Category: Philosophy

Some Try to Spoil Others Lives for No Reason?

Hello To All My Dear Readers Followers and Blogging Friends ❤

Hope all of you are doing well and being Happy. I am quite Happy, as the Blog is growing and, more and more readers are joining, seen and unseen no matter as long as its being read and being helped in some way. In my case I get so much of satisfaction in writing, it helps me to put my thoughts in order as well as give out my views and to relax after I do my studying. Do comment and questions are always welcome. It keeps the Blog alive and interesting when so many bring out their way of looking at life 🙂

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Well here I am trying to figure out why some people are always trying to stand across other people’s progress, spoil their friendships/relationships, and maybe even studies and job opportunities, in short come in between and and try to mess other’s lives even if they have done “Nothing wrong to them”!!! When I wanted to write on this topic I came across them as, “Toxic People” Going through certain events that has and is happening around me, now I have realized that they are indeed, “People who Think Negatively mainly” and do not have much Good Influences to others!

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What is the real reason that these people become that way. It need not be that they are poor or struggling in life but, it is because they have, “The wrong Values in Life” Its true that we all need that green stuff called money to pay our bills and buy things to eat and live. But some make Money the Priority and thereby, “Lose their value as human beings” Money can be earned but, ” Can you put A Value for Human Life?

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Money, material things are to be used to, “Live as Dignified Human Beings” Instead these people, “Lose their humanness and Dignity” by becoming slaves to those pieces of paper. Actually these people do not realize that being, “Toxic to others, they become Toxic to themselves ~ “Wrong thinking brings about, “Negative Vibrations and Acids in the body” that “Destroy the cells instead of making them” and many chronic illnesses comes up, that these green pieces called money is unable to Heal”!!!

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From what I have been observing, I have also realized that these type of  people, “Have No clue what so ever in, “The Laws of the Universe”, anything to do with any kind of religion, prayers or what is really Good or Bad” In short, “They do not have any Ethics, Dignity or Morals” Naturally they are not at peace or have any kind of real Happiness in their lives”!

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In life, in religions generally we are always told about dealing what ever the wrong doings of others with “Loving Kindness”. To forgive and to show understanding. But the fact is, with some people, “They mistake your Kindness for Weakness” This topic is often debated even on Face Book and by many people. “My being an exceptionally Tolerant and Patient to others unkindness, “I have Experienced then misunderstanding My Kindness. It is Because I am Strong that I am able to tolerate others wickedness” What is the solution ? Are they as ignorant and naïve as they show?

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Its the people that makes a society. And in this society we come across many types of people. How ever much good one is, there will be those who try to find something wrong. In life one does comes across these type of people, trying to spread unnecessary and wrong views of others. Disturbing “The Peace and Harmony in some people and also in the society itself” I myself cannot understand at anytime “Why some people keep on being unkind, “With No reason to some who have not done or doing any harm, but move on in life just living their life without troubling others” At any given time, “I really cannot see reason for this” ~ other than these people’s minds needs some sort of guidance and correcting to change their behaviour. But the fact is, “It is not easy to change others, the society or the world. But I Hope that by, “Leading a Life according to Dharma will somehow have some Influence to alter these issues and Bring Peace and Harmony” Until then This is something I came across ” interesting Quote to read” ❤

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I have been facing certain Unnecessary challenges I never expected. But I soon realize, and pray for guidance and answers, I get them, in time and I am able to move on stronger and better. I have faced a challenge soon after my birthday last month and my prayers were answered and now just in a month I am moving on forward. It is just that we need to move on to “Higher grounds or a Higher wave length “That we need to put in more Work, Time and Energy”!

This is an Update on The 24th of January 2020: I received The Gift of Healing ~ Something I never really expected happened as a Result of Praying and facing all that happened with Strength and Maitri this post is on: Who I am & Why I am Writing!❤

Maitrī (Sanskrit; Pali: mettā) means benevolence, loving-kindness, friendliness, good will, and active interest in others. 

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If you look at things this way. “The Kind/Good people are those who Help and Encourage us up. We need to know how to recognize these people, that is the time we have to be matured enough or become wise enough, to weave our way through most of the obstacles in life with much less stress or difficulty. And then I believe, “We would have earned the right and also able to spend the rest of our lives, in Dignity, Happiness and Peace. What do you think? This is what I observe at this stage of my life. What about You ❤

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Latest Update 6th March 2020: Up to date with the Birthday article 111th and I have published 112 posts. On “The Top Right Hand side” you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, You will see will see The word “Home” Under Which The Introductory Page is about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

I am in Good Health and as, “I have been able to, “Receive The Gift of Healing” All my Hard work and Praying has been rewarded.” Healing Energy can go to others where ever it is needed to be received with a Clear Mind and A Lot of Loving Kindness” ❤

So I have been updating and Editing almost all my posts naturally as, This is “A New Chapter and A New Beginning” I Upgrading Myself to A New Wave Length. A New Chapter in My Life and I Wish so for You also. Please click this Link which will take You to My Birthday Post Birthday!❤

The older Topics which are from “The First Lot” will be “On The Left Hand side. Under the, “Recent Posts” with “The New Topics adding up. Also Under Archives and Categories. Happy Reading ❤

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And what I am doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Moving forward Writing My Own Story in Wellness. Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy in this Post, and if You click on this Link in Green You can read this Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to my other posts, which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation also”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing” 🙂 you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/ ❤

“It is all free”. You can “Download. Take print outs” “share and pass it on also” for others who can benefit from this article and All the other posts ❤

Thanking for the Quotes I have taken from: https://www.gograph.com/vector-clip-art/writing.html and The I net ❤

Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies from me to All of You ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa 100Deepa Nilamani 🙂

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My Path!

Hello To All My Dear Readers Followers and Blogging Friends ❤

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After tackling the topic on, “The writer’s block” it seems to be that some of the advice given has worked as I have got back into writing. But, beginning of another chapter is still evading me, hence now I am facing some sort of difficulties to move on ahead as I really would like to. In my case, these ups and downs of life affect me in different ways at different times. Sometimes I used to have doubts, mind you it’s was not going into low moods, at any cost, my spirits might go a little dim just like any other person, when things go wrong or doesn’t work as how one expects to, But I Believe:

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But my nature is not to stay in one place and waste valuable time. I somehow find something to lift my spirits up. (this is how I have become completely well from low moods (depression as it is also being said) and today leading a Fully Healthy Life!

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I believe when we face some sort of difficulties in life, the first thing we need to do is to, “Think that we are Not going to stay in one place”, but some or other find some way, to move away from that situation at least a few steps away 🙂

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We are people of habits. We tend to do the same thing day after day as its easy and convenient to stick to same patterns that we are used to. Sometimes, unless we are almost forced to we don’t change our usual routines. This life brings us challenges which comes in various forms for us to change, overcome, learn and grow stronger and move on to the next level. So the delays that happen in out lives how do we manage?

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We need to have Strength and Courage to somehow find ways of, “Changing and Moving on. In my case I turn to Pray” Because I have found out and now (This is 9th of September 2020: You can see and Believe that I have Succeeded and Even Received Healing Energy) Intense Praying, in Any Religion, “Helps to Change our Energies that Helps and Gives us Strength”!

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We need to have Strength and Courage to somehow find ways of, “Changing and Moving on. In my case I turn to Pray” Because I have found out and now (This is 9th of September 2020: You can see and Believe that I have Succeeded and Even Received Healing Energy).

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The thing is, Anyone can only feel “The Energy coming into Your Hands. Either the Right or Left Hand or even Both Hands. Intense Praying, in Any Religion, “Helps to Change our Energies that Helps and Gives us Strength”!

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Yes we have to “Try” our Best to turn around and take another Path. As always life gives us chances. But we need to have Faith enough to start moving on ahead with the Hope that things will work out for us, with new and unknown opportunities. I whole Heartedly Wish for You. I am aware of what is going on in the world. I believe in “Not giving up but to keep on “Moving Forward” Step By step with courage, we are able to progress” I wanted to HELP Everyone ❤

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I did have faith that things will workout favorably for me in some way. What I did was to is put my mind in to the thinking mode. This all depends on each and every person and their circumstances also, I am aware of what is going on in the world. I believe in “Not giving up but to keep on “Moving Forward” Step By step with courage, we are able to progress” I wanted to HELP Everyone and even though I didn’t exactly know at that time somehow my Intense Praying has Brought me this Gift of Healing Energies that “Flows to even Long Distance to completely unknown people, “To Heal as well as Better their Lives somehow” ❤

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I hope you all enjoyed reading this article and share some of the same views with me or anything new you can contribute. Can I have views from some of you? Those who Like to. I would be very grateful as your comments will make it more interesting, as well as some of you will be able to give completely different answers, observing life from a completely different angle.

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Latest Update 9th of September 2020: Up to date I have written 128 Posts. On “The Top Right Hand side” you are able to see: All the 127 posts from, The Beginning to the end is shown . Under The word “Menu” when you click on it, You will see will see The word “Home” Under Which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

I am in Good Health and as, “I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy in to My Hands” since “Beginning of 2016” All my Hard work and Praying has been rewarded. Healing Energy can go to others where ever it is needed to be received with a Clear Mind and a Lot of Loving Kindness” ❤

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I am Editing and Updating almost all my posts naturally as, This is “A New Chapter and A New Beginning” I am Upgrading Myself to A New Wave Length. A New Chapter in My Life and I Wish so for You also. Please click this Link which will take You to My Birthday Post Birthday!❤

Also There will still be The older Topics “On The Left Hand side, Under the “Recent Posts” and Under Archives and Categories, with “The New Topics adding up. Happy Reading ❤

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And what I am doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Moving forward Writing My Own Story in Wellness. Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy in this Post, and if You click on this Link in Green You can read this Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation also”. I also have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing” 🙂 during my spare time you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/ ❤

“It is all free”. You can “Download. Take print outs” “share and pass it on also” for others who can benefit from this article and all the other posts ❤

Thank you all for reading. And thanking all those, whose quotes I have shared from the I net and https://www.online-image-editor.com/  for the picture quotes I have done ❤

Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies to each and everyone of you ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa 1Deepa Nilamani ❤

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Moral Values!

Hello To, All My Dear Readers Followers and Blogging Friends ❤

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Hope all of you are keeping well. You will notice that I am not a person who writes daily or even weekly for that matter. One thing I started this to write My Journey, so I cannot let others write articles here, so it has to be in my own time and when I do collect enough material to write an article. Also, I believe in having few good friends and doing things in a scale that I can manage. Not to impress or to be popular but, to give out work of Value ~principles or standards of behaviour; one’s judgement of what is important in life ~ The I net!

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I am extremely methodical; hence I like to have everything around me working specifically in a pattern that agrees with my personality. This is how I believe that I overcame the low moods in the first place. No matter what, I forged on ahead “working to my way of life, (opposed to what happened, that brought me to be stressed in the first place) but Not really hurting another. I somehow adhered, no matter to what, that worked for me the best way 🙂
I have to explain, that I can only interact with my other blogging family, when I am relaxed. I get unnecessarily distracted reading articles that are Not relevant to me. I like to read through so that I can read and learn or can give a proper and helpful comment. I do not like to do or say thing just for the sake of it. Right now, I am having I net issues due to the storm season in Aussie, so working with a very limited/slow I net. So please excuse me for being quiet with you all, until it comes back to normal ❤aaaa-7This topic is an issue that has been going around me, as well as a common topic to everyone. I waited until I felt I knew enough to put forth an article that will help many of you hopefully. I found that there are some who do not know the Real Values of Life around us and try to take advantage from those who are Honest and Sincere!

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In life there are many people that we cannot just move or walk away. As even with the positive people there can be some negativity sometimes. Since I wrote the last article, I observed others around me. We all know that there are some who are very positive and some who can be very negative. As in life I find we cannot find perfection always. There will be some very negative people who are extremely vicious, and that we might have to completely keep away, but how much can we keep away or walk off in life? There are so many toxic people among all walks of life. After all the experiences I have had, I came to the conclusion, that sometimes it is difficult to move away from as we would like to. But “Yes we can reduce our times around them and protect ourselves as much as possible”!

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We all know we cannot change others. The saying that, “You can lead a horse to the water but, you cannot make it to drink. But we? On our own, “We have the great opportunity of learning and Changing for the Better ~ for the Happiness and Joy of our own Lives” That is the Luck/Good Fortune to be born as human beings.  We are able to learn and alter our ways to the best of our ability for the goodness of not only our lives, but for the welfare of others too. If You can come to this level then, “You have reached a far more superior level than the normal human beings” You have even changed your Destiny”!

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But then know you can become few of the minority, But you know what you are doing and where you are going and who You are. We don’t change to please others. We change for the better, “For Ourselves” For our lives to be better and “Be of Value and Live Happier is it not”?

All these Challenges are able for us to grow stronger and wiser which leads to better quality of life. Which all will not understand. Sometimes we do not know at that time. It will be only later when we look back we can see a pattern and how far we have come. Man is, “The only person who is able to read, with wisdom” When we are born we all go through a process of education from our childhood beginning from “Nursery Rhymes” Starting with our parents then teachers, religion, friends and so many who crosses our paths we are shown in every way, how things work in life.

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We are given endless opportunities to the maximum, this is why there are two parents. If one is not present the other is there, just like two hands and even other family around us. With all these “Guidance” why is it that some end up being extremely deteriorated, evil enough to go to an extent of wanting to do so much harm? The reasons given by many of these great people is, “part of the general society do not want people to do well ~ They Resent others greatness” Greatness does Not come with money. It comes with unselfishness, good values, integrity ~ the quality of being Truthful and Honest and having strong moral principles!!!

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With all that, man harms his brothers, sisters who are all part of each other. We are all energy. Hence connected to each other. We are all soul sisters and brothers of one big family. Still with all that man harms. This is by Mahatma Gandhi himself. Was he aware what was going to happen to him? These are his words left for centuries ……

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Latest Update 6th March 2020: Up to date with the Birthday article 111th and The Introductory page, I have published 112 posts. On “The Top Right Hand side” you are able to see: The word “Menu” And all the posts from, The Beginning to the end is shown Under the Home Page” : Who I am & Why I am Writing!

I am in Good Health. I started to write “My journey on mental wellness “Just in My Pen Name Deepa Nilamani” But as I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy ~ which began its Journey since February 2016. I have had to introduce myself in,” My full name and to be seen from where, “I have acquired, “The Gift of Healing Hands” Down The Generation, “Who My Maternal Grandfather is, and My Great Grandfather is I had to include their details. Please click on this Link it will take you on to “Their Details on The site of Wikipedia on the I net”: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/G._P._Wickramarachchi!

It is something I have earned, “Through sheer Hard work, Sacrifices, Sharing, Giving, Donating and through Loving Kindness” and above all being “Truthful and Honest”. “The Universal Energy” is also called “Healing or Pranic energy”, “chi” in China and “ki” in Japan. As we know, energy can travel so, “Prayer energy which also can be called Healing Energy” can travel far and wide to distant places too. Healing Energy can go to others wherever it is needed to be received with a Clear Mind and Lots of Loving Kindness”. If you click this link You can go to the post: Energy Healing! 

So, I am editing and updating almost all my posts as, this is “A New Chapter and A New Beginning” on. Upgrading Myself to A New Wavelength. A New Chapter in My Life and I Wish so for You also. Please click this Link which will take You to My Birthday Post Birthday!❤

There will still be The older Topics “On the Left Hand side, Under the Recent Posts” with “The New Topics adding up. And Under Archives and Categories. Happy Reading   ❤

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What I am doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Moving forward Telling My Journey in Wellness. Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy in this Post, and if You click on this Link in Green, You can read this Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing” 🙂 you can have a look at: https://deepanilamani.com/ ❤

“It is all free”. You can “Download. Take print outs” “share or pass it on also” for others who can benefit from this article and all the other posts ❤

Thanking the I net, YouTube for the video and other sites for the posts shared by me ❤

Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies from me ❤

May God’s Blessings be Upon You ❤

Deepa 100Deepa Nilamani 🙂

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Changes in Life!

Hello To, All My Dear Readers, Followers and Blogging Friends ❤

I hope all of you are keeping well and happy. I was going to continue on the subject of depression, but something else turned up that detoured me from writing. “It was to give a helping hand to someone who needed some encouragement to build up her confidence” as she had many health issues. As we all know that when one is stressed it is “Lack of ease which described as disease” and is both body and mind and, it can be the mind that makes the body sick. But its not all who see it this way!
I was trying to enlighten her with books and quotes and pictures, but she simple refused to listen to what I was saying and sticking to her age-old habits and beliefs, which were exactly what was filling her body and mind with negativity and resulting her having so many illnesses. We can all learn from every one. Even here on the I net, the blogs what we are doing is sharing our knowledge and experiences for others to learn and, we are all learning new things at the same time. When people think they know everything then you cannot make them to learn. Usually its the, “Ego” that stands in between, But see “What when you face the challenges, How much one can Achieve and Win 🙂

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In life there are those who do new things, or take a different path than others, and sometimes these people are looked upon as different or even odd. So in this incident, even I was looked upon as odd. Those who do not read or upgrade their knowledge in this fast moving world, fall behind. Its also very necessary to keep your body and mind both moving,  for good health. It has proven scientifically that those who are active physically and keep their minds going are healthier, live longer and alert even in their old ages 🙂

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All these are scientific proof to show, how much the mind can help, control how our bodies can work. What powers it has to combat stress and help in healing. If you read what is in the post up “Listening to good classical music and listening to good sounds. Listening to music can decrease anxiety, speed Healing, Increase Optimism and decrease pain. Babies know from Happy from sad songs. As young as 5 months can distinguish (recognize) an upbeat tune such as, “An Ode to Joy” from Beethoven’s 9th symphony. “Sound is a nutrient for the nervous system. Love Your ears …..they are much more important than you ever realized.” ~ Prof. Dr. Alfred Tomati ❤
The Mozart Effect: It’s been thought that listening to classical music, particularly Mozart, enhances performance on “Cognitive tests. However, recent findings show the listening to any music that is personally enjoyable has positive effects on cognition. Listening to good music can make you learn better and has the power to enhance some kind of higher brain function, such as reading and literacy skills, spatial-tempered reasoning, emotional intelligence and mathematical abilities – even children with attention deficit/hyperactivity disorder benefit in mathematics tests from listening to music beforehand ❤
Exercise your wheels of thinking and you would know what this word means. In simple terms, cognition refers to the process of thinking. It is the identification of knowledge, of understanding it and perceiving it. The most common references of cognition that one would find would be in psychology and philosophy. One would do well to read on cognitive psychology (defined as the psychological study of higher mental processes, including thinking and perception).
The dictionary definitions for cognition are as follows: 1. The mental process of knowing, including aspects such as awareness, perception, reasoning, and judgment. (noun) 2. That which comes to be known, as through perception, reasoning, or intuition; knowledge. (noun)
Masters Tip to remember Cognition: Our simple reference guide for this:
Process of cognition = Process of thinking. This is the simplified and practical meaning for this word with the strange feeling ~ https://wordpandit.com/cognition/ ❤

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Healing Powers: Music can help to stimulate/activate the mind, ‘Boost Creative Energies”, and are associated with “Dreaming, Learning and Relaxing”. The key to Boosting Creative Energies is to Listen to the type of music “You Enjoy” the most. If You want more “Inspiration, in Language and Mathematics” it would make sense to listen to “Music with Singing”, while “Music without words”, stimulates more “Artistic and Visual Senses” ❤
Happy 10When it comes to Healing, we have to somehow “Learn to Relax and let our feelings of “distress (discomfort, sadness) out and discuss with the counselors, doctors and therapists or whoever you are dealing with even, “A friend or an understanding outsider”. Also, you need to discuss with your closest, and that is your family members, as they are the people whom you come across almost daily, and the most important people that need to know what is going on with you, as otherwise they will not know how to support you!!!

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From the experience although I got confused to a certain extent, I got back into my reading and confirmed that I am Not odd. And I have taken it as a positive experience to feel it was a test of faith in my knowledge and even of myself. And by finding information to write this article too it has helped to confirm that I am correct in what I write and say and also to restore my confidence in myself again. Also to show those of you who are reading, that in life we face many challenges/tests to overcome and become stronger to go to that next level up to move on further in life 🙂

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Latest Update 6th March 2020: Up to date with the Birthday article 111th and The Introductory page I have published 112 posts. On “The Top Right-Hand side” you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, you will see the word “Home” Under, which is The Introductory Page and All the 111 posts from, The Beginning to the end is shown ~ Below the Home Page”: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

The older Topics “On The Left Hand side. Under the “Recent Posts” with “The New Topics adding up. “The Balance will be Under “ARCHIVES”. (The New Topics adding) The line is Too Long”. Also look “Under CATERGORIES” ❤

“I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy into My Hands” since “Beginning of 2016” All my Hard work and Praying has been rewarded. Healing Energy can go to others wherever it is needed to be received with a Clear Mind and Loving Kindness” even You ❤

So I am editing and updating all my posts naturally as, This is Every day can be, “A New Chapter and A New Beginning” Upgrading Myself to A New Wavelength. A New Chapter in My Life and I Wish so for You also. Please click this Link which will take You to My Birthday Post Birthday!❤

And what I am doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Writing My Own Journey in Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy. This Post, and if You click on this Link in Green, You can read this Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

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The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I do during my free time 🙂 you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/ ❤

“It is all free”. You can “Download ~ Take print outs” “share and or pass it on also” for others who can benefit from this article and all the other posts ❤

Thanking for the posts taken from the I net and https://www.online-image-editor.com/ for the Picture Quotes done by me ❤

Sending Many Blessings of Love and Light from me ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa 12Deepa Nilamani 🙂

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