Therapy ~ Decluttering!

Hello To All My Readers, Followers and Blogging Friends ❤

I Hope All of You are in Good Health, and “Keeping yourself Positive and Motivated as Best as possible in these times”. I am at almost at the end of clearing after living in my little home now coming close to 9 years. As well as starting a “New Year” and change of seasons. For me its, “Making do with less. As I need more Time to do My writing and working towards Mental wellness and Good Health” ❤


For me, There is hardly things to throw, other than very old news papers, empty bottles and containers that cannot be used anymore. Most of the extra things I am “Giving away” or “Donating” for people who can make use of them for free. For some people, getting rid of things, even things you know you don’t need, wont know how best to do it. Maybe you’re not sure where to begin or maybe you just need a little push in the right direction. So I thought of writing a post about it. As “Decluttering also is a form of “Therapy” ❤


Decluttering helps us to know, “Exactly what we need” and makes our Minds “More alert”. As we have only things we need. Easier to know when something is needed, we don’t waste time looking for them!

It is not possible to declutter the whole of the house at once. So we need to go step by step and then it’s easier to look for specific items to declutter. Sometimes there can be a friend or someone who can help and also know of things, where a special place or people whom to give. Sometimes some will need some Money to buy a few new things and then people do exchange or have a sale” Selling things like in a Garage sale, meaning at home in their Garage and outside” Again they can be a joint sale with others thing also 🙂

This is for you some ideas. But You do not have to follow everything. There is no hurry or “Time Limit” It can be Daily, once in a way or when you feel like it 🙂


As Time goes by, New bottles and packing material changes as well as colours. So you don’t have to spend extra money to buy new stuff. By clearing “The unwanted things 🙂

We keep on Moving Ahead to, The Future. “It becomes almost a different space and “A New You” 🙂

Now this is for you. To write some ideas for yourself. You can even print it out and keep somewhere. Write like notes even some other things. Even like a little Diary. As above say jot down your thoughts. May be one or even a few copies. Its “Very Pretty” 🙂

Latest Update: 27th of January 2022. This is “The 173nd Post” and with the “Introductory Page this will be all in Total up to date, 174 posts. On Top Right Hand side you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, You will see will see The word “Home” All the posts from “The Very Beginning comes ~ Under “Home”. Which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing

I am in Good Health and as, “I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy in to My Hands” since “Beginning of 2016” All my Hard work and Praying has been rewarded. Healing Energy can go to others too, and where ever it is needed to be received with a Clear Mind and Lot of Loving Kindness ❤

Note: There is a change: The Topics from The very beginning up to 152 is, Posts That Has Been Published ~ 1! and “The 2nd Lot is being added to the: Posts That Has Been Published ~ 2!

Also: “On The Left Hand side “Under the, “Recent Posts” with “The New Topics adding up. “It will be too long to post so many number of posts on the side. You can also “Click and see all The older Topics” Under “Archives and Categories”. Make Note: “Archives” and “Meta” Which has been repeated, some change of format at the moment and I am unable to change!

I am Moving on as usual with “My Own Journey of Wellness, Encouraging and Healing” So that Everyone can have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” To Lead a Better Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy”. If you click on the Link You can Read This Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

The Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing” during my spare time you can have a look at: https://deepanilamani.com/ 🙂

If you want to contact me by post, write to; Deepa Nilamani, 65/110-114 Johnson Street, Hillcrest, Queensland 4118, Brisbane, Australia. Remember “You have to send it “” Air Mail to come through Planes, otherwise it can come by Sea Mail from ships which will take very long”

You have to give Your correct Postal Address so that you receive to you itself ❤

September 28th, 2024, soon after My Grandfathers 135th Birthday Celebration, I have been informed that Assets has been released so that I have enough Money to” Carry on My Wish of Giving or sending Gifts All over the World under the “Starlight Foundation ~ Gifts!

As always, It is all free”. You can share and pass it on also for others who can benefit from this post. I hope All those who Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so as, ”Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in Life ❤

Thank you for Reading and Thanking The I net for the pictures I have shared and https://www.online-image-editor.com/ for the picture quotes I have done myself ❤

Sending Love, Light and Healing Energies to All ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa Nilamani ❤



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Journaling!

Hello, To, All My Dear Readers Followers and Blogging Friends ❤

Hope all of you are keeping in Good Health, at These times of many Health issues. Although I have written many articles on Writing: All About Writing! 2. The Power of Hand Writing! 3. Revision In Pictures 3 ~ Writing!

I have not written a Specific Post on: Journaling itself. At these times when so many are “Restricted of Their going about, I thought of Writing a Post on this Topic of “What I have already written, what I already know and also I saw a “Very Good Article on The I net and also I have some paper cuttings, and other books and Magazines that I can refer and write Hopefully a Good Post. Which is a Very Good Way to “Manage your feelings and its a Very good way of “Organizing your thoughts and feelings of day to day Living too! Journaling can help to express emotions, be present with thoughts and clear your head.. Journaling is not just a little thing you do to pass the time, to write down your memories though it can be, “Research has shown a “Decrease in Physician visits for those who record their thoughts in Journals Daily. It is said that, “It’s a way that has helped brilliant, and wise people become better at what they do!


The best ways to get used to Journal. Keep pens or pencils and paper what ever you can, keep in few places where you can see and easily write then and there, when you get the need to write. They can be just writing papers. old diaries where you can write anyway you want. Because sometimes when you are annoyed or feeling in a low mood, you will need to “write and throw away them. Anyway as you write and improve, you need to throw away as that means, “Letting Go of the Past and moving forward in to Higher Wave lengths and Better standards of Living in Good Health and Happiness 🙂

Here in short Joys of Journaling: 1. Helps You to Clarify Your Thoughts and Feelings. 2. Helps You to Reduce Stress and Relax Your Mind. 3. Helps You to Let Go and Forget certain unwanted incidents. 4. Therapeutic as it reduces stressful feelings 🙂
Makes You feel: 1.Relaxed 2. Happy 3. Joyful 4. Peaceful 🙂

Latest Update: 19th May 2021. This is “The 158th Post” and with the “Introductory Page this will be all in Total up to date, 150 posts. On Top Right Hand side you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, You will see the word “Home” All the posts from “The Very Beginning comes ~ Under “Home”. Which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing

The old Topics are, “On the Left Hand side “Under the, “Recent Posts” with “The New Topics adding up. You can “Click and see all the older Topics” “Under “Archives” and “Categories” ❤

I am still “My Healthy self” and Writing “My Own Journey on Wellness and Healing”. So that Everyone can have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” To Lead a Better Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy”. If you click on the Link You can Read This Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

The Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts of Mine and which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing” during my spare time you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/

It is all free”. You can share and pass it on also for others who can benefit from this post. I hope All those who Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so as, ”Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in Life ❤

Thanking The I net for the pictures and Free Online Image Editor (online-image-editor.com) for the Picture Posts I have done myself ❤

Sending Love, Light and Healing Energies Your Way ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa Nilamani ❤

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Happiness!

Hello To, All My Dear Followers Readers and Blogging Friends ❤

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I thought of writing about Happiness now, “As we need to live in Happiness” I am Posting some simple pictures and quotes as its good to see some simple pictures instead of serious reading all the time 🙂

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These are everyday happenings, it is not “Everyone who will like Housework” For those who like to keep a nice house, “Housework also is Therapeutic” (Helps the mind to relax) ❤

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5th June 2020. Here is the latest Video of Guitar Music from Cosimo Antitosomo from Italy Mondragone. His playing “The Guitar”. You can see “The sea, like all the elements of nature, has a voice, let’s stop sometimes to listen to it…Mondragone, the sea, the dunes (Sand).  
“These are people from Face Book. I have never met so far, but with similar interests, as I also “Love Music” I get them free, he posts them on his Face Book and also on “My Messenger” when he composes (writes a new piece)” You can “Click on it watch and listen free. They are also on You Tube Free. He likes when people listen to his playing “The Guitar”. Enjoy ❤

There are lots of little things like this below, and similar things depending on where you live. Some like to walk on the Beach, watch the sea and the waves, pick flowers and put in vases at home or little ones play with them, some like to have a pet, some like to watch raining. Some are Happy when they get letters or cards by post. “Exercise gives you endorphins. Endorphins make you happy It doesn’t have to be very same things which you will enjoy ❤

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See Many thing that you can “Draw, sketch by pencils and Paint also like the ones below 🙂Different 11 (3)

It can be things that You eat, play go for walks, read books about what they like, go on trips, also “Imagination also work fine, even if we cannot go to the moon 😀

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Hope You like the pictures. Just looking at pictures also Relaxing. Keep well and Take Care of yourself” ❤

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May 14th, 2020: Up to date with “This article which is the 123rd and The Introductory page. I have Published 124 posts. On Top Right-Hand side Top you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, you will see the word “Home” All the posts from “The Very Beginning comes, “Under “Home”. Which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

What I am doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Moving forward Writing My Own Journey in Wellness. Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy. It is in this post if you click on the Link: Taking The Therapists Voice Forward!

These days, “I am Editing and Updating almost, “All the Posts” from The Very Beginning”. It can be, “A New Chapter and A New Beginning”. Upgrading Myself to A New Wavelength. A New Chapter in My Life and I Wish so for You also ❤


The old Topics will be “On the Left-Hand side “Under the “Recent Posts” with “The New Topics adding up. “The Balance will be Under “ARCHIVES” ~ As with Many Topics adding up, the line is Too Long”. Also Click and Look Under, “Under CATERGORIES” Happy Reading and Keep Yourself Positive ❤

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The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to other different posts of Mine which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing” 🙂 you can have a look at: https://deepanilamani.com/

“It is all free”. You can Take print outs, share and pass it on also for others who can benefit from this posts. I hope All those Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so as, ”Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in Life” ❤ 🙂 ❤
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Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies from me ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa 100Deepa Nilamani 🙂

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How I am My Path was Born!

Hello To, All My Dear Readers Followers and Blogging Friends ❤

I hope all of you are keeping Well and Happy. I wish to be so. There are enough facts and figures going on so I need not add to all that. My Wish was always, “To Leave A Heart Print of Healing Energy as I walked along for “Good Health” and to be “Spreading Happiness and Joy to Everyone” ❤ ❤ ❤

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I love Beautiful pictures and Quotations. After I started Face Book, in 2011, Happiness Quotes was Born on The 24th August 2012. I created “Happiness Quotes page” to post, Happy and Bright pictures with Positive quotations of, Hope,Wisdom, Courage, Faith and Love. At “The Beginning” I had to learn “How to share a post itself” and then slowly “I Learnt to write on pictures” As I progressed, I found that I was getting over the Low Moods and started to become more Positive and Happier. And then slowly, “I started writing my Experiences and Knowledge of my journey of becoming well”. Without my being aware, Going through so much of Colourful and Uplifting Pictures and Quotations, I had been Uplifting Myself also and had become Very Positive. At the same time I also “Trained as an “ESL Tutor in (English as A Second Language)” and started working in TAFE (Technical And Further Education). I got this need to study further and, I started to study, on line and did Two Courses, “Personnel Development and Natural Health and Healing” through MSA (Monash University Student Association ~Training and Professional Development). I did these very well and then, started to study for A Diploma in Counselling and Psychotherapy. I wanted more Knowledge and to feel doing something to advance myself as well as, “Most importantly I wanted to show that, “People can overcome so called low moods and can concentrate and study and achieve Higher standards of Life to be Happy and Health and able to lead Normal Lives again!

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As I was studying, I needed to put my mind fully on the course and found my Mind going along “The Path of Healing” that was taking me away from being a Tutor of English. Besides I have been teaching English for a very Long time, starting with my sons and then, once they were grown up, I started teaching the children around my home, and doing the same thing was not all that interesting and Health and Healing became “More important”, That I stopped being a Tutor and became fully involved myself in to studying. In a way, The course itself was quite advanced and I needed to concentrate and put my mind fully into studying the notes, “The Theory part of it also”. Actually this was the “Best thing that happened to me, as I really learnt so much about the, “Theories and Techniques of Counseling and below are The Main Theories that I studied”:

1.) Psychoanalytic Therapy
2.) Adlerian Therapy
3.) Existential Therapy
4.) Person-Centered Therapy
5.) Gestalt Therapy
6.) Behavior Therapy
7.) Cognitive Behavior Therapy

All these really helped me while I was studying, as not only the theory part but, I had to answer my own way of “dealing with certain other client’s issues. How I would go about counseling them, in real life. The last Therapy, ” The Constructivist Approach to Cognitive Behavior Therapy ~ By Dr. Donald Meichenbaum, was what really worked for me, Like The cherry on The Cake” 🙂

Dr. Donald Meichenbaum:, New York, New York, United States is an American psychotherapist . He is considered one of the founders of cognitive behavioral therapy . He attended from 1954 to 1958, the Taft High School in New York City and then 1958-1962, the City College of New York . From 1962 to 1966 he studied at the University of Illinois in Urbana . From 1966 to 1969 he was Assistant Professor of Psychology, University of Waterloo , Ontario , 1970-1973 Associate Professor of Psychology and from 1974 to 1998 Meichenbaum was Professor of Psychology in Waterloo. In 1996, he became director of the Melissa Institute for Violence Prevention and Treatment in Miami , Florida. He was voted one of the Ten Most Influential Psychotherapists of the Century by North American Therapists in a 1999 American Psychologist Survey . He is considered one of the most cited psychological researchers at Canadian universities. “Dr Donald Meichenbaum is professor emeritus at the University of Waterloo, and “continues to work up to date April 2020” as a clinical psychologist. ~ https://de.wikipedia.org/wiki/Donald_Meichenbaum

“The Constructivist Approach to Cognitive Behaviour Therapy” Donald Meichenbaum  has developed his approach by in-cooperating the “Constructivist Narrative Perspective (CNP)” people tell of significant events in their Lives!
One of the, “Therapeutic tasks” is to help clients appreciate how they construct their realities and how, “They Author their own stories” 🙂

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Therapists help clients on how they, “Construct reality (story tell) and examine the Implications and Conclusions clients draw from their own stories” Telling the of The Rest of The Story ~What They did to Survive and Cope ~ bolster clients Strengths and Help Them Develop Resilient behaviours. In this way, “Clients can Move from being Clients to ~ “Strong Willed Survivors” and “Successful People ~ Dr. Donald Meichenbaum, Ph.D.

Dr. Meichenbaum uses these questions to evaluate the “Outcome of, “The Therapy”:
1. Are clients now able to tell, “A New Story about themselves and the World”?
2. Do clients now use more Positive Metaphors to Describe Themselves?
3. Are clients now able to “Predict high-risk situations and Employ Coping Skills in emerging problems”?
4. Are clients able to “Take Credit for the changes, “They have been able to bring about”?

In Successful Therapy Clients, “Develop Their Own Voices Take Pride in what They have Accomplished, and “Take Ownership of The Changes they are bringing about”. In short, “CLIENTS BECOME THEIR OWN THERAPISTS and TAKE THE THERAPISTS VOICE WITH THEM” 🙂

And This is who I became. Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Moving forward Telling My Own Story in Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Prosperity, Happiness and Joy and Peace at Heart ❤

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At The same times I have been, Praying and Meditating intensely since a very very long time. My wish was to, receive, “The ability to Heal” what I was asking was for Protection and for Guidance and Blessings. I was aware, “That My Maternal Grandfather had this Very Rare Gift of Healing, “Coming down through The Generations, and even My Great Grandfather was an, “Ayurvedic Physician himself.

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As “Eldest of The Grand children I had the good Luck to be able to” spend my school holidays with My Grandparents in their Home, and was able to see from Far where I was seated, “My Grand Father seeing Patients on certain days, when I used to go to pick him up, seated near the door, until he finished the last of the patients in the night” At that time I was not really aware, “What This Healing Gift was, But what I wanted was to, “To do service like him and My Grandmother, in giving which is, Being Dedicated for Pure Service” Little did I know, “That somehow what My Grandfather was doing “Had gone in to my mind at that time and as I was moving along, “Little by little I was Reading and Trying to Understand what it was”!

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It was then I started studying “Natural Health and Healing”, that I started getting energy into My Hands. A friend who was A Spiritual Healer herself asked if My Hands became warm when I came across someone who was not well. And also mentioned that it was, “My Grandfather’s Energy and also suggested some reading material to me”. Then on gradually I began to to understand more and more and finally I did begin to feel, “My Hands getting Energy at certain times even when I was writing on This Blog” and also when some of them needed Healing Energy” meaning I had, “Received the, “Gift of Healing to Both my Hands”!

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Ayurveda
 (/ˌɑːjʊərˈvdə, ˈv-/)[1] is a system of medicine with historical roots in the Indian subcontinent. Globalized and modernized practices derived from Ayurveda traditions are a type of alternative medicine. In countries beyond India, Ayurvedic therapies and practices have been integrated in general wellness applications and in some cases in medical use.
The main classical Ayurveda texts begin with accounts of the transmission of medical knowledge from the sages, and then to human physicians. In Sushruta Samhita (Sushruta’s Compendium), Sushruta wrote that DhanvantariHindu Ayurveda, incarnated himself as a king of Varanasi and taught medicine to a group of physicians, including Sushruta. Ayurveda therapies have varied and evolved over more than two millennia. Therapies are typically based on complex herbal compounds, minerals and metal substances (perhaps under the influence of early Indian alchemy or rasa shastra) ~ https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ayurveda!

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April 24th 2020:Up to date with “This article is The 118th with, The Introductory page. I have Published 119 posts.. All the posts from “The Beginning to the end is shown ~ Below the Home Page”: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

I am in Good Health and as, “I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy Myself” since “Beginning of 2016”. All my Hard work and Praying has been rewarded. Healing Energy can go to others where ever it is needed ~ Anywhere in “The World”. But one must have to receive with a “Clear Mind and Lots of Loving Kindness” ❤

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What I am doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Moving forward Writing My Journey of Wellness. Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy, and it is in this post if you click on the Link: The Therapists Voice Forward!

So right now these days, “I am Editing and Updating almost, “All The Posts” from The Very Beginning”. It is “A New Chapter and A New Beginning”. I am Moving on. Upgrading Myself to A New Wave Length. A New Chapter in My Life and I Wish so for You also ❤

Also There will still The old Topics “On The Left Hand side ~ Under the ~ “Recent Posts” with “The New Topics adding up. Also “Under Archives and Categories”. Happy Reading, and Do You like new Me below 😀

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The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other posts which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing” 🙂 you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/ ❤

“It is all free”. You can “Download ~ Take print outs” “share and pass it on also” for others who can benefit from this article and All the other posts ❤

Thanking The I net and https://www.online-image-editor.com/ for the posts I have written and done and The other websites for the posts I have shared ❤

Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies from me ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa 100Deepa Nilamani 🙂

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