Counselling ~ 3!

Hello To All My Dear Readers ❤

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I hope You all are well and Reading what I have been writing about Counselling, and Gathering more information. I Hope All of you are keeping well as usual. I am Continuing about Counselling from the last post:Counselling ~ 2!

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I have to remind Again that, “This is NOT exactly professional Counselling. It is what I have learnt during “My Journey” towards, “Wellness”also from what I have studied and by doing References and Reading. Below is what I have written as an answer in,  “The Diploma in Counselling and Psychotherapy”!

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Counsellor as A Therapeutic Person: Counselling is an intimate form of learning. It demands a practitioner who is willing to be an, “Authentic Person in the Therapeutic Relationship.  Authentic describes something that is real or genuine ~ I net!

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What this means is, “The Counsellor has to be Open, Sincere and Honest”. It is then only “The Client will also be able to be open and make progress in the correct way. If the person as “A Counsellor” hide and not show “The Real Self” The people whom they talk to also will keep themselves and what they are going through hidden and not show or speak of what They are going through”!

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What I have experienced is, That The Counsellor, The Doctor or The Therapist has to “To be able to Trust” and Not Think we are making up a story. This is the most important thing, otherwise the moment you feel they don’t, one is not able to be open and get hurt, and after that going to that person is not helpful. For this reason, “It has to be someone whose personality agrees with the client. It can be according, “To the culture and similar facts also”!

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The Purpose of Counselling: The basic purpose of counselling is to help people use their existing problem solving skills more effectively or to develop new or better coping skills. Counsellor’s cannot “Fix” other people’s problems exactly. Their job is to provide an opportunity for the person to describe their feelings and problems for themselves and then to reach decisions and actions that are based on informed choices. Good counselling helps people build skills they can use in solving their problems. For example, if people learn good communication skills in dealing with their immediate families, they can also use those communication skills with their children, friends or co-workers and the society itself!

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Counselling is a process: Counselling is a process that usually has a Beginning, Middle, and an End. There are certain things each counsellor does in each part, it can differ with each different counsellor and also according each client. This process can take place over just a few sessions or over a longer period. Effective counselling does not necessarily take a long time. In fact “Research shows, that some of  The clients feel they have received the help they need in just 3 or 4 meetings. “Sometimes 1 meeting is all someone needs. The chance to explain a problem or make it clearer or talking it out, May “Relieve” anxiety or any other feeling one may have. This cane be to do some studies, a job or some”Personal issue” Whether the process is short or longer, counsellors must have the necessary skills, to Truly help clients.

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1.The Beginning: The counsellor starts to to build a “Trusting Relationship” with “The client and finds out Important Information” about The client’s problem or problems.
2. The middle: The counsellor helps the client set Goals – make decisions about what The Client wants. Once Goals are decided, the counsellor and client develop ideas about how the client can reach Those Goals. During this period, The client will try certain thins. Then the counsellor and client discuss what happened and whether the method is working.

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3. The End: When the client feels He/She has achieved what was wanted, The Client and Counsellor prepare for “The End of Counselling”!

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Latest Update 6th March 2020:Up to date with the Birthday article 111th and The Introductory page: Who I am & Why I am Writing! I have Published 112 posts on This Website. I am in Good Health and as, “I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy in to My Hands” since “Beginning of 2016” I have become “Very Positive” I have to be isn’t it? It is not something that I can buy. All my Hard work and Praying has been rewarded. “Not only for me but ” Healing Energy can go to others where ever it is needed to be received with a Loving Kindness” even You ❤

So I am having to edit and update all my posts naturally as, This is “A New Chapter and A New Beginning” I am Moving on. I have learnt lot of New Things and Still Learning. Upgrading Myself to A New Wave Length ~ A New Chapter in My Life and I Wish so for You also ❤

On Top Right Hand side you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, You will see will see The word “Home” Which is This Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

And then All the 111th posts from “The Beginning to the end is shown ~ Below the Home Page”, Also There will still The old Topics “On The Left Hand side ~ Under the ~ “Recent Posts” with “The New Topics adding up” “Also by The Request by some of “The Readers I have added, My Good Reads, Twitter and Instagram Accounts” But unless you like, You do not have to follow. Happy Reading ❤

Also what I have been doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Moving forward Telling My Own Story in Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy, and it is in this post if you click on the Link: Who I am Now & Why I am Writing!

I hope All those Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so.” Peace which is The Ultimate Goal in our Lives” ❤ ❤ ❤

Please know that the coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts of Mine and Other’s websites also ~ which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation also”. I also have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am up to” 🙂 during my spare time you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/ ❤

“It is all free”. You can “Down load ~ Take print outs” “share and/or pass it on also” for others who can benefit from this article and the posts. Any questions or comments are most welcome ❤ ❤ ❤

Thanking the I net for the pictures taken and shared and https://www.online-image-editor.com/ for the posts written by me ❤

Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies to You ❤

May God’s Blessings be upon You ❤

Deepa 100Deepa Nilamani ❤

Counselling ~ 2!

Hello To All My Dear Readers ❤

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Hope All of you are keeping well as usual. I am Continuing about Counselling from the last post: Counselling ~ 1!

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In This article I am posting, Many picture posts from, “The I net itself” to know how, “Many Different people are Describing, “What Counselling is and Everything” that is, “Under The Topic of Counselling”. And also for the, “Readers who are following from All Over The World ~ whose Main Spoken Language is NOT English” are able to Understand in the correct way. As I have seen the meanings and words do not come the same way when, “The posts are Translated in to another Language. Although The Picture Quotes are from “The I Net” BUT “When I am writing it is NOT copying straight from other books or The I net. It is My Knowledge But also doing References, still “All that has to agree with what I know and feel correct”!

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According to the picture above: Counselling is:
1. Confidential.
2. Listening: Having time to talk to someone who listens.
3. Understanding: Having Time to talk to some one who someone who listens.
4. Responsive: To individual needs ~ To know the persons personality and what she or he needs.
5. Non Judgmental: Not to Judge if that person is good or bad.
6. Changing: Counselling can help you work out what changes You can make and how.

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The Picture above also gives almost the same points, as I have written above!

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I hope what I have posted and written has helped You to know what Counselling is and You will feel much better and also know exactly know how it helps and how to go about, “For Professional Counselling Yourself if needed”!

Latest Update 6th March 2020:Up to date with the Birthday article 111th and The Introductory page: Who I am & Why I am Writing! I have Published 112 posts on This Website. I am in Good Health and as, “I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy in to My Hands” since “Beginning of 2016” I have become “Very Positive” I have to be isn’t it? It is not something that I can buy. All my Hard work and Praying has been rewarded. “Not only for me but” Healing Energy can go to others where ever it is needed to be received with a Loving Kindness” even You ❤

So “I am having to Edit and Update All The Posts from The Very Beginning” This is My Birthday and, “A New Chapter and A New Beginning”. I am Moving on. I have Learnt lot of New Things and Still Learning. Upgrading Myself to A New Wave Length ~ A New Chapter in My Life and I Wish so for You also. Please click this Link which will take You to The Birthday Post Birthday!

On “The Top Right Hand side” you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, You will see will see The word “Home” Which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing !

All the 111 posts from ~ The Beginning to the end is shown ~ Below the Home Page”. Also There will still be The older Topics “On The Left Hand side ~ Under the ~ “Recent Posts” with “The New Topics adding up. Also on, request by some of, “The Readers” I have added, My Good Reads, Twitter and Instagram Accounts”. But unless You Like You do not have to follow. Happy Reading ❤

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And what I have been doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Moving forward Telling About My Own Journey”. Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy. And if You click on this Link in Green You can read this Post: Who I am Now & Why I am Writing!

Please know that the coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts and Other’s websites also ~ which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation also”. I also have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am up to” 🙂 during my spare time you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/

“It is all free”. You can “Down load ~ Take print outs” “share and/or pass it on also” for others who can benefit from this article and All the other posts ❤

Thanking The I net and “A Very Special Thank You, To All The Other sites from” “Me and My Readers” for the Information, Pictures and the Quotes shared by me on this Blog and to https://www.online-image-editor.com/ for the picture posts done by me ❤ ❤ ❤

Sending Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies To You ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa 100Deepa Nilamani 🙂

Counselling ~ 1!

Hello To All My Dear Readers ❤

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I have thought of sharing what I have received as Counselling  as well as what I have studied on My Journey of Becoming well ❤

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“These are “Very advanced articles” and I need to write the exact meanings and clarify. So read very carefully. Picture Quotes from “The I Net” BUT “What I am writing is NOT copying straight from The I net other books. What I am writing is “Mostly My first hand Knowledge and Experiences, and  also, doing references. BUT “It has to agree with what I know and feel it is correct!

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Now I need to “Concentrate and I am writing carefully explaining and clarifying as much as possible”. As there will be new words that, “I also Look Up for the exact Spelling and Meanings”. “That You will also need to know, “As the Meaning or the Definition” from the I net or the Dictionaries. Both the two posts Above and Below give these: Points ❤

Role of A Counsellor:
1. Be available and supportive.
2. Actively listen to client’s story.
3. Do not blame the client (You)
4. Express Empathy (Kindness)
5. Generate Resources (Books, Picture card sets that help to understand)
6. Address unrealistic expectations of client from counsellor (if any) ~ if You are thinking of things that the counsellor cannot be.
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According to the picture above: Counselling is:
1. Confidential.
2. Listening: Having time to talk to someone who listens.
3. Understanding: Having Time to talk to some one who someone who listens.
4. Responsive: To individual needs ~ To know the persons personality and what she or he needs.
5. Non Judgmental: Not to Judge if that person is good or bad.
6. Changing: Counselling can help you work out what changes You can make and how.

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The Picture above also gives almost the same points, as I have written above!

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This is to explain what “The Counsellor Does” He or she has to meet you and be Helpful by: Listening to what the Client/You have to say. They have to,”Be Able to Be Kind, Understand and Trust” and to be So it has to be that “The Counsellor Matches Your Personality” They have to know usually of your culture To Understand Your way of Thinking and doing things in Life”!

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Role of A Counsellor:
1. Be available and supportive.
2. Actively listen to client’s story.
3. Do not blame the client (You)
4. Express Empathy (Kindness)
5. Generate Resources (Books, Picture card sets that help to understand)
6. Address unrealistic expectations of client from counsellor (if any) ~ if You are thinking of things that the counsellor cannot be.

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Paraphrasing involves taking a passage – either spoken or written – and rewording it. … When paraphrasing, it is important to keep the original meaning so that the facts remain intact. Basically, you are writing something in your own words that still expresses the original idea ~The I net!

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How to Reduce Stress:

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How to Avoid Stress?
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None of us work 24/7 and there is always some free time to relax. Also relaxing does not need a lot of money either. Of course if one has extra money to spend, there are many expensive ways to relax. But actually you do not need to spend like that. As relaxing is becoming one with mother nature. The closer you become to mother earth, by ways of food, clothes and living the closer you become to a stress free life. It is difficult to lead a complete stress free life in this present times. But there are plenty of simple ways to relax like the post above, and below, to reduce our stress levels and enjoy a balanced and healthy life 🙂

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Although it is said “How Music benefits kids” It is not only for them it is also for adults of All ages.

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These are Some of “The Benefits of Counselling” ❤

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I hope what I have posted and written has helped You to know what Counselling is and You will feel much better and also know exactly know how it helps and how to go about, “For Professional Counselling Yourself if needed”!

Latest Update 6th March 2020:Up to date with the Birthday article 111th and The Introductory page: Who I am & Why I am Writing! I have Published 112 posts on This Website. I am in Good Health and as, “I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy in to My Hands” since “Beginning of 2016” I have become “Very Positive” I have to be isn’t it? It is not something that I can buy. All my Hard work and Praying has been rewarded. “Not only for me but” Healing Energy can go to others where ever it is needed to be received with a Loving Kindness” even You ❤

So I have had to edit and update all my posts naturally as, This is “A New Chapter and A New Beginning” I am Moving on. I have learnt lot of New Things and Still Learning. Upgrading Myself to A New Wave Length ~ A New Chapter in My Life and I Wish so for You also ❤

On “The Top Right Hand side” you are able to see: The word  Menu 1a Menu when you”Click on it, You will see will see The word X Menu again. Under that You can see, “Home” You click on that again and it is the: Introductory page on:Who I am & Why I am Writing!

Then All the other posts are below it. You can follow how you want to read. There will still be the old Topics “On the Left Hand side Under The Recent posts with the new posts adding up. Also on, request by some of, “The Readers” I have added, My Good Reads, Twitter, and Instagram Accounts”. But unless You Like You do not have to follow. Happy Reading ❤

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And what I have been doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Moving forward Telling About My Own Journey”. Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy. And if You click on this Link in Green You can read this Post: Who I am Now & Why I am Writing!

Please know that the coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts and Other’s websites also ~ which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation also”. I also have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am up to” 🙂 during my spare time you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/

“It is all free”. You can “Down load ~ Take print outs” “share and/or pass it on also” for others who can benefit from this article and All the other posts ❤

Thanking The I net and “A Very Special Thank You To All The Other sites from Me and My Readers” for the Pictures and the Quotes shared by me on this Blog ❤ ❤ ❤

Sending Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies To You ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa 100Deepa Nilamani

I am Re-Writing My Journey Again!

Hello To All My Dear Readers ❤

I Hope The New Year is going well with You. Now that I have completely “Recovered and back to My Strong Healthy self” and also as,”I have Received The Gift of Healing” My out look has “Changed Very Much” so many Questions I had, I have found answers, and still Discovering so many new facts about Life. The result is, that I have to, “Edit what I have been writing from the Very Beginning” As those who are familiar how I began this site in September 2015, are able to know, “How much I have Changed how I look at Life in A More Positive Way” I want to see More Positive and Colourful pictures. I have the need to change and edit what I have written in the past” and “Re-Doing so many of the posts with More Colourful Picture Posts”. So if you suddenly find some of the old picture quotes missing, They have Not run any where ❤ ~ I am in the process of “Editing and Redoing them again 😀

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Actually there is not much new to write in this post, it is to inform that I have the need to, “Edit the posts and write with, Better Knowledge and Experiences”. Also I will be writing More about becoming Healthy from what I have learnt from my own Counselling and from what I have been Studying and Reading. I have to Remind that, “It is not professional Counselling ~ It is All the Experiences and Knowledge gained from My Journey of  How I became Well” ❤

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Latest Update 6th March 2020:Up to date with the Birthday article 111th and The Introductory page: Who I am & Why I am Writing! I have Published 112 posts on This Website. I am in Good Health and as, “I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy in to My Hands” since “Beginning of 2016” I have become “Very Positive” I have to be isn’t it? It is not something that I can buy. All my Hard work and Praying has been rewarded. “Not only for me but” Healing Energy can go to others where ever it is needed to be received with a Loving Kindness” even You ❤

So “I am having to Edit and Update All The Posts from The Very Beginning” This is My Birthday and, “A New Chapter and A New Beginning”. I am Moving on. I have Learnt lot of New Things and Still Learning. Upgrading Myself to A New Wave Length ~ A New Chapter in My Life and Still Studying and Reading to further Develop and Enhance My Knowledge and Advance Myself. By doing so I can have a better understanding of the world around me and improve the, “Quality of My Life” and I can Motivate You The Readers too, “To Develop Yourselves and Gain Confidence and Self Esteem to have Better Opportunities and Improve Your Quality of Life too, and I Wish so for You also with All My Heart. Please click this Link which will take You to My Birthday Post Birthday! ❤

On “The Top Right Hand side” you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, You will see will see The word “Home” Which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing !

All the 111 Posts with this one from, “The Beginning to the end is shown ~ Below the Home Page”, and There will still be The old Topics “On The Left Hand side ~ Under the ~ “Recent Posts” with “The New Topics adding up”. Also on, request by some of, “The Readers” I have added, My Good Reads, Twitter, and Instagram Accounts”. But unless You Like You do not have to follow. Happy Reading ❤

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And what I have been doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Moving forward Telling About My Own Journey”. Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy. And if You click on this Link in Green You can read this Post: Who I am Now & Why I am Writing!

Please know that the coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts and Other’s websites also ~ which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation also”. I also have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am up to” 🙂 during my spare time you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/

“It is all free”. You can “Down load ~ Take print outs” “share and/or pass it on also” for others who can benefit from this article and All the other posts ❤

Thanking https://picresize.com/en/results, and https://www.online-image-editor.com/   For The Posts Done by me ❤

Sending Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies To You ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa 12Deepa Nilamani 🙂

Collage ~ New Year Resolutions!

Hello To All My Dear Readers ❤

I have been writing and posting until it is late in the night. You can see the picture posts until then. Its almost 3 AM in the morning and I need to sleep 🙂
I am writing again after a rest. Below is a picture of “New Year Resolutions” as what some make plans when “A New Year Begins” and to do to improve their Lives ❤

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I have started from “Be Happy” and below is “A Happiness Collage” The person who has done this is a girl or a lady, “Who loves the colour Pink and see how she has used all very pretty pictures of different things in Pink. Obviously she has to be, “Very Neat” also as it is all done methodically and Beautifully. It says, “Happiness is when what You Think, What You Say, and What You do are in Harmony” 🙂

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The next Topic shown, “Eat Healthy”: I got a collage mainly about eggs. It says, “For a few decades, eggs had a rather unwholesome reputation. Thanks to its high cholesterol content, the egg was considered bad for one’s health. Years went by while many shunned eggs, ate only the whites, or ventured into the world of egg substitutes. Then, in 2000, the American Heart Association (AHA) revised its dietary guidelines and gave healthy adults the green light to enjoy eggs once again!
This is a “Very Good site for Everything about Healthy Living and also about all other Health issues. There are videos too to watch for ordinary issues going on to “Very Advanced Knowledge on Medical Facts” If You have The I net, it is Free Reading and Free Watching also to do reference work. https://blogs.webmd.com/food-fitness/default.htm!

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Different kinds of short eats sweet and savoury made out of flour and Bread Dough 😀 This is a list of pastries, which are small buns made using a stiff dough enriched with fat. Some dishes, such as pies, are made of a pastry casing that covers or completely contains a filling of various sweet or savory ingredients.
There are five basic types of pastry (a food that combines flour and fat); these are shortcrust pastryfilo pastrychoux pastryflaky pastry and puff pastry. Two main types of pastry are non-laminated, when fat is cut or rubbed into the flour, and laminated, when fat is repeatedly folded into the dough using a technique called lamination. An example of a non-laminated pastry would be a pie or tart crust and brioche. An example of a laminated pastry would be a croissantdanish, or puff pastry. Many pastries are prepared using shortening, a fat food product that is solid at room temperature, the composition of which lends to creating crumbly, shortcrust-style pastries and pastry crusts. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_pastries!

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As you see this is A Collage about Travelling. Somehow surprisingly. I have come across a Collage, from My Birth Country: Sri Lanka. Travelling to other countries is quite expensive, “So Travel can be in various ways by, “Hiking, Mountain climbing, walking and so on. And also by different kinds of Transport, “One’s own, Planes, Ships, Boats or by Public Transport in, Trains and Buses. Or hired vehicles like, Coaches, Vans or cars and some even travel by motor cycles”. It can be within around one’s own country to places close to where you live or once in a way for a short day trip or for a few days away from the everyday scenes helps to relax freshens your mind, and helps to learn new things and bring new ideas to your mind 🙂

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Recreation. Here making collages by group of people, see different ones done in different ways. It can be fun and also to learn new ways, when doing with other people by getting different ideas and relaxing by talking and sharing their food and drinks also 🙂

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Cinema 😀 This comes under, “Entertainment” where you can even find old, “Tickets” paper cuttings, Pop corn, drinks and ice cream pictures. And also of film stars, names of films, and so much of every thing to do of films, or any other means of plays and even dances or circuses and what ever that goes on with entertainment 🙂

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Education: On Passing that test means studying. There are so many ways to study. It can be studying and studying with others as a Group. This all depends again as each individual preferences. I have got these pictures as Group Studying!

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You need to Save money to do ll these things in life. Finding a job according to one’s Qualifications is not always easy. Getting a matching salary is more difficult. The most difficult and sometimes almost impossible task is to “Save Money” One has to take a real effort and go out of the way in being careful, if you want to save for that rainy day day and for the future. Here you can see how people save in their own individual way 🙂

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So now I have shared some boards, and shown some pictures, for you all to see what each one can do, “According to Your own Interests, Hobbies, Studies, or a Job You Like and Hope to do or Be” ❤

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Latest Update 6th March 2020:Up to date with the Birthday article 111th and The Introductory page: Who I am & Why I am Writing! I have Published 112 posts on This Website. I am in Good Health and as, “I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy in to My Hands” since “Beginning of 2016” I have become “Very Positive” I have to be isn’t it? It is not something that I can buy. All my Hard work and Praying has been rewarded. “Not only for me but” Healing Energy can go to others where ever it is needed to be received with a Loving Kindness” even You ❤

So “I am having to Edit and Update All The Posts from The Very Beginning” This is My Birthday and, “A New Chapter and A New Beginning”. I am Moving on. I have Learnt lot of New Things and Still Learning. Upgrading Myself to A New Wave Length ~ A New Chapter in My Life and I Wish so for You also. Please click this Link which will take You to The Birthday Post Birthday

On “The Top Right Hand side” you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, You will see will see The word “Home” Which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

All the 111 posts from “The Beginning to the end is shown, Under “Home” and also There will be “The old Topics on The Left Hand side “Under ~ Recent Posts with “The new Topics adding up. Also on, request by some of, “The Readers” I have added, My Good Reads, Twitter, and Instagram Accounts”. But unless You Like You do not have to follow. Happy Reading ❤

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And what I have been doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Moving forward Telling My Own Story in Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy. And if You click on this Link in Green You can read this Post: Who I am Now & Why I am Writing!

Please know that the coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts and Other’s websites also ~ which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation also”. I also have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am up to” 🙂 during my spare time you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/

“It is all free”. You can “Down load ~ Take print outs” “share and/or pass it on also” for others who can benefit from this article and All the other posts ❤

Thanking the I net, https://www.online-image-editor.com/ and other sites, for the posts and pictures I have taken ❤

Sending Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies To You ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa 100Deepa Nilamani 🙂

Benefits of Music ~ Part 2!

Hello To All My Dear Readers ❤

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I am continuing Benefits of Music from part one. Benefits Of Music ~ Part 1! I hope what I am writing is all what all of you like to know, with more facts and information as some of you wanted ❤

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I am also listening to good classical music as classical music helps to to focus our minds and it is said that The best way is to have it playing softly in the background as you get on with your tasks. But this all depends on each persons personality. Listening to music can decrease anxiety, speed Healing, Increase Optimism and decrease pain. Babies know from Happy from sad songs. As young as 5 months can distinguish (recognize) an upbeat tune such as, “An Ode to Joy” from Beethoven’s 9th symphony ❤
You can “Click on this YouTube Video and listen Free and even learn to play on a Recorder like this, Flute or another instrument or Hum and sing along. You can see other videos also from You Tube when you go all free if you have Time and The I net. Happy Playing and learning Even Free English from: https://www.grammarly.com/

“Sound is a nutrient for the nervous system. Love Your ears …..they are much more important than you ever realized.” ~ Prof. Dr. Alfred Tomati ❤
Above is “Ode To Joy” music lesson and it can be learnt by yourself playing too ❤

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The Mozart Effect: It’s been thought that listening to classical music, particularly Mozart, enhances performance on “Cognitive tests. However, recent findings show the listening to any music that is personally enjoyable has positive effects on cognition. Listening to good music can make you learn better and has the power to enhance some kind of higher brain function, such as reading and literacy skills, spatial-tempered reasoning, emotional intelligence and mathematical abilities – even children with attention deficit/hyperactivity disorder benefit in mathematics tests from listening to music beforehand ❤

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Exercise your wheels of thinking and you would know what this word means. In simple terms, cognition refers to the process of thinking. It is the identification of knowledge, of understanding it and perceiving it. The most common references of cognition that one would find would be in psychology and philosophy. One would do well to read on cognitive psychology (defined as the psychological study of higher mental processes, including thinking and perception).
The dictionary definitions for cognition are as follows: 1. The mental process of knowing, including aspects such as awareness, perception, reasoning, and judgment. (noun) 2. That which comes to be known, as through perception, reasoning, or intuition; knowledge. (noun)
Masters Tip to remember Cognition: Our simple reference guide for this:
Process of cognition = Process of thinking. This is the simplified and practical meaning for this word with the strange feeling ~ https://wordpandit.com/cognition/

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Healing Powers: Music can help to stimulate/activate the mind, ‘Boost Creative Energies”, and are associated with “Dreaming, Learning and Relaxing”. The key to Boosting Creative Energies is to Listen to the type of music “You Enjoy” the most. If You want more “Inspiration, in Language and Mathematics” it would make sense to listen to “Music with Singing”, while “Music without words”, stimulates more “Artistic and Visual Senses” ❤

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I hope you like all what I have written. I was able to find the music, “The Ode To Joy” as “A Lesson” showing how to play that instrument or a similar instrument, that You can learn to play also” Happy Playing ❤

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Latest Update 6th March 2020:Up to date with the Birthday article 111th and The Introductory page: Who I am & Why I am Writing! I have Published 112 posts on This Website. I am in Good Health and as, “I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy in to My Hands” since “Beginning of 2016” I have become “Very Positive” I have to be isn’t it? It is not something that I can buy. All my Hard work and Praying has been rewarded. “Not only for me but” Healing Energy can go to others where ever it is needed to be received with a Loving Kindness” even You ❤

So “I am having to Edit and Update All The Posts from The Very Beginning” This is My Birthday and, “A New Chapter and A New Beginning”. I am Moving on. I have Learnt lot of New Things and Still Learning. Upgrading Myself to A New Wave Length ~ A New Chapter in My Life and I Wish so for You also. Please click this Link which will take You to The Birthday Post Birthday

On “The Top Right Hand side” you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, You will see will see The word “Home” Which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

All the 111 posts from “The Beginning to the end is shown, Under “Home” and also There will be “The old Topics on The Left Hand side “Under ~ Recent Posts with “The new Topics adding up. Also on, request by some of, “The Readers” I have added, My Good Reads, Twitter, and Instagram Accounts”. But unless You Like You do not have to follow. Happy Reading ❤

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And what I have been doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Moving forward Telling My Own Story in Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy. And if You click on this Link in Green You can read this Post: Who I am Now & Why I am Writing!

Please know that the coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts and Other’s websites also ~ which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation also”. I also have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am up to” 🙂 during my spare time you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/ ❤

“It is all free”. You can “Down load ~ Take print outs” “share and/or pass it on also” for others who can benefit from this article and All the other posts ❤

Thanking the I net, and other sites, for the posts and pictures I have taken ❤

Sending Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies To You ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

 

Being Thankful!

Hello To All My Dear Readers ❤

How are you all. I Hope You all who celebrated Christmas had a Good Time. I have been writing since “September 2015” and and covered so many Topics, and This being “The 100th Post! also ending of the Year I feel it is good to Think of “Being Thankful” for “All the Good and Positive Things That has happened and what We have in our lives now ❤

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So here I am now writing about the Value of “Being Thankful” I know that it is not always possible sometimes, when we are having a not so good times, But somehow we have to Try and “Be Strong as Possible” as I have found out, this Helps to Draw in Positive feelings and can Influence The Mind to Think, and see the issues, in a Different Ways and Change things the Better” ❤

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Although at the times we are going through difficulties we do not realize, Later looking back “We will find that at these times we have found Strength and Courage which we didn’t know we had, and we have become Stronger in ways we never thought us to be ❤

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See The Picture Quotes below. There are so many many things we can do. We cannot do everything, But what are the Things that, “You like to do? Already doing, and Like to do in the coming years or in the Future. Right now may be some of you may be very busy with a growing family, studying or doing a very busy job. In my case I started to get back to my old hobbies after my two sons became adults as when children are young, one is also busy seeing to their needs. As I have written also that, I started catching up with my Old Hobbies as well as doing New Things only recently, in my other site: deepanilamani.com. See what lot of Variety of thing one is able to do, and we do not need to spend a lot of money always, so many things to do in ways we are able to 🙂

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When we are aware and “Thankful for The Goodness and Good Things that come our way” Our Minds can Shift to the Track of being Positive, “I have noticed ~ without our knowledge also” This does happen. “Things do Change ~ They do not stay the same everyday”. If you have read about My Journey ~ see how much has Changed and somehow I took so much Effort to “Turn My Life around”, to “Become Positive and Receive “The Gift of Healing” too, which I really did not understand fully or was unsure at first if I was able to Receive it 🙂

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It is in accordance with an, “Ancient Spiritual Law ~ That When We Acknowledge the Good Things, That We already have in Our Lives ~ Being Thankful ~ Things Begin to Work in Our Favor”. It is “The Foundation for All The Good Things or Abundance” That come our way or Happen in Our Lives ❤ ❤ ❤

 

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I hope You learnt some new things, from what I have written. We can learn so much every day even little by little, and Change ourselves and our Lives for the Better. It does Happen. Only we need to work towards it with lot of Hope, Faith and Patience. I wish You “The Very Best in The coming Year with “All My Heart” ❤

Latest Update 6th March 2020: Up to date with the Birthday article 111th and The Introductory page: Who I am & Why I am Writing! I have published 112 posts on This Website. I am in Good Health and as, “I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy in to My Hands” since “Beginning of 2016” I have become “Very Positive” I have to be isn’t it? It is not something that I can buy. All my Hard work and Praying has been rewarded. “Not only for me but ” Healing Energy can go to others where ever it is needed to be received with a Loving Kindness” even You ❤

So I have had to edit and update all my posts naturally as, This is “A New Chapter and A New Beginning” I am Moving on. I have learnt lot of New Things and Still Learning. Upgrading Myself to A New Wave Length. A New Chapter in My Life and I Wish so for You also. Please click this Link which will take You to The Birthday Post Birthday!

All the 111 posts from ~ The Beginning to the end is shown ~ Below the Home Page”. Also There will still be The older Topics “On The Left Hand side ~ Under the ~ “Recent Posts” with “The New Topics adding up. Also on, request by some of, “The Readers” I have added, My Good Reads, Twitter and Instagram Accounts”. But unless You Like You do not have to follow. Happy Reading ❤

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Horizontal arrangement with pink roses, freesia flowers, eucalyptus leaves and sarin ribbons isolated on white. Top view. Flat lay.

So I have had to edit and update all my posts naturally as, This is “A New Chapter and A New Beginning” I am Moving on. I have learnt lot of New Things and Still Learning. Upgrading Myself to A New Wave Length ~ A New Chapter in My Life and I Wish so for You also ❤

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On Top Right Hand side you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, You will see will see The word “Home” Which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

So what I have been doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Moving forward Telling My Own Story in Helping Everyone to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy, and “All that is in this post if you click on the Link”: Who I am Now & Why I am Writing!

The coloured Topics in Green. If you “Click” on them “Will take you to other different Posts that I write or Other Websites ~ Where You can read and widen Your knowledge and even Learn the Meanings of new words and Pronunciation also. I have another Website also with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am up to” 😛 during my spare time if you click on this link: https://deepanilamani.com/ ❤

“It is all free”. You can “Down load ~ Take print outs” “share and/or pass it on also” for others who can benefit from this article and the posts. Any questions or comments are most welcome. I hope All those Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so.” Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in Life” ❤ ❤ ❤

Thanking The I net and Other Web Sites for the picture quotes I have shared and https://www.online-image-editor.com/ for the written Quotes by me ❤

Sending Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies Your Way ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa 100Deepa Nilamani 🙂