Counselling ~ 1!

Hello To, All My Dear Readers Followers and Blogging Friends ❤

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I have thought of sharing what I have received as Counselling as well as what I have studied on My Journey of Becoming well ❤

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“These are “Very advanced articles” and I need to write the exact meanings and clarify. So read very carefully. Picture Quotes from “The I Net” BUT “What I am writing is NOT copying straight from The I net or other books. What I am writing is “Mostly My first-hand Knowledge and Experiences, and also, doing references. BUT “It has to agree with what I know and feel it is correct!

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Now I need to “Concentrate and I am writing carefully explaining and clarifying as much as possible”. As there will be new words that, “I also Look Up for the exact Spelling and Meanings”. “That You will also need to know, “As the Meaning or the Definition” from the I net or the Dictionaries. Both the two posts Above and Below give these: Points ❤

Role of A Counsellor:
1. Be available and supportive.
2. Actively listen to client’s story.
3. Do not blame the client (You)
4. Express Empathy (Kindness)
5. Generate Resources (Books, Picture card sets that help to understand)
6. Address unrealistic expectations of client from counsellor (if any) ~ if You are thinking of things that the counsellor cannot be.
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According to the picture above: Counselling is:
1. Confidential.
2. Listening: Having time to talk to someone who listens.
3. Understanding: Having Time to talk to someone who someone who listens.
4. Responsive: To individual needs ~ To know the persons personality and what she or he needs.
5. Non-Judgmental: Not to Judge if that person is good or bad.
6. Changing: Counselling can help you work out what changes You can make and how.

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The Picture above also gives almost the same points, as I have written above!

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This is to explain what “The Counsellor Does” He or she has to meet you and be Helpful by: Listening to what the Client/You have to say. They have to, “Be Able to Be Kind, Understand and Trust” and to be So it has to be that “The Counsellor Matches Your Personality” They have to know usually of your culture To Understand Your way of Thinking and doing things in Life”!

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Role of A Counsellor:
1. Be available and supportive.
2. Actively listen to client’s story.
3. Do not blame the client (You)
4. Express Empathy (Kindness)
5. Generate Resources (Books, Picture card sets that help to understand)
6. Address unrealistic expectations of client from counsellor (if any) ~ if You are thinking of things that the counsellor cannot be.

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Paraphrasing involves taking a passage – either spoken or written – and rewording it. … When paraphrasing, it is important to keep the original meaning so that the facts remain intact. Basically, you are writing something in your own words that still expresses the original idea ~The I net!

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How to Reduce Stress:

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How to Avoid Stress?
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None of us work 24/7 and there is always some free time to relax. Also relaxing does not need a lot of money either. Of course, if one has extra money to spend, there are many expensive ways to relax also. But actually, you do not need to spend like that. As relaxing is becoming one with mother nature. The closer you become to mother earth, by ways of food, clothes and living the closer you become to a stress-free life. It is difficult to lead a complete stress-free life in this present times. But there are plenty of simple ways to relax like the post above, and below, to reduce our stress levels and enjoy a balanced and healthy life 🙂

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Although it is said “How Music benefits kids” It is not only for them it is also for adults of All ages.

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These are Some of “The Benefits of Counselling” ❤

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I hope what I have posted and written has helped You to know what Counselling is and You will feel much better and also know exactly know how it helps and how to go about!

So I am Editing and Updating almost all my posts naturally as, Daily New Discoveries are made, and Latest Information is available. Upgrading Myself to A New Wavelength ~ A New Chapter in My Life and I Wish so for You also ❤

Latest Update 6th March 2020: Up to date with the Birthday article 111th and The Introductory page I have Published 112 posts. On “The Top Right-Hand side” you are able to see: The word Menu 1a Menu when you” Click on it, you will see the word X Menu again. Under that You can see, “Home” You click on that again and it is the: Introductory page on: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

There will still be the old Topics “On the Left-Hand side Under the Recent posts with the new posts adding up. Also “Under Archives and Categories” Happy Reading ❤

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What I am doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Moving forward Talking About My Own Journey of Wellness”. Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy. And if You click on this Link in Green, you can read this Post: Taking the Therapists Voice Forward!

The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing” 🙂 you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/

If you want to contact me by post, write to; Deepa Nilamani, 65/110-114 Johnson Street, Hillcrest, Queensland 4118, Brisbane, Australia. Remember “You have to send it “” Air Mail to come through Planes, otherwise it can come by Sea Mail from ships which will take very long”

You have to give Your correct Postal Address so that you receive to you itself HURRY I am anxious to see who and where I will start getting Letter ❤

HURRY HURRY I like to see from where and who will send the 1st lot ❤

September 28th, 2024, soon after My Grandfathers 135th Birthday Celebration, I have been informed that Assets has been released so that I have enough Money to” Carry on My Wish of Giving or sending Gifts All over the World under the “Starlight Foundation ~ Gifts!

You have to also give what you need and the ages and if it’s a boy or a girl. When you write as much as possible: even if I send Money if you are not able to buy. Like food: Chocolates or things like clothes or sheets and pillowcases as much as you can so that I know what and how it is possible 🙂

“It is all free”. You can “Download ~ Take print outs” “share and pass it on also” for others who can benefit from this article and all the other posts ❤

“A Very Special Thank You to I net and All the Other sites and Free Online Image Editor (online-image-editor.com) from Me and My Readers” for the Pictures and the Quotes shared and done by me on this Blog ❤ ❤ ❤

Sending Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies to You ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa 100Deepa Nilamani 🙂

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How To Make A Collage!

Hello To, All My Dear Readers Followers and Blogging Friends ❤

Hope all of you are doing well in the “New Year” Suddenly I remembered something that I have done in the past and also after I started this, Blog. It is called, “A collage” It is something anyone can do, according to, “What You Like to do, Hope to be, or Do in the Future ~ You can do for yourself or even do for someone else like Your children”. All depends on, “How You Feel at that time” and while doing or after doing it might be something, that “You never thought how it would have ended also” 🙂

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This is my board and see how I started. I wanted to write a book but “No it was Not a novel, also not to win a prize, but to write what I am writing on this website”. Only “This was the picture I could get from a magazine”, so I just pasted that, you can paste other things also to cover that part. At that time I didn’t think of being, “An Author or a Independent Publisher but just writing My Journey here. But see now what I have become 🙂

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So now I have done up some boards, and show some pictures too, for you all to see what each one can do, “According to Your own Interests, Hobbies, Studies, or a Job You Like and Hope to do or Be” ❤

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These are meanings from Two sites from the I net:
Collage: a technique of composing a work of art by pasting on a single surface various materials not normally associated with one another, as newspaper clippings, parts of photographs, theater tickets, and fragments of an envelope. https://www.dictionary.com/browse/collage

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Collage (/kəˈlɑːʒ/, from the Frenchcoller, “to glue” or “to stick together”;[1]) is a technique of art creation, primarily used in the visual arts, but in music too, by which art results from an assemblage of different forms, thus creating a new whole. (Compare with pastiche, which is a “pasting” together.)
A collage may sometimes include magazine and newspaper clippingsribbonspaint, bits of colored or handmade papers, portions of other artwork or texts, photographs and other found objects, glued to a piece of paper or canvas. The origins of collage can be traced back hundreds of years, but this technique made a dramatic reappearance in the early 20th century as an art form of novelty. The term collage was coined by both Georges Braque and Pablo Picasso in the beginning of the 20th century when collage became a distinctive part of modern art. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Collage

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Here I have taken some of these pages: They have done in a way that the Readers can take them off and use them in a creative way. Some of them can be put in a frame as you see or even cut them in to smaller ones or in different shapes and use them how we like. Below you can see I have kept them with the pins to make different collages, either on the same board or on different boards. You can use any hard surface, even like cardboard, or any other suitable things you can find around the house. There is no need to buy itself as these all are, “Creative work” to use your imagination and creativity and put your mind into active state ❤

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You need to know what topic you want, and no need to look for magazines itself. It can be from old picture post cards, newspapers, also can take photographs, cloth, feathers, dried leaves, dry flowers, the more you do the more your mind will go onto many different things 🙂

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There is no need to have a set topic also, if you cannot think of any topic, Just put some pictures, or encouraging quotes written or drawn by you and you can even colour them or see Below “You Are Allowed To Do Things Differently 😀

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Name it “You can do so many things on the same board or in different boards. they are also called “Vision Boards” also by some people!

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Now go make some of your own ones. I will do another post on Collages again in another post!

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Try to do what ever you can. What if it turns much Better than You could have Ever Imagined? Till then Lots of Love and Hugs from me ❤

Latest Update 6th March 2020: Up to date with the Birthday article 111th, I have Published 112 posts. On “The Top Right-Hand side” you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, you will see the word “Home” All the 111 posts from “The Beginning to the end is shown, under “Home” Which is The Introductory Page: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

I am Editing and Updating All the Posts from The Very Beginning” as almost Daily New facts are found out and new information is available. This is My Birthday and, I am Moving on. So, we all can learn New Things and Upgrade ourselves. Please click this Link which will take You to The Birthday Post Birthday

There will be “The old Topics on The Left-Hand side “Under ~ Recent Posts with “The new Topics adding up. Also “Under Archives and Categories” Happy Reading ❤

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What I am doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Moving forward Telling My Own Journey in Wellness” Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy. And if You click on this Link in Green, you can read this Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation also”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing” 🙂 you can have a look at:https://deepanilamani.com/

“It is all free”. You can “Download ~ Take print outs and also share and or pass it on” for others who can benefit from this article and All the other posts ❤

Thanking the I net, and other sites, for the posts and pictures I have taken and  Free Online Image Editor (online-image-editor.com) for the Picture Quotes I have done ❤

Sending Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies to You ❤

Deepa 100Deepa Nilamani 🙂

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Being Thankful!

Hello to, All My Dear Readers Followers and Blogging Friends ❤

How are you all. I Hope you all who celebrated Christmas had a Good Time. I have been writing since “September 2015” and and covered so many Topics, and This being “The 100th Post! also ending of the Year I feel it is good to Think of “Being Thankful” for “All the Good and Positive Things That has happened and what We have in our lives now ❤

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So here I am now writing about the Value of “Being Thankful” I know that it is not always possible sometimes, when we are having a not so good times, But somehow we have to Try and “Be Strong as Possible” as I have found out, this Helps to Draw in Positive feelings and can Influence The Mind to Think, and see the issues, in a Different Ways and Change things the Better” ❤

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Although at the times we are going through difficulties we do not realize, later looking back “We will find that at these times we have found Strength and Courage which we didn’t know we had, and we have become Stronger in ways we never thought us to be ❤

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See The Picture Quotes below. There are so many many things we can do. We cannot do everything, But what are the Things that, “You like to do? Already doing and Like to do in the coming years or in the Future. Right now, may be some of you may be very busy with a growing family, studying or doing a very busy job. In my case I started to get back to my old hobbies after my two sons became adults as when children are young, one is also busy seeing to their needs. As I have written also that, I started catching up with my Old Hobbies as well as doing New Things only recently, in my other site: deepanilamani.com. See what lot of Variety of thing one is able to do, and we do not need to spend a lot of money always, so many things to do in ways we are able to 🙂

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When we are aware and “Thankful for The Goodness and Good Things that come our way” Our Minds can Shift to the Track of being Positive, “I have noticed ~ without our knowledge also” This does happen. “Things do Change ~ They do not stay the same everyday”. If you have read about My Journey ~ see how much Changed has and somehow, I took so much Effort to “Turn My Life around”, to “Become Positive and Receive “The Gift of Healing” 🙂

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It is in accordance with an, “Ancient Spiritual Law ~ That When We Acknowledge the Good Things, That We already have in Our Lives ~ Being Thankful ~ Things Begin to Work in Our Favor”. It is “The Foundation for All The Good Things or Abundance” That come our way or Happen in Our Lives ❤ ❤ ❤

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I hope you learnt some new things, from what I have written. We can learn so much every day even little by little and change ourselves and our Lives for the Better. It does Happen. Only we need to work towards it with lot of Hope, Faith and Patience. I wish You “The Very Best in the coming Year with “All My Heart” ❤

Latest Update 6th March 2020: Up to date with the Birthday article 111th and The Introductory page I have published 112 posts: All The 111 posts from, The Beginning to the end is shown, Under the Home Page”. Who I am & Why I am Writing!

And what I have been doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and have been Moving forward Telling My Own Journey in Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy. If You click on this Link in Green, You can read this Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

I will be editing and updating as Everyday New things are being discovered. And I like to keep up with “The new Discoveries and Technology” Upgrading Myself to A New Wavelength. Please click this Link which will take You to The Birthday Post Birthday!

Also, there will still be the older Topics “On The Left Hand side, Under the “Recent Posts” with “The New Topics adding up. And also “Under Archives and Categories”. Happy Reading ❤

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The colored Topics in Green. If you “Click” on them “Will take you to other different Posts that I write, “Where You can read and widen Your knowledge and even Learn the Meanings of new words and Pronunciation also”. I have another Website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I am doing to” 😛 during my spare time if you click on this link: https://deepanilamani.com/

“It is all free”. You can “Download. Take print outs” Share and or pass it on also” for others who can benefit from this article and the posts. Any questions or comments are most welcome. I hope All those Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so.” Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in Life” ❤ ❤ ❤

Thanking The I net and Other Web Sites for the picture quotes I have shared and https://www.online-image-editor.com/ for the written Quotes by me ❤

Sending Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies Your Way ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa 100Deepa Nilamani 🙂

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Celebration!

Hello to, All My Dear Readers Followers and My Blogging Friends ❤

Celebrate 2Hope all of you are well and Happy 🙂 I am taking a good rest after all the writing of 92 articles on my website here. Also Celebrating of all my Hard work, I hope all those who are following and reading have made use of what I have written and moved on to the next levels in your life. I am hoping to keep this simple as I am really relaxing by getting back to reading, I have not been reading much although I have kept on buying books and magazines. There are lots of sales and books are reduced from to time which I find quite a lot of good books that go cheap 🙂

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Also eating very Healthy and Sleeping long hours, as its winter time now here in Aussie and very good time to sleep long hours. Eating, drinking and taking in nourishing food, with rest and relaxation helps us to make up for the over worked hours and burning lot of calories in the process 🙂

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Well I am cooking mostly at home healthy food eat and drinking nourishing hot soups, that is keeping me warm and strong. You don’t need expensive things to eat well ❤

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The basic things and fruits and vegetables that are in season you can find out and they are sold cheap. Especially for soups you can put in a lot of cheap vegetables. We need to be Healthy physically as well as mentally as both body and mind need to be fit and strong to lead a strong and healthy life 🙂

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I have also slowly got back to the other websites to connect again and see what all my blogging friends are up to. As they have been reading and commenting, and I have not been that alert to keep up with what they have been up to! I did not think of writing another article so soon, but I saw one of my blogging friends saying he is very stressed and needs relaxing, that this topic came into my mind ❤

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Writing is also Relaxing and Therapeutic, making use of my time writing here for myself and others benefit which I am really enjoying as there is no rush or time limit, if one does it in their own time quietly. If you click this link you can read This post ~ All About Writing  !  ❤

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I am just maintaining my little garden, as it is not possible to stay out in the cold and wet winter weather. So I am rearranging the inside, keeping my natural plants to the minimum and adding some artificial plants, as it is not possible to have delicate natural plants when you need to heat up inside 🙂

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I  am not one for going out too much especially when it is wet and cold and even otherwise unless I want to do my basic shopping and if I have some other issue to attend to. Which leaves a lot of free time to maintain my home and do all my hobbies and lead a relaxing and life. I used to draw and paint, those days but now I have begun to do to colouring to relax. This is one of mindful colouring that I have done sometime back, when I take a break doing something different 🙂

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I am watching some good TV programs on different subjects where my mind moves on to a different track as well as adding different words ( Words Words and Words ! ) to my vocabulary, which also helps, “Not to think of the same subjects ~ which I find again relaxes my mind” Has any of you have had this experience I wonder?

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I am also listening to good classical music and listening to good sounds. Listening to music can decrease anxiety, speed Healing, Increase Optimism and decrease pain. Babies know from Happy from sad songs. As young as 5 months can distinguish (recognize) an upbeat tune such as, “An Ode to Joy” from Beethoven’s 9th symphony. “Sound is a nutrient for the nervous system. Love Your ears …..they are much more important than you ever realized.” ~ Prof. Dr. Alfred Tomati ❤

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The Mozart Effect: It’s been thought that listening to classical music, particularly Mozart, enhances performance on “Cognitive tests. However, recent findings show the listening to any music that is personally enjoyable has positive effects on cognition!

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Listening to good music can make you learn better and has the power to enhance some kind of higher brain function, such as reading and literacy skills, spatial-tempered reasoning, emotional intelligence and mathematical abilities – even children with attention deficit/hyperactivity disorder benefit in mathematics tests from listening to music beforehand ❤

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Exercise your wheels of thinking and you would know what this word means. In simple terms, cognition refers to the process of thinking. It is the identification of knowledge, of understanding it and perceiving it. The most common references of cognition that one would find would be in psychology and philosophy. One would do well to read on cognitive psychology (defined as the psychological study of higher mental processes, including thinking and perception).
The dictionary definitions for cognition are as follows: 1. The mental process of knowing, including aspects such as awareness, perception, reasoning, and judgment. (noun) 2. That which comes to be known, as through perception, reasoning, or intuition; knowledge. (noun)
Masters Tip to remember Cognition: Our simple reference guide for this:
Process of cognition = Process of thinking. This is the simplified and practical meaning for this word with the strange feeling ~ https://wordpandit.com/cognition/

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Healing Powers: Music can help to stimulate/activate the mind, ‘Boost Creative Energies”, and are associated with “Dreaming, Learning and Relaxing”. The key to Boosting Creative Energies is to Listen to the type of music “You Enjoy” the most!

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If You want more “Inspiration, in Language and Mathematics” it would make sense to listen to “Music with Singing”, while “Music without words”, stimulates more “Artistic and Visual Senses” ❤
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After I Relax and Re-Energize I have to plan out for the next chapter. Learning from the past experiences, the mind automatically prepares how to move forward in future. Although we don’t realize, looking back we can see how far we have come and we need to, “Rejoice the fact of doing well and Celebrate our achievements big or small”. In doing so, we, “Encourage ourselves to ~ Do better” Because it is “US” that know how much “Time, Energy, Effort even Money we have put in” So we are the only people to “Appreciate and Acknowledge what we have Achieved” and in doing so, “We Enhance the Gifts the Talents” we already have and move on to, “A Higher platform, A Higher level to do better for Ourselves and for Others” 🙂

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“I do Hope You also Enhance the Gifts and the Talents You already have and able to move on to, “A Higher Level in Your Life, to do better for Yourself and for Others too”. Then I will be “The Happiest”. Then there will be ” A Lot of Happy People Every Where” and in turn “To make A Lot of Happy People in The World Every Where” 🙂

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*Latest Update 6th March 2020:I am Editing and Updating All The Posts from The Very Beginning”. This is My Birthday and, “A New Chapter and A New Beginning”. I am Moving on. I have Learnt lot of New Things and Upgrading Myself to “A New Wave Length ~ A New Chapter” in My Life and I Wish so for You also. Please click this Link which will take You to My Birthday Post Birthday!

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Up to date with the Birthday article 111th and The Introductory page: I have Published 112 posts on This Website. On Top Right Hand side you are able to see: The word “Menu” when you click on it, You will see will see The word “Home” Which is The Introductory Page about: Who I am & Why I am Writing!

The old Topics will be “On The Left Hand side “Under the, “Recent Posts” with “The New Topics adding up. “The Balance will be Under “ARCHIVES” ~ As with Many Topics adding up, The line is Too Long”. Also Click and Look Under, “Under CATERGORIES” Happy Reading and Keep Yourself Positive ❤

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What I am doing is, “Taken the Therapists Voices with me and writing about My Own Journey in Helping Others to have “Faith, Hope and to Heal” and Lead a Life of Good Health, Happiness and Joy. If You click on this Link in Green You can read this Post: The Therapists Voice Forward!

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The coloured Topics in Green, if you “Click” on them “Will take you to My other different posts of Mine which you will be able to find more information and even Pronunciation”. I have another website with “My own little Poems and Pictures of some of My Hobbies” if you are interested on seeing, “What else I do” 🙂 you can have a look at :https://deepanilamani.com/

“It is all free”. You can “Download. Take print outs, share and pass it on also for others who can benefit from these posts. I hope All those Read will be able to make the maximum use of all these facts and make, “Your Lives More Healthy and able to Lead Better lives in Happiness and Peace”. I wish it to be so as,” Peace which is our Ultimate Goal in Life”. Any questions or comments are most welcome 🙂 ❤ 🙂

Thanking the I net, and other sites, for the posts and pictures I have shared and https://www.online-image-editor.com/ for the posts I have written ❤

Sending Many Blessings of Love, Light and Healing Energies to You ❤

May God’s Blessings Be Upon You ❤

Deepa Nilamani ❤

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