How I am My Path was Born!

Hello To, All My Dear Readers Followers and Blogging Friends ❤

I hope all of you are keeping Well and Happy. I wish to be so. There are enough facts and figures going on so I need not add to all that. My Wish was always, “To Leave A Heart Print of Healing Energy as I walked along for “Good Health” and to be “Spreading Happiness and Joy to Everyone” ❤ ❤ ❤

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I love Beautiful pictures and Quotations. After I started Face Book, in 2011, Happiness Quotes was Born on The 24th August 2012. I created “Happiness Quotes page” to post, Happy and Bright pictures with Positive quotations of, Hope,Wisdom, Courage, Faith and Love. At “The Beginning” I had to learn “How to share a post itself” and then slowly “I Learnt to write on pictures” As I progressed, I found that I was getting over the Low Moods and started to become more Positive and Happier. And then slowly, “I started writing my Experiences and Knowledge of my journey of becoming well”. Without my being aware, Going through so much of Colourful and Uplifting Pictures and Quotations, I had been Uplifting Myself also and had become Very Positive. At the same time I also “Trained as an “ESL Tutor in (English as A Second Language)” and started working in TAFE (Technical And Further Education). I got this need to study further and, I started to study, on line and did Two Courses, “Personnel Development and Natural Health and Healing” through MSA (Monash University Student Association ~Training and Professional Development). I did these very well and then, started to study for A Diploma in Counselling and Psychotherapy. I wanted more Knowledge and to feel doing something to advance myself as well as, “Most importantly I wanted to show that, “People can overcome so called low moods and can concentrate and study and achieve Higher standards of Life to be Happy and Health and able to lead Normal Lives again!

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As I was studying, I needed to put my mind fully on the course and found my Mind going along “The Path of Healing” that was taking me away from being a Tutor of English. Besides I have been teaching English for a very Long time, starting with my sons and then, once they were grown up, I started teaching the children around my home, and doing the same thing was not all that interesting and Health and Healing became “More important”, That I stopped being a Tutor and became fully involved myself in to studying. In a way, The course itself was quite advanced and I needed to concentrate and put my mind fully into studying the notes, “The Theory part of it also”. Actually this was the “Best thing that happened to me, as I really learnt so much about the, “Theories and Techniques of Counseling and below are The Main Theories that I studied”:

1.) Psychoanalytic Therapy
2.) Adlerian Therapy
3.) Existential Therapy
4.) Person-Centered Therapy
5.) Gestalt Therapy
6.) Behavior Therapy
7.) Cognitive Behavior Therapy

All these really helped me while I was studying, as not only the theory part but, I had to answer my own way of “dealing with certain other client’s issues. How I would go about counseling them, in real life. The last Therapy, ” The Constructivist Approach to Cognitive Behavior Therapy ~ By Dr. Donald Meichenbaum, was what really worked for me, Like The cherry on The Cake” 🙂

Dr. Donald Meichenbaum:, New York, New York, United States is an American psychotherapist . He is considered one of the founders of cognitive behavioral therapy . He attended from 1954 to 1958, the Taft High School in New York City and then 1958-1962, the City College of New York . From 1962 to 1966 he studied at the University of Illinois in Urbana . From 1966 to 1969 he was Assistant Professor of Psychology, University of Waterloo , Ontario , 1970-1973 Associate Professor of Psychology and from 1974 to 1998 Meichenbaum was Professor of Psychology in Waterloo. In 1996, he became director of the Melissa Institute for Violence Prevention and Treatment in Miami , Florida. He was voted one of the Ten Most Influential Psychotherapists of the Century by North American Therapists in a 1999 American Psychologist Survey . He is considered one of the most cited psychological researchers at Canadian universities. “Dr Donald Meichenbaum is professor emeritus at the University of Waterloo, and “continues to work up to date April 2020” as a clinical psychologist. ~ https://de.wikipedia.org/wiki/Donald_Meichenbaum

“The Constructivist Approach to Cognitive Behaviour Therapy” Donald Meichenbaum  has developed his approach by in-cooperating the “Constructivist Narrative Perspective (CNP)” people tell of significant events in their Lives!
One of the, “Therapeutic tasks” is to help clients appreciate how they construct their realities and how, “They Author their own stories” 🙂

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Therapists help clients on how they, “Construct reality (story tell) and examine the Implications and Conclusions clients draw from their own stories” Telling the of The Rest of The Story ~What They did to Survive and Cope ~ bolster clients Strengths and Help Them Develop Resilient behaviours. In this way, “Clients can Move from being Clients to ~ “Strong Willed Survivors” and “Successful People ~ Dr. Donald Meichenbaum, Ph.D.

Dr. Meichenbaum uses these questions to evaluate the “Outcome of, “The Therapy”:
1. Are clients now able to tell, “A New Story about themselves and the World”?
2. Do clients now use more Positive Metaphors to Describe Themselves?
3. Are clients now able to “Predict high-risk situations and Employ Coping Skills in emerging problems”?
4. Are clients able to “Take Credit for the changes, “They have been able to bring about”?

In Successful Therapy Clients, “Develop Their Own Voices Take Pride in what They have Accomplished, and “Take Ownership of The Changes they are bringing about”. In short, “CLIENTS BECOME THEIR OWN THERAPISTS and TAKE THE THERAPISTS VOICE WITH THEM” 🙂

And This is who I became. Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Moving forward Telling My Own Story in Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Prosperity, Happiness and Joy and Peace at Heart ❤

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At The same times I have been, Praying and Meditating intensely since a very very long time. My wish was to, receive, “The ability to Heal” what I was asking was for Protection and for Guidance and Blessings. I was aware, “That My Maternal Grandfather had this Very Rare Gift of Healing, “Coming down through The Generations, and even My Great Grandfather was an, “Ayurvedic Physician himself.

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As “Eldest of The Grand children I had the good Luck to be able to” spend my school holidays with My Grandparents in their Home, and was able to see from Far where I was seated, “My Grand Father seeing Patients on certain days, when I used to go to pick him up, seated near the door, until he finished the last of the patients in the night” At that time I was not really aware, “What This Healing Gift was, But what I wanted was to, “To do service like him and My Grandmother, in giving which is, Being Dedicated for Pure Service” Little did I know, “That somehow what My Grandfather was doing “Had gone in to my mind at that time and as I was moving along, “Little by little I was Reading and Trying to Understand what it was”!

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It was then I started studying “Natural Health and Healing”, that I started getting energy into My Hands. A friend who was A Spiritual Healer herself asked if My Hands became warm when I came across someone who was not well. And also mentioned that it was, “My Grandfather’s Energy and also suggested some reading material to me”. Then on gradually I began to to understand more and more and finally I did begin to feel, “My Hands getting Energy at certain times even when I was writing on This Blog” and also when some of them needed Healing Energy” meaning I had, “Received the, “Gift of Healing to Both my Hands”!

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Ayurveda
 (/ˌɑːjʊərˈvdə, ˈv-/)[1] is a system of medicine with historical roots in the Indian subcontinent. Globalized and modernized practices derived from Ayurveda traditions are a type of alternative medicine. In countries beyond India, Ayurvedic therapies and practices have been integrated in general wellness applications and in some cases in medical use.
The main classical Ayurveda texts begin with accounts of the transmission of medical knowledge from the sages, and then to human physicians. In Sushruta Samhita (Sushruta’s Compendium), Sushruta wrote that DhanvantariHindu Ayurveda, incarnated himself as a king of Varanasi and taught medicine to a group of physicians, including Sushruta. Ayurveda therapies have varied and evolved over more than two millennia. Therapies are typically based on complex herbal compounds, minerals and metal substances (perhaps under the influence of early Indian alchemy or rasa shastra) ~ https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ayurveda!

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April 24th 2020:Up to date with “This article is The 118th with, The Introductory page. I have Published 119 posts.. All the posts from “The Beginning to the end is shown ~ Below the Home Page”: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

I am in Good Health and as, “I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy Myself” since “Beginning of 2016”. All my Hard work and Praying has been rewarded. Healing Energy can go to others where ever it is needed ~ Anywhere in “The World”. But one must have to receive with a “Clear Mind and Lots of Loving Kindness” ❤

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What I am doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Moving forward Writing My Journey of Wellness. Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy, and it is in this post if you click on the Link: The Therapists Voice Forward!

So right now these days, “I am Editing and Updating almost, “All The Posts” from The Very Beginning”. It is “A New Chapter and A New Beginning”. I am Moving on. Upgrading Myself to A New Wave Length. A New Chapter in My Life and I Wish so for You also ❤

Also There will still The old Topics “On The Left Hand side ~ Under the ~ “Recent Posts” with “The New Topics adding up. Also “Under Archives and Categories”. Happy Reading, and Do You like new Me below 😀

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The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other posts which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing” 🙂 you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/ ❤

“It is all free”. You can “Download ~ Take print outs” “share and pass it on also” for others who can benefit from this article and All the other posts ❤

Thanking The I net and https://www.online-image-editor.com/ for the posts I have written and done and The other websites for the posts I have shared ❤

Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies from me ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa 100Deepa Nilamani 🙂

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Natural Health & Healing!

Hello to, All My Dear Readers Followers and Blogging Friends ❤

I Hope and Wish All of You to be Healthy and staying Calm as much as possible. Now that I know of “Healing Energy” I thought of “Sharing These Videos from “The You Tube” ~ For “You the Readers” to Listen and Watch and have an idea how “Energy Healing Happens” But “This is Not How I have got the Gift of Healing”!

According to This Video: This is “How Meditation is done” and how all this affect Yourself and then “The Society and The Whole World”. To Bring “Good Health, Happiness, Prosperity” and above all, “Peace and Harmony” especially at, “This Time of Our Lives”. But keep in Mind There are Many ways how each person follows. ❤ ❤ ❤

April 1st, 2020: Up to date with “This article which is the 114th and The Introductory page. I have Published 115 posts on This Website. On Top Right-Hand side, you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, you will see the word “Home” All the posts from “The Very Beginning comes ~ Under “Home”. Which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

So right now, these days, “I am Editing and Updating almost, “All the Posts” from The Very Beginning”. It is “A New Chapter and A New Beginning”. Upgrading Myself to A New Wavelength. A New Chapter in My Life and I Wish for You also ❤

As you are aware I do References also, for More and New Information, and even spelling, “To make sure, “I give out “The Very Best as much as possible”. So, I hope All those who Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Good Health, Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so.” Peace which is The Ultimate Goal in our Lives. Happy Reading, Happy Meditating ❤

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What I am doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Moving forward Telling My Own Journey in Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy, and it is in this post if you click on the Link: Taking the Therapists Voice Forward!

The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to other different posts of Mine which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing 🙂 during my spare (Free) time you can have a look at: https://deepanilamani.com/

“It is all free”. “Download ~ Take print outs, share and pass it on also for others who can benefit from these posts. I hope All those Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so as,” Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in Life” ❤ ❤ ❤

Thanking the I net, “Prana World” and to, The You Tube https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jtOahTuWi1Y for The Videos shared By Me ❤

Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies to You ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa 100Deepa Nilamani 🙂

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How To Stay Home & Be Safe!

Hello To, All My Dear Readers Followers and Blogging Friends ❤

With all what is going at “The Present Times” I thought of writing an article on “Taking Care of Yourselves in a “Healthy way and also How to keep Yourselves active and in a Good Mood” with so much of news that are on public media. I am not going to “Give lists as That is being ” how to keep Yourselves “Active as well as Relax and to be able to Sleep Well” and to be in a Positive Mood as much as possible. See what and how many things you can or like to do from here ❤

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Somehow without knowing all this to come, “I have done ~ How to make Collages or Vision Boards, as well as “Benefits of Music” and also articles on, “Counselling” that is Very Helpful and ideal, “While having to stay with less going about”. There are so many “Activities” I have written here. Click This Link to Take You to this Post: Hobbies ~ Do What You Really Like To Do! For those who like “Trees and Plants” and do Hobbies like, “Gardening” ❤

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And also if there is a possibility of going for a walk or to sit under a Tree and Relax in safe places in, “Nature”:The Benefits of Nature!

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Below is from “The country ~ Japan” where they they have this “Forest of Trees ~ That people are supposed to stay and walk quietly ~ For Complete Relaxation ~ Called Forest Bathing. Actually, people can do anywhere in the world, where it is quiet and not too many people around” 🙂

Cooking, Taking Pictures and Writing Poetry ~ from My other Personal website: https://deepanilamani.com/

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And also Hobbies like, “Writing”: All About Writing! Another article about Writing: The Power of Hand Writing!

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And also “The articles on Music:Benefits Of Music ~ Part 1!

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Although The Post below, says “Music for the benefits of kids” its for adults too:Benefits of Music ~ Part 2!

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=33o32C0ogVM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pLm07s8fnzM

The above Three Videos are from: Sound of Music and the Singer is: “Julie Andrews. Below also she is the person who sings in “The film called “Mary Poppins” as you can see, “She has a very Beautiful Voice”” and the words are simple other than the second one which will help You to learn Your Pronunciation and also learn the words and sing as “The songs are sung” 🙂

Above song is as you can see, from, “The film called ~ Mary Poppins” and “About feeding The Birds” by an old lady who “Loves Birds” and is feeding The Birds. She says “Tuppence a bag” ❤

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uZNRzc3hWvE
Then of course, “There is Exercises indoors or outside Your Home ~ where it is clean and safe surroundings” 🙂

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Below is, “The Sound of Music Orchestra ~ as You can see “Orchestra is with many many people playing different musical instruments and the Gentleman who is with like a stick is, “The Conductor who guides the players to play in Tune”. Watch carefully how what he is doing, it is not easy thing 🙂

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4BJxL3TMswU
I am sure You and All The Readers will be able to keep themselves “Occupied and Relaxed” by Reading, Looking and Listening and even Singing while the songs are being played, whatever “The Times These can be played or done”. Stay Safe. I send Many Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies Your Way. “Now it is 11.18 PM in Brisbane Australia and “I have got Healing Energy into my “Left fingers and Palm” You cannot see them but only feel. It is a tingling feeling see I am sure You will also feel, “Although You are Reading at a Different Time” and it can be either Left of Right hand or Both, at another time, where you will need ❤

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March 30th 2020: Up to date with “This article which is the 113th and The Introductory page. I have Published 114 posts on This Website. On Top Right Hand side, you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, you will see the word “Home” All the posts from “The Very Beginning comes ~ Under “Home”. Which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

The old Topics are, “On The Left Hand side “Under the, “Recent Posts” with “The New Topics adding up. “The Balance will be Under “ARCHIVES”. Also “Under CATERGORIES” Because “It will be too long to post so many numbers of posts on the side. Happy Reading ❤

“I have been able to, “Receive HEALING ENERGY into My Hands” since “Beginning of 2016”. All my Hard work and Praying has been rewarded. Healing Energy can go to others wherever it is needed to be received even You, But You have to have a Clear Mind and with Loving Kindness ❤

So now these days, “I am Editing and Updating almost, “All the Posts” from The Very Beginning”. It is “A New Chapter and A New Beginning”. I am Upgrading Myself to A New Wavelength. A New Chapter in My Life and I Wish for You also ❤

What I am doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Moving forward writing “My Own Journey of Good Health and Healing” in Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy, and it is in this post if you click on the Link: The Therapists Voice Forward!

I have taken a lot of time to write, “Right now it is 11.46 PM 30th of March 2020 Brisbane Time, Australia. I feel Very sleepy and need to sleep 😀 As you are aware I do References also, for More and New Information, and even spelling, “To make sure, “I give out “The Very Best as much as possible”. So I hope All those who Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Good Health, Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so.” Peace which is The Ultimate Goal in our Lives” ❤ ❤ ❤

The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts of Mine which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing” 🙂 during my spare time you can have a look at: https://deepanilamani.com/ ❤

If you want to contact me by post, write to; Deepa Nilamani, 65/110-114 Johnson Street, Hillcrest, Queensland 4118, Brisbane, Australia. Remember “You have to send it “” Air Mail to come through Planes, otherwise it can come by Sea Mail from ships which will take very long”

You have to give Your correct Postal Address so that you receive to you itself HURRY I am anxious to see who and where I will start getting Letter ❤

HURRY HURRY I like to see from where and who will send the 1st lot ❤

September 28th, 2024, soon after My Grandfathers 135th Birthday Celebration, I have been informed that Assets has been released so that I have enough Money to” Carry on My Wish of Giving or sending Gifts All over the World under the “Starlight Foundation ~ Gifts!

“It is all free”. “Download. Take print outs, share and pass it on also for others who can benefit from these posts. I hope All those Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so as,” Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in Life” ❤ ❤ ❤

Thanking the I net for the pictures taken and shared and https://www.online-image-editor.com/ for the posts written by me ❤

Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies to You ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa 100Deepa Nilamani 🙂

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Counselling ~ 3!

Hello To All My Dear Readers Followers and Blogging Friends ❤

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I hope you all are well and reading what I have been writing about Counselling and Gathering more information. I Hope All of you are keeping well as usual. I am Continuing about Counselling from the last posts:  Counselling ~ 1! Counselling ~ 2!

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I have to remind Again that, “This is what I have learnt during “My Journey” towards, “Wellness” also from what I have studied and by doing References and Reading. Below is what I have written as an answer in, “The Diploma in Counselling and Psychotherapy”!

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Counsellor as A Therapeutic Person: Counselling is an intimate form of learning. It demands a practitioner who is willing to be an “Authentic Person in the Therapeutic Relationship.  Authentic describes something that is real or genuine ~ I net!

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What this means is, “The Counsellor has to be Open, Sincere and Honest”. It is then only “The Client will also be able to be open and make progress in the correct way. If the person as “A Counsellor” hide and not show “The Real Self” The people whom they talk to also will keep themselves and what they are going through hidden and not show or speak of what They are going through”!

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What I have experienced is, That the Counsellor, The Doctor or The Therapist has to “To be able to Trust” and Not Think we are making up a story. This is the most important thing, otherwise the moment you feel they don’t, one is not able to be open and get hurt, and after that going to that person is not helpful. For this reason, “It has to be someone whose personality agrees with the client. It can be according, “To the culture and similar facts also”!

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The Purpose of Counselling: The basic purpose of counselling is to help people use their existing problem-solving skills more effectively or to develop new or better coping skills. Counsellors cannot “Fix” other people’s problems exactly. Their job is to provide an opportunity for the person to describe their feelings and problems for themselves and then to reach decisions and actions that are based on informed choices. Good counselling helps people build skills they can use in solving their problems. For example, if people learn good communication skills in dealing with their immediate families, they can also use those communication skills with their children, friends or co-workers and the society itself!

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Counselling is a process: Counselling is a process that usually has a Beginning, Middle, and an End. There are certain things each counsellor does in each part, it can differ with each different counsellor and also according to each client. This process can take place over just a few sessions or over a longer period. Effective counselling does not necessarily take a long time. In fact, “Research shows, that some of the clients feel they have received the help they need in just 3 or 4 meetings. “Sometimes one meeting is all someone needs. The chance to explain a problem or make it clearer or talking it out, May “Relieves” anxiety or any other feeling one may have. This can be to do some studies, a job or some” Personal issue” Whether the process is short or longer, counsellors must have the necessary skills, to Truly help clients.

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1.The Beginning: The counsellor starts to build a “Trusting Relationship” with “The client and finds out Important Information” about the client’s problem or problems.
2. The middle: The counsellor helps the client set Goals – make decisions about what The Client wants. Once Goals are decided, the counsellor and client develop ideas about how the client can reach Those Goals. During this period, the client will try certain things. Then the counsellor and client discuss what happened and whether the method is working.

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3. The End: When the client feels He or She has achieved what was wanted, The Client and Counsellor prepare for “The End of Counselling”!

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Latest Update 6th March 2020: Up to date with the Birthday article 111th I have Published 112 with The Introductory page. And then All the 111th posts from “The Beginning to the end is shown, On Top Right-Hand side you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, you will see the word “Home” Which is This Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

So I am having to edit and update all my posts naturally as, this is “A New Chapter and A New Beginning” I am Moving on. I have learnt lot of New Things. Upgrading Myself to A New Wavelength ~ A New Chapter in My Life and I Wish so for You also ❤

There will still be the old Topics “On the Left-Hand side. Under the “Recent Posts” and Under “Archives and Categories” with “The New Topics adding up” Happy Reading ❤

Also, what I have been doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Moving forward Writing My Journey of Wellness. Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy, and it is in this post if you click on the Link: Taking The Therapists Voice Forward!

I hope All those who Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so.” Peace which is The Ultimate Goal in our Lives” ❤ ❤ ❤

The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing” 🙂 you can have a look at: https://deepanilamani.com/

A post will be written describing About Letter writing and how to write your address and put the correct stamps Letter Writing!

“It is all free”. You can “Download. Take print outs” and share and pass it on also” for others who can benefit from this article and the posts. Any questions or comments are most welcome ❤ ❤ ❤

Thanking the I net for the pictures taken and shared and https://www.online-image-editor.com/ for the posts written by me ❤

Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies to You ❤

May God’s Blessings be upon You ❤

Deepa 100Deepa Nilamani ❤

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