Emotional Fitness!

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Hope All of You are keeping in Good Health as much as possible. “Keeping yourself Positive and Motivated as Best as possible. I have been writing about Various ways to be able to Lead a Good Life”

Emotional Fitness

“Remember that emotions are normal, honorable and confirm your humanity.” Emotions are sources of information; a signal worth listening to. They are relevance detectors and warning signs. Emotions tell us what we need, and they can act as a guide.” “Most emotions are not wholly pleasant (positive) or wholly painful (negative), but rather a mixture of the two. Positive and negative emotions can co-exist.”

Emotional fitness is the ability to enhance positive emotions, self-regulate and transform negative emotions, and change one’s relationship to emotions using acceptance strategies and mindfulness and meditative activities. They can provide a “sparkle of psychological glitter” and lead to enhanced compassion, and to positive actions.

This section will provide practical “how to” suggestions on ways to increase positive emotions and regulate negative emotions so as to bolster your resilience. Let’s begin with ways of increasing positive emotions. Now these are my notes: What is Emotional Healing: When bad things happen in our lives, it takes time to come to terms with their negative effects. Emotional healing is an inward journey to identify and explore your negative feelings and find the best ways to release them. There are moments in life that there are parts of us that require therapy. It is a signal that something within you is out of balance and needs your immediate attention, love, and care. The time has come to learn about these negative signals and to treat the root cause. This can be achieved through emotional healing where life experiences shall no longer control our thoughts, feelings, and actions. It means you have mastered the art of coping with various stressors.

When you are emotionally healed, you don’t feel the psychological hurt that was bothering you some time back. Your being hurt have healed and you do not feel any significant pain. In this process of healing, your past will not become a barrier to live the present moment happily and peacefully. Healing your emotions and changing your negative thoughts into Positive Thoughts, thereby becoming more strong and more confident from within. When you choose to heal yourself emotionally from your old familiar pattern of hurt and disappointments, followed by acceptance and awareness, you take a step forward towards recovery. You free Yourself and moves towards growth and well-being ❤

I am in Good Health and as, “I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy into My Hands since “Beginning of 2016”” Maximum Healing Energy can go to others too, and wherever it is needed to be received with a Clear Mind and Lot of Loving Kindness ❤

Latest Update: 7th October 2022. This is “The 206th Post” and with the “Introductory Page this will be all in Total up to date, 207th posts. On Top Right-Hand side, you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, you will see the word “Home” All the posts from “The Very Beginning comes ~ Under “Home”. Which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

As always, it is all free”. You can share and pass it on also for others who can benefit from this post. I hope All those who Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so as,” Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in Life ❤

Thanking the i net for the picture quotes I have shared ❤

Sending Love Light and Healing Energies To You ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa Nilamani ❤

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Interpersonal Fitness!

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Hope All of You are keeping in Good Health as much as possible. “Keeping yourself Positive and Motivated as Best as possible. I have been writing about Various ways to be able to Lead a Good Life” 🙂

“Good social relationships are associated with enhanced happiness, increased cognitive capacity, improved quality of life and greater resilience. ” Resiliency is rooted in and rests fundamentally on relationships, both the perceived and actually received from quality of social supports.” “Psychological health involves people needing to feel connected and having a sense of belongingness. Individuals who feel lonely and socially isolated are prone to poorer health, compromised immune systems, social interactions can produce changes in the experience and biology of loneliness.” “When you need to have Hope and Faith, you can look for it in the face of a friend or loved one.” See the posts below ❤

“Avoid isolation: It is easier to find courage when you are not alone.”

Interpersonal fitness is the capacity to foster, engage in and sustain positive relationships and to endure and recover from life stressors with the assistance and support of others. Socially resilient individuals evidence the willingness to both ask for help and offer help when needed and build mutually caring relationships.

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a) fine-tuning your communication skills b) learning ways to handle interpersonal conflicts more effectively c) learning ways to nurture your relationship with a partner or spouse d) developing ways to reconnect and become more resilient.

I am in Good Health and as, “I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy into My Hands since “Beginning of 2016”” Maximum Healing Energy can go to others too, and wherever it is needed to be received with a Clear Mind and Lot of Loving Kindness ❤

Latest Update: 6th October 2022. This is “The 205th Post” and with the “Introductory Page this will be all in Total up to date, 206th posts. On Top Right-Hand side, you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, you will see the word “Home” All the posts from “The Very Beginning comes ~ Under “Home”. Which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

As always, it is all free”. You can share and pass it on also for others who can benefit from this post. I hope All those who Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so as,” Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in Life ❤

Thanking The I net for the pictures I have shared <3

Sending Love, Light and Healing Energies to All ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa Nilamani ❤

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Psychology ~ Gardening!

Hello to, All My Dear Readers, Followers and My Blogging Friends ❤

Hope All of You are keeping in Good Health as much as possible. “Keeping yourself Positive and Motivated as Best as possible in these times” of Health issues. I have been writing about Various ways of Therapies to Become Well” After I wrote about The Therapies itself, today “I am writing about Psychology In Gardening. The practice of “Horticultural Therapy ” ~ How Plants Trees and Gardening can improve Physical and Mental Well Being”. Physicians would encourage people to walk in the garden or outdoors in Nature wherever it is possible You can, to get over stress and become relaxed and calm 🙂

Gardening naturally boost your mood, nurtures relationships and helps to have a Healthy lifestyle. In the current Health problem, Gardening became “A way to Relax and keep occupied in a good way” and also a way to find fresh produce to feed People’s families as you see, and many people joining in Community Gardening “You can see below “With many people doing different things how they like. Some “Trimming bushes, Some feeding the hens, Some picking fresh fruits”. Friends and Family even neighbors coming together making new friends and sharing and also exchanging what ever they have extra 🙂
Digging, planting, weeding, watering, raking the leaves, speaking with each other also at the same time, making new friends and relaxing in the fresh air also excellent for small children from their young age. Are good and healthy habits. How they experience “Pure Joy when a seeds are planted and they come out as plants” or flowers becoming fruits they can pick and eat. They get a sense of confidence that they can achieve something worthwhile 🙂

When gardening you also expose to fresh air and Vitamin D both are essential to Healthy Living. It reminds us that The environment is very important for Healthy Living and we are part “Nature” and feeling “The ground connects you to Mother Earth, that helps you to feel steady and calm” 🙂

Gardening reminds us that The environment is very important for Healthy Living and we are part “Nature” and feeling “The ground connects you to Mother Earth, that helps you to feel steady and calm 🙂

Above can be a Family or friends come together to join and help. Gardeners are supposed to be usually a “Friendly Bunch. People can become A Part of “A Friendly Tribe” 🙂

Below is a farm. You can see Corn plants and Corn itself and a “Scare crow to keep out birds and crows from eating the corn” A wind mill to Keep the air being refreshed and also barns to keep the food safe from rain and bad weather.

Above is a farm. You can see Corn plants and Corn itself and a “Scare crow made with “Hay (grass that has been mown and dried ~ make hay while the sun shines ~ make the most of a favourable situation while it lasts.) They keep out birds and crows from eating the corn” A wind mill to Keep the air being refreshed and also barns to keep the food safe from rain and bad weather. How do you like the “Scare Crow”? He is made of Hay and some of Farmers old Clothes 😀

Below is A Farmer taking Fruits and Vegetables to the market or to sell in his scooter or can be Bike and A Cart!

These are “All Vegetables” Now “You can write in the middle “What vegetables you know or like to eat or what ever you like and have fun.

A cartoon gardener holding a gardening tool and giving a thumbs up with a sign surrounded by vegetables and fruit garden produce. Below You can write or draw whatever you like in the middle blank space. Happy Gardening ❤

Hope what I have Written and The Picture Quotes will help you To “Understand Further about Usefulness and “Psychology of Gardening. And For you to read what Positive Psychology is here is the link to click: Positive Psychology!

As usual I have taken a “Lot of Time and effort to “Do Reference, find Good and Different Pictures from “The I net, Books and Magazines for Useful Ideas and of course “My Knowledge and Experiences 🙂

Very Important: Each Country have different things. Anyone who wants I can post Fruits or Vegetables with pictures and names ❤

Latest Update: 2nd July 2022. This is “The 194th Post” and with the “Introductory Page this will be all in Total up to date, 195 posts. On Top Right Hand side you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, You will see will see The word “Home” All the posts from “The Very Beginning comes ~ Under “Home”. Which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

I am in Good Health and as, “I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy in to My Hands” since “Beginning of 2016” All my Hard work and Praying has been rewarded. Healing Energy can go to others too, and where ever it is needed to be received with a Clear Mind and Lot of Loving Kindness ❤

I am Moving on as usual with “My Own Journey of Wellness, Encouraging and Healing” So that Everyone can have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” To Lead a Better Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy”. If you click on the Link You can Read This Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

The Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing” during my spare time you can have a look at: https://deepanilamani.com/

Thanking, “The I net for the Websites I have taken the Information” the “Picture quotes I have shared” and to https://www.online-image-editor.com/ for the Quotes I have done Myself ❤

Sending Love, Light and Healing Energies to All ❤

May God’s Blessings e Upon You ❤

Deepa Nilamani ❤

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Therapy ~ Anxiety!

Hello To All My Readers, Blogging Friends and All My Followers ❤

Hope All of You are keeping in Good Health as much as possible. And “Keeping yourself Positive and Motivated as Best as possible in these times” of Health issues. I have been writing about Various ways of Therapies to Become Well” And after I wrote about The Therapies itself, I am writing about how to manage, “Anxiety” as this seems an issue Doing Studies, Working from home, and also having Restrictions, Less or No work for some!

27th September 2022: Now for those of you who feel You do not have some of these and not feel ok: “Know that My Healing Energies have “Increased even to My Heart and from where my Heart is, Getting Vibrations, “Mean You have to get some and move on to Higher Wavelength and have some ways to have “Better standards of Living. This is a bit from my Healing Energy Book. And the Energy picture I could post. You Will get some Healing Energies TRUST ME on this”

Know Your Boundaries. Below is a Picture Quotes al Explaining!

You need to sit properly so that, You don’t get back pain, as unlike Office or work place, “You may not have Office Furniture. In that case You need to make sure You have a proper little table and a chair or some place to site properly while working !

Hope what I have Written and The Picture Quotes will help you. I have taken a “Lot of Time and effort to Give Useful and Good Ideas. Also not written too much as You need not Read too much but mostly see the picture Quotes and can Relax and You can “Work, Relax and also You Can Have Fun and Be Happy also 🙂

Latest Update: 30th April 2022. This is “The 191th Post” and with the “Introductory Page this will be all in Total up to date, 192 posts. On Top Right Hand side you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, You will see will see The word “Home” All the posts from “The Very Beginning comes ~ Under “Home”. Which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

I am in Good Health and as, “I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy in to My Hands” since “Beginning of 2016” All my Hard work and Praying has been rewarded. Healing Energy can go to others too, and where ever it is needed to be received with a Clear Mind and Lot of Loving Kindness ❤

I am Moving on as usual with “My Own Journey of Wellness, Encouraging and Healing” So that Everyone can have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” To Lead a Better Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy”. If you click on the Link You can Read This Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

The Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing” during my spare time you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/

As always, It is all free”. You can share and pass it on also for others who can benefit from this post. I hope All those who Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so as, ”Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in Life ❤

Thank you for Reading and The I net for the picture quotes I have shared ❤

Sending Love, Light and Healing Energies to All ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa Nilamani 🙂

Wishing Star ❤

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