Back Pain!

Hello To All My Dear Readers ❤

Hoping all of you are keeping well and managing to get on with Your Lives in Good Health and in Peace. These days the on going Health issue is causing much stress and also people working from home and not much relaxation or exercises seems to result in aches in the body mainly Neck, Shoulder and Back aches. That I thought of writing about it!

How Anxiety Causes Back Pain: And How to Stop It

  • Anxiety, especially chronic anxiety, commonly leads to back pain
  • Muscle tension may be the primary cause, but there are other supplementary anxiety symptoms that could also cause back pain
  • Simple lifestyle changes can reduce some of the back pain
  • One simple change: posture, which can be affected by anxiety in several ways
  • Eliminating back pain from anxiety, specifically, traditionally requires anxiety treatments

Low Back Pain

Also known as: lumbagoPain or ache in the lower region of the back, varying in intensity.

  • Pronunciation: Lumbago /lʌmˈbeɪɡoʊ/
  • Usual onset: 20 to 40 years of age
  • Duration: 65% get better in 6 weeks
  • Types: Acute (less than 6 weeks), sub-chronic (6 to 12 weeks), chronic (more than 12 weeks)
  • Frequency: 25% in any given month

Common causes

Low back pain is not always related to an underlying condition. It may be caused by:

  • Lifting heavy objects
  • Sudden jerks in a motor vehicle
  • Excessive strain on the muscle due to prolonged sitting or wrong positioning while sleeping
  • Prolonged use of high heel shoes
  • Also common during pregnancy, before/during menstruation

Treatment

Self-treatment: Self- care steps that may be helpful in some less- serious cases:

  • Apply muscle relaxant ointments or sprays
  • Try resting the back for a while
  • Avoid heavy physical activities for couple of days
  • Apply heat or cold compress – depending on what soothes the body
  • Try over the counter pain relievers.
  • Avoid jerky or painful movements
  • Observe the pain location and intensity, whether the pain is constant or appears during certain activities like bending, stretching and such

See a doctor if you notice:

  • Persistent pain for over 72 hours
  • Recurrent pain
  • Spreading of pain to other regions like leg, arms or neck
  • Difficulty sleeping, sitting or disturbance in daily activities

See a doctor immediately if you notice:

  • Severe and unbearable pain
  • Injury
  • Other symptoms like fatigue, fever etc

Back pain is one of the most common reasons people go to the doctor or miss work, and it is a leading cause of disability worldwide. Back pain can range from a muscle aching. In addition, the pain may radiate down your leg or worsen with bending, twisting, lifting, standing or walking. Fortunately, you can take measures to prevent or relieve most back pain episodes. If prevention fails, simple home treatment and proper body mechanics often will heal your back within a few weeks and keep it functional.
Back pain includes lower back pain, middle back pain, upper back pain or low back pain with sciatica. Nerve and muscular problems. Back pain symptoms may be relived with pain medication.

Lower left back pain is a condition that affects many people – young and old. Very often, lower back pain affects just one side of your body and can cause discomfort ranging from mild aches to agonizing sharp pain. Lower back pain is also called lumbago because it causes discomfort in your lumbar region or lower back. This is the area in your lower back that is above your hips and below the bottom of your back rib cage. Muscle injury, nerve damage can all result in pain in the lower left back side.

What is sciatica?

Back pain includes lower back pain, middle back pain, upper back pain or low back pain with sciatica. Nerve and muscular problems. Back pain symptoms may be relived with pain medication. Sciatica is a condition that can lead to pain in the back and legs. It occurs when pain travels along the path of the sciatic nerve. This nerve starts in the lower spine, and travels through the hip and buttock and down the back of the leg to the foot. There are a range of different causes of sciatica. In most cases, the condition gets better over time, either on its own or with treatment.

Back pain and stress. We typically talk about back pain as mid-back and low-back pain. Over time, both affect your posture and the way you walk, which can lead to pain in the hips, knees, and feet. Mid-back pain includes muscles that are affected by breathing, including the chest and shoulder muscles. When you’re stressed, your breathing patterns change and cause strain and tension in the mid-back.

Risk factors

Anyone can develop back pain, even children and teens. These factors might put you at greater risk of developing back pain:

  • Age. Back pain is more common as you get older, but young people also can get it.
  • Lack of exercise. Weak, unused muscles in your back and abdomen might lead to back pain.
  • Excess weight. Excess body weight puts extra stress on your back.
  • Diseases. Some can contribute to back pain.
  • Improper lifting. Using your back instead of your legs can lead to back pain.
  • Psychological conditions. People prone to depression and anxiety appear to have a risk of back pain.
  • Smoking. Smokers have increased rates of back pain. This may occur because smoking prompts more coughing.

Prevention

You might avoid back pain or prevent its recurrence by improving your physical condition and learning and practicing proper body mechanics.

To keep your back healthy and strong:

  • Exercise. Regular low-impact aerobic activities — those that don’t strain or jolt your back — can increase strength and endurance in your back and allow your muscles to function better. Walking and swimming are good choices. Talk with your doctor about which activities you might try.
  • Build muscle strength and flexibility. Abdominal and back muscle exercises, which strengthen your core, help condition these muscles so that they work together like a naturally for your back.
  • Maintain a healthy weight. Being overweight strains back muscles. If you’re overweight, trimming down can prevent back pain.

Avoid movements that twist or strain your back. Use your body properly:

  • Stand smart. Don’t slouch. Maintain a neutral pelvic position. If you must stand for long periods, place one foot on a low footstool to take some of the load off your lower back. Alternate feet. Good posture can reduce the stress on back muscles.
  • Sit smart. Choose a seat with good lower back support, armrests and a swivel base. Placing a pillow or rolled towel in the small of your back can maintain its normal curve. Keep your knees and hips level. Change your position frequently, at least every half-hour.
  • Lift smart. Avoid heavy lifting, if possible, but if you must lift something heavy, let your legs do the work. Keep your back straight — no twisting — and bend only at the knees. Hold the load close to your body. Find a lifting partner if the object is heavy or awkward.

The media at the present times also so full of the same topic. So if you have done what is necessary to keep yourself safe as much as possible, “It is good to keep away from unnecessary Reading and watching the same thing” See the picture post below:

Latest Update Today is Saturday 9th October 2021: This is “The 163rd Post” and with the “Introductory Page this will be all in Total up to date, 164 posts.

On Top Right Hand side you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, You will see will see The word “Home” You will see, “All the posts that has been published in the First half, as well as included in The Menu as: The posts that has been Published ~ 1! and, The Posts That has Been Published ~ 2! Also
The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

The old Topics are, “On The Left Hand side “Under the, “Recent Posts” with “The New Topics adding up. You can “Click and see all The older Topics” “Under “ARCHIVES” and “Under CATERGORIES”

I am still “My Healthy self” and Writing “My Own Journey on Wellness and Healing”. So that Everyone can have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” To Lead a Better Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy”. If you click on the Link You can Read This Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to other different posts of Mine which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am up to during my spare time you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/

It is all free”. You can share and pass it on also for others who can benefit from this post. I hope All those who Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so as, ”Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in Life” ❤

Thanking The I net for some of the information and pictures I have shared ❤

Sending Love, Light and Healing Energies Your Way ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa Nilamani 🙂






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Healing!

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How are you all. Keeping in Good Health. I sincerely Hope so. Today I am writing about “Healing” and “Very Appropriate” (suitable) to The Health issue what is going on” What I am writing is about is “Natural Healing”. Which “I have Received and I know “What they are”. For Healing “I am, “The Healer and The person who is Being Helped is called “The Healee” (The person or the people that needs to be Healed (To get back to Good Health) ❤


Qualities of “Good Healer is Patience, Trust and Faith. The Healer has to be Very Patient as it takes “Time” for the The person who is being Helped to “Adjust”. As it has to be “In a Relaxing way and not hurried” Trust comes in, “Even when The Healing cannot be seen. It is Not always possible to see, “Any Energy Changes immediately” There has to be, “”Faith” both with “The Healer and The person being Healed especially, to know that “Healing does Happen” ❤

Skilled Healers are “Know The Art of Listening” “They are able to detect (Understand) what is “Being spoken through words” by The person as well as “What is Not spoken” by The person that is being Helped”. The Healer can Observe (see) how the patient “Is dressed, Looks Happy or worried” generally from outer appearance.


It is “Ver Important To Be working with, “The Purest Spiritual Energy”. Spiritual Energy comes with Praying and Meditating. Healing Energy can be transferred by “Toughing by Hands” and then “They can be felt” ❤

Long Distance Healing is, “Mind To Mind Healing”. Only it is done “Over Longer Distance” The person that is being Helped can be, “Hundred or Thousands of Miles Away” and still be able to, “Take in The Healing Energies from The Healer” Which is Me 🙂

Healing Energy is like “The Flow of Water” You need to “Trust Believe and Ready and Willing To Receive”. If one does not Believe or Trust “They will Not Flow” It is Like trying to enter through a closed door!

Today being The Date: March 27th 2021. This is the “2nd post of The 2nd Lot” Which will be in, “The Posts That Has Been Published ~ 2!”

On Top Right Hand side Top you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, You will see will see The word “Home” All the posts from “First Lot” from “The Very Beginning will be ~ Under “Home”. As well as The Page: Posts That Has Been Published ~ 1! and The Page which will have, “The 2nd Lot of Posts: Posts That Has Been Published ~ 2!

The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing! as well as: The Therapists Voice Forward! is in Green letters: Under The Copy Right Notice”!

The old Topics can be found “On The Left Hand side “Under the, “Recent Posts, Archives and Categories” with “The New Topics adding up. As it now “There are a Lots of Posts so it is not possible to put in from The Beginning” Thank You for Reading ❤

I have “My Personal Website” with “My own little Poems and Pictures if You click on this Link You can go there and read :https://deepanilamani.com

It is all free as usual”. You can share and pass it on also for others who can benefit from this post. I hope All those who Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so as, ”Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in Life” ❤

Thanking The I net for the Pictures and https://www.online-image-editor.com/ for the picture posts I have done ❤

Sending Love, Light and Healing Energies Your Way ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa Nilamani 🙂


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Posts That Has Been Published ~ 1!

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I have Given here ~ All the First 150 posts I have Published” When You Click The word “Menu on Top Right Hand also All These will be Under “Home”. As this is what I have Thought of doing “After I finished The first Lot of Posts”!
The “2nd Lot of Posts also I will Begin with “A page like this Called “The Posts That has Been Published ~ 2!, and keep on adding “The New Posts Methodically” so that it will be easy to follow. That means The Menu on Top Right Hand will, “Have the Topics of The First lot of Topics, as well as “Posts The has Been Published ~ 2!

1. Who I am & Why I am Writing! – I am My Path!
2. The Therapists Voice Forward! – I am My Path!
3. Welcome To My World! – I am My Path!
4. Healing ~ Trauma! – I am My Path!
5. All About Writing! – I am My Path!
6. Challenges in Life! – I am My Path!
7. Power of the Mind! – I am My Path!
8. As I Move On! – I am My Path!
9. As We Move On ! – I am My Path!
10. A New Chapter! – I am My Path!


11. When Rejected ~ Find Acceptance! – I am My Path!
12. Thank You All! – I am My Path!
13. Who are We ~ Why are We here ? – I am My Path!
14. Our Value in Our Life & in Other’s! – I am My Path!
15. The Power of Prayers! – I am My Path!
16. Ending of One Chapter! – I am My Path!
17. Success in Life! – I am My Path!
18. Inner Guidance ! – I am My Path!
19. Healing from ~ Depression! – I am My Path!
20. Changes in Life! – I am My Path!

21. Moral Values! – I am My Path!
22. Courage to Heal Depression! – I am My Path!
23. End of A Very Long Journey ! – I am My Path!
24. Writer’s Block? – I am My Path!
25. My Path! – I am My Path!
26. Life ~ Health ~ Healing! – I am My Path!
27. Why Do some people Try to Spoil Others Lives for No Reason? – I am My Path!
28. Thank You All! – I am My Path!
29. What Is Healing? – I am My Path!
30. Healing ~ Taking Full Responsibility! – I am My Path!


31. Healing ~ Desire To Heal! – I am My Path!
32.Healing ~ Who Help or Hurt Us! – I am My Path!
33. Life’s Lessons! – I am My Path!
34. Gratitude ~ In Healing! – I am My Path!
35. What is Gratitude? – I am My Path!
36. Benefits of Gratitude! – I am My Path!
37. A Collection of Gratitudes! – I am My Path!
38. The Journey called Life! – I am My Path!
39. Words Words and Words! – I am My Path!
40. That Thing called Stress! – I am My Path!

41. Counselling and Psychotherapy! – I am My Path!
42. Online Psychological Therapy! – I am My Path!
43. The Benefits of Nature! – I am My Path!
44. What is Depression? – I am My Path!
45. The Purpose of Our Lives! – I am My Path!
46. Forgiveness in Healing! – I am My Path!
47. New Beginnings! – I am My Path!
48. Thank You All! – I am My Path!
49. New Changes! – I am My Path!
50. Ending One Chapter! – I am My Path!

51. Freedom ~ In Healing! – I am My Path!
52. Dealing with Those who Don’t Understand You! – I am My Path!
53. Rise Again! – I am My Path!
54. Lessons from A Lion! – I am My Path!
55. A Message of Love! – I am My Path!
56. Trials and Tribulations in Healing! – I am My Path!
57. Third Eye in Healing! – I am My Path!
58. Happy New Year To All! – I am My Path!
59. My Life Up To Now ~ January 2018! – I am My Path!
60. We Each have Our Own Path! – I am My Path!

61. Rise Above The Storm! – I am My Path!
62. Chakra Healing! – I am My Path!
63. Chakra Healing ~ Muladhara! – I am My Path!
64. End The Stigma ~ Discrimination Stops with You! – I am My Path!
65. End The Stigma! – I am My Path!
66. Chakra Healing ~ Svadhisthana! – I am My Path!
67. Hobbies ~ Do What You Really Like To Do! – I am My Path!
68. Good Things Don’t Come Easy! – I am My Path!
69. When We Forget Our Blessings! – I am My Path!
70. A Note of Thanks! – I am My Path!

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71. The Power of Hand Writing! – I am My Path!
72. Growing Older ~ Young At Heart! – I am My Path!
73. I Am Praying For You! – I am My Path!
74. Chakra Healing ~ Manipura! – I am My Path!
75. Happy New Year ~ 2019! – I am My Path!
76. Perfection! – I am My Path!
77. To My Happiness Family! – I am My Path!
78. You are Stronger than You Think! – I am My Path!
79. Healing ~ Basic Steps! – I am My Path!
80. Freedom To Be You! – I am My Path!


81. Life’s Challenges! – I am My Path!
82. A New Chance To Start Over! – I am My Path!
83. Trust Your Journey! – I am My Path!
84. Chakra Balancing! – I am My Path!
85. Motivation! – I am My Path!
86. Chakra Healing ~Anahata! – I am My Path!
87 . Thank You Very Much! – I am My Path!
88. Guide To Your Chakras! – I am My Path!
89. As I Move On Again! – I am My Path!
90. Chakra Healing ~ Vishuddha! – I am My Path!



91. All About Energy ~ Vibration! – I am My Path!
92. Clearing of Negative Energy! – I am My Path!|
93. How Far I am My Path has Come! – I am My Path!
94. Celebrate Life! – I am My Path!
95. Taking The Therapists Voice Forward! – I am My Path!
96. Celebrating WordPress 4th Year Anniversary! – I am My Path!
97. Happy Birthday Tumbler Turned 2 Years! – I am My Path!
98. My Journey on Healing! – I am My Path!
99. Chakra Healing ~ Ajna! – I am My Path!
100. Chakra Healing ~ Sahasrara! – I am My Path!




101. Merry Christmas 2019 & Happy New Year 2020! – I am My Path!
102. Being Thankful! – I am My Path!
103 .Benefits Of Music ~ Part 1! – I am My Path!
104. Benefits of Music ~ Part 2! – I am My Path!
105. How To Make A Collage! – I am My Path!
106. Collage ~ New Year Resolutions! – I am My Path!
107. World Statistics For ~ I am My Path! – I am My Path!
108. Inspirations! – I am My Path!
109. I am Re-Writing My Journey Again! – I am My Path!
110. Counselling ~ 1! – I am My Path!


111.Counselling ~ 2! – I am My Path!
112. Counselling ~ 3! – I am My Path!
113. Birthday! – I am My Path!
114. Chapter 2 ~ How I Became an Author! – I am My Path!
115. How To Stay Home & Be Safe! – I am My Path!
116. Natural Health & Healing! – I am My Path!
117. Things That You Can Do At Home! – I am My Path!
118. Health Benefits of Dancing ~ 1! – I am My Path!
119. Health Benefits of Dancing ~ 2! – I am My Path!
120. Chapter 2 ~ How I Became an Author! – I am My Path!


121. How I am My Path was Born! – I am My Path!
122. Health Benefits of Reading ~ 1! – I am My Path!
123. Health Benefits of Reading ~ 2! – I am My Path!
124. Benefits of Being Positive! – I am My Path!
125. Thank You for The Likes! – I am My Path!
126. Happiness! – I am My Path!
127. Birds Birds Birds! – I am My Path!
128. As Time Goes By! – I am My Path!
129. Healthy Living! – I am My Path!
130. Save Mother Earth! – I am My Path!



131. Fifth Year Anniversary! – I am My Path!
132. Coincidences! – I am My Path!
133. The Gift of Healing ~ My Grandfather! – I am My Path!
134. Stats Are Booming ~1! – I am My Path!
135. Energy Healing! – I am My Path!
136. Deepavali ~ The Festival of Lights! – I am My Path!
137. Healthy Living ~ Exercises! – I am My Path!
138. Healthy Living ~ Relaxation! – I am My Path!
139. Collage For ~ 2021! – I am My Path!
140. Stats Are Booming ~2 & 3! – I am My Path!

141. Merry Christmas! – I am My Path!
142. Happy New Year 2021! – I am My Path!
143. Editing ~ Modifying The Posts! – I am My Path!
144. Revision In Pictures 1 ~ Books! – I am My Path!
145. Revision In Pictures 2 ~ Creativity! – I am My Path!
146. Revision In Pictures 3 ~ Writing! – I am My Path!
147. Revision In Pictures 4 ~ Music! – I am My Path!
148. Revision In Pictures 5 ~ Dancing! – I am My Path!
149. Revision In Pictures 6 ~ Painting! – I am My Path!
150. Revision In Pictures 7 ~ Nature! – I am My Path!


151. Revision In Pictures 8 ~ Be Well! – I am My Path!
152. Teaching ~ Enlightening! – I am My Path!

Latest Update: 20th of February 2021. I am well and “Will be starting to write The next lot of posts”. Thank You Very much for connecting with my Website, Liking, Following, Commenting and Reading and Encouraging Me also ❤


As the same way This List also is all free”. I hope All those who Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these Posts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so as, ”Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in Life ❤

Thanking for the pictures of flowers shared from the I net and Free Online Image Editor (online-image-editor.com) for the post written by me ❤

Sending Love, Light and Healing Energies Your Way ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa Nilamani 🙂

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Collage For ~ 2021!

Hello To All My Dear Readers ❤

I hope all of you are keeping well. I am keeping well too. While looking for new magazines in the shops, If I tell You that I came across a magazine, “With A Free Vision Board Kit” that I bought immediately because’ I have this “Lot of Readers that I have to keep on Writing” Now this is sometime back. But I kept it as I had done 2 posts already, I thought it is Good for Year 2021 🙂

Now, “This is The Board from “The Magazine” that You can see “To choose pictures and paste ~ how ever what ever You Like in each section”, and write what ever ideas or things that you “Like and Hope” to do in the coming Year 2021.

*** “Now I am publishing it as I am doing it. It will be “How I get ideas and also nice pictures. Not really sure of anything specific ( A topic I know) So that You also can go about doing Your Own Way” I will post another picture after I have finished it 🙂 ***

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Date 4th December 2020: The latest Update: This is “The 136th Post” and with the “Introductory Page it will be all in Total up to date, 137 Articles. On Top Right Hand side Top you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, You will see will see The word “Home” All the posts from “The Very Beginning comes ~ Under “Home”. Which is The Introductory Page: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

The old Topics are, “On The Left Hand side “Under the, “Recent Posts” with “The New Topics adding up. “The Balance will be Under “ARCHIVES”. Also “Under CATERGORIES” Because “It will be too long to post so many number of posts on the side. You can “Click and see all The older Topics” ❤

Also What I am doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Moving forward Telling My Own Journey in Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy, and it is in this post if you click on the Link: The Therapists Voice Forward!

I have been “Editing and updating” as it is always “Possible to Add new Information, as “Daily new things are discovered” and we are able to move on to “Higher Wave Lengths” improve our Lives to a Better standard of Life ❤

The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to other different posts of Mine, which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/

“It is all free” You can Take print outs, share and pass it on also for others who can benefit from this posts. I hope All those Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so as, ”Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in Life” ❤

Thanking The I net for the Picture Quotes and https://www.online-image-editor.com/ for the picture posts I have done ❤

Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies coming from me to You ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa Nilamani 🙂

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Health Benefits of Reading ~ 2!

Hello To All My Dear Readers ❤

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Hope all of You are Keeping in “Good Health” Continuing from last article Health Benefits of Reading ~ 1! I thought of posting some nice picture posts. See exactly suitable for this period, “Reading Gives us a place to go when we have to stay where we are” 🙂

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The More that You Read, The more Things You will know. The more that You learn, The more places You Go 🙂

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Let’s go on an adventure. I’ll get the books, You get the tea. We’ll put on our boots, and go somewhere to Read 🙂

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Open a book and You Advance Your mind!

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April 30th 2020:Up to date with “This article which is The 120th and The Introductory page: Who I am & Why I am Writing! I have Published 121 posts. All the posts from “The Beginning to the end is shown. Below the Home Page” I am in Good Health and as, “I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy Myself” since “Beginning of 2016”. Healing Energy can go to others where ever it is needed, Anywhere in “The World”. But one must have to receive with a Clear Mind and with Loving Kindness” ❤

What I am doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Moving forward Writing My Journey in Wellness. Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy. It is in this post if you click on the Link: The Therapists Voice Forward!

So right now these days, “I am Editing and Updating almost, “All The Posts” from The Very Beginning”. It is “A New Chapter and A New Beginning”. I am Still Upgrading Myself to A New Wave Length. A New Chapter in My Life and I Wish for You also ❤

There will still be The old Topics “On The Left Hand side, Under the ~ “Recent Posts” with “The New Topics adding up” and Under Archives and “Categories. Happy Reading ❤

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The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing” 🙂 you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/ ❤

“It is all free”. You can “Down load ~ Take print outs” “share and  pass it on also” for others who can benefit from this article and All the other posts ❤

Thanking The I net and https://www.online-image-editor.com/ for the posts I have written and done and The other websites for the posts I have shared ❤

Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies from me ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa 100Deepa Nilamani 🙂

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Counselling ~ 1!

Hello To All My Dear Readers ❤

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I have thought of sharing what I have received as Counselling  as well as what I have studied on My Journey of Becoming well ❤

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“These are “Very advanced articles” and I need to write the exact meanings and clarify. So read very carefully. Picture Quotes from “The I Net” BUT “What I am writing is NOT copying straight from The I net or other books. What I am writing is “Mostly My first hand Knowledge and Experiences, and  also, doing references. BUT “It has to agree with what I know and feel it is correct!

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Now I need to “Concentrate and I am writing carefully explaining and clarifying as much as possible”. As there will be new words that, “I also Look Up for the exact Spelling and Meanings”. “That You will also need to know, “As the Meaning or the Definition” from the I net or the Dictionaries. Both the two posts Above and Below give these: Points ❤

Role of A Counsellor:
1. Be available and supportive.
2. Actively listen to client’s story.
3. Do not blame the client (You)
4. Express Empathy (Kindness)
5. Generate Resources (Books, Picture card sets that help to understand)
6. Address unrealistic expectations of client from counsellor (if any) ~ if You are thinking of things that the counsellor cannot be.
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According to the picture above: Counselling is:
1. Confidential.
2. Listening: Having time to talk to someone who listens.
3. Understanding: Having Time to talk to some one who someone who listens.
4. Responsive: To individual needs ~ To know the persons personality and what she or he needs.
5. Non Judgmental: Not to Judge if that person is good or bad.
6. Changing: Counselling can help you work out what changes You can make and how.

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The Picture above also gives almost the same points, as I have written above!

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This is to explain what “The Counsellor Does” He or she has to meet you and be Helpful by: Listening to what the Client/You have to say. They have to, “Be Able to Be Kind, Understand and Trust” and to be So it has to be that “The Counsellor Matches Your Personality” They have to know usually of your culture To Understand Your way of Thinking and doing things in Life”!

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Role of A Counsellor:
1. Be available and supportive.
2. Actively listen to client’s story.
3. Do not blame the client (You)
4. Express Empathy (Kindness)
5. Generate Resources (Books, Picture card sets that help to understand)
6. Address unrealistic expectations of client from counsellor (if any) ~ if You are thinking of things that the counsellor cannot be.

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Paraphrasing involves taking a passage – either spoken or written – and rewording it. … When paraphrasing, it is important to keep the original meaning so that the facts remain intact. Basically, you are writing something in your own words that still expresses the original idea ~The I net!

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How to Reduce Stress:

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How to Avoid Stress?
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None of us work 24/7 and there is always some free time to relax. Also relaxing does not need a lot of money either. Of course if one has extra money to spend, there are many expensive ways to relax also. But actually you do not need to spend like that. As relaxing is becoming one with mother nature. The closer you become to mother earth, by ways of food, clothes and living the closer you become to a stress free life. It is difficult to lead a complete stress free life in this present times. But there are plenty of simple ways to relax like the post above, and below, to reduce our stress levels and enjoy a balanced and healthy life 🙂

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Although it is said “How Music benefits kids” It is not only for them it is also for adults of All ages.

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These are Some of “The Benefits of Counselling” ❤

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I hope what I have posted and written has helped You to know what Counselling is and You will feel much better and also know exactly know how it helps and how to go about, “For Professional Counselling Yourself if needed”!

So I am Editing and Updating almost all my posts naturally as, Daily New Discoveries are made and Latest Information is available. Upgrading Myself to A New Wave Length ~ A New Chapter in My Life and I Wish so for You also ❤

Latest Update 6th March 2020:Up to date with the Birthday article 111th and The Introductory page I have Published 112 posts. On “The Top Right Hand side” you are able to see: The word  Menu 1a Menu when you” Click on it, You will see will see The word X Menu again. Under that You can see, “Home” You click on that again and it is the: Introductory page on: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

There will still be the old Topics “On the Left Hand side Under The Recent posts with the new posts adding up. Also “Under Archives and Categories” Happy Reading ❤

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What I am doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Moving forward Telling About My Own Journey of Wellness”. Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy. And if You click on this Link in Green You can read this Post: Taking The Therapists Voice Forward!

The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing” 🙂 you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/

“It is all free”. You can “Down load ~ Take print outs” “share and pass it on also” for others who can benefit from this article and All the other posts ❤

“A Very Special Thank You To I net and All The Other sites and Free Online Image Editor (online-image-editor.com) from Me and My Readers” for the Pictures and the Quotes shared and done by me on this Blog ❤ ❤ ❤

Sending Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies To You ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa 100Deepa Nilamani 🙂

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I am Re-Writing My Journey Again!

Hello To All My Dear Readers ❤

I Hope The New Year is going well with You. Now that I have completely “Recovered and back to My Strong Healthy self” and also as, “I have Received The Gift of Healing” My out look has “Changed Very Much” so many Questions I had, I have found answers, and still Discovering so many new facts about Life. The result is, that I have to, “Edit what I have been writing from the Very Beginning” As those who are familiar how I began this site in September 2015, are able to know, “How much I have Changed how I look at Life in A much More Positive Ways” I want to see More Positive and Colourful pictures. I have the need to change and edit what I have written in the past” and “Re-Doing so many of the posts with More Colourful Picture Posts”. So if you suddenly find some of the old picture quotes missing, They have Not run any where ❤ ~ I am in the process of “Editing and Redoing them again 😀

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Actually there is not much new facts to write in this post, it is to inform that I have the need to, “Edit the posts and write with, Better Knowledge and Experiences”. Also I will be writing More about becoming Healthy from what I have learnt from my own Counselling and from what I have been Studying and Reading. I have to Remind that, “It is not professional Counselling. It is All the Experiences and Knowledge gained from My Journey of  How I became Well” ❤

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Latest Update 6th March 2020:Up to date with the Birthday article 111th and I have Published 112 posts. On “The Top Right Hand side” you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, You will see will see The word “Home” Which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing !

This is My Birthday and, as I have written at The Beginning, I am Editing to further Develop and Enhance My Knowledge and Advance Myself. By doing so I can have a better understanding of the world around me and improve the, “Quality of My Life” and I can Motivate You The Readers too, “To Develop Yourselves and Gain Confidence and Self Esteem to have Better Opportunities and Improve Your Quality of Life too, and I Wish so for You also with All My Heart. Please click this Link which will take You to My Birthday Post Birthday! ❤

There will still be The old Topics “On The Left Hand side ~ Under the ~ “Recent Posts” with “The New Topics adding up”. Also “Under Archives and Categories” Happy Reading ❤

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What I am doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Moving forward Telling About My Own Journey of Wellness”. Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy. And if You click on this Link in Green You can read this Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing” 🙂 you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/

“It is all free”. You can “Down load ~ Take print outs” and share and or pass it on also” for others who can benefit from this article and All the other posts ❤

Thanking https://picresize.com/en/results, and https://www.online-image-editor.com/   For The Posts Done by me ❤

Sending Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies To You ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa 12Deepa Nilamani 🙂

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Collage ~ New Year Resolutions!

Hello To All My Dear Readers ❤

I have been writing and posting until it is late in the night. You can see the picture posts until then. Its almost 3 AM in the morning and I need to sleep 🙂
I am writing again after a rest. Below is a picture of “New Year Resolutions” as what some make plans when “A New Year Begins” and to do to improve their Lives ❤

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I have started from “Be Happy” and below is “A Happiness Collage” The person who has done this is a girl or a lady, “Who loves the colour Pink and see how she has used all very pretty pictures of different things in Pink. Obviously she has to be, “Very Neat” also as it is all done methodically and Beautifully. It says, “Happiness is when what You Think, What You Say, and What You do are in Harmony” 🙂

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The next Topic shown, “Eat Healthy”: I got a collage mainly about eggs. It says, “For a few decades, eggs had a rather unwholesome reputation. Thanks to its high cholesterol content, the egg was considered bad for one’s health. Years went by while many shunned eggs, ate only the whites, or ventured into the world of egg substitutes. Then, in 2000, the American Heart Association (AHA) revised its dietary guidelines and gave healthy adults the green light to enjoy eggs once again!
This is a “Very Good site for Everything about Healthy Living and also about all other Health issues. There are videos too to watch for ordinary issues going on to “Very Advanced Knowledge on Medical Facts” If You have The I net, it is Free Reading and Free Watching also to do reference work. https://blogs.webmd.com/food-fitness/default.htm!

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Different kinds of short eats sweet and savoury made out of flour and Bread Dough 😀 This is a list of pastries, which are small buns made using a stiff dough enriched with fat. Some dishes, such as pies, are made of a pastry casing that covers or completely contains a filling of various sweet or savory ingredients.
There are five basic types of pastry (a food that combines flour and fat); these are shortcrust pastryfilo pastrychoux pastryflaky pastry and puff pastry. Two main types of pastry are non-laminated, when fat is cut or rubbed into the flour, and laminated, when fat is repeatedly folded into the dough using a technique called lamination. An example of a non-laminated pastry would be a pie or tart crust and brioche. An example of a laminated pastry would be a croissantdanish, or puff pastry. Many pastries are prepared using shortening, a fat food product that is solid at room temperature, the composition of which lends to creating crumbly, shortcrust-style pastries and pastry crusts. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_pastries!

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As you see this is A Collage about Travelling. Somehow surprisingly. I have come across a Collage, from My Birth Country: Sri Lanka. Travelling to other countries is quite expensive, “So Travel can be in various ways by, “Hiking, Mountain climbing, walking and so on. And also by different kinds of Transport, “One’s own, Planes, Ships, Boats or by Public Transport in, Trains and Buses. Or hired vehicles like, Coaches, Vans or cars and some even travel by motor cycles”. It can be within around one’s own country to places close to where you live or once in a way for a short day trip or for a few days away from the everyday scenes helps to relax freshens your mind, and helps to learn new things and bring new ideas to your mind 🙂

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Recreation. Here making collages by group of people, see different ones done in different ways. It can be fun and also to learn new ways, when doing with other people by getting different ideas and relaxing by talking and sharing their food and drinks also 🙂

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Cinema 😀 This comes under, “Entertainment” where you can even find old, “Tickets” paper cuttings, Pop corn, drinks and ice cream pictures. And also of film stars, names of films, and so much of every thing to do of films, or any other means of plays and even dances or circuses and what ever that goes on with entertainment 🙂

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Education: On Passing that test means studying. There are so many ways to study. It can be studying and studying with others as a Group. This all depends again as each individual preferences. I have got these pictures as Group Studying!

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You need to Save money to do all these things in life. Finding a job according to one’s Qualifications is not always easy. Getting a matching salary is more difficult. The most difficult and sometimes almost impossible task is to “Save Money” One has to take a real effort and go out of the way in being careful, if you want to save for that rainy day day and for the future. Here you can see how people save in their own individual way 🙂

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So now I have shared some boards, and shown some pictures, for you all to see what each one can do, “According to Your own Interests, Hobbies, Studies, or a Job You Like and Hope to do or Be” ❤

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Latest Update 6th March 2020:Up to date with the Birthday article 111th and The Introductory page. I have Published 112 posts. On “The Top Right Hand side” you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, You will see will see The word “Home” Which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!.

“I will be Editing and Updating from time to Time as Daily New Discoveries are done and I like to go to New Wave Length and Upgrade Myself as well as You The Readers. This is My Birthday and, “A New Chapter and A New Beginning”. I Wish so for You also. Please click this Link which will take You to The Birthday Post Birthday

There will be “The old Topics on The Left Hand side “Under ~ Recent Posts with “The new Topics adding up. Also “Under Archives and Categories” Happy Reading ❤

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And what I have been doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Moving forward Telling My Own Story in Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy. And if You click on this Link in Green You can read this Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation also”. I also have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing” 🙂 you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/

“It is all free”. You can “Down load ~ Take print outs” And “share and or pass it on also” for others who can benefit from this article and All the other posts ❤

Thanking the I net, Free Online Image Editor (online-image-editor.com) and other sites, for the posts and pictures I have taken ❤

Sending Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies To You ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa 100Deepa Nilamani 🙂

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How To Make A Collage!

Hello To All My Dear Readers ❤

Hope all of you are doing well in the “New Year” Suddenly I remembered something that I have done in the past and also after I started this Blog. It is called, “A collage” It is something anyone can do, according to, “What You Like to do, Hope to be, or Do in the Future ~ You can do for yourself or even do for someone else like Your children”. All depends on, “How You Feel at that time” and while doing or after doing it might be something, that “You never thought how it would have ended also” 🙂

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This is my board and see how I started. I wanted to write a book but “No it was Not a novel, also not to win a prize, But to write what I am writing on this website”. Only “This was the picture I could get from a magazine”, so I just pasted that, you can paste other things also to cover that part. At that time I didn’t think of being, “An Author or a Independent Publisher but just writing My Journey here. But see now what I have become 🙂

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So now I have done up some boards, and show some pictures too, for you all to see what each one can do, “According to Your own Interests, Hobbies, Studies, or a Job You Like and Hope to do or Be” ❤

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These are meanings from Two sites from the I net:
Collage: a technique of composing a work of art by pasting on a single surface various materials not normally associated with one another, as newspaper clippings, parts of photographs, theater tickets, and fragments of an envelope. https://www.dictionary.com/browse/collage

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Collage (/kəˈlɑːʒ/, from the Frenchcoller, “to glue” or “to stick together”;[1]) is a technique of art creation, primarily used in the visual arts, but in music too, by which art results from an assemblage of different forms, thus creating a new whole. (Compare with pastiche, which is a “pasting” together.)
A collage may sometimes include magazine and newspaper clippingsribbonspaint, bits of colored or handmade papers, portions of other artwork or texts, photographs and other found objects, glued to a piece of paper or canvas. The origins of collage can be traced back hundreds of years, but this technique made a dramatic reappearance in the early 20th century as an art form of novelty. The term collage was coined by both Georges Braque and Pablo Picasso in the beginning of the 20th century when collage became a distinctive part of modern art. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Collage

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Here I have taken some of these pages: They have done in a way that the Readers can take them off and use them in a creative way. Some of them can be put in a frame as you see or even cut them in to smaller ones or in different shapes and use them how we like. Below you can see I have kept them with the pins to make different collages, either on the same board or on different boards. You can use any hard surface, even like card board, or any other suitable things you can find around the house. There is no need to buy itself as these all are, “Creative work” to use your imagination and creativity and put your mind in to active state ❤

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You need to know what topic you want, and no need to look for magazines itself. It can be from old picture pose cards, news papers, also can take photographs, cloth, feathers, dried leaves, dry flowers, the more you do the more your mind will go onto many different things 🙂

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There is no need to have a set topic also, if you cannot think of any topic, Just put some pictures, or encouraging quotes written or drawn by you and you can even colour them or see Below “You Are Allowed To Do Things Differently 😀

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Name it “You can do so many things on the same board or in different boards. they are also called “Vision Boards” also by some people!

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Now go make some of your own ones. I will do another posts on Collages again in another post!

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Try to do what ever you can. What if it turns much Better than You could have Ever Imagined? Till then Lots of Love and Hugs from me ❤

Latest Update 6th March 2020:Up to date with the Birthday article 111th, I have Published 112 posts. On “The Top Right Hand side” you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, You will see will see The word “Home” All the 111 posts from “The Beginning to the end is shown, Under “Home” Which is The Introductory Page: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

I am Editing and Updating All The Posts from The Very Beginning” as almost Daily New facts are found out and New information is available. This is My Birthday and, I am Moving on. So we all can learn New Things and Upgrade ourselves. Please click this Link which will take You to The Birthday Post Birthday

There will be “The old Topics on The Left Hand side “Under ~ Recent Posts with “The new Topics adding up. Also “Under Archives and Categories” Happy Reading ❤

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What I am doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Moving forward Telling My Own Journey in Wellness” Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy. And if You click on this Link in Green You can read this Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation also”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing” 🙂 you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/

“It is all free”. You can “Down load ~ Take print outs and also share and or pass it on” for others who can benefit from this article and All the other posts ❤

Thanking the I net, and other sites, for the posts and pictures I have taken and  Free Online Image Editor (online-image-editor.com) for the Picture Quotes I have done ❤

Sending Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies To You ❤

Deepa 100Deepa Nilamani 🙂

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Being Thankful!

Hello To All My Dear Readers ❤

How are you all. I Hope You all who celebrated Christmas had a Good Time. I have been writing since “September 2015” and and covered so many Topics, and This being “The 100th Post! also ending of the Year I feel it is good to Think of “Being Thankful” for “All the Good and Positive Things That has happened and what We have in our lives now ❤

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So here I am now writing about the Value of “Being Thankful” I know that it is not always possible sometimes, when we are having a not so good times, But somehow we have to Try and “Be Strong as Possible” as I have found out, this Helps to Draw in Positive feelings and can Influence The Mind to Think, and see the issues, in a Different Ways and Change things the Better” ❤

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Although at the times we are going through difficulties we do not realize, Later looking back “We will find that at these times we have found Strength and Courage which we didn’t know we had, and we have become Stronger in ways we never thought us to be ❤

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See The Picture Quotes below. There are so many many things we can do. We cannot do everything, But what are the Things that, “You like to do? Already doing, and Like to do in the coming years or in the Future. Right now may be some of you may be very busy with a growing family, studying or doing a very busy job. In my case I started to get back to my old hobbies after my two sons became adults as when children are young, one is also busy seeing to their needs. As I have written also that, I started catching up with my Old Hobbies as well as doing New Things only recently, in my other site: deepanilamani.com. See what lot of Variety of thing one is able to do, and we do not need to spend a lot of money always, so many things to do in ways we are able to 🙂

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When we are aware and “Thankful for The Goodness and Good Things that come our way” Our Minds can Shift to the Track of being Positive, “I have noticed ~ without our knowledge also” This does happen. “Things do Change ~ They do not stay the same everyday”. If you have read about My Journey ~ see how much has Changed and somehow I took so much Effort to “Turn My Life around”, to “Become Positive and Receive “The Gift of Healing” 🙂

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It is in accordance with an, “Ancient Spiritual Law ~ That When We Acknowledge the Good Things, That We already have in Our Lives ~ Being Thankful ~ Things Begin to Work in Our Favor”. It is “The Foundation for All The Good Things or Abundance” That come our way or Happen in Our Lives ❤ ❤ ❤

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I hope You learnt some new things, from what I have written. We can learn so much every day even little by little, and Change ourselves and our Lives for the Better. It does Happen. Only we need to work towards it with lot of Hope, Faith and Patience. I wish You “The Very Best in The coming Year with “All My Heart” ❤

Latest Update 6th March 2020: Up to date with the Birthday article 111th and The Introductory page I have published 112 posts: All The 111 posts from, The Beginning to the end is shown, Under the Home Page”. Who I am & Why I am Writing!

And what I have been doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Moving forward Telling My Own Journey in Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy. If You click on this Link in Green You can read this Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

I will be editing and updating as Everyday New things are being discovered. And I like to keep up with “The new Discoveries and Technology”  Upgrading Myself to A New Wave Length. Please click this Link which will take You to The Birthday Post Birthday!

Also There will still be The older Topics “On The Left Hand side, Under the “Recent Posts” with “The New Topics adding up. And also “Under Archives and Categories”. Happy Reading ❤

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The coloured Topics in Green. If you “Click” on them “Will take you to other different Posts that I write, “Where You can read and widen Your knowledge and even Learn the Meanings of new words and Pronunciation also”. I have another Website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing to” 😛 during my spare time if you click on this link: https://deepanilamani.com/ ❤

“It is all free”. You can “Down load. Take print outs” Share and or pass it on also” for others who can benefit from this article and the posts. Any questions or comments are most welcome. I hope All those Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so.” Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in Life” ❤ ❤ ❤

Thanking The I net and Other Web Sites for the picture quotes I have shared and https://www.online-image-editor.com/ for the written Quotes by me ❤

Sending Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies Your Way ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa 100Deepa Nilamani 🙂

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