Resilience ~ Revised!

Hello To All My Readers, Followers an Blogging Friends ❤

I Hope All of You are in Good Health as usual, and “Keeping yourself Positive and Motivated as Best as possible in these trying times” I am so Fortunate to have come across this Book, “Roadmap To Resilience”, and so Lucky to be able to download it free from the Doctors Website 🙂

Roadmap to Resilience
Donald Meichenbaum, Ph.D.

In this time of a world-wide pandemic, it is important to keep in mind the high level of resilience that individuals, families and communities evidence. In order to support and bolster such resilience, I am making my book “Roadmap To Resilience” available for “FREE” to help individuals cope with ongoing adversities and losses.

Topics include ways to:

  1. Handle intense emotions (fear, anxiety, depression, loneliness, boredom, anger, grief, guilt, and shame). Specific suggestions on ways NOT to let these emotions overwhelm you are included. How to name and tame your emotions; how to accept, tolerate, control and share your feelings are discussed. How not to allow your feelings “hijack” your resourcefulness and undermine your resilience is included. LEARN HOW TO TALK BACK TO YOUR AMYGDALA — your lower emotional brain and learn how to sleep better.
  2. Access help from others and ways “to give, to get.”
  3. Develop and deliberately practice resilience-engendering behaviors such as relaxation, meditation, yoga, exercise, gratitude, forgiveness, meaning-making activities, use humor, group support, your religion and faith, Internet resources, etc.. LEARN HOW OTHER FOLKS HAVE USED POSITIVE COPING STRATEGIES.
  4. Ways to cope with the coronavirus  is included in an ADDENDUM.  Read “Resilient  Voices”

    In this time of a world-wide pandemic, it is important to keep in mind the high level of resilience that individuals, families and communities evidence. In order to support and bolster such resilience, I am making my book ROADMAP TO RESILIENCE available for FREE to help individuals cope with ongoing adversities and losses.

PLEASE SHARE THIS WEBSITE WITH OTHERS –
WE ARE ALL IN THIS TOGETHER!

We have to be Thankful and Grateful To Dr: – Donald Meichenbaum, Ph.D. for this Book and The Post!

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The fact is I have done so many Topics The Doctor has mentioned in Detail from “The very Beginning for over 6 years from: 2015 up to now 2022″! You will be able to check in Posts That Has Been Published ~ 1! and Posts That Has Been Published ~ 2!. Also in Both, ” Roadmap To Resilience Appendix A! and Roadmap To Resilience Appendix B!

Latest Update: 13th of January 2022. This is “The 171th Post” and with the “Introductory Page this will be all in Total up to date, 172 posts. On Top Right Hand side you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, You will see will see The word “Home” All the posts from “The Very Beginning comes ~ Under “Home”. Which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

I am also getting Congratulated. From “WordPress”. Well I have been working Very Hard even through the nights also to Bring out The Best Possible Posts 🙂
🎉 Congrats! I am My Path is getting noticed. 320 websites have started receiving updates 🙂

I am in Good Health and as, “I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy in to My Hands” since “Beginning of 2016” All my Hard work and Praying has been rewarded. Healing Energy can go to others too, and where ever it is needed to be received with a Clear Mind and Lot of Loving Kindness ❤

The old Topics are, “On The Left Hand side “Under the, “Recent Posts” with “The New Topics adding up. “It will be too long to post so many number of posts on the side. You can “Click and see all The older Topics” Under “Archives and Categories”. Make Note: “Archives” and “Meta” Which has been repeated, some change of format at the moment and I am unable to change ❤

I am Moving on as usual with “My Own Journey of Wellness, Encouraging and Healing” So that Everyone can have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” To Lead a Better Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy”. If you click on the Link You can Read This Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

The Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing” during my spare time you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/ 

As always, It is all free”. You can share and pass it on also for others who can benefit from this post. I hope All those who Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so as, ”Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in Life ❤

Thanking the Internet for the Doctors Picture and His Website which “The Book was Posted” and My being able to down load it Free ❤

Sending Love, Light and Healing Energies to All ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa Nilamani ❤

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Roadmap To Resilience!

I Hope All of You are in Good Health, and “To keeping yourself Positive and Motivated as Best as possible in these trying times” ❤

This full post below is from Dr. – Donald Meichenbaum, Ph.D. I am sharing from his site. The rest is as usual which I write after what I write from the Update.


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Roadmap to Resilience
Donald Meichenbaum, Ph.D.

In this time of a world-wide pandemic, it is important to keep in mind the high level of resilience that individuals, families and communities evidence. In order to support and bolster such resilience, I am making my book ROADMAP TO RESILIENCE available for FREE to help individuals cope with ongoing adversities and losses.

This Website is set up with TWO APPENDICES:

APPENDIX A is set up with SIX different FITNESS areas: Physical, Interpersonal, Emotional, Cognitive, Behavioral and Spiritual  (PIE CBS).  Individuals will be able to Click on any item and retrieve the corresponding Coping ACTION PLAN.

APPENDIX B is set up in ALPHABETICAL order and folks can just look up the specific need they have at that moment and access the corresponding Coping ACTION PLAN.

Topics include ways to:

  1. Handle intense emotions (fear, anxiety, depression, loneliness, boredom, anger, grief, guilt, and shame). Specific suggestions on ways NOT to let these emotions overwhelm you are included. How to name and tame your emotions; how to accept, tolerate, control and share your feelings are discussed. How not to allow your feelings “hijack” your resourcefulness and undermine your resilience is included. LEARN HOW TO TALK BACK TO YOUR AMYGDALA — your lower emotional brain and learn how to sleep better.
  2. Access help from others and ways “to give, to get.”
  3. Develop and deliberately practice resilience-engendering behaviors such as relaxation, meditation, yoga, exercise, gratitude, forgiveness, meaning-making activities, use humor, group support, your religion and faith, Internet resources, etc.. LEARN HOW OTHER FOLKS HAVE USED POSITIVE COPING STRATEGIES.
  4. Ways to cope with the coronavirus  is included in an ADDENDUM.  Read “Resilient  Voices”

PLEASE SHARE THIS WEBSITE WITH OTHERS –
WE ARE ALL IN THIS TOGETHER!

You have to Thank Dr: – Donald Meichenbaum, Ph.D. for this post.

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Latest Update: 7th of January 2022. This is “The 168th Post” and with the “Introductory Page this will be all in Total up to date, 169 posts. On Top Right Hand side you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, You will see will see The word “Home” All the posts from “The Very Beginning comes ~ Under “Home”. Which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

I am in Good Health and as, “I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy in to My Hands” since “Beginning of 2016” All my Hard work and Praying has been rewarded. Healing Energy can go to others too, and where ever it is needed to be received with a Clear Mind and Lot of Loving Kindness ❤

The old Topics are, “On The Left Hand side “Under the, “Recent Posts” with “The New Topics adding up. “It will be too long to post so many number of posts on the side. You can “Click and see all The older Topics” “Under “Archives” and “Categories”. Make. Note: “Archives” and “Meta” Which has been repeated, some change of format at the moment and I am unable to change ❤

I am Moving on as usual with “My Own Journey of Wellness, Encouraging and Healing” So that Everyone can have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” To Lead a Better Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy”. If you click on the Link You can Read This Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

The Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing” during my spare time you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/ 

It is all free”. You can share and pass it on also for others who can benefit from this post. I hope All those who Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so as, ”Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in Life ❤

Sending Love, Light and Healing Energies to All ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa Nilamani ❤

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Posts That Has Been Published ~ 1!

Hello To All My Dear Readers ❤

I have Given here ~ All the First 150 posts I have Published” When You Click The word “Menu on Top Right Hand also All These will be Under “Home”. As this is what I have Thought of doing “After I finished The first Lot of Posts”!
The “2nd Lot of Posts also I will Begin with “A page like this Called “The Posts That has Been Published ~ 2!, and keep on adding “The New Posts Methodically” so that it will be easy to follow. That means The Menu on Top Right Hand will, “Have the Topics of The First lot of Topics, as well as “Posts The has Been Published ~ 2!

1. Who I am & Why I am Writing! – I am My Path!
2. The Therapists Voice Forward! – I am My Path!
3. Welcome To My World! – I am My Path!
4. Healing ~ Trauma! – I am My Path!
5. All About Writing! – I am My Path!
6. Challenges in Life! – I am My Path!
7. Power of the Mind! – I am My Path!
8. As I Move On! – I am My Path!
9. As We Move On ! – I am My Path!
10. A New Chapter! – I am My Path!


11. When Rejected ~ Find Acceptance! – I am My Path!
12. Thank You All! – I am My Path!
13. Who are We ~ Why are We here ? – I am My Path!
14. Our Value in Our Life & in Other’s! – I am My Path!
15. The Power of Prayers! – I am My Path!
16. Ending of One Chapter! – I am My Path!
17. Success in Life! – I am My Path!
18. Inner Guidance ! – I am My Path!
19. Healing from ~ Depression! – I am My Path!
20. Changes in Life! – I am My Path!

21. Moral Values! – I am My Path!
22. Courage to Heal Depression! – I am My Path!
23. End of A Very Long Journey ! – I am My Path!
24. Writer’s Block? – I am My Path!
25. My Path! – I am My Path!
26. Life ~ Health ~ Healing! – I am My Path!
27. https://iammypath.com/2017/04/11/some-try-to-spoil-others-lives-for-no-reason/
28. Thank You All! – I am My Path!
29. What Is Healing? – I am My Path!
30. Healing ~ Taking Full Responsibility! – I am My Path!


31. Healing ~ Desire To Heal! – I am My Path!
32.Healing ~ Who Help or Hurt Us! – I am My Path!
33. Life’s Lessons! – I am My Path!
34. Gratitude ~ In Healing! – I am My Path!
35. What is Gratitude? – I am My Path!
36. Benefits of Gratitude! – I am My Path!
37. A Collection of Gratitudes! – I am My Path!
38. The Journey called Life! – I am My Path!
39. Words Words and Words! – I am My Path!
40. That Thing called Stress! – I am My Path!

41. Counselling and Psychotherapy! – I am My Path!
42. Online Psychological Therapy! – I am My Path!
43. The Benefits of Nature! – I am My Path!
44. What is Depression? – I am My Path!
45. The Purpose of Our Lives! – I am My Path!
46. Forgiveness in Healing! – I am My Path!
47. New Beginnings! – I am My Path!
48. Thank You All! – I am My Path!
49. New Changes! – I am My Path!
50. Ending One Chapter! – I am My Path!

51. Freedom ~ In Healing! – I am My Path!
52. Dealing with Those who Don’t Understand You! – I am My Path!
53. Rise Again! – I am My Path!
54. Lessons from A Lion! – I am My Path!
55. A Message of Love! – I am My Path!
56. Trials and Tribulations in Healing! – I am My Path!
57. Third Eye in Healing! – I am My Path!
58. Happy New Year To All! – I am My Path!
59. My Life Up To Now ~ January 2018! – I am My Path!
60. We Each have Our Own Path! – I am My Path!

61. Rise Above The Storm! – I am My Path!
62. Chakra Healing! – I am My Path!
63. Chakra Healing ~ Muladhara! – I am My Path!
64. End The Stigma ~ Discrimination Stops with You! – I am My Path!
65. End The Stigma! – I am My Path!
66. Chakra Healing ~ Svadhisthana! – I am My Path!
67. Hobbies ~ Do What You Really Like To Do! – I am My Path!
68. Good Things Don’t Come Easy! – I am My Path!
69. When We Forget Our Blessings! – I am My Path!
70. A Note of Thanks! – I am My Path!

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71. The Power of Hand Writing! – I am My Path!
72. Growing Older ~ Young At Heart! – I am My Path!
73. I Am Praying For You! – I am My Path!
74. Chakra Healing ~ Manipura! – I am My Path!
75. Happy New Year ~ 2019! – I am My Path!
76. Perfection! – I am My Path!
77. To My Happiness Family! – I am My Path!
78. You are Stronger than You Think! – I am My Path!
79. Healing ~ Basic Steps! – I am My Path!
80. Freedom To Be You! – I am My Path!


81. Life’s Challenges! – I am My Path!
82. A New Chance To Start Over! – I am My Path!
83. Trust Your Journey! – I am My Path!
84. Chakra Balancing! – I am My Path!
85. Motivation! – I am My Path!
86. Chakra Healing ~Anahata! – I am My Path!
87 . Thank You Very Much! – I am My Path!
88. Guide To Your Chakras! – I am My Path!
89. As I Move On Again! – I am My Path!
90. Chakra Healing ~ Vishuddha! – I am My Path!



91. All About Energy ~ Vibration! – I am My Path!
92. Clearing of Negative Energy! – I am My Path!|
93. How Far I am My Path has Come! – I am My Path!
94. Celebrate Life! – I am My Path!
95. Taking The Therapists Voice Forward! – I am My Path!
96. Celebrating WordPress 4th Year Anniversary! – I am My Path!
97. Happy Birthday Tumbler Turned 2 Years! – I am My Path!
98. My Journey on Healing! – I am My Path!
99. Chakra Healing ~ Ajna! – I am My Path!
100. Chakra Healing ~ Sahasrara! – I am My Path!




101. Merry Christmas 2019 & Happy New Year 2020! – I am My Path!
102. Being Thankful! – I am My Path!
103 .Benefits Of Music ~ Part 1! – I am My Path!
104. Benefits of Music ~ Part 2! – I am My Path!
105. How To Make A Collage! – I am My Path!
106. Collage ~ New Year Resolutions! – I am My Path!
107. World Statistics For ~ I am My Path! – I am My Path!
108. Inspirations! – I am My Path!
109. I am Re-Writing My Journey Again! – I am My Path!
110. Counselling ~ 1! – I am My Path!


111.Counselling ~ 2! – I am My Path!
112. Counselling ~ 3! – I am My Path!
113. Birthday! – I am My Path!
114. Chapter 2 ~ How I Became an Author! – I am My Path!
115. How To Stay Home & Be Safe! – I am My Path!
116. Natural Health & Healing! – I am My Path!
117. Things That You Can Do At Home! – I am My Path!
118. Health Benefits of Dancing ~ 1! – I am My Path!
119. Health Benefits of Dancing ~ 2! – I am My Path!
120. Chapter 2 ~ How I Became an Author! – I am My Path!


121. How I am My Path was Born! – I am My Path!
122. Health Benefits of Reading ~ 1! – I am My Path!
123. Health Benefits of Reading ~ 2! – I am My Path!
124. Benefits of Being Positive! – I am My Path!
125. Thank You for The Likes! – I am My Path!
126. Happiness! – I am My Path!
127. Birds Birds Birds! – I am My Path!
128. As Time Goes By! – I am My Path!
129. Healthy Living! – I am My Path!
130. Save Mother Earth! – I am My Path!



131. Fifth Year Anniversary! – I am My Path!
132. Coincidences! – I am My Path!
133. The Gift of Healing ~ My Grandfather! – I am My Path!
134. Stats Are Booming ~1! – I am My Path!
135. Energy Healing! – I am My Path!
136. Deepavali ~ The Festival of Lights! – I am My Path!
137. Healthy Living ~ Exercises! – I am My Path!
138. Healthy Living ~ Relaxation! – I am My Path!
139. Collage For ~ 2021! – I am My Path!
140. Stats Are Booming ~2 & 3! – I am My Path!

141. Merry Christmas! – I am My Path!
142. Happy New Year 2021! – I am My Path!
143. Editing ~ Modifying The Posts! – I am My Path!
144. Revision In Pictures 1 ~ Books! – I am My Path!
145. Revision In Pictures 2 ~ Creativity! – I am My Path!
146. Revision In Pictures 3 ~ Writing! – I am My Path!
147. Revision In Pictures 4 ~ Music! – I am My Path!
148. Revision In Pictures 5 ~ Dancing! – I am My Path!
149. Revision In Pictures 6 ~ Painting! – I am My Path!
150. Revision In Pictures 7 ~ Nature! – I am My Path!


151. Revision In Pictures 8 ~ Be Well! – I am My Path!
152. Teaching ~ Enlightening! – I am My Path!

Latest Update: 20th of February 2021. I am well and “Will be starting to write The next lot of posts”. Thank You Very much for connecting with my Website, Liking, Following, Commenting and Reading and Encouraging Me also ❤


As the same way This List also is all free”. I hope All those who Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these Posts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so as, ”Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in Life ❤

Thanking for the pictures of flowers shared from the I net and Free Online Image Editor (online-image-editor.com) for the post written by me ❤

Sending Love, Light and Healing Energies Your Way ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa Nilamani 🙂

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Counselling ~ 1!

Hello To All My Dear Readers ❤

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I have thought of sharing what I have received as Counselling  as well as what I have studied on My Journey of Becoming well ❤

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“These are “Very advanced articles” and I need to write the exact meanings and clarify. So read very carefully. Picture Quotes from “The I Net” BUT “What I am writing is NOT copying straight from The I net or other books. What I am writing is “Mostly My first hand Knowledge and Experiences, and  also, doing references. BUT “It has to agree with what I know and feel it is correct!

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Now I need to “Concentrate and I am writing carefully explaining and clarifying as much as possible”. As there will be new words that, “I also Look Up for the exact Spelling and Meanings”. “That You will also need to know, “As the Meaning or the Definition” from the I net or the Dictionaries. Both the two posts Above and Below give these: Points ❤

Role of A Counsellor:
1. Be available and supportive.
2. Actively listen to client’s story.
3. Do not blame the client (You)
4. Express Empathy (Kindness)
5. Generate Resources (Books, Picture card sets that help to understand)
6. Address unrealistic expectations of client from counsellor (if any) ~ if You are thinking of things that the counsellor cannot be.
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According to the picture above: Counselling is:
1. Confidential.
2. Listening: Having time to talk to someone who listens.
3. Understanding: Having Time to talk to some one who someone who listens.
4. Responsive: To individual needs ~ To know the persons personality and what she or he needs.
5. Non Judgmental: Not to Judge if that person is good or bad.
6. Changing: Counselling can help you work out what changes You can make and how.

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The Picture above also gives almost the same points, as I have written above!

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This is to explain what “The Counsellor Does” He or she has to meet you and be Helpful by: Listening to what the Client/You have to say. They have to, “Be Able to Be Kind, Understand and Trust” and to be So it has to be that “The Counsellor Matches Your Personality” They have to know usually of your culture To Understand Your way of Thinking and doing things in Life”!

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Role of A Counsellor:
1. Be available and supportive.
2. Actively listen to client’s story.
3. Do not blame the client (You)
4. Express Empathy (Kindness)
5. Generate Resources (Books, Picture card sets that help to understand)
6. Address unrealistic expectations of client from counsellor (if any) ~ if You are thinking of things that the counsellor cannot be.

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Paraphrasing involves taking a passage – either spoken or written – and rewording it. … When paraphrasing, it is important to keep the original meaning so that the facts remain intact. Basically, you are writing something in your own words that still expresses the original idea ~The I net!

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How to Reduce Stress:

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How to Avoid Stress?
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None of us work 24/7 and there is always some free time to relax. Also relaxing does not need a lot of money either. Of course if one has extra money to spend, there are many expensive ways to relax also. But actually you do not need to spend like that. As relaxing is becoming one with mother nature. The closer you become to mother earth, by ways of food, clothes and living the closer you become to a stress free life. It is difficult to lead a complete stress free life in this present times. But there are plenty of simple ways to relax like the post above, and below, to reduce our stress levels and enjoy a balanced and healthy life 🙂

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Although it is said “How Music benefits kids” It is not only for them it is also for adults of All ages.

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These are Some of “The Benefits of Counselling” ❤

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I hope what I have posted and written has helped You to know what Counselling is and You will feel much better and also know exactly know how it helps and how to go about, “For Professional Counselling Yourself if needed”!

So I am Editing and Updating almost all my posts naturally as, Daily New Discoveries are made and Latest Information is available. Upgrading Myself to A New Wave Length ~ A New Chapter in My Life and I Wish so for You also ❤

Latest Update 6th March 2020:Up to date with the Birthday article 111th and The Introductory page I have Published 112 posts. On “The Top Right Hand side” you are able to see: The word  Menu 1a Menu when you” Click on it, You will see will see The word X Menu again. Under that You can see, “Home” You click on that again and it is the: Introductory page on: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

There will still be the old Topics “On the Left Hand side Under The Recent posts with the new posts adding up. Also “Under Archives and Categories” Happy Reading ❤

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What I am doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Moving forward Telling About My Own Journey of Wellness”. Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy. And if You click on this Link in Green You can read this Post: Taking The Therapists Voice Forward!

The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing” 🙂 you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/

“It is all free”. You can “Down load ~ Take print outs” “share and pass it on also” for others who can benefit from this article and All the other posts ❤

“A Very Special Thank You To I net and All The Other sites and Free Online Image Editor (online-image-editor.com) from Me and My Readers” for the Pictures and the Quotes shared and done by me on this Blog ❤ ❤ ❤

Sending Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies To You ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa 100Deepa Nilamani 🙂

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