A Calm Corner ~ 2025!

To All My Dear Readers Followers and Blogging Friends ❤

Hope You are keeping well. Today I am going to write about a Calm Corner. A Calm Corner is a small space in your home. It can be anywhere in your Home. even in your Bedroom. It needs to be where you can go any time when you want to be completely Rest and Relax 🙂

Take a little time to think exactly what you need. Can be an old comfortable chair Even a soft old Blanket. some cushions or pillows will be good on the floor. Whatever you will be warm and comfortable even to fall asleep. See what things you have and like This not a expensive Blanket or throw ❤

I have found so many new and good and clean things in Antique sales and exhibitions that goes cheap as all are not interested in old stuff. Some cushions or pillows will be good on the floor. Whatever you will be warm and comfortable even to fall asleep 🙂

Exclude Digital devices/ The main idea is to get a complete rest to your mind. Watching TV checking E Mails is not something relaxing. Maybe some Relaxing Music some sort but that is all to make it more relaxing.

Ideas for calm corner:
1.Plant
2. Candle
3. Notebook
4. Pens or Pencils
5. A Hobby you like
6. A puzzle or Jigsaw
7. A photo of Your Loved ones
8. Natural or Nice artificial flowers
9. Even a good box to hold your coffee or drink
10. Some nice smelling incense or oil essential oil diffuser

See below A Plant Candle and a Photo frame to begin with 🙂

Latest Update: 13th May 2025. The website continues for the New and old Readers, Followers and Blogging Friends. Hope what I have written is useful that helps you to feel more Positive and Happier This is “The 266th Post” and with the “Introductory Page this will be all in Total up to date, 267 posts. On Top Right-Hand side, you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it. You will see the word “Home” All the posts from “The Very Beginning comes ~ Under “Home”. Which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

The new Topics “On the Left-Hand side “Under the Recent Posts, with “The latest Topics adding up” Happy Reading ❤

The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other posts which you will be able to find more information”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing” 🙂 you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/

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As always, it is all free”. You can share and pass it on also for others who can benefit from this post. I hope All those who Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so as,” Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in Life ❤

This site has been doing good, and I am so Happy. I have been getting, 🎉 Congrats! I am My Path is getting noticed. By 372 many other websites Thanking the I net for the Picture Quotes I have shared 🙂

Sending Love, Light and Healing Energies to All ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa Nilamani ❤

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Hostlands & Wishing Star~2025!

Hello To, All My Readers. Followers and Blogging Friends ❤

Hope all of you are keeping well. Latest is Hostlands and Wishing Star Join together. Well Christmas then New Year and now its Valentines Day. In addition to Valentines Day, it is also”” The Birth of the company called Hostlands” Which was Born on same day as Valentine’s Day The 14th of February 1987 in Brisbane Australia. Well, it is 38 years now and Lot of Hard work as well as Assets from both of my parents coming down the generations. Why I have shown like this it is like a collection of lot of different ways of work assets and Savings making one bigger River “for many to Benefit also who are in need as I have Dedicated myself for Pure Service. 🙂

I thought it is time both come together as I will be managing and easy to work under one roof To work, make use Wisely and Carefully, to share and help others also to Relax and enjoy as well to have good Health and Peacefulness How time has flown. It has not been a smooth Path. Thers has been some Ups and downs too. But we have worked hard with Dedication and doing well ❤

Latest Update: 12th May 2025. The website continues for the New and old Readers, Followers and Blogging Friends. Hope what I have written is useful that helps you to feel more Positive and Happier This is “The 266th Post” and with the “Introductory Page this will be all in Total up to date, 267 posts. On Top Right-Hand side, you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it. You will see the word “Home” All the posts from “The Very Beginning comes ~ Under “Home”. Which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

The new Topics “On the Left-Hand side “Under the Recent Posts, with “The latest Topics adding up” Happy Reading ❤

The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other posts which you will be able to find more information”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing” 🙂 you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/.

As always, it is all free”. You can share and pass it on also for others who can benefit from this post. I hope All those who Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so as,” Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in Life ❤

This site has been doing good, and I am so Happy. I have been getting, 🎉 Congrats! I am My Path is getting noticed. By 370 many other websites Thanking the I net for the Picture Quotes I have shared 🙂

Sending Love, Light and Healing Energies to All ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa Nilamani ❤

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Pleasures of Learning ~ 2025!

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In the new year I am going to expand on what I wrote on “” New Year Resolutions” as I have written so many topics, I want to write different posts, but they will have some of the older knowledge also.

Learning is a “”Natural Pleasure inborn and instinctive one of the essential pleasures of human race”” Learning means keeping the mind open and active to receive all kinds of experiences. There are different ways to leanr, In this modern time there is the old methods of through books and also through the Internet. See the chart below.

So much can be learnt during classroom as well as outside in Libraries and Papers and books. As for reading books this contains many new dimensions. A new Author who will have a new vision of the world. Now see me what a different world it is to be writing on computers and compared to school age and also my Grandparents and my parents it is the old information as well as new changes and instead of writing by hand and typewriters now at the present in the 20th century, through computers and laptops completely new ways 🙂

Learning extends our lives into new dimensions. instead of diminishing in time it returns go on on increasing throughout your life.

Learning means Learning to practice and appreciate a new art, which opens a new door not only to the whole world but a doorway to the Universe!

No learner has ever run short of subjects to explore. See the post below there is Traing and going on to new subjects as well as advanced Knowledge. The pleasures of learning are indeed pleasures. The true meaning is Happiness. The happiness of learning 🙂

Latest Update: 11th January 2025. The website continues for the New and old Readers and Followers. Hope what I have written is useful that helps you to feel more Positive and Happier This is “The 263 Post” and with the “Introductory Page this will be all in Total up to date, 264 posts. On Top Right-Hand side, you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it. You will see the word “Home” All the posts from “The Very Beginning comes ~ Under “Home”. Which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

The new Topics “On the Left-Hand side “Under the Recent Posts, with “The latest Topics adding up” Happy Reading ❤

The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other posts which you will be able to find more information”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing” 🙂 you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/ ❤

As always, it is all free”. You can share and pass it on also for others who can benefit from this post. I hope All those who Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so as,” Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in Life 

This site has been doing good, and I am so Happy. I have been getting, 🎉 Congrats! I am My Path is getting noticed. By 370 many other websites 🙂

Many Blessings for Good Health, Happiness and Prosperity!

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa Nilamani 🙂

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Happiness!

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I started this blog in September 2015, mainly to spread the messages on Good Health. My main intention was to make You the reader feel “More Positive” and to have that “Faith and Hope” so that you can reach up and make ‘Yourselves Better and Happier”. I kept My Faith and succeeded in My Life. The Beautiful thing is” I have achieved what I wanted through Faith. And then next post was “Joy “Love” and now Happiness 🙂

happiness, in psychology, a state of emotional well-being that a person experiences either in a narrow sense, when good things happen in a specific moment, or more broadly, as a positive evaluation of one’s life and accomplishments overall—that is, subjective well-being. Happiness can be distinguished from other positive emotions (such as affection, excitement, and interest). This emotion often co-occurs with a specific facial expression: the smile.

Signs of Happiness

While perceptions of happiness may be different from one person to the next, there are some key signs that psychologists look for when measuring and assessing happiness.

Some key signs of happiness include:

  • Feeling like you are living the life you wanted
  • Going with the flow and a willingness to take life as it comes
  • Feeling that the conditions of your life are good
  • Enjoying positive, healthy relationships with other people
  • Feeling that you have accomplished (or will accomplish) what you want in life
  • Feeling satisfied with your life
  • Feeling positive more than negative
  • Being open to new ideas and experiences
  • Practicing self-care and treating yourself with kindness and compassion
  • Experiencing gratitude
  • Feeling that you are living life with a sense of meaning and purpose
  • Wanting to share your happiness and joy with others

People from around the world tend to have a similar concept of happiness and can recognize happiness in others. As a result, the specific emotion of happiness is often included as one of a small number of basic emotions that cannot be broken down into more fundamental emotions and that may combine to form other, more complex emotions (in fact, it is sometimes the only positive emotion that is considered to be basic). Thus, happiness is an important concept for researchers who study emotions. When happy people are asked to think back on the conditions and events in their lives, they tend to evaluate these conditions and events positively. Thus, happy people report being satisfied with their lives and the various domains in their lives.

Happiness word cloud collage, heart concept background

Psychologists are interested in happiness for two reasons. First, psychologists study happiness because laypeople are interested in happiness. When people from around the world are asked to list the things that are most important to them, happiness consistently tops the list. People rank attaining happiness as being more important than acquiring money, maintaining good health. Psychologists believe that they can help people achieve this goal of being happy by studying the factors that are associated with happiness.

A second reason why psychologists study happiness is because a person’s evaluative responses to the world may provide information about the basic characteristics of human nature. One of the most basic principles guiding psychological theory is that people and animals are motivated to approach things in the world that cause pleasure and to avoid things in the world that cause pain. Presumably, this behavior results from adaptive mechanisms that guide organisms toward resources and away from dangers. If so, the evaluative reactions of many people about the world should be useful and revealing. For instance, some psychologists have suggested that human beings have a basic need to experience strong and supportive social relationships. They point to evidence from the field of subjective well-being to support their claim—a person’s social relationships are reliably linked to his or her happiness. Thus, cataloging the correlates of happiness should provide important information about the features of human nature.

happiness is an overall sense of experiencing more positive emotions than negative ones.

Happy people still feel the whole range of human emotions they have an underlying sense of optimism that things will get better, that they can deal with what is happening, and that they will be able to feel happy again.How to Cultivate Happiness

While some people just tend to be naturally happier, there are things that you can do to cultivate your sense of happiness. 

Pursue Intrinsic Goals 

Achieving goals that you are intrinsically motivated to pursue, particularly ones that are focused on personal growth and community, can help boost happiness. Research suggests that pursuing these types of intrinsically-motivated goals can increase happiness more than pursuing extrinsic goals like gaining money or status.4

Enjoy the Moment

Studies have found that people tend to over earn—they become so focused on accumulating things that they lose track of actually enjoying what they are doing. So, rather than falling into the trap of mindlessly accumulating to the detriment of your own happiness, focus on practicing gratitude for the things you have and enjoying the process as you go. 

Reframe Negative Thoughts

When you find yourself stuck in a pessimistic outlook or experiencing negativity, look for ways that you can reframe your thoughts in a more positive way. Reframing these negative perceptions isn’t about ignoring the bad. Instead, it means trying to take a more balanced, realistic look at events. It allows you to notice patterns in your thinking and then challenge negative thoughts.

Psychologists have also shown that goals and aspirations influence happiness. Not surprisingly, people who are rapidly approaching a goal tend to experience higher levels of happiness than people who are approaching a goal more slowly. But research also shows that simply having important goals is associated with greater happiness. Presumably, the sense of purpose that these goals create may protect people from the negative effects of temporary setbacks. Interestingly, the specific goals that people choose may also affect their happiness. Research suggests that choosing goals that are a challenge but not unachievable is important.

Although people tend to think about happiness as an outcome that they desire rather than as a tool that can be used to achieve additional goals, psychologists have begun to ask what function happiness serves. One of the best known theories, developed by American psychologist Barbara Fredrickson in 1998, posits that the function of happiness (or more precisely, the function of positive emotions) is to broaden one’s thinking and to build one’s resources. According to this theory, positive emotions lead people to think creatively and to try new things. As a result, happy people can develop new ways to approach the world, new interests, new social relationships, and even new physical skills. All of these effects lead to positive outcomes in people’s lives.

Latest Update: 11th November 2024. The website continues for the New Reader and Followers. Hope what I have written is useful that helps you to feel more Positive and Happier This is “The 256th Post” and with the “Introductory Page this will be all in Total up to date, 257 posts. On Top Right-Hand side, you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it. You will see the word “Home” All the posts from “The Very Beginning comes ~ Under “Home”. Which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

The older Topics “On the Left-Hand side “Under The Recent Posts, Archives and Categories” with “The New Topics adding up” Happy Reading ❤

What I am doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Writing of My Journey in Good Health and Wellness in Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy in this Post, and if You click on this Link in Green, you can read this Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other posts which you will be able to find more information”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing” 🙂 you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/ ❤

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Thank You All again and Lots of Love, Light and Healing Energies from me ❤ ❤ ❤

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May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

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