Joy!

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I started this blog in September 2015, mainly to spread the messages on Good Health. My main intention was to make You the reader feel “More Positive” and to have that “Faith and Hope” so that you can reach up and make ‘Yourselves Better and Happier”. I kept My Faith and succeeded in My Life. The Beautiful thing is” I have achieved what I wanted through Faith. And then next post will be Joy 🙂

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Joy is a feeling of great pleasure or happiness It is closely related to well-being, success, good fortune, and inward spiritual reflectionJoy is not identical to happiness, pleasure, or gratitude. What is joy? It is not mere happiness. Joy is a core human experience.

We have all experienced joy—both the overwhelming and animating experiences of joy that may surprise and overtake us and the calm, and the enduring joy, which sustains us. Generally, we want more of it. We’ve all yelped, shouted, or smiled in delight upon hearing good news, finding a lost, precious object, or accomplishing something meaningful. These experiences bring life meaning and continue to motivate and direct us. That said, there have been no real clear theories or research that explain what prompts this kind of deep joy, nor have we had a framework for distinguishing joy from delight, fun, happiness, or thrill. Most people associate joy with goodness—good experiences, relationships, or objects. But what qualifies as the kind of “good” that produces life-altering, enduring joy?

A helpful way of thinking about joy is understanding what matters most in human life. Reviewing philosophical, theological, and psychological approaches, I identified three areas that deeply inform joy. They are (1) growing in authenticity and living more into one’s strengths, (2) growing in depth of relationships and contributing to others, and (3) living more aligned with one’s ethical and spiritual ideals. I have understood that the more one is able to live a strength-based life, have good relationships with others, and live with moral coherency, the more joy one will experience in life. This suggests that joy is not just an individual pursuit, but one that deeply involves our connections with others. We can discover and experience joy in a variety of ways—doing those things we love to do, growing in intimacy or providing for others, and clarifying and coherently pursuing our values. When these domains of the self, others, and values overlap, that is perhaps when we experience the most joy 🙂

Joy is really complex! This work helped me realize how joy and sorrow are deeply connected. Both are a response to those things that matter most. Joy is our delight when we experience, celebrate, and anticipate the manifestation of those things we hold with the most significance—like a birth or graduation time, how true joy that is tied to our potential to grow as an individual and relate and give to others, The trick is to stay connected to those things that deeply matter. I hope you Like what I have written about Joy. Share with others Good Things when you are able to and try to make them Joyful whenever you can ❤

I hope you Like what I have written about Joy. Share with others Good Things when you are able to and try to make them Joyful whenever you can ❤

Latest Update: 31st October 2024. The website continues for the New Reader and Followers. Hope what I have written is useful that helps you to feel more Positive and Happier This is “The 254th Post” and with the “Introductory Page this will be all in Total up to date, 255 posts. On Top Right-Hand side, you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it. You will see the word “Home” All the posts from “The Very Beginning comes ~ Under “Home”. Which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!



As always, it is all free”. You can share and pass it on also for others who can benefit from this post. I hope All those who Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so as,” Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in Life ❤

The Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing” during my spare time you can have a look at: https://deepanilamani.com/

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Hope!

Hello to, All My Dear Readers, Followers and My Blogging Friends ❤

Hope You are all keeping in Good Health. As I said the next post will be on Hope and here it is. Hope is an optimistic state of mind that is based on an expectation of positive outcomes with respect to events and circumstances in one’s life or the world at large. As a verb, its definitions include: “expect with confidence” and “to cherish a desire with anticipation. 🙂

In psychology

Hope comes into its own when crisis looms, opening us to new creative possibilities, that with great need comes an unusually wide range of ideas, as well as such positive emotions as happiness and joy, courage, and empowerment, drawn from four different areas of oneself: from a cognitive, psychological, social, or physical perspective. Such positive thinking bears fruit when based on a realistic sense of optimism, not on a naive “false hope”. In psychology linked hope to the existence of a goal, combined with a determined plan for reaching that goal. and for the centrality of goal-seeking in human psychology,

This is about Hope link between hope and mental willpower as well as the need for realistic perception of goals (problem orientation), arguing that the difference between hope and optimism was that the former can look like wishful thinking, but the latter provides the energy to find practical pathways for an improved future. meaning an unspoken desire for a positive outcome for those who are in control in the wider society.

Hope and wishing. Those that are hopeful are actively trying to investigate the best path of action while taking into consideration the obstacles. Research has shown though that many of those who have “hope” are wishfully thinking.

Hope Theory

In positive psychology, hope can impact several aspects of life such as health, work, education, and personal meaning. There are three main things that make up hopeful thinking:

  • Goals – Approaching life in a goal-oriented way.
  • Pathways – Finding different ways to achieve your goals.
  • Agency – Believing that you can instigate change and achieve these goals.
    In other words, hope was defined as the perceived capability to derive pathways to desired goals and motivate oneself via agency thinking to use those pathways.
  • Individuals who are able to realize these three components and develop a belief in their ability are hopeful people who can establish clear goals, imagine multiple workable pathways toward those goals, and persevere, even when obstacles get in their way.
    Hope and wishing. Those that are hopeful are actively trying to investigate the best path of action while taking into consideration the obstacles. Research has shown though that many of those who have “hope” are wishfully thinking ❤

Latest Update: 29th October 2024. The website continues for the New Reader and Followers. Hope what I have written is useful that helps you to feel more Positive and Happier This is “The 251th Post” and with the “Introductory Page this will be all in Total up to date, 252nposts. On Top Right-Hand side, you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it. You will see the word “Home” All the posts from “The Very Beginning comes ~ Under “Home”. Which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

As always, it is all free”. You can share and pass it on also for others who can benefit from this post. I hope All those who Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so as,” Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in Life ❤

The Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing” during my spare time you can have a look at: https://deepanilamani.com/

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May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

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Faith!

Hello to, All My Dear Readers, Followers and My Blogging Friends ❤

I started this blog in September 2015, mainly to spread the messages on Good Health. My main intention was to make You the reader feel “More Positive” and to have that “Faith and Hope” so that you can reach up and make ‘Yourselves Better and Happier”. There is various explanation of Faith. But this is how I know and kept My Faith and succeeded in My Life. The Beautiful thing is ”I have achieved what I wanted through Faith. And the next post will be on Hope 🙂

Faith is defined as belief with strong conviction. It is a firm belief in something for which there may be no tangible proof—complete trust, confidence, reliance, or devotion. Faith is the opposite of doubt.

Faith’ is a broad term, appearing in locutions that point to a range of different phenomena. We speak of ‘having faith that you will succeed, despite setbacks. ‘Being a person of faith,’ ‘professing and keeping the faith. and so on. At its most general ‘faith’ means much the same as ‘trust’. Uses of ‘faith’ and ‘faithfulness’ closely parallel ‘trust’ and ‘trustworthiness’ and these are often used interchangeably. Yet one of the striking and intriguing facts about theorizing in this area is that people have offered radically different accounts of what faith is to which faith belongs. Is it a psychological state. affective or perhaps some combination of both? Is it an act or disposition to act—or is there at least some sort of connection to action essential to faith and, if so, to what sorts of acts?


Latest Update: 27th October 2024. The website continues for the New Reader and Followers. Hope what I have written is useful that helps you to feel more Positive and Happier This is “The 250th Post” and with the “Introductory Page this will be all in Total up to date, 251 posts. On Top Right-Hand side, you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it. You will see the word “Home” All the posts from “The Very Beginning comes ~ Under “Home”. Which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

  • As always, it is all free”. You can share and pass it on also for others who can benefit from this post. I hope All those who Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so as,” Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in Life ❤

The Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing” during my spare time you can have a look at: https://deepanilamani.com/

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May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

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Handwriting!

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Hope All of you are keeping well and been reading My latest posts and enjoying what I have written and learnt some new things I have been writing. I thought of writing about the importance of Handwriting 🙂

Key points

  • Handwriting is an important part of literacy and an essential skill for life.
  • For toddlers and preschoolers, handwriting is about drawing and scribbling with crayons, pencils and chalk.
  • Older children learn formal handwriting at school.
  • Everyday activities like drawing, writing shopping lists and writing on cards can help children learn to write by hand.

Why handwriting is important

Handwriting is an essential life skill.

For example, children who can write smoothly and clearly are better able to use writing to record thoughts and ideas. When handwriting is automatic, ideas can flow. Children also need to write for many school lessons and tasks. Handwriting skills help children develop reading and spelling skills. Handwriting also helps with the ability to recall and remember information. And we need handwriting skills to do many tasks later in life, like writing birthday cards, filling in forms and signing important documents.

How handwriting develops

Handwriting is a complex skill that develops over time. To learn handwriting, children need to combine fine motor skills, language, memory and concentration. They also need to practise and follow instructions. Handwriting starts with scribbling and drawing then moves on to forming letters, words and sentences.

You can encourage your child to develop an interest in handwriting by giving them opportunities to draw, scribble and write. This prepares your child for the formal handwriting they’ll learn at school.

Left-handed writing in children
Most children choose to write and draw with their right hand. But some children choose their left hand. This is OK. When children choose their left hand to write with, there’s no need for them to swap hands.

Toddlers: drawing and early handwriting skills

Drawing is the start of handwriting for toddlers, usually at around 2 years.

Drawing starts with making marks or scribbles on paper and other surfaces. At first, toddlers usually move markers, crayons or chalk back and forth across paper. Gradually, they gain more control and might try to make lines and curves. Sometimes older toddlers might tell you what their marks are – for example, ‘a caterpillar’ or ‘a cat’.

Here are ideas to get your toddler scribbling, drawing and ‘writing’:

  • Have crayons and paper, or chalk and blackboard, handy. Small chunks of chalk or crayons encourage your toddler to use a fingertip grip. This helps your toddler learn to hold a pencil.
  • Provide various materials for your toddler to draw on – for example, coloured paper, cardboard, and notebooks with lines and blank pages.
  • Sit with your toddler and draw pictures together.
  • Encourage your toddler to draw things that interest them. For example, if your toddler likes insects, you could draw a centipede and your toddler could add a lot of legs. Or on a rainy day you could draw a big cloud and your toddler could draw rain falling down.
  • Prop up your toddler’s drawing surface so that it’s on an angle. You could use an easel or blackboard. This helps your toddler make downward strokes, which they need to do for writing later on.
  • Encourage your toddler to squeeze and pinch things. This could be threading big beads, squeezing and pinching playdough into shapes, or building with blocks and Duplo. This helps your toddler develop the hand muscles needed for using pencils.
  • Let your toddler see you writing by hand for different purposes – for example, to make a list, leave a message, or write down a phone number.

Preschoolers: getting started with handwriting

Children usually start to draw straight and circular lines in the preschool years. Your child might even put these lines and shapes together to draw people and objects. Your child might also start to form letters and numbers.

Plenty of opportunities to draw will help your child keep developing the skills they need for handwriting:

  • Keep giving your child chunky crayons and chalk until they develop the finger and thumb grip needed to hold a pencil.
  • Encourage your child to trace simple top-to-bottom and left-to-right lines on a page, trying to stay on the lines all the way to the end. Make up a story to add interest to the activity. For example, ‘Help this puppy find the way home’.
  • Practise drawing anticlockwise circles that start at the top of the page. This is the pattern we use to form letters.
  • As your child gets more control over crayons or pencils, encourage them to draw simple stick figure people. If you put your child’s pictures on the fridge or wall, they’ll feel proud of their work.
  • Encourage your child to trace over the letters of their name. At first you might need to put your hand over your child’s hand to help them.
  • Help your child learn the alphabet sequence. Try clapping your hands in a steady rhythm while you say the letters together. Doing this with music or singing the alphabet song together can also help.

Encourage your child to write and draw with other materials. For example, your child could draw lines in sand or mud, trace over letters on signs with their finger, form 3D letters from playdough, and so on. Take photos of these drawings if you want to print them out and display them.

Learning to write involves a combination of skills and abilities and an understanding of language.

Children with handwriting difficulties might need extra help and aids. These might include:

  • angled writing boards
  • chunky pencils
  • pencil grips
  • paper with coloured dotted lines, bold lines or raised tactile lines.

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As always, it is all free”. You can share and pass it on also for others who can benefit from this post. I hope All those who Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so as,” Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in Life ❤

The Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing” during my spare time you can have a look at: https://deepanilamani.com/

As always, it is all free”. You can share and pass it on also for others who can benefit from this post. I hope All those who Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Live in” Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in life ❤

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