Category: Courage

Bullying!

Hello To, All My Dear Readers Followers and Blogging Friends ❤

I do Hope All of You are in Good Health and Trying to manage “To keep yourself Positive and Motivated as Best as possible in these trying times”. As All of you are aware I had started on “My Mission on “Mental Wellness!
1).https://iammypath.com/2021/08/10/my-mission-stigma-1/
2) https://iammypath.com/2018/06/05/end-the-stigma-discrimination-stops-with-you/
3).https://iammypath.com/2018/06/10/end-the-stigma/

I am writing this post, after 6 years of writing, and to have built up such big numbers of Followers and Websites.

What Is Bullying: Bullying is unwanted, aggressive behavior among people that involves a real or perceived power imbalance. The behavior is repeated, or has the potential to be repeated, over time. People who bully others may have Serious Mental Problems!

Types of Bullying There are three types of bullying:

Verbal bullying is. Verbal bullying includes:
Teasing
Name-calling.
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This is NOT only small children, but “Some of the ADULTS do this!


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  • Social bullying, sometimes referred to as relational bullying, involves hurting someone’s reputation or relationships. Social bullying includes:
    Spreading rumors about someone
  • Embarrassing someone in public.


Why Some People Bully:
Children and teenagers who feel secure and supported by their family, school, and peers are less likely to bully. However, Every individual is unique and there are many factors that can contribute to bullying behavior. People who bullies may experience one, several, or none of these contributing factors. Bullying can affect everyone—those who are bullied, those who bully, and those who witness bullying. Bullying is linked to many negative outcomes including impacts on mental health.

Family factors: Some who bully:

  • come from families where there is bullying, aggression, or violence at home.
  • may have parents and caregivers that do not provide emotional support or communication.
  • may have parents or caregivers who respond in an authoritarian or reactive way.
  • may come from families where the adults are overly lenient or where there is low parental involvement in their lives.

Emotional factors: People who bully: may have been bullied in the past or currently.
have feelings of insecurity and low self-esteem, so they bully to make themselves feel more powerful.
do not understand other’s emotions.

  • don’t know how to control their emotions, so they take out their feelings on other people.
  • may not have skills for handling social situations in healthy, positive ways.

Every person involved in bullying – as a target, a bystander, or as one who does the bullying. People who bully may also need support to help them address their behavior. Mental health professionals can work with people who bully to help them learn new social and emotional skills. Bullying is a behavior that can be changed?

Peer factors: Some People bully:

  • to attain or maintain social power or to elevate their status in their peer group.
  • to show their allegiance to and fit in with their peer group.
  • to exclude others from their peer group, to show who is and is not part of the group.
  • to control the behavior of their peers.

Bystanders: People who witness bullying are more likely to:
Have increased use of tobacco, alcohol, or other drugs
Have increased mental health problems, including depression and anxiety.

For All those people who “Are going through issues on, “Stigma, Discrimination and any other difficulties, because of ill health at this Times or because some people do not Understand PLEASE KNOW THAT YOU ALL HAVE SOME TALENT or GIFT. HAVE HOPE. YOU MATTER ❤


  • I am in Good Health and as, “I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy in to My Hands” since “Beginning of 2016” All my Hard work and Praying has been rewarded. Healing Energy can go to others too, and where ever it is needed to be received with a Clear Mind and Lot of Loving Kindness ❤

    Latest Update: 7thth of November 2021. This is “The 165th Post” and with the “Introductory Page this will be all in Total up to date, 166 posts. On Top Right Hand side you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, You will see will see The word “Home” All the posts from “The Very Beginning comes ~ Under “Home”. Which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

    The old Topics are, “On The Left Hand side “Under the, “Recent Posts” with “The New Topics adding up. “It will be too long to post so many number of posts on the side. You can “Click and see all The older Topics” “Under “Archives” and “Under Categories ❤

    I am Moving on as usual with “My Own Journey of Wellness, Encouraging and Healing” So that Everyone can have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” To Lead a Better Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy”. If you click on the Link You can Read This Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

    The Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing” during my spare time you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/ 

    It is all free”. You can share and pass it on also for others who can benefit from this post. I hope All those who Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so as, ”Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in Life ❤

    Thank you for Reading and Thanking The I net for the pictures I have shared and https://www.online-image-editor.com/ for the picture quotes I have done myself ❤

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    Sending Love, Light and Healing Energies to All ❤

    May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

    Deepa Nilamani ❤

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My Mission ~ Stigma 1!

Hello To, All My Dear Followers, Readers and Blogging Friends ❤


I hope all of you are keeping in Good Health as much as possible. Somehow the way I have been going, The Time for me to really Begin My Journey on “Mental Wellness ~ Stigma and Discrimination” has set in at the correct Time!

I started writing my journey of wellness in my website: iammypath.com in 2015 September. Now it is August 2021 just a moth less than 6 years. Time has flown. Today is “The 9th of August 2021. I pasted the Big Stigma sticker from the inside of the front glass on the side of the passenger seat side.

Like this. So that it will be like some person, going with me on my Mission 🙂 I have got some cards printed with My website addresses as then people know I am “Serious about My Mission” Different ones according to what I feel will “Help Encourage and above all “To have HOPE” towards feeling Better to Lead Their Lives well 🙂


I had written before too, that millions world over are going through Low Moods, and other mental health problems. And the world Health Organization had stated that depression was going to be of the main health issue by 2030! Today is the 9th of August 2021 and there is a “Different Health Issue All over the World. And this has made so many changes of, “Restrictions of Movements on, Travelling for work and vacations, Working from Home and even some places doing business on line and even closing and some having less work of even losing jobs! That has added more stress to most of the people!

 People living with mental problems experience systemic, cultural, social, and inter-personal stigma and discrimination about their mental issues. These entrenched attitudes and responses are making problems to a person’s day-to-day health and wellbeing, and place structural and life determining barriers. This is why “PEOPLE ARE RELUCTANT TO GO FOR MEDICAL HELP AND THEREBY RESULTING IN VALUABLE TIME AND ASSETS ARE LOST!!!

What is mental health stigma? A stigma can be like a mark, a stain or a blemish. People with mental issues may face stigma — they may be treated differently, as if they are somehow less than other people. Stigma shows when someone with a mental issues is called unnecessary names rather than unwell.

In 2020 there is a wake-up call about the fragility of their mental health and wellbeing, and the long-term impacts it can have on all aspects of your life, if it’s not looked after. We can now build upon this new level of awareness. In reality, where we live, learn and work in our communities is where we experience most of our mental health and wellbeing challenges, and this is where the system response needs to be met with the right levels of coordinated and affordable support and care, with a focus on early intervention and prevention.

Those of you who are reading, and seeing all these posts, now need to be able to feel that, “YOU ARE NOT ALONE” ~ “YOU ARE JUST LIKE ANY OTHER HUMAN BEING” ~ “YOU ARE VALUABLE” and do not be shy or afraid to go to a doctor, or some medical help anytime you have issues with your mind. “IT IS JUST THAT YOUR MIND ALSO HAS THE RIGHT TO BE A LITTLE ILL and NEED SOME MEDICAL HELP, MEDICATION and LOVING KINDNESS” ~ “IT IS YOUR LIFE AND IT IS IMPORTANT TO YOU” ~ “YOU NEED TO TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF” ❤



When we focus our energy towards constructing a meaningful life, we are tossing a pebble into the world. Creating a beautiful ripple effect of Inspiration. When one person follows a Dream, tries something new, or take a brave leap, “Everyone around you feels that energy gets motivated 🙂

And before long, they are also inspired to, “Try out following their Dreams and Inspire yet another circle or a group of people. “Now who will try to begin writing or finding out what Their Talents or Gift is?

I hope reading all these has inspired and encouraged you to seek help and become, “The SURVIVOR” to tell, “YOUR STORY” to others to Encourage them too” And, “HELP END THE STIGMA”? YOU CAN AND YOU WILL ❤


So it goes on and on. I wonder, How many of you “The Readers” will also start writing or doing your own thing now and inspire others too. Then I will be The Reader ❤



Latest Update Today is Thursday 8th August 2021: This is “The 160th Post” and with the “Introductory Page this will be all in Total up to date, 161 posts!

On Top Right Hand side you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, You will see will see The word “Home” All the posts from “The Very Beginning comes ~ Under “Home”. Which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing 🙂

I am still “My Healthy self” and Writing “My Own Journey on Wellness and Healing”. So that Everyone can have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” To Lead a Better Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy”. If you click on the Link You can Read This Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

The old Topics are, “On The Left Hand side “Under the, “Recent Posts” with “The New Topics adding up. You can “Click and see all The older Topics” “Under “Archives” and “Under Categories”!

Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to other different posts of Mine which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am up to during my spare time you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/

It is all free”. You can share and pass it on also for others who can benefit from this post. I hope All those who Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so as, ”Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in Life” ❤

Thank you for Reading and Thanking The I net for the pictures I have shared and https://www.online-image-editor.com/ ❤

Sending Love, Light and Healing Energies Your Way ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa Nilamani 🙂

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Doing Things Differently!

Hello To, All My Dear Readers Followers and Blogging Friends ❤

Hope all of you are keeping well with the current Health condition going on. Now what I am going to write is quite interesting. Suddenly few days back, I felt like ordering my day to day groceries, the dried food things that are heavy in bulk from I net delivery to my house itself. Somehow I felt strongly I needed to do so. I did. As now at the Present Time what I want is to, “Save More Time to Write Posts on iammypath.com 🙂

Then I saw that a huge vessel carrying so many containers had got stuck in Th Suez canal. And some of The Readers wanted to know about what is going on. That I had to Detour ~ make a change” from what I wanted to write about Originally – at The Start. Photos and maps show how an enormous container ship got stuck in the Suez Canal, blocking one of the world’s most vital shipping routes:

  • The huge Ever Given container ship has been stuck in the Suez Canal for more than 72 hours.
  • Mariners have tried to dig and pull the ship out, so far without success.
  • Pictures show a timeline of the grounding of the vessel that has hit global trade.

As the crisis caused by the stuck ship entered its fourth day, the closure of a crucial globe shipping lane sent supply chains deeper into chaos.

Some shipping firms were beginning to divert vessels bound for Suez to instead travel the whole way around Africa, adding thousands of miles, days in delays, and vast extra expenses to their voyages.



These are the pictures. Actually even I was not aware of such Huge ships carrying so many containers, and also I read how the canal was built at first. It was people who were digging and then only later machines were used!

At nearly 60.96m wide and 396.24m long, it easily took up the width of the channel.
Officials attributed the accident to high winds and sandstorms. Sandstorms are not unusual at this time of year in Egypt.

The Suez Canal is crucial to global supply chains. According to The Wall Street Journal, 19,000 ships passed through it in 2020.

The Suez Canal is a man-made waterway connecting the Mediterranean Sea to the Indian Ocean via the Red Sea. It enables a more direct route for shipping between Europe and Asia, effectively allowing for passage from the North Atlantic to the Indian Ocean without having to circumnavigate the African continent. The waterway is vital for international trade.

Where Is the Suez Canal?

The Suez Canal stretches 120 miles from Port Said on the Mediterranean Sea in Egypt southward to the city of Suez (located on the northern shores of the Gulf of Suez). The canal separates the bulk of Egypt from the Sinai Peninsula. It took 10 years to build, and was officially opened on November 17, 1869.

Owned and operated by the Suez Canal Authority, the Suez Canal’s use is intended to be open to ships of all countries,

Construction of the Suez Canal

Construction began, at the northernmost Port Said end of the canal, in early 1859. The excavation work took 10 years, and an estimated 1.5 million people worked on the project.

Suez Canal Opens

Ismail Pasha, Khedive of Egypt and the Sudan, formally opened the Suez Canal on November 17, 1869.

Officially, the first ship to navigate through the canal was the imperial yacht of French Empress Eugenie, the L’Aigle, followed by the British ocean liner Delta.

Suez Canal Today

Today, an average of 50 ships navigate the canal daily, carrying more than 300 million tons of goods per year.

Now to get back “To The Topic I wanted to write about”. Doing Things Differently!

12 Things Successful People Do Differently !

Something Different! At these times when our Movements are Restricted “Some are Working from Homes” Some have gone without enough work. So The necessity to “Do Things Differently and Successfully has risen.

These are Things that can be done around where You Live, what ever the House or Family situation cane be. Alone or with Family and Friends around where You Live ❤

Funny creative characters isolate on white background. Musician and sculptor, sculpting and playing.

These are Things that can be done, maybe at your house, “Clear up some room or where ever and, “Try and organize a different way of working Alone or with others. Think a complete Different Line of work”!

Cute young mom freelancer works at home at the computer. Thinks of work and home affairs. Under the table, a child reads a book. On the table lies a cute cat.

Today being The Date: April 28th 2021. This is “A Post Which also will be in, “The Posts That Has Been Published ~ 2!”

On Top Right Hand side Top you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, You will see will see The word “Home” All the posts from “First Lot” from “The Very Beginning will be ~ Under “Home”. As well as The Page: Posts That Has Been Published ~ 1! and The Page which will have, “The 2nd Lot of Posts: Posts That Has Been Published ~ 2!

The Introductory Page: Who I am & Why I am Writing!  and The Therapists Voice Forward! is in Green letters: Under The Copy Right Notice”!

The old Topics can be found “On The Left Hand side “Under the, “Recent Posts, Archives and Categories” with “The New Topics adding up. As now “There are a Lots of Posts so it is not possible to put in from The Beginning” Thank You for Reading ❤

The old Topics can be found “On The Left Hand side “Under the, “Recent Posts, Archives and Categories” with “The New Topics adding up 🙂

I have “My Personal Website” with “My own little Poems and Pictures if You click on this Link You can go there and read: https://deepanilamani.com

It is all free as usual”. You can share and pass it on also for others who can benefit from this post. I hope All those who Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so as, ”Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in Life” ❤

Thanking The I net for the Pictures and https://www.online-image-editor.com/ for the picture posts I have done ❤

Sending Love, Light and Healing Energies Your Way ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa Nilamani 🙂

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Healing ~ Panic!

Hello To All My Followers, Readers and Blogging Friends ❤

Hope All of You are Keeping in Good Health. This is a Topic I have felt The Need to write as I have found out “Very Important at “These Times of Health Issues”. Healing Panic ❤

A panic attack is an unexpected episode of intense fear and anxiety accompanied by physical symptoms that are similar to the body’s normal response to danger. Panic disorder is the term used when a person is prone to repeated attacks of panic. “Chronic panic” probably means there are persistent symptoms, more suggestive of generalized anxiety disorder. Many people living with panic disorder describes feeling as though they are having a heart attack. The feeling may be so intense that they may seek emergency medical assistance, especially if they are unaware that they have panic disorder.

Update: 27th October 2021: Actually, there is a “Very Important incident for this” But now that it is long time ago (1924) I have taken off the full story. One day I had finished my shopping and sat to have a bit of a rest before going to the car. There was a lady seated in the same seat who was going to the shops having a rest. I asked her “Do you like reading and she said not much but “My daughter reads”. and she needs help. Then I said give her this card it is my website. “It is about Mental wellness. “To Give Hope and Strength” I got Healing Energy into My Hands after I went home, I hope my website helped her!

How is a panic disorder treated?

If you suffer from panic disorder, it can be helpful to know 2 things at First:

  • Don’t Think of Them as You are in life-threatening danger.
  • And keep Your strength and Hope that the symptoms will go away.

    At The same Time “Please see A Doctor “As soon as Possible”!
  • What is A Panic Attack: A Panic Attack is a response to a stressful situation, where you feel like you are losing control.

May 1st 2022: This is some new information I found in a “Psychology Magazine” Yes already it is shown water helps to feel fresh and to feel Relaxed, and to splash water on our faces above also, and even when we are tired and hot. But now what is being said is to use ice water if possible or very cold water. “A Sudden change in Temperature makes a, “Deeply Relaxing Shift so Muscle Tension and shakiness drops. And supposed to “Stop the Panic attack in its tracks” You need to take a Bowl of cold water, If possible or like to add some ice (ice might be not ok if its very cold winter or have sensitive skin). And to Dip your whole face in the bowl for a little while. All depends on each of you. And to do again if necessary 🙂

Here below “A New Picture”, of “Self Help” are Many Ways to, “Help To Reduce stress and To Help get over Anxiety” ❤

If you have a panic attack, you might have a racing heart and be flushed with sometimes Pain you chest also. You might feel sweaty, shaky, dizzy Faintish and breathless. You may not have all these and know “What You get” Whether it is mild or severe when people over work or get hurt, they get stressed. And when it comes to Healing, You have to somehow “Learn to Relax” and let Your feelings of  “Stress which is, discomfort or sadness reduced” ❤
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eGVWRvNe1-A


Here are some more Ideas, “That You can choose or which are Possible for Each of You” To do As Soon As Possible ❤

You need to discuss with your closest, and that is your family members, as they are the people whom you come across almost daily, and the most important people that need to know what is going on with you, as otherwise they will not know how to support you ❤

The thing is sometimes how ever much you have people around you, they may not know, nor will they really understand what you are going through. Or sometimes  it can be that, the very ones who should be “Caring and supporting you will get upset themselves and might be not able to help you. At these times see if you can find “A Friend, even an outsider who can Understand” You ❤

To manage panic disorder, you need strategies to regain some control. Techniques that can help you feel calmer include:

  • Relaxation strategies
  • Breathing exercises
  • Mindfulness
  • Meditation

Make Note: This is ***This is Not Professional Counselling*** What I am writing is “Mostly My first hand Knowledge and Experiences, and  also, doing references”. You Need To Talk with A Doctor and Take, “Advice or Help” You need to work on it with all available resources. And do see a Medical Personnel, a Doctor, Counsellor or Therapist ❤

This is to explain what “The Counsellor Does” He or she has to meet you and be Helpful by: Listening to what You have to say. They have to, “Be Able to Be Kind, Understand and Trust” and to be So it has to be that “The Counsellor Matches Your Personality” and Understand You ❤

I hope what I have posted and written has helped You to know what Counselling is and You will feel much better. Also to know exactly how it helps and how to go about, “For Professional Counselling Yourself” Best of Luck ❤

Ending this article, Know That I Care ~ I know how it hurts when people are unkind or cruel. And sometimes things do not work the way you want. “Have Faith and Patience ~ Know that You can Heal gradually. “YOU ARE STRONGER THAN YOU THINK”  Please Click on this Link to Read This Post in this Blog: You are Stronger than You Think!

Try and some how “TALK” to someone who can be Kind and Listen. BE PATIENT. Have FAITH  and keep your Strength and Hopes ❤

I hope what I have written is useful to You, and You also have seen or learnt something new. You can ask questions on anything that You might like to know more about and comment after Reading. Some pictures are funny to make one smile also don’t you think. Thank You for Reading ❤

Now are You smiling? How can You have a Bath without water 🙂

Today being The Date: April 24th, 2021. This is “A Post” Which also will be in, “The Posts That areOn Top Right Hand side Top you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, You will see The word “Home” All the posts from “First Lot” from “The Very Beginning will be ~ Under “Home”. As well as The Page: Posts That Has Been Published ~ 1! and The Page which will have, “The 2nd Lot of Posts: Posts That Has Been Published ~ 2!

Also: “On the Left-Hand side “Under the, “Recent Posts” with “The New Topics adding up. “It will be too long to post so many numbers of posts on the side. You can also “Click and see all the older Topics” Under “Archives and Categories”. Make Note: “The community, Archives” and “Meta” Which has been repeated, some change of format at the moment and I am unable to change!

The Introductory Page: Who I am & Why I am Writing! The Therapists Voice Forward! is in Green letters: Under The Copy Right Notice”.

I have “My Personal Website” with “My own little Poems and Pictures if You click on this Link You can go there and read :https://deepanilamani.com

It is all free as usual”. You can share and pass it on also for others who can benefit from this post. I hope All those who Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so as, ”Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in Life” ❤

Thanking The I net for the Pictures and https://www.online-image-editor.com/ for the picture posts I have done ❤

Sending Love, Light and Healing Energies Your Way ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa Nilamani ❤

Wishing Star ❤

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