Category: Psychology

Hope!

Hello to, All My Dear Readers, Followers and My Blogging Friends ❤

Hope You are all keeping in Good Health. As I said the next post will be on Hope and here it is. Hope is an optimistic state of mind that is based on an expectation of positive outcomes with respect to events and circumstances in one’s life or the world at large. As a verb, its definitions include: “expect with confidence” and “to cherish a desire with anticipation. 🙂

In psychology

Hope comes into its own when crisis looms, opening us to new creative possibilities, that with great need comes an unusually wide range of ideas, as well as such positive emotions as happiness and joy, courage, and empowerment, drawn from four different areas of oneself: from a cognitive, psychological, social, or physical perspective. Such positive thinking bears fruit when based on a realistic sense of optimism, not on a naive “false hope”. In psychology linked hope to the existence of a goal, combined with a determined plan for reaching that goal. and for the centrality of goal-seeking in human psychology,

This is about Hope link between hope and mental willpower as well as the need for realistic perception of goals (problem orientation), arguing that the difference between hope and optimism was that the former can look like wishful thinking, but the latter provides the energy to find practical pathways for an improved future. meaning an unspoken desire for a positive outcome for those who are in control in the wider society.

Hope and wishing. Those that are hopeful are actively trying to investigate the best path of action while taking into consideration the obstacles. Research has shown though that many of those who have “hope” are wishfully thinking.

Hope Theory

In positive psychology, hope can impact several aspects of life such as health, work, education, and personal meaning. There are three main things that make up hopeful thinking:

  • Goals – Approaching life in a goal-oriented way.
  • Pathways – Finding different ways to achieve your goals.
  • Agency – Believing that you can instigate change and achieve these goals.
    In other words, hope was defined as the perceived capability to derive pathways to desired goals and motivate oneself via agency thinking to use those pathways.
  • Individuals who are able to realize these three components and develop a belief in their ability are hopeful people who can establish clear goals, imagine multiple workable pathways toward those goals, and persevere, even when obstacles get in their way.
    Hope and wishing. Those that are hopeful are actively trying to investigate the best path of action while taking into consideration the obstacles. Research has shown though that many of those who have “hope” are wishfully thinking ❤

Latest Update: 29th October 2024. The website continues for the New Reader and Followers. Hope what I have written is useful that helps you to feel more Positive and Happier This is “The 251th Post” and with the “Introductory Page this will be all in Total up to date, 252nposts. On Top Right-Hand side, you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it. You will see the word “Home” All the posts from “The Very Beginning comes ~ Under “Home”. Which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

As always, it is all free”. You can share and pass it on also for others who can benefit from this post. I hope All those who Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so as,” Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in Life ❤

The Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing” during my spare time you can have a look at: https://deepanilamani.com/

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May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa Nilamani ❤

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Faith!

Hello to, All My Dear Readers, Followers and My Blogging Friends ❤

I started this blog in September 2015, mainly to spread the messages on Good Health. My main intention was to make You the reader feel “More Positive” and to have that “Faith and Hope” so that you can reach up and make ‘Yourselves Better and Happier”. There is various explanation of Faith. But this is how I know and kept My Faith and succeeded in My Life. The Beautiful thing is ”I have achieved what I wanted through Faith. And the next post will be on Hope 🙂

Faith is defined as belief with strong conviction. It is a firm belief in something for which there may be no tangible proof—complete trust, confidence, reliance, or devotion. Faith is the opposite of doubt.

Faith’ is a broad term, appearing in locutions that point to a range of different phenomena. We speak of ‘having faith that you will succeed, despite setbacks. ‘Being a person of faith,’ ‘professing and keeping the faith. and so on. At its most general ‘faith’ means much the same as ‘trust’. Uses of ‘faith’ and ‘faithfulness’ closely parallel ‘trust’ and ‘trustworthiness’ and these are often used interchangeably. Yet one of the striking and intriguing facts about theorizing in this area is that people have offered radically different accounts of what faith is to which faith belongs. Is it a psychological state. affective or perhaps some combination of both? Is it an act or disposition to act—or is there at least some sort of connection to action essential to faith and, if so, to what sorts of acts?


Latest Update: 27th October 2024. The website continues for the New Reader and Followers. Hope what I have written is useful that helps you to feel more Positive and Happier This is “The 250th Post” and with the “Introductory Page this will be all in Total up to date, 251 posts. On Top Right-Hand side, you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it. You will see the word “Home” All the posts from “The Very Beginning comes ~ Under “Home”. Which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

  • As always, it is all free”. You can share and pass it on also for others who can benefit from this post. I hope All those who Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so as,” Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in Life ❤

The Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing” during my spare time you can have a look at: https://deepanilamani.com/

Thanking the I net for the pictures I have shared from the I net ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa Nilamani ❤

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Wishing Star!

Hello To, My Readers, Followers and Blogging Friends ❤

Hope all of you are keeping well. Over the years so much have changed, that I thought of writing of a Fresh Beginning. And then of course after that “Decluttering (clearing) Mental and physical spaces” Comes The real New Beginning” And its under The Name “Wishing Star” And The Miracle is somehow This Star had been sent to me ❤

Sending Free Gifts Across the Whole Wide World” This has been “A Wish” I have had from my childhood Singing as a child “”I am bringing small dolls and all sorts of coloured Toys cartful” And it’s under The Name “Wishing Star” ❤

These are The Stickers at the beginning for the Envelops which will” Be “Posted once I know your postal Addresses ❤

These are “The Pens and the website cards”” that can be sent by post So have to see how this can be done. Need to be a little patience to get it going the best way. As they won’t be Toys. toys as then I was a small girl. Now there are other ways you can be helped. Like there are ways to send cash also. so that you can buy what you want without wasting cash sending parcels. This is why I have asked you to write. Good news is I am already on the way of going ahead. “I have already got today (October 2nd, 2024} pens and round labels exactly the same way and they are Beautiful” I am Thrilled to be able to send such beautiful things❤️

This nice music for you to Listen freely and relax and enjoy ❤

Latest Update: 28th September 2024. The website continues for the New Reader and Followers. Hope what I have written is useful that helps you to feel more Positive and Happier This is “The 244rth Post” and with the “Introductory Page this will be all in Total up to date, 245 posts. On Top Right-Hand side, you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it. You will see the word “Home” All the posts from “The Very Beginning comes ~ Under “Home”. Which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

Next post has been written and published describing About Letter writing Letter Writing!how to write your address and put the correct stamps and have to let me know the safest way to get it to your hand only without getting lost ❤

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The Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing” during my spare time you can have a look at: https://deepanilamani.com/

As always, it is all free”. You can share and pass it on also for others who can benefit from this post. I hope All those who Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Live in” Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in life ❤

Thanking the I net for the Pictures and https://www.vistaprint.com.au/Vista Prints and image.com ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa Nilamani ❤

Wishing Star ❤

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Fresh Beginning!

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Looking back it seems so long ago since I have been here and some people seems to have some strange ideas and ways. Over the years so much have changed, that I thought of writing of a Fresh Beginning!


As usual do hope you are keeping well. I thought of writing a post again for those of you who are waiting for a new article. You ever thought of pressing the “Reset Button” and start again? I have been writing that after more than 11 years this is what I am trying to do now. So that I have more time instead of having to dust and be arranging too many things and save time and energy. And let some others who can make use of what I don’t need any more.

You can “Let Go” some things as Time goes by you will not want the same old things you have had in the past. Things like old diaries, books magazines as well as plates cups and things if you have which you are not using.


Each one of you can do the way you can or want. In my case I like to Give away (Donate) free. Some of you might need a little bit of cash to buy new, so sell, so that would be all right, as money is not easy to come by. You can buy fewer things how you need 🙂

I was trying to make a “Gift Corner” in my sitting room Starting with a secondhand chair and some Basket. as anyone who comes can pick free what they see and like. But there are very few who come (as I live in a security complex) to deliver my groceries when I am unable to go, and it’s not everyone whom I can ask. You will be surprised what things might have once you start. These are things that are still good, and some others can be useful now Well I realized Gifts have to be new and they go under: Donations. I also have done posts on Donations Donations

In a way I have been doing something different. As when donated, they sell, and I wanted to give free. So, I have been leaving stuff here and there and in shopping carts. (Not so much, as above also don’t want to show what I put, as even some of them will be reading my website) Sometimes food sometimes clothes) This I have been doing from a long time. I always have things like popcorn or biscuits for The Crows and birds (where I put them in a corner outside) as they cannot find food on their own all the time. This is something I do daily at home. I don’t like to write but in gratitude for the “Healing Energies I buy bread and even fruits. And takes about two hours even in rain and the freezing cold in my small back garden May be later might post a picture it is like a small Zoo 🙂

Now this is all for you. As all my not need decluttering instead do some Fresh start writing (Journalling). To write some ideas for yourself. Journaling! You can even print it out and keep somewhere. Write like notes even some other things. Even like a little Diary. As above say jot down your thoughts. May be one or even a few copies. Flowers and even those who like birds They are “Very Pretty 🙂

From time to time “You can suddenly remember or something said or seen on TV or books or even a Tune can take you back to a memory which is not pleasant” These cannot be helped. It is not possible to live in an environment “completely free of any negative thoughts” Writing Journaling! Journaling (Writing) The Power of Hand Writing! Click on these Green letters and will take you to these posts. Your thoughts or Talking or discussing with a Good Friend is Helpful (Beneficial) Letting Go with feelings from the past is what will ultimately Heal you. Music is very helpful especially what You have not seen or heard before These are some of my Favourite too film from “Sound of Music and Mary Poppins. which will make you laugh and laugh. There is a song also if you like to Listen!

https://www.google.com/search?sca_esv=6a16a772d5a29aa1&sca_upv=1&rlz=1C1ONGR_enAU1055AU1055&tbm=vid&q=raindrops+on+roses+lyrics&sa=X&ved=2ahUKEwjWiOfb2L-HAxUulFYBHTeXLJoQ8ccDegQIThAF&biw=1536&bih=730&dpr=1.25#fpstate=ive&vld=cid:638b5e7e,vid:33o32C0ogVM,st:0
Raindrops on roses and whiskers on kittens
Bright copper kettles and warm woolen mittens
Brown paper packages tied up with strings
These are a few of my favorite things
Cream-colored ponies and crisp apple strudels
Doorbells and sleigh bells and schnitzel with noodles
Wild geese that fly with the moon on their wings
These are a few of my favorite things.

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It’s supercalifragilisticexpialidocious
Even though the sound of it is something quite atrocious
If you say it loud enough you’ll always sound precocious
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Latest Update: 24th July 2024. The website continues for the New Reader and Followers. Hope what I have written is useful that helps you to feel more Positive and Happier This is “The 243rd Post” and with the “Introductory Page this will be all in Total up to date, 244 posts. On Top Right-Hand side, you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it. You will see the word “Home” All the posts from “The Very Beginning comes ~ Under “Home”. Which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

🎉 Congrats! This is from WordPress. I am My Path! is getting noticed. 368 other websites have subscribed to your site. Keep up the Good Work 🙂

The Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing” during my spare time you can have a look at: https://deepanilamani.com/

If you want to contact me by post, write to; Deepa Nilamani, 65/110-114 Johnson Street, Hillcrest, Queensland 4118, Brisbane, Australia. Remember “You have to send it “” Air Mail to come through Planes, otherwise it can come by Sea Mail from ships which will take very long”

You have to give Your correct Postal Address so that you receive to you itself ❤

September 28th, 2024, soon after My Grandfathers 135th Birthday Celebration, I have been informed that Assets has been released so that I have enough Money to” Carry on My Wish of Giving or sending Gifts All over the World under “Wishing Star Foundation ~ Gifts!

As always, it is all free”. You can share and pass it on also for others who can benefit from this post. I hope All those who Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Leaso as,” Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in life ❤

Thanking the I net for the Picture Quotes and The You Tube for the videos<3

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa Nilamani ❤

Wishing Star ❤

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