Bullying!

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I do Hope All of You are in Good Health and Trying to manage “To keep yourself Positive and Motivated as Best as possible in these trying times”. As All of you are aware I had started on “My Mission on “Mental Wellness!
1).https://iammypath.com/2021/08/10/my-mission-stigma-1/
2) https://iammypath.com/2018/06/05/end-the-stigma-discrimination-stops-with-you/
3).https://iammypath.com/2018/06/10/end-the-stigma/

I am writing this post, after 6 years of writing, and to have built up such big numbers of Followers and Websites.

What Is Bullying: Bullying is unwanted, aggressive behavior among people that involves a real or perceived power imbalance. The behavior is repeated, or has the potential to be repeated, over time. People who bully others may have Serious Mental Problems!

Types of Bullying There are three types of bullying:

Verbal bullying is. Verbal bullying includes:
Teasing
Name-calling.
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  • Social bullying, sometimes referred to as relational bullying, involves hurting someone’s reputation or relationships. Social bullying includes:
    Spreading rumors about someone
  • Embarrassing someone in public.


Why Some People Bully:
Children and teenagers who feel secure and supported by their family, school, and peers are less likely to bully. However, Every individual is unique and there are many factors that can contribute to bullying behavior. People who bullies may experience one, several, or none of these contributing factors. Bullying can affect everyone—those who are bullied, those who bully, and those who witness bullying. Bullying is linked to many negative outcomes including impacts on mental health.

Family factors: Some who bully:

  • come from families where there is bullying, aggression, or violence at home.
  • may have parents and caregivers that do not provide emotional support or communication.
  • may have parents or caregivers who respond in an authoritarian or reactive way.
  • may come from families where the adults are overly lenient or where there is low parental involvement in their lives.

Emotional factors: People who bully: may have been bullied in the past or currently.
have feelings of insecurity and low self-esteem, so they bully to make themselves feel more powerful.
do not understand other’s emotions.

  • don’t know how to control their emotions, so they take out their feelings on other people.
  • may not have skills for handling social situations in healthy, positive ways.

Every person involved in bullying – as a target, a bystander, or as one who does the bullying. People who bully may also need support to help them address their behavior. Mental health professionals can work with people who bully to help them learn new social and emotional skills. Bullying is a behavior that can be changed?

Peer factors: Some People bully:

  • to attain or maintain social power or to elevate their status in their peer group.
  • to show their allegiance to and fit in with their peer group.
  • to exclude others from their peer group, to show who is and is not part of the group.
  • to control the behavior of their peers.

Bystanders: People who witness bullying are more likely to:
Have increased use of tobacco, alcohol, or other drugs
Have increased mental health problems, including depression and anxiety.

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Back Pain!

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Hoping all of you are keeping well and managing to get on with Your Lives in Good Health and in Peace. These days the on going Health issue is causing much stress and also people working from home and not much relaxation or exercises seems to result in aches in the body mainly Neck, Shoulder and Back aches. That I thought of writing about it!

How Anxiety Causes Back Pain: And How to Stop It

  • Anxiety, especially chronic anxiety, commonly leads to back pain
  • Muscle tension may be the primary cause, but there are other supplementary anxiety symptoms that could also cause back pain
  • Simple lifestyle changes can reduce some of the back pain
  • One simple change: posture, which can be affected by anxiety in several ways
  • Eliminating back pain from anxiety, specifically, traditionally requires anxiety treatments

Low Back Pain

Also known as: lumbagoPain or ache in the lower region of the back, varying in intensity.

  • Pronunciation: Lumbago /lʌmˈbeɪɡoʊ/
  • Usual onset: 20 to 40 years of age
  • Duration: 65% get better in 6 weeks
  • Types: Acute (less than 6 weeks), sub-chronic (6 to 12 weeks), chronic (more than 12 weeks)
  • Frequency: 25% in any given month

Common causes

Low back pain is not always related to an underlying condition. It may be caused by:

  • Lifting heavy objects
  • Sudden jerks in a motor vehicle
  • Excessive strain on the muscle due to prolonged sitting or wrong positioning while sleeping
  • Prolonged use of high heel shoes
  • Also common during pregnancy, before/during menstruation

Treatment

Self-treatment: Self- care steps that may be helpful in some less- serious cases:

  • Apply muscle relaxant ointments or sprays
  • Try resting the back for a while
  • Avoid heavy physical activities for couple of days
  • Apply heat or cold compress – depending on what soothes the body
  • Try over the counter pain relievers.
  • Avoid jerky or painful movements
  • Observe the pain location and intensity, whether the pain is constant or appears during certain activities like bending, stretching and such

See a doctor if you notice:

  • Persistent pain for over 72 hours
  • Recurrent pain
  • Spreading of pain to other regions like leg, arms or neck
  • Difficulty sleeping, sitting or disturbance in daily activities

See a doctor immediately if you notice:

  • Severe and unbearable pain
  • Injury
  • Other symptoms like fatigue, fever etc

Back pain is one of the most common reasons people go to the doctor or miss work, and it is a leading cause of disability worldwide. Back pain can range from a muscle aching. In addition, the pain may radiate down your leg or worsen with bending, twisting, lifting, standing or walking. Fortunately, you can take measures to prevent or relieve most back pain episodes. If prevention fails, simple home treatment and proper body mechanics often will heal your back within a few weeks and keep it functional.
Back pain includes lower back pain, middle back pain, upper back pain or low back pain with sciatica. Nerve and muscular problems. Back pain symptoms may be relived with pain medication.

Lower left back pain is a condition that affects many people – young and old. Very often, lower back pain affects just one side of your body and can cause discomfort ranging from mild aches to agonizing sharp pain. Lower back pain is also called lumbago because it causes discomfort in your lumbar region or lower back. This is the area in your lower back that is above your hips and below the bottom of your back rib cage. Muscle injury, nerve damage can all result in pain in the lower left back side.

What is sciatica?

Back pain includes lower back pain, middle back pain, upper back pain or low back pain with sciatica. Nerve and muscular problems. Back pain symptoms may be relived with pain medication. Sciatica is a condition that can lead to pain in the back and legs. It occurs when pain travels along the path of the sciatic nerve. This nerve starts in the lower spine, and travels through the hip and buttock and down the back of the leg to the foot. There are a range of different causes of sciatica. In most cases, the condition gets better over time, either on its own or with treatment.

Back pain and stress. We typically talk about back pain as mid-back and low-back pain. Over time, both affect your posture and the way you walk, which can lead to pain in the hips, knees, and feet. Mid-back pain includes muscles that are affected by breathing, including the chest and shoulder muscles. When you’re stressed, your breathing patterns change and cause strain and tension in the mid-back.

Risk factors

Anyone can develop back pain, even children and teens. These factors might put you at greater risk of developing back pain:

  • Age. Back pain is more common as you get older, but young people also can get it.
  • Lack of exercise. Weak, unused muscles in your back and abdomen might lead to back pain.
  • Excess weight. Excess body weight puts extra stress on your back.
  • Diseases. Some can contribute to back pain.
  • Improper lifting. Using your back instead of your legs can lead to back pain.
  • Psychological conditions. People prone to depression and anxiety appear to have a risk of back pain.
  • Smoking. Smokers have increased rates of back pain. This may occur because smoking prompts more coughing.

Prevention

You might avoid back pain or prevent its recurrence by improving your physical condition and learning and practicing proper body mechanics.

To keep your back healthy and strong:

  • Exercise. Regular low-impact aerobic activities — those that don’t strain or jolt your back — can increase strength and endurance in your back and allow your muscles to function better. Walking and swimming are good choices. Talk with your doctor about which activities you might try.
  • Build muscle strength and flexibility. Abdominal and back muscle exercises, which strengthen your core, help condition these muscles so that they work together like a naturally for your back.
  • Maintain a healthy weight. Being overweight strains back muscles. If you’re overweight, trimming down can prevent back pain.

Avoid movements that twist or strain your back. Use your body properly:

  • Stand smart. Don’t slouch. Maintain a neutral pelvic position. If you must stand for long periods, place one foot on a low footstool to take some of the load off your lower back. Alternate feet. Good posture can reduce the stress on back muscles.
  • Sit smart. Choose a seat with good lower back support, armrests and a swivel base. Placing a pillow or rolled towel in the small of your back can maintain its normal curve. Keep your knees and hips level. Change your position frequently, at least every half-hour.
  • Lift smart. Avoid heavy lifting, if possible, but if you must lift something heavy, let your legs do the work. Keep your back straight — no twisting — and bend only at the knees. Hold the load close to your body. Find a lifting partner if the object is heavy or awkward.

The media at the present times also so full of the same topic. So if you have done what is necessary to keep yourself safe as much as possible, “It is good to keep away from unnecessary Reading and watching the same thing” See the picture post below:

Latest Update Today is Saturday 9th October 2021: This is “The 163rd Post” and with the “Introductory Page this will be all in Total up to date, 164 posts.

On Top Right Hand side you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, You will see will see The word “Home” You will see, “All the posts that has been published in the First half, as well as included in The Menu as: The posts that has been Published ~ 1! and, The Posts That has Been Published ~ 2! Also
The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

The old Topics are, “On The Left Hand side “Under the, “Recent Posts” with “The New Topics adding up. You can “Click and see all The older Topics” “Under “Archives” and “Under Categories” ❤

I am still “My Healthy self” and Writing “My Own Journey on Wellness and Healing”. So that Everyone can have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” To Lead a Better Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy”. If you click on the Link You can Read This Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to other different posts of Mine which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am up to during my spare time you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/

If you want to contact me by post, write to; Deepa Nilamani, 65/110-114 Johnson Street, Hillcrest, Queensland 4118, Brisbane, Australia. Remember “You have to send it “” Air Mail to come through Planes, otherwise it can come by Sea Mail from ships which will take very long”

You have to give Your correct Postal Address so that you receive to you itself 

September 28th, 2024, soon after My Grandfathers 135th Birthday Celebration, I have been informed that Assets has been released so that I have enough Money to” Carry on My Wish of Giving or sending Gifts All over the World under the “Wishing Star Foundation ~ Gifts!

It is all free”. You can share and pass it on also for others who can benefit from this post. I hope All those who Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so as, ”Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in Life” ❤

Thanking The I net for some of the information and pictures I have shared ❤

Sending Love, Light and Healing Energies Your Way ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa Nilamani 🙂

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Sixth Year Anniversary!

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Hello to all My Readers and Followers. I hope all of you are keeping well. I am Celebrating “The 6th Year on this Blog” and looking back I see how much I have learnt also, advanced myself over this period. One thing what we all can do is to, “Learn and Advance our knowledge as we move forward. Thanking All The Readers and The Websites “For Liking and Reading and commenting” and Appreciating All what I write and post 🙂


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I am Very Grateful to https://wordpress.org/about/ for All their Support and Encouragement for enabling me to Enlighten so many on Life, Health and Healing matters. Also for making it possible, “For me to be able to write and pass on, “My Knowledge and Experiences” for others to Benefit!

Latest Update: Today is Thursday 8th of September 2021: This is “The 294th Post” and with the “Introductory Page this will be all in Total up to date, 295 posts.

On Top Right Hand side you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, You will see will see The word “Home” All the posts from “The Very Beginning comes ~ Under “Home”. Which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing

The old Topics are, “On The Left Hand side “Under the, “Recent Posts” with “The New Topics adding up. You can “Click and see all The older Topics” “Under “Archives” and “Under Categories”!

I am still “My Healthy self” and Writing “My Own Journey on Wellness and Healing”. So that Everyone can have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” To Lead a Better Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy”. If you click on the Link You can Read This Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

The Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to other different posts of Mine which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am up to during my spare time you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/ 🙂

It is all free”. You can share and pass it on also for others who can benefit from this post. I hope All those who Read will be able to make the maximum use of all what I post and write to make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so as, ”Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in Life” ❤

Thanking The I net for the pictures and https://www.online-image-editor.com/ ❤

Sending Love, Light and Healing Energies Your Way ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa Nilamani 🙂


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My New Mission After Stigma!

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I hope as usual all of you are keeping in Good Health as much as possible. Now that I have started My Mission, “Working towards Mental Wellness openly. “Because I Care Very Much for The Good Health and to Work to Prevent Stigma and Discrimination” ❤


“I feel I will be getting more opportunities in the future to work in Other ways to spread My Knowledge and Experiences” At this time I don’t exactly know how and when, “So I am going to Publish this post and “Keep filling up at a later date” 🙂

Instead, September 28th 2024 after My Grandfather’s 135th Birth Anniversary I have got A more Pleasant My small time wish on Sending Gifts All over the, World So I am going on My Wish Happiness and Joy 🙂
Starlight ~ Gifts!

Out with the old and In comes the New. Stigma has been mostly gone 🙂

12th October 2021: So far, I have not seen any new ventures. So, want to move on. Still have the balance decluttering bits and tidying and arranging the house, with what is there and also with Spring, needs are changing. The shops have put out Christmas trees and still putting things out everything thing to do with Christmas. So, giving a break to writing here (unless there is a Topic I come across or A need” and getting on with finishing up with arranging the house and also getting ready for Christmas. They are not expensive things as I believe it’s a “Time of giving and Sharing” as especially now Things people need are even more with the ongoing Health issues!

The Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing” during my spare time you can have a look at: https://deepanilamani.com/

If you want to contact me by post, write to; Deepa Nilamani, 65/110-114 Johnson Street, Hillcrest, Queensland 4118, Brisbane, Australia. Remember “You have to send it “” Air Mail to come through Planes, otherwise it can come by Sea Mail from ships which will take very long”

You have to give Your correct Postal Address so that you receive to you itself ❤

September 28th, 2024, soon after My Grandfathers 135th Birthday Celebration, I have been informed that Assets has been released so that I have enough Money to” Carry on My Wish of Giving or sending Gifts All over the World under the “Wishing Star Foundation ~ Gifts!

You have to also give some idea what you need and the ages and if it’s a boy or a girl. When you write as much as possible: even if I send Money if you are not able to buy. Like food: Chocolates or things like clothes as much as you can so that I know what and how it is possible to send exactly

Thanking the I net for the Pictures and Picture Quotes ❤

Sending Love Light and Healing Energies to you ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa Nilamani ❤

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