Who are We ~ Why are We here?

Hello to, All My Dear Readers Followers and My Blogging Friends ❤

How are all of you keeping well I gather. There is so many issues that are happening all over the world in the present times, and I thought of penning my views on this topic according to my knowledge and experiences. When I say so many issues, its not about just war related happening that are going on as I am not someone who gets involved in political or religious issues. But it is in general how people behave and treat other fellow human beings and go about in life 🙂
As human beings we are all able to learn, observe, think and make use of all our senses together, to put into good use for ourselves and others benefit. Once we are born to this world it, “Our Duty to work towards the welfare of All Mankind” But so many do not do this, why? Because they see themselves as one person, as individuals. The society, the world is all inter-related or connected to one another like a web. When people upset from one side, it shakes up another side. Why is all these people who hurt and harm others’ lives are unaware of this. Lord Buddha has preached that, as adult human beings we can, “Discriminate between Right and Wrong” And its wrong to ignore when we can advise or point out if someone is doing something wrong for their benefit. We do not need a religion to exactly know how another person feel. If we get hurt, physically or mentally, we know the same way another will get hurt. Am I correct?

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Man is, “The only creature who is able to read, listen, learn and able to choose between right and wrong, with wisdom” When we are born we all go through a process of education from our childhood beginning from “Nursery Rhymes” Starting with our parents then teachers, religion, friends and so many who crosses our paths we are shown in every way, how things work in life. We are given endless opportunities to the maximum; this is why there are two parents. If one fails the other is there, just like two hands and even other family around us. With all these “Guidance” why is it that some end up being extremely deteriorated, evil enough to go to an extent of not only doing grievous harm, but to the extent of destroying such valuable human lives!!!

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This is because, with all that “Guidance” these people, “Choose to be Ignorant. Yes, as human beings they choose and continue to be so, when they have all that process of being able to Enlighten, Discipline themselves to be Good Citizens of the world” Ignorance of unwanted issues can be Bliss. As we cannot know and learn everything. But being Ignorant of Human Values are Evil!!!

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But it’s not only in these modern days, it is said that, so many good people like, Mahatma Gandhi, Martin Luther King, were trying to Enlighten and Guide towards better life!!!

Socrates 2 It was Socrates who said that when you harm another, “It’s the soul of that person who is harmed” These are said by many different ways. What goes around comes around, according to, “The Laws of The Universe” “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you” A command based on words of “Almighty God Lord Jesus Christ himself”: The Mosaic law contains a parallel commandment: “Whatever is hurtful to you, do not do to any other person”. All these Religions say the same things in different ways!!!

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With all that, man harms his brothers, sisters who are all part of each other. We are all energy. Hence connected to each other. We are all soul sisters and brothers of one big family. Still with all that man harms. 

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The reasons given by many of these great people is, “part of the general society do not want people to do well ~ They Resent others greatness” Greatness does Not come with money. It comes with unselfishness, good values, integrity ~ the quality of being Truthful and Honest and having strong moral principles!!!

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This type of people has no rules, no moral values. They have No clue in what they have to do as human beings. But only of themselves. Their values are completely different from those who abide by the rules of, any religion which all come under ~ “The Laws of The Universe”, which governs us all!!!

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When people do not have any set values, they do not know who they are. When people have no respect for themselves, they are unable to respect others. Actually, I do not personally understand how people can be so ignorant, even some of those who are highly qualified in certain fields of education. It’s not only those who are uneducated who do the wrong things. It’s among All people, in all colours and in all races in the world. So many have a lot of anger and resentment towards others. It can be religions, culture and even how they look and their status in the society that they want to put them down or even do away with some of them completely. Most of these things come from a section, who are after material things and never gets satisfied at any time!!!

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Greed is never ending and never satisfying. Greed can be for anything, whatever can bring someone power over others. Goodness can never be overtaken by evil. As you see, the mind plays a very big part in all our lives. That is why the religions are there, for us to be guided from time to time. 

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Although we are one, each one can contribute in some way, to the welfare of our world. Mother earth needs to be protected for our future generations. Even bees are in danger because of pesticides. These are selfish acts with no thought of others. If there no bees there can be no, pollinating for thousands of flowers for our fruits and vegetables. So, it’s not only war, but water, food and clean air as well!!!

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Why the world is a dangerous place is, because so many people who know its wrong look the other way or take no actions at all. “We need to somehow stand by the weak, helping, giving a hand to the fallen, the sick, the less fortunate however a small way we can” ❤

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So today 11th of July 2016, I have worked on this from morning. Almost the whole day. Its the first time I have written an article, that is mostly about religion. I don’t know exactly why I thought to write this, but from the time I started I have been reminded of something my mother said before she passed away 19 years ago. She had great faith in religion and also Devotional Prayers, and passed away very peacefully, that I still continue daily as “I know the value of Healing Energies of any kind of prayers”.  I have been always keen on the knowledge of Buddhism and later went on to read about other religions which comes under, “Sarwa Dharma” Sarva Dharma Sama Bhava – Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia. Sarva Dharma Sama Bhava is an Indian concept embodying the equality of all religions. The concept was embraced by Ramakrishna and Vivekenanda, as well as Gandhi.

It was during our talks that she mentioned, “I have enough knowledge to lecture religion”, which took me by surprise and I took it as a great compliment, as she was highly qualified. I said “That’s The greatest Compliment I have got” I had No idea at that time that, “I will be writing on the I net for many people all over the world today”. I had always wanted to do service. But I never imagined, this is what I ultimately came to do. “The highest form of charity is, giving out what you know to help others ~ “The Gift of Knowledge” 🙂

The essence of true charity is to give something without expecting anything in return for the gift
To the Buddhist, the highest gift of all is the gift of Dhamma. This gift has great powers to change a life

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There are those who read in and out of Face Book too. At the time I wrote this long time ago in: 11th July 2016 ~ I had the strength from those who have said not to expect much feedback or comments, that even if I help one person with my knowledge it’s enough for my whole life. “I do not know who read or how many, and I prefer Not to know. As if I know of a known person, then my freedom of writing is disturbed” As then I think will she or he will think I am trying to impress or prove a point! 

Those who are qualified and the doctors may know exactly why you need to take medication without fail to become well and also for prevention depending on each person. Why I am writing all this, is to “Give Hope for all of those out there, for you to some extent recover if not fully”. So that you can have Faith on living a Better and Happier life 🙂

“If my mother was alive, she would have been very happy, to know that today I am, who she thought me to be. I don’t know how Blessing’s work, but from all what I am doing, “I offer Merit to Both my Grandparents from both sides, Parents and my Family, Friends. I am not just me. “I am a collection of many down the generations of both my parents”. Just like material things, knowledge and wisdom are also to be passed on. “Teaching is the act of Sharing the Knowledge We Have been Given by Others with The Hope that Someday, in some way, “It Will Be Passes on and on Again” (11th July 2020 11.24 PM ~ 11.28 as I am editing this article here “I have got Healing Energy in Both My Hands”. I Hope some of you will get them also. They do not stay always. They will flow into you and come and go. I Wish Many Blessings of Good Health and Peace ❤

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That is the real value in life” What I do is who I am ~”Deepa Nilamani”. I believe my Grandfather named me with some meaning, being a very wise person. “Deepa or Dipa (Hindi : दीपा) is a Hindu/Sanskrit Indian popular feminine given name, which means “lamp” and “light”. Nilamani (नीलमणि) means sapphire and blue gem ~ Blue Sapphire is birth stone of September ~ https://www.pitarau.com/. Light means Enlightenment. Being ignorant (lacking knowledge or awareness in general), And here what I am doing is trying to help others to, “Heal. I do hope I am doing it right. “March 6th, 2020, update. I have proven it correct. Read the update.  Thank You” ❤

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We need to know the rules of life so that we can live well, knowing we have done our duty to ourselves as well as others, lived according to the “The Laws of The Universe” ❤

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I started this blog in September 2015, mainly to write my journey on mental wellness “Just in My Pen Name Deepa Nilamani” ~ But as I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy ~ which began its Journey since February 2016 ” ~ I have had to introduce myself in, “My Full name” and to be seen from where, “I have acquired, “The Gift of Healing Hands” Down The Generation, “Who My Maternal Grandfather is, and My Great Grandfather is, I have added this Link. Which will take you on to “Their Details on the site of Wikipedia on the I net”: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/G._P._Wickramarachchi!

It is something I have earned, “Through sheer Hard work, Sacrifices, Sharing, Giving, Donating and through Loving Kindness” and above all being “Truthful and Honest”. “The Universal Energy” is also called “Healing or Pranic energy”, “chi” in China and “ki” in Japan. As we know, energy can travel so, “Prayer energy which also can be called Healing Energy” can travel far and wide to distant places too. If You click this link You can go to: Energy Healing!

So I am Editing and Upgrading almost all my posts naturally as, This is “A New Chapter and A New Beginning” Upgrading Myself to A New Wavelength. A New Chapter in My Life and I Wish so for You also. Please click this Link which will take You to My Birthday Post Birthday!❤

On “The Top Right-Hand side” you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, You will see The word “Home” All the 111 posts from, The Beginning to the end is shown, Below the Home Page”. Which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

Also There will still be the older Topics “On the Left Hand side, Under the ~ “Recent Posts” and also Under Archives and Categories with “The New Topics adding up. Happy Reading ❤

And what I am doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Moving forward Writing My Journey of Wellness. Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy in this Post, and if You click on this Link in Green, You can read this Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts of Mine which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation also”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing” 🙂 during my spare time you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/ ❤

I hope you liked reading what I have written, and learnt something new?  We are always learning from each other and until the very end. Knowledge is the only thing that gives us wisdom to open our inner eye and find the truth. Which brings us Peace. Isn’t that we all want in the end. Loving Kindness to All 🙂 

“It is all free”. You can “Download ~ Take print outs” “share and pass it on also” for others who can benefit from this article and the posts. Any questions or comments are most welcome. I hope All those Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so as,” Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in Life”

Thanking For the posts Taken from the I net and https://www.online-image-editor.com/ for the picture quotes done by me ❤

Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies to all ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa 12Deepa Nilamani 🙂

Wishing Star ❤

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Challenges in Life ~ 2!

Hello To, All My Dear Readers Followers and My Blogging Friends ❤

First of all, may I wish you all a Very Happy New Year 🙂

I hope all of you are keeping well. I have not written for some time, as I had to recover from a very stressful period. Suddenly I faced a challenging issue, which distracted me from writing here and took me some time to settle myself properly again. Finally, I have overcome them and getting back to my usual routine 🙂

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This type of disruptions happens to all of us in different ways at the most unexpected times of our lives, that upset us sometimes. “Luckily I held on and was a very good test of my strength” I did get stressed, anxiety set in getting drowsy, but I never got any low moods. So, it’s a very big comfort to me, to know that I will never get into those low moods again whatever challenges I came across. And that I can face challenges with Courage, is good for those who read also, to know to “Stand Strong” and somehow hold on with, “Strength, Courage and Persistence and Be Patient, until you overcome and achieve Your Goals in Life” 🙂

Challenge 1These types of issues create stress as one has to think when dealing with, two major issues at the same time. At this time the best thing to do is to stop almost everything and take a complete rest, as one needs to have a clear mind to solve whatever one is facing. Unlike dealing with people, dealing with a system is complicated, as the systems work according to very strict rules. With all what is going on from one side, in life there comes a balance too as, when one side was stressing, I got immense support from, the “Medical System”. “There are people who really knew the “Values of Life”, and also “Especially those who have face difficulties, and come up and are trying to help others” They had faith and “Believed in My Mission”, My Working towards Encouraging and Motivating others”. They were able to safeguard me from being unduly stressed so that I can get on with my life with all what I am doing. I am so very Grateful and blessed to have such wonderful and caring people by my side ❤

Challenge 4.Writing here at length itself is a sign that my mind has calmed down. We come across problems, due to various reasons. This type of issues can affect both mentally and physically due to stress. I began to wonder if I could even concentrate on my course and if I had taken on too much too soon. But thank goodness I was able to put my mind on to it again. The main thing for “Stress is to Relax and Calm oneself”.  Know that I am editing, and this is the past and I have to now write as The Past Tense. At that time, I joined a Group Exercise class. As doing things with others where there was a different atmosphere as well companionship, but later became too much with driving and with other activities. That I did things on my, when possible, at home 🙂

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With exercises, your good hormones start to work to make you more Positive and you can lose some weight and have a better shape too. Although it is for children, “It is well shown this is “For Everyone” and What I am doing while Editing the Past is: Adding My Knowledge from the Experiences I have had in the Past as well as New Knowledge Gained since 2015! Also, Later on I will write more, “There are so many Topics that can be written. For now, while Editing and Re writing I am Trying to include My Extra Knowledge as much as possible ❤Challenge 2

I Hope you learn something new from what I have written and then pass on to another of what you learn. That again is the beauty and the value of knowledge. Knowledge is Enhanced/increased, when shared and it travels far and wide like the ripples all over the world, touching so many others, and clearing the ignorance and lighting their lives with Wisdom which is like “Painting in Beautiful Colours and making Life More Positive 🙂

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Up to date with the Birthday article 111th and The Introductory page. I have Published 112 posts. On Top Right-Hand side, you can see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, You will see the word “Home” Under which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing! This is My Birthday and, “A New Chapter and A New Beginning”. I am Moving on. I have Learnt lot of New Things and Still Learning. Upgrading Myself to A New Wavelength ~ A New Chapter in My Life and I Wish so for You also. Please click this Link which will take You to The Birthday Post Birthday!

Also, there will be “The old Topics on The Left-Hand side “Under, Recent Posts and Archives and Categories” with “The new Topics adding up. Happy Reading ❤

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And what I am doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Moving forward Writing My Own Story in Wellness. Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy. This Post, if You click on this Link in Green, You can read this Post: Taking The Therapists Voice Forward!

The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to other different posts of Mine and you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation also”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am up to” 🙂 you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/ ❤

“It is all free”. You can “Download. Take print outs, share and pass it on also for others who can benefit from these posts. I hope All those Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so as,” Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in Life”. Any questions or comments are most welcome ❤ 🙂

Thanking The I net and https://www.online-image-editor.com/ for the Quotes Done by me and the other websites for the posts I have shared ❤

May you find Joy and may You find Happiness and Peace Always ❤

Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies to You ❤

May God’s Blessings be Upon You ❤

Deepa 1Deepa Nilamani ❤

Wising Star ❤

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All About Writing!

Hello To, All My Dear Readers, Followers and Blogging Friends ❤

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Its three months since I started this blog, my writing style has improved. I am gathering more information and expanding my knowledge. So this article is all about, “How I started to write”. After I overcame the low moods, I have been wanting to move on to do more things, and somehow, I felt the need to write My Journey of wellness for others benefit too. And one day I got this feeling that writing was My calling! ❤

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I had been writing on my Face Book pages and slowly improving but that was not enough for me. I wanted to do more. Wanting to do more is how I happened to start this blog. It seems that I had been developing myself gradually over the years, but was not aware of it until I did get down to write here. And now, I have found that I love to write. Its very satisfying and enjoyable. “For everyone there is something unique one can do, and for me I finally found that writing is my calling”. A Calling is what you really want to do that makes you feel fulfilled and happy 🙂

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What each of us write is unique to each other. As no two people have the same experiences the knowledge. In short each one has their own personality and how they write is different to each other. The use of words also is very important. As there are many whose first language is not English, and having been teaching to some of the children in Sri Lanka in the past, and also being an ESL (English as A Second Language) Tutor in TAFE (Technical and Further Education), I am writing in a simple way as possible 🙂

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Also, I find when you use too many very advanced words, the flow of the reading gets disturbed. As the mind slows down, “To understand and to think”. The words have to be written in such a way that one follows the next just like flowing of water from a natural spring, Blending of notes of Music in a Harmonious way ❤

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I have found out, the more you write the more you get better at it, just like most other things in life. Before writing it’s very important that you read a lot. As you need to be very fluent in the language you write. All these words that flow comes from our memory bank. In my case, from far as I can remember, my parents had read to me. I have been surrounded by books, so it is now. Books are my passion, and reading is one of two main hobbies. Even if I go to the shops, my first stop is the book shop. This has continued from my childhood to past my mid years now. So that I am familiar with a vast vocabulary. Like now I am just writing nonstop, and very often I find I am typing very fast. But then writing can be done very fast, but there is other things that has to be done before any writing can be Published, that not all are aware!

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Why we write. It’s because we have so much of knowledge, that we can share with others. Each person does their own way, how they know, what their talents are. Some write, some paint, some are musicians and each one paints the world with their own colours and make the world beautiful and better place to live in 🙂

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Writing helps to know yourself better. To find out who you are, what makes you happy and Joyful and to know what your Talents and Gifts are are. Through this you clarify your thoughts and feelings. Writing or journaling is the best way to organize yourself ❤

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As you write daily your thoughts your feelings, you find out things that even you didn’t know about yourselves. So, writing helps to reduce stress and is very therapeutic in relaxing and healing yourself. Writing helps the writer as well as many others, who read their experiences, stories and get to know their knowledge. As in one lifetime we do not have all the experiences in all the fields. Even what I write naturally is a combination of endless books I have read, other experiences and knowledge gathered over many years from My childhood itself 🙂

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As always in life, “We need to keep on Trying” to see what works for us in the Best way. For some they know from the very beginning as their Talents or Gifts are known to them or others around them. Some find out in their later years. So, this is why, you need to be in silence and at Peace so that “You learn from Wisdom” the answers you are looking for. For each of us its a different calling, but the main thing is to keep on trying as, “Each and Every one are Born with a Unique Calling according to our very own Personality and Talents” ❤

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So then since I started to write, I have found out that in the past, although I was not fully aware, often I had been thinking about writing. And “Then one day, I did happen to start, and I became an Author!” 🙂

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I hope you found this article interesting, and what I have written will be useful to “You to find out Your Calling” too. I have found that this is a wonderful way to share what I know and keep myself occupied too. What about thinking of starting to write a bit Yourself. You never know what You will Discover, “Even writing a Book may be, and I also will be Reading Your Books or Enjoying Your Music, Art, Drawing or whatever Talents You may have Discovered Yourself. “Happy Discovering” ❤ 🙂 ❤

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I hope you have enjoyed what I have written. Any questions or comments are most welcome. Those of you who want to read other articles about writing, you can check up my other articles about writing like this one: The Power of Hand Writing!

What about thinking of starting to write a bit Yourself. You never know where you will end up, even writing a Book may be, and I might be the Reader then 😛 “Happy Reading and writing ❤

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Latest Update 6th March 2020: Up to date with the started this blog in September 2015 “The Universal Energy” is also called “Healing or Pranic energy”, “chi” in China and “ki” in Japan. As we know, energy can travel so, “Prayer energy which also can be called Healing Energy” can travel far and wide to distant places too. If You click this link You can read a Detailed Post about Energy as its too much to write in one post: Energy Healing!

I have been Updating and Editing almost all my posts naturally as, This is “A New Chapter and A New Beginning” Upgrading Myself to A New Wavelength. A New Chapter in My Life and I Wish so for You also. Please click this Link which will take You to My Birthday Post Birthday!❤

On “The Top Right-Hand side” you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it All the 111 posts from, The Beginning to the end is shown. Below the Home Page”, You will see the word “Home” Under which is The Introductory Page also about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

There will still be the older Topics “On the Left-Hand side, Under the “Recent Posts, Archives and Categories” with “The New Topics adding up. Happy Reading ❤

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What I am doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Moving forward Writing  “My Own Journey in Wellness” in Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy in this Post, and if You click on this Link in Green You can read this Post: Taking The Therapists Voice Forward!

The Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts of Mine and which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing” during my spare time you can have a look at: https://deepanilamani.com/ ❤

“It is all free”. You can “Download. Take print outs, share and pass it on also for others who can benefit from these posts. Any questions or comments are most welcome. I hope All those Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so as,” Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in Life” ❤

Thanking The I net and the other websites for the posts I have shared and https://www.online-image-editor.com/ for The Posts I have written and https://www.vistaprint.com.au/ for The Card ❤

Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies from me ❤

May God’s Blessing Be Upon You All ❤

Deepa 12Deepa Nilamani 🙂

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Healing ~ Trauma!

Hello To My Dear Readers, Followers and Blogging Friends ❤

This is a short article about Trauma, and can be helped by psychotherapy include difficulties in coping with daily life; Impact of trauma When you experience deep sadness, It can be physical too. Trauma 1,jpg
Why people get hurt or sad is, when they are criticized, put down, controlled or blamed unnecessarily!
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And when they feel it’s wrong and when they feel they don’t deserve, later on those can make people to feel unwell. Definition:(Psychological trauma) is something that affects the mind that occurs as a result of distressing event or events. Trauma is often the result of an overwhelming amount of stress that exceeds one’s ability to cope, the emotions involved with that experience. A traumatic event involves one’s experience, or repeating events that can be too much, all depend on the person’s personality. But it is possible to “Overcome”. This is why I am now writing as I have been able to receive the “Gift of Healing too 
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