Dealing with Those who Don’t Understand You!

Hello to, All My Dear Readers Followers and Blogging Friends ❤

Thanking all those who read my articles and comment, like and follow my blog. Hope all of you are keeping well and finding what I write useful in some way to further enhance and advance your life ❤

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I don’t know if this topic is relevant to everyone, but We all know that mental illnesses are not recognized and understood, even by some of the so-called educated people. Why I say, “so called educated people” is, if people are really educated, then they cannot be ignorant of the fact that mind becomes ill just like the body. As where is the mind? In the body! Then how can mind not become unwell? Then why does mental illnesses are not understood?

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It is well known that world over sad moods (over long term are named as depression) is a serious issue threatening the future. The world Health Organization has stated that depression will be the biggest cause of health burden by 2030. So many kind and compassionate people are working, fighting to ease this problem in various fields, not only in the field of medicine. Communities have got together as groups, clubs to work towards helping in healing through hobbies, sports, physical and many mental therapeutic activities as well ❤

Wellness 2What I am doing also here in my blog is, in a small way is contributing my knowledge and experiences towards those who can make use of them to know that they also can control and recover enough to be well and lead a normal and happy life. It is to show by example, “To give Faith and Hope” to become well and Happy ❤

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But as life has it, I am having to deal with an issue of, not only of ignorance but, “Knowingly trying to disturb me” In these circumstances what would you do? Do you think it is a kind and compassionate thing to do to another human being who has gone through such an ordeal through years and lifted her head up, and now is working towards the benefit of others, quietly with no harm or disturbance to anyone? What motive and mind set do you think this type of people have? As in the society there are many types of destructive people. How do you deal with them?

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At the present stage of my life, I have learnt to take them as, challenges. We do face challenges from time to time, but we can deal with them in many ways. Overcoming long term sadness/depression is not a small task, that shows, “Strength, Courage and Patience”, and above all Faith in the Powers above. I pray for good health, in happiness, thankfulness and gratitude, daily morning and night, for myself and others also ❤

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There is no way that negativity can bring down the positivity. Dharma, Righteousness does always overcome evil. The meaning of Light actually is “Enlightenment” It is Knowledge that Helps to overcome the Ignorance. My name by birth itself is, “Light” negativity can never affect me. It is a Lion himself who named me, “Light” and, his spirit is guiding me. I lead my life in accordance with, “The Laws of The Universe” ❤

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I adhere to to the correct principles in life. I give. I donate. I share what I have with anyone. Even this blog is giving and sharing, as I am sharing my knowledge and life experiences with others. “It is the gift of knowledge that brings the Highest Blessings according to Buddhism”. So how can those who are morally deteriorated, put me down or anyone else who lives according to the “Laws of The Universe” for that matter. “Do Not, ever get discouraged or let anyone put you down for no reason” Take every experience, as a challenge, to gain strength, courage and confidence and to achieve your goals and Win ❤

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I have found that, these are things that happen in the society not only to me but some others too, these are things we all face in life from time to time. Some do not want others to rise up. Sadly they don’t know that helping another is helping themselves also. In giving you receive. In blessing you are blessed. What goes around comes around. They are “The laws of The Universe” that applies to all. Abiding by them, “The Universe Guides, Help and Supports us 🙂

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Latest Update December 2019: The Posts have gone up to 100. I am in Good Health and as, “I have been able to, “Develop Healing Energy into My Hands” since “Beginning of 2016” I have added that as an update in all my posts. This is Ending of 2019 and going on to Year 2020. “A Beginning of, A New Year”. “Upgrading Myself to A New Wavelength ~ A New Chapter in My Life ❤

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On Top Right Hand side you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, You will see will see The word “Home” And then “All the 100 posts from “The Beginning to the end is shown”, and You can follow from The first post to The latest one Methodically Under which is also The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

The older Topics “On the Left-Hand side “Under Recent Posts Archives and Categories” with “The New Topics adding up” Happy Reading ❤

And what I am doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Writing My Journey on Wellness in Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy. And if You click on this Link in Green, you can read this Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts which you will be able to find more information and Pronunciation”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am up to” 🙂 you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/

“It is all free”. You can “Download ~ Take print outs” “share and or pass it on also” for others who can benefit from this article and all the other posts ❤

Thanking for the picture quotes taken from the I net https://www.online-image-editor.com/ for the picture quotes I have done myself ❤

Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies to All ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa 1Deepa Nilamani 🙂

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New Beginnings!

Hello To All My Dear Followers, Readers and Blogging Friends ❤

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To give you an update of my life since I finally came to settle down here is Aussie. I completed eight years yesterday and looking back I have come a very long way. It is Not talking big but, letting you know how much I have achieved, so that those of you who are reading, get inspired and get Hope, that you too can overcome by working towards getting well. My main reason for doing this blog. And Now I am Moving on To A Brand New Future 🙂

A 28My low moods have disappeared completely, and I have been able to Receive “The Gift of Healing” as well.. Its quite a feat as I was going through it for quite some time. I have worked in TAFE as an ESL volunteer tutor for almost 5 years during that period, done some studies and now continuing with the “Diploma in Psychology, Psychotherapy and Counselling” and I have also completed 2 years writing in here, and today I was looking at the past articles and saw how much my writing has improved, along with my mood as well 🙂

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Journaling or writing in anyway is very helpful as, it helps to put our minds in order. When we write we are able to understand so many things that are working in our minds that we were not aware!!!

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Journaling is: writing down your thoughts and feelings to understand them more clearly. And if you struggle with stress, depression, or anxiety, keeping a journal can help you gain control of your emotions and improve your mental health ~ The I net.

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“Life works in a pattern we all know that the seasons come one after the other every year the same pattern, everyday the sun comes up in the morning and goes down in the evening and so on. So as we are all part of “The Universe”, and all of us fall under the same laws. And once we have done everything possible ~ we need to have Patience for them to work in its own way ~ In the Natural Order” We can also describe it as, “Going with the flow of life” ❤

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Prayers or and meditation also helps in relaxation and to calm the mind, as well as gaining  wisdom which is the most important thing, to understand the process of life more clearly. Actually “When it comes to me it is through intense prayers and meditation that has brought me to this  stage of maturity”, where I have come to understand many things in life and moved on to a complete different wave length from where I have been ~ which is the main reason for my almost complete recovery. But it can be other ways also  according to each person’s Personality. It is something that all can achieve to some extent. As this is a matter of changing one’s vibrations or energy.

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“This has to be done with, great Dedication Sacrifice and Persistence, long term”. As changing one’s energy or vibrations is a slow process and happens in a very delicate way, along with acts of offering merit to those who guide and protect you along the way”. This is the value of the human being as we have choices and able to know and learn how to become well or get over difficulties!

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Many do not think or understand this although they have studied science. Well even I have studied physics, but that was when I was very young and I didn’t know all this at that age. Everyone knows that in any religion, prayers are being said to heal the sick, so “Prayers are all Good Vibrations”, which somehow with faith helps that person to feel better or sometimes completely recover. I have these experiences but it’s only very few who knows or believe that. As it is a, “Very Long process which I have done over time as I said before, with “Great Dedication and Sacrifice” One has to learn everything possible to move on to the next level. At this stage of my life, knowing who I am, and what I have become is enough for me 🙂

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I do not have that need to prove it to anyone. For those of you who believe in Energy, This will be in my blog, spreading Good Energy constantly, for Good Health, Happiness and Prosperity. Just click anytime and take it in with a Good Heart ~ Loving Kindness. Concentrate on it and feel or imagine positive energy flowing into you, cleansing you of the negativity, Healing and bringing you Peace and Happiness ❤

Although I have said that, “I do not have to prove it to anyone”, as most of you do not know me personally, “The Healing Gift I have received is from My Grandfather”. So please click on this Link, Both My Great Grand Father and My Grand Father’s details can be seen: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/G._P._Wickramarachchi

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Concentrate on it or close your eyes whichever way You feel like doing, and “Feel Healing Energy flowing into You”, Cleansing you of any worries, negativity that You may have, or any of Your Issues that needs Healing”. To “Give You Strength and Courage and Renew Your Hopes” that will bring “You Good Health, Prosperity, Happiness and Joy, and Peace” which “We All seek as The Ultimate Goal in Our Lives” ❤ 

Latest Update 6th March 2020: Up to date with the Birthday article 111th and The Introductory page I have Published 112 posts. On Top Right Hand side you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, you will see the word “Home” Which is The Introductory Page: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

“I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy in to My Hands” since “Beginning of 2016”. All my Hard work and Praying has been rewarded. Healing Energy can go to others wherever it is needed to be received with a Clear Mind and Lot of Loving Kindness” ❤

So “I have been Editing and Updating almost All the Posts from The Very Beginning” This is My Birthday and, “A New Chapter and A New Beginning”. Upgrading Myself to A New Wavelength ~ A New Chapter in My Life and I Wish so for You also. Please click this Link which will take You to The Birthday Post: Birthday!

And what I am doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Moving forward Writing My Own Journey of Wellness in Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy. In this Post, if You click on this Link in Green, You can read this Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts which you will be able to find more information”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am up to” 🙂 you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/

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Thank You for Reading. Was going to write a short update and gone on writing without my knowledge. Hope you liked what I wrote. “As usual You may Share or Pass it on, take Print outs or Download for Free”, for yourself and even others also who can learn and benefit from what I have written ❤

Thanking Wikipedia: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/G._P._Wickramarachchi for the Link and the posts taken from the I net, you tube and https://www.online-image-editor.com/ for the Pictures done by me ❤

I wish you Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies. Peace and Happiness ❤

May God’s Blessing Be Upon You ❤

Deepa 1Deepa Nilamani ❤

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The Journey called Life!

Hello To All My Dear Readers Followers and Blogging Friends ❤

First of all Thank you all for reading, commenting and following my blog. Please excuse me, as sometimes I don’t interact with all of you as I should, as sometimes I get very busy trying to catch up with my studies. There is much reference to do and also lot to concentrate and take in, that I go well past midnight, and some days, wee hours in the morning when others are going to work 🙂

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It is two years since I started this blog and I have gone through massive changes. From beginning of this year, it has been like a roller coaster, changes from one to another which is sort of settling down now, but we never know when the next wave will come. Life is such that so much get changed almost daily and if there is not changes how boring life would be also, isn’t it ?

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I like changes as with changes old things and even people that are no longer in the same wave length, us move away making room for the new that resonates with our new self, with our new energy patterns and vibrations. We are all energy, and all the time our energy levels are changing according to how we live ❤

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This process happens to all of us. Those who accept and embrace change grow and move on to higher wave lengths to lead better lives. Those who do not accept change, face lot of pain. As it’s in moving away that will free up space in our lives and bring new people and new things, that are really meant for us to have and enjoy to lead a happy life. “As long as you hold on to people and things that are not meant for you, you will be unhappy ~ Why things go wrong is, because all those people and things will have energy that go against you, bringing disharmony to themselves and you”!

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When there are problems in your life, look carefully and study the situation, because you will find that you are in a place or with people that do not resonate or belong with, that is causing all that stress  and unhappiness. This can be a work place, a home or anywhere. One may ask about things. Yes even things that are classified as not having life, have energy/vibrations.

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Those who are aware of energy vibrations know that they cannot just wear any colour or even someone else’s things/clothes. This is because colours absorb different energy from the sun and certain vibrations does not agree with everyone’s physical energy!

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If you think carefully, you will understand now, if you have not realized before. We all have out own favourite colours, styles and textures, foods everything unique to each other isn’t it ? This is because our energy in the body is all unique to each other 🙂

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Sometimes when things are not going well we make changes ourselves but when changes happen against our wishes they upset us. Some time back, some sentimental things were taken away without my knowledge. They were of no value to anyone else but me, and I was upset why it had happened. I took comfort knowing that, “The truth like oil rises to the top one day, and it will be the person who robbed them who will face the consequences” and I need to move on. “Although they were precious, they were my past.

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I had NOW, the present moment, and I can have new memories and happy ones. The moment I realized the truth, there was a change the next day itself. It was almost as if the day was different, “New colours A new life” 🙂

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Slowly life has begun to take a new turn. Still the the new has to get used to as so many changes come with them with “My Praying” By realizing and changing the situation for the better, I was able to move on to “A Brand New Future” 🙂

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I found I needed ‘New Things with softer materials and colours”, and have been clearing and donating. I have always been giving away but this time it was different. I found I had to go in for a different wrist watch also. “With Prayers and all the Good things I have done, my life was turning in the right way, “My Receiving The Gift of Healing” 😀

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It’s said both in psychology books and in the healing process that, we need to make changes for the better. I am an inborn giver and compassionate. It is said that, there are many lessons to learn. We learn as we go along in life. So from what I have gone through my understanding and feelings have deepened and intensified to the extent that I have begun to receive healing energy to my hands during the times I pray and also when I feel very deeply towards others ❤

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From the day we are born we go through a very long journey. We have to take risks as we are not all knowing. Life is trial and error too. But what matters is we learn from the mistakes, from others and by ourselves. The whole world, The vast universe is open to all offering knowledge and guidance, for us to become good human beings ourselves and to others, and be of value as good citizens to the world. As, if You learnt your lessons well and lived in loving kindness, You will end up like valuable diamonds. A light that will light other’s paths 🙂

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From all what I have gone through so far, I ask for strength and courage from, “The Higher Powers, The Universe” for me to be able to do so, and for guidance along the path of healing 🙂

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All the experiences, good and bad have taught me to have “Patience, Tolerance and above all forgiveness”. Now at this time of my life, I feel Blessed as what ever material things I have lost, I have something that money cannot buy nor can anyone take away from me. It is something I have earned. Through hard work, sacrifices, sharing and giving, loving kindness and above all being truthful and honest. The Powers, The Gifts, The Energies are all open for everyone according to their own “Purpose of their Lives” as all are part of The Universe.

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But some try to take shortcuts which doesn’t work. You have to take the full journey, cross all rivers, climb all mountains, do what ever “Call of duty to fall in line with, “The Universal Energy which is also called Healing or Pranic energy”!

In a way the saying, “Truth like oil rises to the top” has come true as so many wrong things were said about me in the past and I have been praying and living my life as who I am knowing, some day the truth will be known. And so it has. Receiving energy from above, or connecting to “The energies of The Universe”, one has to be pure. Its proof. No one can tarnish anyone’s character. Defamation of character is  a very negative and harmful way of thinking. In the end life balances. “Honesty wins and Truth rises up Boldly to Justify all wrong doings”!

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I am in Good Health and as, “I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy in to My Hands” since “Beginning of 2016”. All my Hard work and Praying has been rewarded. Healing Energy can go to others where ever it is needed to be received with a Loving Kindness” even You ❤

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So I am Updating and Editing almost all my posts naturally as, This is “A New Chapter and A New Beginning”. Upgrading Myself to A New Wave Length. A New Chapter in My Life and I Wish so for You also. Please click this Link which will take You to My Birthday Post Birthday!

 The older Topics “On The Left Hand side Under the “Recent Posts, Archives and Categories” with “The New Topics adding up. Happy Reading ❤

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And what I am doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and Writing My Own Journey in Wellness in Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy in this Post, and if You click on this Link in Green You can read this Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to my other websites which you will be able to find more information ”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing” 🙂 you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/  ❤

“It is all free”. You can “Download. Take print outs” “share and pass it on also” for others who can benefit from this article and All the other posts ❤

Thanking for the posts taken from the I net and other websites and Free Online Image Editor (online-image-editor.com)  For the Posts written by me ❤

Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies coming Your way ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa 1Deepa Nilamani 🙂

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Life’s Lessons!

Hello To, All My Dear Readers Followers and Blogging Friends ❤

Thanking all those who commented in support and encouragement regarding my last article. Almost all of us know that life is not a straight road, that we go through challenges to overcome them and become stronger to go to that next level ❤

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However its not all who are aware of this or understand and, among us there are many types of people, good and the bad, kind and unkind, that we need to learn how to deal with them in order to be able to lead our lives peacefully. Regarding the issue what was done to confuse me, I have prayed You are Stronger than You Think!, read and then turned to the wise for guidance. The advice I got is, “To safeguard Yourself from further issues and ensure they cannot do anymore harm. And so I have!!!

From the many books and articles, I read and together with my experiences, all this is to do with, “The laws of The Universe”. In life there are rules to it, that is where religion comes in. Religion is all about how to be a good law-abiding person, and for that we have to abide by the rules of humanity. We are all connected by “The Universal Energy” and what we send out, even in words and thoughts, good or bad comes back ❤

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This is how Healing Energies Healing ~ Basic Steps! and Blessings works, even long distance ❤

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If one is purely on the mental level ~ not aware how life works, they keep on doing the wrong things. But if one is developed spiritually, one is aware, doing something wrong to another brings harm to them and correct the next time. What goes around comes around!

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In life from time-to-time people need advice, guidance, not only if something goes wrong but even to do the right things, to make a change, to start something new, there so many things that we need another person’s Guidance. Of course, it has to be the correct person with the correct knowledge who will give you the proper advice. But it’s not always people have someone around, and even then, we also need to think for ourselves what is best for us. Because it is only, we who really know who we are and know what will suit us the best. At these times, I turn to prayers and meditation. I pray daily and have great faith, and I always get relief and guidance through prayers. You can click this Link in “My website here to go to “Read This Post”  The Power of Prayer! 

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As we know, however you believe in, be it “Almighty God, The Universe”, guidance, answers come through in various ways. While I prayed, I Have Prayed For You! suddenly this quote came into my mind ❤

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I hope you enjoyed reading and found something worthwhile for yourself too. Not everything is relevant for everyone. It all depends on each individual’s personality and of course the current status of your life. Independence can be taken in many ways. It is Not for all to live alone. Being independent is, not to be too attached ❤

I am in Good Health and as, “I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy into My Hands” since “Beginning of 2016”.  All my Hard work and Praying has been rewarded. Healing Energy can go to others wherever it is needed to be received with a Clear Mind and a Lot of Loving Kindness” ❤

So I have been editing and updating almost all the posts. Its A New Chapter in My Life and I Wish so for You also. Please click this Link which will take You to My Birthday Post Birthday!

The older Topics “On the Left-Hand side, Under the “Recent Posts” and Archives and Categories with “The New Topics adding up. Happy Reading ❤

And what I am doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Moving forward Writing My Own Journey in Wellness. Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy in this Post, and if You click on this Link in Green, You can read this Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts which you will be able to find more information”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing” 🙂 you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/  ❤

“It is all free”. You can “Download ~ Take print outs” “share and pass it on also” for others who can benefit from this article and all the other posts ❤

Thanking The I net for the posts shared and https://www.online-image-editor.com/ for the picture posts written by me ❤

Sending Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies coming Your way ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa 100Deepa Nilamani 🙂

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