My Mission ~ Stigma 1!

Hello To All My Dear Readers ❤

I hope all of you are keeping in Good Health as much as possible. Somehow the way I have ben going, The Time for me to really Begin My Journey on “Mental Wellness ~ Stigma and Discrimination” has set in at the correct Time!

I started writing my Journey of wellness in my website: iammypath.com in 2015 September. Now it is August 2021 just a moth less than 6 years. Time has flown. Today is “The 9th of August 2021. I pasted the Big Stigma sticker from the inside of the front glass on the side of the passenger seat side.

Somehow I want to shape if possible, at least from the Top, to make it more prominent, if possible. Now see, I have been able to shape it. It is pasted from inside the glass of the front wind screen 🙂

Like this. So that it will be like some person, going with me on my Mission 🙂 I have got some cards printed with My website addresses as then people know I am “Serious about My Mission” Different ones according to what I feel will “Help Encourage and above all “To have HOPE” towards feeling Better to Lead Their Lives well 🙂


I had written before too, that millions world over are going through Low Moods, and other mental health problems. And the world Health Organization had stated that depression was going to be of the main health issue by 2030! Today is the 9th of August 2021 and there is a “Different Health Issue All over the World. And this has made so many changes of, “Restrictions of Movements on, Travelling for work and vacations, Working from Home and even some places doing business on line and even closing and some having less work of even losing jobs! That has added more stress to most of the people!

 People living with mental problems experience systemic, cultural, social, and inter-personal stigma and discrimination about their mental issues. These entrenched attitudes and responses are making problems to a person’s day-to-day health and wellbeing, and place structural and life determining barriers. This is why “PEOPLE ARE RELUCTANT TO GO FOR MEDICAL HELP AND THEREBY RESULTING IN VALUABLE TIME AND ASSETS ARE LOST!!!

What is mental health stigma? A stigma can be like a mark, a stain or a blemish. People with mental issues may face stigma — they may be treated differently, as if they are somehow less than other people. Stigma shows when someone with a mental issues is called unnecessary names rather than unwell.

In 2020 there is a wake-up call about the fragility of their mental health and wellbeing, and the long-term impacts it can have on all aspects of your life, if it’s not looked after. We can now build upon this new level of awareness. In reality, where we live, learn and work in our communities is where we experience most of our mental health and wellbeing challenges, and this is where the system response needs to be met with the right levels of coordinated and affordable support and care, with a focus on early intervention and prevention.

Those of you who are reading, and seeing all these posts, now need to be able to feel that, “YOU ARE NOT ALONE” ~ “YOU ARE JUST LIKE ANY OTHER HUMAN BEING” ~ “YOU ARE VALUABLE” and do not be shy or afraid to go to a doctor, or some medical help anytime you have issues with your mind. “IT IS JUST THAT YOUR MIND ALSO HAS THE RIGHT TO BE A LITTLE ILL and NEED SOME MEDICAL HELP, MEDICATION and LOVING KINDNESS” ~ “IT IS YOUR LIFE AND IT IS IMPORTANT TO YOU” ~ “YOU NEED TO TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF” ❤



When we focus our energy towards constructing a meaningful life, we are tossing a pebble into the world. Creating a beautiful ripple effect of Inspiration. When one person follows a Dream, tries something new, or take a brave leap, “Everyone around you feels that energy gets motivated 🙂

And before long, they are also inspired to, “Try out following their Dreams and Inspire yet another circle or a group of people. “Now who will try to begin writing or finding out what Their Talents or Gift is?

I hope reading all these has inspired and encouraged you to seek help and become, “The SURVIVOR” to tell, “YOUR STORY” to others to Encourage them too” And, “HELP END THE STIGMA”? YOU CAN AND YOU WILL ❤


So it goes on and on. I wonder, How many of you “The Readers” will also start writing or doing your own thing now and inspire others too. Then I will be The Reader ❤

Latest Update Today is Thursday 8th August 2021: This is “The 160th Post” and with the “Introductory Page this will be all in Total up to date, 161 posts.

On Top Right Hand side you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, You will see will see The word “Home” All the posts from “The Very Beginning comes ~ Under “Home”. Which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing

The old Topics are, “On The Left Hand side “Under the, “Recent Posts” with “The New Topics adding up. You can “Click and see all The older Topics” “Under “ARCHIVES” and “Under CATERGORIES”

I am still “My Healthy self” and Writing “My Own Journey on Wellness and Healing”. So that Everyone can have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” To Lead a Better Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy”. If you click on the Link You can Read This Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to other different posts of Mine which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am up to during my spare time you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/

It is all free”. You can share and pass it on also for others who can benefit from this post. I hope All those who Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so as, ”Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in Life” ❤

Thank you for Reading and Thanking The I net for the pictures I have shared ❤

Sending Love, Light and Healing Energies Your Way ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa Nilamani 🙂

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Lotus Flower!

Hello To All My Dear Readers ❤

Hope all of you are keeping in Good Health? “You need to be with my Hands having Healing Energies for Good Health, what ever faith is”. If not I Hope and Wish All of you to receive them. With so much of Health issues and restrictions I thought it is a good time to write about the lotus flower. A flower I like very much and you all will like to read about it. A light topic and not so much of serious reading. In History, it is taken as one of the most spiritual flowers on Earth. The symbolism of the lotus flower dates back thousands of years. An important symbol in many different cultures, Lotus flowers are one of the most prominent tokens in Eastern cultures. In Hinduism and Buddhism, they’re considered as the most sacred flower. Lotus flowers are beautiful flowers that are commonly associated with purity, inner strength, tranquility, prosperity, and beauty ❤


It is often called a water lily. Their seeds can survive for thousands of years without water. They have a strong will to survive. It’s used in food, medicine, art, and so much more. The most common use for a lotus is ornamental. However, the roots are sweet and fragrant as well as rich in starch and vitamins. You can eat them raw, cooked into soups, brewed into teas, blended into salads, dried, preserved, and even powdered. Other parts of the lotus plant are also edible. They will grow in most soils and in most environments, so long as they have mud or water, and as long as they can float. In fact, they contain little air spaces in their leaves to ensure buoyancy (To be able to float. Something to float in water or other fluid) and long stems to tie them to the mud. Other uses for lotus flower roots, petals, nuts, and seeds include:
Cosmetics
Environmentally friendly packaging material
Raw material for textiles
With all its uses, the lotus isn’t seen too frequently in the western world, but that doesn’t mean you can’t grow it.

Lotus in Jewelry and Fashion

Today the lotus remains one of the most popular symbols in jewelry and fashion. It’s often used in pendants, rings, bracelets and earrings, or simply kept as a charm. The image can be stylized and represented in many ways, including as an open bloom or a closed bud.

Lotus jewelry also makes a great gift ideas:

  • As a gift to someone coming of age, it’s a reminder to stay grounded and true to oneself, while ever striving upwards.
  • For someone going through a difficult period in their life, the lotus is a symbol of overcoming adversity and hardship, while still keeping one’s spirit intact.
  • The lotus symbol is also popular in clothing. Because the symbol doesn’t belong to any one group or faith, it’s seen as a universal symbol that holds meaning to everyone.

Wrapping it up: The lotus flower is a beautiful, powerful symbol. The many meanings and religious connections of the lotus make it an excellent choice for artwork, jewelry, clothing and as a decorative motif. While the symbolism of the lotus is rooted in several religions, the symbol has transcended this to become universal and can be sported by anyone, regardless of their religious affiliation. After all, no one can lay claim to the lotus, one of the most beautiful and symbolically rich flowers of the natural world.

Latest Update: 29th May 2021. This is “The 158th Post” and with the “Introductory Page this will be all in Total up to date, 159 posts. On Top Right Hand side you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, You will see will see The word “Home” All the posts from “The Very Beginning comes ~ Under “Home”. Which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

Also with All the First Lot and the next few Topics in: Posts That Has Been Published ~ 1! – I am My Path! & Posts That Has Been Published ~ 2! – I am My Path!

The old Topics are, “On The Left Hand side “Under the, “Recent Posts” with “The New Topics adding up. You can “Click and see all The older Topics” “Under “ARCHIVES” and “Under CATERGORIES” ❤

I am still “My Healthy self” and Writing “My Own Journey on Wellness and Healing”. So that Everyone can have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” To Lead a Better Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy”. If you click on the Link You can Read This Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

It is all free”. You can share and pass it on also for others who can benefit from this post. I hope All those who Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so as, ”Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in Life ❤

Thanking The I net for the pictures and Free Online Image Editor (online-image-editor.com) for the Picture Posts I have done myself ❤

Sending Love, Light and Healing Energies Your Way ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa Nilamani 🙂


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Authentic!

Hello To All My Dear Readers ❤

Hope All of you are in Good Health and Trying to be “Positive going about in Your Daily Life” as it is “A Time when there is so much of “A Health condition going on with some people”. As “A Natural Healer I am in Very Good Health” And I Wish All of You to be Healthy and Strong” So do “Be Brave and Safe Guard Yourselves to be in Good Health” as much as possible ❤
Here I go, Beginning “The 2nd series of posts”. Beginning with “A Very Important Topic of “Being “Authentic” To be Authentic is being genuine. Authentic | Definition of Authentic at Dictionary.com


“The Most Important Quality” of “A Person” who wants to “Heal and Help Others” has “To Be Authentic” We need to be “Honest and not hide our feelings” so that the person or the people we want to help feel “Comfortable and to be Encouraged to “Talk of their own problems or difficulties” ❤

So being “Authentic” helps one to be “Helpful” and To be doing Good work or A Job well and to be “Successful” Authenticity makes it possible to “Be Positive” As being Genuine’ Makes one “To Be Pure”. being Pure One can “Radiate ~ Spread” Pure Energy in turn one is able to “Encourage, Motivate” to the Maximum for others to “Have Faith and Hope” To be able to Lead A Life of Peace and Harmony ❤
Authentic self is “The Best Part of A Human Being”. In “A Therapeutic situation The Person who wants to help has to be “An Authentic Person. When You are Authentic “You Create The Space for Others also To Do The Same” ❤

Today being The: 2nd March 2021. This is the “1st post of The 2nd Lot” Which will go in The Post, “The Posts That Has Been Published ~ 2!”

On Top Right Hand side Top you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, You will see will see The word “Home” All the posts from “The Very Beginning will be ~ Under “Home”. As well as The Page: Posts That Has Been Published ~ 1! and “The 2nd Lot of Posts: Posts That Has Been Published ~ 2!

The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing! as well as: The Therapists Voice Forward! is in Green letters: Under The Copy Right Notice”!

The old Topics can be found “On The Left Hand side “Under the, “Recent Posts” with “The New Topics adding up. “The Balance will be Under “ARCHIVES” and Under “CATERGORIES”. Thank You for Reading ❤

I have “My Personal Website” with “My own little Poems and Pictures if You click on this Link You can go there and read :https://deepanilamani.com

It is all free as usual”. You can share and pass it on also for others who can benefit from this post. I hope All those who Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so as, ”Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in Life” ❤

Thanking The I net for the Pictures and https://www.online-image-editor.com/ for the picture posts I have done ❤

Sending Love, Light and Healing Energies Your Way ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa Nilamani 🙂

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Posts That Has Been Published ~ 1!

Hello To All My Dear Readers ❤

I have Given here ~ All the First 150 posts I have Published” When You Click The word “Menu on Top Right Hand also All These will be Under “Home”. As this is what I have Thought of doing “After I finished The first Lot of Posts”!
The “2nd Lot of Posts also I will Begin with “A page like this Called “The Posts That has Been Published ~ 2!, and keep on adding “The New Posts Methodically” so that it will be easy to follow. That means The Menu on Top Right Hand will, “Have the Topics of The First lot of Topics, as well as “Posts The has Been Published ~ 2!

1. Who I am & Why I am Writing! – I am My Path!
2. The Therapists Voice Forward! – I am My Path!
3. Welcome To My World! – I am My Path!
4. Healing ~ Trauma! – I am My Path!
5. All About Writing! – I am My Path!
6. Challenges in Life! – I am My Path!
7. Power of the Mind! – I am My Path!
8. As I Move On! – I am My Path!
9. As We Move On ! – I am My Path!
10. A New Chapter! – I am My Path!


11. When Rejected ~ Find Acceptance! – I am My Path!
12. Thank You All! – I am My Path!
13. Who are We ~ Why are We here ? – I am My Path!
14. Our Value in Our Life & in Other’s! – I am My Path!
15. The Power of Prayers! – I am My Path!
16. Ending of One Chapter! – I am My Path!
17. Success in Life! – I am My Path!
18. Inner Guidance ! – I am My Path!
19. Healing from ~ Depression! – I am My Path!
20. Changes in Life! – I am My Path!

21. Moral Values! – I am My Path!
22. Courage to Heal Depression! – I am My Path!
23. End of A Very Long Journey ! – I am My Path!
24. Writer’s Block? – I am My Path!
25. My Path! – I am My Path!
26. Life ~ Health ~ Healing! – I am My Path!
27. Why Do some people Try to Spoil Others Lives for No Reason? – I am My Path!
28. Thank You All! – I am My Path!
29. What Is Healing? – I am My Path!
30. Healing ~ Taking Full Responsibility! – I am My Path!


31. Healing ~ Desire To Heal! – I am My Path!
32.Healing ~ Who Help or Hurt Us! – I am My Path!
33. Life’s Lessons! – I am My Path!
34. Gratitude ~ In Healing! – I am My Path!
35. What is Gratitude? – I am My Path!
36. Benefits of Gratitude! – I am My Path!
37. A Collection of Gratitudes! – I am My Path!
38. The Journey called Life! – I am My Path!
39. Words Words and Words! – I am My Path!
40. That Thing called Stress! – I am My Path!

41. Counselling and Psychotherapy! – I am My Path!
42. Online Psychological Therapy! – I am My Path!
43. The Benefits of Nature! – I am My Path!
44. What is Depression? – I am My Path!
45. The Purpose of Our Lives! – I am My Path!
46. Forgiveness in Healing! – I am My Path!
47. New Beginnings! – I am My Path!
48. Thank You All! – I am My Path!
49. New Changes! – I am My Path!
50. Ending One Chapter! – I am My Path!

51. Freedom ~ In Healing! – I am My Path!
52. Dealing with Those who Don’t Understand You! – I am My Path!
53. Rise Again! – I am My Path!
54. Lessons from A Lion! – I am My Path!
55. A Message of Love! – I am My Path!
56. Trials and Tribulations in Healing! – I am My Path!
57. Third Eye in Healing! – I am My Path!
58. Happy New Year To All! – I am My Path!
59. My Life Up To Now ~ January 2018! – I am My Path!
60. We Each have Our Own Path! – I am My Path!

61. Rise Above The Storm! – I am My Path!
62. Chakra Healing! – I am My Path!
63. Chakra Healing ~ Muladhara! – I am My Path!
64. End The Stigma ~ Discrimination Stops with You! – I am My Path!
65. End The Stigma! – I am My Path!
66. Chakra Healing ~ Svadhisthana! – I am My Path!
67. Hobbies ~ Do What You Really Like To Do! – I am My Path!
68. Good Things Don’t Come Easy! – I am My Path!
69. When We Forget Our Blessings! – I am My Path!
70. A Note of Thanks! – I am My Path!

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71. The Power of Hand Writing! – I am My Path!
72. Growing Older ~ Young At Heart! – I am My Path!
73. I Am Praying For You! – I am My Path!
74. Chakra Healing ~ Manipura! – I am My Path!
75. Happy New Year ~ 2019! – I am My Path!
76. Perfection! – I am My Path!
77. To My Happiness Family! – I am My Path!
78. You are Stronger than You Think! – I am My Path!
79. Healing ~ Basic Steps! – I am My Path!
80. Freedom To Be You! – I am My Path!


81. Life’s Challenges! – I am My Path!
82. A New Chance To Start Over! – I am My Path!
83. Trust Your Journey! – I am My Path!
84. Chakra Balancing! – I am My Path!
85. Motivation! – I am My Path!
86. Chakra Healing ~Anahata! – I am My Path!
87 . Thank You Very Much! – I am My Path!
88. Guide To Your Chakras! – I am My Path!
89. As I Move On Again! – I am My Path!
90. Chakra Healing ~ Vishuddha! – I am My Path!



91. All About Energy ~ Vibration! – I am My Path!
92. Clearing of Negative Energy! – I am My Path!|
93. How Far I am My Path has Come! – I am My Path!
94. Celebrate Life! – I am My Path!
95. Taking The Therapists Voice Forward! – I am My Path!
96. Celebrating WordPress 4th Year Anniversary! – I am My Path!
97. Happy Birthday Tumbler Turned 2 Years! – I am My Path!
98. My Journey on Healing! – I am My Path!
99. Chakra Healing ~ Ajna! – I am My Path!
100. Chakra Healing ~ Sahasrara! – I am My Path!




101. Merry Christmas 2019 & Happy New Year 2020! – I am My Path!
102. Being Thankful! – I am My Path!
103 .Benefits Of Music ~ Part 1! – I am My Path!
104. Benefits of Music ~ Part 2! – I am My Path!
105. How To Make A Collage! – I am My Path!
106. Collage ~ New Year Resolutions! – I am My Path!
107. World Statistics For ~ I am My Path! – I am My Path!
108. Inspirations! – I am My Path!
109. I am Re-Writing My Journey Again! – I am My Path!
110. Counselling ~ 1! – I am My Path!


111.Counselling ~ 2! – I am My Path!
112. Counselling ~ 3! – I am My Path!
113. Birthday! – I am My Path!
114. Chapter 2 ~ How I Became an Author! – I am My Path!
115. How To Stay Home & Be Safe! – I am My Path!
116. Natural Health & Healing! – I am My Path!
117. Things That You Can Do At Home! – I am My Path!
118. Health Benefits of Dancing ~ 1! – I am My Path!
119. Health Benefits of Dancing ~ 2! – I am My Path!
120. Chapter 2 ~ How I Became an Author! – I am My Path!


121. How I am My Path was Born! – I am My Path!
122. Health Benefits of Reading ~ 1! – I am My Path!
123. Health Benefits of Reading ~ 2! – I am My Path!
124. Benefits of Being Positive! – I am My Path!
125. Thank You for The Likes! – I am My Path!
126. Happiness! – I am My Path!
127. Birds Birds Birds! – I am My Path!
128. As Time Goes By! – I am My Path!
129. Healthy Living! – I am My Path!
130. Save Mother Earth! – I am My Path!



131. Fifth Year Anniversary! – I am My Path!
132. Coincidences! – I am My Path!
133. The Gift of Healing ~ My Grandfather! – I am My Path!
134. Stats Are Booming ~1! – I am My Path!
135. Energy Healing! – I am My Path!
136. Deepavali ~ The Festival of Lights! – I am My Path!
137. Healthy Living ~ Exercises! – I am My Path!
138. Healthy Living ~ Relaxation! – I am My Path!
139. Collage For ~ 2021! – I am My Path!
140. Stats Are Booming ~2 & 3! – I am My Path!

141. Merry Christmas! – I am My Path!
142. Happy New Year 2021! – I am My Path!
143. Editing ~ Modifying The Posts! – I am My Path!
144. Revision In Pictures 1 ~ Books! – I am My Path!
145. Revision In Pictures 2 ~ Creativity! – I am My Path!
146. Revision In Pictures 3 ~ Writing! – I am My Path!
147. Revision In Pictures 4 ~ Music! – I am My Path!
148. Revision In Pictures 5 ~ Dancing! – I am My Path!
149. Revision In Pictures 6 ~ Painting! – I am My Path!
150. Revision In Pictures 7 ~ Nature! – I am My Path!


151. Revision In Pictures 8 ~ Be Well! – I am My Path!
152. Teaching ~ Enlightening! – I am My Path!

Latest Update: 20th of February 2021. I am well and “Will be starting to write The next lot of posts”. Thank You Very much for connecting with my Website, Liking, Following, Commenting and Reading and Encouraging Me also ❤


As the same way This List also is all free”. I hope All those who Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these Posts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so as, ”Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in Life ❤

Thanking for the pictures of flowers shared from the I net and Free Online Image Editor (online-image-editor.com) for the post written by me ❤

Sending Love, Light and Healing Energies Your Way ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa Nilamani 🙂

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Teaching ~ Enlightening!

Hello To All My Dear Readers ❤

Today I am writing about what I have been doing all this time. Well this is me, it is an older picture of me than now, but you can see me in a different way, just like a “Teacher wearing My Reading glasses” that I have not posted before 🙂

To Teach is to touch a life forever, And this is what I am trying to do in my own little way. I hope All those who have been Reading in The Past, and Those who will read in Future, you Learn and benefit (make use) from what I have been doing all these years.
teacher (also called a school teacher or, in some contexts, an educator) is a person who helps students to acquire knowledge, competence or virtue.
Informally the role of teacher may be taken on by anyone (when showing a colleague how to perform a specific task). In some countries, teaching young people of school age may be carried out in an informal setting, such as within the family (homeschooling), rather than in a formal setting such as a school or college. Some other professions may involve a significant amount of teaching (youth worker, pastor).
In most countries, formal teaching of students is usually carried out by paid professional teachers. This article focuses on those who are employed, as their main role, to teach others in a formal education context, such as at a school or other place of initial formal education or training.

A teacher’s role may vary among cultures. Teachers may provide instruction in literacy, numeracycraftsmanship or vocational trainingthe artsreligioncivics, community roles, or life skills.

A teacher’s professional duties may extend beyond formal teaching. Outside of the classroom teachers may accompany students on field trips, supervise study halls, help with the organization of school functions, and serve as supervisors for extracurricular activities. In some education systems, teachers may be responsible for student discipline.

Competences and qualities required by teachers
Teaching is a highly complex activity. This is partially because teaching is a social practice, that takes place in a specific context (time, place, culture, socio-political-economic situation etc.) and therefore is shaped by the values of that specific context. Factors that influence what is expected (or required) of teachers include history and tradition, social views about the purpose of education, accepted theories about learning.

“The meaning of Deepa is Light and, Light is Enlightening. It is also said “From Darkness To Light” Darkness means Ignorance (Not knowing) and Light is Enlightenment. Enlightening means “Clearing of the Mind, Giving out Knowledge also Wisdom 🙂


Wisdom is knowing things that help a person to live sensibly and make good decisions. Wisdom is defined differently by many cultures. Some say that wisdom is something a person learns as they grow older. Other cultures expect people to complete certain rituals in order to get wisdom. If someone has wisdom we say he is wise.
Most cultures from the past have had special people who were supposed to be wise. People asked them for advice when they had problems because they knew things that ordinary people did not know or could not know. They were often called “sages”. There are many stories in Western culture in which the owl is supposed to be a wise bird.


Duties and functions: A teacher’s role may vary among cultures. Teachers may provide instruction in literacy and numeracycraftsmanship or vocational trainingthe artsreligioncivics, community roles, or life skills. Formal teaching tasks include preparing lessons according to agreed curricula, giving lessons, and assessing pupil progress.

Competences: The competences required by a teacher are affected by the different ways in which the role is understood around the world. Broadly, there seem to be four models: 1.the teacher as manager of instruction; 2.the teacher as caring person; 3.the teacher as expert learner; 4.teacher as cultural and civic person: Teacher – Wikipedia

Enthusiasm: It has been found that teachers who showed enthusiasm towards the course materials and students can create a positive learning experience.

A teacher’s professional duties may extend beyond formal teaching. Outside of the classroom teachers may accompany students on field trips, supervise study halls, help with the organization of school functions, and serve as supervisors for extracurricular activities. In some education systems, teachers may be responsible for students ❤

A definition: Teaching is the process of attending to people’s needs, experiences and feelings, so that they learn particular things, and go beyond the given. Interventions (the action of becoming intentionally involved in a difficult situation, in order to improve it or prevent it from getting worse) commonly take the form of questioning, listening, giving information, explaining, demonstrating (Showing) a skill or process, testing understanding, and facilitating (make an action or process easy or easier). Learning activities (such as note taking, discussion, assignment writing, and practice) definition of facilitating – Bing!

Attending to people’s feelings, experiences and needs: Considering what those we are supposed to be teaching need, and what might be good for them, is one of the main things. Education can be described as the ‘wise, hopeful and respectful cultivation of learning undertaken in the belief that all should have the chance to share in life’. The process of education flows from a basic orientation of respect – respect for truth, others and themselves, and the world. For teachers to be educators they must, therefore:

  • Consider people’s needs and wishes now and in the future.
  • Reflect on what might be good for all (and the world in which we live).
  • Plan their interventions accordingly.

There are a couple of issues that immediately arise from this:
1. First, how do we balance individual needs and wishes against what might be good for others? For most of us this is probably something that we should answer on a case-by-case basis – (one by one) and it is also something that is likely to be a focus for conversation and reflection in our work with people.

2. Second, what do we do when people do not see the point of learning things: for example, around grammar or safety requirements? The obvious response to this question is that we must ask and listen – they may have point. However, we also must weigh this against what we know about the significance of these things in life, and any curriculum (course of study in a school or college) or health and safety or other requirements (needs) we have a duty to meet.
In this case we have a responsibility to try to introduce them to people when the time is right, to explore their relevance (useful to what is happening) and to encourage participation (the action of taking part in something) definition of participation – Bing

Failing to attend to people’s feelings and experiences is problematic: and not just because it reveals (shows) a basic lack of respect for them. It is also pointless and counter-productive (no use) to try to explore things when people are not ready to look at them. We need to consider their feelings and look to their experiences. Both of our classroom or learning environment, and around the issues or areas we want to explore. Bringing people’s experiences around the subjects or areas we are looking to teach about into the classroom or learning situation is, thus, fundamental (principle on which something is based) to the learning process. Learning particular things! definition of fundemental – Bing

Teaching involves creating an environment and engaging with others, so that they learn particular things. This can be anything from tying a shoe lace to appreciating the structure of a three act play. I want to highlight (show) three key elements here:1.focus, 2.knowledge and 3.The ability to engage people in learning!

This may be a bit obvious – but it is probably worth saying – teaching has to have a focus. We should be clear about we are trying to do. One of the findings that shines through research on teaching is that clear learning intentions help learners to see the point of a session or intervention, keep the process on track, and, when challenging, make a difference in what people learn. (the main or central point of something, especially of attention or interest) FOCUS | meaning in the Cambridge English Dictionary!

Good teaching is rather more than technique. Good teaching, ‘Comes from the identity and integrity (the quality of being honest and having strong moral principles) of the teacher’. It is the way we are experienced, our enthusiasm, our care, our knowledge, our interest in, and concern for, people that is the key to whether we are felt to be good teachers. We need to be present as people in the classroom or learning environment. The quality of being honest and having strong moral principles: (principles)a rule or belief governing one’s behaviour. definition of integrity – Bing

Well now to write in more “simple words” from “My Experiences” Teaching is on “Many Different Subjects” It is not only written subjects But, “It can Be like: Life Coaching also and Many Different Topics.

1. Languages
2. Sports
3. Singing
4. Dancing
5. Sewing
6. Science
7. Driving
8. Swimming
9. Modelling
10. Handwork

As above it was mentioned even day to day things like, “Tying Your shoes laces or Wearing clothes that suits when it is Hot or Cold, to suit The School or College, for functions or other places and many other subjects You can think of. Also some students are not ready for certain topics But it may be they are not aware of “The Importance” in the Future. So things like that has to be explained.

To finish the Topic: The Real Meaning of Teaching is: The Teacher and the Students, “Both have to be Interested and Dedicated to Be Taught and To Learn, for Teaching to Be Successful. If something is successful, it has achieved what it was intended to achieve. successful – Bing 🙂

This is a Long post and A Very Important Topic when One has to Learn and then about Teaching. With lots of Information. I have written what I know by Teaching itself and done some of Reference from the I net also. Hope You now have a clear idea what Teaching is and to be Taught is 🙂

Latest Update: 14th of February 2021. This is “The 149th Post” and with the “Introductory Page this will be all in Total up to date, 150 posts. On Top Right Hand side you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, You will see will see The word “Home” All the posts from “The Very Beginning comes ~ Under “Home”. Which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

The old Topics are, “On The Left Hand side “Under the, “Recent Posts” with “The New Topics adding up. “It will be too long to post so many number of posts on the side. You can “Click and see all The older Topics” “Under “ARCHIVES” and “Under CATERGORIES” Try “To Move around the site and find. “That is also “Part of Educating Yourself further”. So far I have Not seen any other site post so much clearly ❤

I am Moving on as usual with “My Own Journey of Wellness, Encouraging and Healing” So that Everyone can have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” To Lead a Better Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy”. If you click on the Link You can Read This Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

I have “My Personal Website” with “My own little Poems, Hobbies and Pictures if You click on this Link You can go there and read :https://deepanilamani.com

It is all free”. You can share and pass it on also for others who can benefit from this post. I hope All those who Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so as, ”Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in Life ❤

Thanking The I net, and for The Other sites for the Information and Pictures I have taken and Free Online Image Editor (online-image-editor.com) for the picture Quotes I have done Myself ❤

Sending Love, Light and Healing Energies Your Way ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa Nilamani 🙂 


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Deepavali ~ The Festival of Lights!

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Hope all of you are in Good Health and getting on in your lives well. Year 2020 has zoomed past and almost coming on to 2021. Today I wanted to write about Deepavali Day as its relevant for me, being named after this day. Deepavali is celebrated as a “Triumph of Truth” and Righteousness over evil. All outcomes of, “Ignorance are Dispelled” and It is “A Birth of New Aspirations and Hope so of Happy Days” 🙂

Celebrations take place over five days known as: Dhanteras (day of fortune); Naraka Chaturdashi (day of knowledge); Diwali (day of light); Annakut (New Year); Bhai Duj (day of love between siblings).

The Vibrations of people affect “The Cosmos” When evil Thoughts are emitted , there is bound to be trouble in the Cosmic order!

The Laws of Dharma” should never be violated. There are seven (Basic) Universal Laws or Principles by which everything in the Universe is governed. The Universe exists in perfect harmony by virtue of these Laws. ……..Courtesy of The I net! ❤

NATURAL LAWS OF THE UNIVERSE
1) The Law of Divine Oneness               7) The Law of Attraction
2) The Law of Vibration                          8) The Law of Perpetual Transmutation of Energy
3) The Law of Action                                9) The Law of Relativity
4) The Law of Correspondence            10) The Law of Polarity
5)The Law of Cause and Effect             11) The Law of Rhythm
6)The Law of Compensation                 12) The Law of Gender

There should be, “Love, Joy, Peace, Gentleness, Goodness and Faith. Deepavali is. “A Happy reminder of of such “Good Laws” The world would be “A Happy Place to live in, if it evolves around Love ❤

For Deepavali Day people clean their houses and their surroundings, apply “Herbal Oil” on their heads and wear new clothes and worship in the Temple and and with rows of Light to Celebrate it!

People eat savoury foods of “A Combination of 6 different tastes and sweets of innumerable variety and fruits” 😀

They perform “Acts of Charity and Pooja” , visit friends, relatives and Holy Places of worship ❤

People seeks The Blessings of, “Goddess of Lakshmi” “The Goddess of Wealth, for that Life Force, which gives The Zest for Living”!

Lamps shine Brightly in every home, symbolizing Knowledge and Encouraging reflection upon The Purpose of, The Festival of Lights” 🙂

BHOPAL, INDIA – NOVEMBER 9: Buyers purchasing utensils on the occasion of Dhanteras on November 9, 2015 in Bhopal, India. Shopping metal objects like gold jewellery and utensils are considered auspicious on this day which falls two days before Diwali. (Photo by Praveen Bajpai/Hindustan Times via Getty Images)


Day 5 ~ Brother’s Day!
Day of Love between siblings. Reflects on “The special Bond between Brothers and Sisters. Differences are set aside and Families make a special effort to get together and enjoy each others company” 🙂

What I did. I made special Milk Rice to be shared and for Blessings for Everyone 🙂

Milk Rice being made in “The Rice Cooker”!

Date 18th November 2020:I am in Very Good Health. This is “The 133th Post” and with the “Introductory Page this will be all in Total up to date, 134 Articles: https://iammypath.com/who-i-am-why-i-am-writing/ 

What I am doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Moving forward Telling “My Own Journey in Good Health and Healing” in Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy, and it is in this post if you click on the Link: The Therapists Voice Forward!

I have been “Editing and updating” as it is always “Possible to Add new Information, as “Daily new things are discovered” and we are able to update and move on to “Higher Wave Lengths” improve our Lives to a Better standard of Life. Thank You for Reading ❤

The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to other different posts of Mine which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am up to” during my spare time you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/

“It is all free”. You can “Down load what You want ~ Take print outs, share and pass it on also for others who can benefit from this posts. or the comments below. I hope All those Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so as, ”Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in Life”. Any questions or comments are most welcome ❤

Thanking The I net for the Picture Quotes and https://www.online-image-editor.com/ for the picture posts I have done ❤

Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies from me ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa Nilamani 🙂

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The Gift of Healing ~ My Grandfather!

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Hope All of You are keeping well and Happy. As usual I am keeping in Good Health and moving forward doing my usual, activities. As I have written that I have received, “The Gift of Healing” some were unable to really understand “Exactly from whom and how I have received “The Gift”! Although I shared My Grandfathers Link on Wikipedia, it is not all who are able to see the connection of myself to “My Grandfather and My Great Grandfather, that I have had to share these details with some reluctance, “To make it clear, about My Grandfather and My Great Grandfather’s “Qualifications and Other details to Support, What The Gift of Healing is” Please Click This Link which will take to Thepage with All Their Details: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/G._P._Wickramarachchi!

Early life and education:
Gabriyal Perera Wickramarachchi (Sinhala: ජී. පී. වික්‍රමආරච්චි; 28 September 1889 – 29 March 1975) also known as Ayurveda Chakravarti Pandit Wickramarachchi was a distinguished eminent Ceylonese Ayurvedic physician, author, linguist, senator, lawyer (notary), lecturer and a philanthropist who founded Gampaha Siddhayurveda Vidyalaya which later became Gampaha Wickramarachchi Ayurveda Institute of University of Kelaniya.

Wickramarachchi was born on 28 September 1889 in Nadungamuwa Gampaha as the third son of the family to (above) Velum Perera Wickramarachchi, an indigenous medical practitioner and his wife Sara Nona Dharmawathi. He received his primary education at Henegama Government School and secondary education at Uttharamulla Pirivena. He entered the Vidyodaya Pirivena in circa.1909 and graduated in oriental languages in 1913 with the title Rajakiya Pandit. In 1917 he sat for the notary exam and became a notary, in that same year he won a scholarship to Jamini Bhushan Ray Ashtanga Ayurvedic Vidyalaya in Calcutta. After three years of studying there he earned his degree of LAMS (Hons) in 1920 and the degree of Kaviranjan from Kaliya Ayurveda Bavan in 1921.

Pandit Wickramarachchi started his professional career at Gampaha and became the most brilliant Ayurvedic Physician at that era. He established Gampaha Siddhayurveda Vidyalaya in 1929 and maintained the Vidyalaya at his own expenses and no fees were charged from the students even for lodging. Pandit Wickramarachchi started the medicine factory attached to the Vidyalaya in the 1930s (1932 or 1934).

Wickramarachchi Veda Ralahami was a well disciplined devout Buddhist and rendered his service as the Editor of Sinhala Bauddhaya from 1914 to 1917 in request of the Buddhist revival leader Srimath Anagarika Dharmapala.

His contribution for Journals, Magazines and Newspapers was enormous. He wrote five to six books on Ayurveda medicines and a route to a healthy life, even today some of his books such as “Bojana Sangrahaya”, “Lakdiva Raktha Roga Sangarahaya” are extremely popular books among the Ayurvedic medical practitioners and consider them as classics.

The Government of Ceylon in 1957 nominated him as a member of the Council of Senate, in appreciating his services. Considering his professional career, the Vidyodaya University of Ceylon granted him the Degree of Ayurveda Chakravarti in 1960 and later on he was the Dean of the Faculty of Science of Vidyodaya University. He extended his service for 46 years in the Gampaha Siddhayurveda Vidyalaya until 1975.


20th October 2020:All the posts from “The Beginning to the end is shown Top Right Hand under “The Menu”, Below the Home Page”. Also There will still be The old Topics “On The Left Hand side, Under the “Recent Posts” with “The New Topics adding up” This is “The 130th Post” and 131 with the “Introductory Page: https://iammypath.com/who-i-am-why-i-am-writing/ 

You can click on the the Link: The Therapists Voice Forward! to read who I became after I had done all My studies including The Last Course that, “I followed ~ The Diploma in Counseling and Psychotherapy. Courtesy of: Theory and Practice of Counseling and Psychotherapy by ~ Dr Gerald Corey!

“The Universal Energy” is also called “Healing or Pranic energy”. Pranic Healing is a highly developed and tested system of energy based a no-touch healing technique that utilizes “Prana” to balance, harmonize and transform the body’s energy processes!

You cannot see this energy but you can certainly feel it’s power. The Sun is just one example of the Universal energies which plays a significant role in our lives. The role of Universal energy in your life is defined as you give direction to the energy through your intentions and desires. Universal energy is the energy that sustains life, providing vital energy to all living systems. The whole Universe, starting from the stars in the sky to the atoms that create them, including the world we live in and our bodies, everything we see or do, is made up of the Universal Energy, at the most fundamental level.

Pranic Healing is an ancient science and art of healing that utilizes prana or ki or life energy to heal the whole physical body. Prana or ki is the life force or life energy that keeps the body alive and healthy. In India its called Prana. In greek it is called pneuma.
In Polynesian mana, and in Hebrew it is called Ruah which means breath of life. The healer projects prana or life energy to the patient, thereby healing the patient. It is through this process that the s “miraculous healing” is accomplished.

Pranic Healing is based on two laws: 1.The Law of Self – Recovery 2. The Law of Life energy. These laws are quite obvious but strangely they are usually the least noticed or least remembered by most people.

“Prana” is a Sanskrit word that means “life force“, “chi” in China and “ki” in Japan. Energy healing” include Reiki, Reflexology, Kinesiology.

Reflexology, also known as zone therapy is a practice involving the application of pressure to specific points on the feet and hands. This is done using specific thumb, finger, and hand massage techniques. It is based on a system of zones and reflex areas that purportedly reflect an image of the body on the feet and hands, that such work on the feet and hands causes a physical change to the related areas of the body.

Reiki is a Japanese form of alternative medicine called energy healing. Reiki practitioners use a technique called palm healing or hands-on healing through which a “universal energy” is transferred through the palms of the practitioner to the patient in order to encourage emotional or physical healing.

Kinesiology is the scientific study of human body movement. Adaptation through exercise is a key principle of kinesiology that relates to improved fitness in athletes as well as health and wellness. Click on this Link to go to another post I have written: All About Energy ~ Vibration!

Therapeutic touch (abbreviated TT) is also a type of Healing.

As we know, energy can travel. “Prayer energy which also can be called Healing Energy” can travel far and wide to distant places too. As a result of continuing to “Pray, Donate, Giving and Sharing, with Dedication and Consistently” over the years, I have begun to understand more and My, “Healing Energies” have become stronger 🙂

You also can receive as, “Healing Energy can Travel” Please know “That is is Not possible to show in pictures or in colour, But it is being felt in Your Hands: In your Palms and fingers anytime you do get them. “But one must have to receive with a Pure Heart and Loving Kindness” ❤

Click anytime You need to and take it in with a “Good Heart ~ Loving Kindness” Sometimes you might feel your Right Hand Sometimes it can be the Left Hand, (meaning Your fingers and the palm vibrating) that means you are getting Healing Energies, and sometimes it can be Both Hands receiving (again it is the fingers and the palms same way). All depends on How you will need, and they will stay a while, also come and go at certain times and stop). Concentrate on it or close your eyes which ever way You feel like doing, and “Feel Healing Energy flowing into You”, Cleansing you of any worries, negativity that You may have, or any of Your Issues that needs Healing” and to “Give You Strength and Courage and Renew Your Hopes” that will bring “You Good Health, Prosperity, Happiness and Joy, and Peace” which “We All seek as The Ultimate Goal in Our Lives” ❤

Because of this I have to be doing a “Lot of Editing and updating” still it is always “Possible to Add new Information, as “Daily new things are discovered” and we are able to update and improve our Lives to a Better standard of Life. Thank You for Reading ❤

The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to other different posts of Mine which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation also”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am up to” during my spare time you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/ 🙂

“It is all free”. You can “Take print outs, share and pass it on also for others who can benefit from this posts. I hope All those Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so as, ”Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in Life”. Any questions or comments are most welcome ❤

Thanking Free Online Image Editor (online-image-editor.com for the posts I have written and done ❤

Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies from me ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa Nilamani 🙂

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Save Mother Earth!

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Hope all of you are keeping in Good Health and moving on progressively. The year 2020 most of it has zoomed past and only 4 months left for 2021!
Today I am writing about “The changes that are happening around where I am living”. Change is good But, Not when it is not favourable for the environment, its people and living beings. After years of searching I found a Quiet area to live, where there was bushland and protective areas for wild life and fauna.
Fauna is all of the animal life present in a particular region or time. The corresponding term for plants is flora. Flora, fauna and other forms of life such as fungi are collectively referred to as biotaZoologists and paleontologists use fauna to refer to a typical collection of animals found in a specific time or place,


It was My final move as I wanted very quiet and peaceful surroundings, so that I was able to do a lot of Reading and Writing and less physical activities, so that I could do more of academic work as an Author and a Writer. So I moved into my house in this quiet Residential secure area and happily settled down in making it my home of living in Peace!

Until very recently, suddenly there came a lot of noise of machinery, disturbing the whole of the neighbourhood, and such valuable trees being cut and disturbing not only the people But destroying the habitats and living areas of the especially the very important protected Bird sanctuary. This is a time of, most of us being adviced to stay in our homes and even people resorting to work from home because of the current very serious Health situation. The exact times that people are restricted of their movements, from morning to evening having to listen to “Rumbling noises of machinery, which is “Noise Pollution” not enough dust and smoke in the air its, “Air Pollution” making the clean Air dirty that we all do not have clean air to breath. What is Air Pollution!


Recycle!

How To Save The Environment!
To have better and improved machinery. Eco vehicles or cars that do not emit polluted air and smoke, Energy making use of “Natural Resources” as possible. Recycling as much as possible.

Environmental pollution and green energy ecology concepts. Air pollution, eco car, alternative energy, recycling, natural products, pollution of nature.

We have to Try as much as possible, “To work and to do things in our lives in ways of being clean and friendly to: “The Places around us” that is “The Environment” To leave Healthy Places for Our Future Generations”!

What is Environment?

Save Mother Earth!

There are Many Ways!

Love Your Mother Earth To Save Our Mother Earth ❤

I hope You “The Readers who Read and Follow My Blog” Have Learnt New Things also and now have a Good Idea what is going on and What is The Correct Ways to Live. Please “Do ask if You have any more need of Information and do not exactly understand some of which are in the Picture Posts ❤

Today being The 5th Year since I started Word Press I have received this: Happy Anniversary with WordPress.com!
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Thanks for flying with us.
Keep up the good blogging 🙂


Today being The 5th of September 2020.This is “The 127th Post” and with the “Introductory Page it will be 128 Articles” All the posts from “The Beginning to the end is shown, “At the Top Right, where The Menu is”, when You click on The Home Page: who-i-am-why-i-am-writing/ 🙂

There will still be The old Topics “On The Left Hand side “Under the, “Recent Posts” with “The New Topics adding up. “The Balance will be Under “ARCHIVES” ~ As adding up so many Topics, The line is Too Long”. Also click and Look, “Under CATERGORIES” ❤

What I have been doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Moving forward Telling of My Own Journey in Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy, and it is in this post if you click on the Link: The Therapists Voice Forward!

The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts of Mine which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am up to” during my spare time you can have a look at:https://deepanilamani.com/

“It is all free”. You can “Down load only what You want ~ Take print outs, share and pass it on also for others who can benefit from this posts. I hope All those Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so as, ”Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in Life”. Any questions or comments are most welcome ❤

Thanking The I net for the picture Posts I have shared and Free Online Image Editor (online-image-editor.com) for the Posts I have done myself ❤

Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies from me ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa Nilamani 🙂

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Counselling ~ 3!

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I hope You all are well and Reading what I have been writing about Counselling, and Gathering more information. I Hope All of you are keeping well as usual. I am Continuing about Counselling from the last posts:  Counselling ~ 1! Counselling ~ 2!

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I have to remind Again that, “This is NOT exactly professional Counselling. It is what I have learnt during “My Journey” towards, “Wellness” also from what I have studied and by doing References and Reading. Below is what I have written as an answer in,  “The Diploma in Counselling and Psychotherapy”!

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Counsellor as A Therapeutic Person: Counselling is an intimate form of learning. It demands a practitioner who is willing to be an, “Authentic Person in the Therapeutic Relationship.  Authentic describes something that is real or genuine ~ I net!

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What this means is, “The Counsellor has to be Open, Sincere and Honest”. It is then only “The Client will also be able to be open and make progress in the correct way. If the person as “A Counsellor” hide and not show “The Real Self” The people whom they talk to also will keep themselves and what they are going through hidden and not show or speak of what They are going through”!

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What I have experienced is, That The Counsellor, The Doctor or The Therapist has to “To be able to Trust” and Not Think we are making up a story. This is the most important thing, otherwise the moment you feel they don’t, one is not able to be open and get hurt, and after that going to that person is not helpful. For this reason, “It has to be someone whose personality agrees with the client. It can be according, “To the culture and similar facts also”!

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The Purpose of Counselling: The basic purpose of counselling is to help people use their existing problem solving skills more effectively or to develop new or better coping skills. Counsellor’s cannot “Fix” other people’s problems exactly. Their job is to provide an opportunity for the person to describe their feelings and problems for themselves and then to reach decisions and actions that are based on informed choices. Good counselling helps people build skills they can use in solving their problems. For example, if people learn good communication skills in dealing with their immediate families, they can also use those communication skills with their children, friends or co-workers and the society itself!

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Counselling is a process: Counselling is a process that usually has a Beginning, Middle, and an End. There are certain things each counsellor does in each part, it can differ with each different counsellor and also according to each client. This process can take place over just a few sessions or over a longer period. Effective counselling does not necessarily take a long time. In fact “Research shows, that some of  The clients feel they have received the help they need in just 3 or 4 meetings. “Sometimes one meeting is all someone needs. The chance to explain a problem or make it clearer or talking it out, May “Relieve” anxiety or any other feeling one may have. This cane be to do some studies, a job or some” Personal issue” Whether the process is short or longer, counsellors must have the necessary skills, to Truly help clients.

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1.The Beginning: The counsellor starts to to build a “Trusting Relationship” with “The client and finds out Important Information” about The client’s problem or problems.
2. The middle: The counsellor helps the client set Goals – make decisions about what The Client wants. Once Goals are decided, the counsellor and client develop ideas about how the client can reach Those Goals. During this period, The client will try certain thins. Then the counsellor and client discuss what happened and whether the method is working.

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3. The End: When the client feels He or She has achieved what was wanted, The Client and Counsellor prepare for “The End of Counselling”!

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Latest Update 6th March 2020:Up to date with the Birthday article 111th I have Published 112 with The Introductory page. And then All the 111th posts from “The Beginning to the end is shown, On Top Right Hand side you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, You will see will see The word “Home” Which is This Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

So I am having to edit and update all my posts naturally as, This is “A New Chapter and A New Beginning” I am Moving on. I have learnt lot of New Things and Still Learning. Upgrading Myself to A New Wave Length ~ A New Chapter in My Life and I Wish so for You also ❤

There will still be The old Topics “On The Left Hand side. Under the “Recent Posts” and Under “Archives and Categories” with “The New Topics adding up” Happy Reading ❤

Also what I have been doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Moving forward Writing My Journey of Wellness. Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy, and it is in this post if you click on the Link: Taking The Therapists Voice Forward!

I hope All those who Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so.” Peace which is The Ultimate Goal in our Lives” ❤ ❤ ❤

The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing ” 🙂 you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/ ❤

“It is all free”. You can “Down load. Take print outs” and share and pass it on also” for others who can benefit from this article and the posts. Any questions or comments are most welcome ❤ ❤ ❤

Thanking the I net for the pictures taken and shared and https://www.online-image-editor.com/ for the posts written by me ❤

Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies to You ❤

May God’s Blessings be upon You ❤

Deepa 100Deepa Nilamani ❤

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Counselling ~ 2!

Hello To All My Dear Readers ❤

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Hope All of you are keeping well as usual. I am Continuing about Counselling from the last post: Counselling ~ 1!

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In This article I am posting, Many picture posts from, “The I net itself” to know how, “Many Different people are Describing, “What Counselling is and Everything” that is, “Under The Topic of Counselling”. And also for the, “Readers who are following from All Over The World ~ whose Main Spoken Language is NOT English” are able to Understand in the correct way. As I have seen the meanings and words do not come the same way when, “The posts are Translated in to another Language. Although The Picture Quotes are from “The I Net” BUT “When I am writing it is NOT copying straight from other books or The I net. It is My Knowledge But also doing References, still “All that has to agree with what I know and feel correct”!

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According to the picture above: Counselling is:
1. Confidential.
2. Listening: Having time to talk to someone who listens.
3. Understanding: Having Time to talk to some one who someone who listens.
4. Responsive: To individual needs ~ To know the persons personality and what she or he needs.
5. Non Judgmental: Not to Judge if that person is good or bad.
6. Changing: Counselling can help you work out what changes You can make and how.

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The Picture above also gives almost the same points, as I have written above!

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I hope what I have posted and written has helped You to know what Counselling is and You will feel much better. Also to know exactly how it helps and how to go about, “For Professional Counselling Yourself if needed”!

Latest Update 6th March 2020:Up to date with the Birthday article 111th and I have Published 112 posts on This Website. The Introductory page. On “The Top Right Hand side” you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, You will see will see The word “Home” Which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing !

This is My Birthday and, “A New Chapter and A New Beginning”. Upgrading Myself to A New Wave Length ~ A New Chapter in My Life and I Wish so for You also. Please click this Link which will take You to The Birthday Post Birthday!

There will still be The older Topics “On The Left Hand side. Under the, Recent Posts” with “The New Topics adding up and “Under Archives and Categories” Happy Reading ❤

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And what I have been doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Moving forward Telling About My Own Journey”. Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy. And if You click on this Link in Green You can read this Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation also”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am up to” 🙂 during my spare time you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/

“It is all free”. You can “Down load ~ Take print outs” Only what You want either The written parts or The Pictures” “share and or pass it on also” for others who can benefit from this article and All the other posts ❤

Thanking The I net and “A Very Special Thank You, To All The Other sites from” “Me and My Readers” for the Information, Pictures and the Quotes shared by me on this Blog and to https://www.online-image-editor.com/ for the picture posts done by me ❤ ❤ ❤

Sending Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies To You ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa 100Deepa Nilamani 🙂

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