Category: Journey

Some Try to Spoil Others Lives for No Reason?

Hello To All My Dear Readers Followers and Blogging Friends ❤

Hope all of you are doing well and being Happy. I am quite Happy, as the Blog is growing and, more and more readers are joining, seen and unseen no matter as long as its being read and being helped in some way. In my case I get so much of satisfaction in writing, it helps me to put my thoughts in order as well as give out my views and to relax after I do my studying. Do comment and questions are always welcome. It keeps the Blog alive and interesting when so many bring out their way of looking at life 🙂

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Well here I am trying to figure out why some people are always trying to stand across other people’s progress, spoil their friendships/relationships, and maybe even studies and job opportunities, in short come in between and and try to mess other’s lives even if they have done “Nothing wrong to them”!!! When I wanted to write on this topic I came across them as, “Toxic People” Going through certain events that has and is happening around me, now I have realized that they are indeed, “People who Think Negatively mainly” and do not have much Good Influences to others!

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What is the real reason that these people become that way. It need not be that they are poor or struggling in life but, it is because they have, “The wrong Values in Life” Its true that we all need that green stuff called money to pay our bills and buy things to eat and live. But some make Money the Priority and thereby, “Lose their value as human beings” Money can be earned but, ” Can you put A Value for Human Life?

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Money, material things are to be used to, “Live as Dignified Human Beings” Instead these people, “Lose their humanness and Dignity” by becoming slaves to those pieces of paper. Actually these people do not realize that being, “Toxic to others, they become Toxic to themselves ~ “Wrong thinking brings about, “Negative Vibrations and Acids in the body” that “Destroy the cells instead of making them” and many chronic illnesses comes up, that these green pieces called money is unable to Heal”!!!

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From what I have been observing, I have also realized that these type of  people, “Have No clue what so ever in, “The Laws of the Universe”, anything to do with any kind of religion, prayers or what is really Good or Bad” In short, “They do not have any Ethics, Dignity or Morals” Naturally they are not at peace or have any kind of real Happiness in their lives”!

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In life, in religions generally we are always told about dealing what ever the wrong doings of others with “Loving Kindness”. To forgive and to show understanding. But the fact is, with some people, “They mistake your Kindness for Weakness” This topic is often debated even on Face Book and by many people. “My being an exceptionally Tolerant and Patient to others unkindness, “I have Experienced then misunderstanding My Kindness. It is Because I am Strong that I am able to tolerate others wickedness” What is the solution ? Are they as ignorant and naïve as they show?

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Its the people that makes a society. And in this society we come across many types of people. How ever much good one is, there will be those who try to find something wrong. In life one does comes across these type of people, trying to spread unnecessary and wrong views of others. Disturbing “The Peace and Harmony in some people and also in the society itself” I myself cannot understand at anytime “Why some people keep on being unkind, “With No reason to some who have not done or doing any harm, but move on in life just living their life without troubling others” At any given time, “I really cannot see reason for this” ~ other than these people’s minds needs some sort of guidance and correcting to change their behaviour. But the fact is, “It is not easy to change others, the society or the world. But I Hope that by, “Leading a Life according to Dharma will somehow have some Influence to alter these issues and Bring Peace and Harmony” Until then This is something I came across ” interesting Quote to read” ❤

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I have been facing certain Unnecessary challenges I never expected. But I soon realize, and pray for guidance and answers, I get them, in time and I am able to move on stronger and better. I have faced a challenge soon after my birthday last month and my prayers were answered and now just in a month I am moving on forward. It is just that we need to move on to “Higher grounds or a Higher wave length “That we need to put in more Work, Time and Energy”!

This is an Update on The 24th of January 2020: I received The Gift of Healing ~ Something I never really expected happened as a Result of Praying and facing all that happened with Strength and Maitri this post is on: Who I am & Why I am Writing!❤

Maitrī (Sanskrit; Pali: mettā) means benevolence, loving-kindness, friendliness, good will, and active interest in others. 

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If you look at things this way. “The Kind/Good people are those who Help and Encourage us up. We need to know how to recognize these people, that is the time we have to be matured enough or become wise enough, to weave our way through most of the obstacles in life with much less stress or difficulty. And then I believe, “We would have earned the right and also able to spend the rest of our lives, in Dignity, Happiness and Peace. What do you think? This is what I observe at this stage of my life. What about You ❤

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Latest Update 6th March 2020: Up to date with the Birthday article 111th and I have published 112 posts. On “The Top Right Hand side” you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, You will see will see The word “Home” Under Which The Introductory Page is about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

I am in Good Health and as, “I have been able to, “Receive The Gift of Healing” All my Hard work and Praying has been rewarded.” Healing Energy can go to others where ever it is needed to be received with a Clear Mind and A Lot of Loving Kindness” ❤

So I have been updating and Editing almost all my posts naturally as, This is “A New Chapter and A New Beginning” I Upgrading Myself to A New Wave Length. A New Chapter in My Life and I Wish so for You also. Please click this Link which will take You to My Birthday Post Birthday!❤

The older Topics which are from “The First Lot” will be “On The Left Hand side. Under the, “Recent Posts” with “The New Topics adding up. Also Under Archives and Categories. Happy Reading ❤

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And what I am doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Moving forward Writing My Own Story in Wellness. Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy in this Post, and if You click on this Link in Green You can read this Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to my other posts, which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation also”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing” 🙂 you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/ ❤

“It is all free”. You can “Download. Take print outs” “share and pass it on also” for others who can benefit from this article and All the other posts ❤

Thanking for the Quotes I have taken from: https://www.gograph.com/vector-clip-art/writing.html and The I net ❤

Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies from me to All of You ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa 100Deepa Nilamani 🙂

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My Path!

Hello To All My Dear Readers Followers and Blogging Friends ❤

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After tackling the topic on, “The writer’s block” it seems to be that some of the advice given has worked as I have got back into writing. But, beginning of another chapter is still evading me, hence now I am facing some sort of difficulties to move on ahead as I really would like to. In my case, these ups and downs of life affect me in different ways at different times. Sometimes I used to have doubts, mind you it’s was not going into low moods, at any cost, my spirits might go a little dim just like any other person, when things go wrong or doesn’t work as how one expects to, But I Believe:

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But my nature is not to stay in one place and waste valuable time. I somehow find something to lift my spirits up. (this is how I have become completely well from low moods (depression as it is also being said) and today leading a Fully Healthy Life!

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I believe when we face some sort of difficulties in life, the first thing we need to do is to, “Think that we are Not going to stay in one place”, but some or other find some way, to move away from that situation at least a few steps away 🙂

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We are people of habits. We tend to do the same thing day after day as its easy and convenient to stick to same patterns that we are used to. Sometimes, unless we are almost forced to we don’t change our usual routines. This life brings us challenges which comes in various forms for us to change, overcome, learn and grow stronger and move on to the next level. So the delays that happen in out lives how do we manage?

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We need to have Strength and Courage to somehow find ways of, “Changing and Moving on. In my case I turn to Pray” Because I have found out and now (This is 9th of September 2020: You can see and Believe that I have Succeeded and Even Received Healing Energy) Intense Praying, in Any Religion, “Helps to Change our Energies that Helps and Gives us Strength”!

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We need to have Strength and Courage to somehow find ways of, “Changing and Moving on. In my case I turn to Pray” Because I have found out and now (This is 9th of September 2020: You can see and Believe that I have Succeeded and Even Received Healing Energy).

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The thing is, Anyone can only feel “The Energy coming into Your Hands. Either the Right or Left Hand or even Both Hands. Intense Praying, in Any Religion, “Helps to Change our Energies that Helps and Gives us Strength”!

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Yes we have to “Try” our Best to turn around and take another Path. As always life gives us chances. But we need to have Faith enough to start moving on ahead with the Hope that things will work out for us, with new and unknown opportunities. I whole Heartedly Wish for You. I am aware of what is going on in the world. I believe in “Not giving up but to keep on “Moving Forward” Step By step with courage, we are able to progress” I wanted to HELP Everyone ❤

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I did have faith that things will workout favorably for me in some way. What I did was to is put my mind in to the thinking mode. This all depends on each and every person and their circumstances also, I am aware of what is going on in the world. I believe in “Not giving up but to keep on “Moving Forward” Step By step with courage, we are able to progress” I wanted to HELP Everyone and even though I didn’t exactly know at that time somehow my Intense Praying has Brought me this Gift of Healing Energies that “Flows to even Long Distance to completely unknown people, “To Heal as well as Better their Lives somehow” ❤

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I hope you all enjoyed reading this article and share some of the same views with me or anything new you can contribute. Can I have views from some of you? Those who Like to. I would be very grateful as your comments will make it more interesting, as well as some of you will be able to give completely different answers, observing life from a completely different angle.

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Latest Update 9th of September 2020: Up to date I have written 128 Posts. On “The Top Right Hand side” you are able to see: All the 127 posts from, The Beginning to the end is shown . Under The word “Menu” when you click on it, You will see will see The word “Home” Under Which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

I am in Good Health and as, “I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy in to My Hands” since “Beginning of 2016” All my Hard work and Praying has been rewarded. Healing Energy can go to others where ever it is needed to be received with a Clear Mind and a Lot of Loving Kindness” ❤

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I am Editing and Updating almost all my posts naturally as, This is “A New Chapter and A New Beginning” I am Upgrading Myself to A New Wave Length. A New Chapter in My Life and I Wish so for You also. Please click this Link which will take You to My Birthday Post Birthday!❤

Also There will still be The older Topics “On The Left Hand side, Under the “Recent Posts” and Under Archives and Categories, with “The New Topics adding up. Happy Reading ❤

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And what I am doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Moving forward Writing My Own Story in Wellness. Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy in this Post, and if You click on this Link in Green You can read this Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation also”. I also have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing” 🙂 during my spare time you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/ ❤

“It is all free”. You can “Download. Take print outs” “share and pass it on also” for others who can benefit from this article and all the other posts ❤

Thank you all for reading. And thanking all those, whose quotes I have shared from the I net and https://www.online-image-editor.com/  for the picture quotes I have done ❤

Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies to each and everyone of you ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa 1Deepa Nilamani ❤

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Writer’s Block?

Hello To, All My Dear Readers Followers and Blogging Friends ❤

As you all can see, I have taken a long time to write an article since the last one, End of A Very Long Journey ! This is mainly because after that end, I still had not found any, New Beginnings ! to write about. As always, a beginning has to follow an end. Not knowing how to start writing again, I have looked in to this topic about, “The writer’s block”. These are what I came across!

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There seems to be many different views by different people. Some do apply to most or or some of us, and maybe some of you also may come across these sometimes?

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I found it an interesting topic and decided to write, as somehow I wanted to get back in to writing, and this is one of the advice I found, and hopefully this will help me to be posting articles here again 😛block-4I guess almost all of you are aware that when we write, we have to concentrate to find words in order to write. As I wrote at the beginning, nothing new has happened to me to write about. No one has asked any questions nor given any suggestions either. And as I have found out, “There is that specific time for writing. And also, suddenly certain Topics, and Ideas comes up one after the other, that I cannot decide what to write next. And then I go and ask, “What My Readers what They Like me to write next. But see “They have so many ideas, “I find I don’t know what to do next!

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From what I have read and know, we all need a rest from our usual routine to relax and refresh as well as find new and fresh ideas. So, it is for writing as I have found in this quote which says what to do and what not to do. But it Does NOT apply for Everyone!

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I am more on to the way of a perfectionist, and this also is a reason that sometimes I take my own time to do things, as whatever I do, I want it to be that perfect piece of work, so writing also comes under that. I wonder how many of you share this trait with me?

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Although it is mentioned as a block, somehow, I have managed to write an article about, “The writer’s Block itself”. Yes, it does become quiet to think of what to write and then it has come back suddenly. I thought of this topic that encouraged me to write again which is quite Surprising. But then I found that because, I wanted to write perfectly well also in a way, that delayed me from writing. But again, sometimes when we work too much, we do become tired and needs to take enough, “Rest” to Refresh and write again!

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Then do we always become successful and popular writers?  Or do we write because we like to write, to put forth our ideas that flood into out minds. I am not sure if I should say we. But this applies to me, as I don’t earn anything from writing here, and sometimes there is not too much of a response but yet I go on writing, because I like to write. I hope those of you read will give, some of your ideas or views on this. I found this on the I net from another site. Don’t you think it is funny. It says stop the clock 😀

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I hope you all enjoyed reading this article and share the same views with me, or anything new you can contribute? For more information on writing, you can also look up my other article: All About Writing !

Latest Update 6th March 2020: Up to date with the Birthday article 111th and with The Introductory page I have Published 112 posts. On “The Top Right-Hand side” you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, All the 111 posts from, The Beginning to the end is shown. “Below the Home Page” Under which also is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

“I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy into My Hands” since “Beginning of 2016” All my Hard work and Praying has been rewarded. Healing Energy can go to others wherever it is needed to be received with a Clear Mind and Lots of Loving Kindness” ❤

So “I am having to Edit and Update All The Posts from The Very Beginning” This is My Birthday and, “A New Chapter and A New Beginning”. Still Learning. Upgrading Myself to A New Wave Length ~ A New Chapter in My Life and I Wish so for You also. Click this Link which will take You to The Birthday Post Birthday!❤

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And what I am doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Moving forward writing My Own Journey in Wellness. Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy. If You click on this Link in Green You can read this Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

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The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation”. I have another Personal website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing” 🙂 during my spare time you can have a look at that website if You click on this Link :https://deepanilamani.com/ ❤

“It is all free”. “Download ~ Take print outs, share and pass it on also for others who can benefit from these posts. I hope All those Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so as,” Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in Life”. Any questions or comments are most welcome“❤

And thanking for all the quotes and posts, I have shared from the I net and https://www.online-image-editor.com/ for the written quotes by me ❤

Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies from me  ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa 1Deepa Nilamani 🙂

Wishing Star ❤

 

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End of A Very Long Journey!

Hello to, All My Dear Readers Followers and Blogging Friends ❤

First of all let me wish All My Dear Readers A Very Happy New Year 🙂

Thank you all for coming to my blog and liking and supporting me. When you read and appreciate, I feel what I write help in some way that I am encouraged to do more and better. Since I wrote my last article there has been questions as to how I managed to recover from the low moods also referred as depression, and what I did. So this includes answers to some of those questions and some may be what I have written before, but then as with time, now that I am editing, I am writing with added knowledge and experiences!

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One can compare clearing, for an example, to a muddy glass of water clearing up, as the mud particles settles down, the water becomes pure and clear as you can see from this picture below ❤

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Until you really clear your mind, that is to say until you get over most of what ever each of you have gone through, you sort of need to keep away from the places and people who upset you. This is not to be staying alone, but at this time if you have a lot of time for yourself to rest and think clearly without others disturbing your thought pattern you can get back into your own way of doing things much quicker. We need to safeguard our minds too from outside disturbances until it becomes well. Why you need a good environment is, in the silence you hear yourself. You are able to really understand what works best for you to feel happy and relaxed!

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You also need to detach/let go of people and situations that keeps on disturbing and upsetting you. What I mean is if you cannot move away physically, you need to start detaching yourself from all that mentally. When you detach yourself from the mind, automatically you are able to have less disturbance from those that disturb you ❤

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I have been writing that in life, we can take challenges for us to face them and become stronger and move on to the next level. I know its difficult to face harsh and cruel things that happens in life. There is almost no one who has Not gone through any kind of pain or hardship. One thing I have to say is, many think that mental conditions happen through relationships only. But it can be anything. Major events like, volcanoes, floods and earthquakes where people get into difficult situations, also sometimes some find studying is difficult if its not according to their personalities, not being able to find proper jobs, all can contribute to be stressed and unwell!

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Once you begin to heal you don’t want to be wasting time talking about all the negative things that happened to you in the past. I did some studies on, “Personal Development” from which I learnt so much about people’s behaviors and how to face them. The others on “Natural Health and Healing that I expanded my knowledge so much about “Healing the Natural way”. Now on going, “A Diploma in Psychology ~ Counselling and Psychotherapy” which I have become so aware in very different light and discovering so much. I have to say its the best thing that I started to study” So all of them boosted my inner growth and brought back that confidence and strength in me. I can say I have become stronger. We all have to keep on trying. If we try hard enough, “We all can make progress well enough to lead a good and successful life of value” ❤

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Once we take our lives into our hands and do what makes us happy, then You have healed. Yes you need medical help. That you definitely have to have and medications what has to help you. But there is a very big part in your hands, as its you who is always with you and knows exactly what is happening. Everyone can help, But ultimately, Healing is in the hands of the person concerned!

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You need to educate yourself so as to become wise. The sixth sense, also called the third eye helps you to know how life works. Through all that you, Find the “Truth” The answers to why certain things happened to you and around you. But you don’t need to run after those who have hurt and harmed you. That is wasting valuable time!

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You forgive not for the other person, but yourself, and move on with your life. “Punishment comes to those who do wrong, not once, but over and over again, when knowing that they are doing the wrong thing” People have no excuse as they have so much of education and guidance from the day, they are born to help them lead good lives. Life is so valuable and it’s a pity that some think its only they need to live well But, they can hurt and harm others. The beauty of it is, “As survivors we become, “Better and stronger people to give a helping hand to others to stand up”. There by our lives becomes Peaceful and Blessed. Things that money cannot buy. I hope everyone who reads will at least find one answer to their questions, and learnt something new to help you ❤ ❤ ❤

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Latest Update 6th March 2020: Up to date with the Birthday article 111th and The Introductory page. I have Published 112 posts. On Top Right Hand side you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, you will see the word “Home” All the 111 posts from “The Beginning to the end is shown, “Under which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!.

I am in Good Health and as, “I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy into My Hands” since “Beginning of 2016” All my Hard work and Praying has been rewarded. Healing Energy can go to others wherever it is needed to be received with a Clear Mind and Lots of Loving Kindness” ❤

So “I am Editing and Updating almost All the Posts from The Very Beginning” This is My Birthday and, “A New Chapter and A New Beginning”. Upgrading Myself to A New Wavelength ~ A New Chapter in My Life and I Wish so for You also. Please click this Link which will take You to My Birthday Post Birthday!❤

“The old Topics on The Left-Hand side “Under ~ Recent Posts, Archives and Categories, with “The new Topics adding up. Happy Reading ❤

And what I am doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Moving forward writing y Own Journey of Wellness in Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy in this Post, and if You click on this Link in Green, You can read this Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts of Mine and Other’s websites also ~ which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation also”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am up to” 🙂 you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/ ❤

“It is all free”. You can “Download ~ Take print outs” “share and pass it on also” for others who can benefit from this article and all the other posts ❤

Thanking for the picture’s quotes taken from the I net, rawforbeauty.com, and https://www.online-image-editor.com/ for the picture’s quotes done by me ❤

Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies from me ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You All ❤

Deepa 100Deepa Nilamani 🙂

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