Ways To Happiness!

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As usual I have to ask if you all are keeping in Good Health and Feeling Positive as much as Possible. And after writing about Happiness now I am going to write about, “Ways To Happiness” so that somehow, I want to make You all at least a little bit Happier as Your Happiness is also My Happiness as well. Agreed 😀

This is: Ways To Happiness:
1. Being Positive as Possible. Leads to Happy.
2. Once you feel Happy, You know how to try and create that feeling again.

So This is, “Project To Happiness”

  1. Eat Healthy: Keeping Hydrated (drinking enough water) other fruit or vegetable juices, Herbal drinks, Soups, Stews, whatever foods that are available. So that you get enough vitamins keep you strong and Healthy. If it is the season, so much going cheap.

2) Strength:
Not only physical strength You have To, build up “Mental Strength” to handle difficult situations and you come across issues.



3) Calmness:
1. You have to know how to relax and make yourself rest and feel Calm.

4) How to stay Calm: Relaxation: Being at ease:



5) Amusement:
1. Seek out humour. There can be outside places like parks where they are free and people doing various things.
2. Find things to keep you amused, like comedy. Can be TV, papers, Books or Magazines and the I net. Need not be new things enough old material or can draw yourself funny faces or pictures.
3. Make sure You are relaced and well rested. If you are tired, You cannot be smiling or laughing 🙂

6) Being Active: Although this says child it is for adults also.

7) Enthusiasm: See the picture below. So many things You can do other than these also.
1. To be enthusiastic about things, You like to do.
2.Find some project or a hobby even a charitable cause You can become uplifted and motivated.
3.Then start planning step by step towards achieving it.

8) Determination:
1. Being Determined to solve problems and achieve Your Goals makes You feel good.
2. You need a very clear idea, what you like to achieve.



9) Joy: The best thing for Joy is to to do things that you like to do, as much as possible. Together with friends or even staying at home.


10) Cheerfulness: When You are Feeling Positive, and feeling Happy Joyous and Cheerful You, “Transmit the Chemicals of Good Mood to Others too. This is why it being said, “To be around people who are Relaxed and Lead lives with Satisfaction and Value

Latest Update: 11th November 2022. This is “The 217th Post” and with the “Introductory Page this will be all in Total up to date, 218 posts. On Top Right-Hand side, you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it. You will see the word “Home” All the posts from “The Very Beginning comes ~ Under “Home”. Which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

I am in Good Health and as, “I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy into My Hands” since “Beginning of 2016” All my Hard work and Praying has been rewarded. Healing Energy can go to others too, and wherever it is needed to be received with a Clear Mind and Lot of Loving Kindness ❤

Meanwhile I have been Receiving This from WordPress: Congrats! I am My Path! is getting noticed. 343 other Websites have started receiving updates. Making it 344 Websites following My Path ❤

I am Moving on as usual with “My Own Journey of Wellness, Encouraging and Healing” So that Everyone can have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” To Lead a Better Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy”. If you click on the Link, you can Read This Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

The Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing” during my spare time you can have a look at: https://deepanilamani.com/

As always, it is all free”. You can share and pass it on also for others who can benefit from this post. I hope All those who Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so as,” Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in Life ❤

Thank you for Reading and The I net for the picture quotes I have shared and to https://www.online-image-editor.com/ for the Quotes I have done Myself ❤

Sending Love, Light and Healing Energies to You ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa Nilamani ❤

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Interpersonal Fitness!

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Hope All of You are keeping in Good Health as much as possible. “Keeping yourself Positive and Motivated as Best as possible. I have been writing about Various ways to be able to Lead a Good Life” 🙂

“Good social relationships are associated with enhanced happiness, increased cognitive capacity, improved quality of life and greater resilience. ” Resiliency is rooted in and rests fundamentally on relationships, both the perceived and actually received from quality of social supports.” “Psychological health involves people needing to feel connected and having a sense of belongingness. Individuals who feel lonely and socially isolated are prone to poorer health, compromised immune systems, social interactions can produce changes in the experience and biology of loneliness.” “When you need to have Hope and Faith, you can look for it in the face of a friend or loved one.” See the posts below ❤

“Avoid isolation: It is easier to find courage when you are not alone.”

Interpersonal fitness is the capacity to foster, engage in and sustain positive relationships and to endure and recover from life stressors with the assistance and support of others. Socially resilient individuals evidence the willingness to both ask for help and offer help when needed and build mutually caring relationships.

This section will provide practical suggestions on how to improve your relationships by:

a) fine-tuning your communication skills b) learning ways to handle interpersonal conflicts more effectively c) learning ways to nurture your relationship with a partner or spouse d) developing ways to reconnect and become more resilient.

I am in Good Health and as, “I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy into My Hands since “Beginning of 2016”” Maximum Healing Energy can go to others too, and wherever it is needed to be received with a Clear Mind and Lot of Loving Kindness ❤

Latest Update: 6th October 2022. This is “The 205th Post” and with the “Introductory Page this will be all in Total up to date, 206th posts. On Top Right-Hand side, you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, you will see the word “Home” All the posts from “The Very Beginning comes ~ Under “Home”. Which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

As always, it is all free”. You can share and pass it on also for others who can benefit from this post. I hope All those who Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so as,” Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in Life ❤

Thanking The I net for the pictures I have shared <3

Sending Love, Light and Healing Energies to All ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa Nilamani ❤






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Value of Donating ~ 1!

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Hope All of You are keeping in Good Health as much as possible. “Keeping yourself Positive and Motivated as Best as possible in these times” of Health issues and other various issues of difficulties in Life. I have been writing about Various ways of Therapies to Become Well” and to be able to Lead a Good Life” in spite of All these ups and Downs. And now it is making use of almost All, “A Very important Topic about, “The Values of Donations”. Somehow, as I stared this Topic This has happened suddenly so: From All of us we Wish Merits for Her Majest Queen Elizabeth’s Contributions ❤

Her Majesty Queen Elizabeth served as our Patron from 1952 to 2017. During her 65 years as Patron, she made an invaluable contribution to building a better world for children. Her passion and dedication will never be forgotten.

“She inspired thousands of supporters, volunteers and staff, and highlighted the lives and needs of some of the most disadvantaged children.

“We send our deepest condolences to our Patron, HRH The Princess Royal, and the whole Royal Family.”

donation is a gift for charityhumanitarian aid, or to benefit a cause. A donation may take various forms, including moneyalmsservices, or goods such as clothingtoysfood, or vehicles. Charitable donations of goods or services are also called gifts in kind!

Toys and kids’ clothes donation. Social care, volunteering and charity concept. Volunteer people collect donations into boxes.

It is possible to donate in the name of a third party, making a gift in honor. Gifts in honor such as holiday gifts, wedding gifts, or usually volunteer, or sometimes given by people if they are unable to attend the ceremony. A third party are made for various reasons, such as holiday gifts, wedding gifts. Or in the name of groups or associations no longer existing. Sometimes directing donations to a charitable organization for which the person was a donor or volunteer, or for a cause befitting the priorities in life.

A type of donations. Event donations are contributions that donors make during a fundraising event. Depending on the type of event, the money raised might come in different forms. Some Donors are more likely to give if they can put names to faces. Since events are generally perceived as fun, they usually attract a large number of people.

Things we can Help: Do to Give and Share what you see in the pictures below:

I have seen so much of needs; Water, Food, Medications, Housing, and some to study and just to survive. This is “Because of Floods, Drought, Health issues and then Completely unnecessary Fights and War sadly” And now My Healing Energies has been increasing with All the Donations I am giving, Service and Loving Kindness. Do Care and Try to Help those in need in any small way possible. It can be a small Donation, even a few coins, Time, Extra things like clothes too fitting or not needed. Volunteering. Praying will help You as well as them. The magazine below is what I buy to keep up with the new changes, to read and learn myself as well as do reference for You all when I write. This is “My collection of coins in Empty Jars” I have been collecting new coins from a long time as savings, but now even small as 5cents. As I have gone over Donating so being very careful of my Food Expenses 😛

27th September 2022: Now for those of you who feel You do not have some of these and not feel ok: “Know that My Healing Energies have “Increased even to My Heart and from where my Heart is, Getting Vibrations, “Mean You have to get some and move on to Higher Wavelength and have some ways to have “Better standards of Living. This is a bit from my Healing Energy Book. And the Energy picture I could post. You Will get some Healing Energies TRUST ME on this” ❤

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Latest Update: 27th of September 2022. This is “The 201st Post” and with the “Introductory Page this will be all in Total up to date, 202nd posts. On Top Right-Hand side, you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, you will see the word “Home” All the posts from “The Very Beginning comes ~ Under “Home”. Which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

I am in Good Health and as, “I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy into My Hands since “Beginning of 2016””Maximum Healing Energy can go to others too, and wherever it is needed to be received with a Clear Mind and Lot of Loving Kindness” ❤

The Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing” during my spare time you can have a look at: https://deepanilamani.com/

As always, it is all free”. You can share and pass it on also for others who can benefit from this post. I hope All those who Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so as,” Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in Life 

Thanking, “The I net for the Websites I have taken the Information” the “Picture quotes I have shared” and to https://www.online-image-editor.com/ for the Quotes I have done Myself ❤

Sending Love, Light and Healing Energies to All ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You All ❤

Deepa Nilamani ❤

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Psychology ~ Resilience!

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What Is Resilience? In psychology, resilience is considered a positive adaptation that takes place after a stressful event or an adverse situation. Many psychologists think of resilience as an attitude that can be developed, not a personality trait that people must be born with. Some psychologists also believe that resilience can be strengthened by good hormones which is released when someone is around a person they love. This feeling of connection can help in forming resilience. Resilience is often defined as the mental reservoir of strength that helps people handle stress and hardship.

1Resilient people are able to draw upon this strength to cope and recover from challenges. That’s true even when they face significant traumas, such as job loss, financial problems, serious illness, relationship challenges, Resilience also means understanding that life is full of challenges. While we cannot avoid many of these problems, we can remain open, flexible, and willing to adapt to change.

Strong Social Connections

Whenever you’re dealing with a problem, it is important to have people who can offer support. Talking about the challenges you are facing can be an excellent way to gain perspective, look for new solutions, or simply express your emotions. Resilient people have a network of friends, family members, co-workers, and online support groups to keep them socially connected.5

Characteristics of Resilient People

Resilient people are aware of situations, their own emotional reactions, and the behavior of those around them. By remaining aware, they can maintain control of a situation and think of new ways to tackle problems. In many cases, resilient people emerge stronger after such difficulties. While people vary dramatically in the coping skills they use when confronting a crisis, researchers have identified some key characteristics of resilience.2 Many of these skills can be developed and strengthened, which can improve your ability to deal with life’s setbacks.

Sense of Control

Do you perceive yourself as having control over your own life? Or do you blame outside sources for failures and problems? Generally, resilient people tend to have what psychologists call an internal locus of control.3 They believe that the actions they take will affect the outcome of an event. Of course, some factors are simply outside of our personal control, such as natural disasters. While we may be able to put some blame on external causes, it is important to feel as if we have the power to make choices that will affect our situation, our ability to cope, and our future.

Survivor Mentality

When dealing with any potential crisis, it is essential to view yourself as a survivor. Resilient people avoid thinking like a victim of circumstance and instead look for ways to resolve the problem. While the situation may be unavoidable, they stay focused on a positive outcome.

Emotional Regulation

Resilient people are able to regulate their emotions effectively. The ability to recognize that they are having an emotional response and to understand what is causing the response can help them better handle emotions and cope with the situation at hand.

Self-Compassion

Resilient people are also compassionate toward themselves. They tend to notice when they need to take a break and are able to accept their emotions, which is important for resilience. Self-compassion can help boost overall health and resilience and ensure that you’re ready to face life’s challenges.

How to Ask for Help

While being resourceful is an important part of resilience, it is also essential to know when to ask for help. During a crisis, everyone can benefit from the help of psychologists and counselors specially trained to deal with crisis situations. Other potential sources of assistance include:

  • Books: Reading about people who have experienced and overcome a similar problem can be motivating and suggest ideas on how to cope.
  • Online message boards: Online communities can provide continual support and a place to talk about issues with people who have been in a similar situation.
  • Psychotherapy: If you are having trouble coping with a crisis situation, consulting a qualified mental health professional can help you confront the problem, identify your strengths, and develop new coping skills.6

Support groups: Attending support group meetings is a great way to talk about the challenges you’re facing and to find a network of people who can provide compassion and support.

Resilience is important for mental health and well-being, and luckily, everyone can learn to be resilient. While some people may be naturally more resilient, it’s a skill that you can strengthen. Start by practicing some of the common characteristics of resilient people and focusing on your existing strengths. Don’t get discouraged; becoming more resilient may take time, but the investment will have big payoffs on your health and well-being.

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Once You have Read and understood, “There are 10 Questions to answer and Test Your Own Resilience” I will write the score later down here. And where you stand from Your score”!

1. I am calm in a crisis

2. I manage my stress levels well.

3. When something doesn’t go to plan, I learn from it and change my approach next time.

4. I don’t tend to worry about issues that I have no control over.

5. I don’t take criticism personally.

6. I feel confident nd secure in myself.

7. I would describe myself and optimist.

8. I have strong goals that I have a clear plan for achieving.

9. I concentrate on my strengths as opposed to focusing on my weaknesses.

10. I focus more on finding solutions to problems rather than being overwhelmed by them.

Your Total score= __ __

You give marks for yourself, 1 to 5.
In between 1 being not like me at all and 5 being very much like me. Add up your score and, see where you are “Out of 50 marks”!

What your score means from: 10 marks to 50 marks 🙂

1) 10-20:You have low level of Resilience and would benefit developing this area of your life. Perhaps you have a pessimistic view of life or you find problems as major set backs instead of challenging to overcome. Luckily Resilience can be honed (improved) so you can feel stronger during tough times.

2) 20-35:You have a good level of Resilience and although you may have bad days, you may veer (change direction) towards an optimistic view or keen to learn from mistakes. You are unlikely to give up in a hurry! Use the tips I will write to help develop your resilience even more and become “The Best Version of Yourself”

3) 35 and over: You have a strong levels of Resilience and love setbacks into opportunities. You are excellent at “Bouncing Back” and generally see the Positives in everyday or even bad days. Keep Developing this skill as it will “Help’ Your Confidence, Optimism and Reduce stress levels.

Even I have not got 50! More in the 2nd group 😛 No one is perfect. So I will have to see if I need to write a new post itself “How to Build up Resilience Although I have written extensively on “On how to get over stress and to Relax”!

In fact I have done, Resilience ~ Revised! Myself See how You learn from what I have written. I will do reference and write more clearly the Topics that is possible to do generally.

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I hope you enjoyed “All what I have written about Resilience” The Journey and of All The pictures Quotes As usual I have taken a “Lot of Time and effort to “Do Reference, find Good and Different Pictures from “The I net, Books and Magazines for Useful Ideas and of course “My Knowledge and Experiences. Thanking You All For Reading. I am Moving on as usual with “My Own Journey of Wellness, Encouraging and Healing” So that Everyone can have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” To Lead a Better Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy”. If you click on the Link You can Read This Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

Latest Update: 9th August 2022. This is “The 198th Post” and with the “Introductory Page this will be all in Total up to date, 199th posts. On Top Right Hand side you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, You will see will see The word “Home” All the posts from “The Very Beginning comes ~ Under “Home”. Which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

I am in Good Health and as, “I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy in to My Hands” since “Beginning of 2016” All my Hard work and Praying has been rewarded. Healing Energy can go to others too, and where ever it is needed to be received with a Clear Mind and Lot of Loving Kindness ❤

18th August 2022: Meanwhile I am being Congratulated by Word Press: 🎉 Congrats! I am My Path! is getting noticed. Keep up. 338 other Websites have started receiving updates. Making it 339 Web sites have started receiving updates 🙂

The Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing” during my spare time you can have a look at: https://deepanilamani.com/

As always, it is all free”. You can share and pass it on also for others who can benefit from this post. I hope All those who Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so as,” Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in Life ❤

Thanking, “The I net for the Websites I have taken the Information” the “Picture quotes I have shared” and to https://www.online-image-editor.com/ for the Quotes I have done Myself ❤

Sending Love, Light and Healing Energies to All ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa Nilamani ❤

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