Resilience ~ Revised!

Hello To All My Readers, Followers an Blogging Friends ❤

I Hope All of You are in Good Health as usual, and “Keeping yourself Positive and Motivated as Best as possible in these trying times” I am so Fortunate to have come across this Book, “Roadmap To Resilience”, and so Lucky to be able to download it free from the Doctors Website 🙂

Roadmap to Resilience
Donald Meichenbaum, Ph.D.

In this time of a world-wide pandemic, it is important to keep in mind the high level of resilience that individuals, families and communities evidence. In order to support and bolster such resilience, I am making my book “Roadmap To Resilience” available for “FREE” to help individuals cope with ongoing adversities and losses.

Topics include ways to:

  1. Handle intense emotions (fear, anxiety, depression, loneliness, boredom, anger, grief, guilt, and shame). Specific suggestions on ways NOT to let these emotions overwhelm you are included. How to name and tame your emotions; how to accept, tolerate, control and share your feelings are discussed. How not to allow your feelings “hijack” your resourcefulness and undermine your resilience is included. LEARN HOW TO TALK BACK TO YOUR AMYGDALA — your lower emotional brain and learn how to sleep better.
  2. Access help from others and ways “to give, to get.”
  3. Develop and deliberately practice resilience-engendering behaviors such as relaxation, meditation, yoga, exercise, gratitude, forgiveness, meaning-making activities, use humor, group support, your religion and faith, Internet resources, etc.. LEARN HOW OTHER FOLKS HAVE USED POSITIVE COPING STRATEGIES.
  4. Ways to cope with the coronavirus  is included in an ADDENDUM.  Read “Resilient  Voices”

    In this time of a world-wide pandemic, it is important to keep in mind the high level of resilience that individuals, families and communities evidence. In order to support and bolster such resilience, I am making my book ROADMAP TO RESILIENCE available for FREE to help individuals cope with ongoing adversities and losses.

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WE ARE ALL IN THIS TOGETHER!

We have to be Thankful and Grateful To Dr: – Donald Meichenbaum, Ph.D. for this Book and The Post!

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The fact is I have done so many Topics The Doctor has mentioned in Detail from “The very Beginning for over 6 years from: 2015 up to now 2022″! You will be able to check in Posts That Has Been Published ~ 1! and Posts That Has Been Published ~ 2!. Also in Both, ” Roadmap To Resilience Appendix A! and Roadmap To Resilience Appendix B!

Latest Update: 13th of January 2022. This is “The 171th Post” and with the “Introductory Page this will be all in Total up to date, 172 posts. On Top Right Hand side you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, You will see will see The word “Home” All the posts from “The Very Beginning comes ~ Under “Home”. Which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

I am also getting Congratulated. From “WordPress”. Well I have been working Very Hard even through the nights also to Bring out The Best Possible Posts 🙂
🎉 Congrats! I am My Path is getting noticed. 320 websites have started receiving updates 🙂

I am in Good Health and as, “I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy in to My Hands” since “Beginning of 2016” All my Hard work and Praying has been rewarded. Healing Energy can go to others too, and where ever it is needed to be received with a Clear Mind and Lot of Loving Kindness ❤

The old Topics are, “On The Left Hand side “Under the, “Recent Posts” with “The New Topics adding up. “It will be too long to post so many number of posts on the side. You can “Click and see all The older Topics” Under “Archives and Categories”. Make Note: “Archives” and “Meta” Which has been repeated, some change of format at the moment and I am unable to change ❤

I am Moving on as usual with “My Own Journey of Wellness, Encouraging and Healing” So that Everyone can have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” To Lead a Better Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy”. If you click on the Link You can Read This Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

The Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing” during my spare time you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/ 

As always, It is all free”. You can share and pass it on also for others who can benefit from this post. I hope All those who Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so as, ”Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in Life ❤

Thanking the Internet for the Doctors Picture and His Website which “The Book was Posted” and My being able to down load it Free ❤

Sending Love, Light and Healing Energies to All ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa Nilamani ❤

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Bullying!

Hello To All My Dear Readers and Blogging Friends ❤

I do Hope All of You are in Good Health, and Trying to manage “To keep yourself Positive and Motivated as Best as possible in these trying times”. As All of you are aware I had started on “My Mission on “Mental Wellness!
1).https://iammypath.com/2021/08/10/my-mission-stigma-1/
2) https://iammypath.com/2018/06/05/end-the-stigma-discrimination-stops-with-you/
3).https://iammypath.com/2018/06/10/end-the-stigma/

I am writing this post, “Very Hurt”. After 6 years of writing, and to have built up such big numbers of Followers and Websites, I never thought I will have to write on this Topic “Concerning Me”!

What Is Bullying: Bullying is unwanted, aggressive behavior among people that involves a real or perceived power imbalance. The behavior is repeated, or has the potential to be repeated, over time. People who bully others may have Serious Mental Problems!

Types of Bullying There are three types of bullying:

Verbal bullying is. Verbal bullying includes:
Teasing
Name-calling.
Can You Believe it, in this present times when INTERNET IS USED BY ALMOST ALL OVER THE WORLD” so many websites are there!
I Have been called: EVEN A DRIVER TO TAFE WHERE, I WORKED AS AN ACCREDITED ENGLISH TUTOR!
Because I am writing on a website I have been called: Spider woman!

This is NOT small children, But “Some of the ADULTS around where I live without causing any trouble or Disturbances to anyone!
I shifted so that as My Two sons are adults and I could do less physical work and Develop more on KNOWLEDGE!
It had started unknown to me because I was keeping a VERY NEAT AND TIDY HOUSE and have Rose Flowered curtains and White Blankets in My Bed Room. The ROSE Curtains were Originally Brought” From United Kingdom. And some of the The workers who came to do some repairs had misunderstood?
In such a DEVELOPED COUNTRY? And THE BATHROOMS are kept Too CLEAN!!!


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  • Social bullying, sometimes referred to as relational bullying, involves hurting someone’s reputation or relationships. Social bullying includes:
    Spreading rumors about someone
  • Embarrassing someone in public.


Why Some People Bully:
Children and teenagers who feel secure and supported by their family, school, and peers are less likely to bully. However, Every individual is unique and there are many factors that can contribute to bullying behavior. People who bullies may experience one, several, or none of these contributing factors. Bullying can affect everyone—those who are bullied, those who bully, and those who witness bullying. Bullying is linked to many negative outcomes including impacts on mental health.

Family factors: Some who bully:

  • come from families where there is bullying, aggression, or violence at home.
  • may have parents and caregivers that do not provide emotional support or communication.
  • may have parents or caregivers who respond in an authoritarian or reactive way.
  • may come from families where the adults are overly lenient or where there is low parental involvement in their lives.

Emotional factors: People who bully: may have been bullied in the past or currently.
have feelings of insecurity and low self-esteem, so they bully to make themselves feel more powerful.
do not understand other’s emotions.

  • don’t know how to control their emotions, so they take out their feelings on other people.
  • may not have skills for handling social situations in healthy, positive ways.

Every person involved in bullying – as a target, a bystander, or as one who does the bullying. People who bully may also need support to help them address their behavior. Mental health professionals can work with people who bully to help them learn new social and emotional skills. Bullying is a behavior that can be changed?

Peer factors: Some People bully:

  • to attain or maintain social power or to elevate their status in their peer group.
  • to show their allegiance to and fit in with their peer group.
  • to exclude others from their peer group, to show who is and is not part of the group.
  • to control the behavior of their peers.

Bystanders: People who witness bullying are more likely to:
Have increased use of tobacco, alcohol, or other drugs
Have increased mental health problems, including depression and anxiety.

For All those people who “Are going through issues on, “Stigma, Discrimination and any other difficulties, because of ill health at this Times or because some people do not Understand PLEASE KNOW THAT YOU ALL HAVE SOME TALENT or GIFT. HAVE HOPE. YOU MATTER ❤


  • I am in Good Health and as, “I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy in to My Hands” since “Beginning of 2016” All my Hard work and Praying has been rewarded. Healing Energy can go to others too, and where ever it is needed to be received with a Clear Mind and Lot of Loving Kindness ❤

    Latest Update: 7thth of November 2021. This is “The 165th Post” and with the “Introductory Page this will be all in Total up to date, 166 posts. On Top Right Hand side you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, You will see will see The word “Home” All the posts from “The Very Beginning comes ~ Under “Home”. Which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

    The old Topics are, “On The Left Hand side “Under the, “Recent Posts” with “The New Topics adding up. “It will be too long to post so many number of posts on the side. You can “Click and see all The older Topics” “Under “Archives” and “Under Categories ❤

    I am Moving on as usual with “My Own Journey of Wellness, Encouraging and Healing” So that Everyone can have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” To Lead a Better Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy”. If you click on the Link You can Read This Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

    The Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing” during my spare time you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/ 

    It is all free”. You can share and pass it on also for others who can benefit from this post. I hope All those who Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so as, ”Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in Life ❤

    Thank you for Reading and Thanking The I net for the pictures I have shared and https://www.online-image-editor.com/ for the picture quotes I have done myself ❤

    A Very Special “THANK YOU and I am VERY GRATEFUL to https://wordpress.org/about/ for All their Support and Encouragement for enabling me to Enlighten so many on Life, Health and Healing matters. Also for making it possible, “For me to be able to write and pass on, “My Knowledge and Experiences” for others to Benefit! Also A Very Special Thank You to Word Press, for giving me permission to, “Copy the latest Number of Their websites on ~ 7th November 2021!

    Just Got This 7th November 2021: 🎉 Congrats! I am My Path! is getting noticed. 316 Websites have started receiving and 316 others have started receiving updates.

    Sending Love, Light and Healing Energies to All ❤

    May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

    Deepa Nilamani ❤
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New Beginning!

Hello To All My Readers ❤

I have lived in my little home for 8 years and now going on the 9th year. Winter has begun with icy cold winds and rain. Time for warm food and clothes. I am so glad that I am able to stay warm in my little home. I have been preparing for a few new things as 8 years, some things I have out grown and some are not that useful. To begin with the floor carpet at the entrance has seen better days and I started by getting a new one. I love Lavender flowers and its smell and colour too and lo behold I came across one while I was looking around things in a shop. How do you like it. Isn’t it pretty 🙂

There were other things. Some of the stuff like my warm clothing, day and night time. I have begun to wear more softer and looser clothes for comfort so could be given more to needy. Being icy cold there are so many who could use some extra warm things. So bundled up as much as possible, what ever I could find. Blankets, sheets, pillow cases and also some of my warm clothes that and took to a place where they are doing service, distributing to the needy 🙂

I needed to put my washed clothes inside as added to the cold it has begun to rain as well. So I have arranged the garage to put in some clothes racks. The garage has doubled also to keep some food tins as these times not only rain and cold, but limited movements sometimes. These are the extra food stuff what I have right now. I try and replace as if I don’t go out or suddenly I want to eat some snack or just heat and eat. Also made it pretty with some bright artificial flowers to add some colour in some extra bowls I had 🙂

Clothing racks help you to put your clothes coats, shirts, pants, jackets, and other garments in your home as well as (shops too) in a variety of styles to best suit your location. These racks are all designed to hold hangers with clothes on them, easily arranged to fit your needs. Using the appropriate stand makes it easier maximizing space as they have multiple arms or long length rails on the stands. These is what I bought, but a picture with clothes from the I net!

Below is what I found on the I net, what some are doing, being creative and cheap. I just came across this what a nice idea. One can be made quite easily and cheap, and even painted and decorated with some bright colours or even kept with some plants even 🙂


Make Note: I am writing for Many types of people of, “Different Cultures. You can see from the picture below 🙂

“All over the world. You can see what a lot of countries from the picture below and how people, climate and ways of living is different!

Below is like what I hang some of my clothes day to day wear, like tops and T shirts, with wheels, My one is a little too full and cannot take a nice picture, as well as the garage is ordinary 😀 So this is a similar one like this from the I net, but some of my shoes at the bottom. Also with some male clothes also, as well as there are those that ask why always the pictures with more ladies and their things. So I tend to post some male figures as there are men who make do with the homes and available space just like the ladies. Actually some families are using the garages in different ways like a second sitting room and for the kids to play with Toys. Some as for Hobbies playing indoor games, like Cards, Billiards rooms, some call them “Man Cave” to watch TV Sports films, do carpentry or what ever noisy things, they want to, so that they have a space of their own to make noise doing their hobbies or extra work. without using it as a garage and parking the cars outside!

But here I am describing what I am doing. It is NOT good clothes But day to day ordinary wear, and do not go out daily, and take the car out soon as I start, so that fuel smell do not get to them!

In the front I got two new chairs and 2 colourful cushions. In Australia there is so much of sales going on all the time. As a season is beginning the clothes are expensive, and before you know the next time, they are on sale and reduced almost half or even 1/3 the price as, The next seasons clothes are already on the way, and they need to free up their present collection. The thing is I look around. Not so much go hunting but knowing, when and where to shop. Lot of rain these day very cold and staying indoors. Also cannot keep the chairs with cushions they get wet and get spoilt. So this is one with a pretty cushion 🙂

Below is a nice way to, Make the old ones new. And so many things can be bought from second hand and charity shops. They go very very cheap. What someone doesn’t want or too many things another one can get and paint in different colours or even buy material and sew pretty new or find old cushions 🙂

Kitchen Chairs with hand sewn Cushions to make them look brighter and pretty 🙂

This palm tree is in the front of my home, and I thought of posting a picture with a beautiful new flower opening up. Below is where I work but, a little old picture, newly how I started to write. As Time went by naturally few things have changed around it.

Finally. “I have started another project “Working for Mental wellness and to spread the word “Stop The Stigma” with new Website cards printed and pens to go with them and have been distributing them around, and where ever possible. Even A Sticker of “My Path.com” and “Stop The Stigma” is pasted on my little car, all of which I will post in a next post 🙂


Latest Update Today is Thursday 8th July 2021: This is “The 159th Post” and with the “Introductory Page this will be all in Total up to date, 160 posts.

On Top Right Hand side you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, You will see will see The word “Home” All the posts from “The Very Beginning comes ~ Under “Home”. Which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing

The old Topics are, “On The Left Hand side “Under the, “Recent Posts” with “The New Topics adding up. You can “Click and see all The older Topics” “Under “Archives” and “Under Categories” ❤

I am still “My Healthy self” and Writing “My Own Journey on Wellness and Healing”. So that Everyone can have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” To Lead a Better Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy”. If you click on the Link You can Read This Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

The Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to other different posts of Mine which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am up to during my spare time you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/

It is all free”. You can share and pass it on also for others who can benefit from this post. I hope All those who Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so as, ”Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in Life” ❤

Thank you for Reading and Thanking The I net for the pictures I have shared ❤

Sending Love, Light and Healing Energies Your Way ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa Nilamani 🙂



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Lotus Flower!

Hello To All My Dear Readers ❤

Hope all of you are keeping in Good Health? “You need to be with my Hands having Healing Energies for Good Health, what ever faith is”. If not I Hope and Wish All of you to receive them. With so much of Health issues and restrictions I thought it is a good time to write about the lotus flower. A flower I like very much and you all will like to read about it. A light topic and not so much of serious reading. In History, it is taken as one of the most spiritual flowers on Earth. The symbolism of the lotus flower dates back thousands of years. An important symbol in many different cultures, Lotus flowers are one of the most prominent tokens in Eastern cultures. In Hinduism and Buddhism, they’re considered as the most sacred flower. Lotus flowers are beautiful flowers that are commonly associated with purity, inner strength, tranquility, prosperity, and beauty ❤


It is often called a water lily. Their seeds can survive for thousands of years without water. They have a strong will to survive. It’s used in food, medicine, art, and so much more. The most common use for a lotus is ornamental. However, the roots are sweet and fragrant as well as rich in starch and vitamins. You can eat them raw, cooked into soups, brewed into teas, blended into salads, dried, preserved, and even powdered. Other parts of the lotus plant are also edible. They will grow in most soils and in most environments, so long as they have mud or water, and as long as they can float. In fact, they contain little air spaces in their leaves to ensure buoyancy (To be able to float. Something to float in water or other fluid) and long stems to tie them to the mud. Other uses for lotus flower roots, petals, nuts, and seeds include:
Cosmetics
Environmentally friendly packaging material
Raw material for textiles
With all its uses, the lotus isn’t seen too frequently in the western world, but that doesn’t mean you can’t grow it.

Lotus in Jewelry and Fashion

Today the lotus remains one of the most popular symbols in jewelry and fashion. It’s often used in pendants, rings, bracelets and earrings, or simply kept as a charm. The image can be stylized and represented in many ways, including as an open bloom or a closed bud.

Lotus jewelry also makes a great gift ideas:

  • As a gift to someone coming of age, it’s a reminder to stay grounded and true to oneself, while ever striving upwards.
  • For someone going through a difficult period in their life, the lotus is a symbol of overcoming adversity and hardship, while still keeping one’s spirit intact.
  • The lotus symbol is also popular in clothing. Because the symbol doesn’t belong to any one group or faith, it’s seen as a universal symbol that holds meaning to everyone.

Wrapping it up: The lotus flower is a beautiful, powerful symbol. The many meanings and religious connections of the lotus make it an excellent choice for artwork, jewelry, clothing and as a decorative motif. While the symbolism of the lotus is rooted in several religions, the symbol has transcended this to become universal and can be sported by anyone, regardless of their religious affiliation. After all, no one can lay claim to the lotus, one of the most beautiful and symbolically rich flowers of the natural world.

Latest Update: 29th May 2021. This is “The 158th Post” and with the “Introductory Page this will be all in Total up to date, 159 posts. On Top Right Hand side you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, You will see will see The word “Home” All the posts from “The Very Beginning comes ~ Under “Home”. Which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

Also with All the First Lot and the next few Topics in: Posts That Has Been Published ~ 1! – I am My Path! & Posts That Has Been Published ~ 2! – I am My Path!

The old Topics are, “On The Left Hand side “Under the, “Recent Posts” with “The New Topics adding up. You can “Click and see all The older Topics” “Under “Archives” and “Under Categories” ❤

I am still “My Healthy self” and Writing “My Own Journey on Wellness and Healing”. So that Everyone can have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” To Lead a Better Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy”. If you click on the Link You can Read This Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

The Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts of which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing” during my spare time you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/

It is all free”. You can share and pass it on also for others who can benefit from this post. I hope All those who Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so as, ”Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in Life ❤

Thanking The I net for the pictures and Free Online Image Editor (online-image-editor.com) for the Picture Posts I have done myself ❤

Sending Love, Light and Healing Energies Your Way ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa Nilamani 🙂


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