Category: Psychology

Freedom ~ In Healing!

Hello To, All My Dear Readers Followers and Blogging Friends ❤

Hope all of you are well and happy. Thank you to all those who read my articles, like and follow the blog. Most of all a very big Thank You to those who take their time to leave a comment in appreciation or saying how and what they feel about the topic. This is very valuable as, each person look at life matters in a different way and we all can learn from another’s point of view 🙂

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Freedom in Healing is very important. Why? This is because we need to feel free to be ourselves to relax. Freedom is our right, and no one can take it away. This is one issue that people have that they cannot say, or do the things they like which makes them stressed and unhappy. As long as we are doing the right thing, we do not have to worry about what other’s think, as whatever good or bad there will be some who will always criticize or find fault. This takes time as we need to realize this and be strong and brave to go on with our lives to live the way that is most agreeable to us 🙂

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To attain freedom there are many things we can and need to do. We need to let go of those unnecessary things and people that are binding us to the past or even the present, that stresses us and disturb our lives. We need to prioritize and have what is only needed for a peaceful and happy life, as having too many things and too many people around really waste our time and energy. As we get caught up with unnecessary talk, and things that does not add any real value to life. Few good people, of family and friends who are able to understand, see your worth and value, love and care for you is all you want ❤

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Latest Update 6th March 2020: Up to date with the Birthday article 111th and I have published 112 posts. On Top Right Hand side you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, You will see The word “Home” All the 111 posts from, The Beginning to the end is shown ~ Below the Home Page”. The Introductory page: Who I am & Why I am Writing! 

I am in Good Health and as, “I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy in to My Hands” since “Beginning of 2016” All my Hard work and Praying has been rewarded. Healing Energy can go to others where ever it is needed to be received with a Clear Mind and Loving Kindness” ❤

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World Kindness Day card. Kindness changes everything ❤

So I have been Editing and Updating all my posts naturally as, This is “A New Chapter and A New Beginning” I am Moving on. I have learnt lot of New Things and Upgrading Myself to A New Wavelength. A New Chapter in My Life and I Wish so for You also. Please click this Link which will take You to My the Birthday Post:  Birthday!

On The Left Hand side The older Topics will be Under “Archives and Categories”, and Under the, “Recent Posts” with “The New Topics adding up. Happy Reading ❤

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And what I am doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Moving forward Telling My Own Journey of Wellness in Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy in this Post, and if You click on this Link in Green You can read this Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts which you will be able to find more information”. I also have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am up to” 🙂 you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani..com

“It is all free”. You can “Download ~ Take print outs” “share and pass it on also” for others who can benefit from this article and All the other posts ❤

Thanking The I net and https://www.online-image-editor.com/ for the posts I have done myself ❤

Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies from me to you ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

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New Changes!

Hello To, All My Dear Readers Followers and Blogging ❤

Hope all of you are well. I have not been here for a while, as I have been busy writing some other articles. So, I am sorry I have not been visiting some of your blogs too. I am re-writing this article as so many have missed the old articles. We are all aware in life every day is not the same. We keep on changing and moving ahead. Even if we do not want to change, we do grow by the day and changes happens, as well as the whole environment changes around us. That is the norm of life. With that there come challenges over and over again for us to learn how to face and overcome them, to become stronger and wiser to move on in life to the next level 🙂

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Once you have overcome a challenge or challenges, you need to learn from them and organize yourself, to make sure the same things do not cause problems again. For this you need to, “Change” the things and people that do not work for you anymore. What it means mostly is, changing and adjusting to those people and situations that you have to live in, to fit in better. Changing is a process. Not only us it happens to animals too. Like reptiles, they too shed their whole length of outer skin from time to time. The eagle sheds all its feathers after 40 years to renews it self for another 30 years. Then why is this, Change become such a difficult process?

Change 2As in Nature, there is always, “A Time for everything”. When people try to change  anything before they are ready only, it becomes difficult” So there is always a, “Time to change” if not it is difficult. But sometimes so happens in life, we do have to change, as we need to move on and there s no need to hold on. And once you accept life becomes much easier and pleasant. As you have less people and things to trouble you unnecessarily!!!

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Then how to make life a little easier for You, living in this complicated world? Well the most important word that comes in is, “To be prepared to change” When we know our work is done and we have to move on. But it is the reality. When people have outgrown you means they have changed their vibrations, hence some of their personality and their energies. So they no longer able to fit in with the same people and doing the same things. All that belongs to another era, which is called by the name, “The Past”!

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Even if it is for the good for us and is very difficult, but sometimes once we do the relief is great. By changing the past you make room for the new to come in, that will ultimately lead you to new places and people whom you fit in better and belong with, to lead much satisfied and happier and fulfilled life 🙂

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Hope you enjoyed reading what I have written, and learnt something to help in your life or even someone else’s life. Knowledge is like ripples that travels over and across lands and seas all over the world bringing everyone closer to share and learn from each other. It is for us to learn how change and letting go helps us to move on to a better level in life. Enjoy 🙂

Latest Update 6th March 2020: Up to date with the Birthday article 111th I have published 112 posts. On Top Right Hand side you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, You will see will see The word “Home” Which is The Introductory Page: Who I am & Why I am Writing! 

The old Topics are, “On The Left Hand side “Under the, “Recent Posts” with “The New Topics adding up. “It will be too long to post so many number of posts on the side. You can “Click and see all The older Topics” “Under “ARCHIVES” and “Under CATERGORIES” Try “To Move around the site and find. “That is also “Part of Educating Yourself further”. So far I have Not seen any other site post so much clearly ❤

“I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy in to My Hands” since “Beginning of 2016”. All my Hard work and Praying has been rewarded. Healing Energy can go to others too, but they have to be to be received with a clear Mind and Loving Kindness” ❤

So I have been editing and updating almost all my posts naturally as, This is “A New Chapter and A New Beginning” I am Upgrading Myself to A New Wave Length. A New Chapter in My Life and I Wish so for You also. Please click this Link which will take You to My Birthday Post: Birthday!❤

And what I am doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Moving forward Telling My Own Story in Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy in this Post, and if You click on this Link in Green You can read this Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts which you will be able to find more information” and even pronunciation. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing” 🙂 you can have a look at: https://deepanilamani.com/ ❤

“It is all free”. You can “Take print outs” “share and or pass it on also” for others who can benefit from this article and all the other posts ❤

Thank You for Reading what I have written ❤ Lots of Love and Hugs from Me ❤

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Thanking for the posts taken from the I net and https://www.online-image-editor.com/ for the Picture Quotes done by me ❤

Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies coming Your way ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You <

Deepa 1Deepa Nilamani ❤

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Forgiveness in Healing!

Hello To, All My Dear Readers Followers Blogging Friends ❤

Hope all of you are enjoy reading what I write and learning something from them too. This is an important topic that I overlooked in writing regarding healing, because when we need to heal we need to let go of all the past hurts as holding on to those negative feelings blocks new and Positive feelings coming into our minds!!!

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In life we all get hurt in many situations. This can be from those whom we love and care or even complete strangers. Whoever it may be, if we become subject to unkindness, cruelty or injustice we do get hurt and upset. In these times some will get highly angry, offended or annoyed in return, and there can be strong arguments and clashes, and they will completely keep away or cut them out of their lives. Some will get hurt but will not respond, but that doesn’t mean it doesn’t affect them. So, people must Think before they speak!

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Sometimes people intentionally do things to spoil our lives, that we are do not detect at that time. These are not relevant only to those with mental issues but for everyone. These are the hurts some people cause on others. And they can be the very acts, that if they happen continuously for another person to upset them. Ultimately, “The truth surfaces like oil in the water” and those who do mischief get exposed, and they are unable to face the society the world.  I know for so many these are things they have faced in life and forgiveness is a major issue. Which do you choose? Which gives You more peace of mind ? As the ultimate goal in life is to be at Peace, Joy and Happiness!

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What I have realized is, “To truly Forgive one has to be really mature and wise” Because it is through the eyes of wisdom you see who people are. Those who harm and hurt others, “Do not have this wisdom” They are not aware that we are all part of The Universe. That there is a ripple effect just like when we do something good”. Also, “What goes around comes around” Be it according to Buddhism, Christianity or any other religion it is said that by harming others you harm yourself. If someone really understands this will they do it? I don’t think so. They are in the dark. They are ignorant. This is the time it is said, “Ignorance is evil” So only the “Wise and the mature people understand this”!!!

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It is the weak people who holds grudges. As sometimes just like those who do cruel acts purposely. In life there can be so many complicated situations that sometimes things happen so quickly even before you know and some have got offended or angry without knowing the real reasons. This is why human beings have a brain, a mind to think, to fathom and analyse before jumping into conclusions. People are so hasty and act without thinking that other people also are like them. If human beings develop, “Empathy” Forgiveness would not be such a big problem as people will not resort to harm and hurt others.!!!
As so many others, I too have gone through a difficult journey. Maybe for some it would have been less or more. Its a wonder as in few minutes it would be 13th October in Australia, and I would have completed 8 years since migrating. Through time I believe I have become much wiser. As with each challenge I have become stronger” I have overcome the low moods and come a very long way. I have completely turned around and now looking forwards in starting again the next chapter. Ending this topic, I was thinking about this one day when I woke up, and these words came into my mind!

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Which is very true. I have learnt a lot through my experiences and when we live with Loving Kindness our hearts become pure, and we become peaceful. There is a long way to go, as every ending is another beginning, and I look forward to my next chapter 🙂

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Latest Update 6th March 2020: Up to date with the Birthday article 111th and have published 112 posts. The Introductory page: All the 111 posts from The Beginning to the end is shown Below the Home Page”. Who I am & Why I am Writing!

The old Topics are, “On The Left Hand side “Under the, “Recent Posts” with “The New Topics adding up. “It will be too long to post so many numbers of posts on the side. You can “Click and see all the older Topics” “Under “ARCHIVES” and “Under CATERGORIES” Try “To Move around the site and find. “That is also “Part of Educating Yourself further”. So far, I have Not seen any other site post so much clearly ❤

“I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy in to My Hands” since “Beginning of 2016”. “All my Hard work and Praying has been rewarded. Healing Energy can go to others where ever it is needed to be received with a Clear Mind and Lot of Loving Kindness” ❤

So, I have been updating almost all my posts naturally as, this is “A New Chapter and A New Beginning” Upgrading Myself to A New Wavelength. A New Chapter in My Life and I Wish so for You also. Please click this Link which will take You to My Birthday Post Birthday!❤

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What I am doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and Writing My Own Journey of Healing in Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy in this Post, and if You click on this Link in Green, You can read this Post about: The Therapists Voice Forward!

The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts which you will be able to find more information and pronunciation”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing” 🙂 you can have a look at: https://deepanilamani.com/ ❤

“It is all free”. You can “Download ~ Take print outs” “share and or pass it on also” for others who can benefit from this article and all the other posts. Lots of Love and Hugs from Me ❤

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Thanking for the pictures and quotes from https://www.facebook.com/RawFor/ and the I net ❤

Many Blessings of Love, Light and healing Energies from me to You ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa 100Deepa Nilamani 🙂

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The Purpose of Our Lives!

Hello to, All My Dear Readers Followers and My Blogging Friends ❤

Thank you all for reading and appreciating what I write. Since recently there is an increase in those who follow and also more coming in from our blogging family to comment and interact, which makes it very interesting and worthwhile putting in all the time in writing here. Today I am Writing on, “The Purpose of Our Lives” 🙂

At certain times in our lives, we find that we are not really satisfied with what we are doing. This is doing jobs, studies or even a hobby. Usually as young children we are guided by our parents or teachers, or even we ourselves think this is what we want to do. But then as we go on, some of us find out what we have chosen to do, does not give that satisfaction that we hoped for. If it is so, “We can lose interest, and our minds begin to work towards finding out what other things we can do, that we really feel like doing. This is Called: “Finding Our Purpose in Our Lives”!

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In my case I have Loved Books and Reading. Even My parents have read Nursery Rhymes and stories to me (This is for so many other children too when it comes) and I have been saving my pocket money also to “Buy Books”. I have had BOOKS ALL ROUND ME! But at the very beginning as a child “Did not Imagine me as a Writer. But always wanted to Follow My Maternal Grand Father and My Grand Mother in Giving. As “The Eldest of the Grandchildren I was the person who used to spend Time during my school holidays and have been seeing “All the Giving that was done” by both of them. I have always given. “I can even remember cutting my eraser in to two to give BUT being Young “I did not know exactly “THAT GIVING WAS IN ME or NOW I KNOW I “WAS BORN TO GIVE”. BUT THEN I WAS UNDER THE IMPRESSION, THAT IT WAS GIVING WITH WHAT ONE CAN BUY FROM MONEY ~ NEVER THOUGHT “THAT GIVING IN THIS WAY TOO – PASSING ON KNOWLEDGE: “I had always wanted to do service. But I never imagined, this is what I ultimately came to do!

“The highest form of charity is, giving out what you know to help others ~ “The Gift of Knowledge” 🙂

What Buddhists Believe
Venerable K. Sri Dhammananda Maha Thera

The essence of true charity is to give something without expecting anything in return for the gift.
To the Buddhist, the highest gift of all is the gift of Dhamma. This gift has great powers to change a life.

Our minds are such that the moment it gets this message, it goes into action, it begins to work endlessly looking for that something that we can do with enthusiasm and zest, that will be worthwhile doing it and brings us satisfaction. When you read about people, we see some of them “changing” their even very successful careers and turning into doing things completely different to what they were doing!!!

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Some when they are very small itself, “Are aware of their talents and gifts by birth and do not have to go looking for what they like to do. “They find they can just draw or paint, play a musical instrument, even do mathematics or speak in other languages at a very young age”. They grow up to be famous painters, writers and authors, musicians and scientists and so on” In my case I have Loved Books and Reading and I have been saving my pocket money also to “Buy Books” But at the very beginning as a child “Did not Imagine myself as a Writer BUT always wanted to Follow My Maternal Grand Father and My Grand Mother in Giving. As “The Eldest of the Grandchildren I was the person who used to spend Time during my school holidays and have been seeing “All the Giving that was done” by both of them. I have always given “I can even remember cutting my erase in to two to give BUT being Young “I did not know exactly “THAT GIVING WAS IN ME or NOW I KNOW I “WAS BORN TO GIVE”!

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Each one of us are born unique and no two people are born the same. Even identical twins have differences between them. So, to each of us, “The Purpose of our life is different” It has been it, as the world needs all kinds of people to do various kinds of jobs and activities. But it’s not all who recognize this. What is the reason? It is because one has to be spiritually mature and aware what life is and what the gifts we have been given and how to make use of them. Human life is very valuable as it is man who is so advanced than all the other creatures, who can mainly think, plan, speak out and act. So, we need to make use of our lives, and not just idle and waste away this valuable birth!!!

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We have been given “These Gifts to be able to make a living, to help ourselves and then sharing or giving others too with what we have been given”. Each one has been given some gift so that we can make use of it to lead a good and happy ❤

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Once People Recognize Their “Talents” it comes naturally to follow up in Everything they do. But of course, they also have to work hard to improve and excel at them. For example: Observe, “The people who do various activities in Sports, who win medals even in Olympics, how much they train and practice”? Some find out more side-lines too to improve and excel. Some take a long time and have to find or look for the gift they have been given. Whatever the time period maybe for those who keep on looking and finding out, “What the meaning of their lives” ultimately finds out or even led to the path that they were meant to take. In short to, “The Purpose of Your Life” ❤

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Latest Update 6th March 2020: Up to date with the Birthday article 111th and The Introductory page: Who I am & Why I am Writing! I have Published 112 posts. I am in Good Health and as, “I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy into My Hands” since “Beginning of 2016”. All my Hard work and Praying has been rewarded.” Healing Energy can go to others wherever it is needed to be received with a Clear Mind and Loving Kindness” even You ❤

So “I am Editing and Updating All the Posts from The Very Beginning” This is My Birthday and, “A New Chapter and A New Beginning”. I am Moving on. I have Learnt lot of New Things and Still Learning. Upgrading Myself to A New Wavelength ~ A New Chapter in My Life and I Wish so for You also. Please click this Link which will take You to My Post: Birthday!

On Top Right-Hand side, you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, you will see the word “Home” Which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

There will be the older Topics “On the Left-Hand side, “Under Archives and Category” and “Under Recent Posts” with “The New Topics adding up” Happy Reading ❤

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And what I have been doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Moving forward Telling My Own Journey in Wellness in Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy in this Post, and if You click on this Link in Green, you can read this Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts of Mine which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation also”. I also have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am up to” 🙂 you can look at :https://deepanilamani.com/ ❤

“It is all free”. You can “Download ~ Take print outs” “share and or pass it on also” for others who can benefit from this article and all the other posts. Lots of Love and Hugs from Me ❤

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Thanking for the Quotes and Pictures I have taken from the I net and https://www.online-image-editor.com/ for the Quotes written by me ❤

Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies from me ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa 100Deepa Nilamani 🙂

Wishing Star ❤

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