Category: Acceptance

Healing ~ Desire To Heal!

Hello, To All My Dear Readers, followers and Blogging Friends ❤

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First of all, I welcome the many new readers and bloggers with much happiness. Your likes, comments and appreciations help and encourage me to feel happy and do better not only for me but, for all of us in the long run. Almost closing on 100 bloggers and, A Very Big Thank You to All, old and new family here in my site ❤

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When it comes to Healing as I wrote before, just as taking responsibility, “We need to have that Desire, that great need or urge” to somehow overcome being low/sad or unhappy and make ourselves to be well and happy. This again we have to do ourselves. Others can help and encourage but it mainly, up to us to have that need and push ourselves along the path of Healing 🙂

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For this you need to be dedicated to the cause of healing. It does not happen overnight; it is a process of taking things step by step methodically. The world, the society is not an easy place to live in, especially if you are going through mental issues. It can be chaotic and hostile to you. So, we need to find a place, an environment to suit our conditions, to grow undisturbed and peacefully into a healthy person ❤

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This can be difficult, as in all ventures in life there is resistance, so we need to let go, of the people, things that hinder or block our path of Healing. In life we cannot change the whole set up at any time. As we cannot put ourselves in a safety bubble and live in isolation. We tend to meet or come across people and situations that hinder and disturb our progress from time to time. So, if we have the Strength, Courage and Persistence to change, adjust and put aside what is unnecessary, we can be successful in our venture in Healing 🙂

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Latest Update 6th March 2020: Up to date with the Birthday article 111th I have published 112 posts. On “The Top Right-Hand side” you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, All the 111 posts from ~ The Beginning to the end is shown ~ Below the Home Page”. You will also see will see The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

I am in Good Health and as, “I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy into My Hands” since “Beginning of 2016” All my Hard work and Praying has been rewarded. Healing Energy can go to others wherever it is needed to be received with a Loving Kindness” even You ❤

So I am Editing and Updating almost all my posts naturally as, this is “A New Chapter and A New Beginning” Upgrading Myself to A New Wavelength. A New Chapter in My Life and I Wish so for You also. Please click this Link which will take You to The Birthday Post Birthday! ❤

The older Topics “On the Left-Hand side, Under the “Recent Posts” and Archives and Categories with “The New Topics adding up. Happy Reading ❤

And what I am doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Moving forward Writing My Own Journey of Wellness in Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy in this Post, and if You click on this Link in Green, you can read this Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts which you will be able to find more information” and pronunciation also. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing” 😛 during my spare time you can have a look at: https://deepanilamani.com/  ❤

“It is all free”. You can “Download ~ Take print outs” “share and/or pass it on also” for others who can benefit from this article and all the other posts ❤

Thank You again for reading. There are many more steps, and I will write one by one gradually. written. I hope you learn some new things from all what I have written. The Very Best of Luck in Your Journey up Your Path” as well ❤

Thanking The I net for the Pictures and https://www.online-image-editor.com/ for the picture Quotes Done by me ❤

Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies coming Your Way ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa 100Deepa Nilamani 🙂

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Some Try to Spoil Others Lives for No Reason?

Hello To All My Dear Readers Followers and Blogging Friends ❤

Hope all of you are doing well and being Happy. I am quite Happy, as the Blog is growing and, more and more readers are joining, seen and unseen no matter as long as its being read and being helped in some way. In my case I get so much of satisfaction in writing, it helps me to put my thoughts in order as well as give out my views and to relax after I do my studying. Do comment and questions are always welcome. It keeps the Blog alive and interesting when so many bring out their way of looking at life 🙂

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Well here I am trying to figure out why some people are always trying to stand across other people’s progress, spoil their friendships/relationships, and maybe even studies and job opportunities, in short come in between and and try to mess other’s lives even if they have done “Nothing wrong to them”!!! When I wanted to write on this topic I came across them as, “Toxic People” Going through certain events that has and is happening around me, now I have realized that they are indeed, “People who Think Negatively mainly” and do not have much Good Influences to others!

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What is the real reason that these people become that way. It need not be that they are poor or struggling in life but, it is because they have, “The wrong Values in Life” Its true that we all need that green stuff called money to pay our bills and buy things to eat and live. But some make Money the Priority and thereby, “Lose their value as human beings” Money can be earned but, ” Can you put A Value for Human Life?

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Money, material things are to be used to, “Live as Dignified Human Beings” Instead these people, “Lose their humanness and Dignity” by becoming slaves to those pieces of paper. Actually these people do not realize that being, “Toxic to others, they become Toxic to themselves ~ “Wrong thinking brings about, “Negative Vibrations and Acids in the body” that “Destroy the cells instead of making them” and many chronic illnesses comes up, that these green pieces called money is unable to Heal”!!!

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From what I have been observing, I have also realized that these type of  people, “Have No clue what so ever in, “The Laws of the Universe”, anything to do with any kind of religion, prayers or what is really Good or Bad” In short, “They do not have any Ethics, Dignity or Morals” Naturally they are not at peace or have any kind of real Happiness in their lives”!

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In life, in religions generally we are always told about dealing what ever the wrong doings of others with “Loving Kindness”. To forgive and to show understanding. But the fact is, with some people, “They mistake your Kindness for Weakness” This topic is often debated even on Face Book and by many people. “My being an exceptionally Tolerant and Patient to others unkindness, “I have Experienced then misunderstanding My Kindness. It is Because I am Strong that I am able to tolerate others wickedness” What is the solution ? Are they as ignorant and naïve as they show?

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Its the people that makes a society. And in this society we come across many types of people. How ever much good one is, there will be those who try to find something wrong. In life one does comes across these type of people, trying to spread unnecessary and wrong views of others. Disturbing “The Peace and Harmony in some people and also in the society itself” I myself cannot understand at anytime “Why some people keep on being unkind, “With No reason to some who have not done or doing any harm, but move on in life just living their life without troubling others” At any given time, “I really cannot see reason for this” ~ other than these people’s minds needs some sort of guidance and correcting to change their behaviour. But the fact is, “It is not easy to change others, the society or the world. But I Hope that by, “Leading a Life according to Dharma will somehow have some Influence to alter these issues and Bring Peace and Harmony” Until then This is something I came across ” interesting Quote to read” ❤

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I have been facing certain Unnecessary challenges I never expected. But I soon realize, and pray for guidance and answers, I get them, in time and I am able to move on stronger and better. I have faced a challenge soon after my birthday last month and my prayers were answered and now just in a month I am moving on forward. It is just that we need to move on to “Higher grounds or a Higher wave length “That we need to put in more Work, Time and Energy”!

This is an Update on The 24th of January 2020: I received The Gift of Healing ~ Something I never really expected happened as a Result of Praying and facing all that happened with Strength and Maitri this post is on: Who I am & Why I am Writing!❤

Maitrī (Sanskrit; Pali: mettā) means benevolence, loving-kindness, friendliness, good will, and active interest in others. 

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If you look at things this way. “The Kind/Good people are those who Help and Encourage us up. We need to know how to recognize these people, that is the time we have to be matured enough or become wise enough, to weave our way through most of the obstacles in life with much less stress or difficulty. And then I believe, “We would have earned the right and also able to spend the rest of our lives, in Dignity, Happiness and Peace. What do you think? This is what I observe at this stage of my life. What about You ❤

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Latest Update 6th March 2020: Up to date with the Birthday article 111th and I have published 112 posts. On “The Top Right Hand side” you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, You will see will see The word “Home” Under Which The Introductory Page is about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

I am in Good Health and as, “I have been able to, “Receive The Gift of Healing” All my Hard work and Praying has been rewarded.” Healing Energy can go to others where ever it is needed to be received with a Clear Mind and A Lot of Loving Kindness” ❤

So I have been updating and Editing almost all my posts naturally as, This is “A New Chapter and A New Beginning” I Upgrading Myself to A New Wave Length. A New Chapter in My Life and I Wish so for You also. Please click this Link which will take You to My Birthday Post Birthday!❤

The older Topics which are from “The First Lot” will be “On The Left Hand side. Under the, “Recent Posts” with “The New Topics adding up. Also Under Archives and Categories. Happy Reading ❤

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And what I am doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Moving forward Writing My Own Story in Wellness. Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy in this Post, and if You click on this Link in Green You can read this Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to my other posts, which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation also”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing” 🙂 you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/ ❤

“It is all free”. You can “Download. Take print outs” “share and pass it on also” for others who can benefit from this article and All the other posts ❤

Thanking for the Quotes I have taken from: https://www.gograph.com/vector-clip-art/writing.html and The I net ❤

Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies from me to All of You ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa 100Deepa Nilamani 🙂

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End of A Very Long Journey!

Hello to, All My Dear Readers Followers and Blogging Friends ❤

First of all let me wish All My Dear Readers A Very Happy New Year 🙂

Thank you all for coming to my blog and liking and supporting me. When you read and appreciate, I feel what I write help in some way that I am encouraged to do more and better. Since I wrote my last article there has been questions as to how I managed to recover from the low moods also referred as depression, and what I did. So this includes answers to some of those questions and some may be what I have written before, but then as with time, now that I am editing, I am writing with added knowledge and experiences!

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One can compare clearing, for an example, to a muddy glass of water clearing up, as the mud particles settles down, the water becomes pure and clear as you can see from this picture below ❤

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Until you really clear your mind, that is to say until you get over most of what ever each of you have gone through, you sort of need to keep away from the places and people who upset you. This is not to be staying alone, but at this time if you have a lot of time for yourself to rest and think clearly without others disturbing your thought pattern you can get back into your own way of doing things much quicker. We need to safeguard our minds too from outside disturbances until it becomes well. Why you need a good environment is, in the silence you hear yourself. You are able to really understand what works best for you to feel happy and relaxed!

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You also need to detach/let go of people and situations that keeps on disturbing and upsetting you. What I mean is if you cannot move away physically, you need to start detaching yourself from all that mentally. When you detach yourself from the mind, automatically you are able to have less disturbance from those that disturb you ❤

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I have been writing that in life, we can take challenges for us to face them and become stronger and move on to the next level. I know its difficult to face harsh and cruel things that happens in life. There is almost no one who has Not gone through any kind of pain or hardship. One thing I have to say is, many think that mental conditions happen through relationships only. But it can be anything. Major events like, volcanoes, floods and earthquakes where people get into difficult situations, also sometimes some find studying is difficult if its not according to their personalities, not being able to find proper jobs, all can contribute to be stressed and unwell!

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Once you begin to heal you don’t want to be wasting time talking about all the negative things that happened to you in the past. I did some studies on, “Personal Development” from which I learnt so much about people’s behaviors and how to face them. The others on “Natural Health and Healing that I expanded my knowledge so much about “Healing the Natural way”. Now on going, “A Diploma in Psychology ~ Counselling and Psychotherapy” which I have become so aware in very different light and discovering so much. I have to say its the best thing that I started to study” So all of them boosted my inner growth and brought back that confidence and strength in me. I can say I have become stronger. We all have to keep on trying. If we try hard enough, “We all can make progress well enough to lead a good and successful life of value” ❤

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Once we take our lives into our hands and do what makes us happy, then You have healed. Yes you need medical help. That you definitely have to have and medications what has to help you. But there is a very big part in your hands, as its you who is always with you and knows exactly what is happening. Everyone can help, But ultimately, Healing is in the hands of the person concerned!

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You need to educate yourself so as to become wise. The sixth sense, also called the third eye helps you to know how life works. Through all that you, Find the “Truth” The answers to why certain things happened to you and around you. But you don’t need to run after those who have hurt and harmed you. That is wasting valuable time!

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You forgive not for the other person, but yourself, and move on with your life. “Punishment comes to those who do wrong, not once, but over and over again, when knowing that they are doing the wrong thing” People have no excuse as they have so much of education and guidance from the day, they are born to help them lead good lives. Life is so valuable and it’s a pity that some think its only they need to live well But, they can hurt and harm others. The beauty of it is, “As survivors we become, “Better and stronger people to give a helping hand to others to stand up”. There by our lives becomes Peaceful and Blessed. Things that money cannot buy. I hope everyone who reads will at least find one answer to their questions, and learnt something new to help you ❤ ❤ ❤

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Latest Update 6th March 2020: Up to date with the Birthday article 111th and The Introductory page. I have Published 112 posts. On Top Right Hand side you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, you will see the word “Home” All the 111 posts from “The Beginning to the end is shown, “Under which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!.

I am in Good Health and as, “I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy into My Hands” since “Beginning of 2016” All my Hard work and Praying has been rewarded. Healing Energy can go to others wherever it is needed to be received with a Clear Mind and Lots of Loving Kindness” ❤

So “I am Editing and Updating almost All the Posts from The Very Beginning” This is My Birthday and, “A New Chapter and A New Beginning”. Upgrading Myself to A New Wavelength ~ A New Chapter in My Life and I Wish so for You also. Please click this Link which will take You to My Birthday Post Birthday!❤

“The old Topics on The Left-Hand side “Under ~ Recent Posts, Archives and Categories, with “The new Topics adding up. Happy Reading ❤

And what I am doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Moving forward writing y Own Journey of Wellness in Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy in this Post, and if You click on this Link in Green, You can read this Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts of Mine and Other’s websites also ~ which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation also”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am up to” 🙂 you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/ ❤

“It is all free”. You can “Download ~ Take print outs” “share and pass it on also” for others who can benefit from this article and all the other posts ❤

Thanking for the picture’s quotes taken from the I net, rawforbeauty.com, and https://www.online-image-editor.com/ for the picture’s quotes done by me ❤

Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies from me ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You All ❤

Deepa 100Deepa Nilamani 🙂

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Moral Values!

Hello To, All My Dear Readers Followers and Blogging Friends ❤

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Hope all of you are keeping well. You will notice that I am not a person who writes daily or even weekly for that matter. One thing I started this to write My Journey, so I cannot let others write articles here, so it has to be in my own time and when I do collect enough material to write an article. Also, I believe in having few good friends and doing things in a scale that I can manage. Not to impress or to be popular but, to give out work of Value ~principles or standards of behaviour; one’s judgement of what is important in life ~ The I net!

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I am extremely methodical; hence I like to have everything around me working specifically in a pattern that agrees with my personality. This is how I believe that I overcame the low moods in the first place. No matter what, I forged on ahead “working to my way of life, (opposed to what happened, that brought me to be stressed in the first place) but Not really hurting another. I somehow adhered, no matter to what, that worked for me the best way 🙂
I have to explain, that I can only interact with my other blogging family, when I am relaxed. I get unnecessarily distracted reading articles that are Not relevant to me. I like to read through so that I can read and learn or can give a proper and helpful comment. I do not like to do or say thing just for the sake of it. Right now, I am having I net issues due to the storm season in Aussie, so working with a very limited/slow I net. So please excuse me for being quiet with you all, until it comes back to normal ❤aaaa-7This topic is an issue that has been going around me, as well as a common topic to everyone. I waited until I felt I knew enough to put forth an article that will help many of you hopefully. I found that there are some who do not know the Real Values of Life around us and try to take advantage from those who are Honest and Sincere!

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In life there are many people that we cannot just move or walk away. As even with the positive people there can be some negativity sometimes. Since I wrote the last article, I observed others around me. We all know that there are some who are very positive and some who can be very negative. As in life I find we cannot find perfection always. There will be some very negative people who are extremely vicious, and that we might have to completely keep away, but how much can we keep away or walk off in life? There are so many toxic people among all walks of life. After all the experiences I have had, I came to the conclusion, that sometimes it is difficult to move away from as we would like to. But “Yes we can reduce our times around them and protect ourselves as much as possible”!

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We all know we cannot change others. The saying that, “You can lead a horse to the water but, you cannot make it to drink. But we? On our own, “We have the great opportunity of learning and Changing for the Better ~ for the Happiness and Joy of our own Lives” That is the Luck/Good Fortune to be born as human beings.  We are able to learn and alter our ways to the best of our ability for the goodness of not only our lives, but for the welfare of others too. If You can come to this level then, “You have reached a far more superior level than the normal human beings” You have even changed your Destiny”!

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But then know you can become few of the minority, But you know what you are doing and where you are going and who You are. We don’t change to please others. We change for the better, “For Ourselves” For our lives to be better and “Be of Value and Live Happier is it not”?

All these Challenges are able for us to grow stronger and wiser which leads to better quality of life. Which all will not understand. Sometimes we do not know at that time. It will be only later when we look back we can see a pattern and how far we have come. Man is, “The only person who is able to read, with wisdom” When we are born we all go through a process of education from our childhood beginning from “Nursery Rhymes” Starting with our parents then teachers, religion, friends and so many who crosses our paths we are shown in every way, how things work in life.

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We are given endless opportunities to the maximum, this is why there are two parents. If one is not present the other is there, just like two hands and even other family around us. With all these “Guidance” why is it that some end up being extremely deteriorated, evil enough to go to an extent of wanting to do so much harm? The reasons given by many of these great people is, “part of the general society do not want people to do well ~ They Resent others greatness” Greatness does Not come with money. It comes with unselfishness, good values, integrity ~ the quality of being Truthful and Honest and having strong moral principles!!!

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With all that, man harms his brothers, sisters who are all part of each other. We are all energy. Hence connected to each other. We are all soul sisters and brothers of one big family. Still with all that man harms. This is by Mahatma Gandhi himself. Was he aware what was going to happen to him? These are his words left for centuries ……

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Latest Update 6th March 2020: Up to date with the Birthday article 111th and The Introductory page, I have published 112 posts. On “The Top Right Hand side” you are able to see: The word “Menu” And all the posts from, The Beginning to the end is shown Under the Home Page” : Who I am & Why I am Writing!

I am in Good Health. I started to write “My journey on mental wellness “Just in My Pen Name Deepa Nilamani” But as I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy ~ which began its Journey since February 2016. I have had to introduce myself in,” My full name and to be seen from where, “I have acquired, “The Gift of Healing Hands” Down The Generation, “Who My Maternal Grandfather is, and My Great Grandfather is I had to include their details. Please click on this Link it will take you on to “Their Details on The site of Wikipedia on the I net”: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/G._P._Wickramarachchi!

It is something I have earned, “Through sheer Hard work, Sacrifices, Sharing, Giving, Donating and through Loving Kindness” and above all being “Truthful and Honest”. “The Universal Energy” is also called “Healing or Pranic energy”, “chi” in China and “ki” in Japan. As we know, energy can travel so, “Prayer energy which also can be called Healing Energy” can travel far and wide to distant places too. Healing Energy can go to others wherever it is needed to be received with a Clear Mind and Lots of Loving Kindness”. If you click this link You can go to the post: Energy Healing! 

So, I am editing and updating almost all my posts as, this is “A New Chapter and A New Beginning” on. Upgrading Myself to A New Wavelength. A New Chapter in My Life and I Wish so for You also. Please click this Link which will take You to My Birthday Post Birthday!❤

There will still be The older Topics “On the Left Hand side, Under the Recent Posts” with “The New Topics adding up. And Under Archives and Categories. Happy Reading   ❤

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What I am doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Moving forward Telling My Journey in Wellness. Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy in this Post, and if You click on this Link in Green, You can read this Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing” 🙂 you can have a look at: https://deepanilamani.com/ ❤

“It is all free”. You can “Download. Take print outs” “share or pass it on also” for others who can benefit from this article and all the other posts ❤

Thanking the I net, YouTube for the video and other sites for the posts shared by me ❤

Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies from me ❤

May God’s Blessings be Upon You ❤

Deepa 100Deepa Nilamani 🙂

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