Category: Freedom

Dealing with Those who Don’t Understand You!

Hello to, All My Dear Readers Followers and Blogging Friends ❤

Thanking all those who read my articles and comment, like and follow my blog. Hope all of you are keeping well and finding what I write useful in some way to further enhance and advance your life ❤

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I don’t know if this topic is relevant to everyone, but We all know that mental illnesses are not recognized and understood, even by some of the so-called educated people. Why I say, “so called educated people” is, if people are really educated, then they cannot be ignorant of the fact that mind becomes ill just like the body. As where is the mind? In the body! Then how can mind not become unwell? Then why does mental illnesses are not understood?

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It is well known that world over sad moods (over long term are named as depression) is a serious issue threatening the future. The world Health Organization has stated that depression will be the biggest cause of health burden by 2030. So many kind and compassionate people are working, fighting to ease this problem in various fields, not only in the field of medicine. Communities have got together as groups, clubs to work towards helping in healing through hobbies, sports, physical and many mental therapeutic activities as well ❤

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But as life has it, I am having to deal with an issue of, not only of ignorance but, “Knowingly trying to disturb me” In these circumstances what would you do? Do you think it is a kind and compassionate thing to do to another human being who has gone through such an ordeal through years and lifted her head up, and now is working towards the benefit of others, quietly with no harm or disturbance to anyone? What motive and mind set do you think this type of people have? As in the society there are many types of destructive people. How do you deal with them?

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At the present stage of my life, I have learnt to take them as, challenges. We do face challenges from time to time, but we can deal with them in many ways. Overcoming long term sadness/depression is not a small task, that shows, “Strength, Courage and Patience”, and above all Faith in the Powers above. I pray for good health, in happiness, thankfulness and gratitude, daily morning and night, for myself and others also ❤

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There is no way that negativity can bring down the positivity. Dharma, Righteousness does always overcome evil. The meaning of Light actually is “Enlightenment” It is Knowledge that Helps to overcome the Ignorance. My name by birth itself is, “Light” negativity can never affect me. It is a Lion himself who named me, “Light” and, his spirit is guiding me. I lead my life in accordance with, “The Laws of The Universe” ❤

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I adhere to to the correct principles in life. I give. I donate. I share what I have with anyone. Even this blog is giving and sharing, as I am sharing my knowledge and life experiences with others. “It is the gift of knowledge that brings the Highest Blessings according to Buddhism”. So how can those who are morally deteriorated, put me down or anyone else who lives according to the “Laws of The Universe” for that matter. “Do Not, ever get discouraged or let anyone put you down for no reason” Take every experience, as a challenge, to gain strength, courage and confidence and to achieve your goals and Win ❤

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I have found that, these are things that happen in the society not only to me but some others too, these are things we all face in life from time to time. Some do not want others to rise up. Sadly they don’t know that helping another is helping themselves also. In giving you receive. In blessing you are blessed. What goes around comes around. They are “The laws of The Universe” that applies to all. Abiding by them, “The Universe Guides, Help and Supports us 🙂

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Latest Update December 2019: The Posts have gone up to 100. I am in Good Health and as, “I have been able to, “Develop Healing Energy into My Hands” since “Beginning of 2016” I have added that as an update in all my posts. This is Ending of 2019 and going on to Year 2020. “A Beginning of, A New Year”. “Upgrading Myself to A New Wavelength ~ A New Chapter in My Life ❤

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On Top Right Hand side you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, You will see will see The word “Home” And then “All the 100 posts from “The Beginning to the end is shown”, and You can follow from The first post to The latest one Methodically Under which is also The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

The older Topics “On the Left-Hand side “Under Recent Posts Archives and Categories” with “The New Topics adding up” Happy Reading ❤

And what I am doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Writing My Journey on Wellness in Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy. And if You click on this Link in Green, you can read this Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts which you will be able to find more information and Pronunciation”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am up to” 🙂 you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/ ❤

“It is all free”. You can “Download ~ Take print outs” “share and or pass it on also” for others who can benefit from this article and all the other posts ❤

Thanking for the picture quotes taken from the I net https://www.online-image-editor.com/ for the picture quotes I have done myself ❤

Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies to All ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

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Freedom ~ In Healing!

Hello To, All My Dear Readers Followers and Blogging Friends ❤

Hope all of you are well and happy. Thank you to all those who read my articles, like and follow the blog. Most of all a very big Thank You to those who take their time to leave a comment in appreciation or saying how and what they feel about the topic. This is very valuable as, each person look at life matters in a different way and we all can learn from another’s point of view 🙂

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Freedom in Healing is very important. Why? This is because we need to feel free to be ourselves to relax. Freedom is our right, and no one can take it away. This is one issue that people have that they cannot say, or do the things they like which makes them stressed and unhappy. As long as we are doing the right thing, we do not have to worry about what other’s think, as whatever good or bad there will be some who will always criticize or find fault. This takes time as we need to realize this and be strong and brave to go on with our lives to live the way that is most agreeable to us 🙂

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To attain freedom there are many things we can and need to do. We need to let go of those unnecessary things and people that are binding us to the past or even the present, that stresses us and disturb our lives. We need to prioritize and have what is only needed for a peaceful and happy life, as having too many things and too many people around really waste our time and energy. As we get caught up with unnecessary talk, and things that does not add any real value to life. Few good people, of family and friends who are able to understand, see your worth and value, love and care for you is all you want ❤

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Latest Update 6th March 2020: Up to date with the Birthday article 111th and I have published 112 posts. On Top Right Hand side you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, You will see The word “Home” All the 111 posts from, The Beginning to the end is shown ~ Below the Home Page”. The Introductory page: Who I am & Why I am Writing! 

I am in Good Health and as, “I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy in to My Hands” since “Beginning of 2016” All my Hard work and Praying has been rewarded. Healing Energy can go to others where ever it is needed to be received with a Clear Mind and Loving Kindness” ❤

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World Kindness Day card. Kindness changes everything ❤

So I have been Editing and Updating all my posts naturally as, This is “A New Chapter and A New Beginning” I am Moving on. I have learnt lot of New Things and Upgrading Myself to A New Wavelength. A New Chapter in My Life and I Wish so for You also. Please click this Link which will take You to My the Birthday Post:  Birthday!

On The Left Hand side The older Topics will be Under “Archives and Categories”, and Under the, “Recent Posts” with “The New Topics adding up. Happy Reading ❤

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And what I am doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Moving forward Telling My Own Journey of Wellness in Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy in this Post, and if You click on this Link in Green You can read this Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts which you will be able to find more information”. I also have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am up to” 🙂 you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani..com

“It is all free”. You can “Download ~ Take print outs” “share and pass it on also” for others who can benefit from this article and All the other posts ❤

Thanking The I net and https://www.online-image-editor.com/ for the posts I have done myself ❤

Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies from me to you ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

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Ending One Chapter!

Hello To, All My Dear Readers Followers and Blogging Friends ❤

This is about what happens when we come to an end of one chapter of our journey of becoming well. When we come to a certain ending of our healing, we get the need to clear up and wrap up any unfinished tasks. These can be when others have taken our responsibilities or duties, when we have not been well enough to do ourselves. No one exactly need to tell us, but this is a sign that one has come back to normal state of mind, and it automatically sets in ❤

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It is also about clearing any misunderstanding of us been avoiding or keeping away, from some people or places. It can also be that during the times of Healing, we may have acted or reacted which may have hurt or offended some. This happens mainly with those who have issues with not being well enough to carry on like other days. Very often these are not serious offenses, but it is mainly when we have been unwell, and have not been active in mixing up with people we need to clear up certain issues before getting back in to life again 🙂

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In short, we are taking control of our lives again to carry on with what we need to do, in our own time and in our own ways. This is very important as it is only when we are able to lead our lives independently, that our minds become active, and we get energized, and we begin to function properly that in turn helps the process of healing to improve even more. When you begin to feel better, try and start doing the little things and then you are able to move on to the bigger tasks gradually. As at some time we all need to get back on to living the normal life and the quicker we get into it the better 🙂

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Latest Update 6th March 2020:Up to date with the Birthday article 111th and The Introductory page: Who I am & Why I am Writing! I have Published 112 posts on This Website. I am in Good Health and as, “I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy into My Hands” since “Beginning of 2016” All my Hard work and Praying has been rewarded. Healing Energy can go to others wherever it is needed to be received with a Clear Mind and Loving Kindness” even You ❤

So “I am Editing and Updating almost All the Posts from The Very Beginning” This is My Birthday and, “A New Chapter and A New Beginning”. Upgrading Myself to A New Wavelength ~ A New Chapter in My Life and I Wish so for You also. Please click this Link which will take You to The Birthday Post Birthday!

On Top Right-Hand side, you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, You will see will see The word “Home” Which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing! ❤

And then “All the 112 posts from “The Beginning to the end is shown”, and There will be “The old Topics on The Left-Hand side “Under ~ Recent Posts with “The new Topics adding up. Happy Reading ❤

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And what I am doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Moving forward Telling My Own Story in Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy in this Post, and if You click on this Link in Green You can read this Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts, which you will be able to find more information”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am up to” 🙂 you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/ ❤

“It is all free”. You can “Download ~ Take print outs” “share and or pass it on also” for others who can benefit from this article and All the other posts. Lots of Love and Hugs from Me ❤

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Thanking the pictures taken from the I net and https://www.online-image-editor.com/ for the Picture Quotes done by me ❤

Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies coming Your Way ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

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The Purpose of Our Lives!

Hello to, All My Dear Readers Followers and My Blogging Friends ❤

Thank you all for reading and appreciating what I write. Since recently there is an increase in those who follow and also more coming in from our blogging family to comment and interact, which makes it very interesting and worthwhile putting in all the time in writing here. Today I am Writing on, “The Purpose of Our Lives” 🙂

At certain times in our lives, we find that we are not really satisfied with what we are doing. This is doing jobs, studies or even a hobby. Usually as young children we are guided by our parents or teachers, or even we ourselves think this is what we want to do. But then as we go on, some of us find out what we have chosen to do, does not give that satisfaction that we hoped for. If it is so, “We can lose interest, and our minds begin to work towards finding out what other things we can do, that we really feel like doing. This is Called: “Finding Our Purpose in Our Lives”!

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In my case I have Loved Books and Reading. Even My parents have read Nursery Rhymes and stories to me (This is for so many other children too when it comes) and I have been saving my pocket money also to “Buy Books”. I have had BOOKS ALL ROUND ME! But at the very beginning as a child “Did not Imagine me as a Writer. But always wanted to Follow My Maternal Grand Father and My Grand Mother in Giving. As “The Eldest of the Grandchildren I was the person who used to spend Time during my school holidays and have been seeing “All the Giving that was done” by both of them. I have always given. “I can even remember cutting my eraser in to two to give BUT being Young “I did not know exactly “THAT GIVING WAS IN ME or NOW I KNOW I “WAS BORN TO GIVE”. BUT THEN I WAS UNDER THE IMPRESSION, THAT IT WAS GIVING WITH WHAT ONE CAN BUY FROM MONEY ~ NEVER THOUGHT “THAT GIVING IN THIS WAY TOO – PASSING ON KNOWLEDGE: “I had always wanted to do service. But I never imagined, this is what I ultimately came to do!

“The highest form of charity is, giving out what you know to help others ~ “The Gift of Knowledge” 🙂

What Buddhists Believe
Venerable K. Sri Dhammananda Maha Thera

The essence of true charity is to give something without expecting anything in return for the gift.
To the Buddhist, the highest gift of all is the gift of Dhamma. This gift has great powers to change a life.

Our minds are such that the moment it gets this message, it goes into action, it begins to work endlessly looking for that something that we can do with enthusiasm and zest, that will be worthwhile doing it and brings us satisfaction. When you read about people, we see some of them “changing” their even very successful careers and turning into doing things completely different to what they were doing!!!

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Some when they are very small itself, “Are aware of their talents and gifts by birth and do not have to go looking for what they like to do. “They find they can just draw or paint, play a musical instrument, even do mathematics or speak in other languages at a very young age”. They grow up to be famous painters, writers and authors, musicians and scientists and so on” In my case I have Loved Books and Reading and I have been saving my pocket money also to “Buy Books” But at the very beginning as a child “Did not Imagine myself as a Writer BUT always wanted to Follow My Maternal Grand Father and My Grand Mother in Giving. As “The Eldest of the Grandchildren I was the person who used to spend Time during my school holidays and have been seeing “All the Giving that was done” by both of them. I have always given “I can even remember cutting my erase in to two to give BUT being Young “I did not know exactly “THAT GIVING WAS IN ME or NOW I KNOW I “WAS BORN TO GIVE”!

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Each one of us are born unique and no two people are born the same. Even identical twins have differences between them. So, to each of us, “The Purpose of our life is different” It has been it, as the world needs all kinds of people to do various kinds of jobs and activities. But it’s not all who recognize this. What is the reason? It is because one has to be spiritually mature and aware what life is and what the gifts we have been given and how to make use of them. Human life is very valuable as it is man who is so advanced than all the other creatures, who can mainly think, plan, speak out and act. So, we need to make use of our lives, and not just idle and waste away this valuable birth!!!

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We have been given “These Gifts to be able to make a living, to help ourselves and then sharing or giving others too with what we have been given”. Each one has been given some gift so that we can make use of it to lead a good and happy ❤

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Once People Recognize Their “Talents” it comes naturally to follow up in Everything they do. But of course, they also have to work hard to improve and excel at them. For example: Observe, “The people who do various activities in Sports, who win medals even in Olympics, how much they train and practice”? Some find out more side-lines too to improve and excel. Some take a long time and have to find or look for the gift they have been given. Whatever the time period maybe for those who keep on looking and finding out, “What the meaning of their lives” ultimately finds out or even led to the path that they were meant to take. In short to, “The Purpose of Your Life” ❤

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Latest Update 6th March 2020: Up to date with the Birthday article 111th and The Introductory page: Who I am & Why I am Writing! I have Published 112 posts. I am in Good Health and as, “I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy into My Hands” since “Beginning of 2016”. All my Hard work and Praying has been rewarded.” Healing Energy can go to others wherever it is needed to be received with a Clear Mind and Loving Kindness” even You ❤

So “I am Editing and Updating All the Posts from The Very Beginning” This is My Birthday and, “A New Chapter and A New Beginning”. I am Moving on. I have Learnt lot of New Things and Still Learning. Upgrading Myself to A New Wavelength ~ A New Chapter in My Life and I Wish so for You also. Please click this Link which will take You to My Post: Birthday!

On Top Right-Hand side, you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, you will see the word “Home” Which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

There will be the older Topics “On the Left-Hand side, “Under Archives and Category” and “Under Recent Posts” with “The New Topics adding up” Happy Reading ❤

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And what I have been doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Moving forward Telling My Own Journey in Wellness in Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy in this Post, and if You click on this Link in Green, you can read this Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts of Mine which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation also”. I also have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am up to” 🙂 you can look at :https://deepanilamani.com/ ❤

“It is all free”. You can “Download ~ Take print outs” “share and or pass it on also” for others who can benefit from this article and all the other posts. Lots of Love and Hugs from Me ❤

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Thanking for the Quotes and Pictures I have taken from the I net and https://www.online-image-editor.com/ for the Quotes written by me ❤

Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies from me ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa 100Deepa Nilamani 🙂

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