As We Move On !

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In life as we go on growing and learning, there comes a time, that some of us begin to think and do things differently to those around us. This is Not being proud or arrogant, but there is a group who through sheer, “Determination and Courage” want to move on to the top. To develop their minds as high as possible.  This usually happens with age; through knowledge and experiences we have gone through. But as always there are exceptions. (Those much younger, those who are born gifted/talented, also can reach up at a very young age) When we “Develop” our minds, we begin to understand more and better about how life works. We become aware that we belong in the same world, in the same universe. That colours of our skin, race, religion are not things that divide us 🙂

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Once we get this understanding and the feeling of, “Oneness, our outlook to life changes in a very big way” and we begin to see life in a more deep and serious manner. In short through eyes of wisdom. We understand that with time people change just like us, and we need to give them space to adjust to their changes too. Our hold, on to things and people become less, it’s even easier to let go than before. As we know by letting go of which doesn’t serve us, opens the way for new things and people to come in. Those that suit our personalities, present needs in a better way 🙂

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This can be compared to a physical journey up a hill or a mountain. It’s not all who climb or even think of going up to the tops of very high mountains. To climb up you need to carry only the very essentials to survive. The higher you go the lighter the load you have to carry, as you cannot climb up with a heavy load. This is an example. Going up also mean advancing your knowledge and becoming wise and sharpening your skills of the mind. Just like a physical journey; to advance your mind, you need to have a clear head. By keeping unwanted thoughts and cluttering your mind you cannot think clearly. By letting go – you clear the mind of the clutter so that the mind is free to think better. The mind that is clear, is able to function/work to the best of its ability. Making the owner of that mind, quite advanced and able to think and act beyond those who are clinging to things and with minds full of clutter. Those who can “Let Go” and give up excess baggage, in order to move on, do stand out and have better chances to be successful in life. And this, Can make a very big difference in order to, “Do well in Life”<3

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So this is what sometimes people say that, “Its lonely at the top” but “Actually you  are Not” Because, “It is Not all who can climb to the very top”, even if you have climbed physically to a top of a mountain, there will be a very few like you, who have had the courage to climb up. But you will have this peace and the view which no other or very few will be able to enjoy, who would have had the Courage, Perseverance  and Patience to go on until they also achieve Their Goals. And all those who had climbed to the top like you, are those who had the same Courage and Determination as you, to face challenges and rise up to new heights where no other dares to tread!!!

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Same way when you are advanced from your mind, there will be some who do not or cannot see/understand the same way as you. Yes, again you can feel a little isolated at these times, until you attract and regroup with those who share the same interests and are in the same wavelength as you. At the same time, with wisdom one is able to understand too, that all are not the same, and each person is born for a different purpose in life. That for each person, “The very Top” is different not like a mountain. And in each person, “The Purpose in Life” is different as there has to be many kinds of people to fill in many different needs in the world!!!

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All may not climb mountains or become scholars, but in their own way they too face challenges in different ways and reach their own goals and become heroes in their lives. And everyone contributes something to the world in their own way ❤

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As human beings, we are the most advanced form of life, and we are so fortunate that we have the ability to take our minds to the highest level of thinking. Meaning able to control or balance our minds through so many ways available to us. As human beings we are born to make use of our lives, as well as help others to make this world a better place for all. So always strive to take that one step more, to improve your life to live with Happiness and Joy that you desire to in this life 🙂

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We are not all mountain climbers. I am not Lol 😀 But we can all face up to our challenges that come our way, with “Courage and Determination”, and grow and move on to a better place than we are at present. So I wish you all, Strength and Courage and to be Patient as all good things take time to happen ❤

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I started this blog in September 2015, mainly to write my journey on mental wellness “Just in My Pen Name Deepa Nilamani” ~ But as I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy ~ which began its Journey since February 2016 ” ~ I have had to introduce myself in, “My Full name” and to be seen from where, “I have acquired, “The Gift of Healing Hands” Down The Generation, “Who My Maternal Grandfather is, and My Great Grand father is, I have added this Link. Which will take you on to “Their Details on The site of Wikipedia on the I net”: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/G._P._Wickramarachchi!

It is something I have earned, “Through sheer Hard work, Sacrifices, Sharing, Giving, Donating and through Loving Kindness” and above all being “Truthful and Honest”. “The Universal Energy” is also called “Healing or Pranic energy”, “chi” in China and “ki” in Japan. As we know, energy can travel so, “Prayer energy which also can be called Healing Energy” can travel far and wide to distant places too. If You click this link You can go to to know more as writing in one post can be too much to be reading and taking in: Energy Healing!

You need to and take it in with a “Good and Pure Heart ~ With Loving Kindness”. “Sometimes you might feel your Right Hand (meaning Your fingers and the palm vibrating) that means you are getting Healing Energies, sometimes it can be the Left Hand (again the fingers and the palm same way), and sometimes it can be Both Hands receiving (again it is the fingers and the palms same way). All depends on How you will need, and they will stay a while, also come and go at certain times and stop ❤ ❤ ❤

So I have had to edit and update all my posts naturally as, This is “A New Chapter and A New Beginning” Upgrading Myself to A New Wavelength. A New Chapter in My Life and I Wish so for You also. Please click this Link which will take You to The Birthday Post Birthday!

Also, there will still be the older Topics “On the Left-Hand side, Under the ~ “Recent Posts” and Archives and Categories, with “The New Topics adding up. Happy Reading ❤

And what I am doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Moving forward Writing My Own Journey in Wellness. Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy in this Post, and if You click on this Link in Green, you can read this Post: Taking The Therapists Voice Forward!

The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to other different posts of Mine which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation also”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing” 🙂 you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani

“It is all free”. Download. Take print outs, share and pass it on also for others who can benefit from these posts. I hope All those Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so as,” Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in Life”. Any questions or comments are most welcome ❤ 🙂 ❤

Thanking for the Posts taken from the I net Free Online Image Editor (online-image-editor.com) for The Picture Quotes Done by Me ❤

Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies from me 🙂

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa 12Deepa Nilamani 🙂

Wishing Star ❤

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As I Move On!

Hello To, All My Dear Followers Readers and Blogging Friends ❤

As this is my journey along the path of healing, I thought I will write here as and how I am moving on with my life. Sometimes it may be the same things here and there, but they will be different each time, because we keep on changing and evolving as we go along ❤

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II want “You to know” that it’s a little difficult to draw a line when you have become well and when you have really healed at the very beginning. Both can be on the balance as we cannot see the mind like the physical self. You yourselves have to find out, whether certain thoughts are in your mind, or if the memories have completely gone back!
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Those who are really following my journey, are aware that recently I finished one chapter and now Beginning again. Now I have got the urge to contact some of them who have been there for me, supporting and helping me at various times and ways. This is how life is. Its like reading a book. As you move on its like going from one chapter to another, until we begin again another chapter in a new book. I have become, who I was before all these upheavals happened. I remember all what I used to do, and I can’t believe the drama I have gone through, and how I have overcome and become stronger!

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Whoever is there for you or not, ultimately, it’s you who has to heal yourself. It has to be a combination of many things. You need to get proper guidance from the medical personnel, medication and above all, “Make an extreme effort to do anything and everything possible to become Strong and Positive” Once you decide and begin to come up, others can also give a helping hand. The moment you decide to become well and begin to be active, it is moving up to a higher level. Then there can be others as well as, “You will be able to tap into other resources of higher knowledge”. And “You” will be able to make use of, “Your own knowledge and Experiences” to help others as well and to move on to a better standard of living ❤

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It has been a Very Long Journey. In order to survive, you have to come out of your comfort zone. What things we ourselves discover about us is the surprising thing.  And I did so many things otherwise I would have not done. This is because I was Determined to Overcome and the reason, I write confidently about how I coped. In life we all go through various Good Things as well as hardships at various times in different ways. And sometimes yes, we all do wonder, why and how and for what reasons we have had these experiences. Some answers don’t come immediately but know that with “Time” You will be able to realize and know” 🙂

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I pray and meditate to reflex on how things happened in the past and how I have moved on. I am discovering so much about me now. What I have forgotten and who I have become by overcoming all this challenges. I am who I was in the past, yet I have changed too!!! Life is such we all change all the time, and we can go on learning and advancing ourselves as long as we have life. How wonderful to keep on updating your knowledge and to learn new things. I really enjoy doing so and with all what I have gone through, I find that, “Life can become Wonderful, if we have the “Strength, Persistence and Patience” to keep on working towards Achieving Your Goals ❤

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There are exceptions I know, just like everything. But for most of you, if you take courage, you can turn your life around to look at life in a positive way and make the best of who you are and what you have. We have only one life to live, and almost all of us are given, something special to make a mark in this world. For ourselves and then to others, at least to one person. We cannot change the whole world not all of us, although I wish we could. Don’t you? So, we need to make use of what we have got. As I always end up saying, be strong, have Courage and be Patient until the tide changes and life turn in Favour for you. It does, it has to ❤

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Winter doesn’t stay forever, “You never know what The Changes the next day will bring” As we are all part of this, “Universe” we also move on with the Time of and “Your day will surely come” ❤

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***Some answers don’t come immediately but they do in time, “Hopefully one day I will know the answers to my questions”!

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17th April 2019: This is the New Me “Adding to what I wrote before that, “The answers Did come most of them” and “The Tide does Turn” although I didn’t realize that “Not only was I was Trying to show that it is possible to become “Positive and Well” somehow, but I have also been working towards, “Developing Healing Energies to Heal myself as well as Help Others”!
So here is what I have learnt since then. The Tide does Turn in Your favour meaning Life does change ~ Winter does not last forever. Good Times does come in Time ❤ 🙂

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Keep Going, “With Patience, Zest and Zeal Until You Reach Your Goal”. Victory comes to those who work hard towards Healing and achieving Your Goals ❤
Do You Like New Me? 😀

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There will be “The old Topics on The Left-Hand side “Under, Recent Posts also Under Archives and Categories with “The new Topics adding Happy Reading ❤

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And what I am doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Moving forward Writing My Own Story in Wellness. Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy in this Post, and if You click on this Link in Green, you can read this Post: Taking The Therapists Voice Forward!

The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation also”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am up to” 🙂 you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/ ❤

“It is all free”. You can “Download ~ Take print outs” “share and pass it on also” for others who can benefit from this article and all the other posts ❤

Thanking for the posts shared from The I net and https://www.online-image-editor.com/ for the picture quotes done by me ❤

Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies from me ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa 12Deepa Nilamani 🙂

Wishing Star ❤

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Challenges in Life ~ 2!

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First of all, may I wish you all a Very Happy New Year 🙂

I hope all of you are keeping well. I have not written for some time, as I had to recover from a very stressful period. Suddenly I faced a challenging issue, which distracted me from writing here and took me some time to settle myself properly again. Finally, I have overcome them and getting back to my usual routine 🙂

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This type of disruptions happens to all of us in different ways at the most unexpected times of our lives, that upset us sometimes. “Luckily I held on and was a very good test of my strength” I did get stressed, anxiety set in getting drowsy, but I never got any low moods. So, it’s a very big comfort to me, to know that I will never get into those low moods again whatever challenges I came across. And that I can face challenges with Courage, is good for those who read also, to know to “Stand Strong” and somehow hold on with, “Strength, Courage and Persistence and Be Patient, until you overcome and achieve Your Goals in Life” 🙂

Challenge 1These types of issues create stress as one has to think when dealing with, two major issues at the same time. At this time the best thing to do is to stop almost everything and take a complete rest, as one needs to have a clear mind to solve whatever one is facing. Unlike dealing with people, dealing with a system is complicated, as the systems work according to very strict rules. With all what is going on from one side, in life there comes a balance too as, when one side was stressing, I got immense support from, the “Medical System”. “There are people who really knew the “Values of Life”, and also “Especially those who have face difficulties, and come up and are trying to help others” They had faith and “Believed in My Mission”, My Working towards Encouraging and Motivating others”. They were able to safeguard me from being unduly stressed so that I can get on with my life with all what I am doing. I am so very Grateful and blessed to have such wonderful and caring people by my side ❤

Challenge 4.Writing here at length itself is a sign that my mind has calmed down. We come across problems, due to various reasons. This type of issues can affect both mentally and physically due to stress. I began to wonder if I could even concentrate on my course and if I had taken on too much too soon. But thank goodness I was able to put my mind on to it again. The main thing for “Stress is to Relax and Calm oneself”.  Know that I am editing, and this is the past and I have to now write as The Past Tense. At that time, I joined a Group Exercise class. As doing things with others where there was a different atmosphere as well companionship, but later became too much with driving and with other activities. That I did things on my, when possible, at home 🙂

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With exercises, your good hormones start to work to make you more Positive and you can lose some weight and have a better shape too. Although it is for children, “It is well shown this is “For Everyone” and What I am doing while Editing the Past is: Adding My Knowledge from the Experiences I have had in the Past as well as New Knowledge Gained since 2015! Also, Later on I will write more, “There are so many Topics that can be written. For now, while Editing and Re writing I am Trying to include My Extra Knowledge as much as possible ❤Challenge 2

I Hope you learn something new from what I have written and then pass on to another of what you learn. That again is the beauty and the value of knowledge. Knowledge is Enhanced/increased, when shared and it travels far and wide like the ripples all over the world, touching so many others, and clearing the ignorance and lighting their lives with Wisdom which is like “Painting in Beautiful Colours and making Life More Positive 🙂

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Up to date with the Birthday article 111th and The Introductory page. I have Published 112 posts. On Top Right-Hand side, you can see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, You will see the word “Home” Under which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing! This is My Birthday and, “A New Chapter and A New Beginning”. I am Moving on. I have Learnt lot of New Things and Still Learning. Upgrading Myself to A New Wavelength ~ A New Chapter in My Life and I Wish so for You also. Please click this Link which will take You to The Birthday Post Birthday!

Also, there will be “The old Topics on The Left-Hand side “Under, Recent Posts and Archives and Categories” with “The new Topics adding up. Happy Reading ❤

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And what I am doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Moving forward Writing My Own Story in Wellness. Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy. This Post, if You click on this Link in Green, You can read this Post: Taking The Therapists Voice Forward!

The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to other different posts of Mine and you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation also”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am up to” 🙂 you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/

“It is all free”. You can “Download. Take print outs, share and pass it on also for others who can benefit from these posts. I hope All those Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so as,” Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in Life”. Any questions or comments are most welcome ❤ 🙂

Thanking The I net and https://www.online-image-editor.com/ for the Quotes Done by me and the other websites for the posts I have shared ❤

May you find Joy and may You find Happiness and Peace Always ❤

Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies to You ❤

May God’s Blessings be Upon You ❤

Deepa 1Deepa Nilamani ❤

Wising Star ❤

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Healing ~ Trauma!

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This is a short article about Trauma, and can be helped by psychotherapy include difficulties in coping with daily life; Impact of trauma When you experience deep sadness, It can be physical too. Trauma 1,jpg
Why people get hurt or sad is, when they are criticized, put down, controlled or blamed unnecessarily!
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And when they feel it’s wrong and when they feel they don’t deserve, later on those can make people to feel unwell. Definition:(Psychological trauma) is something that affects the mind that occurs as a result of distressing event or events. Trauma is often the result of an overwhelming amount of stress that exceeds one’s ability to cope, the emotions involved with that experience. A traumatic event involves one’s experience, or repeating events that can be too much, all depend on the person’s personality. But it is possible to “Overcome”. This is why I am now writing as I have been able to receive the “Gift of Healing too 
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