Our Value in Our Life & in Other’s !

Hello To All My Dear Readers 🙂

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First of all an update to those who are following my journey. Its been two years since and I am doing extremely well for what I have been over the years before. Low moods are no more, well I don’t know where it has got to 😛
If I do too much I tend to I get stressed and sometimes anxiety had been lifting it’s head up, But I find that since recently I have become resistance to that too, to quite an extent. I am a fighter and a survivor. I have gone through many challenges, and I use to question myself. But then I have found out that challenges or difficulties come for us to overcome them and make us stronger to go to the next level 🙂

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This is to my other young blogging friends, with whom I have recently connected. All this time as I have been working, I really couldn’t put my mind into other blogs and see what other writers are doing. Now that I am connecting with some of them, I am fascinated with the diversity, as well as admire their strength on what some of them have gone through and how they are coping. We all have to know that, life is not a straight line and when we understand and accept its very much easier to face what ever comes towards us. Yes this takes practice and also you learn as you go along, with age and maturity. To those who are trying out a lot of things, you do need to learn by trying, so there is nothing wrong with trying out with many things. Ultimately you find the goal on what you want to do or be 🙂


A very important fact that I have learnt in life is that “sometimes” by doing too much to others, you lose your value in their lives. It can be family, it can be your close friends. Taking as your duty or loving and caring for them very much, makes you to sacrifice so much in your life, which actually is not fully seen by the very people nor does the outside world. It can be compared to the, “Foundation of a house” Once the house is built everyone can admire the beauty of it. But no one sees how much of hard work went to lay the foundation, which is the base and the beginning of all things. There are so many silent workers in life, it can be in a family, in a work place anywhere. Those who really put in the most are not those who get the credit usually as they don’t do for others to see or just for the sake of doing. I saw in a post that, “The caterpillar does all the hard work but, everyone admires the Butterfly, which often happens to be the truth !!!

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Still at the end of the day, you know what you have done. The most important thing is to know yourself, that you have done your duty, even more, and be happy that you did your best. Be it others think its the best or not, its up to them, as no one can do or give more than your utmost. This is life. You cannot always do exactly to the dot, when you do things but with, “Loving Kindness From your Heart” ❤

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I cannot look on, seeing someone is Not aware of the gravity of a situation or going the wrong way. When I have asked for advice, very often the answer is, “They will ask if they want” but I find it impossible to stay away, when I can help in some way to change the situation. Actually this comes with a deep sense of caring, where one can see through, which is also knowledge and to a certain extent the sixth sense or intuition, which some are not mature enough to understand and can take it the wrong way. The reason why sometimes other’s don’t take heed is, there is what you call the time factor. How ever much we try there is a time to happen ?

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This is, “The Laws of The Universe” a karmic pattern and applies for all of us, not for one or some.There are times that some have told me at that time they didn’t see it, but later on it dawned to them of what I said much earlier. This happens to me too, others can see certain things in us which we don’t notice ourselves. I have been told that these are words that stick. They do. Suddenly you realize ! that person said this to me, and if you have taken it positively, that comes as guidance, at the exact time you need. An important rule is that, we need to know our boundaries when we go to help !

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In life always there has to be a balance. We go wrong only when we do too much or too little. We need to first see that our needs are taken care of, Before we venture out to give our hand to help. We can give only if we have. We can pull someone up only if we are strong enough. Or we also fall in to the same pit. Yes, sometimes we tend to do things even if we are not in a position to do so. But this cannot be always. We need to prioritize our lives in order for us to do well, and in doing so we are able to do more. We need to take care of ourselves. If we neglect ourselves usually we cannot be sure if someone will be there at the time, to lift us up !!!

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I hope you have liked what I have written. If you have any questions or suggestions you are welcome to comment.  If you do not want your comment to be published, you can say so. As although you comment, “Only you can see” until I approve of it. “This site is, “Protected” If its spam they are automatically deleted I don’t see any of them !!!

Thank you for reading. If there are others who could benefit as, “All these are all free”. You can “Down load ~ Take print outs” “share and/or pass it on also” for others who can benefit from this article and the posts or let them know to read. “I don’t earn from writing here. Its for the benefit of everyone who want to read and learn something new or add more from my knowledge and the experiences also that, I have gained through over half a century” ❤

14th April 2019: I am keeping in Very Good Health and also The Good News is “I have also been able to, “Develop Healing Energy in to My Hands” since “Beginning of 2016” ~ which I have also added as an update in: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

28th August 2019: This is who I am now. Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Moving forward Telling My Own Story in Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy: Who I am Now & Why I am Writing!

If you like to check the posts from the “Very Beginning” as by now “The Posts have gone up more than 90” ~ You can click the “Menu” on the “Top Right Hand Side” or latest Posts on, “The Left Hand side under ~ Recent Posts” ❤

I have started to develop my “Other site ~ A Personal Website”, with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of  My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am up to” 😛 during my spare time you can have a look at: https://deepanilamani.com/ ❤

Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies to You ❤

Thanking for the posts taken from the Internet ❤

May God’s Blessing Be Upon You ❤

Deepa 1Deepa Nilamani 🙂

5 thoughts on “Our Value in Our Life & in Other’s !

  1. Thank you girl I am so glad. That is the exact reason I am writing. Now that I am reading some of your blogs its giving me direction on how exactly to use my knowledge for the benefit of others. And by appreciating and letting me know, “You have Inspired me in return” to do more and better. That again will help another, and another, and the chain continues. May be one of us, but then drop by drop the vessel get filled up. One positive thought will go like ripples through the waters. God Bless and Love and Light from me ❤

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  2. I am so happy that I have inspired you Kristian. Exact reason why I write. Your saying that someday you will share too, is that you have got Faith and most importantly Hope that helps you to move forward. May God Bless you too. Much Love and Light from me ❤ 🙂

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