Hello To All My Dear Readers 🙂

First of all Thank you all for reading, commenting and following my blog. Please excuse me, as sometimes I don’t interact with all of you as I should, as sometimes I get very busy trying to catch up with my studies. There is much reference to do and also lot to concentrate and take in, that I go well past midnight, and some days, wee hours in the morning when others are going to work 🙂
It is two years since I started this blog and I have gone through massive changes. From beginning of this year, it has been like a roller coaster, changes from one to another which is sort of settling down now, but we never know when the next wave will come. Life is such the only constant is change, and if there is not changes how boring life would be also, isn’t it ?

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I like changes as with changes old things and even people that no longer suit us move away making room for the new that resonates with our new self, with our new energy patterns and vibrations. We are all energy, and all the time our energy levels are changing according to how we live. This process happens to all of us. Those who accept and embrace change grow and move on to higher wave lengths to lead better lives. Those who do not accept change, face lot of pain. As it’s in letting go that will free up space in our lives and bring people and things, that are really meant for us to have and enjoy to lead a happy life. As long as you hold on to people and things that are not meant for you, you will be unhappy. Why things go wrong is, because all those people and things will have energy that go against you (clash), bringing conflict/friction and disharmony to themselves and you !!!
When there are problems in your life, look carefully and study the situation, because you will find that you are in a place or with people that do not resonate or belong with, that is causing all the friction and unhappiness. This can be a work place, a home or anywhere. One may ask about things. Yes even things that are classified as not having life, have energy/vibrations. Those who are aware of energy vibrations know that they cannot just wear any colour or even someone else’s things/clothes. This is because colours absorb different energy from the sun and certain vibrations does not agree with everyone’s physical energy. If you think carefully, you will understand now, if you have not realized before. We all have out own favourite colours, styles and textures, foods everything unique to each other isn’t it ? This is because our energy in the body is all unique to each other 🙂
Sometimes when things are not going well we make changes ourselves but when changes happen against our wishes they upset us. Some time back, some sentimental things were taken away without my knowledge. They were of no value to anyone else but me, and I was upset why it had happened. In life as adults, wise adults you cannot jut come out with the facts, as certain relationships will suffer. I took comfort knowing that, “The truth like oil rises to the top one day, and it will be the person who robbed them who will face the consequences” and I need to move on.
The lesson for me was that, “Although they were precious, they were my past. By keeping them, I was holding on and even dreaming in the nights. I sat down and thought about it and realized it happened for a reason that, I was forced to let go and move on. I realized that when I had so many new things now, I was holding on to some pictures that reminded of the past and I didn’t need them. I had NOW, the present moment, and I can have new memories and happy ones. The moment I realized the truth, there was a change the next day itself. It was almost as if the day was different, new colours new life !!! Slowly life has begun to take a new turn. Still the the new can be uncomfortable as so many changes have come with them. With my praying my energy also has been changing, I believe I just didn’t want to let go of some little bits of the past and somehow, “God, The Universe, The Higher Powers” sent a messenger to take my rubbish away from me. By realizing and letting go of the situation and the person as much as possible I freed myself, to move away from the past and in to a brand new future 🙂
I find I cannot wear many of the past things and have been clearing and donating. I have always giving away but this time is different. I found I couldn’t even wear my old watch as I cannot put in water and soak away the old energy unlike other things that can be washed. It is unsettling but Not in a bad way, as I know now with prayers and all the good things I have done, my life is turning in the right way 🙂

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It’s said both in my psychology book and in the healing process that, “Suffering is needed” Although at that time I never would have believed it after about half a century, now I have realized it is true. I am an inborn giver and compassionate. I didn’t think I needed any extra lessons. I do ask myself did I have to go through so much ? Did anyone went over in teaching me the lessons ? For this, I was given the answer that to make the perfect diamond, the stone has to go through a lot of cutting and polishing !!!
So from what I have gone through my understanding and feelings have deepened and intensified to the extent that I have begun to receive healing energy to my hands during the times I pray and also when I feel very deeply myself and towards others 🙂

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From the day we are born we go through a very long journey. We have to learn so much and so we make mistakes too. We have to take risks as we are not all knowing, and then we make mistakes. Life is trial and error too. But what matters is we learn from the mistakes, from others and by ourselves. The whole world, The vast universe is open to all offering knowledge and guidance, for us to become good human beings ourselves and to others, and be of value as good citizens to the world. So it’s not the beginning so much, but it’s the end that matters mostly. We must not live to die with regret. As, if we learnt our lessons well and lived in loving kindness we will end up like the well cut diamond. A light that will light other’s paths 🙂

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From all what I have gone through so far, Now I take them all as lessons. I ask for strength and courage from The Higher Powers, The Universe, for me to be able to do so, and for guidance along the path of healing. All the experiences, good and bad have taught me immense lessons of patience, tolerance and above all forgiveness. “Being able to forgive is the first step to being free from those who come as unkind messengers” Now at this time of my life, I feel Blessed as what ever I have lost, I have something that money cannot buy nor can anyone take away from me. It is something I have earned. Through hard work, sacrifices, sharing and giving, loving kindness and above all being truthful and honest. Actually anyone can achieve this on their own too. The Powers, The Gifts, The Energies are all open for everyone as all are part of The Universe. But some try to take shortcuts which doesn’t work. You have to take the full journey, cross all rivers, climb all mountains, do what ever call of duty to fall in line with, “The Universal Energy which is also called Healing or Pranic energy” !!!
In a way the saying, “Truth like oil rises to the top” has come true as so many wrong things were said about me in the past and I have been praying and living my life as who I am knowing, some day the truth will be known. And so it has. Receiving energy from above, or connecting to “The energies of the universe”, one has to be pure. Its proof. No one can tarnish anyone’s character. Defamation of character is  a very negative and harmful way of thinking. In the end it life balances. Honesty wins and Truth rises up boldly to justify all wrong doings !!!

Thanking for the picture quotes taken from the I net ❤

Thank you for reading. Pass on and share with others who may benefit from what I have written ❤

God Bless and Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies ❤

Deepa Nilamani 🙂

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Hello To All My Dear Readers 🙂

Being grateful is such an important aspect in making the mind move towards positive thinking and making life happier and joyful, I am sharing some beautiful quotes on it. When the quotes are on beautiful pictures the mind is drawn more towards them and helps to remember better 🙂

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Its not often that people show their gratitude. Sometimes they don’t think that it is necessary or important. But it is very important to show your gratitude to every one and everything. It makes both the person who did a good turn happy and make you feel good about being able to thank them 🙂

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Gratitude is also a sign of maturity, meaning that you understand the importance of a good deed done and you have the goodness to be able to thankful for it 🙂

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The more you are grateful the more good things you attract. Gratitude is the law of increase, and compliant is the law of decrease !

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Although many do not realize gratitude can and is able to turn your life around completely and make you become positive permanently. It is so very powerful so keep on writing and being grateful every day all the time ❤

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Hope you like the collection of the gratitudes. I took some out of the gratitude jar 😛 This is the last of the gratitude articles. I think I have covered the topic almost completely. The rest is up to each and everyone of you how to be and do the gratitudes. Best of luck 🙂

Thanking for the quotes from the I net. Grateful for them ❤

Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies to All ❤

~Deepa Nilamani~

 

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Hello To All My Dear Readers 🙂

Here comes the benefits of Gratitudes. It’s said, That in advance it is the “Most Powerful force in The Universe” Please know that unlike my former articles, some of what I am writing now are with added knowledge that I am acquiring in the present. The time has come, that I am fast moving on, and I have written most of my past experiences and done with. Along with my studying, I am also doing a lot of reference and reading on philosophy, psychology, health and endless topics so, It is my journey But ~ now it is being added with new pages and becoming another new chapter in my life 🙂

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As you can see benefits are endless. I have taken these posts from the I net. I have been doing reference for myself as well as my readers benefit as there has been much interest on this topic 🙂

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Each of you will have different things and people to be grateful for according to how your life is. Whatever way, the important thing is, to be aware when good things happen and you acknowledge for all that and to be grateful for them. Below is a chart how being grateful, has improved depression, sleep time even blood pressure. Overall the quality of life has improved 🙂

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This is a beautiful chart that shows benefits, quotes and done in a beautiful way to read to make notes to yourself and how to write gratitudes 🙂

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Although it seems simple thing, it is actually, “sets in motions an ancient spiritual law ~ The more you have and are grateful for the more you attract the more you will be given for you. At the same time I will tell the opposite fact that, “Never say you are broke or bankrupt as the subconscious registers as a picture of emptiness. Instead of seeing all the good things you have it will be the other way around. So make a habit to look our, make a note of the good things you get, you have and live in gratitude 🙂

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When you wake up in the morning, get used to be thankful that you have woken up fit and healthy. Every morning when I wake up, “I say Good Morning and say Thank you, to those I believe and respect, and ask for blessings, protection and guidance for everything I do in life, and then thanks again before I go to sleep for all that I have received 🙂

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Its the third article that I have written on Gratitude, as I consider it to be the most important aspect of becoming positive and there by improving the mood and to become well and happy in life. I have this experience and that is why boldly I can say so and I am writing about it !

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I hope you have enjoyed going through this article and make it a habit to write gratitudes everyday. It does make a very big shift in your mind. So make a start and see how your mood improves and your life becomes more happier 🙂

Thank you all for reading, you may share and pass it on for the benefit of others too 🙂

***I have to give credit and also say, “Thank you for the picture quotes and the charts I have shared from the I net***

Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies to All ❤

Deepa Nilamani 🙂

Hello To All My Dear Readers 🙂

Thanking all those who commented in support and encouragement regarding my last article. Almost all of us know that life is not a straight road, that we go through challenges to overcome them and become stronger to go to that next level. However its not all who are aware of this or understand and, among us there are many types of people, good and the bad, kind and unkind, that we need to learn how to deal with them in order to be able to lead our lives peacefully. Regarding the issue what was done to confuse me, I have prayed, read and then turned to the wise for guidance. The advice I got from the wise is, “To stay detached and ensure they cannot do something similar. Like water let it flow away and accept it as a gift of learning” And so I have !!!

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From the many books and articles I read and together with my experiences, all this is to do with life’s lessons which are, “The laws of The Universe”. Life is said to be like a game. And yes it is. Just like a game there are rules to it, that is where religion comes in. Religion is all about how to be a good law abiding human being, and for that we have to abide by the rules of humanity. We are all connected by a mysterious magnetic force and what we send out, even in words and thoughts, good or bad comes back to us. This is how Healing Energies and Blessings works, even long distance. If one is purely on the mental level ~ not aware how life works, they keep on doing the wrong things and they keep on piling up, and punishment/karma takes a long time, and comes down with a greater force. But if one is developed spiritually, they return very quickly so that one is aware, doing something wrong to another brings harm to you as well in return and correct yourself the next time. What goes around comes around. In short, “The more you know, the more you are responsible for !!!

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In life from time to time we need advice, guidance, not only if something goes wrong but even to do the right things, to make a change, to start something new, there so many things that we need another person’s opinion. Of course it has to be the correct person with the correct knowledge who will give you the proper advice. But it’s not always we have someone around, and even then we also need to think for ourselves what is best for us. Because it is only we who really know who we are and know what will suit us the best. At these times, I turn to prayer or meditation. I pray daily and have great faith, and I always get relief and guidance through prayers, even when its needed for others. As we know, how ever you believe in, be it God, The Universe or Life, guidance, answers comes through other people, animals and various ways of synchronicity or coincidences. While I prayed suddenly this quote came into my mind. It is among hundreds of quotes I know and have made But, this particular one jumped out. Somehow it is correct. As always pain and suffering is caused by too much attachment or dependence of others or things and it showed what I needed to do, and it was the correct guidance the advice for me 🙂

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I hope you enjoyed reading and found something worth while for yourself too. Not everything is relevant for everyone. It all depend on each individual’s personality and of course the current status of your life. Independence can be taken in many ways. It is Not for all to live alone or break free. Being independent is, not to be too attached be it living alone, with others or your family 🙂

Thank you for reading. Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies to All ❤

Deepa Nilamani 🙂

Hello To All My Dear Readers 🙂

Continuing from the last article, I am going to expand on, “why we need to take full responsibility for us to heal” This is because whatever the doctors, counsellors, therapists or medication does, unless we try our best, full healing cannot take place. “We need to have that necessity to become well and heal, very strongly so as to put in our very best efforts. You cannot feel you like a victim, that something or someone did something to you all the time as this is the worst thing that prevents/blocks healing. You need to let go of that thought pattern and, know that you are a, “Free person and you have Choices in life that you can change for your own welfare” ❤

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In the process of healing, you need to be strong, courageous as well as gentle and patient with yourself. When you face difficulties its natural for you to go down physically and mentally. One becomes weak and the mood becomes low. Somehow you need to fight back and change this thought pattern and turn your mind towards being positive. You need to recognize your own power and reclaim it and become strong ❤

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Taking full responsibility is for healing and Not taking any blame or guilt. As one gets hurt or upset is when one is blamed for things one has Not done or said. When this goes on for a long period stress eats into you and the mind begins to become sick, just like when you keep on over working and become physically exhausted, weak and sick. Stress can come in many forms not only from relationships but while in school, in work due to natural disasters like floods and fire also financial difficulties or sickness name it, in life we have many many challenges. You must not think this is only for you, as each and everyone faces some sort of challenge or challenges in life and all these are with a purpose. For us to face overcome and grow stronger 🙂

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Each person has their own way to become well and heal. It is according to your personality and how it agrees and work for you. So you need to think try out and do the things that works best for you. Most importantly, “Remember it is Your Life. Your are the one Responsible for it to make it a better life and, for Your own Happiness. So it is You who must put in the maximum effort 🙂

Thank You all for reading. Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies ❤

God Bless !

Deepa Nilamani 🙂

Hello To All My Dear Readers ❤

Hope all of you are doing well and being Happy. I am quite Happy, as the Blog is growing and, more and more readers are joining, seen and unseen no matter as long as its being read and being helped in some way. In my case I get so much of satisfaction in writing, it helps me to put my thoughts in order as well as give out my views and to relax after I do my studying. Do comment and questions are always welcome. It keeps the Blog alive and interesting when so many bring out their way of looking at life 🙂
Well here I am trying to figure out why some people are always trying to stand across your progress, spoil your friendships/relationships, and maybe even studies and job opportunities, in short come in between and and try to mess other’s lives even if you have done Nothing wrong to them !!! When I wanted to write on this topic I cam across them as, “Toxic People” Going through certain events that has and is happening around me, now I have realized that they are indeed, “The Toxic People” who put in their poison arrows and try to spoil others lives !!!

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What is the real reason that these people become, “Toxic” to others. It need not be that they are poor or struggling in life but, it is because they have, “The wrong Values in Life” Its true that we all need that green stuff called money to pay our bills and buy things to eat and live. But some make Money the Priority and thereby, “Lose their value as human beings” Money can be earned but, ” Can you make or buy a Human Life” !!! Money, material things are to be used to, “Live as Dignified Human Beings” Instead these people, “Lose their humanness and Dignity” by becoming slaves to those pieces of paper. Actually these people do not realise that being, “Toxic to others, they become Toxic to themselves ~ “Wrong thinking brings about, “Negative Vibrations and Acids in the body” that “eat up the cells instead of making them” and many chronic illnesses comes up, that these green pieces called money is unable to Heal” !!!

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From what I have been observing, I have also realized that these toxic people, “Have No clue what so ever in, The Laws of the Universe, anything to do with any kind of religion, prayers or what is really Good or Bad” In short, “They do not have any Ethics, Dignity or Morals” Naturally they are not at peace or have any kind of real Happiness in their lives” So those who know the real values of life and live according to them, “Are they to blame for other’s unhappiness” ?

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In life, in religions generally we are always told about dealing what ever the wrong doings of others with “Loving Kindness”. To forgive and to show understanding. But the fact is, with some people, “They mistake your Kindness for Weakness” This topic is often debated even on Face Book and by many people. I will write a article itself on this later on. The more tolerant and patient you are the more attacks are being landed on one. “My being an exceptionally Tolerant and Patient to others unkindness, I have personal experiences on this issue, and that is why I am able to write. What is the solution ? Are they as ignorant and naïve as they show ? No !
It is not that these people are Not aware. They know exactly where to hit, whatever their reasons are, mind you they always have a reason, an excuse !!!

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In life there is, “Good and Bad” and so people also come under this category. Its the people that makes a society. And in this society we come across all these types of Good and Bad people. How ever much good one is, someone will find something wrong. In History we find so many good people being harmed, even killed trying to spread Goodness and Peace to the people. So who are we ? Most of us are ordinary human beings, going about doing ordinary things in our way without harming anyone else. Still we can be targeted for unkindness and cruelty. I really cannot see reason for this, other than these people’s minds needs correcting to discipline their behaviour. But we cannot change others, the society or the world. We can only change and adjust ourselves 🙂

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Actually I have come to this stage. Although initially I do get thrown back, when suddenly I face a challenge I never expected. But I soon realise, and pray for guidance and answers, I get them, in time and I am able to move on stronger and better. I have faced a challenge soon after my birthday last month and my prayers were answered and now just in a month I am back on my feet and moving on. Saying that, it does not mean there are no more challenges. Every time you pass a test/challenge, the next one is on as long as we live. That is how life is, it is not what/how we choose There is no straight road for anything !!!

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If you look at things this way. “The Toxic people are those who brings us messages that brings us pain and sadness. Causes us to trip and fall. The Kind/Good people are those who Help and pull us up. Its like Angels and Devils 😛 We as people need both these kinds of people to grow in every way. If and when we know how to manage theses two kinds of people, that is the time we have matured enough or become wise enough, to weave our way through most of the obstacles in life with much less stress or difficulty. And then I believe, “We would have earned the right and also able to spend the rest of our lives, in Dignity, Happiness and Peace. What do you think ? This is me at this stage of my life 🙂

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Thank you all for reading. I hope you found something new or remembered something you had forgotten, that helped or inspired you in some way. Questions and comments are welcome 🙂

This is my other Blog of poetry: https://deepanilamani.com

Thanking for the Quotes I have taken from the I net ❤

Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies from me to All of You ❤

Deepa Nilamani 🙂

Hello To My Dear Readers 🙂

After tackling the topic on, “The writer’s block” it seems to be that some of the advice given has worked as I have got back into writing. But, beginning of another chapter is still evading me, hence now I am facing some sort of a dead-end unable to move on ahead as I really would like to. In my case, these ups and downs of life affect me in different ways at different times. Sometimes I lose heart, mind you it’s not getting depressed at any cost, but my spirits go dim, just like any other person when things go wrong or doesn’t work as how one expects to. But my nature is not to stay in one place/stagnate and waste valuable time. I somehow find something to lift my spirits up. (this is how I have become completely well from depression and today leading a normal life like any other normal person) I believe when we face some sort of a block in life, the first thing we need to do is to, “Think that we are Not going to stay in one place”, but some or other find some opportunity, to move away from that situation at least a few steps away 🙂

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We human beings are mostly creatures of habits. We tend to do the same thing day after day as its easy and convenient to stick to same patterns that we are used to. Very often, unless we are almost forced to we don’t change our usual routines. I believe because of this life throws us challenges which comes in various forms for us to change, overcome, learn and grow stronger and move on to the next level. So blocks, dead-ends in our life, work and even ill health is all part of this game of life. So what do we do ? How do we play it ?

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I have been mostly on the topic of mental health for a long time, and then as I have been healing, I had come to some sort of an end a few months ago. So I deviated from health issues and started writing poetry and, https://deepanilamani.com/ was born. Now I still want to move on ahead and I am needing inspiration for another new venture !!!

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Yes we can always turn around and take another road. As always life gives us chances. We always have choices as human beings. But can we have Faith enough to start moving on ahead with the hope that things will work out for us. To take risks for, new and unknown opportunities ? Can I have views from some of you ? I would be very grateful as your comments will make it more interesting, as well as some of you will be able to give complete different answers, observing life from a completely different angle 🙂

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I still am not able to tell how I am going to move on ahead, although I do have faith that things will workout favorably for me in some way. What I do is putting my mind in to the thinking mode and then letting it sink in and for the answers to come in time. At the same time you can also brainstorm for ideas. This all depends on each and every person how it works for them. I believe in Not giving up but to keep on “Moving Forward” Step By step with courage, we are able to progress. What about you ?

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I hope you all enjoyed reading this article and share some of the same views with me or anything new you can contribute ?

This is my other blog for those who are interested in poetry. Please do have a look.
https://deepanilamani.com/

Thank you all for reading. And thanking all those, whose quotes I have shared ❤

Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies to each and everyone of you. God Bless 🙂 ❤

Deepa Nilamani ❤