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My Story Matters!

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Hope All My Readers, Followers and Blogging friends “All Over The World are Keeping in Good Health and staying safe”. At the end of “The Collection of All the Posts I have written” I thought of writing a post to finish off this “Series”. Looking back, How much I have “Advanced and Moved forward” in “My Health and also in Upgrading My Knowledge” ❤
What I wanted was “To write in My pen name “Deepa Nilamani” on “My Journey on getting back to Good Health. And to show The world “That it is possible for those who were in “Low Moods also not only to recover fully, or Take medication and counselling and, even to be able to, “Study and get back to Good Health” and Lead a Life of Respect and Dignity!

So “How it became, I am My Path and How “My Story Mattered” 🙂


We all have “A purpose in Life” Unique to each one of us “According to our Personality. So Our Journey or Life Story Matters. All Our Dreams are Important. Our Voice matters “To Encourage and Uplift others Moods and Spirits. We are All Born to Ty our Very Best and “Do what ever we can “Make The Society, The World “A Better Place” ❤



I was not all that certain, “How well or not people would Like to Read or Follow”! Impatient to see at least few Likes, Comments and for a Few Websites to “Make Their Appearances”!
Slowly but surely There came a few Readers, E Mail Followers and Websites began to add up. Up to date of just “Five and a half years, I can say “My Story has and does Matter”
I am so Very Grateful and Thankful, “To All those who have Encouraged, Guided and Advised Me” So that I could and Have given “Faith and Hope” to so many, in becoming Well and Lead A Better Life in Good Health, Happier ❤

Latest Update: 20th of February 2021. This is “The 149th Post” and with the “Introductory Page this will be all in Total up to date, 150 posts. On Top Right Hand side you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, You will see will see The word “Home” All the posts from “The Very Beginning comes ~ Under “Home”. Which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

The old Topics are, “On The Left Hand side “Under the, “Recent Posts” with “The New Topics adding up. “It will be too long to post so many number of posts on the side. You can “Click and see all The older Topics” “Under “ARCHIVES” and “Under CATERGORIES” Try “To Move around the site and find. “That is also “Part of Educating Yourself further”. So far I have Not seen any other site post so much clearly ❤

I am Moving on as usual with “My Own Journey of Wellness, Encouraging and Healing” So that Everyone can have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” To Lead a Better Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy”. If you click on the Link You can Read This Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!


It is all free”. You can share and pass it on also for others who can benefit from this post. I hope All those who Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so as, ”Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in Life ❤

Sending Love, Light and Healing Energies Your Way ❤

May God’s Blessings Be On Your Way ❤

Deepa Nilamani ❤


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Happiness!

Hello To All My Dear Readers ❤

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I thought of writing about Happiness now, “As we need to live in Happiness” I am Posting some simple pictures and quotes as its good to see some simple pictures instead of serious reading all the time 🙂

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These are everyday happenings, it is not “Everyone who will like House work” For those who like to keep a nice house, “House work also is Therapeutic” (Helps the mind to relax) ❤

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5th June 2020. Here is the latest Video of Guitar Music from Cosimo Antitosomo from Italy Mondragone. His playing “The Guitar”. You can see “The sea, like all the elements of nature, has a voice, let’s stop sometimes to listen to it…Mondragone, the sea, the dunes (Sand).  
“These are people from Face Book. I have never met so far, but with similar interests, as I also “Love Music” I get them free, he posts them on his Face Book and also on “My Messenger” when he composes (writes a new piece)” You can “Click on it watch and listen free. They are also on You Tube Free. He likes when people listen to his playing “The Guitar”. Enjoy ❤

There are lots of little things like this below, and similar things depending where you live. Some like to walk on the Beach, watch the sea and the waves, pick flowers and put in vases at home or little ones play with them, some like to have a pet, some like to watch raining. Some are Happy when they get letters or cards by post. It doesn’t have to be very same things which you will enjoy ❤

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See Many thing that you can “Draw, sketch by pencils and Paint also like the ones below 🙂Different 11 (3)

It can be things that You eat, play go for walks, read books about what they like, go on trips, also “Imagination also work fine, even if we cannot go to the moon 😀

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Hope You like the pictures. Just looking at pictures also Relaxing. Keep well and Take Care of yourself” ❤

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May 14th 2020: Up to date with “This article which is The 123rd and The Introductory page. I have Published 124 posts. On Top Right Hand side Top you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, You will see will see The word “Home” All the posts from “The Very Beginning comes, “Under “Home”. Which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

What I am doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Moving forward Writing My Own Journey in Wellness. Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy. It is in this post if you click on the Link: Taking The Therapists Voice Forward!

These days, “I am Editing and Updating almost, “All The Posts” from The Very Beginning”. It can be, “A New Chapter and A New Beginning”. Upgrading Myself to A New Wave Length. A New Chapter in My Life and I Wish so for You also ❤


The old Topics will be “On The Left Hand side “Under the, “Recent Posts” with “The New Topics adding up. “The Balance will be Under “ARCHIVES” ~ As with Many Topics adding up, The line is Too Long”. Also Click and Look Under, “Under CATERGORIES” Happy Reading and Keep Yourself Positive ❤

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The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to other different posts of Mine which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing” 🙂 you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/

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“It is all free”. You can Take print outs, share and pass it on also for others who can benefit from this posts. I hope All those Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so as, ”Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in Life” ❤ 🙂 ❤
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Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies from me ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa 100Deepa Nilamani 🙂

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Celebrate Life!

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Celebrate 1Hope all of you are well and Happy 🙂 I am taking a good rest after all the writing of 92 articles on my website here. I hope all those who are following and reading have made use of what I have written and moved on to the next levels in your life. I am hoping to keep this simple as I am really relaxing by getting back to reading, I have not been reading much although I have kept on buying books and magazines. There are lots of sales and books are reduced from to time which I find quite a lot  of good books that go cheap 🙂

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Also eating very Healthy and Sleeping long hours, as its winter time now here in Aussie and very good time to sleep long hours. Eating, drinking and taking in nourishing food, with rest and relaxation helps us to make up for the over worked hours and burning lot of calories in the process 🙂

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Well I am cooking mostly at home healthy food eat and drinking nourishing hot soups, that is keeping me warm and strong. You don’t need expensive things to eat well ❤

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The basic things and fruits and vegetables that are in season you can find out and they are sold cheap. Especially for soups you can put in a lot of cheap vegetables. We need to be Healthy physically as well as mentally as both body and mind need to be fit and strong to lead a strong and healthy life 🙂

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I have also slowly got back to the other websites to connect again and see what all my blogging friends are up to. As they have been reading and commenting, and I have not been that alert to keep up with what they have been up to! I did not think of writing another article so soon, but I saw one of my blogging friends saying he is very stressed and needs relaxing, that this topic came into my mind ❤

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Writing is also Relaxing and Therapeutic, making use of my time writing here for myself and others benefit which I am really enjoying as there is no rush or time limit, if one does it in their own time quietly. If you click this link you can read This post ~ All About Writing  !  ❤

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I am just maintaining my little garden, as it is not possible to stay out in the cold and wet winter weather. So I am rearranging the inside, keeping my natural plants to the minimum and adding some artificial plants, as it is not possible to have delicate natural plants when you need to heat up inside 🙂

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I  am not one for going out too much especially when it is wet and cold and even otherwise unless I want to do my basic shopping and if I have some other issue to attend to. Which leaves a lot of free time to maintain my home and do all my hobbies and lead a relaxing and life. I used to draw and paint, those days but now I have begun to do to colouring to relax. This is one of mindful colouring that I have done sometime back, when I take a break doing something different 🙂

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I am watching some good TV programs on different subjects where my mind moves on to a different track as well as adding different words ( Words Words and Words ! ) to my vocabulary, which also helps, “Not to think of the same subjects ~ which I find again relaxes my mind” Has any of you have had this experience I wonder?

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I am also listening to good classical music and listening to good sounds. Listening to music can decrease anxiety, speed Healing, Increase Optimism and decrease pain. Babies know from Happy from sad songs. As young as 5 months can distinguish (recognize) an upbeat tune such as, “An Ode to Joy” from Beethoven’s 9th symphony. “Sound is a nutrient for the nervous system. Love Your ears …..they are much more important than you ever realized.” ~ Prof. Dr. Alfred Tomati ❤

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The Mozart Effect: It’s been thought that listening to classical music, particularly Mozart, enhances performance on “Cognitive tests. However, recent findings show the listening to any music that is personally enjoyable has positive effects on cognition!

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Listening to good music can make you learn better and has the power to enhance some kind of higher brain function, such as reading and literacy skills, spatial-tempered reasoning, emotional intelligence and mathematical abilities – even children with attention deficit/hyperactivity disorder benefit in mathematics tests from listening to music beforehand ❤

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Exercise your wheels of thinking and you would know what this word means. In simple terms, cognition refers to the process of thinking. It is the identification of knowledge, of understanding it and perceiving it. The most common references of cognition that one would find would be in psychology and philosophy. One would do well to read on cognitive psychology (defined as the psychological study of higher mental processes, including thinking and perception).
The dictionary definitions for cognition are as follows: 1. The mental process of knowing, including aspects such as awareness, perception, reasoning, and judgment. (noun) 2. That which comes to be known, as through perception, reasoning, or intuition; knowledge. (noun)
Masters Tip to remember Cognition: Our simple reference guide for this:
Process of cognition = Process of thinking. This is the simplified and practical meaning for this word with the strange feeling ~ https://wordpandit.com/cognition/

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Healing Powers: Music can help to stimulate/activate the mind, ‘Boost Creative Energies”, and are associated with “Dreaming, Learning and Relaxing”. The key to Boosting Creative Energies is to Listen to the type of music “You Enjoy” the most!

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If You want more “Inspiration, in Language and Mathematics” it would make sense to listen to “Music with Singing”, while “Music without words”, stimulates more “Artistic and Visual Senses” ❤
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After I Relax and Re-Energize I have to plan out for the next chapter. Learning from the past experiences, the mind automatically prepares how to move forward in future. Although we don’t realize, looking back we can see how far we have come and we need to, “Rejoice the fact of doing well and Celebrate our achievements big or small”. In doing so, we, “Encourage ourselves to ~ Do better” Because it is “US” that know how much “Time, Energy, Effort even Money we have put in” So we are the only people to “Appreciate and Acknowledge what we have Achieved” and in doing so, “We Enhance the Gifts the Talents” we already have and move on to, “A Higher platform, A Higher level to do better for Ourselves and for Others” 🙂

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“I do Hope You also Enhance the Gifts and the Talents You already have and able to move on to, “A Higher Level in Your Life, to do better for Yourself and for Others too”. Then I will be “The Happiest”. Then there will be ” A Lot of Happy People Every Where” and in turn “To make A Lot of Happy People in The World Every Where” 🙂

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*Latest Update 6th March 2020:I am Editing and Updating All The Posts from The Very Beginning”. This is My Birthday and, “A New Chapter and A New Beginning”. I am Moving on. I have Learnt lot of New Things and Upgrading Myself to “A New Wave Length ~ A New Chapter” in My Life and I Wish so for You also. Please click this Link which will take You to My Birthday Post Birthday!

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Up to date with the Birthday article 111th and The Introductory page: I have Published 112 posts on This Website. On Top Right Hand side you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, You will see will see The word “Home” Which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

The old Topics will be “On The Left Hand side “Under the, “Recent Posts” with “The New Topics adding up. “The Balance will be Under “ARCHIVES” ~ As with Many Topics adding up, The line is Too Long”. Also Click and Look Under, “Under CATERGORIES” Happy Reading and Keep Yourself Positive ❤

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What I am doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and writing about My Own Journey in Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy. If You click on this Link in Green You can read this Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

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The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts of Mine which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I do” 🙂 you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/ ❤

“It is all free”. You can “Down load. Take print outs, share and pass it on also for others who can benefit from this posts. I hope All those Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so as, ”Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in Life”. Any questions or comments are most welcome 🙂 ❤ 🙂

Thanking the I net, and other sites, for the posts and pictures I have taken and https://www.online-image-editor.com/ for the posts I have written myself ❤

Sending Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies To You ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You <<3

Deepa 1Deepa Nilamani 🙂

 
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Trust Your Journey!

Hello To All My Dear Readers ❤

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I am writing about a Very Long Journey. When one is “Honest and Truthful” you happen to produce “Good Thoughts resulting in Good Words and Deeds”. The “Heart being Pure with Loving Kindness” the reason that makes one look younger and also, “Healthy Physically and Mentally”. All this makes it possible to fall in line with, “The Universe” that I am able to, “Receive ~ “Healing Energy to my Hands” and also my feet too, “There are two energy centers in our feet too” One needs to be “Very Pure and Authentic for the Universal Energy to flow through” ❤

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Being authentic is very important. The meaning of Authentic: ~ genuine, real, veritable, and lack of falsehood or misrepresentation. Authentic carries the connotation of authoritative confirmation that things or people are what they are claimed or appear to be” ~ Courtesy of the I net ❤

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I have gone through many challenging situations, where I was wondering, “How these things happened when I was already Receiving Healing Energy” but my belief in that, “Those who live according to, “The Laws of The Universe were in turn would be Protected by them” did come in to be, so somehow I have managed to hold on to “Faith” and Life has begun to work in my favour again ❤

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As I was moving on there were and are signs, messages that came to me, it can be so with others too, only one has to be sharp and aware and alert, to observe how and when one falls in line with, “The Universe” One is the, “Time showing certain numbers that fall in line”. When you happen to look each time getting more and more. Now Suddenly I looked up and my clock showed this time now, it is 1.11 A.M now as I am writing this article. This is falling in line with, “The Universal Time” according to Numerology. This has been happening at other times also and it it can show in different times too like 3.33, 4.44 or in numbers that are relevant to you according to each persons Birthday and month too. Something else: I only have these two Digital clocks as I don’t like the clocks going “Tick Tick” Even the phone is silent and there is no any sounds in my home unless when I want to see the TV or Listen to Devotional Prayers or Music 😀

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11:11(numerology): Some numerologists and New Age philosophies believe that events linked to the time 11:11 appear more often than can be explained by chance or coincidence and is an example of synchronicity. Some authors claim that seeing 11:11 on a clock is an auspicious sign.
Synchronicity (GermanSynchronizität) is a concept, first introduced by analytical psychologist Carl Jung, which holds that events are “meaningful coincidences” During his career, Jung furnished several different definitions of it. Jung defined synchronicity ~ The I net

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One day as I was going round in a shop looking at things, my eyes suddenly came across this picture, “Trust Your Journey”, that I bought, it is just a ordinary picture not an expensive painting. I have hung this in the sitting room and while I am working and writing these articles on my laptop. I am looking at it even now as, it is on the wall in front of me!

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Although I did take it as a sign, I never thought that this became such a strong message at that time. If you are wondering, “The pictures below it are, “My two sons and one with me in the middle taken in 2008. Suddenly they have grown tall and I am shorter than them” How time flies. I like these plants and they are quite special: Peace Lily plants with white flowers: The peace lily is a plant often sent in sympathy when someone in the family passes away. It symbolizes the rebirth of the soul and transcendence from this earthly life. It is also a symbol of peace and hope. This also is one of my plants which flowered at the entrance sometime back in the past 🙂

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Purity: As a white lily, the peace lily shares in signifying chastity and purity. It is associated with the Christian Virgin Mary.
Psychic Balance: As a flower essence, peace lily helps balance people’s energy when they have been exposed to radiation, such as that emitted by electronic devices. The peace lily is associated with calm, healing and expanding consciousness. In the psyche it is believed to create a feeling of things becoming right and whole.
Feng Shui: The ancient Chinese art and science of Feng Shui is system of principles governing spatial arrangement and orientation in relation to the flow of energy (qi). Feng Shui is used in siting, designing and decorating buildings. In this realm, the peace lily calms and harmonizes the energy of the house. It ameliorates the energy of discord and strife that have affected the building in the past. The peace lily is believed to have strong protective and cleansing vibrations.“The Peace Lily has been long thought to promote Harmony, Innocence, Peace, and Purity. In Latin, the term Spathiphyllum translates to “Peace and Prosperity”. It symbolizes innocence and rebirth of the soul from the complex physical world to a greater place ❤

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We all have “A Purpose in our lives. We all have that Unique Gift, Talent according to our personalities. It is our Mission our calling” Some are born being aware of it and some have to find it as they go through life, but each and everyone of us do come, or born with some Talent or Gift. If you still haven’t found it be alert and it will come to you at some stage. “I wish you All The Very Best in finding it” 🙂 ❤

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Now you seeing the time, as I work in the night when it all quiet and peaceful. I hope You found this article interesting and found somethings new or remembered certain facts that you already knew and didn’t take much notice ❤

Latest Update 6th March 2020:Up to date with the Birthday article 111th and The Introductory page. On “The Top Right Hand side” you are able to see: The word  Menu 1a Menu when you” Click on it, You will see will see The word X Menu again. Under that You can see, “Home” You click on that again and it is the: Introductory page on: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

I am in Good Health and as, “I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy in to My Hands also” since “Beginning of 2016” All my Hard work and Praying has been rewarded. Healing Energy can go to others where ever it is needed to be received with Loving Kindness” and A Pure Heart ❤

The old Topics are, “On The Left Hand side “Under the, “Recent Posts” with “The New Topics adding up. “The Balance will be Under “ARCHIVES”. Also “Under CATERGORIES” Because “It will be too long to post so many number of posts on the side. You can “Click and see all The older Topics with “The New Topics adding up” Happy Reading ❤

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I started to write “My journey on mental wellness “Just in My Pen Name Deepa Nilamani” But as I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy ~ which began its Journey since February 2016. I have had to introduce myself in,” My full name and to be seen from where, “I have acquired, “The Gift of Healing Hands” Down The Generation, “Who My Maternal Grandfather is, and My Great Grand father is I had to include their details. Please click on this Link it will take you on to “Their Details on The site of Wikipedia on the I net”: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/G._P._Wickramarachchi!

“So I am having to Edit and Update almost All The Posts from The Very Beginning” This is My Birthday and, “A New Chapter and A New Beginning. A New Chapter in My Life and Still Studying and Reading to further Develop and Enhance My Knowledge and Advance Myself. By doing so I can have a better understanding of the world around me and improve the, “Quality of My Life” and I can Motivate You The Readers too, “To Develop Yourselves and Gain Confidence and Self Esteem to have Better Opportunities and Improve Your Quality of Life too, and I Wish so for You also with All My Heart. Please click this Link which will take You to My Birthday Post Birthday! ❤

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And what I am doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Writing and Showing How I became Healthy and Fit, so that Others also to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy in this Post, if You click on this Link: The Therapists Voice Forward!

The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts which you will be able to find more information and also Pronunciation”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you like to see, “What else I am up to” 🙂 during my spare time you can have a look at: https://deepanilamani.com/ ❤

“It is all free”. You can “Down load ~ Take print outs” “share and pass it on also” for others who can benefit from this article and All the other posts ❤

Thanking for the posts shared from the I net and https://www.online-image-editor.com/ for Posts done by me ❤

Sending Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies to You ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa 100Deepa Nilamani 🙂

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New Year, New Success With Bloganuary!

Hello To All My Readers, Followers and Blogging Friends ❤

 I Hope All of You are in Good Health, and “Keeping yourself Positive and Motivated as Best as possible in these times”. Well unlike other times, I am posting again as:

I am also getting Congratulated. From “Word press”. Well I have been working Very Hard even through the nights also to Bring out The Best Possible Posts 🙂
🎉 Congrats! I am My Path! is getting noticed. 320 Other Websites have started receiving updates 🙂

Now This is from, “WordPress” 🙂
Say Hello to Bloganuary!

We’re running a month-long blogging challenge in January and we invite you to join us! Each day, you’ll receive a new writing prompt to inspire you to publish a post on your blog. There is no right or wrong way to respond to the prompts. Take this opportunity to exercise your creativity and have fun. Maybe you’ll choose to respond with a story, a drawing, a poem, a photo, a comic strip, a recipe, or even a playlist. Anything goes!

By participating in Bloganuary, you’ll join bloggers around the world in the shared goal of creating and/or solidifying a strong blogging habit. You’ll get access to the Bloganuary community site where you can meet and get to know others working toward similar goals. You can share tips, learn from others, reach a new audience for your blog, and make some new blogging friends.

Here’s a badge you can add to your blog to show others what you’re doing and encourage them to join in the fun!

Join the Bloganuary challenge, stay motivated, and start the new year off on the write track!

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Latest Update: 13th of January 2022. This is “The 172nd Post” and with the “Introductory Page this will be all in Total up to date, 173 posts. On Top Right Hand side you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, You will see will see The word “Home” All the posts from “The Very Beginning comes ~ Under “Home”. Which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

I am in Good Health and as, “I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy in to My Hands” since “Beginning of 2016” All my Hard work and Praying has been rewarded. Healing Energy can go to others too, and where ever it is needed to be received with a Clear Mind and Lot of Loving Kindness ❤

The old Topics are, “On The Left Hand side “Under the, “Recent Posts” with “The New Topics adding up. “It will be too long to post so many number of posts on the side. You can “Click and see all The older Topics” Under “Archives and Categories”. Make Note: “Archives” and “Meta” Which has been repeated, some change of format at the moment and I am unable to change ❤

I am Moving on as usual with “My Own Journey of Wellness, Encouraging and Healing” So that Everyone can have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” To Lead a Better Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy”. If you click on the Link You can Read This Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

The Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing” during my spare time you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/ 

As always, It is all free”. You can share and pass it on also for others who can benefit from this post. I hope All those who Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so as, ”Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in Life ❤

Thanking “WordPress for The Post and The Picture of the Badge” ❤

Sending Love, Light and Healing Energies to All ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa Nilamani ❤

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Resilience ~ Revised!

Hello To All My Readers, Followers an Blogging Friends ❤

I Hope All of You are in Good Health as usual, and “Keeping yourself Positive and Motivated as Best as possible in these trying times” I am so Fortunate to have come across this Book, “Roadmap To Resilience”, and so Lucky to be able to download it free from the Doctors Website 🙂

Roadmap to Resilience
Donald Meichenbaum, Ph.D.

In this time of a world-wide pandemic, it is important to keep in mind the high level of resilience that individuals, families and communities evidence. In order to support and bolster such resilience, I am making my book “Roadmap To Resilience” available for “FREE” to help individuals cope with ongoing adversities and losses.

Topics include ways to:

  1. Handle intense emotions (fear, anxiety, depression, loneliness, boredom, anger, grief, guilt, and shame). Specific suggestions on ways NOT to let these emotions overwhelm you are included. How to name and tame your emotions; how to accept, tolerate, control and share your feelings are discussed. How not to allow your feelings “hijack” your resourcefulness and undermine your resilience is included. LEARN HOW TO TALK BACK TO YOUR AMYGDALA — your lower emotional brain and learn how to sleep better.
  2. Access help from others and ways “to give, to get.”
  3. Develop and deliberately practice resilience-engendering behaviors such as relaxation, meditation, yoga, exercise, gratitude, forgiveness, meaning-making activities, use humor, group support, your religion and faith, Internet resources, etc.. LEARN HOW OTHER FOLKS HAVE USED POSITIVE COPING STRATEGIES.
  4. Ways to cope with the coronavirus  is included in an ADDENDUM.  Read “Resilient  Voices”

    In this time of a world-wide pandemic, it is important to keep in mind the high level of resilience that individuals, families and communities evidence. In order to support and bolster such resilience, I am making my book ROADMAP TO RESILIENCE available for FREE to help individuals cope with ongoing adversities and losses.

PLEASE SHARE THIS WEBSITE WITH OTHERS –
WE ARE ALL IN THIS TOGETHER!

We have to be Thankful and Grateful To Dr: – Donald Meichenbaum, Ph.D. for this Book and The Post!

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The fact is I have done so many Topics The Doctor has mentioned in Detail from “The very Beginning for over 6 years from: 2015 up to now 2022″! You will be able to check in Posts That Has Been Published ~ 1! and Posts That Has Been Published ~ 2!. Also in Both, ” Roadmap To Resilience Appendix A! and Roadmap To Resilience Appendix B!

Latest Update: 13th of January 2022. This is “The 171th Post” and with the “Introductory Page this will be all in Total up to date, 172 posts. On Top Right Hand side you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, You will see will see The word “Home” All the posts from “The Very Beginning comes ~ Under “Home”. Which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

I am also getting Congratulated. From “WordPress”. Well I have been working Very Hard even through the nights also to Bring out The Best Possible Posts 🙂
🎉 Congrats! I am My Path is getting noticed. 320 websites have started receiving updates 🙂

I am in Good Health and as, “I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy in to My Hands” since “Beginning of 2016” All my Hard work and Praying has been rewarded. Healing Energy can go to others too, and where ever it is needed to be received with a Clear Mind and Lot of Loving Kindness ❤

The old Topics are, “On The Left Hand side “Under the, “Recent Posts” with “The New Topics adding up. “It will be too long to post so many number of posts on the side. You can “Click and see all The older Topics” Under “Archives and Categories”. Make Note: “Archives” and “Meta” Which has been repeated, some change of format at the moment and I am unable to change ❤

I am Moving on as usual with “My Own Journey of Wellness, Encouraging and Healing” So that Everyone can have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” To Lead a Better Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy”. If you click on the Link You can Read This Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

The Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing” during my spare time you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/ 

As always, It is all free”. You can share and pass it on also for others who can benefit from this post. I hope All those who Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so as, ”Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in Life ❤

Thanking the Internet for the Doctors Picture and His Website which “The Book was Posted” and My being able to down load it Free ❤

Sending Love, Light and Healing Energies to All ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa Nilamani ❤

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Hello To All My Readers, E Mail Followers and Blogging Friends ❤

I Hope All of You are in Good Health, and “Keeping yourself Positive and Motivated as Best as possible in these trying times”. I have come across this “Book and His Advice ~ How To stay Healthy”. This is the 3rd part in Continuation:

Roadmap to Resilience
Donald Meichenbaum, Ph.D.

Appendix B
User-Friendly Guide of Resilient Behaviors

Another way to access information to bolster your resilience is offered in this Appendix. This is a quick way to find information “on demand” about a variety of specific areas. The specific challenges are arranged in alphabetical order (see words in italics) so you can scan down the list and find the page number on which the “How To” information is located. For example, if you are looking for information on ways to communicate more effectively, or on ways to learn to relax, or ways to improve sleep and the like, then just go to that item and you can find where in the book you can locate that information. Feel free to copy any of these “How To” steps and share then with others. Check off those items on the following list on which you would like to focus.

Create my Resilience Action Plan

Reduce Alcohol Intake

Be more Altruistic (give back)

Control my Anger

Avoid Avoidance

Develop a “Can Do” attitude

Use my Change Talk and Language of Becoming
How To: Use My RE-Verbs

Communicate more effectively
How To: Improve Communication Skills

How To: Improve my Conflict Management Skills
How To: Handle Inevitable Conflicts with Your Partner or Spouse

Use Coping Self-Statements
How To: Use Positive Coping Self-Statements

Assess my Drinking Behavior
What Is Your Drinking Pattern?
Do You Drink Too Much?
Safe Drinking Tips


Eat Healthier

Exercise More

Use my Faith:

Use Positive Spiritual Coping Skills

Avoid Using Negative Spiritual Coping Behaviors

Face My Fears

Use Forgiveness of Others and Self
How To: Engage in Forgiveness

Do Goal Setting (Set “S.M.A.R.T. Goals”)

How To: Steps to Improve My Level of Gratitude and Make Gratitude a Daily Habit

Do Grief Work

Handle Guilt and Shame

Increase Happiness

Create a “Healing Story”

Ask for Help

Help Others and Give Back

Be more Hopeful and Optimistic
How To: Nurture an Optimistic Outlook

Use Benefit Finding

Use Benefit Remembering

Use Downward Comparisons

Undertake a Meaning-Making Mission

Use Meditation (Self-compassion and Loving Kindness)

Create a Resilient Mindset

Take a News Holiday

Improve People-Picking Skills

Reduce Perfectionism

Identify Personal Problems
How To: Be a Good Social Problem-Solver

Use Pets

How To: Begin to Plan Your Next Steps

Increase Positive Emotions
Create a “Bucket List”: Schedule Fun Activities

How To: Increase Positive Emotions

Use Positive Humor

How To: Steps to Becoming More Psychologically Flexible: Adapt and Overcome

Read Helpful Books: Access Role Models

Reconnect with social supports

How To: Regulate Negative Emotions and Use Opposite Actions

How to Look at Things Differently

Stay connected and Reintegrate

Improve Relationship Skills

How To: Nurture My Relationship with My Partner or Spouse

Relax and stay calm under pressure
How To: Do Mindfulness
How To: Use Tactical Breathing

Renegotiate Roles and Responsibilities

Use healing Rituals

Avoid Ruminating and Brooding

Use daily Safe Routines

Bolster Self-Confidence

Change my Self-Talk

Share my story

Sleep Better
How To: Improve Sleep Behavior
How To: Deal with nightmares

Assess my Strengths (Post Traumatic Growth)

Become “Stress Hardy”

How To: Talk Back to My Brain Differently

Avoid Thinking Traps
Can You Identify the Following ‘Thinking Traps’ in Your Self-Talk
How Perfectionistic Are You?

Develop a True Grit attitude

Identify Values and Strengths (H-SLIDER)

Access Websites and Community Resources
Use “Writing Cure” and Journaling
How To: Journal and Engage in Guided Reconsideration



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Latest Update: 8th of January 2022. This is “The 170th Post” and with the “Introductory Page this will be all in Total up to date, 171 posts. On Top Right Hand side you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, You will see will see The word “Home” All the posts from “The Very Beginning comes ~ Under “Home”. Which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

I am in Good Health and as, “I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy in to My Hands” since “Beginning of 2016” All my Hard work and Praying has been rewarded. Healing Energy can go to others too, and where ever it is needed to be received with a Clear Mind and Lot of Loving Kindness ❤

The old Topics are, “On The Left Hand side “Under the, “Recent Posts” with “The New Topics adding up. “It will be too long to post so many number of posts on the side. You can “Click and see all The older Topics” Under “Archives and Categories” also. Make Note: “Archives” and “Meta” Which has been repeated, some change of format at the moment and I am unable to change ❤

I am Moving on as usual with “My Own Journey of Wellness, Encouraging and Healing” So that Everyone can have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” To Lead a Better Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy”. If you click on the Link You can Read This Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

The Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing” during my spare time you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/  🙂

It is all free”. You can share and pass it on also for others who can benefit from this post. I hope All those who Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so as, ”Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in Life ❤

Sending Love, Light and Healing Energies to All ❤

May Gods Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa Nilamani ❤

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Roadmap To Resilience~Appendix A!

Hello To All My Readers, E Mail Followers and Blogging Friends ❤

I Hope All of You are in Good Health, and “Keeping yourself Positive and Motivated as Best as possible in these trying times”. I have come across this “Book and His Advice ~ How To stay Healthy”. This is the 2nd part in Continuation:

Roadmap to Resilience
Donald Meichenbaum, Ph.D.

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WE ARE ALL IN THIS TOGETHER!
This full post below is from Dr. – Donald Meichenbaum, Ph.D. I am sharing from his site. The rest is as usual which I write after my posts. The update


APPENDIX A:

Resilience Checklist: My Personal Resilience Plan: Creating a Vision of the Future

In each of the following fitness areas, identify the specific things you plan to do in order to improve your level of resilience. The number refers to the Action Plan # for each item, followed by a link to the page. Check-off those that you wish to focus on. How much confidence do you have that you will be able to follow through on each resilience-bolstering behavior?

Physical Fitness

#1. Take care of my body.
#2. Exercise regularly.
#3. Get quality sleep.
#4. Eat healthy.
#5. Avoid mood-altering drugs or overuse of alcohol.
#6. Use healthy coping procedures—engage nature.
#7. Avoid high-risk dangerous behaviors.
#8. Other examples of ways I can keep physically fit.

Interpersonal Fitness

#9. Recognize that deployment changes everyone and that readjustment takes time.
#10. Reconnect with social supports.
#11. Lean on others and seek and accept help.
#12. Give back and help others. Share my “islands of competence” with others.
#13. Participate in a social network.
#14. Share my emotions with someone I trust.
#15. How To: Improve Communication Skills
#16. How To: Be a Good Social Problem-solver
#17. How To: Improve my Conflict Management Skills
#18. How To: Nurture My Relationship with my partner or spouse
#19. Overcome barriers to seeking help.
#20. Use community resources such as websites, telephone hotlines.
#21. Use my cultural or ethnic traditions, rituals and identity as a support aide.
#22. Find a role model or mentor.
#23. Be proud of the mission that I served with my “Band of Brothers/Sisters.”
#24. Use pets to maintain and develop relationships and as a way to manage moods.
#25. Other examples of ways to develop and use relationships.

Emotional Fitness

Ways to Increase Positive Emotions

#26. Cultivate positive emotions (use hobbies and pleasurable activities).
#27. Make a “bucket list” of emotional uplifting activities and then just do it!
#28. Show “grit”—ability to pursue with determination long-term goals (“Choose hard right over easy wrong.”).
#29. Use positive humor.
#30. Express gratitude.

Ways To Regulate Negative Emotions

#31. Use “opposite actions” to cope with intense emotions.
#32. Give myself permission to experience and share emotions (feel sad, cry, grieve, become angry).
#33. Face my fears.
#34. Engage in constructive grieving (memorialize and honor those who have been lost).
#35. Share my story and the “rest of my story” of what led me to survive (share lessons learned).
#36. Handle and overcome my “emotional pain” that comes with feelings of being disconnected.
#37. Journal—use “writing cure.”
#38. Use creative and expressive activities to work through my feelings.
#39. Enjoy the benefits of self-disclosure.
#40. Re-story my life and share evidence of my resilience.
#41. How To: Use Relaxation and Mindfulness Skills
#42. Change my self-talk.
#43. Engage in non-negative thinking and become more stress-hardy
#44. Other examples of ways to improve my emotional fitness.

Thinking Fitness

#45. Be psychologically flexible.
#46. Use constructive thinking and consider alternative solutions/pathways.
#47. Establish achievable goals.
#48. Establish realistic expectations.
#49. Look at things differently.
#50. Use hope to achieve goals.
#51. Be realistically optimistic and goal-directed.
#52. Bolster a sense of self-confidence and self-efficacy.
#53. Engage in benefit-finding (“Search for the silver lining.”).
#54. Engage in benefit-remembering.
#55. Engage in downward comparison (consider those less fortunate).
#56. Go on a “meaning making mission.” List and share positive military experiences with others.
#57. Engage in altruistic (helping) behaviors.
#58. Engage in “pass forward” and move toward “post-traumatic growth.”
#59. Consider the lessons learned that I can share with others.
#60. Be mindful, “mentalize” and stay in the present.
#61. Associate with people who share my positive values in life and help me re-author my story.
#62. Use my “Change Talk”, the language of “hope” and “becoming,” and my RE-verbs.
#63. Avoid debilitating guilt and shame reactions.
#64. Avoid “thinking traps.”
#65. Nurture a positive view of myself, others and the future.
#66. Create a “healing story.”
#67. Other examples of ways to improve my thinking fitness.

Behavioral Fitness

#68. Develop safe regular routines.
#69. Stay calm under pressure. Keep my cool.
#70. Prepare for possible high-risk situations.
#71. Break tasks into doable subtasks.
#72. Avoid avoidance and accept, tolerate, confront and experience past traumatic events. Get unstuck from the past.
#73. Improve my “people-picking” skills. Avoid people, places and things that get me into trouble.
#74. Take a “news holiday.”
#75. Co-exist with my difficult memories and use positive emotions to undo negative memories.
#76. Self-disclose to a trusted person.
#77. Join a social group that gives my life a sense of purpose.
#78. Establish a “new normal.” Renegotiate my role and responsibilities.
#79. Adopt a “can do” attitude.
#80. Read to find comfort.
#81. Gather information (visit websites).
#82. Avoid making things “worse.”
#83. Continue my “journey of healing” and view setbacks as “learning opportunities.”
#84. Use my “action plans” and “backup plans.”
#85. Other examples of ways to improve my behavioral fitness.

Spiritual Fitness

#86. Use positive religious/spiritual ways of coping.
#87. Avoid using negative religious/spiritual ways of coping.
#88. Rekindle hope.
#89. Visit the chaplain or some other clergy person for assistance.
#90. Use some form of spiritual/religious/devotional activities.
#91. Participate in a spiritual and religious group.
#92. Engage in spiritual/religious rituals.
#93. Engage in commemorative services.
#94. Forgive others and forgive oneself.
#95. Use “self-compassion” and “loving-kindness” meditations toward others and toward oneself.
#96. Use my spiritual/religious beliefs and traditions to find comfort and peace of mind.
#97. Share the spiritual lessons learned from my trauma experiences and deployment.
#98. Address my “moral injuries” and “soul wounds.”
#99. Reset my “moral compass” and refocus on my core values and attitudes that I brought home from my deployment (H-SLIDER).
#100. Recognize life is short and commit to living each moment fully and enter a stage of “generativity”—give to future generations.
#101. Other examples of ways to improve my spiritual fitness.

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You have to Thank Dr: – Donald Meichenbaum, Ph.D. for this post.

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Latest Update: 8th of January 2022. This is “The 169th Post” and with the “Introductory Page this will be all in Total up to date, 170 posts. On Top Right Hand side you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, You will see will see The word “Home” All the posts from “The Very Beginning comes ~ Under “Home”. Which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

I am in Good Health and as, “I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy in to My Hands” since “Beginning of 2016” All my Hard work and Praying has been rewarded. Healing Energy can go to others too, and where ever it is needed to be received with a Clear Mind and Lot of Loving Kindness

The old Topics are, “On The Left Hand side “Under the, “Recent Posts” with “The New Topics adding up. “It will be too long to post so many number of posts on the side. You can “Click and see all The older Topics” Under “Archives and Categories”. Make Note: “Archives” and “Meta” Which has been repeated, some change of format at the moment and I am unable to change ❤

I am Moving on as usual with “My Own Journey of Wellness, Encouraging and Healing” So that Everyone can have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” To Lead a Better Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy”. If you click on the Link You can Read This Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

The Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing” during my spare time you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/  🙂

It is all free”. You can share and pass it on also for others who can benefit from this post. I hope All those who Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so as, ”Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in Life ❤

Sending Love, Light and Healing Energies to All ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa Nilamani ❤

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