Dealing with Those who Don’t Understand You!

Hello to, All My Dear Readers Followers and Blogging Friends ❤

Thanking all those who read my articles and comment, like and follow my blog. Hope all of you are keeping well and finding what I write useful in some way to further enhance and advance your life ❤

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I don’t know if this topic is relevant to everyone, but We all know that mental illnesses are not recognized and understood, even by some of the so-called educated people. Why I say, “so called educated people” is, if people are really educated, then they cannot be ignorant of the fact that mind becomes ill just like the body. As where is the mind? In the body! Then how can mind not become unwell? Then why does mental illnesses are not understood?

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It is well known that world over sad moods (over long term are named as depression) is a serious issue threatening the future. The world Health Organization has stated that depression will be the biggest cause of health burden by 2030. So many kind and compassionate people are working, fighting to ease this problem in various fields, not only in the field of medicine. Communities have got together as groups, clubs to work towards helping in healing through hobbies, sports, physical and many mental therapeutic activities as well ❤

Wellness 2What I am doing also here in my blog is, in a small way is contributing my knowledge and experiences towards those who can make use of them to know that they also can control and recover enough to be well and lead a normal and happy life. It is to show by example, “To give Faith and Hope” to become well and Happy ❤

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But as life has it, I am having to deal with an issue of, not only of ignorance but, “Knowingly trying to disturb me” In these circumstances what would you do? Do you think it is a kind and compassionate thing to do to another human being who has gone through such an ordeal through years and lifted her head up, and now is working towards the benefit of others, quietly with no harm or disturbance to anyone? What motive and mind set do you think this type of people have? As in the society there are many types of destructive people. How do you deal with them?

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At the present stage of my life, I have learnt to take them as, challenges. We do face challenges from time to time, but we can deal with them in many ways. Overcoming long term sadness/depression is not a small task, that shows, “Strength, Courage and Patience”, and above all Faith in the Powers above. I pray for good health, in happiness, thankfulness and gratitude, daily morning and night, for myself and others also ❤

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There is no way that negativity can bring down the positivity. Dharma, Righteousness does always overcome evil. The meaning of Light actually is “Enlightenment” It is Knowledge that Helps to overcome the Ignorance. My name by birth itself is, “Light” negativity can never affect me. It is a Lion himself who named me, “Light” and, his spirit is guiding me. I lead my life in accordance with, “The Laws of The Universe” ❤

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I adhere to to the correct principles in life. I give. I donate. I share what I have with anyone. Even this blog is giving and sharing, as I am sharing my knowledge and life experiences with others. “It is the gift of knowledge that brings the Highest Blessings according to Buddhism”. So how can those who are morally deteriorated, put me down or anyone else who lives according to the “Laws of The Universe” for that matter. “Do Not, ever get discouraged or let anyone put you down for no reason” Take every experience, as a challenge, to gain strength, courage and confidence and to achieve your goals and Win ❤

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I have found that, these are things that happen in the society not only to me but some others too, these are things we all face in life from time to time. Some do not want others to rise up. Sadly they don’t know that helping another is helping themselves also. In giving you receive. In blessing you are blessed. What goes around comes around. They are “The laws of The Universe” that applies to all. Abiding by them, “The Universe Guides, Help and Supports us 🙂

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Latest Update December 2019: The Posts have gone up to 100. I am in Good Health and as, “I have been able to, “Develop Healing Energy into My Hands” since “Beginning of 2016” I have added that as an update in all my posts. This is Ending of 2019 and going on to Year 2020. “A Beginning of, A New Year”. “Upgrading Myself to A New Wavelength ~ A New Chapter in My Life ❤

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On Top Right Hand side you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, You will see will see The word “Home” And then “All the 100 posts from “The Beginning to the end is shown”, and You can follow from The first post to The latest one Methodically Under which is also The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

The older Topics “On the Left-Hand side “Under Recent Posts Archives and Categories” with “The New Topics adding up” Happy Reading ❤

And what I am doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Writing My Journey on Wellness in Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy. And if You click on this Link in Green, you can read this Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts which you will be able to find more information and Pronunciation”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am up to” 🙂 you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/

“It is all free”. You can “Download ~ Take print outs” “share and or pass it on also” for others who can benefit from this article and all the other posts ❤

Thanking for the picture quotes taken from the I net https://www.online-image-editor.com/ for the picture quotes I have done myself ❤

Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies to All ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa 1Deepa Nilamani 🙂

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Ending One Chapter!

Hello To, All My Dear Readers Followers and Blogging Friends ❤

This is about what happens when we come to an end of one chapter of our journey of becoming well. When we come to a certain ending of our healing, we get the need to clear up and wrap up any unfinished tasks. These can be when others have taken our responsibilities or duties, when we have not been well enough to do ourselves. No one exactly need to tell us, but this is a sign that one has come back to normal state of mind, and it automatically sets in ❤

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It is also about clearing any misunderstanding of us been avoiding or keeping away, from some people or places. It can also be that during the times of Healing, we may have acted or reacted which may have hurt or offended some. This happens mainly with those who have issues with not being well enough to carry on like other days. Very often these are not serious offenses, but it is mainly when we have been unwell, and have not been active in mixing up with people we need to clear up certain issues before getting back in to life again 🙂

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In short, we are taking control of our lives again to carry on with what we need to do, in our own time and in our own ways. This is very important as it is only when we are able to lead our lives independently, that our minds become active, and we get energized, and we begin to function properly that in turn helps the process of healing to improve even more. When you begin to feel better, try and start doing the little things and then you are able to move on to the bigger tasks gradually. As at some time we all need to get back on to living the normal life and the quicker we get into it the better 🙂

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Latest Update 6th March 2020:Up to date with the Birthday article 111th and The Introductory page: Who I am & Why I am Writing! I have Published 112 posts on This Website. I am in Good Health and as, “I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy into My Hands” since “Beginning of 2016” All my Hard work and Praying has been rewarded. Healing Energy can go to others wherever it is needed to be received with a Clear Mind and Loving Kindness” even You ❤

So “I am Editing and Updating almost All the Posts from The Very Beginning” This is My Birthday and, “A New Chapter and A New Beginning”. Upgrading Myself to A New Wavelength ~ A New Chapter in My Life and I Wish so for You also. Please click this Link which will take You to The Birthday Post Birthday!

On Top Right-Hand side, you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, You will see will see The word “Home” Which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing! ❤

And then “All the 112 posts from “The Beginning to the end is shown”, and There will be “The old Topics on The Left-Hand side “Under ~ Recent Posts with “The new Topics adding up. Happy Reading ❤

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And what I am doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Moving forward Telling My Own Story in Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy in this Post, and if You click on this Link in Green You can read this Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts, which you will be able to find more information”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am up to” 🙂 you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/

“It is all free”. You can “Download ~ Take print outs” “share and or pass it on also” for others who can benefit from this article and All the other posts. Lots of Love and Hugs from Me ❤

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Thanking the pictures taken from the I net and https://www.online-image-editor.com/ for the Picture Quotes done by me ❤

Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies coming Your Way ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

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New Changes!

Hello To, All My Dear Readers Followers and Blogging ❤

Hope all of you are well. I have not been here for a while, as I have been busy writing some other articles. So, I am sorry I have not been visiting some of your blogs too. I am re-writing this article as so many have missed the old articles. We are all aware in life every day is not the same. We keep on changing and moving ahead. Even if we do not want to change, we do grow by the day and changes happens, as well as the whole environment changes around us. That is the norm of life. With that there come challenges over and over again for us to learn how to face and overcome them, to become stronger and wiser to move on in life to the next level 🙂

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Once you have overcome a challenge or challenges, you need to learn from them and organize yourself, to make sure the same things do not cause problems again. For this you need to, “Change” the things and people that do not work for you anymore. What it means mostly is, changing and adjusting to those people and situations that you have to live in, to fit in better. Changing is a process. Not only us it happens to animals too. Like reptiles, they too shed their whole length of outer skin from time to time. The eagle sheds all its feathers after 40 years to renews it self for another 30 years. Then why is this, Change become such a difficult process?

Change 2As in Nature, there is always, “A Time for everything”. When people try to change  anything before they are ready only, it becomes difficult” So there is always a, “Time to change” if not it is difficult. But sometimes so happens in life, we do have to change, as we need to move on and there s no need to hold on. And once you accept life becomes much easier and pleasant. As you have less people and things to trouble you unnecessarily!!!

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Then how to make life a little easier for You, living in this complicated world? Well the most important word that comes in is, “To be prepared to change” When we know our work is done and we have to move on. But it is the reality. When people have outgrown you means they have changed their vibrations, hence some of their personality and their energies. So they no longer able to fit in with the same people and doing the same things. All that belongs to another era, which is called by the name, “The Past”!

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Even if it is for the good for us and is very difficult, but sometimes once we do the relief is great. By changing the past you make room for the new to come in, that will ultimately lead you to new places and people whom you fit in better and belong with, to lead much satisfied and happier and fulfilled life 🙂

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Hope you enjoyed reading what I have written, and learnt something to help in your life or even someone else’s life. Knowledge is like ripples that travels over and across lands and seas all over the world bringing everyone closer to share and learn from each other. It is for us to learn how change and letting go helps us to move on to a better level in life. Enjoy 🙂

Latest Update 6th March 2020: Up to date with the Birthday article 111th I have published 112 posts. On Top Right Hand side you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, You will see will see The word “Home” Which is The Introductory Page: Who I am & Why I am Writing! 

The old Topics are, “On The Left Hand side “Under the, “Recent Posts” with “The New Topics adding up. “It will be too long to post so many number of posts on the side. You can “Click and see all The older Topics” “Under “ARCHIVES” and “Under CATERGORIES” Try “To Move around the site and find. “That is also “Part of Educating Yourself further”. So far I have Not seen any other site post so much clearly ❤

“I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy in to My Hands” since “Beginning of 2016”. All my Hard work and Praying has been rewarded. Healing Energy can go to others too, but they have to be to be received with a clear Mind and Loving Kindness” ❤

So I have been editing and updating almost all my posts naturally as, This is “A New Chapter and A New Beginning” I am Upgrading Myself to A New Wave Length. A New Chapter in My Life and I Wish so for You also. Please click this Link which will take You to My Birthday Post: Birthday!❤

And what I am doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Moving forward Telling My Own Story in Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy in this Post, and if You click on this Link in Green You can read this Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts which you will be able to find more information” and even pronunciation. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing” 🙂 you can have a look at: https://deepanilamani.com/

“It is all free”. You can “Take print outs” “share and or pass it on also” for others who can benefit from this article and all the other posts ❤

Thank You for Reading what I have written ❤ Lots of Love and Hugs from Me ❤

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Thanking for the posts taken from the I net and https://www.online-image-editor.com/ for the Picture Quotes done by me ❤

Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies coming Your way ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You <

Deepa 1Deepa Nilamani ❤

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Forgiveness in Healing!

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Hope all of you are enjoy reading what I write and learning something from them too. This is an important topic that I overlooked in writing regarding healing, because when we need to heal we need to let go of all the past hurts as holding on to those negative feelings blocks new and Positive feelings coming into our minds!!!

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In life we all get hurt in many situations. This can be from those whom we love and care or even complete strangers. Whoever it may be, if we become subject to unkindness, cruelty or injustice we do get hurt and upset. In these times some will get highly angry, offended or annoyed in return, and there can be strong arguments and clashes, and they will completely keep away or cut them out of their lives. Some will get hurt but will not respond, but that doesn’t mean it doesn’t affect them. So, people must Think before they speak!

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Sometimes people intentionally do things to spoil our lives, that we are do not detect at that time. These are not relevant only to those with mental issues but for everyone. These are the hurts some people cause on others. And they can be the very acts, that if they happen continuously for another person to upset them. Ultimately, “The truth surfaces like oil in the water” and those who do mischief get exposed, and they are unable to face the society the world.  I know for so many these are things they have faced in life and forgiveness is a major issue. Which do you choose? Which gives You more peace of mind ? As the ultimate goal in life is to be at Peace, Joy and Happiness!

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What I have realized is, “To truly Forgive one has to be really mature and wise” Because it is through the eyes of wisdom you see who people are. Those who harm and hurt others, “Do not have this wisdom” They are not aware that we are all part of The Universe. That there is a ripple effect just like when we do something good”. Also, “What goes around comes around” Be it according to Buddhism, Christianity or any other religion it is said that by harming others you harm yourself. If someone really understands this will they do it? I don’t think so. They are in the dark. They are ignorant. This is the time it is said, “Ignorance is evil” So only the “Wise and the mature people understand this”!!!

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It is the weak people who holds grudges. As sometimes just like those who do cruel acts purposely. In life there can be so many complicated situations that sometimes things happen so quickly even before you know and some have got offended or angry without knowing the real reasons. This is why human beings have a brain, a mind to think, to fathom and analyse before jumping into conclusions. People are so hasty and act without thinking that other people also are like them. If human beings develop, “Empathy” Forgiveness would not be such a big problem as people will not resort to harm and hurt others.!!!
As so many others, I too have gone through a difficult journey. Maybe for some it would have been less or more. Its a wonder as in few minutes it would be 13th October in Australia, and I would have completed 8 years since migrating. Through time I believe I have become much wiser. As with each challenge I have become stronger” I have overcome the low moods and come a very long way. I have completely turned around and now looking forwards in starting again the next chapter. Ending this topic, I was thinking about this one day when I woke up, and these words came into my mind!

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Which is very true. I have learnt a lot through my experiences and when we live with Loving Kindness our hearts become pure, and we become peaceful. There is a long way to go, as every ending is another beginning, and I look forward to my next chapter 🙂

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The old Topics are, “On The Left Hand side “Under the, “Recent Posts” with “The New Topics adding up. “It will be too long to post so many numbers of posts on the side. You can “Click and see all the older Topics” “Under “ARCHIVES” and “Under CATERGORIES” Try “To Move around the site and find. “That is also “Part of Educating Yourself further”. So far, I have Not seen any other site post so much clearly ❤

“I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy in to My Hands” since “Beginning of 2016”. “All my Hard work and Praying has been rewarded. Healing Energy can go to others where ever it is needed to be received with a Clear Mind and Lot of Loving Kindness” ❤

So, I have been updating almost all my posts naturally as, this is “A New Chapter and A New Beginning” Upgrading Myself to A New Wavelength. A New Chapter in My Life and I Wish so for You also. Please click this Link which will take You to My Birthday Post Birthday!

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What I am doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and Writing My Own Journey of Healing in Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy in this Post, and if You click on this Link in Green, You can read this Post about: The Therapists Voice Forward!

The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts which you will be able to find more information and pronunciation”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing” 🙂 you can have a look at: https://deepanilamani.com/

“It is all free”. You can “Download ~ Take print outs” “share and or pass it on also” for others who can benefit from this article and all the other posts. Lots of Love and Hugs from Me ❤

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Thanking for the pictures and quotes from https://www.facebook.com/RawFor/ and the I net ❤

Many Blessings of Love, Light and healing Energies from me to You ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa 100Deepa Nilamani 🙂

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