Hobbies ~ Do What You Really Like To Do!

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I have been talking about the things we really like to do, and I came across these really wonderful picture quotes that I thought of posting them for your knowledge and enjoyment. The last few articles have been rather serious, as the subject of mental health is quite a heavy subject. So for a break I felt like writing something more lighthearted and relaxing, 

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Picture 2 (2)as life is not only to live well but, to enjoy, have fun and be happy too. To be able to be really happy, is to be able to, “Do what You really Like” either alone or with many, Friends or and with Family 🙂

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There are lot of things we can do in life. There is a saying, “Just to eat, drink and pay the bills is not a way to live”. And of course all of us are doing many things to keep ourselves occupied, to keep us going. Being on the blogs itself is proof that we are out and about in learning new things and moving on in life ❤

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There are many things we can do to Relax and be Happy, but it depends on what each of us like and want to do, according to our own personality ❤

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We all have our own talents, gifts that we can make use of, to keep us active, happy and also to earn our living.

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I enjoy doing a lot of activities, both indoor and outdoor. Sometimes a little too much for my age but I like to keep myself active. Today too even though it is winter and cold, I braved the weather and did my front garden 🙂

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I also enjoy cooking, housework as I love to keep a neat house, reading and music my favorite topics, for therapy and exercise, Mandala art for relaxing the mind and well…. the list goes on. And You also can do ❤

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What are the things you Love to do? Think. Are you doing them? At least some of them or even one?

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Sometimes we forget or don’t pay attention, to do the things we like to do. As I said it need not be a Hobby as such, but anything that Relaxes you like what You see above, that makes you Happy and Calm ❤

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Doing what we like need not be big things that takes up a lot of money, but even small things, to distract us from unnecessary issues and keep us going. As it is, our life and others can help us but, only we can choose what we like to do to make us Happy, that will lead us to our goals and have a Happy ending 🙂

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Latest Update 6th March 2020: Up to date with the Birthday article 111th I have Published 112 posts. At Top Right-Hand side, you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, you will see the word “Home” All the 111 posts from “The Beginning to the end is shown ~ Under “Home”. Under which also is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

I am in Good Health and as, “I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy into My Hands” since “Beginning of 2016”. All my Hard work and Praying has been rewarded. Healing Energy can go to others wherever it is needed to be received with a Clear Mind and Lots of Loving Kindness”. This is the Ending of 2019 and going on to Year 2020. “A Beginning of ~ A New Year”. Upgrading Myself to, “A New Wavelength ~ A New Chapter in My Life” And also for You ❤

So “I am Editing and Upgrading almost All the Posts from The Very Beginning” This is My Birthday and, “A New Chapter and A New Beginning”. Upgrading Myself to A New Wavelength ~ A New Chapter in My Life and I Wish so for You also. Please click this Link which will take You to My Birthday Post Birthday!

The old Topics on The Left-Hand side “Under Recent Posts, Archives and Categories” with “The new Topics adding up. Happy Reading ❤

And what I am doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and Writing My own Journey if Good Health and Healing in Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy in this Post, and if You click on this Link in Green You can read this Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you different posts of mine and which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation also”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing” 🙂 you can have a look at: https://deepanilamani.com/

“It is all free”. You can “Download ~ Take print outs” “share and pass it on also” for others who can benefit from this article and all the other posts ❤

Thanking Mary Engelbreit, Pinterest and the I net for the picture quotes and Free Online Image Editor (online-image-editor.com) for The Picture Quotes I have done  

Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies to You ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

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Trials and Tribulations in Healing!

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A year is ending, and each ending is another new beginning. I hope those of you who celebrated Christmas did so and had a good time together with family and friends, and also with less fortunate. Just like me almost all of you have gone through many trials throughout this year and learnt many lessons from them. As we know all challenges are for us to overcome, become stronger and go to that next level in life ❤

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When people go through difficulties and face challenges they are not happy. If life just flows by, generally some people do not attempt to go that extra effort to work through and go to that next level. There is something that all of you need to know, that tests and tribulations are not permanent. Sure with Time we go through so many changes. The environment is changing and we also keep on growing and changing with it!

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Life can be fascinating, complex, as well as simple. We need to face life as how it comes in a wise way, or else life becomes very complicated and there can be no way out. For this we need to develop the sixth sense, wisdom which is the third eye ultimately when wisdom develops to its full strength. The third eye is not a physical eye, but it is something that makes you to be able to feel, “see from your mind beyond what the normal eye or other senses are able to detect”. In short one becomes very sharp in sensing the surroundings and of those around you. They are better able to know and decide what is good and what works best for them in life. There is no halo round their heads, but they go about life doing what they have to in their own quiet way!

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I also have learnt a lot along the way, and we do get upset and hurt although we are aware how life works. But as time goes by and you become mature adults, becoming wise you tend to look at life in a much broader way. Saying that, “It is not all old people who are wise and it is not all young people who are foolish – there are foolish adults as well as very wise young people too” But one thing is sure, as after we have gone through all the tests and tribulations learning our lessons in the correct way, all the hard work pays as always in anything and everything we do. What ever you have gone through in life, if you have faced them bravely and done the right thing, the results would be immeasurable. You would have grown so much and achieved so much that the end result will be like the, “Rainbows after the rains and the pot of gold at the end of it” 🙂

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Latest Update 6th March 2020:Up to date with the Birthday article 111th I have Published 112 posts. On Top Right Hand side you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, You will see will see The word “Home” And then “All the 112 posts from “The Beginning to the end is shown”, also Under which is The Introductory Page about: The Introductory page: Who I am & Why I am Writing! 

I am in Good Health and as, “I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy in to My Hands” since “Beginning of 2016”. All my Hard work and Praying has been rewarded. Healing Energy can go to others where ever it is needed to be received with a Clear Mind and Lots of Loving Kindness” ❤

So “I am Editing and Updating almost All The Posts from The Very Beginning” This is My Birthday and, “A New Chapter and A New Beginning”. Upgrading Myself to A New Wave Length. A New Chapter in My Life and I Wish so for You also. Please click this Link which will take You to My Birthday Post Birthday

The older Topics “On The Left Hand side “Under Recent Posts and Archives and Categories” with “The New Topics adding up”. Happy Reading ❤

What I am doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Writing My Own Journey in Wellness and Good Health. Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy in this Post, and if You click on this Link in Green You can read this Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to other different posts of mine which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation also”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing” 🙂 you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/

“It is all free”. You can “Download. Take print outs” “share and pass it on also” for others who can benefit from this article and All the other posts ❤

Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies from me to You ❤

Thanking for the picture quotes from the I net ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa 1Deepa Nilamani 🙂

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Forgiveness in Healing!

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Hope all of you are enjoy reading what I write and learning something from them too. This is an important topic that I overlooked in writing regarding healing, because when we need to heal we need to let go of all the past hurts as holding on to those negative feelings blocks new and Positive feelings coming into our minds!!!

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In life we all get hurt in many situations. This can be from those whom we love and care or even complete strangers. Whoever it may be, if we become subject to unkindness, cruelty or injustice we do get hurt and upset. In these times some will get highly angry, offended or annoyed in return, and there can be strong arguments and clashes, and they will completely keep away or cut them out of their lives. Some will get hurt but will not respond, but that doesn’t mean it doesn’t affect them. So, people must Think before they speak!

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Sometimes people intentionally do things to spoil our lives, that we are do not detect at that time. These are not relevant only to those with mental issues but for everyone. These are the hurts some people cause on others. And they can be the very acts, that if they happen continuously for another person to upset them. Ultimately, “The truth surfaces like oil in the water” and those who do mischief get exposed, and they are unable to face the society the world.  I know for so many these are things they have faced in life and forgiveness is a major issue. Which do you choose? Which gives You more peace of mind ? As the ultimate goal in life is to be at Peace, Joy and Happiness!

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What I have realized is, “To truly Forgive one has to be really mature and wise” Because it is through the eyes of wisdom you see who people are. Those who harm and hurt others, “Do not have this wisdom” They are not aware that we are all part of The Universe. That there is a ripple effect just like when we do something good”. Also, “What goes around comes around” Be it according to Buddhism, Christianity or any other religion it is said that by harming others you harm yourself. If someone really understands this will they do it? I don’t think so. They are in the dark. They are ignorant. This is the time it is said, “Ignorance is evil” So only the “Wise and the mature people understand this”!!!

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It is the weak people who holds grudges. As sometimes just like those who do cruel acts purposely. In life there can be so many complicated situations that sometimes things happen so quickly even before you know and some have got offended or angry without knowing the real reasons. This is why human beings have a brain, a mind to think, to fathom and analyse before jumping into conclusions. People are so hasty and act without thinking that other people also are like them. If human beings develop, “Empathy” Forgiveness would not be such a big problem as people will not resort to harm and hurt others.!!!
As so many others, I too have gone through a difficult journey. Maybe for some it would have been less or more. Its a wonder as in few minutes it would be 13th October in Australia, and I would have completed 8 years since migrating. Through time I believe I have become much wiser. As with each challenge I have become stronger” I have overcome the low moods and come a very long way. I have completely turned around and now looking forwards in starting again the next chapter. Ending this topic, I was thinking about this one day when I woke up, and these words came into my mind!

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Which is very true. I have learnt a lot through my experiences and when we live with Loving Kindness our hearts become pure, and we become peaceful. There is a long way to go, as every ending is another beginning, and I look forward to my next chapter 🙂

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The old Topics are, “On The Left Hand side “Under the, “Recent Posts” with “The New Topics adding up. “It will be too long to post so many numbers of posts on the side. You can “Click and see all the older Topics” “Under “ARCHIVES” and “Under CATERGORIES” Try “To Move around the site and find. “That is also “Part of Educating Yourself further”. So far, I have Not seen any other site post so much clearly ❤

“I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy in to My Hands” since “Beginning of 2016”. “All my Hard work and Praying has been rewarded. Healing Energy can go to others where ever it is needed to be received with a Clear Mind and Lot of Loving Kindness” ❤

So, I have been updating almost all my posts naturally as, this is “A New Chapter and A New Beginning” Upgrading Myself to A New Wavelength. A New Chapter in My Life and I Wish so for You also. Please click this Link which will take You to My Birthday Post Birthday!

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What I am doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and Writing My Own Journey of Healing in Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy in this Post, and if You click on this Link in Green, You can read this Post about: The Therapists Voice Forward!

The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts which you will be able to find more information and pronunciation”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing” 🙂 you can have a look at: https://deepanilamani.com/

“It is all free”. You can “Download ~ Take print outs” “share and or pass it on also” for others who can benefit from this article and all the other posts. Lots of Love and Hugs from Me ❤

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Thanking for the pictures and quotes from https://www.facebook.com/RawFor/ and the I net ❤

Many Blessings of Love, Light and healing Energies from me to You ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa 100Deepa Nilamani 🙂

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What is Depression?

Hello To, All My Dear Readers Followers and My Blogging Friends ❤

I am re-doing some of the posts and this is exactly from 2 years ago and after. Looking back, “Its amazing, the journey I have come so far, in healing myself and advancing my knowledge, working, studying” and going about in life as, “A Complete normal human being” Actually I am a much stronger and knowledgeable person now as a result of all the experiences I had experienced through the Journey. This is because I made a concentrated effort in becoming well, making use of all the help I could get and above all, myself working towards healing 🙂

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Why I am writing like this is for those of you who are reading to have “Hope and Faith” and to “Believe in becoming well in time, with medication, counselling and/or psychotherapy”. It is possible to control and send the dragon back into its cave where it came from. In other words it goes into remission as it happens with so many other physical illnesses too. In becoming well, I have the opportunity in Enlightening and Guiding others who are in need of, I should say “Hope” to know that you also have that chance, the ability to, become well enough to lead a “Life of Happiness and Joy that you deserve” ❤

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This is an general explanation of Low moods also called Depression: (Which one doesn’t have to have all the symptoms all the time) it is being sad for a long time, and also known as darkness because, if you are depressed, you do not see the full colours of life. Meaning your eye tend not to attract bright colours, things even the clothes you wear and choose, tend to be dull. Just like when its a rainy day and the sky is dark and all around you is dull. Also you may lack energy, feel lethargic, lack of appetite, sleep, at the same time drowsiness, and feeling of dullness in general towards living. “When you can please, find someone who Understand You even friends. See Like The post below ❤

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“Look out for: Self-Help Books (I used to buy self help books and read so many articles from various free and cheap Magazines, even papers for more information). Self help books: have seen an enormous growth rate in the last ten years. Self help books usually help people grow in some way, be it mentally, physically or spiritually. The main goal of self help books is to unlock some inner strength that the reader already has and help set it free. The market for self help books is huge. The public will always want some help in order to improve their lives. This is the essence of self help books. The reader already knows the answers to the questions he or she is searching for. It just takes an author with acute perception to bring it out into the open. The subject matter for self-help books is limitless. Anything that can be a problem to anyone can be a subject for self-help books. Three of the most popular subject areas for self-help books are mental health concerns, life challenges and the all-time favorite, personal growth. Other experts may have achieved a certain status in their field and want to pass on their experiences. There is no doubt that self-help books help a great number of people. In subjects such as medical and mental disorders, some of the knowledge is invaluable and truly helpful.

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You can also refer to the I net.as well as Radio and or Internet Counselling. Can be You tube Videos even as there are so many who Give Talk therapy and Other ways of becoming Positive. Medication, as all these Help to make you Understand and Learn Better ways to Become Positive and well and Lead a life of Good Health and Happiness ❤

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You have to TRY your VERY BEST to do EVERYTHING POSSIBLE, to become energized and full of enthusiasm to get on with life. Which I am now. “Deepa” my name given according to my birth time means, “Light” Light has two meanings ~ Being “Positive and Bright”, as well as “Enlightening in knowledge”. So somehow years ago, according to my birth time this was the suitable name which was given by “My Grandfather. It’s said we are born with a plan? So was I born for exactly this purpose?  In that case, is it why I went through all these challenges to overcome, for a purpose? Time will give the answers? And it has 🙂

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Time has given the answers as, “Since December 2013 I was cleared from counselling, being said that I had come back to normal by my psychiatrist”. A word I never expected to have heard in my entire life. Suddenly the clouds had moved away, and out came the sun. Become Positive and well” The moment you become “Positive and well”, its just like the sun has come out and you see the world in all its glory 🙂 The world opened up to me “Full of Positivity and Colour” 🙂

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February 2016: I am keeping in Very Good Health and I have begun to receive this Healing energies to my hands. I have gained something that no one can take it away from me. It is something I have earned, “Through sheer hard work, Sacrifices, Sharing and Giving, Loving Kindness” and above all being “Truthful and Honest” ~ “The Powers, The Gifts, The Energies”, are not something that one can achieve easily. I had to take the full journey: cross all rivers, climb all mountains, do what ever to answer, “to fall in line with, “The Universal Energy” which is also called “Healing or Pranic energy” Energy Healing!. This is our life force energy which is also called, “Prana” in Sanskrit, “chi” in China and “ki” in Japan. As we know, energy can travel so, “Prayer energy which also called Healing Energy” can travel far and wide to distant places too ❤

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To be able to know who I am, I have posted My Full name in Who I am & Why I am Writing! and to be seen from where, “I have acquired “The Gift of Healing Hands” I have posted this link of, “Who My Grandfather is and My Great Grand father is : https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/G._P._Wickramarachchi ❤
25th August 2019: “Not only have I acquired ~ “The Gift of Healing Hands”~ but also “Taking The Therapist’s Voice forward, in The Therapists Voice Forward!A 152
While updating on the 18th August 2019 at 12.42 just now I received Energy in to my Left Hand for a brief moment when I posted this picture below ❤

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It’s strange how life has taken a turn as what I wanted to do was Botany, as I loved plants. I did not want to do medicine or to be a doctor, but now I have and still am studying and reading on Psychology, Health and various other topics on life and even writing simple poetry as well. We can all study and Learn all through out our lives. We are all born for some specific purpose and it seems that “This is my Purpose, my Mission”. Aren’t I glad that I have got such a mission in my hands 🙂

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People go through hard times in their lives due to so many different reasons. Being physically ill, problems in jobs, professions, lack of money and/or family/children problems. And sometimes all or many of these come together. People looking from outside, do not see what is going in others personal lives, and can discourage and hurt others with no reason. Someone who is going through a very hard time, might completely go off track, by some insensitive and ignorant people’s attitude and, pushing them further into sadness and ill health. Being upset, they might even think of doing things “Not Positive or Healthy for them”. So “THINK CAREFULLY” before you say or do anything harsh without knowing what others are going through. “These are the times that the human mind cannot take it and it becomes unwell”. So always be aware, just because someone is well dressed and smiling there can be lot going on unseen within !!!Heal 10
The word that people use saying broken, is that your mind becomes unwell just like the body. Your spirit can be dampened, and it becomes too much for the mind and it begins to become unwell and then physically also one can become unwell, as the mind is also in the physical self, in short in the head somewhere. Its not only people who stresses or make you unwell, mother nature also does that with floods, volcanoes and many other tricks up her sleeves, and some can go on for a long time than you want to. This is why I am writing that it is possible for most of you to bring it down, keep it under control, if not fully to some extent, enough to lead a stress free life. If after a long time. I overcame my sad moods. So can you. When you have too many issues your head is over working trying to find solutions. Its mostly stress that you get headaches and most of the other illnesses. Its like a chess game inside your head, trying to figure out the best ways to overcome the problems and solve the difficult situations. You are able to organize and find better ways to do things and learn how to manage the situations better 🙂

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Please do not look down upon people who have mental issues. Being mentally unwell is Not an unnatural thing. Through stress, sadness which sometimes is not their fault that they become confused and unwell. This labeling and looking down upon people is All wrong. All people have a right to lead a life of Peace and Happiness ❤

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“It is this stigma that is preventing a lot of people going for help to the doctor that is making them more ill. Mental illnesses are supposed to be rising according to “WHO” (World Health Organization). What They think is by 2030 Depression is going to be the biggest cause of health burden in the world. I am sure glad that I am on the, RIGHT SIDE OF LIFE, ENCOURAGING and SUPPORTING PEOPLE TO LIVE HEALTHY and HAPPY. Lets Hope Things Improve and The numbers get less. I Sincerely Wish “All People to Overcome and Lead Happy and Normal Lives ❤ 

Be Brave and seek out help. Don’t let anything spoil your life. You have the right to lead a good life ❤

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Once you begin to talk, you help yourself to feel good to love and care for yourself. As none of us are born perfect. Sometimes its not seen why somethings happened to us. No one makes a mistake or takes a wrong turn if they know that it will not work well. It is reaching out to the closest thing, or a person, “As your fist instinct is to live well as this is how we are born” You are born to live well and live to tell your story to others to lift them up too 🙂

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It is said that those who have gone through any physical or mental stress themselves can understand another’s pain or hardships better. Someone who never had a headache would find it hard to understand another’s pain in the head. But one doesn’t have to undergo to understand another’s feelings all the time. As all human beings have feelings, and are intelligent and have a brain to think and analyze what is right and wrong!

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We don’t go through all the experiences ourselves in one life. How I became well is “LEARNING” from a combination of others experiences, my knowledge from very young days. As I wrote before: Even from The I net, books, magazines and other sources I came across. Each and everyone goes through some kind of experience, at some stage of their lives. Sometimes back when I posted this in my group, someone commented this is because, they feel the pinch. Well I am a survivor. I did fight to win over low moods. We all have to, “WORK HARD” to achieve what we want in life. I feel quite good that in spite of being named the light, I experienced some hard times managed to come out Positive and became what I am today. How I became well is from a combination of others experiences, my knowledge from very young days. Even from books, magazines and other sources I came across. Back to myself and even with, “More Experience and Knowledge to Guide Others to Lead a Better Life of Good Health and Happiness 🙂

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I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy in to My Hands” since “Beginning of 2016”. All my Hard work and Praying has been rewarded. Healing Energy can go to others where ever it is needed to be received with a Clear Mind and Loving Kindness”. I hope you enjoyed reading. And most sincerely Hope some of it will help you towards becoming well. And Move on “To A Brand New Future ❤ 🙂 ❤

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So I am editing and updating all my posts naturally as, This is “A New Chapter and A New Beginning” I am Moving on. I have been Upgrading Myself to A New Wave Length. A New Chapter in My Life and I Wish so for You also. Please click this Link which will take You to My Birthday Post Birthday!

There will be The older Topics “On The Left Hand side Under “Recent Posts” with “The New Topics adding up, and Under “Archives and Category. Happy Reading ❤

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And what I am doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Writing My Journey in Wellness. Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy in this Post, and if You click on this Link in Green You can read this Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts of which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing” 🙂 during my spare time you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/

“It is all free”. You can “Download ~ Take print outs” “share and pass it on also” for others who can benefit from this article and all the other posts. I hope you enjoyed reading. And most sincerely Hope some of it will help you to Understand what exactly you need and towards becoming well and Happy 🙂 ❤ 🙂

Thanking for the picture quotes taken from the I net and Free Online Image Editor (online-image-editor.com) for The Posts done by me ❤

Love, Light and Healing Energies coming from me To You ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa 100Deepa Nilamani 🙂

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