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Hello To All My Dear Readers ❀

I welcome all the new bloggers, followers and readers with happiness, and a big thank you for the old and the new readers. We are growing and I am glad that so many are finding what I write useful. Most of all it gives me great pleasure in giving out my knowledge and experiences for the benefit of others welfare ❀
Its over one year since a wicked soul robbed some of my confidential documents and some other sentimental things, to confuse and upset me, knowing what my mental condition was. Against all odds I have completely overcome the situation and bounced back even stronger. I was told by my doctor that it was a good test to see how I could cope, and how strong I have become mentally, which is a great leap forward. Yes to have gone through that storm, has certainly given me more confidence and further strengthened me πŸ™‚

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We all know in life, things keep on changing and we need to adapt and change with the current situations. Each change is a challenge, a test that comes for us to overcome to go to the next level. You can take these tests as how ever you believe in, by Almighty God, The Higher powers or The Universe. All living beings even the trees and what ever in nature, the whole environment goes through these changes. Our survival depends on, “How successfully we face and adapt to these changes” πŸ™‚

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Once we have overcome these challenges, the curve balls life throws at us, we find we have come out as a different people, than before, with more strength and resilience to face even stronger challenges that come our way ❀

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When life hits you hard, when you face the storms and tornadoes that come upon you, that is when you need to be most calm. Take a step back, study the situation, stay strong, stay grounded and then you are able to know exactly how to tackle the challenges and tests that come as wild weathers of destructive storms and the tornadoes. As in life there are some things, that we can only learn during a storm!

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I hope you liked what I have read and found something useful to make use of your stormy times. Please share and pass on to others who can make use of the article. Thank you fr reading ❀

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Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies from me ❀

Deepa Nilamani πŸ™‚

 

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So I have started to write again, and yes not just on mental health but other matters of life in general, the challenges and my achievements as I go along. Depressions is past tense concerning me, so I have even changed the title of the blog to, “Life, Health and Healing” So here I go with the next phase of my life πŸ™‚

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At this stage I have fully surrendered to, “God almighty/The Higher Powers/The Universe”. I do my part of the hard work towards my goals, but I always request for Protection and Guidance every step of the way. There are many who are unfortunate not to know of any Higher power or how life works in this present society now, and out there to harm and block those who put in so much goodness to the world, to mankind. So how ever much good our intentions are, we do need protection from above from these evil people, and we do get it, when our intentions are pure πŸ™‚

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Just past a milestone, my birthday and now on to a new chapter. This marks the end of my working life, and a time of maturation that I have gained knowledge with time and developed wisdom. I expected a major change, but certainly didn’t expect this challenge financially. So although momentarily I was shaken up, I found I was mature and wise enough to realize this was a test. The challenge had come in a way I did not expect !

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The tests come for ourselves and also for others. As it is seen who supports and stand by you and those who do not. I found among those who supported me, most of them I had hardly done anything. And one or two people that I had even gone out of the way, took it as an opportunity to try to put me down even further !!! Its sad, as these people do not realize that when they do harm to others, in turn they invite trouble to themselves. As human beings we all have choices in life. We are able to choose the good ways to attract good things, so that Β our lives are enriched to live healthy and Happy. But some choose evil ending up with ill health, sadness and grief. Life is a choice. Which do you choose ?

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Being honest and straight forward always has its rewards in life. This also enables one to be able to pray, have Faith and Hope that things/life will work for you in your favor during times of adversities. I had Faith and I was full of Hope, the tide turned in my favor, just within a month !!! Changes yet to come ? I do not know. But it has made my Faith even stronger and myself too. God/Life works in strange ways, but in its own time. Time is the essence that test you and also the others around you. So always be patient. Do what you can, and give time for the rest to happen. But know one thing. Never put down a person when fallen. Give a hand to stand up as life plays its own games. There will be no one to pull you up !!!

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Thank you all for reading. I hope you liked and helped/inspired in some way. Please feel free to share or pass it on. Any of your views or questions are welcome πŸ™‚

This is my other blog that I write poetry, for any of you to have a look: https://deepanilamani.com/

Thanking for the quotes that I have shared from ❀

Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies from me ❀

Deepa Nilamani πŸ™‚

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After tackling the topic on, “The writer’s block” it seems to be that some of the advice given has worked as I have got back into writing. But, beginning of another chapter is still evading me, hence now I am facing some sort of a dead-end unable to move on ahead as I really would like to. In my case, these ups and downs of life affect me in different ways at different times. Sometimes I lose heart, mind you it’s not getting depressed at any cost, but my spirits go dim, just like any other person when things go wrong or doesn’t work as how one expects to. But my nature is not to stay in one place/stagnate and waste valuable time. I somehow find something to lift my spirits up. (this is how I have become completely well from depression and today leading a normal life like any other normal person) I believe when we face some sort of a block in life, the first thing we need to do is to, “Think that we are Not going to stay in one place”, but some or other find some opportunity, to move away from that situation at least a few steps away πŸ™‚

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We human beings are mostly creatures of habits. We tend to do the same thing day after day as its easy and convenient to stick to same patterns that we are used to. Very often, unless we are almost forced to we don’t change our usual routines. I believe because of this life throws us challenges which comes in various forms for us to change, overcome, learn and grow stronger and move on to the next level. So blocks, dead-ends in our life, work and even ill health is all part of this game of life. So what do we do ? How do we play it ?

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I have been mostly on the topic of mental health for a long time, and then as I have been healing, I had come to some sort of an end a few months ago. So I deviated from health issues and started writing poetry and, https://deepanilamani.com/ was born. Now I still want to move on ahead and I am needing inspiration for another new venture !!!

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Yes we can always turn around and take another road. As always life gives us chances. We always have choices as human beings. But can we have Faith enough to start moving on ahead with the hope that things will work out for us. To take risks for, newΒ and unknown opportunities ? Can I have views from some of you ? I would be very grateful as your comments will make it more interesting, as well as some of you will be able to give complete different answers, observing life from a completely different angle πŸ™‚

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I still am not able to tell how I am going to move on ahead, although I do have faith that things will workout favorably for me in some way. What I do is putting my mind in to the thinking mode and then letting it sink in and for the answers to come in time. At the same time you can also brainstorm for ideas. This all depends on each and every person how it works for them. I believe in Not giving up but to keep on “Moving Forward” Step By step with courage, we are able to progress. What about you ?

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I hope you all enjoyed reading this article and share some of the same views with me or anything new you can contribute ?

This is my other blog for those who are interested in poetry. Please do have a look.
https://deepanilamani.com/

Thank you all for reading. And thanking all those, whose quotes I have shared ❀

Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies to each and everyone of you. God Bless πŸ™‚ ❀

Deepa Nilamani ❀

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As you all can see, I have taken a long time to write an article since the last one, “End of A Very Long Journey” This is mainly because after that end, I still had not found a, “New Beginning” to write about. As always a beginning has to follow an end. Not knowing how to start writing again, I have looked in to this topic about, “The writer’s block” Well it seems to be that I fall under some of the views that is being said here !

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There seems to be many different views by different people. Some do apply to me and maybe some of you also may come across these sometimes ? I found it an interesting topic and decided to write, as somehow I wanted to get back in to writing, and this is one of the advice I found, and hopefully this will help me to be posting articles here again πŸ˜›

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I guess almost all of you are aware that when we write, we tap our inner wisdom and its almost like someone helping or dictating words to us. In my case I hear some words being prompted, and also almost like being whispered and I found that this was actually missing since recently. I found this quote to support what I am saying πŸ˜›

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As I wrote at the beginning, nothing new has happened to me to write about. No one has asked any questions nor given any suggestions either. And as we all know sometimes how ever much we try, there is that specific time for anything to happen, and I have found that it applies for writing too πŸ™‚

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According to the above quote it says, writing block doesn’t exist, but then being unable to write and being stuck I feel it is some sort of a block. From what I have read and know, we all need a break from our usual routine to relax and charge our batteries as well as find new and fresh ideas. So it is for writing as I have found in this quote which says what to do and what not to do !

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I am more on to the way of a perfectionist and this also is a reason that sometimes I take my own time to do things, as what ever I do, I want it to be that perfect piece of work, so writing also comes under that. I wonder how many of you share this trait with me ?

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Although it is mentioned as a block, somehow I have managed to write an article about, “The Writer’s Block” itself. Yes it does go quiet unable to think of what to write and then it has come back suddenly, my head filled up with this topic that pushed me to write again which is a great relief πŸ™‚

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This is a time I have asked myself, “Why do I write” I started to write my story of becoming well and to share my experiences and knowledge for the benefit of others. At the same time writing/journaling is therapeutic to the mind. Writing is the only way, that you can pull out the feelings that are buried deep within your mind. It helps to declutter and reorganize yourself to begin a new chapter again. The quote below by, “Anne Frank” also says the same thing !

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So when we write, it is our life, our own story that we write. It is known to us only and we write how and when we want to. Writing is being free, as we are all born free and being free is what makes us happy and joyful that leads us to find peace in our hearts, our ultimate goal in life πŸ™‚

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Then do we always become successful and popular writers ? Β Or do we write because we like to write, to put forth our ideas that flood into out minds ?

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So the answer is above, I am not sure if I should say we. But this applies to me, as I don’t earn anything from writing here, and sometimes there is hardly any response but yet I go on writing, because I like to write. I hope those of you read will give, some of your ideas/views on this ?

I hope you all enjoyed reading this article and share some of the same views with me or anything new you can contribute ?

Thank you all for reading. And thanking all those, whose quotes I have shared ❀

P.S This is my latest update. As I have completely recovered and living free of depression, I needed a distraction, and to do something new and different. I have always liked poems and poetry, and I had this beautiful poem about the tree that I just started with that. But since then slowly I have begun to write my own little poems. Not only that, I was going beyond that and almost like catching up for lost time, the time I was down and was stagnating !!!
I was getting this strong need to express myself through creativity. My mind started to run into old interests and hobbies that I used to do. They have been growing in silence, and suddenly they have raised their heads up, pushing me to break through and open up myself to the world of color back again πŸ™‚

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Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies from me  ❀

Deepa Nilamani πŸ™‚