Psychology ~Stress!

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I hope all of you are keeping well. Today I thought of writing about Psychology of Strss. I hope you all will like what I am writing. Did you know that stress can also be positive? Good stress, called eustress, can actually be beneficial to you. Unlike bad stress, or distress, good stress can help with motivation, focus, energy, and performance. For some people, it can also feel exciting. Definition from the I net: “A state of mental or emotional strain or tension resulting from demanding circumstances”. Stress can be defined as a state of worry or mental tension caused by a difficult situati0n. World Health Organization!

On the other hand, bad stress typically causes anxiety, concern, and a decrease in performance. It also feels uncomfortable, and it can lead to more serious issues if not addressed. Good stress, called eustress, can actually be beneficial to you. Unlike bad stress, or distress, good stress can help with motivation, focus,

Psychological stress signs

There’s a distinction between a stressor and actual stress. A stressor can be a person, place, or situation that’s causing you stress. Stress is the actual response to one or a combination of those stressors. There are any number of situations that can cause stress.

LIFESTYLE FACTORS: That add to stress rather than reduce stress!

There are any number of situations that can cause stress. Some of the more common stressors include:

  • Issues at home
  • new or increasing work responsibilities
  • increasing demands
  • financial strain
  • health problems
  • moving to a new location
  • exposure to one or more difficult issues.

Poor coping skills fail to reduce stress
1. Poor emotion regulation skills.
2. Poor time management.
3. Lack of system process.
4. Poor boundary setting.
5. Absence of routine.

  • Ways to manage stress
  • When it comes to managing stress, making simple changes can go a long way in improving your overall health and reducing stress. Having tools and strategies you can turn to in stressful situations can prevent your stress levels from escalating.
  • Find a balance


It’s important to structure some of your time so that you can be comfortably busy without being overwhelmed, Be kind to yourself Understanding that you aren’t weak because you’re feeling stress is important, Stress is a very normal reaction to the stressors in your life.

Lean on the people you trust

Before your stress levels escalate, reach out to someone you trust, such as a friend, family member, or coworker. Sharing your feelings or venting your concerns may help to reduce your stress.

Eat well-balanced, meals When it comes to managing stress, proper nutrition is your friend. You can see Foods that help you need not be expensive. Fruits and vegetables that are available from your garden even in rivers, the sea and forestlands.

Keep a journal

Set aside time to reflect on your day. Can be free time how you can manage. Write down any thoughts or feelings you’re having. This can be a useful tool to help you better understand your stressors and how you react to stress. You can start from any old diary or blank papaers.

None of us work 24/7 and there is always some free time to relax. Also relaxing does not need a lot of money either. Of course if one has extra money to spend, there are many expensive ways to relax. But actually you do not need to spend like that. As relaxing is becoming one with mother nature. The closer you become to mother earth, by ways of food, clothes and living the closer you become to a stress free life. It is difficult to lead a complete stress free life in this present times. But there are plenty of simple ways to relax like the post above, and below, to reduce our stress levels and enjoy a balanced and healthy life ❤

Exercise regularly

Engaging in regular physical activity can improve your overall health and reduce your stress levels. When you exercise, your body releases endorphins. These feel-good hormones can also ease symptoms of depression and anxiety. Practice relaxation exercise These exercises, which can include deep, slow breathing and progressive muscle relaxation, involve tensing and then relaxing various groups of muscles. Or any type of physical activities that you can manage like walking, running, swimming whatever you can where you are living 🙂

Get plenty of rest

Your ability to manage stress decreases when you’re tired. Try to get a recommended seven to nine hours each night. If you have insomnia, aim to get as much sleep as you can, then build in periods of rest during the day.

Working with a professional

A therapist or mental health professional can also help you find ways to manage your stress. Consider working with a mental health professional if your stress is accompanied by daily headaches, or fatigue You should also see a mental health professional if you have feelings of depression.

When looking for a mental health professional, ask friends or family members for referrals.

  • Will you trust the therapist?
  • Do you feel heard and understood?
  • Do you feel comfortable to speak up if you disagree with them?
  • Can you see that they care about you as an individual?

You can see from all these posts many many things you can do in order to relax and relieve stress. You will also notice many things are about how to enjoy nature. We need to live in ways that we are close to nature as much as possible. Even if you lead busy lives in the city, once in a way to go to the beach, rivers, parks, even a swim in a pool will bring your body closer to the natural state. Below is a picture that you can see some more of what You can do. Hope you read up and follow some of them ❤

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As always, it is all free”. You can share and pass it on also for others who can benefit from this post. I hope All those who Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so as,” Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in life ❤

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Psychology ~ Happiness!

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Hope you all have started the New Year well and in Good Health. I thought of writing about Psychology of Happiness very fitting to begin the New Year, 

Happiness, in psychology, a state of emotional well-being that a person experiences either in a narrow sense, when good things happen in a specific moment, or more broadly, as a positive evaluation of one’s life and accomplishments overall—that is, subjective well-being. Happiness and also from other positive emotions (such as affection, excitement, and interest). This emotion often co-occurs with a specific facial expression: the smile.

The different meanings
People from around the world tend to have a similar concept of happiness and can recognize happiness in others. As a result, the specific emotion of happiness is often included as one of a small number of basic emotions that cannot be broken down into more fundamental emotions and that may combine to form other, more complex emotions (in fact, it is sometimes the only positive emotion that is considered to be basic). Thus, happiness is an important concept for researchers who study.

An entire field of research has developed around the more inclusive concept of subjective well-being, which is characterized by a broad collection of happiness. As one might expect, people who are happy in this way tend to experience frequent positive emotions. This broader form of happiness is not purely emotional, however: it also has a cognitive component. When happy people are asked to think back on the conditions and events in their lives, they tend to evaluate these conditions and events positively. Thus, happy people report being satisfied with their lives and the various domains in their lives.
Interestingly, these different components of happiness do not always co-occur within the same person. It is possible that someone could acknowledge that the conditions of his or her life are good ones. and experience satisfaction with life because their work is worthwhile. Similarly, people who spend lots of time engaging pleasures may experience frequent momentary positive emotions Subjective well-being researchers are interested in the various factors that influence these distinct components.


Psychologists are interested in happiness for two reasons. First, psychologists study happiness because laypeople are interested in happiness. When people from around the world are asked to list the things that are most important to them, happiness consistently tops the list. People rank attaining happiness as being more important than acquiring money, they can help people achieve this goal of being happy by studying the factors that are associated with happiness.

A second reason why psychologists study happiness is because a person’s evaluative responses to the world may provide information about the basic characteristics of human nature. One of the most basic principles guiding psychological theory is that people and animals are motivated to approach things in the world that cause pleasure. Presumably, this behavior results from adaptive mechanisms that guide organisms toward resources and human beings have a basic need to experience strong and supportive social relationships. They point to evidence from the field of subjective well-being to support their claim—a person’s social relationships are reliably linked to his or her happiness. Thus, cataloging the correlates of happiness should provide important information about the features of human nature.

Perhaps more importantly, is when you try to assess happiness in a variety of different ways, these measures all seem to converge on the same answer. For instance, when researchers ask people to provide self-reports of happiness, they tend to agree with informant-reports of happiness—that is, ratings provided by friends and acquaintances. Furthermore, psychological tests—such as those that ask subjects to list as many positive memories as they can within a minute—may also determine who is happy without even asking for an explicit judgment of happiness, and, again, these measures tend to agree with self-reports. When You track people’s levels of happiness, most people report being in mildly positive moods most of the time. people to rate their overall life satisfaction, most people report scores that are above neutral. This research finding is not limited to relatively well-off samples (like the college students who are often asked to participate in psychological studies). Instead, it has been replicated in many different populations in many nations around the world. Thus, when one study the correlates of happiness, they are usually looking for factors that distinguish the very happy from the mildly happy.

Predictors of happiness

Psychologists have arrived at several surprising conclusions in their search for predictors of happiness. Many of the factors that may first come to mind do not seem to play a major role in happiness.


Health also plays a role in subjective well-being, Subjective reports (such as a person’s own evaluation of his or her health) tend to correlate more strongly. factor that has been most closely linked to high levels of happiness is social relationships. Research consistently shows that people who have strong social relationships tend to report higher levels of well-being. As with other domains, subjective reports of relationship quality and relationship satisfaction tend to exhibit the highest correlations with subjective well-being. But even more objective measures, including the number of close friends a person has, the number of social organizations to which the person belongs, and the amount of time the person spends with others, all show small to moderate correlations with happiness.

Other determinants

Religious people tend to report greater happiness. Factors such as intelligence, education, and job prestige are also only slightly related to well-being. Happiness does not seem to change dramatically over the course of the life span.

People who are outgoing, assertive, and sociable tend to report more intense and more frequent positive emotions. The links between happiness and traits (including factors such as optimism and self-esteem) show that personality plays a strong role in people’s subjective well-being.

Functions

Although people tend to think about happiness as an outcome that they desire rather than as a tool that can be used to achieve additional goals, psychologists have begun to ask what function happiness serves. One of the best-known theories, 1998, that the function of happiness (or more precisely, the function of positive emotions) is to broaden one’s thinking and to build one’s resources. According to this theory, positive emotions lead people to think creatively and to try new things. As a result, happy people can develop new ways to approach the world, new interests, new social relationships, and even new physical skills. All of these effects lead to positive outcomes in people’s lives.

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Change of Name!

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Hello how are you all I Wish You Good Health, Happiness and Prosperity as always. You may be wondering Why “The Change of Name” Its because Sri Lanka Then Ceylon was under Portuguese, Dutch and Britain (U.K). So because of these, I have found out I have Portuguese, Dutch French and German Ancestors, in the names of “William Jones. Down the Generation!

This is “Spain, Portugal and France” above and below. Lisbon is the capital of Portugal and Madrid is the Capital in Spain. Paris is the capital of France.

Flowers! These are the purple Bougainvillea flowers.

Bougainvillea flowers close up. Blooming bougainvillea. Bougainvillea flowers as a background. Floral background.

Can be grown in pots or ground and in different colours. We have them in Sri Lanka I believe they have been brought from Portugal or Spain.

Different colours of the flowers.

Foods:

Pente Frito: Fried Comb!
Pente Frito

I found this Portuguese Recipe from Ceylon recipe from Ceylon Daily News Cookery Book – it turned out quite good and I have the satisfaction of making something different from the usual cupcake cookie round. Its proved a popular teatime snack.

2 cups flour

1 tbls sugar

1 tbls margarine

2 egg yolks

About a cup of milk

Salt to taste

Oil for frying

Put the flour, sugar and salt into a bowl add the yolks and enough milk to form a stiffish paste and knead with your hand until quite smooth. Take small portions of the paste, roll them into balls and then make fancy shapes – my personal favorite is an attempt at a snail shell shape. Doesn’t work, but I have fun. Fry in batches till golden brown. Don’t let it get too dark. Drain and then coat with the Sugar Syrup. For the sugar syrup just the put the sugar and water into a saucepan and boil till thick (add a bit more water if needed). Flavor with vanilla and then add the fried pente frito and stir it around to coat well!




I found this also from Ceylon Daily News Cookery Book – it turned out quite good and I have the satisfaction of making something different.


Waffles or Pancakes.

2 cups flour

1 table spoon sugar

1 table spoon Margerine

2 egg yolks

About a cup of milk

Salt to taste

Oil for frying. So that they dont stick to the pan.


You can make them in a ordinary pan also. Only its the same mixture a little thicker. Eaten with sugar and Lime or Lemon juice Jams or Savoury whatever you like 🙂

If you go camping or it can be tastier on food fire. You can use a iron plate like this and any thickness you like. Actually, I prefer natural way of cooking and more tasty and enjoyable eating outdoors like this. When I make some later, I will post a picture I eat with Lemon or Lime juice whatever I have at that time and sugar rolled. And at the beginning I keep on eating until I am full 😀


Below is Different colours of Tulip Flowers, Some are open fully some are still buds yet to open fully 🙂

This is a field of Tulips. At the back is a windmill. Holland is famous for its wind mills.

Below is Europe with The Netherlands, “Holland” where Dutch people are. Its A Very Very small country

You can see clearly where The Netherlands (Holland) is in the map. France and Germany along with other countries in Europe.

This is “The World Map with all the countries in the World”!

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I am Moving on as usual with “My Own Journey of Wellness, Encouraging and Healing” So that Everyone can have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” To Lead a Better Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy”. If you click on the Link, you can Read This Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

The Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing” during my spare time you can have a look at: https://deepanilamani.com/

As always, it is all free”. You can share and pass it on also for others who can benefit from this post. I hope All those who Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so as,” Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in Life ❤

Sending Love, Light and Healing Energies to You ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Uon You ❤

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Psychology Of Calm ~ 2!

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Hello how are you all I Wish You Good Health, Happiness and Prosperity as always. Here is the second part of Calm with some questions and work sheets., however some of you want to do. Now that “I Am My Path has been recognized as “Professional Counselling, you be Happy You will have all my Experiences and better knowledge 😀

  1. Exercise 1.

    1.Think of a time when you didn’t feel Relaxed and Calm!
    2.How did you feel during and after that time?
    3. How did others feel, who were around you?
    4.You can discuss with them better ways of being Calm!
    5.And come to an answer how to do deal in a better way!

Exercise 2:

1. What sort of things make stress or feel less calm?
2. How often do you come across them?
3. How are you able to avoid them?
4. Think of ways how to!
5. Think whether it is possible to lessen if not avoid!

Exercise 3:

1. Read the above and below Picture post and see what you like!
2. Think what you Like!
3. What are the things you can do at the present?
4.What are the things you can do regularly?
5. You can discuss with friends or and family ways to keep doing them

Exercise 4:

1. Read the above Picture post and see what you like!
2. Think what you Like!
3. What are the things you can do at the present?
4.What are the things you can do regularly?
5. You can discuss with friends or and family ways to keep doing them!

Exercise 5: Sleep: Will write later.on the balance. Have to go through and see about the questions!

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September 28th, 2024, soon after My Grandfathers 135th Birthday Celebration, I have been informed that Assets has been released so that I have enough Money to” Carry on My Wish of Giving or sending Gifts All over the World under the “Starlight Foundation ~ Gifts!

As always, it is all free”. You can share and pass it on also for others who can benefit from this post. I hope All those who Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so as,” Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in Life ❤

Thank you for Reading and The I net for the picture quotes I have shared and to https://www.online-image-editor.com/ for the Quotes I have done myself ❤

Sending Love, Light and Healing Energies to You ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Uon You ❤

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