Resilience ~ Revised!

Hello To All My Readers, Followers an Blogging Friends ❤

I Hope All of You are in Good Health as usual, and “Keeping yourself Positive and Motivated as Best as possible in these trying times” I am so Fortunate to have come across this Book, “Roadmap To Resilience”, and so Lucky to be able to download it free from the Doctors Website 🙂

Roadmap to Resilience
Donald Meichenbaum, Ph.D.

In this time of a world-wide pandemic, it is important to keep in mind the high level of resilience that individuals, families and communities evidence. In order to support and bolster such resilience, I am making my book “Roadmap To Resilience” available for “FREE” to help individuals cope with ongoing adversities and losses.

Topics include ways to:

  1. Handle intense emotions (fear, anxiety, depression, loneliness, boredom, anger, grief, guilt, and shame). Specific suggestions on ways NOT to let these emotions overwhelm you are included. How to name and tame your emotions; how to accept, tolerate, control and share your feelings are discussed. How not to allow your feelings “hijack” your resourcefulness and undermine your resilience is included. LEARN HOW TO TALK BACK TO YOUR AMYGDALA — your lower emotional brain and learn how to sleep better.
  2. Access help from others and ways “to give, to get.”
  3. Develop and deliberately practice resilience-engendering behaviors such as relaxation, meditation, yoga, exercise, gratitude, forgiveness, meaning-making activities, use humor, group support, your religion and faith, Internet resources, etc.. LEARN HOW OTHER FOLKS HAVE USED POSITIVE COPING STRATEGIES.
  4. Ways to cope with the coronavirus  is included in an ADDENDUM.  Read “Resilient  Voices”

    In this time of a world-wide pandemic, it is important to keep in mind the high level of resilience that individuals, families and communities evidence. In order to support and bolster such resilience, I am making my book ROADMAP TO RESILIENCE available for FREE to help individuals cope with ongoing adversities and losses.

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WE ARE ALL IN THIS TOGETHER!

We have to be Thankful and Grateful To Dr: – Donald Meichenbaum, Ph.D. for this Book and The Post!

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The fact is I have done so many Topics The Doctor has mentioned in Detail from “The very Beginning for over 6 years from: 2015 up to now 2022″! You will be able to check in Posts That Has Been Published ~ 1! and Posts That Has Been Published ~ 2!. Also in Both, ” Roadmap To Resilience Appendix A! and Roadmap To Resilience Appendix B!

Latest Update: 13th of January 2022. This is “The 171th Post” and with the “Introductory Page this will be all in Total up to date, 172 posts. On Top Right Hand side you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, You will see will see The word “Home” All the posts from “The Very Beginning comes ~ Under “Home”. Which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

I am also getting Congratulated. From “WordPress”. Well I have been working Very Hard even through the nights also to Bring out The Best Possible Posts 🙂
🎉 Congrats! I am My Path is getting noticed. 320 websites have started receiving updates 🙂

I am in Good Health and as, “I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy in to My Hands” since “Beginning of 2016” All my Hard work and Praying has been rewarded. Healing Energy can go to others too, and where ever it is needed to be received with a Clear Mind and Lot of Loving Kindness ❤

The old Topics are, “On The Left Hand side “Under the, “Recent Posts” with “The New Topics adding up. “It will be too long to post so many number of posts on the side. You can “Click and see all The older Topics” Under “Archives and Categories”. Make Note: “Archives” and “Meta” Which has been repeated, some change of format at the moment and I am unable to change ❤

I am Moving on as usual with “My Own Journey of Wellness, Encouraging and Healing” So that Everyone can have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” To Lead a Better Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy”. If you click on the Link You can Read This Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

The Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing” during my spare time you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/ 

As always, It is all free”. You can share and pass it on also for others who can benefit from this post. I hope All those who Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so as, ”Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in Life ❤

Thanking the Internet for the Doctors Picture and His Website which “The Book was Posted” and My being able to down load it Free ❤

Sending Love, Light and Healing Energies to All ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa Nilamani ❤

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Panic Attacks!

Hello To All My Readers ❤

Hope All of You are Keeping in Good Health. This is a Topic I have felt The Need to write as I have found out “Very Important at “These Times of Health Issues”. Panic Attacks ❤

Update: 27th October 2021: Actually there is a “Very Important incident for this” which I didn’t want to write immediately. One day I had finished my shopping and sat to have a bit of a rest before going to the car. There was a lady seated in the same seat who was going to the shops having a rest. I try to spread my “Website as much as possible” so I asked her “Do you like reading and she said not much but “My daughter reads”. Then I said give her this card it is my website. She wanted to know what it was and I said, “It is about how I was going through Low Moods and How I have overcome and writing for others to know that they also can “To Give Hope and Strength” Then she said “In that case “The daughter is going through Panic Attacks and since recently she has had enough to the extent she feels her life is useless and is thinking of ending her life” I told her then” Please Take her to a Doctor immediately, and she said “Yes she was going to do so” Then I had bought this Book and I quickly wrote, “YOU ARE STRONGER THAN YOU THINK” She was feeling shy to take it but, I said it’s ok I can buy another one. Let her read this until you take her to the Doctor. Can you see “The picture? Isn’t it a wonder how a Girl is seated against the sun? The topics in the Book itself? I got Healing Energy into My Hands too, “So I knew She was going to Heal” I wrote this Post Immediately after I went home ❤

How is a panic disorder treated?

If you suffer from panic disorder, it can be helpful to know 2 things at First:

  • Don’t Think of Them as You are in life-threatening danger.
  • And keep Your strength and Hope that the symptoms will go away.

    At The same Time “Please see A Doctor “As soon as Possible”!
  • What is A Panic Attack: A Panic Attack is a response to a stressful situation, where you feel like you are losing control.

If you have a panic attack, you might have a racing heart and be flushed with sometimes Pain you chest also. You might feel sweaty, shaky, dizzy Faintish and breathless. You may not have all these and know “What You get” Whether it is mild or severe when people over work or get hurt, they get stressed. And when it comes to Healing, You have to somehow “Learn to Relax” and let Your feelings of  “Stress which is, discomfort or sadness reduced”.

Here are some more Ideas, “That You can choose or which are Possible for Each of You” To do As Soon As Possible ❤

You need to discuss with your closest, and that is your family members, as they are the people whom you come across almost daily, and the most important people that need to know what is going on with you, as otherwise they will not know how to support you ❤

The thing is sometimes how ever much you have people around you, they may not know, nor will they really understand what you are going through. Or sometimes  it can be that, the very ones who should be “Caring and supporting you will get upset themselves and might be not able to help you. At these times see if you can find “A Friend, even an outsider who can Understand” You ❤

To manage panic disorder, you need strategies to regain some control. Techniques that can help you feel calmer include:

  • Relaxation strategies
  • Breathing exercises
  • Mindfulness
  • Meditation

Make Note: This is ***This is Not Professional Counselling*** What I am writing is “Mostly My first hand Knowledge and Experiences, and  also, doing references”. You Need To Talk with A Doctor and Take, “Advice or Help” You need to work on it with all available resources. And do see a Medical Personnel, a Doctor, Counsellor or Therapist ❤

This is to explain what “The Counsellor Does” He or she has to meet you and be Helpful by: Listening to what You have to say. They have to, “Be Able to Be Kind, Understand and Trust” and to be So it has to be that “The Counsellor Matches Your Personality” and Understand You ❤

I hope what I have posted and written has helped You to know what Counselling is and You will feel much better. Also to know exactly how it helps and how to go about, “For Professional Counselling Yourself” Best of Luck ❤

Ending this article, Know That I Care ~ I know how it hurts when people are unkind or cruel. And sometimes things do not work the way you want. “Have Faith and Patience ~ Know that You can Heal gradually. “YOU ARE STRONGER THAN YOU THINK”  Please Click on this Link to Read This Post in this Blog: You are Stronger than You Think!

Try and some how “TALK” to someone who can be Kind and Listen. BE PATIENT. Have FAITH  and keep your Strength and Hopes ❤

I hope what I have written is useful to You, and You also have seen or learnt something new. You can ask questions on anything that You might like to know more about and comment after Reading. Some pictures are funny to make one smile also don’t you think. Thank You for Reading ❤

Now are You smiling? How can You have a Bath without water 🙂

Today being The Date: April 24th 2021. This is “A Post” Which also will be in, “The Posts That Has Been Published ~ 2!”

On Top Right Hand side Top you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, You will see will see The word “Home” All the posts from “First Lot” from “The Very Beginning will be ~ Under “Home”. As well as The Page: Posts That Has Been Published ~ 1! and The Page which will have, “The 2nd Lot of Posts: Posts That Has Been Published ~ 2!

The Introductory Page: Who I am & Why I am Writing! The Therapists Voice Forward! is in Green letters: Under The Copy Right Notice”!

The old Topics can be found “On The Left Hand side “Under the, “Recent Posts, Archives and Categories” with “The New Topics adding up. As now “There are a Lots of Posts so it is not possible to put in from The Beginning” Thank You for Reading ❤

I have “My Personal Website” with “My own little Poems and Pictures if You click on this Link You can go there and read :https://deepanilamani.com

It is all free as usual”. You can share and pass it on also for others who can benefit from this post. I hope All those who Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so as, ”Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in Life” ❤

Thanking The I net for the Pictures and https://www.online-image-editor.com/ for the picture posts I have done ❤

Sending Love, Light and Healing Energies Your Way ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa Nilamani ❤

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Revision In Pictures 6 ~ Painting!

Hello To All My Dear Readers ❤

I Hope that all of you are in Good Health. Try to be as “relaxed and Calm” as possible as the Health issue is still going on. Continuing the revision Series. In a way I have not done Painting as a separate Topic before, but included in “Creativity”. Still will give a Good Post on it, in pictures as much as possible. It will be good to just go through some pictures and Light reading ❤


Art is a way “To Express Yourself. Here you can see a lady painting with cotton swabs. But You can take anything. I will show different things in other pictures as we go along 🙂

The end results. She has done “The Leaves” from a “Paint Brush”!

A painting is an artwork. using colour on a surface (ground) such as paper or canvas. The colours can be in a wet way, such as paint, or a dry, like colour pencils, crayons.

This is My Experiences. I was good in school and did Exams too. Especially patterns, but not of people. So each one has their “Talents and Gifts” You can take “Paint that is being used to paint walls also. Those days when My two children were small they went for Art Classes. We use to buy little sample paint pots of them which were very cheap. The Teacher asked me also to get a Drawing Book or Blank Papers and crayons, and she taught me to do some Drawing Free 🙂 because I was sitting at the back until both of them finished their class. Such a nice lady to this day I Think of her with such kind thoughts ❤
Below You cans see them and ordinary boxes to mix them. I have already written, “That many things can be done in cheap and simple ways: not necessarily spend a lot of money. That is being “Creative” ❤

You can use so many different things, “New or Old”!

Above is “Different ways You can use a paint brush” Below “They are colours from Fruits and Vegetables also. and using pieces from Vegetables and fruits itself. Isn’t that clever. So that is being “Creative 🙂

“Long time ago that is how painting and Drawing started. Below is “The Oldern Days people used colours from Natural things to “Paint on Caves and and on mud walls” 🙂

Below you can see, Someone is painting flowers and so many things can be added. Even “Teddy Bears” ❤

Roses and Teddy Bear. Watercolor floral seamless pattern

Below are various things that can and being used!

I hope You like what I have written and posted. And will do some Painting on your own. So many Natural things You can use, “Without buying ready made things” isn’t it 🙂


Latest Update: 2nd of February 2021. This is “The 146th Post” and with the “Introductory Page this will be all in Total up to date, 147 Articles. On Top Right Hand side Top you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, You will see will see The word “Home” All the posts from “The Very Beginning comes ~ Under “Home”. Which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

The old Topics are, “On The Left Hand side “Under the, “Recent Posts” with “The New Topics adding up. “It will be too long to post so many number of posts on the side. You can “Click and see all The older Topics” “Under “ARCHIVES” and “Under CATERGORIES” Try “To Move around the site and find. “That is also “Part of Educating Yourself further”. So far I have Not seen any other site post so much clearly ❤

I am Moving on as usual with “My Own Journey of Wellness, Encouraging and Healing” So that Everyone to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” To Lead a Better Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy”. If you click on the Link You can Read This Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

I have “My Personal Website” with “My own little Poems, Hobbies and Pictures if You click on this Link You can go there and read :https://deepanilamani.com

It is all free”. You can share and pass it on also for others who can benefit from this post. I hope All those who Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so as, ”Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in Life ❤

Thanking The I net, and for The Other sites for the Pictures I have taken and Free Online Image Editor (online-image-editor.com) for the Picture Quotes Done by Me ❤

Sending Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies Your Way ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa Nilamani 🙂

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