A New Chance To Start Over!

Hello To, All My Dear Readers, Followers and Blogging friends ❤

Hello to all of My Dear Friends, Brothers and Sisters. This is in Celebration of completing 80 articles on our site and I am starting a New Chapter in my life. From 6th of March, (this month) is my Birthday. So this is My Birthday Wish for All of You ❤

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I hope all of you are feeling much Better, Wiser and Happier after going through all what I have done and reading. In my case I have gained a lot of knowledge and advanced myself by doing the site, as I have had to do “reference” also to bring to you even more information for your benefit. There is a saying that, “When you go to spread Jam you get some on yourself too”, so this is what has happened to me also! By looking out for information and writing articles according to some of your individual needs, I too have (ventured out) gone through and read vastly to give new ideas and information to you. Now don’t tell me that some of you are still not all that ok :DGrrrrrr ….. In that case I (your I net mummy) will take a stick and come after you like this 😀

Mother 1Now if you have finished laughing and giggling, we come down to some serious work, says Mummy 😛 Growing up means, moving on with much better understanding and maturity, to look at the issues and problems in different ways than before. It is not possible to always be Positive and Change overnight, as sometimes the environment and your living standards can take time to change ❤
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As from what I have and going through, “There seems to be that exact Time The Time Has To Come ! that things/life change. So you need to have “Faith and Be Patient and always Believe and not lose Hope at any time”. As I have written before, “Words Words Words and Words ! are very important as they arise from, “Thoughts”, and so Positive Words takes on to doing “Good/Positive things” and of course bad words, because of negative thinking will give out the opposite things!

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Continuing with my Journey, I have been speaking about how hard I worked, “To receive The Gift of Healing Energy” this is keeping to, “The Laws of The Universe” ~ “What goes up does come down, and what goes around comes around” It is also known as, “Good or bad Karma”. You have to understand that, “The word Karma has No female or Male identity it is action/doing”. When your mind is not at ease, too much reading can be stressful. So at “Any time read only what you can” what matters is the, “Healing part” as “This is not a Language lesson” 😛 But keep in mind that, “When I receive Healing Energy to My Hands, they will travel across to All of You too ❤

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The word “Karma” has no male or female term. It is “Its The acts of Right and Wrong what each one does” If you do good things in life you’ll get good karma ~ good things will come your way ❤

Karma 1Now we come to, “The Healing Part” I have written so much about Healing Healing ~ Basic Steps! in different ways: 1. Healing Healing ~ Trauma ! 2.Healing Healing ~ Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder! 3.Healing Healing from ~ Depression ! 4.Healing Courage to Heal ~ Depression ! 5.Healing  What Is Healing ? 6.Healing Healing ~ Taking Full Responsibility ! 7.Healing Healing ~ Desire To Heal ! 8.Healing Healing ~ Who Help or Hurt Us !  9.Healing Gratitude ~ In Healing ! 10.Healing Forgiveness in Healing ! 11.Healing Freedom ~ In Healing! 12.Healing Trials and Tribulations in Healing!  13.Healing Third Eye in Healing!

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So this is My Birthday Wish for: “You All with All My Heart ~ To Be able to be able to Raise Your standard of Living if that is your issue, become Healthy Mentally and Physically, and if YOU are in Good Health, automatically YOU can be Happy”. As Good Health is the most important thing in life as that cannot be bought from money ~ “The Greatest Wealth is Good Health” and of course the rest follows: To Be Prosperous too as we need money to pay our bills 😛 Then to be able to, “Be at Peace of Mind” as that is the ultimate place we all want to come to ❤

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Once you are in Good Health or even otherwise, what ever YOU have learnt from what I have written, “YOU also can be, “A Teacher, A Friend to Give a Helping Hand or to Listen in Time of Stress”. If you click this Link it will take you to this post on this site: That Thing called Stress !!! 

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So we All come to an end of a chapter. So many of YOU have followed My Journey by reading, commenting, sharing, and also Encouraging and Uplifting me by your comments, because I got the feeling that I have been of some help in getting better I feel very much Happy 🙂 ❤

Latest Update 6th March 2020:Up to date with the Birthday article 111th and The Introductory page I have Published 112 posts. On “The Top Right Hand side” you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, You will see will see The word “Home” Which is The Introductory Page. All the 111 posts from “The Beginning to the end is shown, Under “Home”: Who I am & Why I am Writing! 

I am in Good Health and as, “I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy in to My Hands” since “Beginning of 2016” All my Hard work and Praying has been rewarded. Healing Energy can go to others where ever it is needed to be received with Loving Kindness” and A Pure Heart ❤

So “I am having to Edit and Update almost All The Posts from The Very Beginning” This is My Birthday and, “A New Chapter and A New Beginning”. Upgrading Myself to A New Wave Length ~ A New Chapter in My Life and I Wish so for You also. Please click this Link which will take You to My  Birthday Post Birthday ❤

The old Topics are, “On The Left Hand side “Under the, “Recent Posts” with “The New Topics adding up. “The Balance will be Under “ARCHIVES”. Also “Under CATERGORIES” Because “It will be too long to post so many number of posts on the side. You can “Click and see all The older Topics with “The New Topics adding up” Happy Reading ❤

And what I have been doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Moving forward Telling My Own Story in Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy in this Post, and if You click on this Link in Green You can read this Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts which you will be able to find more information”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am up to” 🙂 during my spare time you can have a look at: https://deepanilamani.com/

“It is all free”. You can “Download ~ Take print outs” “share and or pass it on also” for others who can benefit from this article and all the other posts ❤

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Thanking The I net, https://www.clipart.com/en/ for the posts shared and https://www.online-image-editor.com/ for the posts I have done ❤

Sending Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies to All of You ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa 100Deepa Nilamani 🙂

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Life’s Challenges ~ 1!

Hello to, All My Dear Readers Followers and My Blogging Friends ❤

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I hope all those who are following my journey are keeping well and reading what I write and learning something new. Life is Not always easy, “That is because everyone’s life is not a straight path even mine”, we all share the same, sometimes slow and sometimes like a roller coaster ride. Of course, I do not go on the real rides as I prefer to look at those going and enjoying 

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We have to “Be Very Strong” to face the challenges as we come across so many different ways that things happen in life ❤

Challenge 6nd, troubles of all sorts are for all of us. Only some do not show and bear in silence. “Can you think of one person you know who has never been unwell, gone through financial difficulties or stress? Can you? No! So we all go through difficult times, that comes as challenges, for us to overcome them and move over to the next level Up ❤

Challenge 3So you need to know there is a meaning all this. Either you face, overcome them and move on to the next level or not fight, and waste your precious time and energy. In every religion, every wise person, all the books, even the quotes all teach us these things to guide us all. Some may not understand this at once, but Believe, have Faith, and trust how things happen (process) in life. Learn to be wise, read and learn how to make the best use of what is available. It is not only meditation, but prayers and guidance from others, and from our own mind too, we all learn what best to do and what path to follow to achieve our goals ❤

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Human life is so precious. What animal can read? Choose how to live? Do they have a choice? As human beings there are opportunities open to us. We as human beings, majority of us have a choice. It may be some of you are not in a position to choose at this time of your life. But have Faith things can Change. Always have Hope that Life will turn to the better. Pray, Meditate and “As I receive Healing Energies ~ from The Universe” I Pray from My Heart, that Life WILL improve and You will have a better tomorrow a Better Future” ❤

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Latest Update 6th March 2020: Up to date with the Birthday article 111th and The Introductory page I have Published 112 posts. All the 111 posts from “The Beginning to the end is shown, Under “Home”  Who I am & Why I am Writing!

I am in Good Health and as, “I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy into My Hands” since “Beginning of 2016” All my Hard work and Praying has been rewarded. Healing Energy can go to others wherever it is needed to be received with Loving Kindness” and A pure Heart ❤

So “I am having to Edit and Update All the Posts from The Very Beginning” This is My Birthday and, “A New Chapter and A New Beginning”. Upgrading Myself to A New Wavelength ~ A New Chapter in My Life and I Wish so for You also. Please click this Link which will take You to My Birthday Post Birthday ❤

The old Topics are, “On the Left-Hand side “Under the “Recent Posts” with “The New Topics adding up. “The Balance will be Under “ARCHIVES”. Also “Under CATERGORIES” Because “It will be too long to post so many numbers of posts on the side. You can “Click and see all the older Topics with “The New Topics adding up” Happy Reading ❤

And what I have been doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Writing My Own Journey of Wellness in Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy, and if You click on this Link in Green, You can read this Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different which you will be able to find more information”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am up to” 🙂 during my spare time you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/

“It is all free”. You can “Download ~ Take print outs” “share and or pass it on also” for others who can benefit from this article and all the other posts ❤

Sending Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies ❤

Thanking the I net for the posts I have shared ❤

Many God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa 100Deepa Nilamani ❤

Wishes Star ❤

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Freedom To Be You!

Hello To, All My Dear Readers Followers and Blogging Friends ❤
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Today I am writing about, “A Very Important Topic ~ It is about Freedom” It is based on how people try to Manipulate some of us. “The secret of freedom is courage. This verse about Behaviour, is one which I greatly believe from ~ Erich Seligmann Fromm!

Erich_Fromm 1Erich Seligmann Fromm (March 23, 1900 – March 18, 1980) was a German-born American social psychologist,   psychoanalystsociologisthumanistic philosopher. Fromm believed that freedom was an aspect of human nature that we either embrace or escape. He observed that embracing our freedom of will was healthy, whereas escaping freedom through the use of escape mechanisms was the root of psychological conflicts. Fromm outlined three of the most common escape mechanisms: automaton conformity, authoritarianism, and destructiveness. Automaton conformity is changing one’s ideal self to conform to a perception of society’s preferred type of personality, losing one’s true self in the process. Automaton conformity displaces the burden of choice from self to society. Authoritarianism is giving control of oneself to another. By submitting one’s freedom to someone else, this act removes the freedom of choice almost entirely. Lastly, destructiveness is any process which attempts to eliminate others or the world as a whole, all to escape freedom ~ Courtesy of https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Erich_Fromm!

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Behavior – “If other people do not understand our behavior what can we do. We behave according to our personalities”.
Their request that, “We must only do what they understand, is an attempt to, ‘Dictate’ as mostly they ‘Resent’ our ‘Freedom’ and our ‘Courage’ to be ourselves.
We owe nobody an explanation or an accounting, as long as, ‘Our acts Do Not Hurt or Infringe them’.
How many lives have been ‘Ruined’ by this need to explain, which usually implies that the explanation be, ‘Understood’ i.e. Approved.
“Let Your Deeds be Judged”. And, ‘From Your Deeds ~ Your real Intentions’
But know that, “A Free Person Owes an Explanation Only to Himself/Herself” And to,’ The Few’ “Who may have Justified Claim for Explanation” ~Erich Fromm.

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As human beings, “Freedom is Very Important. In fact it is to, “All Living beings” including the animal kingdom” We are all born with, “A Unique Personality to each other and we all have that need to Behave, to Act and overall Live according to how our personality is”. As I wrote before, “We have the Right to Live freely” how we want, as long as we do not do the wrong things that is harmful to ourselves or to others!

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When we are restricted or prevented is, “The times we feel, stressed” That Thing called Stress !!! and if it is how we have to live, long term it’s through because of this Stress we become unwell/sick”. As human beings, “We are lucky that we can learn from others, read and so much of resources to learn ~ How best we can go about to Live according to our personalities/ our ways of doing thing in life ~ how we like to do things” This is by educating ourselves ❤

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So we can Learn so many things ourselves as, “We are the only people who know exactly what and how we want to act and do things, to be relaxed, comfortable and at ease, as “The term Dis-ease simply means lack of ease or harmony within the body” ~ The I net! So to be in Harmony within the body, “Just be You” ❤

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I hope you like what I wrote and learnt something new, or remembered things you already knew. I know it is sometimes not easy, but have Courage and try as much as do things for you to be relaxed and Happy ❤

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Latest Update 6th March 2020: Up to date with the Birthday article 111th and The Introductory page I have Published 112 posts. On “The Top Right-Hand side” you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, you will see the word “Home”. All the 111 posts from “The Beginning to the end is shown, under “Home” Under which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

I am in Good Health and as, “I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy in to My Hands” since “Beginning of 2016”. All my Hard work and Praying has been rewarded. Healing Energy can go to others wherever it is needed to be received with a Loving Kindness” even You ❤

So “I am Editing and Upgrading almost All the Posts from The Very Beginning” This is My Birthday and, “A New Chapter and A New Beginning”. Upgrading Myself to A New Wavelength ~ A New Chapter in My Life and I Wish so for You also. Please click this Link which will take You to My Birthday Post Birthday ❤

The old Topics on The Left-Hand side “Under Recent Posts, Archives and Categories with “The new Topics adding up. Happy Reading ❤

And what I have been doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Moving forward Writing My own Journey of Good Health in Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy in this Post, and if You click on this Link in Green You can read this Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts which you will be able to find more information”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am up to” 🙂 during my spare time you can have a look at: https://deepanilamani.com/

“It is all free”. You can “Download ~ Take print outs” “share and pass it on also” for others who can benefit from this article and All the other posts ❤

Thanking https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wikipedia, The I net for the posts I have taken https://www.online-image-editor.com/ for the pictures I have done ❤

Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies to You ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa 100Deepa Nilamani 🙂

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You are Stronger than You Think!

Hello To, All My Dear Followers, Readers and Blogging Friends ❤

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I have thought of some posts to lift your mood anytime you need a little boost. So, let’s Talk about things ❤

Stigma 4When people go through a lot, naturally they are under a lot of pressure. So they get stressed and go down in to low moods. So being stressed is under pressure which goes as depression, as well as being under pressure means stressed, and when people get too stressed also, they get worried, and they are under pressure. It works two ways. And sometimes even some of our closest family members can, fail to understand or able to support us exactly how it helps as they cannot fully understand what’s going on with us. At these times it can be a friend or someone else who can understand and be helpful ❤

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Know That, “It MATTERS to ME that YOU become Well and I CARE ❤ and it “Hurts me to Feel that you feel hurt or sad”. I know how it hurts when people are unkind or cruel. And sometimes things do not work the way you want. “DO NOT GIVE UP IN ANYWAY” or try to do things that will harm you Please ❤

Know that You can Heal. It is in this post: Healing ~ Taking Full Responsibility !

Try and “TALK” to someone who can be Kind and Listen to You ❤

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You Know that although I don’t know you personally, as I have developed, “My Third Eye”. My senses are VERY STRONG and I might FEEL that someone is in NEED” ❤

The third eye (also called the mind’s eye or inner eye) invisible eye, usually located on the forehead, which provides perception beyond ordinary sight. Third Eye in Healing! 

Perception: the ability to see, hear, or become aware of something through the senses.

Thoughts can Travel Long Distance and also “HEALING ENERGY” which is, The “GIFT that I have got by “Working Very Hard for Years, Giving, Sharing and Praying Very Hard with Dedication and Sacrifice: “Prayer energy which also can be called Healing Energy” can travel far and wide to distant places too. If You click this link You can go to another of My Posts Explaining about Energy. Its not possible to cover everything in one post as well it can be too much to Read Understand and Take in: Energy Healing!

15th December 2020. 2.25 AM ~ 2.28 AM ~ 2.36 AM. 2.55 AM. Right Now I am having Vibrations in Both My Hands. Sometimes you might feel your Right Hand (meaning Your fingers and the palm vibrating) that means you are getting Healing Energies, sometimes it can be the Left Hand (again the fingers and the palm same way), and sometimes it can be Both Hands receiving (again it is the fingers and the palms same way). All depends on How you will need and Have A Pure Heart and Receive with Loving Kindness. They will stay a while, also come and go at certain times and stop ❤ ❤ ❤

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1. Healing from ~ Depression ! :  2.I Have Prayed For You! 

You can, “Click on these Green Letters they will take you to these articles : What Is Healing ?

For YOU to know that what I am saying is TRUE I am posting, “My Grandfather’s Link ~ just click on it to know it is The “GIFT” coming down from the generations. Details are written down below. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/G._P._Wickramarachchi

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This is a Beautiful video about, “Hope” please do watch it, and the Music is Beautiful and uplifting too ❤

I Hope all these will Be Helpful at times when your feel You need some Strength. Trust me, if you can listen to some uplifting music, (as doing other things might too much for you, at certain times). it really helps; it does for me. If you can listen a little loud all the better, but of course it might be you have to listen through the headphones, not to disturb the others, I do Love Music and when I am listening I listen through the headphones, if you like to dance or do some movements even sitting and watching can Help to Relax and Distract. Even if it says for children, as adults also just doing some movements helps Relax and even just watching is said to help ❤

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As dancing relaxes you and get all the Happy Hormones to work. This is a beautiful video I was sent by a friend and now I am passing on for those who will like and to pass it on for your friends and Loved ones for them to feel Good too ❤

You need to Be Strong and have Courage Courage to Heal ~ Depression !  Always have Faith, and Hope. Remember You Matter and Keep Going. The World Needs You 🙂 ❤

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You must know that, You need not be very beautiful, rich or famous, but just as you are, “YOU are A VERY VALUABLE PERSON” ❤ Remember You Matter and Keep Going “The World Needs You ❤

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Latest Update 6th March 2020: Up to date with the article 111th and The Introductory page I have Published 112 posts. On “The Top Right-Hand side” you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, You will see the word “Home” All the 111 posts from “The Beginning to the end is shown, Under “Home” Under which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

*I started this blog in September 2015, mainly to write my journey on mental wellness “Just in My Pen Name Deepa Nilamani” ~ But as I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy ~ which began its Journey since February 2016 ” ~ I have had to introduce myself in, “My Full name” and to be seen from where, “I have acquired, “The Gift of Healing Hands” Down The Generation, “Who My Maternal Grandfather is, and My Great Grandfather is, I have had to add this Link. Which will take you to “Their Details on The site of Wikipedia on the I net”: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/G._P._Wickramarachchi

It is something I have earned, “Through sheer Hard work, Sharing, Giving, Donating and through Loving Kindness” and above all being “Truthful and Honest”. “The Universal Energy” is also called “Healing or Pranic energy”, “chi” in China and “ki” in Japan. As we know, energy can travel so, “Prayer energy which also can be called Healing Energy” can travel far and wide to distant places too. If You click this link You can go to another of My Posts Explaining about Energy. Its not possible to cover everything in one post as well it can be too much to Read Understand and Take in: Energy Healing!

I have been able to become “Very Positive” All my Hard work and Praying has been rewarded. Healing Energy can go to others wherever it is needed to be received with a clear Mind and A Lot of Loving Kindness” ❤

So “I am having to Edit and Update All the Posts from The Very Beginning”, “A New Chapter and A New Beginning”. I am Moving on. Upgrading Myself to “A New Wavelength ~ A New Chapter” in My Life and I Sincerely Wish so for You also ❤

The old Topics on The Left-Hand side “Under ~ Recent Posts Archives, Categories with “The new Topics adding up. Happy Reading. Be Brave ❤ ❤ ❤

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And what I have been doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Writing My Own Journey of Good Health and Healing in Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy in this Post, and if You click on this Link in Green You can read this Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

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The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts of Mine which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation also”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am up to” 🙂 during my spare time you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/ ❤

Now Remember, “You are Stronger than You Think” ❤

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“It is all free”. You can download. Take print outs, share and pass it on also for others who can benefit from these posts. I hope All those Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so as,” Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in Life”. Any questions or comments are most welcome ❤ ❤ ❤

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Thanking the You tube and The I net, for the posts I have taken and Free Online Image Editor (online-image-editor.com) for The posts I have done myself ❤

Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies to You ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa 100Deepa Nilamani 🙂

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