How Far I am My Path has Come!

Hello To All My Dear Readers and Blogging Friends ❤

Hope all of you are keeping well and have been reading what I have been writing and learning new things, and upgrading yourselves and your life to new levels. We keep on moving ahead, like reading a book, turning pages and moving ahead to better and higher levels in life. As most of you all are aware, it has been a very long journey going through ups and downs in life as it is not a straight line to reach our goals although we like to think it is. I have found, unlike those days, its not just life going along a straight path but,
“It is a Spiral staircase;

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“Moving along the spiral, require for us to learn, commit, and do on higher planes. We deceive ourselves if we think any of these things is sufficient. To keep progressing we must learn commit and do, Learn commit and do, and learn commit and do Again and Again”~ Stephen.R. Covey ❤
As we grow older we go through the same experiences we have gone through as before But, “With more Wisdom or Deeper Understanding” and gaining Higher Knowledge” ❤

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Life is, “A Journey up a spiral staircase; as we grow older we cover the ground covered we have covered before, only higher up; as we look down the winding stair below us, we measure our progress by the number of places where we were, but no longer are. The Journey is both repetitious and progressive; we go both round and upward” ~  William Butler Yeats!
“The path isn’t straight line; It’s A Spiral. You continually come back to things you thought you understood ans see deeper Truths”~ Esoteric Aroma!

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Enlightenment: in Hinduism and Buddhism, the highest spiritual state that can be achieved: https://dictionary.cambridge.org/dictionary/english/enlightenment!
Enlightenment begins by getting acquainted with your inner voice or higher self. The dialogue experienced in this process leads to a more comfortable, better focused lifestyle. Over time this relationship blossoms into a Higher and more efficient form of Self- Management. With practice, thoughts, feelings emotions and physical manifestation merge into a more harmonious state. This state of being allows for a softer, more gentle approach to life, that not only benefits the individual but the community as a whole ~ Gary Hopkins!
Enlightenment really means in simple language is to become more wiser (sometime with age and experience) ~ gain wisdom. I have written many articles of reaching this by various ways of meditation and prayers. See how far “I am My Path has come over 3 1/2 years, (Who am I and Why I am Writing !) that now it has come to a ~ Turning point or Another “New Beginning 🙂

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I sincerely Thank all those of you, “The readers, My blogging family, for all the “Likes, Sharing, Commenting and Encouraging” me to move on to Higher levels in My Life ❤

14th April 2019 Update: I keeping in Very Good Health and also The Good News is “I have also been able to, “Develop Healing Energy in to My Hands” since “Beginning of 2016” ~ which I have also added as an update in: Who am I and Why I am Writing ! 

Update 4th July 2019: If you like to check the posts from the “Very Beginning” as by now “The Posts have gone up more than 90” ~ You can click the “Menu” on the “Top Right Hand Side” or the latest Posts on, “The Right side under ~ Recent Posts” ❤

I have started to develop my “Other site ~ A Personal Website”, with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of  My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am up to” 😛 during my spare time you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/ ❤

I am getting a little tired of this part 😛 But as some of you want to make sure, “All articles can be Shared or Passed on, and even take Print outs or Download for free”, for yourself and even others also who can learn and benefit from what I have written. I hope you learn some new things from all what I have written and the picture Quotes. The Very Best of Luck in Your Journey up Your Path” as well  ❤

Thanking the I net, and other sites, for the posts and pictures I have shared ❤

Sending Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies to You ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa 1Deepa Nilamani 🙂

Chakra Healing ~ Vishuddha!

Hello To All My Dear Readers ❤

Hello to All My Dear Readers and Blogging friends. I hope all of you are keeping well. Here in Aussie it is Autumn so we are having cool weather and moving on to Winter Brrrrr……to be colder in a months time. Today I am writing about the 5th Chakra ~ the Throat Chakra which is also called Visuddha!

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Fifth Chakra is all about words and physical language ~ speech and Healing. It is all about speaking and make others understand us to know who we really are” to express ourselves. Being Honest, Truthful and Loyal begins here ❤

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As you see the colour of Vishuddha is Blue. The characteristic/element is the Blue sky, so it is mostly, “Blue colour fruits and vegetables that go with this chakra 🙂

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Throat Chakra’s element is the Sky and leads to communications as we need the freedom to express ourselves, freely and truthfully for it to balance it properly. Singing, writing letters, connection with friends and listening to any soothing sounds, soft music or voice story telling is included. It is not only us speaking it is to listen, absorb and understand what others say also is important for the throat chakra to work properly ❤

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In the chart you can see the food that goes under Throat Chakra: Currents, Black Berries Blue Grapes, Blue Berries, Kombu, Barley, Wheat Grass, Mushrooms, Barley, Dragon Fruits and Kelps are large brown algae seaweeds. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kelp. Dragon fruit. noun. A night-blooming climbing cactus (Hylocereus undatus) native to Mexico and Central America, cultivated in tropical regions for its edible fruit. The fruit of this plant, having red skin covered with large scales and white or pink flesh containing small black seeds. Below is a video that you can see more of Dragon Fruits and how to eat them also 😛

Here are 7 health benefits of dragon fruit, all based on evidence.
  • High in Nutrients.
  • May Help Fight Chronic Disease. …
  • Loaded With Fiber. …
  • Promotes a Healthy Gut. …
  • Strengthens Your Immune System. …
  • May Boost Low Iron Levels. …
  • Good Source of Magnesium.Dragon fruit 2
    Below are two a charts more about “Self Expression” ❤

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This is Throat Chakra Meditation: I Listen with my whole self and Think before I speak. I am Confident in my truth and I speak my words with Love. I am authentic and I am impeccable with my words. I express myself and fully and Creatively. My Truth aligns with the Truth of “The Universe” ❤

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I hope “You have learnt a lot of things from what I have written, as there are many things/information, that are not found in books, that I have written as My Experiences and Knowledge. Also,”Articles like Chakra’s, it is not easy to find information from one place and, I have also had to do, “References from books, magazines and other articles. Happy Reading ❤

14th April 2019 Update: I keeping in Very Good Health and also The Good News is “I have also been able to, “Develop Healing Energy in to My Hands” since “Beginning of 2016” ~ which I have also added as an update in: Who am I and Why I am Writing ! 

Update 4th July 2019: If you like to check the posts from the “Very Beginning” as by now “The Posts have gone up more than 90” ~ You can click the “Menu” on the “Top Right Hand Side” or the latest Posts on, “The Right side under ~ Recent Posts” ❤

As usual all this are “Free for you to” share and/or pass it on also for others who can benefit from this article and the posts. Thank You for reading. I hope All those Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so.”Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in Life” ❤

This is my other blog that I write poetry, and have been adding more pictures and information of my Hobbies if any of you who are interested to have a look : https://deepanilamani.com/ ❤

Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies from me ❤

Thanking for the posts that I have shared from the I net ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

As I Move On Again!

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*** 17th April 2019: Please make note that I am updating this article ***Written on March 20th 2016″ adding what is going on in my life right now and how “Well and Positive” I am feeling after 3 whole years” – for all of You Dear Readers to, “Be Encouraged and have more ~ “Faith, Hope and Patience” ❤ ***
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Hello To All My Dear Readers ❤

As this is my journey along the path of healing, I thought I will write here as and how I am moving on with my life. Sometimes it may be the same things here and there, but they will be different each time, because we keep on changing and evolving as we go along ❤

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Its really difficult to draw a line when you have become well and when you have really healed. Both can be on the balance as we cannot see the mind like the physical self. We ourselves don’t know what is still hiding in our minds waiting jump out, or if the memories or the hurts, have gone back so much so, almost never to come back !!!

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Those who are really following my journey, are aware that recently I did the tying up the lose-end business, and ended one part of my life. Now I have got the urge to contact some of them who have been there for me, supporting and helping me at various times and ways. These things does happen from time to time. Meaning as you go along its like closing one door after another. In life you cannot just close a door once and for all and finish off that part. As we keep on changing and moving on, we keep on closing one chapter after another. Its just life reading a book. As in a book too there are many chapters and until you finish, you keep on reading one after the other, till the end !!!

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I believe I have come to a big turning point of healing. I almost feel I have now become, who I was before all these upheavals happened. I remember all what I used to do, and I can’t believe the drama I have gone through, and how I have survived. Its like I have woken up from a very long dream, only no prince woke me up 🙂  I woke myself up !!!

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Whoever is there for you or not, ultimately its you who has to heal yourself. It has to be a combination of many things. You need to get proper guidance from the medical personnel, medication and above all, “Make an extreme effort to do anything and everything possible to become positive and pull yourself up” Once you decide and begin to come up, others can give a helping hand. The moment you decide to become well and begin to be active, it is climbing up to a higher level. Then there can be others as well as, “You will be able to tap in to other resources of higher knowledge”. And “You” will be able to make use of, “Your own knowledge and Experiences” to help others as well and to move on to better a better standard of living ❤

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It has been a Very Long Journey. Actually it has been longer than half of what I have lived so far. And still 6 months ago there were few incidents that shook me, that trying to survive, helped me even more to understand what happened to me at certain points of my life which had been puzzling me for a long time. So actually they came as it came as blessings in disguise. In order to survive, I came out of my comfort zone, which only now I realise that there was such thing as a comfort zone, where I was concerned. What things we ourselves discover about us is the surprising thing.  And I did so many things otherwise I would have not done. This is because I was Determined to Survive and I believe I have really survived and come out quite  well, the reason I write confidently about how I coped 🙂

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In life we all go through various hardships at various times in different ways until the end. And sometimes yes, we all do wonder, why did all that happen to us, for what reason. Some answers don’t come immediately but they do in time, may be a few will not. “Hopefully one day I will know the answers to my questions” !!!

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I pray and meditate to reflex on how things happened in the past and how best I can move on. I am discovering so much about me now. What I have forgotten and who I have become by overcoming all this challenges. I am who I was in the past, yet I have changed too !!! Life is such we all change all the time and we can go on learning and advancing ourselves as long as we have life. How wonderful to keep on updating your knowledge and to learn new things. I really enjoy doing so and with all what I have gone through, I find that, “Life can become Wonderful, if we have the “Strength, Persistence and Patience” to keep on working towards Achieving Your Goals ❤

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There are exceptions I know, just like everything. But for most of you, if you take courage, you can turn your life around to look at life in a positive way and make the best of who you are and what you have. We have only one life to live, and almost all of us are given, something special to make a mark in this world. For ourselves and then to others, at least to one person. We cannot change the whole world not all of us, although I wish we could. Don’t you ? So we need to make use of what we have got. As I always end up saying, Be strong, have Courage and be Patient until the tide changes and life turn in favour for you. It does, it has to ❤

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Winter doesn’t stay for ever, “You never know what The Changes the next day will bring” As we are all part of this, “Universe” we also move on with the Time of and “Your day will surely come” ❤

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***Some answers don’t come immediately but they do in time,”Hopefully one day I will know the answers to my questions” ……….
17th April 2019: This is the New Me “Adding to what I wrote before that, “The answers Did come most of them”and “The Tide does Turn” although I didn’t realize that, “Not only was I was Trying to show that it is possible to become “Positive and Well” somehow I have been working towards, “Developing Healing Energies to Heal myself as well as Help Others”!
So here is what I have learnt since then. The Tide does Turn in Your favour meaning Life does change ~ Winter does not last for ever. Good Times does come in Time ❤

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Keep Going, “With Patience, Zest and Zeal Until You Reach Your Goal” 🙂 ❤

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Victory comes to those who work hard towards becoming well/Healing and achieving Your Goals ❤

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Thank you for reading . “It is all free” and as usual you can “Down load ~ Take print outs” “share and/or pass it on also” for others who can benefit from this article and the posts. I hope you have enjoyed what I have written. Any questions or comments are most welcome. I hope All those Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness, Hope and Peace”. I wish it to be so.”Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in Life” ❤ ❤ ❤

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14th April 2019 Update: I keeping in Very Good Health and also The Good News is “I have also been able to, “Develop Healing Energy in to My Hands” since “Beginning of 2016” ~ which I have also added as an update in: Who am I and Why I am Writing ! 

Update 4th July 2019: If you like to check the posts from the “Very Beginning” as by now “The Posts have gone up more than 90” ~ You can click the “Menu” on the “Top Right Hand Side” or the latest Posts on, “The Right side under ~ Recent Posts” ❤

I have started to develop my “Other site ~ A Personal Website”, with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of  My Hobbies” if you like you can have a look :https://deepanilamani.com/ ❤

Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies from me ❤

Thanking for the posts shared from The I net ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa 100Deepa Nilamani 🙂

Thank You Very Much!

Hello To All My Dear Readers and All My Blogging Friends ❤

I am writing today to, “Thank You All” for supporting my blog, by liking and commenting. It has reached up to 1000 Likes 🙂

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Congratulations on getting 1,000 total likes on I am My Path! Your current tally is 1013………………..and is Moving On 🙂

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It has been, “A Very Long Journey over a 31/2 Years”! So many of you have shown that, what I write is helpful, and I am Honoured To feel “All My Time, Energy and Hard work is being rewarded. I am even more encouraged to try and write even better so that many more are able to benefit from my blog ❤

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It is a Double Celebration as All of you are aware that, “I have been able to Receive, “The Gift of Healing” Coming Down The Generations from My Maternal Grand Parents. My Grand Father and My Great Grand Father ~ who were Very Highly Qualified Ayurvedic Doctors.

Gabriyal Perera Wickramarachchi
 (Sinhaleseජී. පී. වික්‍රමආරච්චි; 28th September 1889 – 29th March 1975) Wickramarachchi was born on 28th September 1889 as the third son of the family to Velum Perera Wickramarachchi. An indigenous medical practitioner also known as Ayurveda Chakravarti Pandit Wickramarachchi was a distinguished eminent Ceylonese Ayurvedic physician, author, linguist, senator, lawyer (notary), lecturer and a philanthropist who founded Gampaha Siddhayurveda Vidyalaya which later became Gampaha Wickramarachchi Ayurveda Institute of University of Kelaniya: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/G._P._Wickramarachchi

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Thank You for All the Support and Encouragement Again to Everyone from All of My Heart again ❤ ❤ ❤

14th April 2019 Update: I keeping in Very Good Health and also The Good News is “I have also been able to, “Develop Healing Energy in to My Hands” since “Beginning of 2016” ~ which I have also added as an update in: Who am I and Why I am Writing ! 

Update 4th July 2019: If you like to check the posts from the “Very Beginning” as by now “The Posts have gone up more than 90” ~ You can click the “Menu” on the “Top Right Hand Side” or the latest Posts on, “The Right side under ~ Recent Posts” ❤

I have started to develop my “Other site ~ A Personal Website”, with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of  My Hobbies” if you like you can have a look :https://deepanilamani.com/ ❤

Thanking https://www.wikipedia.org/ and the I net for the posts I have shared ❤

Sending Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies to All ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You All ❤

Deepa 100Deepa Nilamani 🙂

A New Chance To Start Over!

Hello To All My Dear Readers ❤

Hello to all of My Dear Friends, Soul Brothers and Sisters. This is in Celebration of completing 80 articles on our site and I am starting a New Chapter in my life. From 6th of March, (this month) is my Birthday. So this is My Birthday Wish for All of You ❤

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I hope all of you are feeling much Better, Wiser and Happier after going through all what I have done, and reading. In my case I have gained a lot of knowledge and advanced myself by doing the site, as I have had to do “reference” also to bring to you even more information for your benefit. There is a saying that, “When you go to spread Jam you get some on yourself too”, so this is what has happened to me also! By looking out for information and writing articles according to some of your individual needs, I too have (ventured out) gone through and read vastly to give new ideas and information to you. Now don’t tell me that some of you are still not all that ok 😛 Grrrrrr ….. In that case I (your I net mummy) will take a stick and come after you like this 😛

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As from what I have and going through, “There seems to be that exact Time The Time Has To Come ! that things/life change. So you need to have “Faith and Be Patient and always Believe and not lose Hope at any time”. As I have written before, “Words Words Words and Words ! are very important as they arise from, “Thoughts”, and so Positive Words takes on to doing “Good/Positive things” and of course bad words, because of negative thinking will give out the opposite things!

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Continuing with my Journey, I have been speaking about how hard I worked, “To receive The Gift of Healing Energy” this is keeping to, “The Laws of The Universe” ~ “What goes up does come down, and what goes around comes around” It is also known as, “Good or bad Karma”. You have to understand that, “The word Karma has No female or Male identity it is action/doing”. When your mind is not at ease, too much reading can be stressful. So at “Any time read only what you can” what matters is the, “Healing part” as “This is not a Language lesson” 😛 But keep in mind that, “When I receive Healing Energy to My Hands, they will travel across to All of You too ❤

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For some of you to understand even more, I have taken the meaning of karma from: https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php? term=karma”Getting back what you give~if you do bad things, you get bad karma~bad things happen. If you’re kindly & nice, you’ll get good karma~good things will happen ~ Thanking Urban Dictionary ❤

Karma 1Now we come to, “The Healing Part” I have written so much about Healing Healing ~ Basic Steps! in different ways: 1. Healing Healing ~ Trauma ! 2.Healing Healing ~ Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder! 3.Healing Healing from ~ Depression ! 4.Healing Courage to Heal ~ Depression ! 5.Healing  What Is Healing ? 6.Healing Healing ~ Taking Full Responsibility ! 7.Healing Healing ~ Desire To Heal ! 8.Healing Healing ~ Who Help or Hurt Us !  9.Healing Gratitude ~ In Healing ! 10.Healing Forgiveness in Healing ! 11.Healing Freedom ~ In Healing! 12.Healing Trials and Tribulations in Healing!  13.Healing Third Eye in Healing!

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So this is My Birthday Wish for You ~ You All with All My Heart ~ To Be able to be able to Raise Your standard of Living if that is your issue, become Healthy Mentally and Physically, and if YOU are in Good Health, automatically YOU can be Happy. As Good Health is the most important thing in life as that cannot be bought from money ~ “The Greatest Wealth is Good Health” and of course the rest follows: To Be Prosperous too as we need money to pay our bills 😛 Then to be able to, “Be at Peace of Mind” as that is the ultimate place we all want to come to ❤

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Once you are in Good Health or even otherwise, what ever YOU have learnt from what I have written, “YOU also can be, “A Teacher, A Friend to Give a Helping Hand or to Listen in Time of Stress That Thing called Stress !!!or sadness ~ anytime to Anyone, Family, Friends or an Outsider” who is in trouble, or in need to listen or to talk with. This will be My Happiness and Joy and it has been Justified for All what I have gone through ❤

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So we All come to an end of a chapter. So many of YOU have followed My Journey by reading, commenting, sharing, and also Encouraging and Uplifting me by your comments, because I got the feeling that I have been of some help in getting better I feel very much Happy 🙂 ❤

14th April 2019 Update: I keeping in Very Good Health and also The Good News is “I have also been able to, “Develop Healing Energy in to My Hands” since “Beginning of 2016” ~ which I have also added as an update in: Who am I and Why I am Writing ! 

Update 4th July 2019: If you like to check the posts from the “Very Beginning” as by now “The Posts have gone up more than 90” ~ You can click the “Menu” on the “Top Right Hand Side” or the latest Posts on, “The Right side under ~ Recent Posts” ❤

Thank You for reading. You can Share, Down Load, Print out, and pass it on “Free” if there are others who can benefit from what I have written ❤

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I have started to develop my “Other site ~ A Personal Website”, with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of  My Hobbies” if you like you can have a look :https://deepanilamani.com/ ❤

Thanking The I net, https://www.clipart.com/en/  for the posts shared ❤

Sending Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies to All of You ❤

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May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa 1Deepa Nilamani 🙂

Life’s Challenges!

Hello To All My Dear Readers ❤

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I hope all those who are following my journey are keeping well and reading what I write and learning something new. Life is Not always easy, “That is because everyone’s life is not a straight path even mine”, we all share the same, sometimes slow and sometimes like a roller coaster ride. Of course I do not go on the real rides as I prefer to look at those going and enjoying  

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But I am very strong to face the challenges that life sends us as, tests in the forms of thunder, lightening, storms and tornadoes ~ This is just a way of explaining BUT and Not the real ones 😛

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Some of you may feel it is only for you, but bear in mind, troubles of all sorts are for all of us. Only some do not show and bear in silence. “Can you think of one person you know who has never been ill, lost a loved one, gone through financial difficulties or mental stress? Can you? No! So we all go through difficult times, that comes as challenges, for us to overcome them and move over to the next level ❤

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So you need to know there is a meaning all this. Either you face, overcome them and move on to the next level or not fight, and waste your precious time and energy. In every religion, every wise person, all the books, even the quotes all teach us these things to guide us all. Some may not understand this at once, but Believe, have Faith, and trust how things happen (process) in life. Learn to be wise, read and learn how to make the best use of what is available. It is not only meditation, but prayers and guidance from others, and from our own mind too, we all learn what best to do and what path to follow to achieve our goals ❤

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Human life is so precious. What animal can read? Choose how to live? Do they have a choice? As human beings there are opportunities open to us. We as human beings, majority of us have a choice. It may be some of you are not in a position to choose at this time of your life. But have Faith things can Change. Always have Hope that Life will turn to the better. Pray, Meditate and “As I receive Healing Energies ~ from The Universe” I Pray from My Heart, that Life WILL improve and You will have a better tomorrow a Better Future” ❤

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Thank You for reading. You can Share, Down Load, Print out, and pass it on “Free” if there are others who can benefit from what I have written ❤

14th April 2019 Update: I keeping in Very Good Health and also The Good News is “I have also been able to, “Develop Healing Energy in to My Hands” since “Beginning of 2016” ~ which I have also added as an update in: Who am I and Why I am Writing ! 

Update 4th July 2019: If you like to check the posts from the “Very Beginning” as by now “The Posts have gone up more than 90” ~ You can click the “Menu” on the “Top Right Hand Side” or the latest Posts on, “The Right side under ~ Recent Posts” ❤

I have started to develop my “Other site ~ A Personal Website”, with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of  My Hobbies” if you like you can have a look :https://deepanilamani.com/ ❤

Sending Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies ❤

Thanking the I net for the posts I have shared ❤

Many God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa 1Deepa Nilamani 🙂

Freedom To Be You!

Hello To All My Dear Readers ❤

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Today I am writing about, “A Very Important Topic ~ It is about Freedom” It is based on how people try to Manipulate some of us. “The secret of freedom is courage. This verse about Behaviour, is one which I greatly believe from ~ Erich Seligmann Fromm!

Erich Fromm 2Erich Seligmann Fromm (March 23, 1900 – March 18, 1980) was a German-born American social psychologist,   psychoanalystsociologisthumanistic philosopher. Fromm believed that freedom was an aspect of human nature that we either embrace or escape. He observed that embracing our freedom of will was healthy, whereas escaping freedom through the use of escape mechanisms was the root of psychological conflicts. Fromm outlined three of the most common escape mechanisms: automaton conformity, authoritarianism, and destructiveness. Automaton conformity is changing one’s ideal self to conform to a perception of society’s preferred type of personality, losing one’s true self in the process. Automaton conformity displaces the burden of choice from self to society. Authoritarianism is giving control of oneself to another. By submitting one’s freedom to someone else, this act removes the freedom of choice almost entirely. Lastly, destructiveness is any process which attempts to eliminate others or the world as a whole, all to escape freedom ~ Courtesy of https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Erich_Fromm!

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Behaviour – “If other people do not understand our behaviour what can we do. We behave according to our personalities”.
Their request that, “We must only do what they understand, is an attempt to, ‘Dictate’ as mostly they ‘Resent’ our ‘Freedom’ and our ‘Courage’ to be ourselves.
We owe nobody an explanation or an accounting, as long as, ‘Our acts Do Not Hurt or Infringe them’.
How many lives have been ‘Ruined’ by this need to explain, which usually implies that the explanation be, ‘Understood’ i.e. Approved.
“Let Your Deeds be Judged”. And, ‘From Your Deeds ~ Your real Intentions’
But know that, “A Free Person Owes an Explanation Only to Himself/Herself” And to,’The Few’ “Who may have Justified Claim for Explanation” ~Erich Fromm.

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As human beings, “Freedom is Very Important. In fact it is to, “All Living beings” including the animal kingdom” We are all born with, “A Unique Personality to each other and we all have that need to Behave, to Act and overall Live according to how our personality is”. As I wrote before, “We have the Right to Live freely” how we want, as long as we do not do the wrong things that is harmful to ourselves or to others!

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When we are restricted or prevented is, “The time we feel,”Stressed” That Thing called Stress !!!and if it is how we have to live, Long term it’s through because of this Stress we become unwell/sick”. As human beings, “We are lucky that we can learn from others, read and so much of resources to learn ~ How best we can go about to Live according to our personalities/ our ways of doing thing in life ~ how we like to do things” This is by educating ourselves ❤

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So we can Learn so many things ourselves as, “We are the only people who know exactly what and how we want to act and do things, to be relaxed, comfortable and at ease, as “The term Dis-ease simply means lack of ease or harmony within the body” ~ The I net! So to be in Harmony within the body, “Just be You” ❤

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I hope you like what I wrote and learnt something new, or remembered things you already knew. I know it is sometimes not easy, but have Courage and try as much as do things for you to be relaxed and Happy ❤

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14th April 2019 Update: I keeping in Very Good Health and also The Good News is “I have also been able to, “Develop Healing Energy in to My Hands” since “Beginning of 2016” ~ which I have also added as an update in: Who am I and Why I am Writing ! 

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Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies to You ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa 1Deepa Nilamani 🙂