A New Chance To Start Over!

Hello To, All My Dear Readers, Followers and Blogging friends ❤

Hello to all of My Dear Friends, Brothers and Sisters. This is in Celebration of completing 80 articles on our site and I am starting a New Chapter in my life. From 6th of March, (this month) is my Birthday. So this is My Birthday Wish for All of You ❤

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I hope all of you are feeling much Better, Wiser and Happier after going through all what I have done and reading. In my case I have gained a lot of knowledge and advanced myself by doing the site, as I have had to do “reference” also to bring to you even more information for your benefit. There is a saying that, “When you go to spread Jam you get some on yourself too”, so this is what has happened to me also! By looking out for information and writing articles according to some of your individual needs, I too have (ventured out) gone through and read vastly to give new ideas and information to you. Now don’t tell me that some of you are still not all that ok :DGrrrrrr ….. In that case I (your I net mummy) will take a stick and come after you like this 😀

Mother 1Now if you have finished laughing and giggling, we come down to some serious work, says Mummy 😛 Growing up means, moving on with much better understanding and maturity, to look at the issues and problems in different ways than before. It is not possible to always be Positive and Change overnight, as sometimes the environment and your living standards can take time to change ❤
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As from what I have and going through, “There seems to be that exact Time The Time Has To Come ! that things/life change. So you need to have “Faith and Be Patient and always Believe and not lose Hope at any time”. As I have written before, “Words Words Words and Words ! are very important as they arise from, “Thoughts”, and so Positive Words takes on to doing “Good/Positive things” and of course bad words, because of negative thinking will give out the opposite things!

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Continuing with my Journey, I have been speaking about how hard I worked, “To receive The Gift of Healing Energy” this is keeping to, “The Laws of The Universe” ~ “What goes up does come down, and what goes around comes around” It is also known as, “Good or bad Karma”. You have to understand that, “The word Karma has No female or Male identity it is action/doing”. When your mind is not at ease, too much reading can be stressful. So at “Any time read only what you can” what matters is the, “Healing part” as “This is not a Language lesson” 😛 But keep in mind that, “When I receive Healing Energy to My Hands, they will travel across to All of You too ❤

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The word “Karma” has no male or female term. It is “Its The acts of Right and Wrong what each one does” If you do good things in life you’ll get good karma ~ good things will come your way ❤

Karma 1Now we come to, “The Healing Part” I have written so much about Healing Healing ~ Basic Steps! in different ways: 1. Healing Healing ~ Trauma ! 2.Healing Healing ~ Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder! 3.Healing Healing from ~ Depression ! 4.Healing Courage to Heal ~ Depression ! 5.Healing  What Is Healing ? 6.Healing Healing ~ Taking Full Responsibility ! 7.Healing Healing ~ Desire To Heal ! 8.Healing Healing ~ Who Help or Hurt Us !  9.Healing Gratitude ~ In Healing ! 10.Healing Forgiveness in Healing ! 11.Healing Freedom ~ In Healing! 12.Healing Trials and Tribulations in Healing!  13.Healing Third Eye in Healing!

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So this is My Birthday Wish for: “You All with All My Heart ~ To Be able to be able to Raise Your standard of Living if that is your issue, become Healthy Mentally and Physically, and if YOU are in Good Health, automatically YOU can be Happy”. As Good Health is the most important thing in life as that cannot be bought from money ~ “The Greatest Wealth is Good Health” and of course the rest follows: To Be Prosperous too as we need money to pay our bills 😛 Then to be able to, “Be at Peace of Mind” as that is the ultimate place we all want to come to ❤

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Once you are in Good Health or even otherwise, what ever YOU have learnt from what I have written, “YOU also can be, “A Teacher, A Friend to Give a Helping Hand or to Listen in Time of Stress”. If you click this Link it will take you to this post on this site: That Thing called Stress !!! 

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So we All come to an end of a chapter. So many of YOU have followed My Journey by reading, commenting, sharing, and also Encouraging and Uplifting me by your comments, because I got the feeling that I have been of some help in getting better I feel very much Happy 🙂 ❤

Latest Update 6th March 2020:Up to date with the Birthday article 111th and The Introductory page I have Published 112 posts. On “The Top Right Hand side” you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, You will see will see The word “Home” Which is The Introductory Page. All the 111 posts from “The Beginning to the end is shown, Under “Home”: Who I am & Why I am Writing! 

I am in Good Health and as, “I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy in to My Hands” since “Beginning of 2016” All my Hard work and Praying has been rewarded. Healing Energy can go to others where ever it is needed to be received with Loving Kindness” and A Pure Heart ❤

So “I am having to Edit and Update almost All The Posts from The Very Beginning” This is My Birthday and, “A New Chapter and A New Beginning”. Upgrading Myself to A New Wave Length ~ A New Chapter in My Life and I Wish so for You also. Please click this Link which will take You to My  Birthday Post Birthday ❤

The old Topics are, “On The Left Hand side “Under the, “Recent Posts” with “The New Topics adding up. “The Balance will be Under “ARCHIVES”. Also “Under CATERGORIES” Because “It will be too long to post so many number of posts on the side. You can “Click and see all The older Topics with “The New Topics adding up” Happy Reading ❤

And what I have been doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Moving forward Telling My Own Story in Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy in this Post, and if You click on this Link in Green You can read this Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts which you will be able to find more information”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am up to” 🙂 during my spare time you can have a look at: https://deepanilamani.com/

“It is all free”. You can “Download ~ Take print outs” “share and or pass it on also” for others who can benefit from this article and all the other posts ❤

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Thanking The I net, https://www.clipart.com/en/ for the posts shared and https://www.online-image-editor.com/ for the posts I have done ❤

Sending Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies to All of You ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa 100Deepa Nilamani 🙂

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Freedom To Be You!

Hello To, All My Dear Readers Followers and Blogging Friends ❤
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Today I am writing about, “A Very Important Topic ~ It is about Freedom” It is based on how people try to Manipulate some of us. “The secret of freedom is courage. This verse about Behaviour, is one which I greatly believe from ~ Erich Seligmann Fromm!

Erich_Fromm 1Erich Seligmann Fromm (March 23, 1900 – March 18, 1980) was a German-born American social psychologist,   psychoanalystsociologisthumanistic philosopher. Fromm believed that freedom was an aspect of human nature that we either embrace or escape. He observed that embracing our freedom of will was healthy, whereas escaping freedom through the use of escape mechanisms was the root of psychological conflicts. Fromm outlined three of the most common escape mechanisms: automaton conformity, authoritarianism, and destructiveness. Automaton conformity is changing one’s ideal self to conform to a perception of society’s preferred type of personality, losing one’s true self in the process. Automaton conformity displaces the burden of choice from self to society. Authoritarianism is giving control of oneself to another. By submitting one’s freedom to someone else, this act removes the freedom of choice almost entirely. Lastly, destructiveness is any process which attempts to eliminate others or the world as a whole, all to escape freedom ~ Courtesy of https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Erich_Fromm!

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Behavior – “If other people do not understand our behavior what can we do. We behave according to our personalities”.
Their request that, “We must only do what they understand, is an attempt to, ‘Dictate’ as mostly they ‘Resent’ our ‘Freedom’ and our ‘Courage’ to be ourselves.
We owe nobody an explanation or an accounting, as long as, ‘Our acts Do Not Hurt or Infringe them’.
How many lives have been ‘Ruined’ by this need to explain, which usually implies that the explanation be, ‘Understood’ i.e. Approved.
“Let Your Deeds be Judged”. And, ‘From Your Deeds ~ Your real Intentions’
But know that, “A Free Person Owes an Explanation Only to Himself/Herself” And to,’ The Few’ “Who may have Justified Claim for Explanation” ~Erich Fromm.

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As human beings, “Freedom is Very Important. In fact it is to, “All Living beings” including the animal kingdom” We are all born with, “A Unique Personality to each other and we all have that need to Behave, to Act and overall Live according to how our personality is”. As I wrote before, “We have the Right to Live freely” how we want, as long as we do not do the wrong things that is harmful to ourselves or to others!

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When we are restricted or prevented is, “The times we feel, stressed” That Thing called Stress !!! and if it is how we have to live, long term it’s through because of this Stress we become unwell/sick”. As human beings, “We are lucky that we can learn from others, read and so much of resources to learn ~ How best we can go about to Live according to our personalities/ our ways of doing thing in life ~ how we like to do things” This is by educating ourselves ❤

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So we can Learn so many things ourselves as, “We are the only people who know exactly what and how we want to act and do things, to be relaxed, comfortable and at ease, as “The term Dis-ease simply means lack of ease or harmony within the body” ~ The I net! So to be in Harmony within the body, “Just be You” ❤

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I hope you like what I wrote and learnt something new, or remembered things you already knew. I know it is sometimes not easy, but have Courage and try as much as do things for you to be relaxed and Happy ❤

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Latest Update 6th March 2020: Up to date with the Birthday article 111th and The Introductory page I have Published 112 posts. On “The Top Right-Hand side” you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, you will see the word “Home”. All the 111 posts from “The Beginning to the end is shown, under “Home” Under which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

I am in Good Health and as, “I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy in to My Hands” since “Beginning of 2016”. All my Hard work and Praying has been rewarded. Healing Energy can go to others wherever it is needed to be received with a Loving Kindness” even You ❤

So “I am Editing and Upgrading almost All the Posts from The Very Beginning” This is My Birthday and, “A New Chapter and A New Beginning”. Upgrading Myself to A New Wavelength ~ A New Chapter in My Life and I Wish so for You also. Please click this Link which will take You to My Birthday Post Birthday ❤

The old Topics on The Left-Hand side “Under Recent Posts, Archives and Categories with “The new Topics adding up. Happy Reading ❤

And what I have been doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Moving forward Writing My own Journey of Good Health in Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy in this Post, and if You click on this Link in Green You can read this Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts which you will be able to find more information”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am up to” 🙂 during my spare time you can have a look at: https://deepanilamani.com/

“It is all free”. You can “Download ~ Take print outs” “share and pass it on also” for others who can benefit from this article and All the other posts ❤

Thanking https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wikipedia, The I net for the posts I have taken https://www.online-image-editor.com/ for the pictures I have done ❤

Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies to You ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa 100Deepa Nilamani 🙂

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I Am Praying!

Hello To, All My Dear Readers Followers and Blogging Friends ❤

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How are you all? Today I thought of writing an article, on what I saw on some of your sites. Life is such, it is not a straight path for anyone. There are so many ups and downs as we go along, and we all go through Happy and Joyful times as well as certain challenges and difficulties from our day to day activities. These are for us to grow and move on to Higher Levels in our lives. I know there are many different people in our family of bloggers, writing on various topics, but most of us share a common bond, “We are all Guides, Mentors and Motivators of some sort of issues in Life” ❤

Pray 3Recently I have seen some of you going through physical pain due to illnesses as well as, some who have had faced some challenges, due to unkind and selfish people. I know when this type of things happens, we become troubled and lose faith in how life works. In my case, I am a firm believer in Prayers, and if I cannot see reason or answers, I sit and pray!

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I pray daily and today as I was praying it came in to my mind to write an article for all of you as well, on what I believe in, and what I do, with the Hope that some of you can take comfort from this post If you click this Link it will take you into this post of mine: The Power of Prayers!  

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All what I have gone through so far now, I have Learnt a Lot. As I said before I pray and ask for Strength, Courage and Guidance from, “Almighty God, The Higher Powers, The Universe” (how ever you believe in) to overcome the challenges or difficulties, and go along the path towards your “Purpose in Life”. From all the experiences You can Learn immensely about Faith, Hope and most importantly being Patient until Life becomes Better. “Being able to forgive is the first step to being free from those who has been unkind and not fair to you ❤

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As a result of my praying for “A Very Long Period of Time”, with Dedication and Consistently over the years, now I have begun to receive, Healing Energy” in to my hands ❤

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We all have energy, only we need to develop them with lot of hard work meaning “Doing Good Things in Life”. Now at this time of my life, “I feel Blessed” as ” It is something I have earned, “Through Sharing and Giving, loving kindness and above all being Truthful and Honest” ❤

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The Gifts Talents come differently to Each person as “All cannot Be or do the same jobs”. Some try to take shortcuts which doesn’t work. To have a “Higher Purpose in Life “Each person “HAS TO GO ABOUT IN LIFE” with HIGH MORALS, DIGNITY and RESPECT!

Morals are formed out of a person’s values. Values are the foundation of a person’s ability to judge between right and wrong.

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  1. Always tell the truth.
  2. Do not destroy property.
  3. Have courage.
  4. Keep your promises.
  5. Do not cheat.
  6. Treat others as you want to be treated.
  7. Do not judge.
  8. Be dependable ~ The I net!

From the day we are born we go through a very long journey. We have to learn so much on our own and as we go along in life, we have to take risks too to move forward. But what matters is we learn from what others do too, as its Not possible to have All The Experiences ourselves in one life time. “The whole world, The vast Universe is open to all ~ “Offering Knowledge and Guidance”, for us to become, “Good human beings ourselves, and to be of value as good citizens to the world”. Once gone through our Life Experiences and Gained, “Knowledge and Wisdom” and lived in loving kindness we can become, “Wise enough to Guide other’s, “To Find Their Goals and Reach Their Destinations too” ❤

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While I was praying very hard, for myself I have included “All of you too”, and as I was typing I received some “Healing Energy” to my hands ~ it happens when “I pray, think or do something with, “Loving kindness” and I take them as guidance and approval, that whatever my thoughts or actions were on the correct wavelength. For those of you who believe in energy, “I sincerely hope you receive some “Healing Energy”. This will be in my blog, giving out “Good and Positive Energy” always, for Good Health, Happiness, Prosperity and Peace at Heart, which is the ultimate goal in our lives ❤

As some are doubtful of, “My acquiring The Gift of Healing Hands I am posting this link of, “Who My Grandfather and My Great Grandfather is” You can click on this Link on Wikipedia and confirm: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/G._P._Wickramarachchi

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Click anytime You need to and take it in with a “Good Heart ~ Loving Kindness” ❤ Concentrate on it and “Feel or Imagine Positive/Healing Energy flowing into You”, Cleansing you of any worries, negativity that You may have, or any of Your Issues that needs ” Help and Healing” and to “Give You Strength and Courage and Renew Your Hopes” that will bring “You Good Health, Prosperity, Happiness and Joy, and Peace” which “We All seek as The Ultimate Goal in Our Lives” ❤

Latest Update 6th March 2020: Up to date with the Birthday article 111th with the Introductory page, I have Published 112 posts. On “The Top Right-Hand side” you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, You will see the word “Home” Under which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

Update: Friday 10thJune 2022:3.12 AM: I have been reading this now to see if its necessary for any editing, and: Having Energies in “Both My Hands” getting even Stronger Vibrations now ❤

I am in Good Health and as, “I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy in to My Hands” since “Beginning of 2016”. All my Hard work and Praying has been rewarded. Healing Energy can go to others wherever it is needed to be received with a Clear Mind and Lot of Loving Kindness” ❤

So “I am Editing and Updating almost All The Posts from The Very Beginning” This is My Birthday and, “A New Chapter and A New Beginning”. I am Moving on. I have Learnt lot of New Things. A New Wavelength ~ A New Chapter in My Life and I Wish so for You also. Please click this Link which will take You to My Birthday Post Birthday!

The older Topics “On the Left-Hand side “Under Recent Posts, Archives and Categories” with “The New Topics adding up” Happy Reading ❤

And what I have been doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Writing My Journey in Good Health in Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy in this Post, and if You click on this Link in Green You can read this Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation also”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am up to” 🙂 during my spare time you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/

“It is all free”. You can “Download ~ Take print outs” “share and pass it on also” for others who can benefit from this article and All the other posts ❤

I send You Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies ❤

Thanking for the posts taken from the I net ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa 100Deepa Nilamani ❤

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The Power of Hand Writing!

Hello to, All My Dear Readers Followers and My Dear Blogging Friends ❤

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I Hope all of you are keeping well and happy. Today I thought of Writing about the value of writing by hand. As in this increasing digital age, so many have, and are turning to type and swipe, on the computers, laptops, I pad and phones than using pencils or pens to write by hand. In my case I do use all that but, have always liked to write by pens and pencils too from my school days, and still continue to write using my various pens to write. How many of you still still love Writing by hand?

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A study in psychological science has been found that students who take down notes by hand, rather than by laptops are better able to remember and grasp the subject. This is because when we are Writing by hand we tend to concentrate and write slowly, be more selective, rephrase and summarise, and choose the most important information, to include in the notes. This makes the brain works more efficiently and we are able to understand the content clearly and memorize better 🙂

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The studies with small kindergarten children also showed that, those who learnt the alphabet by Writing exercises, learnt it faster and better than those learning from the key board system. On the whole children both young and old, acquired a better understanding of the language, and were better able to express more ideas with a multitude of  Words !

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Writing  journaling are excellent ways for understanding and recovering from stress and Trauma ! In my opinion, the best way to put the mind in order is writing out what is going on in the mind. Typing out also yes but, “Writing  by hand puts in that extra effort and forces out something from inside of you, that cannot really happen from typing” As the hand yields to the emotions inside of you, and helps better to let go or organize your self in a much better way ❤W 4aa
Evidence from new research show the psychological benefits of handwriting. How those who wrote by hand, were more likely to find relief from anxiety, fear and worry than those tapping on a computer. It also shows that jotting down our thoughts and feelings not only help people understand and recover from stress and Healing ~ Trauma ! but also help those with conditions such as asthma and arthritis, those recovering from surgery and issues that are difficult to overcome!

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Some who rarely or never use handwriting as an outlet to express themselves, need to know that journaling is so helpful in clarifying one’s way of thinking and doing things in life in higher standards ❤

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Writing by hand is a very personal and creative experience. I know as I am very fond of writing by hand. It helps one to be more aware of what is going on in the mind and helps the mind to stay in balance, healthy and happy. So why don’t you try too? If by now if you have not tried?

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I hope you found some new information from what I have written. It’s an article of my knowledge and also from many sources from what I read, that I have written for your benefit. “I hope You add more in Your Future so that You Enhance Your Knowledge to Move on to Higher Wave Lengths and Live in Happiness and Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in Life ❤

Latest Update 6th March 2020: Up to date with the Birthday article 111th and The Introductory page, I have published 112 posts. On “The Top Right Hand side” you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, You will see will see The word “Home” Under which All the 111 posts from, The Beginning to the end is shown. Below the Home Page” is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

I am in Good Health and as, “I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy in to My Hands” since “Beginning of 2016”. All my Hard work and Praying has been rewarded. Healing Energy can go to others where ever it is needed to be received with a Clear Mind and Lots of Loving Kindness” ❤

So I have had to edit and update almost all my posts naturally as, This is “A New Chapter and A New Beginning” Upgrading Myself to A New Wave Length. A New Chapter in My Life and I Wish so for You also. Please click this Link which will take You to My Birthday Post Birthday!

The older Topics will be “On The Left Hand side, Under “Recent Posts, Archives and Categories” with “The New Topics adding up. Happy Reading ❤

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What I am doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Moving forward Writing My Own Journey on Good Health and Healing in Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy in this Post, and if You click on this Link in Green You can read this Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to other different posts of Mine which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation also”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing” 🙂 you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/ ❤

“It is all free”. You can “Download. Take print outs” “share and pass it on also” for others who can benefit from this article and All the other posts ❤

Thanking for the posts taken from the I net and https://www.online-image-editor.com/ for the posts I have done ❤

Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies coming Your way ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa 100Deepa Nilamani 🙂

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