Happiness!

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I started this blog in September 2015, mainly to spread the messages on Good Health. My main intention was to make You the reader feel “More Positive” and to have that “Faith and Hope” so that you can reach up and make ‘Yourselves Better and Happier”. I kept My Faith and succeeded in My Life. The Beautiful thing is” I have achieved what I wanted through Faith. And then next post was “Joy “Love” and now Happiness 🙂

happiness, in psychology, a state of emotional well-being that a person experiences either in a narrow sense, when good things happen in a specific moment, or more broadly, as a positive evaluation of one’s life and accomplishments overall—that is, subjective well-being. Happiness can be distinguished from other positive emotions (such as affection, excitement, and interest). This emotion often co-occurs with a specific facial expression: the smile.

Signs of Happiness

While perceptions of happiness may be different from one person to the next, there are some key signs that psychologists look for when measuring and assessing happiness.

Some key signs of happiness include:

  • Feeling like you are living the life you wanted
  • Going with the flow and a willingness to take life as it comes
  • Feeling that the conditions of your life are good
  • Enjoying positive, healthy relationships with other people
  • Feeling that you have accomplished (or will accomplish) what you want in life
  • Feeling satisfied with your life
  • Feeling positive more than negative
  • Being open to new ideas and experiences
  • Practicing self-care and treating yourself with kindness and compassion
  • Experiencing gratitude
  • Feeling that you are living life with a sense of meaning and purpose
  • Wanting to share your happiness and joy with others

People from around the world tend to have a similar concept of happiness and can recognize happiness in others. As a result, the specific emotion of happiness is often included as one of a small number of basic emotions that cannot be broken down into more fundamental emotions and that may combine to form other, more complex emotions (in fact, it is sometimes the only positive emotion that is considered to be basic). Thus, happiness is an important concept for researchers who study emotions. When happy people are asked to think back on the conditions and events in their lives, they tend to evaluate these conditions and events positively. Thus, happy people report being satisfied with their lives and the various domains in their lives.

Happiness word cloud collage, heart concept background

Psychologists are interested in happiness for two reasons. First, psychologists study happiness because laypeople are interested in happiness. When people from around the world are asked to list the things that are most important to them, happiness consistently tops the list. People rank attaining happiness as being more important than acquiring money, maintaining good health. Psychologists believe that they can help people achieve this goal of being happy by studying the factors that are associated with happiness.

A second reason why psychologists study happiness is because a person’s evaluative responses to the world may provide information about the basic characteristics of human nature. One of the most basic principles guiding psychological theory is that people and animals are motivated to approach things in the world that cause pleasure and to avoid things in the world that cause pain. Presumably, this behavior results from adaptive mechanisms that guide organisms toward resources and away from dangers. If so, the evaluative reactions of many people about the world should be useful and revealing. For instance, some psychologists have suggested that human beings have a basic need to experience strong and supportive social relationships. They point to evidence from the field of subjective well-being to support their claim—a person’s social relationships are reliably linked to his or her happiness. Thus, cataloging the correlates of happiness should provide important information about the features of human nature.

happiness is an overall sense of experiencing more positive emotions than negative ones.

Happy people still feel the whole range of human emotions they have an underlying sense of optimism that things will get better, that they can deal with what is happening, and that they will be able to feel happy again.How to Cultivate Happiness

While some people just tend to be naturally happier, there are things that you can do to cultivate your sense of happiness. 

Pursue Intrinsic Goals 

Achieving goals that you are intrinsically motivated to pursue, particularly ones that are focused on personal growth and community, can help boost happiness. Research suggests that pursuing these types of intrinsically-motivated goals can increase happiness more than pursuing extrinsic goals like gaining money or status.4

Enjoy the Moment

Studies have found that people tend to over earn—they become so focused on accumulating things that they lose track of actually enjoying what they are doing. So, rather than falling into the trap of mindlessly accumulating to the detriment of your own happiness, focus on practicing gratitude for the things you have and enjoying the process as you go. 

Reframe Negative Thoughts

When you find yourself stuck in a pessimistic outlook or experiencing negativity, look for ways that you can reframe your thoughts in a more positive way. Reframing these negative perceptions isn’t about ignoring the bad. Instead, it means trying to take a more balanced, realistic look at events. It allows you to notice patterns in your thinking and then challenge negative thoughts.

Psychologists have also shown that goals and aspirations influence happiness. Not surprisingly, people who are rapidly approaching a goal tend to experience higher levels of happiness than people who are approaching a goal more slowly. But research also shows that simply having important goals is associated with greater happiness. Presumably, the sense of purpose that these goals create may protect people from the negative effects of temporary setbacks. Interestingly, the specific goals that people choose may also affect their happiness. Research suggests that choosing goals that are a challenge but not unachievable is important.

Although people tend to think about happiness as an outcome that they desire rather than as a tool that can be used to achieve additional goals, psychologists have begun to ask what function happiness serves. One of the best known theories, developed by American psychologist Barbara Fredrickson in 1998, posits that the function of happiness (or more precisely, the function of positive emotions) is to broaden one’s thinking and to build one’s resources. According to this theory, positive emotions lead people to think creatively and to try new things. As a result, happy people can develop new ways to approach the world, new interests, new social relationships, and even new physical skills. All of these effects lead to positive outcomes in people’s lives.

Latest Update: 11th November 2024. The website continues for the New Reader and Followers. Hope what I have written is useful that helps you to feel more Positive and Happier This is “The 256th Post” and with the “Introductory Page this will be all in Total up to date, 257 posts. On Top Right-Hand side, you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it. You will see the word “Home” All the posts from “The Very Beginning comes ~ Under “Home”. Which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

The older Topics “On the Left-Hand side “Under The Recent Posts, Archives and Categories” with “The New Topics adding up” Happy Reading ❤

What I am doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Writing of My Journey in Good Health and Wellness in Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy in this Post, and if You click on this Link in Green, you can read this Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other posts which you will be able to find more information”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing” 🙂 you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/ ❤

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Thank You All again and Lots of Love, Light and Healing Energies from me ❤ ❤ ❤

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May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa 1Deepa Nilamani 🙂

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Hope!

Hello to, All My Dear Readers, Followers and My Blogging Friends ❤

Hope You are all keeping in Good Health. As I said the next post will be on Hope and here it is. Hope is an optimistic state of mind that is based on an expectation of positive outcomes with respect to events and circumstances in one’s life or the world at large. As a verb, its definitions include: “expect with confidence” and “to cherish a desire with anticipation. 🙂

In psychology

Hope comes into its own when crisis looms, opening us to new creative possibilities, that with great need comes an unusually wide range of ideas, as well as such positive emotions as happiness and joy, courage, and empowerment, drawn from four different areas of oneself: from a cognitive, psychological, social, or physical perspective. Such positive thinking bears fruit when based on a realistic sense of optimism, not on a naive “false hope”. In psychology linked hope to the existence of a goal, combined with a determined plan for reaching that goal. and for the centrality of goal-seeking in human psychology,

This is about Hope link between hope and mental willpower as well as the need for realistic perception of goals (problem orientation), arguing that the difference between hope and optimism was that the former can look like wishful thinking, but the latter provides the energy to find practical pathways for an improved future. meaning an unspoken desire for a positive outcome for those who are in control in the wider society.

Hope and wishing. Those that are hopeful are actively trying to investigate the best path of action while taking into consideration the obstacles. Research has shown though that many of those who have “hope” are wishfully thinking.

Hope Theory

In positive psychology, hope can impact several aspects of life such as health, work, education, and personal meaning. There are three main things that make up hopeful thinking:

  • Goals – Approaching life in a goal-oriented way.
  • Pathways – Finding different ways to achieve your goals.
  • Agency – Believing that you can instigate change and achieve these goals.
    In other words, hope was defined as the perceived capability to derive pathways to desired goals and motivate oneself via agency thinking to use those pathways.
  • Individuals who are able to realize these three components and develop a belief in their ability are hopeful people who can establish clear goals, imagine multiple workable pathways toward those goals, and persevere, even when obstacles get in their way.
    Hope and wishing. Those that are hopeful are actively trying to investigate the best path of action while taking into consideration the obstacles. Research has shown though that many of those who have “hope” are wishfully thinking ❤

Latest Update: 29th October 2024. The website continues for the New Reader and Followers. Hope what I have written is useful that helps you to feel more Positive and Happier This is “The 251th Post” and with the “Introductory Page this will be all in Total up to date, 252nposts. On Top Right-Hand side, you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it. You will see the word “Home” All the posts from “The Very Beginning comes ~ Under “Home”. Which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

As always, it is all free”. You can share and pass it on also for others who can benefit from this post. I hope All those who Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so as,” Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in Life ❤

The Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing” during my spare time you can have a look at: https://deepanilamani.com/

Thanking the I net for the pictures I have shared from the I net ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa Nilamani ❤

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Giving!

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Hope you are all keeping well. Now that I have been able to carry on my Childhood Wish with my grandfathers and Great grandfathers assets coming down the generation After writing about Äyurveda I thought it is only proper to write an article about “Giving” Let me see how I can write about it in a Goodway 🙂

Giving is Powerful. Give as much as you wish, and you increase the value that flows through your life. Give and you make yourself Stronger ❤

Giving is a Gift just much as Receiving. Many will Appreciate you for the “Sincere act of Giving” and not for the Gifts itself. But that is not the Point. For when the Gift is Received that Brings “”Value and Goodness” to your world ❤

Every time you interact with someone else you have the “”Opportunity”” to give that person also some “”Value” “Whatever it is, whether it is a “Thing or a Thought, a Gesture or a Kind word. The most Powerful Gifts are those that come “”Straight from Your Heart”” ❤

As you give more and more to Give “”You have more and more to Give”” The Joy of Giving flows into your Life. And new Richness flows into Your Life ❤

How you give is as important as what you give

When significant assets are involved, did you know that how you give is just as important as what you give!

Each day you get the opportunity to give in some way. Give your Best and Enjoy the results of The Loving Power that comes to your Life ❤



These are “”Various other ways of Giving” You can give to Various Projects that needs People to give their Time too. I hope what I have written is Useful to give a good idea of Giving ❤

Latest Update: 21st October 2024. The website continues for the New Reader and Followers. Hope what I have written is useful that helps you to feel more Positive and Happier This is “The 249th Post” and with the “Introductory Page this will be all in Total up to date, 250 posts. On Top Right-Hand side, you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it. You will see the word “Home” All the posts from “The Very Beginning comes ~ Under “Home”. Which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!


As always, it is all free”. You can share and pass it on also for others who can benefit from this post. I hope All those who Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so as,” Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in Life ❤

The Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing” during my spare time you can have a look at: https://deepanilamani.com/

Thanking the I net for the pictures and image.com for the picture Quotes I have done ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa Nilamani ❤

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Fresh Beginning!

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Looking back it seems so long ago since I have been here and some people seems to have some strange ideas and ways. Over the years so much have changed, that I thought of writing of a Fresh Beginning!


As usual do hope you are keeping well. I thought of writing a post again for those of you who are waiting for a new article. You ever thought of pressing the “Reset Button” and start again? I have been writing that after more than 11 years this is what I am trying to do now. So that I have more time instead of having to dust and be arranging too many things and save time and energy. And let some others who can make use of what I don’t need any more.

You can “Let Go” some things as Time goes by you will not want the same old things you have had in the past. Things like old diaries, books magazines as well as plates cups and things if you have which you are not using.


Each one of you can do the way you can or want. In my case I like to Give away (Donate) free. Some of you might need a little bit of cash to buy new, so sell, so that would be all right, as money is not easy to come by. You can buy fewer things how you need 🙂

I was trying to make a “Gift Corner” in my sitting room Starting with a secondhand chair and some Basket. as anyone who comes can pick free what they see and like. But there are very few who come (as I live in a security complex) to deliver my groceries when I am unable to go, and it’s not everyone whom I can ask. You will be surprised what things might have once you start. These are things that are still good, and some others can be useful now Well I realized Gifts have to be new and they go under: Donations. I also have done posts on Donations Donations

In a way I have been doing something different. As when donated, they sell, and I wanted to give free. So, I have been leaving stuff here and there and in shopping carts. (Not so much, as above also don’t want to show what I put, as even some of them will be reading my website) Sometimes food sometimes clothes) This I have been doing from a long time. I always have things like popcorn or biscuits for The Crows and birds (where I put them in a corner outside) as they cannot find food on their own all the time. This is something I do daily at home. I don’t like to write but in gratitude for the “Healing Energies I buy bread and even fruits. And takes about two hours even in rain and the freezing cold in my small back garden May be later might post a picture it is like a small Zoo 🙂

Now this is all for you. As all my not need decluttering instead do some Fresh start writing (Journalling). To write some ideas for yourself. Journaling! You can even print it out and keep somewhere. Write like notes even some other things. Even like a little Diary. As above say jot down your thoughts. May be one or even a few copies. Flowers and even those who like birds They are “Very Pretty 🙂

From time to time “You can suddenly remember or something said or seen on TV or books or even a Tune can take you back to a memory which is not pleasant” These cannot be helped. It is not possible to live in an environment “completely free of any negative thoughts” Writing Journaling! Journaling (Writing) The Power of Hand Writing! Click on these Green letters and will take you to these posts. Your thoughts or Talking or discussing with a Good Friend is Helpful (Beneficial) Letting Go with feelings from the past is what will ultimately Heal you. Music is very helpful especially what You have not seen or heard before These are some of my Favourite too film from “Sound of Music and Mary Poppins. which will make you laugh and laugh. There is a song also if you like to Listen!

Raindrops on roses and whiskers on kittens
Bright copper kettles and warm woolen mittens
Brown paper packages tied up with strings
These are a few of my favorite things
Cream-colored ponies and crisp apple strudels
Doorbells and sleigh bells and schnitzel with noodles
Wild geese that fly with the moon on their wings
These are a few of my favorite things.

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It’s supercalifragilisticexpialidocious
Even though the sound of it is something quite atrocious
If you say it loud enough you’ll always sound precocious
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Latest Update: 24th July 2024. The website continues for the New Reader and Followers. Hope what I have written is useful that helps you to feel more Positive and Happier This is “The 243rd Post” and with the “Introductory Page this will be all in Total up to date, 244 posts. On Top Right-Hand side, you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it. You will see the word “Home” All the posts from “The Very Beginning comes ~ Under “Home”. Which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

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The Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing” during my spare time you can have a look at: https://deepanilamani.com/

If you want to contact me by post, write to; Deepa Nilamani, 65/110-114 Johnson Street, Hillcrest, Queensland 4118, Brisbane, Australia. Remember “You have to send it “” Air Mail to come through Planes, otherwise it can come by Sea Mail from ships which will take very long”

You have to give Your correct Postal Address so that you receive to you itself ❤

September 28th, 2024, soon after My Grandfathers 135th Birthday Celebration, I have been informed that Assets has been released so that I have enough Money to” Carry on My Wish of Giving or sending Gifts All over the World under “Wishing Star Foundation ~ Gifts!

As always, it is all free”. You can share and pass it on also for others who can benefit from this post. I hope All those who Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Leaso as,” Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in life ❤

Thanking the I net for the Picture Quotes and The You Tube for the videos<3

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa Nilamani ❤

Wishing Star ❤

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