What is Depression?

Hello To, All My Dear Readers Followers and My Blogging Friends ❤

I am re-doing some of the posts and this is exactly from 2 years ago and after. Looking back, “Its amazing, the journey I have come so far, in healing myself and advancing my knowledge, working, studying” and going about in life as, “A Complete normal human being” Actually I am a much stronger and knowledgeable person now as a result of all the experiences I had experienced through the Journey. This is because I made a concentrated effort in becoming well, making use of all the help I could get and above all, myself working towards healing 🙂

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Why I am writing like this is for those of you who are reading to have “Hope and Faith” and to “Believe in becoming well in time, with medication, counselling and/or psychotherapy”. It is possible to control and send the dragon back into its cave where it came from. In other words it goes into remission as it happens with so many other physical illnesses too. In becoming well, I have the opportunity in Enlightening and Guiding others who are in need of, I should say “Hope” to know that you also have that chance, the ability to, become well enough to lead a “Life of Happiness and Joy that you deserve” ❤

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This is an general explanation of Low moods also called Depression: (Which one doesn’t have to have all the symptoms all the time) it is being sad for a long time, and also known as darkness because, if you are depressed, you do not see the full colours of life. Meaning your eye tend not to attract bright colours, things even the clothes you wear and choose, tend to be dull. Just like when its a rainy day and the sky is dark and all around you is dull. Also you may lack energy, feel lethargic, lack of appetite, sleep, at the same time drowsiness, and feeling of dullness in general towards living. “When you can please, find someone who Understand You even friends. See Like The post below ❤

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“Look out for: Self-Help Books (I used to buy self help books and read so many articles from various free and cheap Magazines, even papers for more information). Self help books: have seen an enormous growth rate in the last ten years. Self help books usually help people grow in some way, be it mentally, physically or spiritually. The main goal of self help books is to unlock some inner strength that the reader already has and help set it free. The market for self help books is huge. The public will always want some help in order to improve their lives. This is the essence of self help books. The reader already knows the answers to the questions he or she is searching for. It just takes an author with acute perception to bring it out into the open. The subject matter for self-help books is limitless. Anything that can be a problem to anyone can be a subject for self-help books. Three of the most popular subject areas for self-help books are mental health concerns, life challenges and the all-time favorite, personal growth. Other experts may have achieved a certain status in their field and want to pass on their experiences. There is no doubt that self-help books help a great number of people. In subjects such as medical and mental disorders, some of the knowledge is invaluable and truly helpful.

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You can also refer to the I net.as well as Radio and or Internet Counselling. Can be You tube Videos even as there are so many who Give Talk therapy and Other ways of becoming Positive. Medication, as all these Help to make you Understand and Learn Better ways to Become Positive and well and Lead a life of Good Health and Happiness ❤

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You have to TRY your VERY BEST to do EVERYTHING POSSIBLE, to become energized and full of enthusiasm to get on with life. Which I am now. “Deepa” my name given according to my birth time means, “Light” Light has two meanings ~ Being “Positive and Bright”, as well as “Enlightening in knowledge”. So somehow years ago, according to my birth time this was the suitable name which was given by “My Grandfather. It’s said we are born with a plan? So was I born for exactly this purpose?  In that case, is it why I went through all these challenges to overcome, for a purpose? Time will give the answers? And it has 🙂

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Time has given the answers as, “Since December 2013 I was cleared from counselling, being said that I had come back to normal by my psychiatrist”. A word I never expected to have heard in my entire life. Suddenly the clouds had moved away, and out came the sun. Become Positive and well” The moment you become “Positive and well”, its just like the sun has come out and you see the world in all its glory 🙂 The world opened up to me “Full of Positivity and Colour” 🙂

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February 2016: I am keeping in Very Good Health and I have begun to receive this Healing energies to my hands. I have gained something that no one can take it away from me. It is something I have earned, “Through sheer hard work, Sacrifices, Sharing and Giving, Loving Kindness” and above all being “Truthful and Honest” ~ “The Powers, The Gifts, The Energies”, are not something that one can achieve easily. I had to take the full journey: cross all rivers, climb all mountains, do what ever to answer, “to fall in line with, “The Universal Energy” which is also called “Healing or Pranic energy” Energy Healing!. This is our life force energy which is also called, “Prana” in Sanskrit, “chi” in China and “ki” in Japan. As we know, energy can travel so, “Prayer energy which also called Healing Energy” can travel far and wide to distant places too ❤

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To be able to know who I am, I have posted My Full name in Who I am & Why I am Writing! and to be seen from where, “I have acquired “The Gift of Healing Hands” I have posted this link of, “Who My Grandfather is and My Great Grand father is : https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/G._P._Wickramarachchi ❤
25th August 2019: “Not only have I acquired ~ “The Gift of Healing Hands”~ but also “Taking The Therapist’s Voice forward, in The Therapists Voice Forward!A 152
While updating on the 18th August 2019 at 12.42 just now I received Energy in to my Left Hand for a brief moment when I posted this picture below ❤

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It’s strange how life has taken a turn as what I wanted to do was Botany, as I loved plants. I did not want to do medicine or to be a doctor, but now I have and still am studying and reading on Psychology, Health and various other topics on life and even writing simple poetry as well. We can all study and Learn all through out our lives. We are all born for some specific purpose and it seems that “This is my Purpose, my Mission”. Aren’t I glad that I have got such a mission in my hands 🙂

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People go through hard times in their lives due to so many different reasons. Being physically ill, problems in jobs, professions, lack of money and/or family/children problems. And sometimes all or many of these come together. People looking from outside, do not see what is going in others personal lives, and can discourage and hurt others with no reason. Someone who is going through a very hard time, might completely go off track, by some insensitive and ignorant people’s attitude and, pushing them further into sadness and ill health. Being upset, they might even think of doing things “Not Positive or Healthy for them”. So “THINK CAREFULLY” before you say or do anything harsh without knowing what others are going through. “These are the times that the human mind cannot take it and it becomes unwell”. So always be aware, just because someone is well dressed and smiling there can be lot going on unseen within !!!Heal 10
The word that people use saying broken, is that your mind becomes unwell just like the body. Your spirit can be dampened, and it becomes too much for the mind and it begins to become unwell and then physically also one can become unwell, as the mind is also in the physical self, in short in the head somewhere. Its not only people who stresses or make you unwell, mother nature also does that with floods, volcanoes and many other tricks up her sleeves, and some can go on for a long time than you want to. This is why I am writing that it is possible for most of you to bring it down, keep it under control, if not fully to some extent, enough to lead a stress free life. If after a long time. I overcame my sad moods. So can you. When you have too many issues your head is over working trying to find solutions. Its mostly stress that you get headaches and most of the other illnesses. Its like a chess game inside your head, trying to figure out the best ways to overcome the problems and solve the difficult situations. You are able to organize and find better ways to do things and learn how to manage the situations better 🙂

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Please do not look down upon people who have mental issues. Being mentally unwell is Not an unnatural thing. Through stress, sadness which sometimes is not their fault that they become confused and unwell. This labeling and looking down upon people is All wrong. All people have a right to lead a life of Peace and Happiness ❤

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“It is this stigma that is preventing a lot of people going for help to the doctor that is making them more ill. Mental illnesses are supposed to be rising according to “WHO” (World Health Organization). What They think is by 2030 Depression is going to be the biggest cause of health burden in the world. I am sure glad that I am on the, RIGHT SIDE OF LIFE, ENCOURAGING and SUPPORTING PEOPLE TO LIVE HEALTHY and HAPPY. Lets Hope Things Improve and The numbers get less. I Sincerely Wish “All People to Overcome and Lead Happy and Normal Lives ❤ 

Be Brave and seek out help. Don’t let anything spoil your life. You have the right to lead a good life ❤

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Once you begin to talk, you help yourself to feel good to love and care for yourself. As none of us are born perfect. Sometimes its not seen why somethings happened to us. No one makes a mistake or takes a wrong turn if they know that it will not work well. It is reaching out to the closest thing, or a person, “As your fist instinct is to live well as this is how we are born” You are born to live well and live to tell your story to others to lift them up too 🙂

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It is said that those who have gone through any physical or mental stress themselves can understand another’s pain or hardships better. Someone who never had a headache would find it hard to understand another’s pain in the head. But one doesn’t have to undergo to understand another’s feelings all the time. As all human beings have feelings, and are intelligent and have a brain to think and analyze what is right and wrong!

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We don’t go through all the experiences ourselves in one life. How I became well is “LEARNING” from a combination of others experiences, my knowledge from very young days. As I wrote before: Even from The I net, books, magazines and other sources I came across. Each and everyone goes through some kind of experience, at some stage of their lives. Sometimes back when I posted this in my group, someone commented this is because, they feel the pinch. Well I am a survivor. I did fight to win over low moods. We all have to, “WORK HARD” to achieve what we want in life. I feel quite good that in spite of being named the light, I experienced some hard times managed to come out Positive and became what I am today. How I became well is from a combination of others experiences, my knowledge from very young days. Even from books, magazines and other sources I came across. Back to myself and even with, “More Experience and Knowledge to Guide Others to Lead a Better Life of Good Health and Happiness 🙂

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I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy in to My Hands” since “Beginning of 2016”. All my Hard work and Praying has been rewarded. Healing Energy can go to others where ever it is needed to be received with a Clear Mind and Loving Kindness”. I hope you enjoyed reading. And most sincerely Hope some of it will help you towards becoming well. And Move on “To A Brand New Future ❤ 🙂 ❤

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So I am editing and updating all my posts naturally as, This is “A New Chapter and A New Beginning” I am Moving on. I have been Upgrading Myself to A New Wave Length. A New Chapter in My Life and I Wish so for You also. Please click this Link which will take You to My Birthday Post Birthday!

There will be The older Topics “On The Left Hand side Under “Recent Posts” with “The New Topics adding up, and Under “Archives and Category. Happy Reading ❤

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And what I am doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Writing My Journey in Wellness. Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy in this Post, and if You click on this Link in Green You can read this Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts of which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing” 🙂 during my spare time you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/

“It is all free”. You can “Download ~ Take print outs” “share and pass it on also” for others who can benefit from this article and all the other posts. I hope you enjoyed reading. And most sincerely Hope some of it will help you to Understand what exactly you need and towards becoming well and Happy 🙂 ❤ 🙂

Thanking for the picture quotes taken from the I net and Free Online Image Editor (online-image-editor.com) for The Posts done by me ❤

Love, Light and Healing Energies coming from me To You ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa 100Deepa Nilamani 🙂

Wishing Star ❤

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Life’s Lessons!

Hello To, All My Dear Readers Followers and Blogging Friends ❤

Thanking all those who commented in support and encouragement regarding my last article. Almost all of us know that life is not a straight road, that we go through challenges to overcome them and become stronger to go to that next level ❤

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However its not all who are aware of this or understand and, among us there are many types of people, good and the bad, kind and unkind, that we need to learn how to deal with them in order to be able to lead our lives peacefully. Regarding the issue what was done to confuse me, I have prayed You are Stronger than You Think!, read and then turned to the wise for guidance. The advice I got is, “To safeguard Yourself from further issues and ensure they cannot do anymore harm. And so I have!!!

From the many books and articles, I read and together with my experiences, all this is to do with, “The laws of The Universe”. In life there are rules to it, that is where religion comes in. Religion is all about how to be a good law-abiding person, and for that we have to abide by the rules of humanity. We are all connected by “The Universal Energy” and what we send out, even in words and thoughts, good or bad comes back ❤

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This is how Healing Energies Healing ~ Basic Steps! and Blessings works, even long distance ❤

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If one is purely on the mental level ~ not aware how life works, they keep on doing the wrong things. But if one is developed spiritually, one is aware, doing something wrong to another brings harm to them and correct the next time. What goes around comes around!

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In life from time-to-time people need advice, guidance, not only if something goes wrong but even to do the right things, to make a change, to start something new, there so many things that we need another person’s Guidance. Of course, it has to be the correct person with the correct knowledge who will give you the proper advice. But it’s not always people have someone around, and even then, we also need to think for ourselves what is best for us. Because it is only, we who really know who we are and know what will suit us the best. At these times, I turn to prayers and meditation. I pray daily and have great faith, and I always get relief and guidance through prayers. You can click this Link in “My website here to go to “Read This Post”  The Power of Prayer! 

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As we know, however you believe in, be it “Almighty God, The Universe”, guidance, answers come through in various ways. While I prayed, I Have Prayed For You! suddenly this quote came into my mind ❤

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I hope you enjoyed reading and found something worthwhile for yourself too. Not everything is relevant for everyone. It all depends on each individual’s personality and of course the current status of your life. Independence can be taken in many ways. It is Not for all to live alone. Being independent is, not to be too attached ❤

I am in Good Health and as, “I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy into My Hands” since “Beginning of 2016”.  All my Hard work and Praying has been rewarded. Healing Energy can go to others wherever it is needed to be received with a Clear Mind and a Lot of Loving Kindness” ❤

So I have been editing and updating almost all the posts. Its A New Chapter in My Life and I Wish so for You also. Please click this Link which will take You to My Birthday Post Birthday!

The older Topics “On the Left-Hand side, Under the “Recent Posts” and Archives and Categories with “The New Topics adding up. Happy Reading ❤

And what I am doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Moving forward Writing My Own Journey in Wellness. Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy in this Post, and if You click on this Link in Green, You can read this Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts which you will be able to find more information”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing” 🙂 you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/  ❤

“It is all free”. You can “Download ~ Take print outs” “share and pass it on also” for others who can benefit from this article and all the other posts ❤

Thanking The I net for the posts shared and https://www.online-image-editor.com/ for the picture posts written by me ❤

Sending Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies coming Your way ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa 100Deepa Nilamani 🙂

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What Is Healing?

Hello To, All My Dear Readers Followers and Blogging Friends ❤

Hope all of you are well and moving on with, your lives along your paths in life. Today I am writing to explain what healing I is as how know. There are two kinds of healing ~ physical and mental healing. Physical healing is having a healthy diet, a healthful lifestyle, with the correct kind of activities, plenty of rest and taking the additional nutrients and medication. We need to be physically healthy too for the mind to function well, but here I am writing about mental healing 🙂

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While physical Healing  can be seen when it is being fully healed.

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it is not so when it comes to mental issues. There is a broad meaning to mental healing, and it can be taken in many different ways, by each and every person. Once One becomes well means that person has Healed ❤

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When we want to heal mentally, we have to, “Take full responsibility for ourselves. It involves a great deal of discipline and letting go” We need to commit to work towards our own health and happiness by, releasing any types of behaviours, habits, people, activities, attitudes or emotions that are hindering/blocking our healing process!!!
Forgiveness plays a very big part, (which I will write as a separate article later on) as well as expansion of consciousness and a understanding who we are 🙂

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We are responsible for our thoughts. Its thoughts that become words, and actions follows. We ourselves are able to control our thoughts. There are so many ways and means that we can do so. This is for our own good. The more we are in control of our thoughts the more we are in control of our lives. The day we succeed in controlling our thoughts, to a extent that we can be happy is the day we are able to heal to a good extent and to be able to live in Peace and Joyfulness 🙂

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The Power of Your Amazing Brain: The conscious mind controls our minds only 5% of the day and the subconscious mind holds of our Thoughts 95% of the time!66.66667% FAT…..The Brain is 2/3 fats. Myelin, the protective sheath covering your neurons is 70% fat. Eating fatty fish, Green Leafy Vegetables, Olive Oil, Avocados, Chia seeds, Flax seeds and nuts replenish Your neurons and Brain Cells.

You have 70,000 thoughts per day!

Thoughts are real.  Your thoughts cause biological and physiological effect – Your body responds to mental input as if it were physically real.

Listen to Music: Studies have proven that listening to music strengths the brain and literally changes the structure. Music 2
Sometimes music is the only thing that gets your mind off everything. One of the only activities that, Activates, Stimulates and uses The Entire Brain is, “Music”. So go and now listen to more Music 🙂

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 I will be writing on Healing, part by part as it cannot be covered by one or even a few articles. Hope it has helped you in some way ❤

I am in Good Health and as, “I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy into My Hands” since “Beginning of 2016”. All my Hard work and Praying has been rewarded. Healing Energy can go to others wherever it is needed to be received with a Clear Mind and Lots of Loving Kindness” ❤

So I am Editing and Updating almost all my posts naturally as, this is “A New Chapter and A New Beginning” Upgrading Myself to A New Wavelength. A New Chapter in My Life and I Wish so for You also. Please click this Link which will take You to My Birthday Post Birthday! ❤

There will still be the older Topics “On the Left-Hand side, Under the “Recent Posts” and Archives and Categories with “The New Topics adding up. Happy Reading ❤

And what I am doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Writing My Own Journey of Wellness. Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy in this Post, and if You click on this Link in Green, you can read this Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation also”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am up to” 🙂 you can have a look at: https://deepanilamani.com/

It is all free”. You can “Download. Take print outs” “share and pass it on also” for others who can benefit from this article and all the other posts ❤

Thanking for the pictures taken from the I net and Free Online Image Editor (online-image-editor.com) for The Picture posts written by me

Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies from me ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa 100Deepa Nilamani 🙂

Wishing Star ❤

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Life ~ Health ~ Healing!

Hello To, All My Dear Readers, Followers and Blogging Friends ❤

I have started to write again, and yes not just on mental health but other matters of life in general, the challenges and my achievements as I go along. “Low mood is Past tense concerning me”, because of that Reason, “I have even changed the title of the blog to, “Life, Health and Healing” So here I go with the next phase of my life 🙂

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At this stage I have fully surrendered to, “God almighty/The Higher Powers/The Universe”. I do my part of the hard work towards my goals, but I always request for Protection and Guidance every step of the way. There are many who do not know of any Higher power or how life works in this present society now, and out there to harm and block those who put in so much goodness to the World, to Mankind. So however much good our intentions are, we need protection from above from these evil people, and we do get it, when our intentions are Pure 🙂

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Just past a milestone, my birthday and now on to a new chapter. This marks a time of maturation that I have gained knowledge with time and developed wisdom. I expected a major change, but certainly didn’t expect this challenge financially. So, although momentarily I was disturbed, I found I was mature and wise enough to realize there are challenges that comes the way we do not expect!

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The challenges come for us and also for others. As it is seen who supports and stand by you and those who do not. I found among those who supported me, most of them I had hardly done anything. And one or two people that I had even gone out of the way, took it as an opportunity to try to put me down even further!!! It’s sad, as these people do not realize that when they do harm to others, in turn they invite trouble to themselves. We are able to choose the good ways to attract good things, so that our lives are enriched to live healthy and Happy. But some choose evil, ending up with ill health and sadness. Life is a choice. Which do you choose?

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Being honest and straight forward always has its rewards in life. This also enables one to be able to pray, have Faith and Hope that things/life will work for you in your favor during times of adversities. I had Faith and I was full of Hope, the tide turned in my favor, just within a month. Changes yet to come? I do not know. But it has made my Faith even stronger and myself too. “Almighty God” works in its own time. Time is the essence that test you and also the others around you. So always be patient. Do what you can, and give time for the rest to happen ❤

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I am in Good Health and as, “I have been able to, “Receive Healing Energy in to My Hands” since “Beginning of 2016” All my Hard work and Praying has been rewarded. Healing Energy can go to others wherever it is needed to be received with a Clear Mind and Lot of Loving Kindness” ❤

So, I am editing and updating almost all my posts naturally as, this is “A New Chapter and A New Beginning” I am Moving on. Upgrading Myself to A New Wavelength. A New Chapter in My Life and I Wish so for You also. Please click this Link which will take You to My Birthday Post Birthday!

Also, there will still be the older Topics “On the Left-Hand side. Under the “Recent Posts” and Under Archives and Categories, with “The New Topics adding up. Happy Reading ❤

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And what I am doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Moving forward Writing My Own Story of Wellness in Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy in this Post. If You click on this Link in Green, You can read this Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts of which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation also”. I also have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing” 🙂 you can have a look at: https://deepanilamani.com/

“It is all free”. You can “Download ~ Take print outs” “share and pass it on also” for others who can benefit from this article and all the other posts ❤

Thanking for the posts that I have shared from the I net and Free Online Image Editor (online-image-editor.com) for The Picture Quotes Done by me ❤

Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies coming from me ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa 100Deepa Nilamani 🙂

Wishing Star ❤

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