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Celebrate Life!

Hello To All My Dear Readers ❤

Hope all of you are well and Happy 🙂 I am taking a good rest after all the writing of 92 articles on my website here. I hope all those who are following and reading have made use of what I have written and moved on to the next levels in your life. I am hoping to keep this simple as I am really relaxing by getting back to reading, I have not been reading much although I have kept on buying the latest books and magazines. Also eating very Healthy and Sleeping long hours, as its winter time now here in Aussie and very good time to sleep long hours. Eating, drinking and taking in nourishing food, with rest and relaxation helps us to make up for the over worked hours and burning lot of calories in the process. Well I am cooking at home all the nice food I like to eat and drinking lot of hot nourishing hot soups, that is making me strong and keeping me warm and strong. We need to be Healthy physically as well as mentally as both body and mind need to be fit and strong to lead a strong and healthy life 🙂

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I have also slowly got back to the other websites to connect again and see what all my blogging friends are up to. As they have been reading and commenting, and I have not been that alert to keep up with what they have been up to! I did not think of writing another article so soon, but I saw one of my blogging friends saying he is very stressed and needs relaxing, that this topic came into my mind. Writing is also Relaxing and Therapeutic, making use of my time writing here for myself and others benefit which I am really enjoying as there is no rush or time limit, if one does it in their own time quietly. If you click this link you can read This post ~ All About Writing  !  ❤

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I am just maintaining my little garden, as it is not possible to stay out in the cold and wet winter weather. So I am rearranging the inside, keeping my natural plants to the minimum and adding some artificial plants, as it is not possible to have delicate natural plants when you need to heat up inside 🙂

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I  am not one for going out too much especially when it is wet and cold and even otherwise unless I want to do my basic shopping and if I have some other issue to attend to. Which leaves a lot of free time to maintain my home and do all my hobbies and lead a relaxing and life. I used to draw and paint, those days but now I have begun to do to colouring to relax. This is one of mindful colouring that I have done sometime back, when I take a break doing something different 🙂

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I am watching some good TV programs on different subjects where my mind moves on to a different track as well as adding different words ( Words Words and Words ! ) to my vocabulary, which also helps, “Not to think of the same subjects ~ which I find again relaxes my mind” Has any of you have had this experience I wonder?

 

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The Mozart Effect: It’s been thought that listening to classical music, particularly Mozart, enhances performance on “Cognitive tests. However, recent findings show the listening to any music that is personally enjoyable has positive effects on cognition. Listening to good music can make you learn better and has the power to enhance some kind of higher brain function, such as reading and literacy skills, spatial-tempered reasoning, emotional intelligence and mathematical abilities – even children with attention deficit/hyperactivity disorder benefit in mathematics tests from listening to music beforehand ❤
Exercise your wheels of thinking and you would know what this word means. In simple terms, cognition refers to the process of thinking. It is the identification of knowledge, of understanding it and perceiving it. The most common references of cognition that one would find would be in psychology and philosophy. One would do well to read on cognitive psychology (defined as the psychological study of higher mental processes, including thinking and perception).
The dictionary definitions for cognition are as follows: 1. The mental process of knowing, including aspects such as awareness, perception, reasoning, and judgment. (noun) 2. That which comes to be known, as through perception, reasoning, or intuition; knowledge. (noun)
Masters Tip to remember Cognition: Our simple reference guide for this:
Process of cognition = Process of thinking. This is the simplified and practical meaning for this word with the strange feeling ~ https://wordpandit.com/cognition/

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Healing Powers: Music can help to stimulate/activate the mind, ‘Boost Creative Energies”, and are associated with “Dreaming, Learning and Relaxing”. The key to Boosting Creative Energies is to Listen to the type of music “You Enjoy” the most. If You want more “Inspiration, in Language and Mathematics” it would make sense to listen to “Music with Singing”, while “Music without words”, stimulates more “Artistic and Visual Senses” ❤

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After I Relax and Re-Energize I have to plan out for the next chapter. Learning from the past experiences, the mind automatically prepares how to move forward in future. Although we don’t realize, looking back we can see how far we have come and we need to, “Rejoice the fact of doing well and Celebrate our achievements big or small”. In doing so, we, “Encourage ourselves to ~ Do better” Because it is “US” that know how much “Time, Energy, Effort even Money we have put in” So we are the only people to “Appreciate and Acknowledge what we have Achieved” and in doing so, “We Enhance the Gifts the Talents” we already have and move on to, “A Higher platform, A Higher level to do better for Ourselves and for Others” 🙂

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“I do Hope You also Enhance the Gifts and the Talents You already have and able to move on to, “A Higher Level in Your Life, to do better for Yourself and for Others too”. Then I will be “The Happiest”. Then there will be ” A Lot of Happy People Every Where” and in turn “To make A Lot of Happy People in The World Every Where” 🙂

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Latest Update 6th March 2020:Up to date with the Birthday article 111th and The Introductory page: Who I am & Why I am Writing! I have Published 112 posts on This Website. I am in Good Health and as, “I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy in to My Hands” since “Beginning of 2016” I have become “Very Positive” I have to be isn’t it? It is not something that I can buy. All my Hard work and Praying has been rewarded. “Not only for me but” Healing Energy can go to others where ever it is needed to be received with a Loving Kindness” even You ❤

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So “I am having to Edit and Update All The Posts from The Very Beginning” This is My Birthday and, “A New Chapter and A New Beginning”. I am Moving on. I have Learnt lot of New Things and Still Learning. Upgrading Myself to A New Wave Length ~ A New Chapter in My Life and I Wish so for You also. Please click this Link which will take You to The Birthday Post Birthday!

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On Top Right Hand side you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, You will see will see The word “Home” Which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

And all the 112 posts from “The Beginning to the end is shown”, and You can Read how You like. There will still be The older Topics “On The Left Hand side “Under Recent Posts” with “The New Topics adding up” Also on, request by some of, “The Readers” I have added, My Twitter, Good Reads and Instagram Accounts”. But unless You Like You do not have to follow. Happy Reading ❤

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And what I have been doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Moving forward Telling My Own Story in Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy in this Post, and if You click on this Link in Green You can read this Post: Who I am Now & Why I am Writing!

Please know that the coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts of Mine and Other’s websites also ~ which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation also”. I also have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am up to” 🙂 during my spare time you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/ ❤

“It is all free”. You can “Down load ~ Take print outs” “share and/or pass it on also” for others who can benefit from this article and All the other posts ❤

Thanking the I net, and other sites, for the posts and pictures I have taken and https://www.online-image-editor.com/

Sending Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies To You ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa 1Deepa Nilamani 🙂

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Trust Your Journey!

Hello To All My Dear Readers ❤

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I am writing about a Very Long Journey. When one is “Honest and Truthful” you happen to produce “Good Thoughts resulting in Good Words and Deeds”. The “Heart being Pure with Loving Kindness” the reason that makes one look younger and also, “Healthy Physically and Mentally”. All this makes it possible to fall in line with, “The Universe” that I am able to, “Receive ~ “Healing Energy to my Hands” and also my feet too, “There are two energy centers in our feet too” One needs to be “Very Pure and Authentic for the Universal Energy to flow through” ❤

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Being authentic is very important. The meaning of Authentic: ~ genuine, real, veritable, and lack of falsehood or misrepresentation. Authentic carries the connotation of authoritative confirmation that things or people are what they are claimed or appear to be” ~ Courtesy of the I net ❤

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I have gone through many challenging situations, where I was wondering, “How these things happened when I was already Receiving Healing Energy” but my belief in that, “Those who live according to, “The Laws of The Universe were in turn would be Protected by them” did come in to be, so somehow I have managed to hold on to “Faith” and Life has begun to work in my favour again ❤

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As I was moving on there were and are signs, messages that came to me, it can be so with others too, only one has to be sharp and aware and alert, to observe how and when one falls in line with, “The Universe” One is the, “Time showing certain numbers that fall in line”. When you happen to look each time getting more and more. Now Suddenly I looked up and my clock showed this time now, it is 1.11 A.M now as I am writing this article. This is falling in line with, “The Universal Time” according to Numerology. This has been happening at other times also and it it can show in different times too like 3.33, 4.44 or in numbers that are relevant to you according to each persons Birthday and month too. Something else: I only have these two Digital clocks as I don’t like the clocks going “Tick Tick” Even the phone is silent and there is no any sounds in my home unless when I want to see the TV or Listen to Devotional Prayers or Music 😀

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11:11(numerology): Some numerologists and New Age philosophies believe that events linked to the time 11:11 appear more often than can be explained by chance or coincidence and is an example of synchronicity. Some authors claim that seeing 11:11 on a clock is an auspicious sign.
Synchronicity (GermanSynchronizität) is a concept, first introduced by analytical psychologist Carl Jung, which holds that events are “meaningful coincidences” During his career, Jung furnished several different definitions of it. Jung defined synchronicity ~ The I net

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One day as I was going round in a shop looking at things, my eyes suddenly came across this picture, “Trust Your Journey”, that I bought, it is just a ordinary picture not an expensive painting. I have hung this in the sitting room and while I am working and writing these articles on my laptop. I am looking at it even now as, it is on the wall in front of me!

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Although I did take it as a sign, I never thought that this became such a strong message at that time. If you are wondering, “The pictures below it are, “My two sons and one with me in the middle taken in 2008. Suddenly they have grown tall and I am shorter than them” How time flies. I like these plants and they are quite special: Peace Lily plants with white flowers: The peace lily is a plant often sent in sympathy when someone in the family passes away. It symbolizes the rebirth of the soul and transcendence from this earthly life. It is also a symbol of peace and hope. This also is one of my plants which flowered at the entrance sometime back in the past 🙂

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Purity: As a white lily, the peace lily shares in signifying chastity and purity. It is associated with the Christian Virgin Mary.
Psychic Balance: As a flower essence, peace lily helps balance people’s energy when they have been exposed to radiation, such as that emitted by electronic devices. The peace lily is associated with calm, healing and expanding consciousness. In the psyche it is believed to create a feeling of things becoming right and whole.
Feng Shui: The ancient Chinese art and science of Feng Shui is system of principles governing spatial arrangement and orientation in relation to the flow of energy (qi). Feng Shui is used in siting, designing and decorating buildings. In this realm, the peace lily calms and harmonizes the energy of the house. It ameliorates the energy of discord and strife that have affected the building in the past. The peace lily is believed to have strong protective and cleansing vibrations.“The Peace Lily has been long thought to promote Harmony, Innocence, Peace, and Purity. In Latin, the term Spathiphyllum translates to “Peace and Prosperity”. It symbolizes innocence and rebirth of the soul from the complex physical world to a greater place ❤

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We all have “A Purpose in our lives. We all have that Unique Gift, Talent according to our personalities. It is our Mission our calling” Some are born being aware of it and some have to find it as they go through life, but each and everyone of us do come, or born with some Talent or Gift. If you still haven’t found it be alert and it will come to you at some stage. “I wish you All The Very Best in finding it” 🙂 ❤

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Now you seeing the time, as I work in the night when it all quiet and peaceful. I hope You found this article interesting and found somethings new or remembered certain facts that you already knew and didn’t take much notice ❤

Latest Update 6th March 2020:Up to date with the Birthday article 111th and The Introductory page: Who I am & Why I am Writing! I have Published 112 posts on This Website. I am in Good Health and as, “I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy in to My Hands” since “Beginning of 2016” I have become “Very Positive” I have to be isn’t it? It is not something that I can buy. All my Hard work and Praying has been rewarded. “Not only for me but” Healing Energy can go to others where ever it is needed to be received with a Loving Kindness” even You ❤

On “The Top Right Hand side” you are able to see: The word  Menu 1a Menu when you”Click on it, You will see will see The word X Menu again. Under that You can see, “Home” You click on that again and it is the: Introductory page on:Who I am & Why I am Writing!

And then, All the 111 posts from “The Beginning to the end is shown ~ Under “Home” and also There will be “The old Topics on The Left Hand side “Under ~ Recent Posts with “The new Topics adding up. Also on, request by some of, “The Readers” I have added, My Twitter, Good reads and Instagram Accounts”. But unless You Like You do not have to follow. Happy Reading ❤

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“So I am having to Edit and Update All The Posts from The Very Beginning” This is My Birthday and, “A New Chapter and A New Beginning”. I am Moving on. I have Learnt lot of New Things and Still Learning. Upgrading Myself to A New Wave Length ~ A New Chapter in My Life and Still Studying and Reading to further Develop and Enhance My Knowledge and Advance Myself. By doing so I can have a better understanding of the world around me and improve the, “Quality of My Life” and I can Motivate You The Readers too, “To Develop Yourselves and Gain Confidence and Self Esteem to have Better Opportunities and Improve Your Quality of Life too, and I Wish so for You also with All My Heart. Please click this Link which will take You to My Birthday Post Birthday! ❤

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And what I have been doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Moving forward Telling My Own Story in Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy in this Post, and if You click on this Link: Who I am Now & Why I am Writing! ❤

Please know that the coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts or Other websites also ~ which you will be able to find more information and also Pronunciation”. I also have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am up to” 🙂 during my spare time you can have a look at: https://deepanilamani.com/ ❤

“It is all free”. You can “Down load ~ Take print outs” “share and/or pass it on also” for others who can benefit from this article and All the other posts ❤

Thanking for the posts shared from the I net and https://www.online-image-editor.com/ for Posts done by me ❤

Sending Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies to You ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa 100Deepa Nilamani 🙂

Chapter 2 ~ How I Became an Author!

Hello To All My Dear Readers ❤

I hope all of you are in Good Health and doing well in your life. As you see I have covered as much as I can “Of My Journey Towards Good Health” in The 1st Chapter. I am not going to repeat the same things over and over again, “Unless anyone wants some information on some issue”, and You can say so in the comment Box below the posts. I hope to be writing on “The Themes of Relaxation” and other ways of “Being Creative and Maintaining a Healthy way of Living”. For the, “New Readers” who are following what I write, “You can choose The articles from the 1st Part”. I have done 111 posts and “To know Who I am” 112th is The Introductory page” Who I am & Why I am Writing!

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It was in December 12th 2015 I had gone very early to ‘The Shopping Mall”and was listening to “Christmas Carols” and waiting for the shops to open, that I wrote these word on My shopping List, “On Perfection”. The world The society finds it Difficult to see “Perfection” This is why generally when people even Things look too “Perfect” or “Whole” They tend to find some “Flaw” in it. They cannot Believe that some can work up to be “Very near To Perfection”! It can also be the action of making something perfect. Since perfect things are without fault or flaw, perfection is a perfect condition ~ I net!

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What people do not understand is: That it takes a “Lot of Hard work to “Be Perfect” or “Make some Object to ~ Be Perfect”. Perfection is a flawless state where everything is exactly right. It can also be the action of making something very well. Since Perfect things are without fault or flaw, Perfection is a Perfect condition ~ I net! And to “Behave in a Perfect Way’ One has to be “Be Highly Disciplined”!

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Discipline:is the “Practice or Standards of Behaviour”. “Is the quality of being able to behave and work in a way which involves obeying particular rules or standards”~ I Net. And also, going about in Life or Doing things correctly and Honestly, “Even if someone see them or not”is ~Integrity!

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By this time I had already started My website:iammypath.com in September 2015. But then “It was this day I realized that: (Definition of calling. 1 : a strong inner impulse toward a particular course of action especially when accompanied by conviction of divine influence. 2 : the vocation or profession in which one customarily engages) “Writing was My Calling” 🙂

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And then, ” I began to write and kept on writing Articles on: iammypath.com ~ Who I am & Why I am Writing!

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And then:”The girl who was Always Writing, became The Author herself” 🙂

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So that is how I have been writing since then, and This is My New Card. With Nicer Letters and Brighter colours 🙂

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Latest Update 14th March 2020:Up to date with “This article which is The 112th and The Introductory page: Who I am & Why I am Writing! I have Published 113 posts on This Website. I am in Good Health and as, “I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy in to My Hands” since “Beginning of 2016” I have become “Very Positive” I have to be isn’t it? It is not something that I can buy. All my Hard work and Praying has been rewarded. “Not only for me but” Healing Energy can go to others where ever it is needed to be received with a Loving Kindness” even You ❤

So right now these days, “I am Editing and Updating almost, “All The Posts” from The Very Beginning”. It is “A New Chapter and A New Beginning”. I am Moving on. I have Learnt lot of New Things and Still Learning. Upgrading Myself to A New Wave Length. A New Chapter in My Life and I Wish so for You also ❤

On Top Right Hand side you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, You will see will see The word “Home” All the posts from “The Very Beginning comes ~ Under “Home”. Which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

And then All the posts from “The Beginning to the end is shown ~ Below the Home Page”, Also There will still The old Topics “On The Left Hand side ~ Under the ~ “Recent Posts” with “The New Topics adding up” “Also by The Request by some of “The Readers I have added, My Good Reads, Twitter and Instagram Accounts” But unless you like, You do not have to follow. Happy Reading ❤

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Also what I have been doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Moving forward Telling My Own Story in Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy, and it is in this post if you click on the Link: Who I am Now & Why I am Writing!

I have take a lot of time to write all these articles, “Right now it is 5.51 AM 14th March 2020 Brisbane Time, Australia. I have not got up in the Morning, BUT “Been writing from Last Night”! As you see I do References also, for More and New Information, and even spelling, “To make sure, “I give out “The Very Best as much as possible”. So I hope All those who Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Good Health, Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so.” Peace which is The Ultimate Goal in our Lives” ❤ ❤ ❤

Please know that the coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts of Mine and Other’s websites also ~ which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation also”. I also have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am up to” 🙂 during my spare time you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/ ❤

“It is all free”. You can “Down load ~ Take print outs” “share and/or pass it on also” for others who can benefit from this article and the posts. Any questions or comments are most welcome ❤ ❤ ❤

Thanking the I net for the pictures taken and shared and https://www.online-image-editor.com/ for the posts written by me And https://www.vistaprint.com.au/

Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies to You ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa 100Deepa Nilamani 🙂

Birthday!

Hello To All My Dear Readers ❤

Hope All of you will find the Three Posts I have written about Counselling useful. And They will show what exactly “You need to do If any time You Think of going for “Any “Guidance, Advice or Professional Counselling”!

Today being The “6th of March 2020” is My Birthday and it is a Special Post, “The 110th post”. One which I had written as an “Answer in My Diploma studies of Counselling and Psychotherapy” also with added Knowledge which I have acquired since then 🙂

1. To make it “More clearer how to go about “Reading The Posts exactly how you want” There are, “2 places that you can find them”. One is on, “The Left side ~ Under “The Recent Posts” I have kept “All The 110 Topics” and They will stay “Always for You All to Read and go through in your own time No hurry” They are what I have started from 5th September 2015 🙂

The New posts will be “Adding on The Top” The only changes will be” From Time to Time I will be “Editing with more Positive Words and Posting, “New and More Colourful Picture Quotes” when I find Better ones as I have become more Positive and I get this Very Strong need to update to a Better standard!

2. The 2nd Place is on The Right side at The Top of The page: On “The Top Right Hand side” you are able to see: The word  Menu 1a Menu when you”Click on it, You will see will see The word X Menu again. Under that You can see, “Home” You click on that again and it is the: Introductory page on:Who I am & Why I am Writing!

Then All the other 110 posts are below it. You can choose how you want to read, as All of you may have Different needs. All The old topics will stay and keep adding up with The New posts. There will still be the old Topics “On the Left Hand side Under The Recent posts with the new posts adding up!

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Also what I have been doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Moving forward Telling My Own Story in Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy, and it is in this post if you click on the Link: Who I am Now & Why I am Writing!

I hope All those Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so.” Peace which is The Ultimate Goal in our Lives” ❤ ❤ ❤

Please know that the coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts of Mine and Other’s websites also ~ which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation also”. I also have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am up to” 🙂 during my spare time you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/ ❤

“It is all free”. You can “Down load ~ Take print outs” “share and/or pass it on also” for others who can benefit from this article and the posts. Any questions or comments are most welcome ❤ ❤ ❤

Thanking the I net for the pictures taken and shared and https://www.online-image-editor.com/ for the posts written by me ❤

Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies to You ❤

May God’s Blessings be upon You ❤

Deepa 100Deepa Nilamani ❤

Counselling ~ 3!

Hello To All My Dear Readers ❤

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I hope You all are well and Reading what I have been writing about Counselling, and Gathering more information. I Hope All of you are keeping well as usual. I am Continuing about Counselling from the last post:Counselling ~ 2!

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I have to remind Again that, “This is NOT exactly professional Counselling. It is what I have learnt during “My Journey” towards, “Wellness”also from what I have studied and by doing References and Reading. Below is what I have written as an answer in,  “The Diploma in Counselling and Psychotherapy”!

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Counsellor as A Therapeutic Person: Counselling is an intimate form of learning. It demands a practitioner who is willing to be an, “Authentic Person in the Therapeutic Relationship.  Authentic describes something that is real or genuine ~ I net!

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What this means is, “The Counsellor has to be Open, Sincere and Honest”. It is then only “The Client will also be able to be open and make progress in the correct way. If the person as “A Counsellor” hide and not show “The Real Self” The people whom they talk to also will keep themselves and what they are going through hidden and not show or speak of what They are going through”!

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What I have experienced is, That The Counsellor, The Doctor or The Therapist has to “To be able to Trust” and Not Think we are making up a story. This is the most important thing, otherwise the moment you feel they don’t, one is not able to be open and get hurt, and after that going to that person is not helpful. For this reason, “It has to be someone whose personality agrees with the client. It can be according, “To the culture and similar facts also”!

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The Purpose of Counselling: The basic purpose of counselling is to help people use their existing problem solving skills more effectively or to develop new or better coping skills. Counsellor’s cannot “Fix” other people’s problems exactly. Their job is to provide an opportunity for the person to describe their feelings and problems for themselves and then to reach decisions and actions that are based on informed choices. Good counselling helps people build skills they can use in solving their problems. For example, if people learn good communication skills in dealing with their immediate families, they can also use those communication skills with their children, friends or co-workers and the society itself!

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Counselling is a process: Counselling is a process that usually has a Beginning, Middle, and an End. There are certain things each counsellor does in each part, it can differ with each different counsellor and also according each client. This process can take place over just a few sessions or over a longer period. Effective counselling does not necessarily take a long time. In fact “Research shows, that some of  The clients feel they have received the help they need in just 3 or 4 meetings. “Sometimes 1 meeting is all someone needs. The chance to explain a problem or make it clearer or talking it out, May “Relieve” anxiety or any other feeling one may have. This cane be to do some studies, a job or some”Personal issue” Whether the process is short or longer, counsellors must have the necessary skills, to Truly help clients.

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1.The Beginning: The counsellor starts to to build a “Trusting Relationship” with “The client and finds out Important Information” about The client’s problem or problems.
2. The middle: The counsellor helps the client set Goals – make decisions about what The Client wants. Once Goals are decided, the counsellor and client develop ideas about how the client can reach Those Goals. During this period, The client will try certain thins. Then the counsellor and client discuss what happened and whether the method is working.

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3. The End: When the client feels He/She has achieved what was wanted, The Client and Counsellor prepare for “The End of Counselling”!

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Latest Update 6th March 2020:Up to date with the Birthday article 111th and The Introductory page: Who I am & Why I am Writing! I have Published 112 posts on This Website. I am in Good Health and as, “I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy in to My Hands” since “Beginning of 2016” I have become “Very Positive” I have to be isn’t it? It is not something that I can buy. All my Hard work and Praying has been rewarded. “Not only for me but ” Healing Energy can go to others where ever it is needed to be received with a Loving Kindness” even You ❤

So I am having to edit and update all my posts naturally as, This is “A New Chapter and A New Beginning” I am Moving on. I have learnt lot of New Things and Still Learning. Upgrading Myself to A New Wave Length ~ A New Chapter in My Life and I Wish so for You also ❤

On Top Right Hand side you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, You will see will see The word “Home” Which is This Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

And then All the 111th posts from “The Beginning to the end is shown ~ Below the Home Page”, Also There will still The old Topics “On The Left Hand side ~ Under the ~ “Recent Posts” with “The New Topics adding up” “Also by The Request by some of “The Readers I have added, My Good Reads, Twitter and Instagram Accounts” But unless you like, You do not have to follow. Happy Reading ❤

Also what I have been doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Moving forward Telling My Own Story in Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy, and it is in this post if you click on the Link: Who I am Now & Why I am Writing!

I hope All those Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so.” Peace which is The Ultimate Goal in our Lives” ❤ ❤ ❤

Please know that the coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts of Mine and Other’s websites also ~ which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation also”. I also have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am up to” 🙂 during my spare time you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/ ❤

“It is all free”. You can “Down load ~ Take print outs” “share and/or pass it on also” for others who can benefit from this article and the posts. Any questions or comments are most welcome ❤ ❤ ❤

Thanking the I net for the pictures taken and shared and https://www.online-image-editor.com/ for the posts written by me ❤

Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies to You ❤

May God’s Blessings be upon You ❤

Deepa 100Deepa Nilamani ❤

Counselling ~ 2!

Hello To All My Dear Readers ❤

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Hope All of you are keeping well as usual. I am Continuing about Counselling from the last post: Counselling ~ 1!

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In This article I am posting, Many picture posts from, “The I net itself” to know how, “Many Different people are Describing, “What Counselling is and Everything” that is, “Under The Topic of Counselling”. And also for the, “Readers who are following from All Over The World ~ whose Main Spoken Language is NOT English” are able to Understand in the correct way. As I have seen the meanings and words do not come the same way when, “The posts are Translated in to another Language. Although The Picture Quotes are from “The I Net” BUT “When I am writing it is NOT copying straight from other books or The I net. It is My Knowledge But also doing References, still “All that has to agree with what I know and feel correct”!

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According to the picture above: Counselling is:
1. Confidential.
2. Listening: Having time to talk to someone who listens.
3. Understanding: Having Time to talk to some one who someone who listens.
4. Responsive: To individual needs ~ To know the persons personality and what she or he needs.
5. Non Judgmental: Not to Judge if that person is good or bad.
6. Changing: Counselling can help you work out what changes You can make and how.

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The Picture above also gives almost the same points, as I have written above!

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I hope what I have posted and written has helped You to know what Counselling is and You will feel much better and also know exactly know how it helps and how to go about, “For Professional Counselling Yourself if needed”!

Latest Update 6th March 2020:Up to date with the Birthday article 111th and The Introductory page: Who I am & Why I am Writing! I have Published 112 posts on This Website. I am in Good Health and as, “I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy in to My Hands” since “Beginning of 2016” I have become “Very Positive” I have to be isn’t it? It is not something that I can buy. All my Hard work and Praying has been rewarded. “Not only for me but” Healing Energy can go to others where ever it is needed to be received with a Loving Kindness” even You ❤

So “I am having to Edit and Update All The Posts from The Very Beginning” This is My Birthday and, “A New Chapter and A New Beginning”. I am Moving on. I have Learnt lot of New Things and Still Learning. Upgrading Myself to A New Wave Length ~ A New Chapter in My Life and I Wish so for You also. Please click this Link which will take You to The Birthday Post Birthday!

On “The Top Right Hand side” you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, You will see will see The word “Home” Which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing !

All the 111 posts from ~ The Beginning to the end is shown ~ Below the Home Page”. Also There will still be The older Topics “On The Left Hand side ~ Under the ~ “Recent Posts” with “The New Topics adding up. Also on, request by some of, “The Readers” I have added, My Good Reads, Twitter and Instagram Accounts”. But unless You Like You do not have to follow. Happy Reading ❤

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And what I have been doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Moving forward Telling About My Own Journey”. Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy. And if You click on this Link in Green You can read this Post: Who I am Now & Why I am Writing!

Please know that the coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts and Other’s websites also ~ which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation also”. I also have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am up to” 🙂 during my spare time you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/

“It is all free”. You can “Down load ~ Take print outs” “share and/or pass it on also” for others who can benefit from this article and All the other posts ❤

Thanking The I net and “A Very Special Thank You, To All The Other sites from” “Me and My Readers” for the Information, Pictures and the Quotes shared by me on this Blog and to https://www.online-image-editor.com/ for the picture posts done by me ❤ ❤ ❤

Sending Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies To You ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa 100Deepa Nilamani 🙂

Counselling ~ 1!

Hello To All My Dear Readers ❤

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I have thought of sharing what I have received as Counselling  as well as what I have studied on My Journey of Becoming well ❤

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“These are “Very advanced articles” and I need to write the exact meanings and clarify. So read very carefully. Picture Quotes from “The I Net” BUT “What I am writing is NOT copying straight from The I net other books. What I am writing is “Mostly My first hand Knowledge and Experiences, and  also, doing references. BUT “It has to agree with what I know and feel it is correct!

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Now I need to “Concentrate and I am writing carefully explaining and clarifying as much as possible”. As there will be new words that, “I also Look Up for the exact Spelling and Meanings”. “That You will also need to know, “As the Meaning or the Definition” from the I net or the Dictionaries. Both the two posts Above and Below give these: Points ❤

Role of A Counsellor:
1. Be available and supportive.
2. Actively listen to client’s story.
3. Do not blame the client (You)
4. Express Empathy (Kindness)
5. Generate Resources (Books, Picture card sets that help to understand)
6. Address unrealistic expectations of client from counsellor (if any) ~ if You are thinking of things that the counsellor cannot be.
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According to the picture above: Counselling is:
1. Confidential.
2. Listening: Having time to talk to someone who listens.
3. Understanding: Having Time to talk to some one who someone who listens.
4. Responsive: To individual needs ~ To know the persons personality and what she or he needs.
5. Non Judgmental: Not to Judge if that person is good or bad.
6. Changing: Counselling can help you work out what changes You can make and how.

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The Picture above also gives almost the same points, as I have written above!

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This is to explain what “The Counsellor Does” He or she has to meet you and be Helpful by: Listening to what the Client/You have to say. They have to,”Be Able to Be Kind, Understand and Trust” and to be So it has to be that “The Counsellor Matches Your Personality” They have to know usually of your culture To Understand Your way of Thinking and doing things in Life”!

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Role of A Counsellor:
1. Be available and supportive.
2. Actively listen to client’s story.
3. Do not blame the client (You)
4. Express Empathy (Kindness)
5. Generate Resources (Books, Picture card sets that help to understand)
6. Address unrealistic expectations of client from counsellor (if any) ~ if You are thinking of things that the counsellor cannot be.

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Paraphrasing involves taking a passage – either spoken or written – and rewording it. … When paraphrasing, it is important to keep the original meaning so that the facts remain intact. Basically, you are writing something in your own words that still expresses the original idea ~The I net!

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How to Reduce Stress:

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How to Avoid Stress?
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None of us work 24/7 and there is always some free time to relax. Also relaxing does not need a lot of money either. Of course if one has extra money to spend, there are many expensive ways to relax. But actually you do not need to spend like that. As relaxing is becoming one with mother nature. The closer you become to mother earth, by ways of food, clothes and living the closer you become to a stress free life. It is difficult to lead a complete stress free life in this present times. But there are plenty of simple ways to relax like the post above, and below, to reduce our stress levels and enjoy a balanced and healthy life 🙂

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Although it is said “How Music benefits kids” It is not only for them it is also for adults of All ages.

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These are Some of “The Benefits of Counselling” ❤

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I hope what I have posted and written has helped You to know what Counselling is and You will feel much better and also know exactly know how it helps and how to go about, “For Professional Counselling Yourself if needed”!

Latest Update 6th March 2020:Up to date with the Birthday article 111th and The Introductory page: Who I am & Why I am Writing! I have Published 112 posts on This Website. I am in Good Health and as, “I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy in to My Hands” since “Beginning of 2016” I have become “Very Positive” I have to be isn’t it? It is not something that I can buy. All my Hard work and Praying has been rewarded. “Not only for me but” Healing Energy can go to others where ever it is needed to be received with a Loving Kindness” even You ❤

So I have had to edit and update all my posts naturally as, This is “A New Chapter and A New Beginning” I am Moving on. I have learnt lot of New Things and Still Learning. Upgrading Myself to A New Wave Length ~ A New Chapter in My Life and I Wish so for You also ❤

On “The Top Right Hand side” you are able to see: The word  Menu 1a Menu when you”Click on it, You will see will see The word X Menu again. Under that You can see, “Home” You click on that again and it is the: Introductory page on:Who I am & Why I am Writing!

Then All the other posts are below it. You can follow how you want to read. There will still be the old Topics “On the Left Hand side Under The Recent posts with the new posts adding up. Also on, request by some of, “The Readers” I have added, My Good Reads, Twitter, and Instagram Accounts”. But unless You Like You do not have to follow. Happy Reading ❤

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And what I have been doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Moving forward Telling About My Own Journey”. Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy. And if You click on this Link in Green You can read this Post: Who I am Now & Why I am Writing!

Please know that the coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts and Other’s websites also ~ which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation also”. I also have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am up to” 🙂 during my spare time you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/

“It is all free”. You can “Down load ~ Take print outs” “share and/or pass it on also” for others who can benefit from this article and All the other posts ❤

Thanking The I net and “A Very Special Thank You To All The Other sites from Me and My Readers” for the Pictures and the Quotes shared by me on this Blog ❤ ❤ ❤

Sending Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies To You ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa 100Deepa Nilamani

I am Re-Writing My Journey Again!

Hello To All My Dear Readers ❤

I Hope The New Year is going well with You. Now that I have completely “Recovered and back to My Strong Healthy self” and also as,”I have Received The Gift of Healing” My out look has “Changed Very Much” so many Questions I had, I have found answers, and still Discovering so many new facts about Life. The result is, that I have to, “Edit what I have been writing from the Very Beginning” As those who are familiar how I began this site in September 2015, are able to know, “How much I have Changed how I look at Life in A More Positive Way” I want to see More Positive and Colourful pictures. I have the need to change and edit what I have written in the past” and “Re-Doing so many of the posts with More Colourful Picture Posts”. So if you suddenly find some of the old picture quotes missing, They have Not run any where ❤ ~ I am in the process of “Editing and Redoing them again 😀

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Actually there is not much new to write in this post, it is to inform that I have the need to, “Edit the posts and write with, Better Knowledge and Experiences”. Also I will be writing More about becoming Healthy from what I have learnt from my own Counselling and from what I have been Studying and Reading. I have to Remind that, “It is not professional Counselling ~ It is All the Experiences and Knowledge gained from My Journey of  How I became Well” ❤

Latest Update 6th March 2020:Up to date with the Birthday article 111th and The Introductory page: Who I am & Why I am Writing! I have Published 112 posts on This Website. I am in Good Health and as, “I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy in to My Hands” since “Beginning of 2016” I have become “Very Positive” I have to be isn’t it? It is not something that I can buy. All my Hard work and Praying has been rewarded. “Not only for me but” Healing Energy can go to others where ever it is needed to be received with a Loving Kindness” even You ❤

So “I am having to Edit and Update All The Posts from The Very Beginning” This is My Birthday and, “A New Chapter and A New Beginning”. I am Moving on. I have Learnt lot of New Things and Still Learning. Upgrading Myself to A New Wave Length ~ A New Chapter in My Life and Still Studying and Reading to further Develop and Enhance My Knowledge and Advance Myself. By doing so I can have a better understanding of the world around me and improve the, “Quality of My Life” and I can Motivate You The Readers too, “To Develop Yourselves and Gain Confidence and Self Esteem to have Better Opportunities and Improve Your Quality of Life too, and I Wish so for You also with All My Heart. Please click this Link which will take You to My Birthday Post Birthday! ❤

On “The Top Right Hand side” you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, You will see will see The word “Home” Which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing !

All the 111 Posts with this one from, “The Beginning to the end is shown ~ Below the Home Page”, and There will still be The old Topics “On The Left Hand side ~ Under the ~ “Recent Posts” with “The New Topics adding up”. Also on, request by some of, “The Readers” I have added, My Good Reads, Twitter, and Instagram Accounts”. But unless You Like You do not have to follow. Happy Reading ❤

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And what I have been doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Moving forward Telling About My Own Journey”. Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy. And if You click on this Link in Green You can read this Post: Who I am Now & Why I am Writing!

Please know that the coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts and Other’s websites also ~ which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation also”. I also have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am up to” 🙂 during my spare time you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/

“It is all free”. You can “Down load ~ Take print outs” “share and/or pass it on also” for others who can benefit from this article and All the other posts ❤

Thanking https://picresize.com/en/results, and https://www.online-image-editor.com/   For The Posts Done by me ❤

Sending Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies To You ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa 12Deepa Nilamani 🙂

Inspirations!

Hello To All My Dear Readers ❤

Today I am writing about “Inspiration” What is Inspiration? In my words it is simply to, “Encourage to be Positive or to be in a “Good Mood”. Something that makes someone want to do something or that gives someone an idea about what to do or create. Inspiration: A force or influence that inspires someone. : a person, place, experience, etc., that makes someone want to do or create something. : a good idea ~ The I net ❤

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This is near the entrance of my home, but as you see only the key rings and not keys as it is Not safe to keep the keys in the front 😛 I keep it for it’s beauty and the verse for my eyes to see the beauty of it and also for me to feel Good. It says “Happiness is doing something that Makes Your Soul Shine” 🙂

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The above picture says, “There is a Magic Place inside of You, where nothing is impossible” But if You want to write, You can write “There is a Magic Place Inside of Me, where so much is Possible for Me to Do ❤

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So “A Home is made of Love and Dreams” It is true isn’t it. in A Home there has to be Happiness and Happiness come from The Feeling of Being Loved and Dreams that will come True” ❤

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“If You Dream Big Enough, Anything can Come True” . These are easier said than done, but seeing them, “Without you knowledge gets Your Mind to be Positive” This a cloth picture that is on a wall, which is not expensive. At certain times these come out as wall hanging and even as cushion overs. Some of you can even write or paint on paper and frame them and keep them in places to see at certain times of the day or night to get you Inspired and Encouraged ❤

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“She Believed She could, So She Did” This is a page from a magazine, that I have put in a frame. There are these pages that can be Taken out to use like this. It is said that one should not have sad or dull pictures or  or even ornaments that doesn’t look Happy or Prosperous around keep them in a place that you see them little as possible. As “Pictures also carry Energy ❤

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I hope I have written enough. Actually one can find Quotes from anywhere, from old magazines, make collages as the more we use our minds to create original things, the more our minds become active and Healthy ❤

Latest Update 6th March 2020:Up to date with the Birthday article 111th and The Introductory page: Who I am & Why I am Writing! I have Published 112 posts on This Website. I am in Good Health and as, “I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy in to My Hands” since “Beginning of 2016” I have become “Very Positive” I have to be isn’t it? It is not something that I can buy. All my Hard work and Praying has been rewarded. “Not only for me but” Healing Energy can go to others where ever it is needed to be received with a Loving Kindness” even You ❤

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So “I am having to Edit and Update All The Posts from The Very Beginning” This is My Birthday and, “A New Chapter and A New Beginning”. I am Moving on. I have Learnt lot of New Things and Still Learning. Upgrading Myself to A New Wave Length ~ A New Chapter in My Life and I Wish so for You also. Please click this Link which will take You to The Birthday Post Birthday

On “The Top Right Hand side” you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, You will see will see The word “Home” Which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing !

All the 111 posts from “The Beginning to the end is shown, Under “Home” and also There will be “The old Topics on The Left Hand side “Under ~ Recent Posts with “The new Topics adding up. Also on, request by some of, “The Readers” I have added, My Good Reads, Twitter, and Instagram Accounts”. But unless You Like You do not have to follow. Happy Reading ❤

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And what I have been doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Moving forward Telling About My Own Journey”. Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy. And if You click on this Link in Green You can read this Post: Who I am Now & Why I am Writing!

Please know that the coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts and Other’s websites also ~ which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation also”. I also have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am up to” 🙂 during my spare time you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/

“It is all free”. You can “Down load ~ Take print outs” “share and/or pass it on also” for others who can benefit from this article and All the other posts ❤

Thanking https://picresize.com/en/results, and https://www.online-image-editor.com/ 

Sending Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies To You ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa 12Deepa Nilamani 🙂