peer group, to show who is and is not part of the group.
  • to control the behavior of their peers.

Bystanders: People who witness bullying are more likely to:
Have increased use of tobacco, alcohol, or other drugs
Have increased mental health problems, including depression and anxiety.

For All those people who “Are going through issues on, “Stigma, Discrimination and any other difficulties, because of ill health at this Times or because some people do not Understand PLEASE KNOW THAT YOU ALL HAVE SOME TALENT or GIFT. HAVE HOPE. YOU MATTER ❤

  • I am in Good Health and as, “I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy in to My Hands” since “Beginning of 2016” All my Hard work and Praying has been rewarded. Healing Energy can go to others too, and where ever it is needed to be received with a Clear Mind and Lot of Loving Kindness ❤

    Latest Update: 7thth of November 2021. This is “The 165th Post” and with the “Introductory Page this will be all in Total up to date, 166 posts. On Top Right Hand side you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, You will see will see The word “Home” All the posts from “The Very Beginning comes ~ Under “Home”. Which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

    The old Topics are, “On The Left Hand side “Under the, “Recent Posts” with “The New Topics adding up. “It will be too long to post so many number of posts on the side. You can “Click and see all The older Topics” “Under “ARCHIVES” and “Under CATERGORIES” Try “To Move around the site and find. “That is also “Part of Educating Yourself further”. So far I have Not seen any other site post so much clearly!

    I am Moving on as usual with “My Own Journey of Wellness, Encouraging and Healing” So that Everyone can have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” To Lead a Better Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy”. If you click on the Link You can Read This Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

    It is all free”. You can share and pass it on also for others who can benefit from this post. I hope All those who Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so as, ”Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in Life ❤

    Thank you for Reading and Thanking The I net for the pictures I have shared and https://www.online-image-editor.com/ for the picture quotes I have done myself ❤

    A Very Special “THANK YOU and I am VERY GRATEFUL to https://wordpress.org/about/ for All their Support and Encouragement for enabling me to Enlighten so many on Life, Health and Healing matters. Also for making it possible, “For me to be able to write and pass on, “My Knowledge and Experiences” for others to Benefit! Also A Very Special Thank You to Word Press, for giving me permission to, “Copy the latest Number of Their websites on ~ 7th November 2021!

    Just Got This 7th November 2021: 🎉 Congrats! I am My Path! is getting noticed. 316 Websites have started receiving and 316 others have started receiving updates.

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Back Pain!

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Hoping all of you are keeping well and managing to get on with Your Lives in Good Health and in Peace. These days the on going Health issue is causing much stress and also people working from home and not much relaxation or exercises seems to result in aches in the body mainly Neck, Shoulder and Back aches. That I thought of writing about it!

How Anxiety Causes Back Pain: And How to Stop It

  • Anxiety, especially chronic anxiety, commonly leads to back pain
  • Muscle tension may be the primary cause, but there are other supplementary anxiety symptoms that could also cause back pain
  • Simple lifestyle changes can reduce some of the back pain
  • One simple change: posture, which can be affected by anxiety in several ways
  • Eliminating back pain from anxiety, specifically, traditionally requires anxiety treatments

Low Back Pain

Also known as: lumbagoPain or ache in the lower region of the back, varying in intensity.

  • Pronunciation: Lumbago /lʌmˈbeɪɡoʊ/
  • Usual onset: 20 to 40 years of age
  • Duration: 65% get better in 6 weeks
  • Types: Acute (less than 6 weeks), sub-chronic (6 to 12 weeks), chronic (more than 12 weeks)
  • Frequency: 25% in any given month

Common causes

Low back pain is not always related to an underlying condition. It may be caused by:

  • Lifting heavy objects
  • Sudden jerks in a motor vehicle
  • Excessive strain on the muscle due to prolonged sitting or wrong positioning while sleeping
  • Prolonged use of high heel shoes
  • Also common during pregnancy, before/during menstruation

Treatment

Self-treatment: Self- care steps that may be helpful in some less- serious cases:

  • Apply muscle relaxant ointments or sprays
  • Try resting the back for a while
  • Avoid heavy physical activities for couple of days
  • Apply heat or cold compress – depending on what soothes the body
  • Try over the counter pain relievers.
  • Avoid jerky or painful movements
  • Observe the pain location and intensity, whether the pain is constant or appears during certain activities like bending, stretching and such

See a doctor if you notice:

  • Persistent pain for over 72 hours
  • Recurrent pain
  • Spreading of pain to other regions like leg, arms or neck
  • Difficulty sleeping, sitting or disturbance in daily activities

See a doctor immediately if you notice:

  • Severe and unbearable pain
  • Injury
  • Other symptoms like fatigue, fever etc

Back pain is one of the most common reasons people go to the doctor or miss work, and it is a leading cause of disability worldwide. Back pain can range from a muscle aching. In addition, the pain may radiate down your leg or worsen with bending, twisting, lifting, standing or walking. Fortunately, you can take measures to prevent or relieve most back pain episodes. If prevention fails, simple home treatment and proper body mechanics often will heal your back within a few weeks and keep it functional.
Back pain includes lower back pain, middle back pain, upper back pain or low back pain with sciatica. Nerve and muscular problems. Back pain symptoms may be relived with pain medication.

Lower left back pain is a condition that affects many people – young and old. Very often, lower back pain affects just one side of your body and can cause discomfort ranging from mild aches to agonizing sharp pain. Lower back pain is also called lumbago because it causes discomfort in your lumbar region or lower back. This is the area in your lower back that is above your hips and below the bottom of your back rib cage. Muscle injury, nerve damage can all result in pain in the lower left back side.

What is sciatica?

Back pain includes lower back pain, middle back pain, upper back pain or low back pain with sciatica. Nerve and muscular problems. Back pain symptoms may be relived with pain medication. Sciatica is a condition that can lead to pain in the back and legs. It occurs when pain travels along the path of the sciatic nerve. This nerve starts in the lower spine, and travels through the hip and buttock and down the back of the leg to the foot. There are a range of different causes of sciatica. In most cases, the condition gets better over time, either on its own or with treatment.

Back pain and stress. We typically talk about back pain as mid-back and low-back pain. Over time, both affect your posture and the way you walk, which can lead to pain in the hips, knees, and feet. Mid-back pain includes muscles that are affected by breathing, including the chest and shoulder muscles. When you’re stressed, your breathing patterns change and cause strain and tension in the mid-back.

Risk factors

Anyone can develop back pain, even children and teens. These factors might put you at greater risk of developing back pain:

  • Age. Back pain is more common as you get older, but young people also can get it.
  • Lack of exercise. Weak, unused muscles in your back and abdomen might lead to back pain.
  • Excess weight. Excess body weight puts extra stress on your back.
  • Diseases. Some can contribute to back pain.
  • Improper lifting. Using your back instead of your legs can lead to back pain.
  • Psychological conditions. People prone to depression and anxiety appear to have a risk of back pain.
  • Smoking. Smokers have increased rates of back pain. This may occur because smoking prompts more coughing.

Prevention

You might avoid back pain or prevent its recurrence by improving your physical condition and learning and practicing proper body mechanics.

To keep your back healthy and strong:

  • Exercise. Regular low-impact aerobic activities — those that don’t strain or jolt your back — can increase strength and endurance in your back and allow your muscles to function better. Walking and swimming are good choices. Talk with your doctor about which activities you might try.
  • Build muscle strength and flexibility. Abdominal and back muscle exercises, which strengthen your core, help condition these muscles so that they work together like a naturally for your back.
  • Maintain a healthy weight. Being overweight strains back muscles. If you’re overweight, trimming down can prevent back pain.

Avoid movements that twist or strain your back. Use your body properly:

  • Stand smart. Don’t slouch. Maintain a neutral pelvic position. If you must stand for long periods, place one foot on a low footstool to take some of the load off your lower back. Alternate feet. Good posture can reduce the stress on back muscles.
  • Sit smart. Choose a seat with good lower back support, armrests and a swivel base. Placing a pillow or rolled towel in the small of your back can maintain its normal curve. Keep your knees and hips level. Change your position frequently, at least every half-hour.
  • Lift smart. Avoid heavy lifting, if possible, but if you must lift something heavy, let your legs do the work. Keep your back straight — no twisting — and bend only at the knees. Hold the load close to your body. Find a lifting partner if the object is heavy or awkward.

The media at the present times also so full of the same topic. So if you have done what is necessary to keep yourself safe as much as possible, “It is good to keep away from unnecessary Reading and watching the same thing” See the picture post below:

Latest Update Today is Saturday 9th October 2021: This is “The 163rd Post” and with the “Introductory Page this will be all in Total up to date, 164 posts.

On Top Right Hand side you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, You will see will see The word “Home” You will see, “All the posts that has been published in the First half, as well as included in The Menu as: The posts that has been Published ~ 1! and, The Posts That has Been Published ~ 2! Also
The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

The old Topics are, “On The Left Hand side “Under the, “Recent Posts” with “The New Topics adding up. You can “Click and see all The older Topics” “Under “ARCHIVES” and “Under CATERGORIES”

I am still “My Healthy self” and Writing “My Own Journey on Wellness and Healing”. So that Everyone can have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” To Lead a Better Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy”. If you click on the Link You can Read This Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to other different posts of Mine which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am up to during my spare time you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/

It is all free”. You can share and pass it on also for others who can benefit from this post. I hope All those who Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so as, ”Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in Life” ❤

Thanking The I net for some of the information and pictures I have shared ❤

Sending Love, Light and Healing Energies Your Way ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa Nilamani 🙂






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Sixth Year Anniversary!

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Hello to all My Readers and Followers. I hope all of you are keeping well. I am Celebrating “The 6th Year on this Blog” and looking back I see how much I have learnt also, advanced myself over this period. One thing what we all can do is to, “Learn and Advance our knowledge as we move forward. Thanking All The Readers and The Websites “For Liking and Reading and commenting” and Appreciating All what I write and post 🙂


This is what I got from WordPress.com! As I started this Blog iammypath.com on 5th September 2015 ❤

Happy Anniversary with WordPress.com!

You registered on WordPress.com 6 years ago.

Thanks for flying with us. Keep up the good blogging.



I am Very Grateful to https://wordpress.org/about/ for All their Support and Encouragement for enabling me to Enlighten so many on Life, Health and Healing matters. Also for making it possible, “For me to be able to write and pass on, “My Knowledge and Experiences” for others to Benefit!

Latest Update: Today is Thursday 8th of September 2021: This is “The 162th Post” and with the “Introductory Page this will be all in Total up to date, 163 posts.

On Top Right Hand side you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, You will see will see The word “Home” All the posts from “The Very Beginning comes ~ Under “Home”. Which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing

The old Topics are, “On The Left Hand side “Under the, “Recent Posts” with “The New Topics adding up. You can “Click and see all The older Topics” “Under “ARCHIVES” and “Under CATERGORIES”

I am still “My Healthy self” and Writing “My Own Journey on Wellness and Healing”. So that Everyone can have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” To Lead a Better Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy”. If you click on the Link You can Read This Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to other different posts of Mine which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am up to during my spare time you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/

It is all free”. You can share and pass it on also for others who can benefit from this post. I hope All those who Read will be able to make the maximum use of all what I post and write to make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so as, ”Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in Life” ❤

Thanking The I net for the pictures and https://www.online-image-editor.com/ ❤

Sending Love, Light and Healing Energies Your Way ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa Nilamani 🙂


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My Mission Stigma ~ 2!

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I hope as usual all of you are keeping in Good Health as much as possible. Now that I have started My Mission, “Working towards Mental Wellness openly, “I feel I will be getting more opportunities in the future to work in Other ways to spread My Knowledge and Experiences” At this time I don’t exactly know how and when, “So I am going to Publish this post and “Keep to fill up at a later date” 🙂

12th October 2021: So far I have not seen any new ventures. So want to move on. Still have the balance decluttering bits and tidying and arranging the house, with what is there and also with Spring, needs are changing. The shops have put out Christmas trees and still putting things out everything thing to do with Christmas. So giving a break to writing here (unless there is a Topic I come across or A need” and getting on with finishing up with arranging the house and also getting ready for Christmas. They are not expensive thigs as I believe its a “Time of giving and Sharing” as especially now Things people need are even more with the on going Health issues!

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